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@fasterthantheelevator replied to your post “beware small rant below the cut moving somewhere...”:
Sending you all my love 💜 wish I was closer so I could be a no bullshit friend
<3 <3 <3 Thaaannnkkssss.
#fasterthantheelevator#the good news is#i'm almost done with the building and moving part#also#SPACE TO VISIT#you're welcome to come here! I've got a 3 bedroom apartment plus living room#for z record#also catherine moved near also#you know catherine right#i always assume ppl know her
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Noticing that TV and film will often have a character either have had an abortion in the past that isn't showcased on screen (and just used as part of the character's ~fucked up and twisted backstory~) OR contemplate getting an abortion in the present day but not to through with it. Just once I want to see someone delete that fetus within the events of the plot and not be like. Extremely majorly punished for it and/or be in the wrong
#ramblings of a lunatic#was watching a tv show w the fam recently and it's the 2nd series of a show that was clearly written with only 1 in mind#so in the 2nd season a character gets pregnant (bc ofc) and contemplates getting an abortion#only to do the whole 'omg she thinks she's lost the baby and realizes she wanted to keep it all along!'#which like. fine and valid and happens to ppl irl I'm sure#but like. this season doesn't establish if she wanted kids prior or if she has a stable job (she was struggling career wise-#-last season and the timeskip this season doesn't go into it)#AND has this fucking bizarre scene w/ her boyfriend (whos mostly been irrelevant and occasionally annoying up til now)#where he says it's 'our pregnancy' that she was going to terminate and when she (rightfully) bites back-#-saying 'you mean MY pregnancy?!' he just. storms off and deflects#which would be one thing but we have to wrap up the main plot so she just apologizes to him (for other plot stuff)#and we're never given any indication that his opinion has changed and they're just happily parenting at the end of the season#which just. left a bad taste in my mouth#like I KNOW i know not every bad thing said on screen needs a big blinking arrow that points out that it's Bad and Wrong#but idk how I'm supposed to feel in a series that has painted itself as explicitly feminist up til this point#presents the outcome of a woman dating and bearing a child for a man w seemingly zero respect for her bodily autonomy as happily ever after#w no follow up#like the whole series is centered on a group of sisters and this pregnancy story happened to the youngest one#who's always seen as needing to 'grow up' in season 1. so assuming this is meant to be building off that arc it's so WEIRD still#bc yes being a parent is an opportunity for many ppl to mature emotionally but that's not really something the character-#-reflects on all season. it's more abt her burying her past relationship w a season 1 guy (who was infinitely more interesting than new guy)#-than anything to do with that#AND EVEN IF IT WAS the notion of pregnancy as a punishment/reckoning meant to make her grow up or take responsibility-#-which is secretly a blessing in disguise i. god the show fell apart so hard here for me#and my mom and sister were just cooing over the baby at the end and i didn't speak up bc i didn't want to be a bitch#and in all fairness I'm probably being a tad uncharitable in this post but like. don't piss me OFF man#anyway. normalise abortion storylines that aren't backstory fodder and aren't fakeouts for baby plots. please
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Right I'm not saying Odin's not had a terrible amount of colonialism and war going on over his however-long-it's-been reign but when Thor wants to lay waste to Jotunheim and Odin tells him off for this it's not just hypocrisy at work, because the Odin of the timeframe of that movie seems sure that this would be Wrong not just politically bothersome and yet he also doesn't really explain to Thor why things are different now and putting that together what you have is this: Odin can't explain his own apparent change of heart without revealing that "oh yeah your brother's a Jotun," even though he must be fairly sure that this information would stop Thor's xenophobic bloodlust in its tracks as effectively as it did his own.
#thor (2011)#he's had plenty of time to think of a handy excuse that doesn't give anything away but in that reality things are less dramatic generally#like in the reality where when Odin fainted Frigga (remember her?) explained their thought process and expressed their love etc#and you know what now i wonder *when* sylvie got told she was adopted cos it *could* be not long before she wandered off-path#i think we've all assumed she just always knew? but if not the TVA come cos she's still playing valkyrie-saves-ppl AFTER she knows the trut#which would mean SHE did nothing 'wrong' - the point of divergence was her parents failing to traumatise her sufficiently and spark off#a spiral into villainy for her. which then also means they DID fuck up her life by not fucking her up enough. oh the irony :(#mcu tag
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thinking of violante in her things go kinda well au where she becomes a theater actress. life is beautiful
#rena.txt#inspired by the photo i just reblogged on my oc blog dont mind me#she would've been iconic. beautiful. ethereal. she would feature mainly in tragedies bc of courseee she would#also sorry but wyll gives me theater kid vibes. he would be her co-protagonist in all the plays and their chemistry on stage soo good that#ppl would assume they are a thing off the stage too#i know in my heart vio would've thrived in an environment like this. yet this is vio we are talking about and i'm myself so she would#end up dying bc in every au she still poisons herself with perfumes. they would find her lifeless body and many rumors would spread about#her death AND life and the city would mourn the loss of bright talent..until she would become just another poor artist who met a tragic end#i'm obsessed with it sorry i love vio too much b/g/3 could disappear from existence but i would still live and breathe for her#violante u were born to play sofonisba u will always be famous to me
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It's so funny knowing Arcane fans who don't know LoL lore (either cuz they don't want spoilers or just didn't wanna look it up) are upset about Vi joining the enforcers/wardens.
I'm not mad at them for feeling this way, honestly. Because that reaction is pretty much lore-accurate! It IS unfortunate that Vi is joining the cops, the people every Zaunite hates. No one is happy about this. Not Ekko, definitely not Jinx, & especially not Vi. But the video game character is a cop so, this is where they had to take this story to.
#arcane#league of legends#league of legends arcane#league of legends vi#arcane vi#the enforcers are called wardens in the lore#i will be mad however at those that would dare insult the writers for writing this. havent seen any tweets n stuff about this so idk if ppl-#-already are insulting them yet. i hope not and i do not wish to see those tweets. im assuming all this bcos u know how some ppl are#again i get why anyone would get rly angry about this#just dont take ur anger too far ok??#vi the game character has always been a cop and it is meant to be seen as a betrayal#it is how it is#not rly spoilers cuz the teaser literally showed her joining them
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#okay so random tag post even though it's been ages#me thinks the current place i work is actually decent a la accepting-queer-ppl so?? miiiiight. consider actually putting my#pronouns in my email signature (which hardly gets used but shh) but like. the actual ones not the society/people assume anyway ones#idk i attended a virtual tech focused event for trans dov (yes early but they didn't want to put the event on sun) and you know when#everyone is just sharing their stories and experiences and it's just like... an overwhelming sense of community? anyway that#and since it was hosted by a professional org the topics were all workplace focused and mayhaps that's something i'm thinking abt for#this year. at least within our pride group I might be ready? wild bc for a long time tumblr has been the only place I feel comfy being 100%#myself. but hearing real people's stories makes me feel like that kind of community would be nice to have elsewhere too#and the whole looking to others also turns around into the leading by example thing bc then we had some breakout groups at the end for#networking which is not my favorite but! i did my intro and said I use she/her for work but will use she/they for this group and#then the next person said he/him at work but for this group he/they so that made me wonder if it was bc of me saying so first?#which if it was is kind of like oh. the way I'm looking for those people for me.. I can also be that for someone else#anyway this sounds dumb typed out but irl/professional me has always separated out queer identity so it's new to me#i'm allowed to be giddy okay. just a little. as a treat (is tumblr still using 'as a treat' i really hope so)#oh shit is this what gender euphoria feels like#alright that's it for now i think#gah emotions and whatnot#missed you all btw i'll start actually being online again soon#personal
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one of my friends always introduces me as "the most creative I know" LIKE NO IM NOT 😭
I'm not being humble I literally just draw stick figures and she drops masterpieces this needs to stop 💀
#and i know shes probably just being nice#or does she believe that???#most of my friends are artists so i KNOW she knows more creative ppl#SHE LITERALLY DOES IT FOR A LIVING 😭#when ppl look through my sketchbook they look very un impressed 💀#always puts me on edge#my art hasn't really progressed since middle school#and i mean thats fine cuz it makes me happy#BUT#when ppl tell me i should do it as a job or smth it makes me very uncomfortable wjhxneid#i had a friend of a friends laugh at a page in my sketchbook cuz it was a character from a pbs show#💀#its not even that funny??#idk#im just ranting at this point#i might tell her at one point to stop#because it like puts the bar up wayyyyy too high#and I really do like my little doodles but#its just not the skill level you would assume from “THE MOST CREATIVE PERSON I KNOW”
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hello queers i need your opinion. do you prefer i kissed a girl by katy perry OR pretty girls by renee rapp
#i was gonna open up this poll to straight people but (and excuse me for assuming) i don’t think any of us are straight#maybe i’ll make another one if this breaches 10 votes#anyway this was inspired by a straight person i know going “i prefer PRETTY GIRLS” after my bestie mentioned jamming out to i kissed a girl#and my initial reaction (in my head) was “that’s such a straight—” and then i cut myself off (still in my head)#bc maybe i should stop fucking generalizing ppl#personally i prefer i kissed a girl bc pretty girls is too real it reminds me of that time in hs i let my straight (girl) friend kiss me#it was always just my cheek but it was still so serious to me she’d hold her hand out and i’d be there like a dog#anyway sorry let me stop lore dumping#poll time#<< my official poll tag bc i’ve been making a lot of these lately
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#im actually going to fucking kill my sister holy shit#she is such an asshole over the smallest fucking things That Do Not Matter and somehow its always a Slight against her specifically#and its always shit she literally does#like bitch you constantly interrupt ppl and tell them theyre wrong but the second i do it to you (on accident mind you) its#the end of the fucking world#like GROW UP HOW ARE YOU OLDER THAN ME ACTING LIKE A FUCKING FIVEYO GROW UPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP I HATE YOU SM SOMETIMES#I CANT BELIEVE IM STUCK LIVING W THIS ASSHOLE FOR THE FORSEEABLE FUTURE LIKE HOLY FUCK#like can you go for five fucking minutes without assuming everyone around you is out to get u#or is ur victim complex just ur whole personality now#also whats crazy is i wasnt even saying she’s wrong that’s just what she heard bc she’s a fucking toddler#posting it on here bc all my besties are busy and cant respond :///#probably gonna delete this later who knows#lou.txt
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okay can we have a new rule that if you're my friend and know I struggle with rsd from adhd + you're planning on hanging out with mutual friends but specifically aren't inviting me for whatever reason. Maybe Don't Tell Me About It
#id just rather not know man. even if I cant go or dont particularly want to im going to get stung by it and it rly sucks#its a TON of extra effort i have to put in to emotionally navigate that information without overreacting and making it an issue#wait actually maybe i do need to sit down with her and explain this more explicitly. bc she probably doesnt rly know abt it#even tho ive mentioned it shes rly terrible at reading ppl and i probably dont let on much abt it anyway bc im used to dealing w it#ugh. but also its rly embarrassing to talk abt and ill have to tread so carefully to make sure it doesnt get misinterpreted. hmm#but itd be worth it if she stopped so. ill give it some thought#it makes me feel so unreal sometimes bc i cant always tell if im justifiably upset or if im 'just overreacting' so i assume the latter-#most of the time to give myself space to work thru the emotion and minimise the damage i might cause if i AM just overreacting#but then sometimes later on i realise that it was justified but its too late to bring it back up and anyway ive worked through it#and idk. theres smth self disrespectful abt it all im tired of making space all the time and never taking any up myself#im not THAT upset rn like this is a v minor thing but still. might be time to start nipping this stuff in the bud#aaanyway#im procrastinating eating bc i cooked a nice meal but now im not in the mood to eat it 😭😭 but i gotta fuel up.....#ill find smth to watch hopefully thatll do the trick#yawns so loud bye for now#.diaries
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If they don’t make a remake of RE5 after showing us the new Wesker I’m personally going to Capcom’s headquarters and cry
it’s heavily hinted they’re making a new one. with excella on the screen and the flowers too? i wouldn’t doubt there’s one in the works. though they’ll likely change how wesker looks a bit, probably giving him sharper features but we can only assume.
capcom please don’t make wesker angry all the time when writing his character it makes no sense please please please please
#lowkey tired of seeing people so heavily mischaracterize wesker of all characters#it’s like people only played re5 and base his personality off of chapter 6 and forward#like wesker wasn’t calm and cocky as fuck for most of it#i don’t know why people assume wesker would kill anybody he doesn’t like either#because that’s not really the case#wesker has killed people but not out of mindless rage#he always has his reasons to#like why are people so confident he’d kill them in a second if they spoke to him#dude excella is a prime of example of him NOT doing that#he endorsed her flirting so he could use her#if anything he would do just that if you were of use to him#excella got killed both because she wasn’t worthy of uroboros and because she was no longer of use to him#either she would survive (which he likely didn’t think she would) and be infected#trying to stop chris and sheva for wesker (which benefits him)#or she died (the main outcome) and became a huge uroboros monster temporarily stopping chris and sheva#like either way it stopped them and benefitted him#wesker does not kill unless he needs to !! (most of the time lol)#he could’ve killed jill but he used her for his own research 🤷♀️ and used her for other things he couldn’t bother to do himself#anyways i hate ppl mischaracterizing wesker it’s annoying like play the games he is not mad and wanting to kill all the time
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the way shadowheart is always so graceful when you lock in romance with someone else (after also having initiated romance with her). finally decided to romance astarion with my dark urge and if i picked that i actually wanted to be with her instead she was distraught saying astarion needed me im 🥺
also karlach going "im sharpening stakes, if that rat man dares to even *think* about hurting you" 😭 sidenote: when i locked in astarion romance karlach didn't tell me i broke her heart like she did with lae'zel and wyll before. hmm
#i dont know if approval matters im at exceptional but she's just so sweet and gentle i dont get why ppl hate her so much#i can only assume they never bring her around and never get approval with her#im playing on tactician so i always need my cleric with me 😅#bg3 spoilers#baldur's gate#lie.txt
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unfollowed the popular blog whos writing i rly like but is unbearable to follow please clap for me
#constant 'ill block ppl who continue this drama in my inbox' and replies to 12 more asks abt it lol#she wants so hard to be a poc its so..... pls you are so white stop talkng vaguly abt your 'culture' and only having brown girls as#your icons#<- ofc white european countries have cultures but she always lops hers into it in this such vague way you know she wants#ppl to assume shes not white. and whenever she rarely posts a selfie she always gets comments like 'omg i didnt know uou were white' and#she laughs abt them w them like okay weirdo.#like im sure shes fine she seems sweet just unbearable white woman. etc#this sounds like ive been keeping tabs i have not. i simply am on this app too much w a memory of dumb shit like a steel trap
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omg my only hobbies are also smoking weed and posting my sims (not story yet maybe one day </3) online lmao (sorry im a tag lurker always)
:D we have so much in common!!! if you ever post a sim story one day i'll collapse from excitement, but seeing ur sims on the dashboard is enough!! <3
#jade answers#gothoffspring#the best ppl on tumblr are the ones who smoke weed and post sim pics!#im so painfully sober right now i hate it. and i hate the way alcohol tastes its so gross#i still drink it because i'll be damned having to be sober but its not ideal you know. WEED#i miss her#THANK YOU FOR READING MY TAGS i feel so validated right now i just assume nobody reads them bc theyre always so long#im spinning around you and jumping up and down rn
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honestly im pretty bad abot messaging ppl back or to hang out but tbh thats kinda bc my one previous friend was always busy whenever i'd ask or out of town etc. so i just kinda. left it up to her to message me since idk her schedule.
#and then she got mad at me for it???????????????#like man i tried and i always said 'well let me know when ur free and wanna hang' and yet#i always felt like she wanted to feel like i was chasing her kinda??#bc i expressed interest in her once or twice and both times she said she wasnt interested so i just kinda let that go entirely#and stopped seeing her that way but it started to feel like she got a huge ego boost out of thinking i feel that way still and 😒😒😒#like she was already beginning to be distant asf when she left my hometown and like i said i'd try to message her to hangout or talk#but she was just like always busy every time so like idk. our friendship definitely fizzled out bc i started to feel like she didnt#really care about me really anyways-- i dont need to go into detail lol#but yeah its kinda why i struggle to message ppl about things#im always assuming other ppl are busy and will get back to me when they're not bc so much of the time thats what ive had to do
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