#having a moment of vulnerability online ngl

[heteroeroticsubtext]

It is tiny and sweet and adorable. It looked healthy and well fed with soft, shiny fur and lots of energy for chasing leaves after it had warmed up a bit in my arms, so it almost certainly has a family. It walked with me most of the way home but stopped at a ground floor apartment where it probably lives

We probably shouldn't get a cat because we live in an apartment and don't have very much money and also have birds, but we have wanted one for a very long time, and we have a room we could move the birds to, so they wouldn't have contact.

I'm lying awake in bed thinking about this cat with tears in my eyes, and my heart physically hurts because I miss it so so much

[galindatopland]

YEAH i've always (or at least from pretty early on) viewed lottie as someone experiencing both mental illness and the supernatural. but my GOD i did not even think of how lottie being unknowingly drugged and then doing all of that was probably SO terrifying and jarring for her particularly like. yeah. we see lottie's character shift post-doomcoming and while there are a handful of reasons for that (i think season 1 had her as more of a mystery than a character at times, whereas s2 is doing a lot of actual character work with her, and then jackie's death was also a major part of things as it shook up the group dynamics quite a bit), it's also very much got to do with the whole doomcoming experience and what that meant specifically to lottie. and i never really tied that into the whole... this character who was on medication was forced to quit cold turkey is now unknowingly drugged like. yeah. i also have a lot of complicated thoughts on the handling of mental health in the show particularly in relation to lottie and taissa, and i'm a) not sure i could put them into words in a way that really sorts them out fully or makes sense? and b) i am still not sure exactly where the show is going with either character so i am holding out some judgements and opinions. and it's a bit difficult at times to talk about lottie's mental health without diving into those not-yet fully formed opinions of mine lol but. yeah. and GOD there's that one amazing tabithatwo post that mentions how lottie is doing things that might help but can't hurt and just. yeah. using the techniques she's learned in therapy that made her feel a little better like... lottie my beloved. she wants to help people sooo bad and there's this underlying fear to all of it that they might get hurt if she interprets things wrong. and the horror and guilt she feels when inevitably in the terrifying, awful situation, things do go wrong and she feels responsible even 25 years later when she was just as uncertain as the rest of those girls, grasping for familiar things that might make everyone feel a little bit better. -cannibal laura lee anon

MMMM YEAH i agree especially with what you said about s1. i definitely think lottie was more of a mystery in s1 than a fully fleshed out character but so far they're doing really interesting character work with her in s2 and so i really do want to look at s1 with fresh eyes and view her behavior in this new light and it breaks my heart on daily basis ngl. i won't disclose my particular mental health issues because not all of it i want to discuss online lmao but with lottie at least - with how it's handled so far - i don't have huge issues with what they're doing. like even if they decide all she's experienced is actually paranormal that doesn't really change much for me in how i view her character and what i find personally relatable. with taissa tho i do have so many mixed feelings actually! it's why i very much do hope that to some extent it's a possession. i just don't vibe with any sort of evil alter ego slash split personality thing. i don't really quite know how to make sense of taissa in my mind because of this so i sort of enjoy this idea that it's both? as in. she's dissociating and sleepwalking and she's vulnerable in those moments to something paranormal. well that's my take for now, we'll see how it evolves with every next ep

[fbfh]

magnus chase relationship and intimacy hcs

I genuinely found zero magnus hcs and it made me really sad

Also might not be as in character as my hoo posts cause I haven’t finished the series my library is closed don’t come for me-

As with all steamy/nsfw works, all characters are aged up to 18+

Warnings: moderate descriptions of ptsd symptoms and emotional recovery,, also like boinking and dicks obvs

1.6k words uwu

‘,:)

So he absolutely definitely has ptsd 

I don’t remember norse demigods being mentioned as having adhd and dyslexia so correct me if I’m wrong lol

I mean his mom was brutally murdered, he was fucking homeless, then he was killed and taken to valhalla

So yeah

Ptsd

He’s really defensive and jumpy at physical contact for a while

But he’s also incredibly touch starved

He’s super whipped for you

So it makes him really frustrated when he wants to be affectionate and vulnerable with you but he just,,, can’t

He has a lot of emotional walls up too for obvious reasons

You have to have really clear communication with him 

Which you do,, and he appreciates it a lot

You baby step into affection and intimacy

And let him take the lead a lot

It takes a while

But after a bit he gets these bursts of affection where he’ll cuddle and make out with you for like

Five minutes or less

Then it starts to feel weird again

You try to do small stuff like hand holding or blowing him a kiss or putting your head on his shoulder to help melt that ice

And it works

It goes from feeling weird, to weird but nice, to nice but kind of weird, to nice enough to ignore the weird part

As soon as he can be,,, he is an affectionate fiend

He likes to bear hug you a lot

He keeps a hand on your cheek or jaw line or the back of your neck when you kiss a lot

He still gets a little weird about his back or stomach or neck being touched which you totally understand 

So you kiss his shoulders and collarbones and run your hands over his chest and arms a lot

Once he had a really bad dream and couldn’t sleep cause he didn’t feel safe bc

~‧₊˚; *‧.₊˚ flashbacks fucking suuuuuuck ~‧₊˚; *‧.₊˚

So you played some home renovation show and spooned him and whispered

“It’s okay, I’ve got your back”

He didn’t have anymore nightmares that night

He really likes back hugs after that, as long as he knows it’s you behind him

He gives really nice kisses

It’s like a big full kiss

Idk how else to describe it but it’s very unique to him

He’s super protective over you still in a healthy way

He’s super fuckin pansexual and you can pry that from my cold dead hands

So he has a lot of hoodies and denim jackets

And bracelet stacks and weird dad thrift store shirts

And you can get him more of these things no matter how many he has and he will love it an equal amount 

Which is a lot

He gets kind of insecure and feels bad about all his weird symptoms bc he minimizes what he’s been through a lot

It’s kind of a why can’t I just get over it and be normal feeling

You remind him a lot that it’s okay and his feelings and experiences are valid and he’s safe now

He needs to hear that a lot

Once a lot of that ice has been broken he gets really touchy really fast

You two were just like

Chilling on the couch watching a movie or something

And he nuzzles into your side to cuddle

So you lay down a little more and he rests his head on your chest

You keep watching the movie like that for a while 

He props himself up and just kind of looks at you for a minute

He can’t remember feeling this warm before he met you

And now he feels really really warm 

And tingly

You’re about to look over and ask if he’s alright when he just 

Presses his face into your neck and starts kissing you

You let out this breathy flustred little laugh he’s never heard before and he wants to make you make that sound again

He kisses up to your face and his hair is all in his eyes

So you brush it out of the way and tuck it behind his ear and his face nuzzles into your hand

He bites back a moan

You end up making out a lot

Which leads to,, other things

You don’t question it or ask where that came from

You just give him a lot of love and reassurance

Once he feels comfortable,,,, I hope you’re ready bitch

Cause you’ll be under him

And on top of him

A lot

Like a lot lot

He doesn’t have a lot of experience so he likes it when you take the lead

Big fan of showering together

I almost fucking forgot

He thinks you look hot in everthing obvs

But if you wear his boxers 

He goes apeshit

If you wear bras he likes the unlined sheer ones best on you

He also thinks you look really nice in boyshorts and cheekies

Esp the invisible microfiber ones

He likes how soft they are and how they just kind of seamlessly glide over your hips

If you play with his hair he practically starts purring

If you tug it really gently he moans

Just thought you should know that

Things get really intense in a good way with him

He gets very caught up in the heat of the moment

Has broken the bed before

And would do it again

Blitz and hearth almost walked in on you two cause they heard a loud crack and thought someone broke in

It was a very very close call

You laughed about it a lot later

He also likes things to be really soft and fluffy

So sleepy morning sex is definitely in his vocabulary

When he gets more comfortable he loves when you rest your head on his tummy and he can play with your hair and touch your shoulders

He also likes when you have your hand resting on his lower back

He finds it really grounding

Gives a lot of back hugs

Sometimes his head is resting on your head or shoulders

Sometimes he’s sucking on your neck

Just kinda depends yk

Really really likes it when you straddle him

Esp when you play with the hem of his clothes

You really really like to straddle him too

It’s a nice seat if you get what I’m sayin

Kind of wants to have shower sex with you but is also really scared of slipping and getting hurt

Settles for romantic bubble baths instead

Kind of stubbly, esp in the morning

It’s really cute

But kind of ouchie on more,,, sensitive areas

He’s usually fine staying a little stubbly, unless he’s planning to surprise you

You get a little excited when you see him shaving extra carefully

He sees you staring and just kind of looks you up and down and winks

Alksdjafskfja 

He likes having his hair longer

So do you

So you show him different ways to do little buns and stuff to keep it out of his face and stop it from getting tangled when he sleeps

Ngl you haven’t lived until you’ve seen magnus hard in his boxers kneeling over you hastily throwing up his hair so you can have some fun

That image is thankfully burned into your retinas for all eternity 

You get palpitations thinking about it

You’re the only one allowed to play with his hair or call him maggie/mags

He sometimes borrows your scrunchies and it’s really really cute

You end up with this little routine of swapping them when they stop smelling like the other person

If you don’t wear scrunchies you get him some and he thinks it’s adorable

You also steal them and swap them out when they don’t smell like him anymore

He loves having picnics outside with you

Especially to go stargazing

Yeah rooftop picnics are a thing

Plus people can’t really see what you’re doing and no one really goes up there so uh

As long as you can stay quiet you’re never bored

Sometimes when you’re stargazing his hand will just kind of gradually go from resting on your hip to wrapping his arms around you and having you lean against his chest

You sometimes raid the fridge together in the middle of the night

You took him to mcdonalds at like 2am once

It was not the last time that happened

Totally the type to love getting matching pj bottoms with you

Really loves it when you hold his hand with both of yours

It makes him feel really loved and masculine in a good healthy way and generally good

On days when he just Needs a Distraction you try any hobby or activity you can get your hands on

His favorites so far are painting each others nails, random online flash games like papa’s, finding the best climbing trees (weather permitting), and binge watching and reviewing the weirdest shows and movies you can find

Including but not limited to flava of love, josie and the pussycats in outer space, lightning point, and clone high

The movies are usually really low budget, or questionable teen romance movies like twilight, sierra burgess is a loser, the kissing booth etc. 

You still quote clone high to this day

He’s very excited for the reboot me too, magnus, me too

Doesn’t stop clowning on TJ bc of it

TJ has no fucking idea what he’s talking about 

“For the last time Magnus, I’m just named after him. I’m not a clone. I don’t know John Kennedy or Abraham Lincoln, and how could I possibly know Cleopatra??? Where are you getting this from, you understood this like a week ago-”

He really likes just kind of hugging you from behind and smooching wherever he can and swaying back and forth

Tells you he loves you a lot

Really really grateful you’re in his life

Does everything he possibly can to be the best boyfriend

Cause you deserve it

Did i mention he loves you a lot lot lot

Cause he really does

Treat him right, give him a lot of love 

He also blushes really easily shhh

[hiriajuu-suffering]

Yo, someone tell me why Froot is so freaking attractive irl

how her, Wolfychu, and Emirichu have deep insecurities about how they look is beyond me

Like, I'm a much bigger fan of ironmouse's generally in vshojo but I always looked at Froot's derivative persona (the parts of her vtuber character that are direct translations of her personality) and thought to myself this is probably the one out of them I'd be most interested in dating and she looks way too close to the image of the blank slate emo girlfriend from my dreams during my teenage years. Like, I'm one of the last people in the anime community to simp for a vtuber but sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh.

The fact a vshojo member had the courage to do this puts a little more faith in the organization to me after the whole NuxTaku fiasco happened. I've only been following ironmouse after that incident because she acted the most reasonably and she's unavoidable if you enjoy CDawgVA content, but every time I've popped into her streams on twitch, her mods have been toxic. Froot's definitely at least my second favorite now, especially because Projekt Melody's content has been regressing to me lately.

Sadly, being a South Asian man I have to assume she'd look at me like this

if she has the normative racial predispositions of a white female. As much as I hate touting the sexual racism thing, it's way too easy to tell the type. She's probably said more indicating she might be lgbtq+ than attracted to nonwhiteness.

What would take for me to simp hard? For her to be an advocate for polyamory, of course.

ngl, the girl I was getting down bad for whose behavior towards me made me really insecure leading into the worst parts of my depressive cycle exactly a decade ago pretty much gave off the exact same vibes at Froot. Granted, that girl was a red-head and used her gay best friend to block all vulnerability from her own internalized racism ... and also said she was in the process of breaking up with her high school boyfriend for a few months but just made me the other guy.

That immediate reach of empathy from that dark time in my life called me back to when I was shutting every advance out but secretly wanted someone to just tell me: the girl you thought was everything for so long, I can actually show you the benefits of finally parting ways with idealizing her. If someone back then trusted me enough to cling to me unconditionally, the hypothetical image of the ideal emo girlfriend I recurred would've been realized.

Froot, now looking at her online facade and her human face, makes me think back to that part of my naivety. Back when I thought commitment was a gender neutral concept and it was only evolutionary biology that made women demand it more than men, but now I know, at least generally, a man's threshold for what real commitment looks like is just much more righteously obscene.

I used to think an interracial relationship would be the only worthy use of my commitment from how pervasive moral convenience is. I wish I could still think that highly of myself. May I one day again feel human enough to have the courage to be a shithead, but being deprived of a fulfilled last 3 months of my senior year in high school really did fuck me up: as did every single person who abandoned me from that moment onward.

When it comes to Froot though, all I can show is

the superficial distance that comes with a single impression, in spite of the flood of emotion it brings me back to. Tough not to love a person's appearance when they remind you of a time in life the expectation wasn't constant disillusionment.

[potatopossums]

Insecurity and Boundaries: A Necessary Coexistence

Content Warning:

This post includes discussions / mentions of:

bodily insecurities, explicitly including dysmorphia, dysphoria, and implicitly including but not limited to eating disorders, weight

childhood trauma including shame, humiliation, fear

coping mechanisms, both healthy and unhealthy, including anxious avoidance, projection, masking, reflection

mentioned references to all of the above through lenses of morality, cis white feminism and sexualized body positivity

adhd

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Author's Note:

Written through the lens of adhd, anxiety, depression, queerness, transness, nonbinaryness, aromanticism, alterous attraction, and as always, questioning.

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Ngl I've had the opportunity to date/"be with" (in whatever capacity) several quite attractive ppl, and the last couple have been great examples of something that actually kind of triggers me / turns me off.

I didn't really know what to make of it then, and I felt bad about it then too because I thought I was just being judgy. Not saying some of that isn't potentially still there, but i think i understand better now.

It honestly kind of scares me when I have the opportunity to have close relationships with people with bodily dysphoria/dysmorphia or strong insecurities. My brain has a really bad habit of being reflective when I'm feeling vulnerable. I just match people. It's a way of masking while relating to people. It's a defense mechanism. But it feels quite real in the moment and i often don't realize it's happening until it has already happened.

But as a nonbinary person who gets misgendered a lot at work, I've spent a lot of time now very acutely aware of my own body (as if i wasn't already). I don't tend to hate my body in a vacuum. I actually enjoy my body. I like how it looks in certain clothes; I like how I can trick the eye and make it look another way with other clothes, and then surprise, it's a different body underneath! I like how my body feels when i masturbate, i like how my body feels in the warm sun, i like how my body feels when i self-soothe. Even when I'm in pain, in some of those moment, i like that my body exists because I know something is happening inside me, something systematic and programmed, something beyond me that does it's evolutionary purpose, no matter how flawed. I've always had a curiosity about bodies in general (gender and sex completely aside). So when i say i love my body, i mean that.

Does it mean i don't struggle with dysphoria? Of course i struggle. And it makes me feel like shit.

Sure, I've got that Cis White Feminist Self-Loathing Intervention Voice in my head that says "all bodies are beautiful" (and she really means all women are beautiful but I'll co-opt her lines to fit my agenda). That voice is problematic because like. I like being beautiful, but why do I want to be beautiful, and what happens when I'm not beautiful? How do I guage whether I'm beautiful at any given moment? Isn't that largely subjective even with an overarching cultural & social standard? When I feel "ugly" — my cowlicks sticking up, teeth unbrushed, i feel too short, i feel i look too childish, I'm afraid my boobs are showing in a way i don't want to be seen, etc. — who's to say that someone else doesn't find some of those things attractive? So attractiveness is a poor method of confidence, despite how influential it still is on my brain and personality. That influence is fear based.

All that in mind, when I hear other people struggling with their bodies, especially in a Trans/Non-Binary/Dysphoric way, it really scares me. I mean, any bodily struggles scare me because I have my own insecurities to deal with. And when I'm in that state of really wanting to keep a connection because abandonment trauma + adhd, my vulnerable brain says that in order to impress someone, I must reflect relatably. So that has me digging back into my bodily insecurities. And I explore them as if I should be feeling them.

Let me unpack that. I'm avoidant with my anxieties. I don't talk about them, and I don't think about them much if I can help it, because when I think about them, that result can be largely painful, dramatic, and too emotionally volatile for me to handle. I always want to look put together, I want to feel secure enough to not need to ask for help, because those few times it went badly when I asked for help still stick with me (regardless of how long ago those moments were, and regardless of how many good times I've had where received actual help since). I remember the embarrassment and humiliation, the shame, the fear, the guilt. I remember wanting to make myself smaller, and how crushing that felt to do. I remember how little I understood of these wild and complex emotions, and all I knew was that I felt violated and disgusting. And I turned that inward. Because I had no external support.

So me saying that I explore my anxieties "as if I should be feeling them" is multi-pronged. It's Cis White Feminist Body Positivity, it's all those family members who modeled and normalized self-hatred for me from a young age, it's bodily dysphoria/dysmorphia at being misgendered, it's me trying to convince myself that my body truly is okay and that my negative inner voice doesn't know what it's talking about due to it's poor influences, and it's me ultimately not being able to reconcile all that on my own (or fast enough, thanks adhd) and resorting to anxious avoidance of my insecurities as if that solves them.

And then, when I hear someone I might kind of want to be intimate with start to talk about their insecurities, my brain panics. It says, "If you go in there, you will lose it. You will fall into the same hole they're in. You will have to suffer just as much for them, and for yourself. You will lose all your energy and you will start to hate yourself. They will treat your body the way they treat their body. You will be made to hate yourself."

And even though I know plenty of people with dysphoria/dysmorphia and other bodily struggles absolutely won't do those sorts of things, I also know that projection is a thing. And considering how poor I am at boundaries and how I tend to adopt unhealthy relationship dynamics due to my avoidance, I know that it would just start a bad cycle for me. Even with all the empathy and understanding in the world, I simply cannot root myself in a situation that would cause me to loathe myself.

And again, in case this wasn't clear: this is absolutely not a statement about people with bodily confidence issues as a whole. I am not trying to villainize or demonize or moralize their experiences. That is markedly the opposite of what I intend here.

But it took a long time for me to get to this point in my self-awareness. And i wanted to share it because i want other people to be able to reach an understanding of themselves too, whatever that understanding might entail. Yeah, it's a little cliche, but our projections and fears about others can have a lot to do with our fears about ourselves. It's important to be self-aware, even if that doesn't immediately solve the problem(s).

I tend to really like confident people because of this. That attraction has it's own roots in confidence issues, and its own potential flaws. And until I can change my own avoidant anxiety, I'm going to find new ways to project my avoidance and shame onto others, regardless of whether they are confident or unconfident, dysphoric or not.

But, just because I'm projecting doesn't mean that I'm unworthy of boundaries. Even if my behaviors are unhealthy, even if I do need to work to change those things (and even though I actively want to change those things), it is still healthy for me to know my limits. It's healthy to know what triggers me. It's good for me to realize these things and step back, even if the relationship I'm leaving/not starting is arguably "good." (And that assumption is a whole other topic for another post.)

So, along with whatever other epiphanies you might have received from this read, here's my major takeaway that I want to leave you with:

Your boundaries are okay. Even if they're based in anxiety, even if they're based in unhealthy coping mechanisms, even if you want to change your unhealthy behaviors/mindset. Your boundaries do not need to pass any social justice or morality tests in order to be valid. Your boundaries do not have to "make you grow." Your boundaries are not bad, even if you feel like they keep you from being the best version of yourself.

The only way you can actually grow is if you respect yourself enough to respect and enforce your boundaries. The only way you can feel comfortable and happy and healthy is if you respect your boundaries.

So please do that for yourself. Please respect your boundaries. I know it's very hard, especially for people-pleasers. I know it's hard for you avoidant types. I know it's hard for those of us who mask and reflect.

But please, just a little bit at a time, respect yourself. Even if that means disappointing or hurting others with a "no."

And please, please, please surround yourself with people who respect your boundaries and stand up for you. Of all the work I've tried to do alone, nothing compares to the effectiveness and growth I've experienced when I've been around radically affirming people — people who fought for my right to say no; people who defended my boundaries no matter what they entailed; people who stood up for my pronouns at work; people who validated my life experiences, labels, queerness, and questioning. It can be difficult to find people like that in real life, but please stay in the company of people who do that for you. Even if they're online. Stay near people who model self-respect for you. They will help you practice how to treat yourself.

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[moons-and-stars-and-shit]

hello! if it's no trouble, could i request a 🍰 please?

i'm 5,4ft, pretty chubby, a demiboy (he/him), and i look like a mix of 90's grunge and early 2000's emo. i have short, wavy, dyed black hair (my actual hair is blond) that make my light turqoise-ish eyes stand out, i have rather full, naturally red lips and i have really pale skin. people tell me i look like Snow White a lot- i present myself as extremely confident, sassy, maybe slightly arrogant, sarcastic and prideful. imagine a mixture of tsukishima and oikawa, with a little more outward self-hatred. i act like i think i'm the best, when i really feel intimidated by everyone around me, and i don't particularly like myself. i do a lot of dumb stuff just for fun, like playing tag while ice skating, and i love making people laugh. i tend to use "internet language" a lot (like "it's the ... for me" or "i pretend i do not see"), i like to tease, occasionally being petty and whiny and i have chaotic vibes. however, i do have a strong need to defend people when they are treated unfairly. i can appear rather uncaring or blunt, but it's not intentional. i have a lot of trouble opening up and trusting others, and i hate needing help, because it makes me feel inferior. i don't know how to express my feelings, usually my face just looks blank, and many people assume that i just don't want to talk or show my feelings, which is not really true. i do want to speak about how i feel, or defend myself when people yell at me, and i have so much to say, but my mouth just won't open. generally, my emotions are kinda a touchy subject- i bottle them up, and think of them as nobody's business but mine, so that i don't appear vulnerable to others. yet i still cry a lot, even over small things, such as saying the wrong thing and maybe hurting someone's feelings (not that i would ever let anyone know). i have high expectations of myself, that are impossible to reach, and i continuously beat myself up over mistakes i made 2 years ago. sometimes my "bad boy" persona breaks though, like when i get all smiley, hyperactive and excited when i'm happy, or when someone compliments me, and i get shy and flustered. i'm actually pretty soft, and i love hugs and pastel colours, or being read to while cuddling, but i'm a bit too prideful and too scared of being rejected to initiate or ask for it.

ahhh, this was really long and all over the place, so so sorry, hope it's still okay tho T-T

Omg this one was very cool to write for! Don’t be sorry honestly all this info really helped in my matching!

🍰 for @apathetic-enby

Romantic Matchup...

Oikawa Torū 👽

God you two just UNDERSTAND eachother

Honestly you two feel the same way about a lot of things

From the high expectations to the need to put on an act like-

I swear your conversations are probably the best

Cause you guys understand each other so we’ll and you can be there for each other in a way that NO ONE else could

However if you start to talk bad about yourself that’s when he’ll have to disagree with you

He just loves you so much! And doesn’t want you to beat yourself up over nothing

N e ways moving on from the deep stuff

When y’all are together you just light up the room!

You definitely bring out a more chaotic side of Oikawa

And even though Iwa won’t admit it he’s glad that he can see his friend just be a teen for once

Not only do you both use that “internet language” while you text but y’all use it in basic conversations sometimes

Ngl people get so confused when you two are talking to each other

If you two see a person making someone cry OH BOY they better be prepared to cry themselves

What can I say you both have a strong sense of justice

He sees the person behind the blank face

But he adores when your “bad boy” persona breaks and he gets to see the bubbly version of you

He just finds it so cute!

And if your ever vulnerable around him

Mans is HONERD

He wants you to know you can tell him anything so he will try his best to make you feel comfortable

Tell him you want cuddles!! I promise he won’t reject you!

I got a feeling one of his love languages is physical touch sooo 😗

10/10 A stable strong relationship

Friendship Matchup...

Kenma Kozume 👾

He is the friend you can come to for ANYTHING

Like he’s so reliable

Whether you just need someone to talk to or you need someone to distract you from your inner turmoil

Also similar to Oikawa he definitely understand how you feel with a lot of things

Which once again makes him a very easy person to talk to

He knows that there very little he can do to make you feel better on certain things

So he just lets you know that your not alone and he’s here for you

Oh god this man is the KING of internet language

But unlike Oikawa you use it for texts and online chats only

He really loves your style and has asked you to give him a makeover on multiple occasions

Will usually stand on the sidelines whenever your doing something crazy

But there have been occasional moments where he joins you in your chaos

Kuroo couldn’t be more proud 🥲

Overall a great friend 5 stars would recommend