#how to behave

[weevmo]

When you're (too) Close to me ~ !

[ivys-thick-juicy-thighs]

Rules for sending me messages and asks.

Most of you are cool, but for the odd ones out there who want to act like assholes, this is for you.

Read this and like it before sending me anything, unless we’re moots.

If you are insulting me in any fashion, or plan to, I will not so kindly tell you to go fuck yourself. Save us both the time and energy and just don’t send the fucking message or grow up and learn how to be nice.

If it’s another instalment of The Simpening™️ and you think the behaviour mentioned above is appropriate in a flirting context, again, fuck all the way off. If you want to flirt with me, that’s fine, but be nice about it. I shouldn’t have to explain that.

Please don’t send me messages asking for donations, I can’t help you. I don’t have the money to fully support myself let alone someone else. I’d rather not feel guilty about deleting your message, so please don’t send it.

If my ask box is turned off, and we are mutuals, please feel free to send me a dm. If we are not mutuals, wait until my ask box is open, and follow rules 1-3.

Generally speaking, I am NOT open to role playing. If you are an rp blog, don’t waste my time, the answer is no. If it’s The Simpening™️ then moderate rp is acceptable, but keep it respectful, and only from people who are following me or are mutuals.

If you’re coming to info dump (generally always welcomed), and my ask box is closed, then ask if you can dm me your info dump. Otherwise, you don’t have to ask, just come on over and info dump to me about whatever. Just preface your message with “info dumping” and let her rip.

In light of recent events, I’ll be keeping my ask box turned off most of the time unless it’s for another instalment of The Simpening™️. I will make announcements welcoming polite simp anons and the peanut gallery when I’m about to turn it back on. Until then, it’ll be off.

This may change in the future but for now this is how it will be.

[blackgirlslivingwell]

Black Community Etiquette Lesson - Do You Think This Is Low-Class Behavior?

This is just a quick video about low-class behavior. According to the internet, if you do these things, you're low-class. And it doesn't matter how much money you have or don't have. Some of the richest people are low-class.

[jerzwriter]

A reader should have the ability to interact with any fandom creation without fear. No one should ever feel frightened or intimidated about liking/commenting/sharing a creator's work because others in the fandom have issues with the creator.

I would never suggest anyone do this on my behalf and I would hope no one would do this to me.

This is a problem in the fandom, and it should be addressed.

Please reblog if you agree.

[mayhemchicken-artblog]

in the hour or so it took me to draw this op turned reblogs off

EDIT: reblogs are STAYING OFF. op was right and correct and i have never regretted making a post as much as this one. if you want to reblog my art you can reblog something else from my blog. or commission me, lord knows i deserve financial compensation for the nightmare this post has put me through

[nataliescatorccio]

#chappell roan: 2, paparazzi: 0

[cerealmonster15]

well he did his best. i think. 😔

[channnel]

What if they were friends 🥹

[sophsun1]

Seinfeld – 2.11: The Chinese Restaurant

[soupdwelling]

a memory

[mmwm]

LINK FEST: 14 FEBRUARY 2023

Links that may or may not be related to gardens, food, travel, nature, or heterotopias and liminal spaces but probably are. Sources in parentheses. long but fun list: Do You Know How to Behave? Are You Sure?: How to text, tip, ghost, host, and generally exist in polite society today. (The Cut). I agree with pretty much all of these. article: how to choose a color palette for your flower garden…

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

christ sometimes I just wanna. steal a time machine & go back & sit down next to my 9-year-old self and just like. let them pull out their pokemon card binder & gush about their holographic gyarados or whatever. I'd just smile & ask questions about motherfukcing bulbasaur & tell my kid self that I thought they were a neat person, & someday they'd find other people who thought so too.

like i'm a grown adult who honestly finds most kids stuff boring, but. damn if i could go back & hang out with my baby self & listen to them ramble...just so they knew someone was listening. i would in a heartbeat. thinking about u kid

[braisedhoney]

fighting back? against who? they're so happy—they've been waiting for you.

you are wonderful. don't you know that?

bonus: they play sims together :)

[mugwot]

funnyjokespunperson

[pjharvey-moved]

slutshaming being like the official slash accepted term is so dumb though like imagine if we called misogyny bitchphobia

[stuckinapril]

megan thee stallion is the perfect example of unbothered energy. nicki has repeatedly vagueposted about her, gone on unhinged rants about her, gone so far as to mention her dead mother (such a classless low blow), threatened her on live, and has now released the tackiest diss track in history. and what has megan done? literally nothing. she straight up ignored her, aside from that one ig story where she posted herself laughing (which was perfect btw). she is the epitome of “i will not dignify that w a response.” i love it.