#hate her ex best friends

[gardensinner]

My internal dialogue when watching Maid on netflix: kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him kill him

[bandana-enthusiast]

k tanaka is something that can be SO personal.

it hurts to relate to them, it hurts to know that yeah your impulsive actions DO have an effect on others and NO you can't save everyone because not everyone NEEDS to be saved and NO you don't know better. so you try and change and help people but the pressure is just so much and you never really had coping mechanisms because you never thought to take on this kind of work, and you basically grew up on a screen, but no one told you it was all FAKE! so you're disillusioned with reality and trying to do everything while still keeping it fun for yourself and others, only to find out that your behavior is CONCERNING and UNHEALTHY, rather than the norm you believed it to be. and the fun way of keeping yourself happy and sane actually wasn't benefiting anyone, it was only making things more complex. so you're back with your friends you haven't seen in forever (one of whom is your ex) and they're worried about you immediately. and in a way it's almost patronizing because you feel like you've been doing good work, and you feel like this is your norm, and you wonder if this is how your ex felt when you worried about him and tried to fix him. it makes you wonder who's really wrong, if anyone. so you get to do your little magical quest and it's the happiest you've been in FOREVER. you're back with your friends and your fixing magic and you get to lose yourself for just a while, but you shouldn't. things are bad and worse and you learn new things and you find a way to help, but people are worried about you again. except your ex, who thinks it's great that you're now a magic network router, and you don't know how to feel about that because you know what he's like, how "tragic" he is. you honestly wonder if he even likes you as a person after what you've done to him, what you've done to the group, what YOU put them through. and soon enough everything comes crashing down. you can't act like you're the hero, the main character, the badass who's up against the world and winning, because you're not. you don't know the first thing about an uprising because you're not living in reality. you don't know how to do these things, how to navigate life, it's just easier to get lost in the whimsy and the fight and the intensity. like how it's easier to watch a movie than read a book. how the music and the explosions and the action keeps you enthralled, how it makes you feel worthwhile. and yet, you aren't. your ex even says he doesn't know what to do after these adventures, but you're worse off. you get a simple "nice try, but not quite right" and you go back to it. you realize you do want to be surrounded by your friends, but the temptation of being a legend will never stop pulling at the back of your mind, so you're stuck. you do what you can. you live in mediocrity, in small moments, you fight where you can, and you help. you think sacrifice would be easier than solace. martyrdom over mundanity. but you keep trying, because you have to. because no one's with you if you don't.

[anxietycheesecake]

Urgh as someone on both ace and aro spectrum seeing my identity being used to justifying the no-homoing off a canonically gay and bi characters is so shitty. It's not fucking acearo rep. I left wwdits fandom post S5 as the show lost the spark for me eps being hit and miss and how the show treated Nadja. And I'm honestly I'm glad I left seeing people be so rude to you for calling what it is queerbaiting has been so disappointing. Is criticism of shows we like not allowed anymore? And yes it can still being baiting even with queer characters this shouldn't be hard to comprehend. Guess it's both queerbaiting and ship baiting. Also this is last season even if they pull korrasami and get together at the last EP it's not good rep?? It's fun and silly show but shouldn't be on pedestal of queer rep when it isn't and we shouldn't have to settle for scraps.

I can't wait to see how they're going to twist this ask into you being aphobic lmao. It means a lot to hear I'm not crazy, btw. Luckily, all people blocking me are folks I've never interacted with and my most respected followed blogs have agreed with me, so I can't be that mad.

Also, gotta laugh at the aphobic accusations, because I deadass take part in anti-aphobia orgs and initiatives irl all the time, I've fought tooth and nail to have aroace people where I live validated and most of all respected (since corrective rape is a common experience, sadly), the main character of my novel is an asexual actress who struggles with the over-sexualization of her persona and it's been praised by the community, but some folks on the no grass-touching allowed website don't like my opinion on how two CANONICALLY ALLO CHARACTERS' relationship was handled, so I guess I hate aroace people now lol

[okawarihappylife]

i am once again thinking abt the lost potential that is hypmic.

[rogloptimist]

demi/puck at wc but like. specter of lotte right

[trevination]

i haven’t even figured out if i should text my ex back or not 😭 wtf do i say to “how goes it :3” when we were dead silent for months after we broke up and i don’t wanna be friends?? like???

[robertphilip]

I feel like Robert and Giselle hardly, if ever, argue but if they do, they’re definitely the type of people who refuse go to bed angry at each other. They refuse to fall asleep until whatever problems they’re having are 100% resolved because they both really hate fighting, and the thought of going to bed angry just doesn’t feel right.

I also think they’re still really affectionate with each other, even if they’re maybe giving each other the silent treatment. Giselle will still slip her hand into his, and link their fingers together, despite the fact that he’s driven her crazy. Robert will still rest his palm on her lower back, and kiss her temple, even if she’s given him a headache. The love simply never goes away, even when they’re refusing to speak to one another.

and I also feel like the way they approach ending the silent treatment is different. Giselle is definitely better with her words, and I think she’ll just flat out say, “I’m ready to talk to you now.” But Robert, he’s an action man. I think he’ll excuse himself and make a bowl of ice cream, but purposely pick her favorite flavor, and cover it with her favorite sprinkles, and maybe some strawberry syrup. He’ll then return, take maybe one or two bites, then say, “Do you want the rest?” and Giselle, maybe she’s still not talking to him, but she nods, and slowly takes it anyway. She then sees it’s her all her favorites, maybe melts a little bit, and they finally start talking through whatever issues they’re having.

[koreanthrillerenjoyer]

I drank to much energy drinks the day before exams so now it’s 6am and I haven’t fucking slept a minute,

And the prob worst part is it’s making me think to hard on my friendship with my best friend and it’s making me sad and angry and I don’t want that.

Also Im totaly gonna fail my exams

Srsly tho I love her but it sometimes feels like she forgot about me, we go to different colleges now and we barely see eachother ( haven’t seen her in prob 3 months) and yes that’s okay and fine cuz we chat and call a lot but her phone got lost on a train like a month ago and she has barely talked to me since and fuck my abandonment issues are acting tf up and I am crying and I hate this sm

Sorry for the rant I just don’t know where to with this rn

[morutecutie]

“obsessed ex gf or girl best friend?” the gun.

[welcomefortune]

Eloise you are the biggest fucking lesbian I've ever seen in my life

[oypli]

It’s weird to think about my best friend who isn’t my best friend anymore. I feel weird thinking about whether she thinks of me as much as I think of her. I wonder if she wishes things turned out differently, if things didn’t end up the way they did. I think about if she had taken her meds yet, if she had lunch, what she had for lunch… Sometimes I wish I knew that the last time I hugged her was truly the last time I’ll hug her.

[dgaftilwedie]

does anyone else start legitimately tweaking when someone you hate likes something you love

[haybabe09]

I can say I’ll move on, but does anyone really? It’s been a year now, but the pain hits just as well. I had lived on broken promises for so long.  Now that I’ve been taken off of life support, I don’t know how to be.  All I remember is your lies.  All I know is your smile. And I will never have either again. I’ll watch life pass me by,  And watch yours through photos. Finally, when everything seems okay, I tear out the stitches and start fresh again. I enjoy the painful torment, in a way. It’s the only way I get to see you now.   I really shouldn’t be surprised.  A year past forever, and I’m still bleeding out. When will it end? When can I forget? Should I?

-h.j. comet

[girlivealwaysbean]

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[attractthecrows]

brooo i hate having Dreams That Piss You Off i woke up all pissed off at NOTHIIINNNNNGGGGG

[butchnavi]

aaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH