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Since you've been back, you hardly laugh. F4 THAILAND Episode 6
#f4 thailand#f4 thailand boys over flowers#dew jirawat#ren renrawin aira#melgifs#i! love! sad! pretty! men!
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okay is she being actually immature or is it just a woman over 30 expressing a human experience you find to be immature.
like yeah. at certain ages... let shit go. im not defending the real immature shit. im not defending the karen you're picturing. i worked in retail i hate those people too. (once somebody got mad at me because she didn't like how our winter window decor was a snowman smoking a pipe. i wish i was joking).
but men at 57 will write books about how 17 year old girls are soooo sexy. they will invent worlds where women have to be naked for "armor reasons." they will write songs that treat women as objects. people rush to defend them. meanwhile a woman at 35 will be like "heartbreak is hard, actually" or "i feel betrayed by a friend" or "i am struggling with something emotionally." immediately people will say stuff like this woman is 35 by the way. by the way this woman is SO OLD to be experiencing this. BY THE WAY.
im 31, almost 32. the other day a poet was blasted online because at her "big age", she had written a poem about feeling unloved. top comment was "this woman is 29 by the way." this woman is too old to still be useful, by the way. she has to behave better . maybe if she was a good wife and mother she could stop existing loudly, and the story could continue on without her. this woman has served her purpose, by the way. she's so cringe, by the way. at 29 - so old! - she still hasn't figured out that her existence should be one of shame.
#what the fuck.#unfortunately by the time i'd switched accounts (from personal to my poetry one)#i couldn't find it :(#this is why u SEND URSELF THE POST. WHICH I KNOW TO DO BUT!!!#i was so mad i just was like “i'm about to tear this commenter in twain” and . lost da post#if u urself are the 29 and got recently flamed by instagram#i love u. come here. write with me. i was about to pick up a sword for u.#i mean a BIGASS sword.#like we all know im a wlw girlie but the way ppl will be like ''id NEVER write sad poetry about a MAN not LOVING me!!!"#..... wowwwww ur so cool. anyway. people often experience emotions regardless of what u consider cringe.#& if ur gonna shame straight/bi women for feeling a certain way. hope u never write about the#weird relationship between u and ur father. or feeling different from ur brother.#or how ur male best friend fucked u over. since it's SO CRINGE. to have ANY feelings caused by a MAN#like be so for real. beloved. nobody is fucking saying this when men do it.#''oh it's cringe to like a woman or feel heartbroken by her.''#controlling women's feelings and actions???? it's more likely than u think.#btw op is nonbinary do NOT be gender essential on this post i'll kill u with my teeth#edit: btw for the person who dm'd me ''when is it misogyny and when is it actually valid''#pretty easy. if a man had done it#would it be cringe? . like if a man sang a sad song about ''she broke my damn heart''?#if he said ''i want to have kids with her'' or something sexually explicit?? like would u even LIKE IT if a male poet had said it?#& if it's like. nah a 35 yr old man being upset about this is cringe too. yeah it's just cringe. that exists. we both know it does.#but .... often i see this ONLY about women. and i can't help but hear like. how back in middle school#we were fed the lie ''girls mature faster.'' ... why do i have to be emotionally regulated? but if a man wrote about the same things?#..... idk . im pretty anti cringe culture to begin with. but this one feels so bad to me . ur still a person past 33.
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Hugging him would solve all my problems
#i need him#i want him#he’s so babygirl#bloody men#hes so babygirl#oscar isaac#oscar issac characters#oscar issac hernandez estrada#sad men#sad eyes#he’s so beautiful#male beauty#hes so pretty#moon knight#poe dameron#miguel o'hara#marc spector#steven grant#jake lockley#scenes from a marriage#outcome 3#duke leto atreides#alexa play i bet on losing dogs by mitski#Alexa play Lana del Rey#daddy core#beautiful#i love him so much#star wars#i love my husband#i love subby men
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Initial drawings of that old man… I literally, I haven’t finished reading the book of bill yet!!! I had to stop and take a break for a week to feverishly draw fanart of myself petting fords floofy hair and giving him attention and shit…!!!! The urge was too great….!! I’ve literally. I had a crush on this guy the instant he was first REVEALED in the show, but I did not have the artistic prowess to draw good looking old men back then… but I do now… thank god… thank fucking god
#gravity falls#ford pines#stanford pines#self ship#self insert#si x canon#it me#doodles#I got a haircut! so my hair looks different now.. as haircuts tend to do lol#anyway… yeah… I LOVE HIM… GRAHHFJH#the confirmation that he rlly is just sad and lonely and insecure and craving attention and validation#OHH FORD BBY.. WE R THE SAME#like… ghghg i loved him already just w his prickly nerdy outer shell but knowing more about the vulnerable center is GREAT. ITS AWESOME#also hes a smart nerdy guy who can do science and expirements and shit which is ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS FOR A CHARACTER TO DO#u kno im all about scientists….#I couldn’t draw ship art back then 1 cuz I didn’t kno how to draw old men and 2 cuz I was like 13 lol… which would have been wierd#but I’m an ADULT NOW. GET OVER HERE FORD#also it didn’t even rlly cross my mind TO draw that stuff cuz even tho I did love ford#self ship and x reader sorta stuff was not NEARLY as popular back then.. like I specifically remember it like. booming in popularity#at some point. but being pretty rare before that. anyway. thank u passage of time and trends and new gravity falls book for introducing#me back to fictional man I love. so I can now draw myself smooching him and shit#hell yeah.#13 is probably not actually correct I do not remember exactly which year fords reveal was in…#but I was probably older then 13.. but still#the point remains lol.#also omg. the bit in the book w the goth moth. ‘ur probably into this sorta thing right?’#I AM INTO THAT SORTA THING FORD. thank u book of bill for being written specifically @ me. the immersion it’s great.#like ur so right ford I AM edgy and goth how’d u guess that tee hee. eyelash flutter#aLSO PLS IGNORE MY FINGER BEING IN FRAME IN THE LAST PIC. I was drawing in a tiny bound sketchbook#so I had to hold the paper down to keep it flat. and. I didn’t feel like censoring my fucking. pinkie finger out of the image
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Patalliro! is fascinating to me because of stuff like this. It's unapologetically gay - even within its anime which aired during primetime hours in 1982 - in a way that many later BL manga would never be, like the ones from the early 2000s which would never dare to call their characters actual homosexuals. Patalliro has actually aged quite well in this regard, there's something comforting about how campy it is.
#i still dont really understand how they got away with this kind of thing honestly#female VAs i get that - but first m/m kiss in an anime in episode THREE?????#theres also the maraich/thomas episode where they are *Both* voiced by women....advanced yuri#patalliro#i love how bancorans gender expression is pretty much explicitly to attract only bishounen#you blushed - so you must not be a girl#etc#i also love how joyful it all is#theres never anything sad or tragic about being gay - only that bancoran is forced to kill the bishounen spies/assassins/etc#when bancoran finds out that gay sex feels good after demian; in the manga he is elated. its basically a positive thing#he awakens to his true power...lol#also notable is that while bishounen youth is glorified maraich is 18#this means it portrays being gay as an adult as normal; not a phase relegated to nostalgic adolescent periods of time#according to the NYT japan's psychiatric body called homosexuality a mental illness until 1995#im NOT going to say patalliro changed that or anything lmao but its just significant to me that banmara get to live their lives happily#even raise children together in the manga....???#especially contrasting that with kaze to ki no uta and other manga of the time (no shade intended)#yaoi#<- for tagging purposes#obviously it also got away with a lot by being a gag manga. but still!#months later edit: want to say im not intending to moralize BL manga from the 2000s either. like gen. no hate on them.#as a gay person i just appreciate when characters who act gay are considered gay textually#and its kind of disheartening how gay-as-identity was treated as something incredulous in those manga a lot of the time#even the mere suggestion of attraction to men as a whole and not just the other male lead...yknow#this post is meant to praise patalliro for being unique in its approach to gay content compared to other titles#ive enjoyed plenty of 2000s yaoi titles despite their shortcomings lol#joseiposting#shoujo
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⋆୨୧⋆ As Beautiful As You ─ Episode 33 (你比星光美丽)
#xu kai#so pretty when he cries#i love sad heartbroken men#as beautiful as you episode 33#as beautiful as you#你比星光美丽#许凯#han ting#cdrama#cdramaedits#cdrama gifs#cdramaedit#cdramagifs#nunafilms
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I hate twink death as a term so so much. There are so many better options! Bear Birth??? Otter's Origin??? The possibilities of terms that actually celebrate people and their bodies ?? Those are so much more sexy !!
#happy pride#rememebr to love the bears and the otters#god i love otters and bears#gay#mlm#also fucking. telling a complete stranger that “oh im so sad you are experiencing twink death”#oh okay just say you don't love men unless they are skinny and stereotypically pretty#bear#otter
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OKAY SO the aventurine situation has worsened, and now the stupid fucker is appearing in my VERY STEAMY dreams ADN I DONT LIKE IT HWTA THEG FUCKC DO I DO
#lati speaks#a moot jinxed my ass and i ended up dreaming about avneturine and that dream leaned into my breeding and size kink HARD I HATE IT HERE#HIS SAD SOGGY EYES AND STUPID PRETTY FACE WILL NOT SWAY ME P2945R3UPSOVNELV#I ONLY LOVE MEN WITH THAT UNHINGED HOMICIDAL SWAGGER
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tell me why (2020)
#this game. this fucking game#it's been ruining my mental health for a few days now ❤️ i think I'll have to make an appointment with my psychiatrist ❤️#i haven't even finished it yet but I'm truly in love with this game#it's so pretty and the soundtrack is so good ☹️#but the story is so sad#also i think i can relate to their mother when it comes to her mental health#playing it wants me to sit outside and smoke a hundred cigs because man.... 🚬#ngl im not into men but tyler makes me question my sexuality a lil bit because he's soooooo#but im also in love with alyson.... uggghhh#tell me why game#tyler ronan#alyson ronan#tell me why#game screencaps#gaming#video games#*mine
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i saw a post was like 'lets talk about how you need to be leaving the man you love for the man you deserve' and while that may be sound advice, no man seems to want me at all let alone one that i deserve.
#i think men are actually kinda scared of me#and im not even sure why#i am the least intimidating person on the planet. and like#yeah sure i get compliments and stuff but no one asks me on dates i cant remember the last time a man tried to like court me or something#(spoiler alert a really long time ago)#what is it that is so offputting to them about me#im like pretty?? ish?? im funny i think im quite nice and i love spreading positivity and supporting people too#i get more attention from women than men#this is not a critique it just makes dating really hard when you date men#since most of them seem not to like me lmao#and i don't understand it really.#and it actually kinda makes me sad.#i do wanna get married i do wanna have kids etc etc. im nearly 27 and i haven't dated anyone in years.#and angone who does like me never actually tells me. so i go on thinking no one actually does.
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It’s a feeble thing, love. To some it’s a choice, to others a curse. For John? Maybe it was both. Or maybe it was more. In a way that his heart chose before his mind did, it was Gale. In a way that he couldn’t let go of the latter, it was Gale. But also in a way that he cherished, revered and feared, it was Gale.
To him, it was Gale through everything.
He caught himself studying the blonde all the time, watching and waiting for him to return the soft gaze of knowing love. He studied those eyes, the way Gale held himself, searching for any remnants of love for Bucky in a non-platonic way.
At times he studied the blonde so carefully he believed that platonic love was the only love he was capable of, even towards Marge. But there was something else knocking on John’s heart. Another pull, telling him to just look again; look harder into those eyes.
Bucky knew his Buck better than anyone else at Thorpe abbots. He knew the man better than Marge probably did, and yet he couldn’t place the glint in his eye, that shone particularly bright when he landed in the stalag, and again during the night marches when they were attacked, and again when he pushed Gale to run, and again when he drove far to close to his plane when they were finally together again. The glint never left after that. Maybe it never left ever, just grew harder to catch. That glint, the familiar tug of lips and western-drawl Gale carried confused the man to no end.
What was it, that made that glint special? What was Gale hiding behind the walls his father threw up? Did Marge know that glint? Was it the glint of love? It couldn’t be, because it wasn’t there when he read the letters Marge sent, smelled her sweet perfume plastered on the soft pages.
Gale hid it from the world, hid it from everyone who mattered and kept it closed; locked in a box with all his terribly trauma and fears. There’s only so many things a box can hold though. Stuffing a war inside there doesn’t quite work
So the glint wiggled its way out, just as Gale’s father had, and just as the war did when they were finally, finally on home soil. He shared the glints story with Marge, telling her in the strictest confidence. It remained a mystery to John.
But then ofcourse, John’s matching Glint was a mystery to Gale too.
#mota#buck and bucky#clegan#gale cleven#john egan#writers on tumblr#writing#john bucky egan#buck x bucky#writerscommunity#i love sad gay men#GAY#I love making these two sad#my favourite bomber boys#Marge is gay I will die on this hill#idk man#pretty little gay boys never finding eachother again after the war
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I totally agree with the general consensus that Ringo provided a lot of emotional support and coolheadedness to the other beatles to the point where they'd have probably killed each other without him but I do also wonder sometimes how much of that is being supernaturally patient and easygoing and how much of it is Ringo just having a tumultuous and isolated childhood where he was never taught to recognize and assert his own emotional needs so he became a blank slate on which others could process their emotions
(And tbh I also wonder how an inability to access or assert his feelings may have contributed to his tendency to process pain by numbing himself and the pretty shitty way he treated women)
#see also: george falling in love with his wife and paul routinely telling him he was easily replaceable#and yet ringo has nothing but warmth for either of these men#and of course I'm not saying we shouldn't appreciate how much patience and kindness that takes!#but also i guess it takes a certain lack of assertiveness or the ability to see/value your own emotions#and that's also something interesting to think about#speaking from experience here a lot of alcoholics want to be numb more than they want to be alive#and if ringo couldnt access his emotions it makes sense his only recourse would be to erase them#but i think for him it comes from isolation at a young age and a lack of emotional support#you need your caregivers to teach you what 'sad' is so you can then teach yourself what to do about it#or you may start to cope with that constant feeling of unease and dissatisfaction (that you can never quite grasp) in destructive ways#also his mom started getting him falling down drunk when he was not even twelve years old so tbh the alcoholism was probably inevitable#anyways all this is just to say that the fact that he could absorb pretty much infinite distress CAN definitely be construed as a virtue#but tbh it might also be symptomatic of some painful shit that he needed/deserved help with#ringo starr#longer rambles
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okay nonbinary character in Orv alert. slay
#Pretty fun that they’re having a jealousy moment over dokja rn#(I know junghyeok said he wasn’t specifically talking abt dokja but I assume he said that to keep nirvana from attacking dokja.)#Demonic judge of fire and secretive plotter are goofy lmao#Junghyeok: IM NOT INTERESTED IN MEN#Constellation demonic judge of fire is coughing up blood! You have been gifted 2000 coins!#<- killed me. Demonic judge of fire I love you pookie#….of course when I look at nirvana’s wiki they’re misgendered. -_-#Though I guess the vibe is tht bc they reincarnate so much gender is irrelevant to them? Which. that’s a vibe.#but also would it mean tht they don’t rlly care abt pronouns as long as u acknowledge that fact?#Idk I’m just pre-emptively headcanoning in case they turn out to be shitty rep#OHHHH NO JUNGHYEOK TRAUMA MOMENT. LOOKIT HIS SAD FACE D:#Sidenote I do adore how much the power scaling in this is just like kids in a playground one upping each other#And that guy from the small world was such an overpowered oc even though we already have a parody of an overpowered oc (junghyeok) hdgjfjv#‘Could they have invested everything into speed & psychic skills instead of physical skills?’ OMG#KICK THEIR ASS DOKJA#I love glass canons. Surely they’ll never break#‘Ur hot so I won’t kill you’ nirvana if only you were a protag….. YOU ARE SO CUNTY#Kim dokja dissociating even harder to defeat literal nirvana. Good for him#going post#orv
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#first therapy session went well !#i didn't cry which is v surprising lol#maybe bc we didnt go too in depth about things but#therapist already picking up on things i didn't like#never really thought of myself as an anxious person#depression was more so what stuck out to me#but like therapist was like bestie... u sound more anxious than ur perceiving#like i put that i don't struggle with social anxiety bc generally in a group of people im pretty outgoing#but like my coping skills are isolation lol#and i often turn down invitations bc of my insecurities#and in general just hate being perceived despite wanting it#like i literally havent answered any asks on here in months bc#im afraid of what people think of me#and im scared of interaction#but im also dying for human connection lol :'))#i also avoid men completely bc trauma so yeah#and it all stems from a deep deep belief that i am not worthy of love n wOw im sad but like we can only go up from here right :'))#LMAO SORRY THAT THIS IS WHAT MY BLOG HAS BECOME BUT#idk this is my diary fr#anywho sorry for everything#will most likely delete all these rants bc its embarassing lol but#love you all#and im so sorry for not answering the asks#thank you for reading my fics#your comments mean sm to me truly#love you endlessly
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☕️🚬📜
#vintage#40s#50s#50s romance#elegance#divine feminine#femme fatale#femcel#female sadness#female rage#the other woman#because im pretty when i cry.#i don't wanna live.#hell is a teenage girl#manic pixie dream girl#girl blogger#female manipulator#lana del rey a.k.a lizzy grant#lana unreleased#lana del ray#lana del rey#love older men
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I think I’ve said this before but I REALLY DO LOVE ALMOST ALL RE CHARACTERS/SHIPS THERE TRULY ARENT MANY SHIPS/CHARACTERS I GENUINELY DISLIKE you don’t have to ask me “oh do you ship __” cuz unless it’s straight up something like Sherry X Leon I’m probably shipping it!!!!! Or at least I’ll give you a thumbs up for it!!!!!!!!!!!!
#I’ll always tag my ships ofc so I don’t shove it in faces of people who don’t wanna see it#like for example I love metaltango (obviously I don’t think it could GENUINELY work and I don’t like it in a creepy pro-abuser way I just#like the sadness of queer men in the military BDBEHWNEJEN) but I know a LOT of my friends who don’t!!!!!!! so I tag it!!!!!!#stuff like Rebecca X Wesker or Sherry x Leon just makes me Uncomfy Cuz y’know there is a VERY VERY MASSIVE AGE GAP DHSNDHSNDJSNSJ#aside from like. my otp serennedy i really DONT have strong feelings towards ships!!!!!! I like seeing the pretty people kiss!!!!!!#but I DO have a preference towards queer ships like there’s only a couple cishet ships I actually ship myself#but that’s probably just cuz I gravitate towards queer ships as a queer person shocka HFNWHENEHENEJDNDK#although there is O N E ship that I dislike for absolutely no good reason and ONLY MY BESTIES get to know it#BUT EVEN THEN I STILL LIKE THAT SHIP ON PAPER ILL STILL REBLOG FABART#I LOOOOOOOOOVE rambling in Tags
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