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Good morning to the trans man loudly slamming his girlfriend in the bunk above convicted sex trafficker Ghislaine Maxwell, and ONLY the trans man loudly slamming his girlfriend in the bunk above convicted sex trafficker Ghislaine Maxwell

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the anti-public defender thing on twitter wasn't even an anti-public defender thing...? it was victims of rape and assault pointing out that going to court and having a defender shame them for the clothes they were wearing, try to poke holes in their trauma, etc. i know it's a game of telephone a lot of the times, but i think, even as prison abolitionists, if you see women going 'idk i thought the people who were desperately trying to prove i was a whore and a liar and who were using all the tools of rape culture to get my rapist off kinda suck', you have to hear them out a little

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i run a discord server for Black transfems, if you are interested, please say so in the tags, make sure ur dms are open 💙💙💙💙

nonblacks and/or tme's please rb so it reaches its target audience

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If I'm your tumblr crush send me "🍕" and tell me why.

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i went to "mad at me" island expecting to find people i knew, something i understood. but when my boat landed, standing upon the shore were a million empty husks wearing my own face. every foot of the island was occupied, and everywhere i went, they watched me with contempt. they never spoke, never breathed. they simply watched. no matter how i grovelled and begged, snarled and cursed, tried to hide or kicked and hit, they simply stared. the hatred in their gaze was inescapable, but i could hardly return it, knowing that their doomed existence was of my own creation. knowing that the hatred was nobody's but my own. in the end i just wept, unable to stand the relentless gaze of my own infinite glare.

the guy who i accidentally cut off in traffic last week was there also

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I really don't fuck with the idea of "cishet men being there is a sign of a healthy queer community" and the way it gets touted as a litmus test like "oh but cishet men being there is a good sign for all the closeted trans women." Like okay if you're trying to convince a bunch of trans women that your queer community is safe for them I really don't think you should, even implicitly, be saying "oh don't worry, our queer community is totally inclusive of trans women! That's why we've got cishet men here! Y'all are pretty much the same, right?"

Like, a closeted trans woman is probably going to feel more comfortable in a queer community if she sees a bunch of other trans women who are safe and comfortable, innit?

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if yaoi is so good then why aren't they women

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DON’T SKIP, PLEASE I BEG YOU.

Please, I beg you — if you're reading this, don’t look away. Every second matters.

Please, I am asking you from the depths of my heart — help save the children of Gaza. Every day, they are wasting away from hunger, their tiny bodies fighting a battle they cannot win without your support. My baby boy, Qais, is one of them. He is fragile, starving, and fading before my eyes. Your donation today could mean the difference between life and death for him and so many others.

This famine is man-made, and its impact on children is catastrophic:

1. The blockade has cut off food, clean water, and medical supplies, leaving families trapped in starvation.

2. Obstruction of humanitarian aid keeps life-saving assistance from reaching children like Qais who are in critical need.

3. Destruction of farmland and infrastructure has wiped out local food sources, making hunger inescapable.

Without urgent action, these conditions will continue to claim innocent lives — especially among the youngest.

I beg you, as a mother watching her baby slip away, do not let Qais’s life be another number in this silent massacre. His cries grow weaker each day, and I am running out of time to save him. Please, open your heart, donate whatever you can, and help us fight this hunger before it takes him — and countless others — forever.

PLEASE DONATE HERE

If Qais was your only child, would you leave him to face his fate alone?

DONATE HERE PLEASE

Don't skip, I beg you, ✋🚨 you're the only hope to save a child😔😭

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being anti ai is making me feel like in going insane. "you asked for thoughts about your characters backstory and i put it into chat gpt for ideas". studies have proven its making people dumber. "i asked ai to generate this meal plan". its causing water shortages where its data centers are built. "ill generate some pictures for the dnd campaign". its spreading misinformation. "meta, generate an image of this guy doing something stupid". its trained off stolen images, writing, video, audio. "i was talking with my snapchat ai-" theres no way to verify what its doing with the information it collects. "youtube is impletmenting ai based age verification". my work has an entire graphics media department and has still put ai generated motivational posters up everywhere. ai playlists. ai facial verification. google ai microsoft ai meta ai snapchat ai. everyone treats it as a novelty. every treats it as a mandatory part of life. am i the only one who sees it? am i paranoid? am i going insane? jesus fucking christ. if i have to hear one more "well at least-" "but it does-" "but you can-" im about to lose it. i shouldnt have to jump through hoops to avoid the evil machine. have you no principles? no goddamn spine? am i the weird one here?

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hey @staff why the hell did you ban a trans woman for saying that trans women belong in women's shelters?

@medusadyke was reported by terfs for saying that trans women need and deserve to be in women's spaces for their safety and wellbeing, and subsequently banned by staff.

trans women belong in women's shelters, bathrooms, dressing rooms, and i don't care if it makes some cis women uncomfortable. their safety takes greater precedence over your discomfort. terfs eat shit. it's 2025 and we still have to fight over basic shit like this.

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My new favorite hobby is weaponizing my Mom Friend status against my male coworkers, of which there are a surplus because I am A Woman in The Trades. It's hilarious to me. I have been the Mom Friend my entire life and working construction means I've expanded my territory from Mom Friend to Site Mom by virtue of always knowing where things are and also having pain meds and general life advice if you need any. Do you know what happens when you are so aggressively mom-shaped despite not even being 30? All the young guys I work with have subconsciously put me in the mom category of their brains. Do you know what that means? I live and work in the American South. These guys have been raised both socially and culturally to Respect All Mom Figures and I've snuck myself into that classification like a cuckoo in the nest. Like, listen, I can take it and dish it out with the best of them and I'm "one of the guys" 97% of the time, but I have my limits. If they're being dicks to each other and I'm tired of it all I gotta do is look really disapproving and scold them with some classic Mom-isms and it will stop them dead in their tracks. It's a total short circuit of their brains. Not one of these guys has withstood my telling them "manners are free and it costs nothing to be kind." Sometimes I just give them a look and say "Really?" in that tone of voice all moms use when they're completely fed up with you and it makes them straighten up in 10 seconds flat, guaranteed. It's psychological warfare of the highest order. One time I jokingly pulled out a "I'm so disappointed in you" after hearing this barely 18 year old tell some story about being obnoxious in an online game voice chat and it was very obviously a joke but somehow it rattled him so much AT WORK that he later told me he stopped doing it. It's a perfect storm of factors and literally all of them are in my favor. Should I care more about not enforcing gender stereotypes, especially in such a male-dominated field? Probably, but let's be real, the power has completely gone to my head.

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Anti public defender sentiment NOW of all times has GOT to be a psyop and I’m not being hyperbolic

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did a search for medusadyke to see what the fuck was going on and among the first results was a terf outright taking credit for her account being terminated. Over, of all things, a post expressing anger at women's shelters turning away women in need. Fucking disgusting.

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the only reliable, effective way of "protecting children" is education. but people don't want to hear that because they don't actually care about protecting children, they care about protecting a mythologised ideal of innocence

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I am Mohammed from Gaza and this is my story

Before the war, we lived in safety and comfort. I went to school and was interested in my studies. Thank God, I was always among the top students

Like any normal day, I was on my way to school to complete my studies and get closer to my dreams, and suddenly...

At exactly 6:30 in the morning, something happened that changed everything, destroyed our lives, demolished our homes, and snatched away our dreams💔.

It was war...😓

The war came and destroyed all our lives, we were displaced from our home and went to areas we never imagined we would reach and lived in tents winter and summer and carried hundreds of liters of water, whether salty or for drinking and we heard sounds that no human had ever heard before and in the absence of gas fire became our only way to cook if we had something to cook and everything in our lives became lines whether eating, drinking, moving, shaving everything that comes to your mind became suffering and extreme difficulty nothing comes easily

These are some pictures from the war, and each picture carries a story, suffering, and pain that no one can bear. We have not adapted to this, but we are forced to do so. Therefore, I ask you to donate to me and support me to escape from this endless predicament. You can donate through chuffed.👇🏻

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love when my friends take cool pictures of me