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w-intent · 5 months ago

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theeroticlover · 9 months ago

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feelterribleinc · 8 months ago

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I'm so fucking normal about that ragdoll from that one indie animation. I am so normal about her. I don't think about her more than normal. I think about her a normal amount. I am normal about her. I have not rewatched the pilot and episode 2 multiple times just to see her. I do not go bat shit fucking bonkers when she talks or is on screen. I am normal about her. So normal.

#chat im going insane about ragatha #SOMEONE GET ME A RAGATHA PLUSH PLSPSLPSLSPSLSPSLPSPS #ART COMMISSION ME SO I CAN BUY RAGATHA PLUSH SOMEONE PSLPSLSPSLSPSLSOPSLSPSLLS #irl oomfie if you see this hi. give me refs of your ocs and/or favorite little blorbos from your shows.#i will transform them into whatever you want im an artist i have unlimited power basically #what i cant draw i might write #im like the ultimate artist #anyways i fucking love ragatha digital circus #she is my wife and i like her a lot #i want her romantically #actually no. scratch that.#i NEED her romantically.

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bean-spring · 1 month ago

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Hot take and not to be a killjoy or the shipping police but people treating Viktor or Jinx's aroace headcanons as if they were canon is not the revolutionary take people think it is.

Headcanons are always all right but we have to acknowledge that they are somehow damaging when they apply to stereotypes. It might not be the case for everyone but most of the time people unconsciously assume that disability/mental illness=asexuality. These headcanons erase the freedom of attraction from people who are already seen as unable to have sexual/romantic experiences/desires, when it's completely untrue and harmful.

You can headcanon Viktor and Jinx as aroace, but I have seen people changing their minds once Viktor is no longer disabled (s2 with all of his other forms) and Jinx is no longer as mentally ill (alternate universe Powder). And it speaks wonders of how people see these characters.

"I never thought about Jinx being able to feel romantic/sexual attraction until s2!" To believe she's actually only capable of that when she's not "damaged" is incredibly disturbing. Especially since Jinx has always had a bit of a flirty personality too.

"I've always seen Viktor as asexual, I don't know why!" That's fine. You can headcanon him as ace. But I believe there is a reason behind it, most of the time, if for some inexplicable reason the "vibes" of the disabled character are making you think he's ace.

I say all of this being aroaspec myself, by the way. Headcanon all you want but going to people's posts commenting how "it's weird for you that they have romantic/sexual plots when they're clearly aroace" is not a win at all. It's a headcanon, after all, and it should be treated as such, and that's fine. But it also is damaging to spread stereotypes like these.

Of course the disabled character is asexual. Of course the mentally ill character is aromantic. It's not as revolutionary as you might think, tbh.

Fandom is not activism and it's all right to have any headcanons you want BUT some of them are filled with damaging stuff and perhaps we should look into ourselves more before treating these assumptions as something canon.

#i hope i didn't sound rude btw i am saying this respectfully and this is directed to the ones who push these hcs as canon #if you have your own theories and know abt aroace stereotypes but are respectful abt it this is not for you keep scrolling #i actually think showing jinx (who has been dehumanized by the fandom A LOT) in a romantic relationship is good for her character #and viktor letting himself be free and loving what he considered imperfections thanks to jayce at the end c'monnn they need to make love #tired of disabled characters being treated as babies and always hc them as aroace let them fuck #this being said i am aware there are more terms inside aroace etc etc etc and there are more ways of considering them aroace etc etc etc #this is NOT about that it's about being aware of how 'mmm it's the vibes!' argument does NOT work when it's stereotypes #it's like saying 'wow this robotic character is giving me autistic vibes idk why' LIKE CMON NOW WEFNEWLFNL YOU KNOW WHY #please don't cancel me i am giving my humble opinion as someone aroaspec #at the end of the day you can do whatever the fuck you want tbh #i'm not the shipping police here #arcane #viktor arcane #jinx arcane #jayvik #timebomb

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melancholickiss · 2 months ago

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littlenastieswewhispered · 5 months ago

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“buffy ended the show single :)” ok but only because her current love interest just DIED!! (he near quite literally died in her arms! in sacrifice for her!) her last words of the entire series were telling him she loves him and then saying his name in admiration. she isn’t single; she’s a widow.

#spuffy #anti cookie dough #also lol just for clarity and so they don’t come here:#anti bangel #anti-bangel #this post inspired by nothing in particular #except the ongoing women need to be alone to be strong bullshit narrative by anti feminist JW #can’t believe so much of the fandom buys that #buffy anne summers LOVES love #she values romance in her life #look at the way she talks to and looks at and touches spike in s7 #and TRY to tell me she just wanted to be alone #you can’t #that’s insane troll logic #and i’m so serious fking ANTI cookie dough!!#no one is ever done baking #ever #we all grow and change our entire lives and we deserve companionship while we do that #i’m not saying buffy needed to be ready to settle down #whatever that means #but she very clearly enjoyed having spike as a partner #as evidenced by the scene IMMEDIATELY after the cookie dough speech lol #and she should get to have a romantic partner who also wants her #ie spike #obligatory fandom and shippy tags:#spuffy is endgame #you’re the one buffy #i believe in you spike #btvs #buffy the vampire slayer

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p4nishers · 1 year ago

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i need a whole episode, a book and a podcast on EXACTLY what crowley was thinking during this moment

#unfortunately i cant project my shit onto this one bc i have never felt the touch of any person romantically and im not planning to change #that so someone with actual experience who actually feels romantic attraction explain to me in excruciating detail what she was thinking her #here*#i dont need sleep i need answers #good omens #good omens s2 #azicrow #aziracrow #ineffable spouses #go s2 #good omens 2

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the-meme-monarch · 2 months ago

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i’m a mabel defender forever dipper is Just As selfish as she is and also if you legitimately think mabel is at fault for not breaking it off with gideon herself i will actually just start throwing rocks at you like i don’t know what i can say to convince you how insane you sound. it is a cartoon but that part was upsettingly real. it is horrifying as a girl when you’re having your boundaries pushed in little ways that still make you uncomfortable bc then You’re being unreasonable somehow, just saying No is unreasonable somehow. and then here shes Also being societally pressured into dating him. i think it was very sweet that dipper tried to break up w gideon for her bc the episode legitimately sets up that She Couldn’t. but no she’s Wrong for that somehow. girls are taught to be nice to boys pushing their boundaries too much we need to give them hat pins again

#‘she is just as possessive of other boys she Does have a crush on’ no she literally isn’t #mabel never forced or pressured anyone into a relationship #she DID keep that boyband captive but they were treated more like pets HDHDH?#and i didn’t even realize she Had crushes on them until they Said so in weirdmageddon #but even then she never forced them into a romantic relationship w her. she just had them braid her hair and shit #what. she rigged that ‘do you like me’ test. but that boy just walked away. I’m pretty sure he didn’t even know who made it #anyway yknow those silly little videos where someone edits themselves into a cartoon to tell a character What they Need To Learn #me making a self insert just to sit gideon down hand in his shoulder like ‘she doesn’t like you bro.’#‘you can’t be treating prospective partners like that.’ HDHSHS #gravity falls

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citrusai · 2 months ago

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taash said "they were doing it" and people ran with the interpretation of an npc that doesn't know solas or the history of the elvhenan even when bellara interjected and said, no, that's not right. that's not how it was for the elvhenan. they formed bonds before they had physical bodies. and people ran to doompost or create weird anti-solavellan shit even though mythal & solas refer to each other as old friends and when she releases him there is no tenderness or love in it. it is the act of unchaining a dog from his post, the stepping down of a general. but to each their own ig.