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tbh-entp · 2 years ago
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@fasterthantheelevator replied to your post “beware small rant below the cut moving somewhere...”:
Sending you all my love 💜 wish I was closer so I could be a no bullshit friend
<3 <3 <3 Thaaannnkkssss.
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cosmogenous · 10 months ago
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not everything is abt you
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welcometogrouchland · 10 days ago
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Noticing that TV and film will often have a character either have had an abortion in the past that isn't showcased on screen (and just used as part of the character's ~fucked up and twisted backstory~) OR contemplate getting an abortion in the present day but not to through with it. Just once I want to see someone delete that fetus within the events of the plot and not be like. Extremely majorly punished for it and/or be in the wrong
#ramblings of a lunatic#was watching a tv show w the fam recently and it's the 2nd series of a show that was clearly written with only 1 in mind#so in the 2nd season a character gets pregnant (bc ofc) and contemplates getting an abortion#only to do the whole 'omg she thinks she's lost the baby and realizes she wanted to keep it all along!'#which like. fine and valid and happens to ppl irl I'm sure#but like. this season doesn't establish if she wanted kids prior or if she has a stable job (she was struggling career wise-#-last season and the timeskip this season doesn't go into it)#AND has this fucking bizarre scene w/ her boyfriend (whos mostly been irrelevant and occasionally annoying up til now)#where he says it's 'our pregnancy' that she was going to terminate and when she (rightfully) bites back-#-saying 'you mean MY pregnancy?!' he just. storms off and deflects#which would be one thing but we have to wrap up the main plot so she just apologizes to him (for other plot stuff)#and we're never given any indication that his opinion has changed and they're just happily parenting at the end of the season#which just. left a bad taste in my mouth#like I KNOW i know not every bad thing said on screen needs a big blinking arrow that points out that it's Bad and Wrong#but idk how I'm supposed to feel in a series that has painted itself as explicitly feminist up til this point#presents the outcome of a woman dating and bearing a child for a man w seemingly zero respect for her bodily autonomy as happily ever after#w no follow up#like the whole series is centered on a group of sisters and this pregnancy story happened to the youngest one#who's always seen as needing to 'grow up' in season 1. so assuming this is meant to be building off that arc it's so WEIRD still#bc yes being a parent is an opportunity for many ppl to mature emotionally but that's not really something the character-#-reflects on all season. it's more abt her burying her past relationship w a season 1 guy (who was infinitely more interesting than new guy)#-than anything to do with that#AND EVEN IF IT WAS the notion of pregnancy as a punishment/reckoning meant to make her grow up or take responsibility-#-which is secretly a blessing in disguise i. god the show fell apart so hard here for me#and my mom and sister were just cooing over the baby at the end and i didn't speak up bc i didn't want to be a bitch#and in all fairness I'm probably being a tad uncharitable in this post but like. don't piss me OFF man#anyway. normalise abortion storylines that aren't backstory fodder and aren't fakeouts for baby plots. please
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nostalgia-tblr · 1 year ago
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Right I'm not saying Odin's not had a terrible amount of colonialism and war going on over his however-long-it's-been reign but when Thor wants to lay waste to Jotunheim and Odin tells him off for this it's not just hypocrisy at work, because the Odin of the timeframe of that movie seems sure that this would be Wrong not just politically bothersome and yet he also doesn't really explain to Thor why things are different now and putting that together what you have is this: Odin can't explain his own apparent change of heart without revealing that "oh yeah your brother's a Jotun," even though he must be fairly sure that this information would stop Thor's xenophobic bloodlust in its tracks as effectively as it did his own.
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deadrlngers · 3 months ago
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thinking of violante in her things go kinda well au where she becomes a theater actress. life is beautiful
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shythalia · 7 months ago
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It's so funny knowing Arcane fans who don't know LoL lore (either cuz they don't want spoilers or just didn't wanna look it up) are upset about Vi joining the enforcers/wardens.
I'm not mad at them for feeling this way, honestly. Because that reaction is pretty much lore-accurate! It IS unfortunate that Vi is joining the cops, the people every Zaunite hates. No one is happy about this. Not Ekko, definitely not Jinx, & especially not Vi. But the video game character is a cop so, this is where they had to take this story to.
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girls-and-honey · 9 months ago
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#okay so random tag post even though it's been ages#me thinks the current place i work is actually decent a la accepting-queer-ppl so?? miiiiight. consider actually putting my#pronouns in my email signature (which hardly gets used but shh) but like. the actual ones not the society/people assume anyway ones#idk i attended a virtual tech focused event for trans dov (yes early but they didn't want to put the event on sun) and you know when#everyone is just sharing their stories and experiences and it's just like... an overwhelming sense of community? anyway that#and since it was hosted by a professional org the topics were all workplace focused and mayhaps that's something i'm thinking abt for#this year. at least within our pride group I might be ready? wild bc for a long time tumblr has been the only place I feel comfy being 100%#myself. but hearing real people's stories makes me feel like that kind of community would be nice to have elsewhere too#and the whole looking to others also turns around into the leading by example thing bc then we had some breakout groups at the end for#networking which is not my favorite but! i did my intro and said I use she/her for work but will use she/they for this group and#then the next person said he/him at work but for this group he/they so that made me wonder if it was bc of me saying so first?#which if it was is kind of like oh. the way I'm looking for those people for me.. I can also be that for someone else#anyway this sounds dumb typed out but irl/professional me has always separated out queer identity so it's new to me#i'm allowed to be giddy okay. just a little. as a treat (is tumblr still using 'as a treat' i really hope so)#oh shit is this what gender euphoria feels like#alright that's it for now i think#gah emotions and whatnot#missed you all btw i'll start actually being online again soon#personal
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lavalamp-juice · 1 month ago
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one of my friends always introduces me as "the most creative I know" LIKE NO IM NOT 😭
I'm not being humble I literally just draw stick figures and she drops masterpieces this needs to stop 💀
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solar-halos · 5 months ago
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hello queers i need your opinion. do you prefer i kissed a girl by katy perry OR pretty girls by renee rapp
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parkerstorms · 13 days ago
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phagodyke · 1 year ago
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okay can we have a new rule that if you're my friend and know I struggle with rsd from adhd + you're planning on hanging out with mutual friends but specifically aren't inviting me for whatever reason. Maybe Don't Tell Me About It
#id just rather not know man. even if I cant go or dont particularly want to im going to get stung by it and it rly sucks#its a TON of extra effort i have to put in to emotionally navigate that information without overreacting and making it an issue#wait actually maybe i do need to sit down with her and explain this more explicitly. bc she probably doesnt rly know abt it#even tho ive mentioned it shes rly terrible at reading ppl and i probably dont let on much abt it anyway bc im used to dealing w it#ugh. but also its rly embarrassing to talk abt and ill have to tread so carefully to make sure it doesnt get misinterpreted. hmm#but itd be worth it if she stopped so. ill give it some thought#it makes me feel so unreal sometimes bc i cant always tell if im justifiably upset or if im 'just overreacting' so i assume the latter-#most of the time to give myself space to work thru the emotion and minimise the damage i might cause if i AM just overreacting#but then sometimes later on i realise that it was justified but its too late to bring it back up and anyway ive worked through it#and idk. theres smth self disrespectful abt it all im tired of making space all the time and never taking any up myself#im not THAT upset rn like this is a v minor thing but still. might be time to start nipping this stuff in the bud#aaanyway#im procrastinating eating bc i cooked a nice meal but now im not in the mood to eat it 😭😭 but i gotta fuel up.....#ill find smth to watch hopefully thatll do the trick#yawns so loud bye for now#.diaries
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unnerving-presence · 1 year ago
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If they don’t make a remake of RE5 after showing us the new Wesker I’m personally going to Capcom’s headquarters and cry
it’s heavily hinted they’re making a new one. with excella on the screen and the flowers too? i wouldn’t doubt there’s one in the works. though they’ll likely change how wesker looks a bit, probably giving him sharper features but we can only assume.
capcom please don’t make wesker angry all the time when writing his character it makes no sense please please please please
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jayviked · 1 year ago
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the way shadowheart is always so graceful when you lock in romance with someone else (after also having initiated romance with her). finally decided to romance astarion with my dark urge and if i picked that i actually wanted to be with her instead she was distraught saying astarion needed me im 🥺
also karlach going "im sharpening stakes, if that rat man dares to even *think* about hurting you" 😭 sidenote: when i locked in astarion romance karlach didn't tell me i broke her heart like she did with lae'zel and wyll before. hmm
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oysterie · 2 years ago
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unfollowed the popular blog whos writing i rly like but is unbearable to follow please clap for me
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stinkrascal · 2 years ago
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omg my only hobbies are also smoking weed and posting my sims (not story yet maybe one day </3) online lmao (sorry im a tag lurker always)
:D we have so much in common!!! if you ever post a sim story one day i'll collapse from excitement, but seeing ur sims on the dashboard is enough!! <3
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snekdood · 10 months ago
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honestly im pretty bad abot messaging ppl back or to hang out but tbh thats kinda bc my one previous friend was always busy whenever i'd ask or out of town etc. so i just kinda. left it up to her to message me since idk her schedule.
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