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#a doodley#i had to make this blue so tumblr would stop hiding it from the dash#anyway no caption this happened 2 hrs ago#im happy abt my surgery but it and other things this year keep beinging conversations like these up#and i cant handle it at all.#everything my dad tells me just makes me feel worse and not bc its anything bad but bc I Feel Bad#like the conversation then continued to him being like no dont cry im just saying i wpuld have wanted to#quit my job decades ago and set aside money so I wouldnt be struggling as much now but that didnt happen#and i just dont want that to happen to you guys :)#so we have to support u so that your life is what u want it to be#and i cried even more bc what do u mean. thats so sad. ur a person and u were a child and baby once and ur gonna die#and you always almost cry when u talk about your mom who passed away decades ago#and your brothers that passed away#recently and im going to be your age and still sobbing bc i miss my dad. just like i have been prematurely crying about since i was 7#the other day my dad asked my mom if i cried a lot when i was a baby/kid and my mom said no and then my dad#said that when i Did cry it was so severe he thought i would ''drown in my own tears''#bc i could never stop. like. thats still true today. ive been crying on and off since then#i think i mentioned he's just been telling me stories about his life lately and it further fuels this. i get so sad. im sorry your life was#like this. i dont want to die i dont want you to die im sad im sorry im sorry#im scared. im never going to see you again. how horrible. how horrible#i cant enjoy my day today bc every day is a day closer and i get sad
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Really bringing back tradition (wall sized photo of Dick that he can stare at endlessly) aren’t we Bruce
#full clip is genuinely insane#someone on that writing team was definitely cooking..#it’s giving my pets 🙄 my kids 😒 and MY WIFE ‼️#Jason getting a singular pixel too Bruce didn’t even try and hide it#not a huge fan of the show but when you’re cooking ur cooking shrug#brudick#dick grayson#bruce wayne#dc comics#bruce and dick#inkblots#batman#batman and robin
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I love my girl Miwa but as soon as I read that this image immediately popped up in my head:

#HAVE SOME STANDARDS GIRL DAMN#i want this relationship to work out too but this aint it#how do we relationship#cine te a intrebat#uhmmm theres SPOILERS past this tag in case u care to read this yourself just a quick warning#i kid i joke but this scene fucks me up i like how this manga handles queerness. it shows how messy and painful it can be#like we already got a bit of that with sae and her relationship with sex but this mmmmmm this one i didnt see coming#imagine u work up the courage to confess to ur high school crush and she says she cant date you#not cause she doesnt like you. quite literally /because/ she likes you and wants to take ur relationship seriously and respect you#but she cant do that. because shes afraid of people finding out. of having to hide all the time. of being ostracised. she's tired.#she cant find the strength to do that.#the frustration of being loved but society denying you the possibility of being together... ill clown on Miwa (its very easy) but i feel bad#for her#gaud i need to sleep hai pa
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The sand pit
#plushy rambles#plush wips n doodles#art#my art#artist on tumblr#doodles#au doodles#chonny jash#chonny's charming chaos compendium#cccc#cccc au#cccc heart#cccc whole#cccc soul#cccc mind#cj hms#imagine searching the entire beach cuz one of ur kids decided to dig a sand pit and hide in there for who knows how long
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my arts been doing bad on twtter. ive recovered in the past but i worry this time will be different. the idea of losing such a large platform makes me wonder if theres point in continuing even if i feel tremendously guilty admitting that.
as my therapist pointed out today: ppl still like my art. still when i think about it i think there are other artists for you all though. better ones have come along and better ones will still come.
im in my 20s and i haven’t really gotten a chance to live my life properly since the pandemic bc of it. still art is important to me and the idea of losing it has me feeling listless. what do i do when its been who i am for years.
im unsure tbh if im going to quit.
i draw what i like but i don’t see purpose in drawing for myself.
anyways this isnt that deep my therapist is just on leave next week and i wanna cut my hair again
#delete later#a morbid thought ig but the idea was always#well if i stopped what if i regret it 10#20 years later#but if i dont have 10 years#is there time to regret it if i stopped#idk what to do its like complete and sudden loss of motivation#ive been trying to pick myself up from it#but i just wanna lay here ig#theres also the question of a honed skill being discarded#though i mean there were lots of things i was skilled at as a kid that i discarded#swimming was one running was also another#ig i lost those more bc i developed a panic disorder#and like the worst place for that is maybe when ur in a deep pool center lane#maybe this was the thing that made me unique#but its also not a thing i advertise irl if anything i actively hide it and just lie#i havent made every piece ive wanted to make
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can I see some more of your Jeff please….I really love your art and I love your take on him!

Neighborhood watch get this dudes ass
#hide ur kids hide ur wife cuz he’s knifing up everyone out there#that’s an annoying orange reference sorry#jeff the killer#creepypasta#drawing#ask
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Andy from breakfast club liked the crazy girl alternative more! We all shout in unison!!
And I don’t blame him ily crazy girls y’all rock y’all make the world a better place fr
if I were a poet I’d write “ode to crazy girls” and so would Andy Clark 😌
#allison x andrew#the breakfast club#allison the breakfast club#andrew clark#allison reynolds#andy the breakfast club#rambling#ask#to be a lil real for a second I think people like Allison who are slightly nuts and don’t hide it really are better company than the more#like…repressed/put together people#idk maybe it’s my own religious guilt n internalized shame speakin but me personally I can’t just be…myself like that a lotta the time#(and neither could Andy which was partially the point of the movie ig)#so i- and Andy too I suspect- find that when im around folks who r just overshare-y n outta pocket it’s like bein given permission to let#go of ur inhibitions. Which is pretty freeing yk? like oh she’s bein nuts so i get to relax and be myself too bc she’s not gonna judge#and it’s nice. Real nice. makes ya feel understood n all#maybe that sounds backhanded but im bein completely genuine- to me this is good lol#another variation of this dynamic is Joel and Lana in risky business but they go in a totally different direction w/ that#either way tho I think that’s why Joel and Andrew are some of the most relatable characters in the world to me#nothin like a crazy girl to get ya to loose all ur shame n fear 😎#anyway tl;dr crazy girls have my heart#and yes I did have a crush on Allison Reynolds when i was 14#(ok who am I kidding I still do)
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https://x.com/katemartinlov3r/status/1893792441213309287?s=46
oh shes heating up
NAURRRR EVERYBODYS OVER SHE GOT BIGXTHAPLUG ON THEREEEE
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something i needed to hear when i was younger, and depending on the pockets of the internet and the kinds of real life people you're around some people probably still need to hear it. ultimately, using a label is for you. you don't have to know for sure if you're a lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual, or asexual, or something else. you're allowed to just say you're whatever label is helpful for you at the time to explain to people so they're understanding, or help yourself find community with people who can connect with you about shared experiences. some people use queer because it's an umbrella term and they don't need to explain the specific nuances of which labels apply to them, and they can use the broad queer label to just find other people with roughly similar experiences. some people use gay as an umbrella term for similar reasons. some people use ace and asexual as umbrella terms because they're demisexual or demiromantic and trying to find anyone who's going to somewhat relate to what they're going through.
maybe you have NO IDEA what label fits you! you're still figuring yourself out. you're allowed to try to connect to various communities to see where you relate, what shared experience or aid you find. (and this applies broader too: labels like your favorite fashion, the music you like, the hobbies you have, sometimes you like something no one in 100 miles specifically made a group for but your hobby might fall under a bigger umbrella you CAN relate to - like liking X specific board game might find ppl who relate at a bigger tabletop game convention, or a person into costumes could go to a Anime/Video Game Convention and relate at least a bit with cosplayers). you're allowed to CHANGE. First, just to change as you grow. You will be a different person over time in some ways, that's just how life works. You're allowed to change the way you label yourself. Second, you're allowed to not be sure the labels you use for yourself fits, to try out ones until you see which fits (as in - which labels help you connect to people who understand what you feel/like/are), and allowed to change labels if they stop fitting.
and finally: you are allowed to NOT tell people your label. If you label yourself, it is to make your own life easier - to help others like you find you, to help find people like you, to build community. strangers who may hurt you have NO right to your label. you don't have to tell them shit. you are allowed to lie. You're allowed to not tell your parent your sexuality, if you're afraid they'll throw you out of the house or harm you. You're allowed to not tell your work your sexuality. You're allowed to not tell strangers, in person or online, whenever you feel you do not want to share how you identify. (And again this can apply to more than sexuality: if you're goth and in a school with uniforms scared people will bully you if you bring up you're goth, you're allowed to not tell them - although sometimes teenagers find joy in declaring who they are including around people who would not respect it, so if you want to declare proudly what you like or who you are then go for it. You're allowed to not mention to your boss that you're trying for a kid, maybe you're worried they'd discriminate if they knew that, or pass you over for promotion, or would treat you different, or you just don't want to discuss your personal life at work. Maybe you're into kink and you just don't want to mention that to work friends, because you dislike discussing sex related things with work friends, and maybe you only want to tell them if they become a friend that goes to bars with you. Maybe you love drawing furry art, or getting furry art commissioned, and you love discussing it at conventions where you can meet other furries and tell artists how talented they are and buy some of their art, but you don't want to mention that to grandma and explain what furry is. You're ALLOWED to decide if and when you share a label you relate with. You are still a good person if you refuse to come out to your school as gay, or if you don't mention online that you're trans, or if you don't want to discuss trying for kids at work. My point is just: labels are for YOU to feel safer, to find connection with others who may relate to the label. They aren't necessarily things you have to be honest about, and perfectly sure about, to be moral. You're allowed to lie and omit to protect your safety. You're allowed to change your mind, or be unsure which label fits best.
#rant#the confidence you're seeking with labels... sometimes doesn't come until years of exploring yourself#...........................................................................................................................................#also the safety thing. people in general are allowed to lie for safety. idk what else to tell you#like if you're on 4chan and you're black or gay or trans you're allowed to just not mention that shit while you look for whatever you're#looking for. hell on tumblr it may be safer if ur a trans girl to not mention it to avoid the ceo#on the other hand you might choose to mention ur trans to find community with other trans people on tumblr#both are valid choices!#if you're super into unions ur allowed to not mention that shit to ur boss until you've already done the work of putting together a union#(at which point u cant really hide that ur in a union now)#if youre trying for a kid u cant hide the baby bump (probably) but u are allowed to control when you reveal the information to coworkers an
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still some of my fav nudes i’ve taken. should attempt an updated version at some point
they/he
#dae.pic#pro-tip: hide ur bits and ppl go feral#i’m not kidding#t4t nsft#trans nsft#tboy nsft#tboy tummy
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ngl younger ppl (heck even older people) that takes someone's age out to shame them for doing "cringy" stuffs (eg. self shipping, ect...) is way more cringe
#do we need a license now to do what we love or#this is why i dont put my age except for here#cause ppl can be VILEEEEE#anyway the same can be applied to you the moment ur 18 ur not allowed to play genshin anymore eff you#now ik theyre kids and i should give them more grace....#but idk shaming people and laughing at them and sending judgemental gif isnt it#i just chose to hide those comments and report but yknow#.rant
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@ cherry anon, my stupid illiterate ass LIED . i found your other ask safe and sound, I DID NOT THROW HER IN THE TRASH GOD BLESS‼️‼️
#ena saying anything#this is so embarrassing i'm hiding#remember kids: read clearly! 😭😭#and don't mindlessly scroll through ur inbox at 12 am while sleepy#or else it'll make things appear and disappear randomly
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love when 16 yr olds think they can fool me... girl i was ur age once😭i havent done it but ive seen my friends do it and helped them.... u are not smart by hiding ur cigarette PLEASE😭
#z xarre#the fact that since this week the dorm worker at the office is the one that literally doesnt notice SHIT they feel like they can just smoke#right out in front of the dorms. GIRL IM RIGHT THERE. im sorry i have to be a rule enforcer but maybe if you smoked like.#10 meters further away. then i wouldnt have to do this!!!!!!!!#AND even if ur not smoking i thought we had established that you cant just. pull out a cigarette out anytime u want#ur in a school zone its already illegal for you to smoke bc of that AND the fact ur a minor....... idc that a big majority of kids smoke#if youre gonna do it do it like other kids (hide it a bit oh my goddd). we already turn enough of a blind eye w smoking
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My 3 little cousins were baptized today. "Triggered" is kind of a strong word but being in a catholic church again... I'm a little fragile rn ngl.
#butch speaks#it was hard not to shake as i held J over the basin to have the water poured on his head#when he was cleansed of sin. as if a little kid could ever knowly or intentionally offend a so-called loving god#the words came naturally to me#but they meant nothing#i remember when they used to mean something. when i begged gods forgiveness for my sin (being a lesbian) and tried to pray the gay away#i remember how much i wanted to die bc i could never truly embrace the sacred#i STILL deal with the complex of catholic guilt. its a very real thing. its hard to shake#i cant help but wonder if the catholicism ingrained in my brain is why i have a hard time with casual dating n sex#fun fact: there was a point when i was a teen that i got REALLY catholic#i prayed everyday. i talked to my patrin saint (st agnes) every day. i wantsd to become a nun#the thought of marrying a man mad me more sad than feeling like an alien did. so id marry the church as a nun.#not the way to hide being a dyke when ur fam is catholic btw LMAO#the first priest i knew was father joe. i loved that guy. he was so kind. friendly. briming with love.#he was one of my biggest references for what a good person was like#he talked about gods love a lot. how its for everyone. no one is exluded. ever.#he used to look right at me when he said stuff like that. a few other kids too. all of whom grew up to be queer#then father joe passed away. our church merged with another church. father jeff was the priest there.#he was kind but not as kind. he talked about hell and sin more. he looked at the same kids father joe did.#but the kindness in his eyes wasnt there.#that wasnt for us.#my family wasnt even THAT catholic#i went to church every sunday i did vacation bible school and catechism classes and youth group#i was an altar servant and in the choir#i even used to speak/understand a little latin#imagine how much worse id have been if my mom could have afforded catholic school lmao#grateful to have grown up poor in that regard#hm. actually... reading my own tags. mayne we were pretty catholic actually.#fucking hell.#i need to have lesbian sex in a church before god and everyone. mayeb that would fix me.
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it is a truth universally acknowledged that if you raise your child catholic they will turn out fucked up and strange. there are many ways in which this end can be achieved but rest assured no matter what path your child follows in life they'll always be weird about god
#ur kid can be a tortured poet (like me) or an overly eager kid who announces that they have religious trauma to the class (a classmate)#heard that guy go 'haha yeah i went to catholic school so i have that trauma' in an awkward little way to the entire class#and i thought 'my guy. don't say it like that...' (cringed)#but you know what. then i remembered that i also turned out fucking weird. i just hide it slightly better in public situations#and i definitely also talked about having beef with god in my small group discussion that day dfjgshd#bracken getting a little wild in the eyes talking about how it was never adam and eve's fault because they only learned right + wrong#from the apple. and how could they have known what was right or wrong before that. to people he met a week ago#so you know what. solidarity with me and that guy. catholic-raised kids who turned out as fucking weirdos#valentine notes#catholic tag
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AND ANOTHER THING
#i miss u bc you are agonizingly precious#like. i told you that u were impossible not to cherish bc i was literally trying not to cherish you#bc you didnt like how ur friend thought she was ur mom. well you act like youre her kid!!#you dont want to be seen as a little sister but youre clingy and excitable and impossible not to love forever and always. ugh#see how a therapist is no help with this? bc i dont wanna move on. i want us to hide out in another dimension and play like bear cubs#and get in knife fights#and build a house#and touch the veil#i wish u were immortal and you could watch me die cuz i know u would love it<3 drama queen#gravel
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