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Was literally going apoplectic w anxiety over something this morning and it just turned out that it was literally nothing to worry about . I’m writing this post bc I will do this again in the future and need to remind myself this instance disproved my confirmation bias
#I do this SO much#But the thing is usually my confirmation bias is reinforced#But I think that’s bc I surround myself w ppl who reinforce it#So now that I’m out in the real world dealing w ppl older and younger than me it’s like oh#Normal ppl do not care that much most times#Sometimes they care too much . But most times they care a normal amount
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My favorite dad joke behavior is to go up to someone reading a work of history and say “don’t tell me how it ends!!” with a wry chuckle.
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ndculture is waking up in the morning to notifications from your friends reassuring you after you impulsively texted them all apologies for the things that keep you up at night when you were in your feels but now you are too overwhelmed to respond so the messages just sit there for the next few weeks (which you will then have to apologise for)
[But idk maybe this is a bit too hyperspecific]
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in case u were wondering i started saying prommy cuz of u like u fully influenced my day to day vocabulary
this is so real of u ty
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Normalise making your friends a self insert oc in a game you love.
If they’re not gonna play the game then… I’ll make them into a character in my head that I draw sometimes<333
#reverse 1999#honkai impact 3rd#I do this so much#I wish they play the games I play and am obsessed with#genshin impact#Honkai dnd
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I noticed you followed me but I thought we were already moots? I’m confused? Have you just not been following me this whole time and I thought we were mooties? Lord almighty
My Bad. I accidentally hit unfollow when I was looking at my recent activity 😭
We're moots and have been for a while! I'm just clumsy smh
#I do this so much#Finally did it to a moot ig??#So so sorry Cake <3#I would say that it won't happen again but I know how I work#If it happens again#Just know that I am sorry <3
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A whumpee who copes with their trauma by joking about it and ending it with “thanks, Whumper!” just because the ha ha
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I've always had this thing where I don't like to tell people what I will do or what I want to do. I don't feel like verbally saying sorry is good enough when I say it. I want to either be able to show it in action or else whatever my word would be means nothing.. so I keep quiet more often than not about anything. However, I think that it's important to know that many things actually need to be talked about. That is part of the action. You shouldn't feel like whatever I feel. If you mean it, say it, talk about it. Talk about it. Tell them. Don't beat yourself up until there's nothing left of you.
I want to be clear that I've never held others around me to these standards I have placed on myself. I don't think that way except when it comes to myself. I dunno. That's just how it is. But people's words and communication mean so much to me.
#with my health issues#i do this so much#i feel so terrible for my body fucking up#and instead of telling people#I've gotten this thing in my head that#unless i can promise it wont happen again#i should just accept them being mad at me as if i fullt fucked up#and then just tear myself apart trying to be better and show them#but that's not good#for anyone#im always so afraid of letting people down#and my first thought is always#then dont fucking let them down#but i think i need to be a little softer too#because im the opposite with others#i dunno#my body fights for me#but it also lets me down#and i blame myself
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*likes 37 posts*
Shit, right, i'm on someones blog... oh well.
*likes more posts*
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#i do this so much#i never mean to#i push and i push adn he breaks#andba m#fnldksi i keep doing it because im awufl#i nee dto stop io need to stop tecting himwhy am i like ths
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Am I the only one who pretends that I’m a celebrity who is dramatically telling their backstory whenever I rlly need to let it out
#ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ idle chit chat#I’d own say anything out loud though bc ppl will hear but!!!.-&!:&/#I DO THIS SO MUCH#hoenstly mna I js want to be heard😔 and listened to🥹#but at the same time idk what I’ll talk abt bc goDDAMN I have so many things to let out#So whenever I vent to somebody (rarely do it) I always jump between topics and I feel so bad www#i am my own therapist who I literally don’t listen to fr
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Poaching my mutuals funny posts by following the people they reblog from and reblogging the funny ones first
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filipina miku!! my mom helped me with her outfit ^_^
#THIS TOOK ME FOREVER RAAHHHH#i had help from my mom with stuff like the parts of the traje de mestiza which is the outfit shes wearing#this trend looks so much fun and i wanted to join in.. im first gen canadian though so ive never been to the philippines and only#know thru stories of my parents growing up. im proud of my heritage but there are some things i didnt grow up with that#make me feel disconnected from my culture. so it was nice to talk to my mom abt it and ask for her help with this :3#the pleated tapis is meant to resemble her skirt.. i had no way of adding her stockings but i noticed the piano key design#so i used that for the saya. the bandana is meant to resemble her hairties and shes wearing bakya wooden slippers with embroidery#i kinda wanted to add the panuelo to resemble her tie as a finishing touch but i forgor ;w; just imagine it i guess#my mom really likes this. shes a little confused abt the blue hair and i had to explain her hair is like that but she thinks shes pretty#originally i wanted her holding the woven pamaypay and fanning herself because ITS HOT ITS 25 FUCKING DEGREES TODAY#but i couldnt get the pose right so i settled for this. i wanna draw her and brazilian miku high fiving ill do that tmrw#my art#myart#hatsune miku#miku worldwide#philippines#vocaloid#miku
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[guy who doesnt watch shows voice] yeah ive been meaning to watch that show
#spitblaze says things#i mean i do. but my issue is that i play/watch/read things at a snails pace#and have a bad habit of starting something and never finishing it#so i end up limiting myself#also also adhd doesnt like it when i have to give one thing my undivided attention if its not taking up as much processing power#as something like a video game#doin numbers
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ppl were drawing mikus from all over so heres habesha miku and her lil twin sibs rin and len!!
#this trend sparked so much joy in my soul#i saw many fun cute and silly mikus#i love drawing habesha clothes but a lot of them require small detailed embroidery that makes me go insane#this is why ppl use pattern brushes cuz damn i had to simplify everything basically#also im bad at writing amharic and tigrinya oops!!#this was fun it got me outta a slump i was in all damn week#interestingly... their faces look a lot like my siblings and i? i didnt mean to do that at all tho... huh#my art#hatsune miku#kagamine rin#kagamine len#vocaloid
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The world exists in such a baffling state of simultaneous sex-aversion and sex-hegemony. Every social platform on the internet is trying to banish sex workers to the shadow realm but I can't post a tweet without at least two bots replying P U S S Y I N B I O. People are self-censoring sex to seggs and $3× but every other ad you see is still filled with half-naked women. Rightwingers want queer people arrested for so much as existing in the same postal code as a child and are also drumming up a moral panic about how teenage boys aren't getting laid enough. I feel like I'm losing my mind.
#it's bad if you want i have sex it's also bad if you DON'T want to have sex#god forbid if you're a woman in a heterosexual marriage and aren't in the mood#that's 'withholding sex' and you're clearly abusive scum who should be divorced and left without any of your shared assets.#but if you DO have sex now you're a degenerate freak plotting for the downfall of western society#i don't know what to say i'm just so tired#politics#culture#queerphobia#lgbtqia#misogyny#<it's not the exclusive source but let's be honest sooo much of this is integral to the patriarchy#patriarchy needs access to an underclass they can treat like sex objects but they also don't want them to have any human rights#so sexuality is both obligatory and stigmatized#purity culture#i'm really struggling with tagging this because most of the appropiate tags would- in a beautiful twist of irony- get me booted off tumblr
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