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bruciemilf · 2 years ago

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I'm once again thinking about Bruce being a cuddle magnet for his kids and how Jason abstains from a love he doesn't think think he's worthy of anymore and too afraid to be denied to even try. And bruce knows. He knows Jason because he knows himself. So he let's Jason come to him. Again. It's like they're both little again, both unsure, both unsteady. But then they hug, -- or Jason will say " STOP hogging him, demon baby," and hold bruce in a headlock, while Damian snarls. And bruce will feel like bruce, even for a second

#bruce wayne #jason todd #batfam #bruce wayne is a good parent #BRUCE IS SO. CUDDLY TO ME #also battinson with arkham's knight jason PLUS gotham knight jason. why cant he have one jaybaby hes taller than?!?!#btw i am not. saying no to those versions headcanons. honestly battle for the cowl but its just multiverse batkids fighting over bruce #while he says pls no!!! i heart you all. 'heart?' 'yeah he cant really say the l word? its a thing. anyway go back to where you came from #' dick vs ric #lets go :)

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skunkes · 2 months ago

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the bad: i have been raised without much warmth from my parents in childhood, but also pressured to conform to familial authority, doubt myself always, and value familial connections above all else (<- failed at this, and feel guilt about it.)

but also in experiencing this i have been so isolated from the entire rest of the world and others, that it will be nearly impossible to create my own "family" -> find safety and comfort in anybody else once my family is Gone. despite dis i find it really difficult to break away from the familiar, disobey and disappoint, because, well, why are my wishes more important than anybody else's. why would I cause upset and distress in anybody, and exert so much effort into my doubt filled half decisions, for my meaningless little Wishes. being away would also mean less time with these people who I'll never see again once they're gone. being raised this way is definitely paying off for those who did so.

the good: yaaaay adjacent inspiration for writing talon lore

#talkys #my dad scaring me but also giving me no advice on what to do instead only saying if i do this it will be the wrong choice leading #to more wrong choices well yep you got me i am scared. i am inept. i fear regret and punishment for wrong decisions.#i struggle to make decisions because i cant go back on them.#''ill never have savings again'' and ''you cant value friends over family they'll abandon you''#and ''living here is only a problem for you because you dont communicate. there is a way to work things out''#i wish i could work it out and stay i dont know why i cant work it out ! and what do i want #to leave so badly for... to continue to never have stable housing #never have savings again? be alone and in danger?#to be able to wear whatever i want and...buy things? really? that doesnt seem very worth it #nothing seems very worth it #im miserable here but maybe i'd be more miserable away...it is true #well at least the chances to leave are very slim. and will continue to get slimmer the more time passes.#but maybe its fine i dont want to ruin my life or be even more of a burden or reason for distress in someone else's #moving out wouldnt fix anything. wherever you go there you are.#my friend said i have to be a little selfish (positive) to push myself to leave. bt i dont want to be selfish. im ashamed of that as a trai #delete later #even now i feel immense guilt and stress when my dad does things that hurt or bother me bc i know ill miss him when he's gone.#(and ill have nobody after all of that. due to the being kept in a cage)#that sucks. why does everyone else always win. why am i always the weakest pliable one. i wish i had no emotions #my surgery is the only decision in my life ive been 100% sure on for years #and even then my parent's words had me crying and rapidly changing emotions daily until the day came #im not strong enough or sure enough about anything else to withstand More of that #<- and i know that tomorrow im gonna be like actually you know what who cares lets try to leave #and the next day ill be resigned to staying here forever #and the next day ill be like actually you know what who cares l

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bibuckleykinard · 4 months ago

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how many times do we need to learn as people that irony and hyperbole can be harmful because 'jokes' aren't easily distinguished from genuine thoughts and feelings until we stop rewarding people for speaking or posting about violence

like even if you're joking/don't actually believe that/think whoever you are insulting is bad/immoral/fictional therefore deserves it - ad hominem attacks always do more harm to the people who share those characteristic then the individual you intend to cause harm to or discredit

#discourse #long post #its genuinely erased so much of my enjoyment of 911blr knowing i have to check accounts or risk seeing bullying/hate #l like its an odd feeling to know that so many people in the same fandom as you actively hold hate or find hate funny against your communit #like tired of people saying others are too sensitive because we dont want to hear or see a person say they want to hurt themself or others #like sorry i put in the work everyday to not let my mental health backslide and to enjoying being alive and accept my queerness #while others seemingly have not #and i know the content i post/share is not all in the same circles as that certain blog and i hate that it still grinds my gears but #its so frustrating to see the cruel glee people have #saying things they would never say to anyone's face irl and only to other blindly devoted/similar bullies #like do these people realise that they are on a razor's edge between 'ironic jokes' and just outright bigotry and threats - like do they #literally the only thing seperating That and conservative bigots is that the bigots are honest about their hatred towards minorities #like a lot of people in the fandom seemingly still need to deal with a lot of intenalised homophobia/racism and just outright hate-#especially regarding queer men and men of colour #because i can not be emphasise enough #It is NOT GOOD OR HEALTHY to be a fully grown adult that actively derives joy from the idea of enacting hate crimes #like you can hate tommy you can want him off the show even want him to die like weird but go off #but its such a next step to unprompted talk about [a character i dislike/hate/dont ship/disrupts my fanon endgame] in derogatory ways -#with rhetoric that straight up is out of terf/rel. right/homophobic/racists bigots and evokes violent hate-crimes......#well i feel sorry for those people cause what a miserable life to spend so much of it unable to enjoy your own life that you target others #anyways I know this is too long but I'm just a very tired man who has studied history and education and working with kids i have seen it -#too many times- harmful words coming from harmful environments or creating harmful actions and thereby perpetuating the cycle of violence #also not super relavent but as Latino Australian i am genuinely appauled at how many people have in their bio they are also Australian-#while actively liking/reblogging and engaging with post that find homophobic violence a funny haha joke - as if activist in our country -#aren't actively trying to dismantle homophobic and transphobic laws regarding issues like conversion therapy #like I know professors that actively got fired for being gay while teaching in religious education context - and its still happening!#so for people to forget so quickly what progress has been made and how much it took and how easy it is to loose - disappointing #(and its the same people who wanna pretend mardi gras is nothing but a party as if 78rs didn't risk their jobs/safety/lives)

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blorb-el · 2 years ago

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reread world’s finest 289 “the one where alien telepathic worms feed on bruce and clark’s emotions and then have sex and die in front of them and then they weep and embrace over the ashes of the dead telepathic worms and the last line of dialogue is literally ‘here it is warm...outside it is bitterly cold. perhaps no one else, on any world, would understand.’” and i really can’t believe no one has yet written the sex scene afterwards. or if they have i can’t find it :(

#listen i just think. that the telepathic worms. should let them sense each other's emotions for a bit...#psychic feedback sex is what i'm saying #i AM tempted to write it myself but #how make word go :l #superbat #also i'd have to track down late bronze age continuity for bruceman rip

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fullwets · 2 months ago

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what they don't tell you about ""starting a new ao3 tag"" is that starting a ship or character tag in an existing, strongly established fandom and starting a new tag in a completely unexplored fandom (no fic, no tumblr presence, no nothing) are two WILDLY different undertakings. mentally and emotionally. where do you even fucking start. maybe definitely this was a terrible thing to pick to get back into fic writing for.

#i am drowing there is no land in sight. or whatever they say #like yes i was early to blewis & to l/o/l but dear god. this is like a sandbox but it is the size of the continental united states.#i have to go searching. wandering the desert for 40 days and 40 nights just to write a single fic under 3k words skjdskjd #ASTERISK AND ITS RLY FUN BUT ITS ALSO AUGH!!!!!!!!!!!#fic talk

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things-methinks · 5 months ago

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Chat, what are the thoughts on Lando's statement about texting with Max and sorting this out

#F1 #formula 1 #max verstappen #I don't like it tbh #It feels as though he got a sit down by McLaren PR because damage control #And just the way he phrased things by saying we for everything doesn't sit right with me #Max isn't the one who made childish comments and threatened to end a friendship over on track incident #So when it comes to taking accountability why is it 'we' ?#Also the part about this being his first few wins so it is much more different for him than Max doesn't sit right with me either #I can empathise with the hunger for wanting more but the doesn't mean Max is going to let you win #He has taken every win as if it's is first and that is why he is already in the list of the legends at just 26 #Honestly speaking this feels as though an attempt to salvage things by McLaren once they realised 'poor Lando' angle and social media strat #gy wasn't working out as intended #RBR has simply chosen to not say much and even the majority of fans do agree on Max and Norris sharing the fault but Norris WAS childish #on how he handled it #It still feels really insincere idk #I will eat my own words if he manages to handle a L like this gracefully in the future though #anyways ver-lec-pia podium this week #I am calling it right now

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shorelinnes · 5 months ago

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I really don't want to make another political post because a few of the other ones blew up and I felt like I was getting an ulcer, but I just want to say please please please don't idolize people on here or on twitter. no matter how many social justice buzz words they throw at you please remember they could be absolutely anyone. just because someone acts confident does not mean they have ANY idea what they're doing.

#I think the fact that starbucks #(a company that is not and has never been on the BDS boycott list because they don't actually have any direct connection to isre*l)#is THE figurehead of the twitter BDS boycott movement #should tell you that social media is not a reliable place to be getting your information from #and never ever feel bad about questioning someone or asking them to explain themselves #(I mean as long as they are positioning themselves as some sort of authority on a topic or trying to convince you to do something)#if someone tells you 'the answer should be obvious'#that usually means they don't actually know the answer themselves #or they are intentionally trying to manipulate you #and remember it is always ok to just admit you don't know something #oh and of course the above includes me too #I am going to make mistakes #and as much as I try not to I am going to accidentally reblog misinformation or say the wrong thing or take a stranger's word for something #<- which is why making posts like this stresses me out but #idk just a reminder

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reki-of-the-valley · 10 months ago

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Actually going crazy over the fact that the word limit is 500 words

#i need like 2700 #i have so much to say #so little space #h e l p #how am i supposed to talk about persephone in under 500 words????#shes got so much going on 😭😭#hush lils

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faeryworlds · 6 months ago

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TAG DROP PART 1