#gothisnotkillstar

[thatonebabybat]

Hey btw idk who lied to some of yall but just to be totally clear you absolutely do not need to be pale or do pale makeup to be goth. You also don't need to be thin or young. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is just some bigot and they're not part of my subculture.

You don't need clear skin. You don't need to be white. You don't need to be pale. You don't need to fade your freckles. You don't need an hourglass figure. You don't need expensive clothing. You don't need to hide your wrinkles. You don't need to lose weight. You don't need to conform to some set of gender roles. You don't need to be able-bodied. You don't need to dress up all macabre and elaborate every single day and put tons of effort into your appearance or wear anything that causes you discomfort.

You don't need to act a certain way, you don't need to look a certain way.

Just listen to the music and follow your heart from there and you're in the club, it really is that simple.

[ghostgothemma]

Hello my freaky darlings! Tis I your fairy goth mother back again with new nails. This time with it being mismatched nails for the change. I used products that I bought and paid for myself. I am just letting you know the things that I love. Enjoy! =^_^=

I used :

Glamermaid nails ~ @glamermaid @glamermaid.official

Sularpek Nail glue ~ @amazon @amazonuk @amazonprime

Nail file 100 grit ~ @amazonprime @amazonuk @amazon

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[bauhausez]

not good for my vampire ass

[thetokengoth]

So about #gothisnotkillstar

Hey guys...

I realize that the #gothisnotkillstar debate is over, but I have something I wanna say.

I can’t speak for everyone, but in my irl-experience, building a goth wardrobe is about slow accumulation.

Usually, you get into goth when you’re in your teens. Teens usually don’t have a lot of money.

Back when I started getting into it, I had maybe two outfits that were kinda goth, and even then, they were my mom’s old cardigans and grey jeans. I wasn’t exactly pulling a BlackFriday. 

(Look at this emo)

I’m 27 right now, and back in school, so I can’t say that adding to my closet is my biggest priority at the moment.

Also, I don’t need to. Because back when I had money, I bought all the gothic goodies I could get my hands on! Right at this moment, I have shoes I haven’t even used yet! And yes, I have stuff from Killstar.

(I also have stuff from Alchemy Gothic and Stargazer, but no one seems too upset about those brands)

And I have hand-me-downs from friends and family that I have owned since I was 15. Because that’s how it works sometimes! You can’t throw all your colorful clothes away without having new ones to wear!

Anyone who expects you to emerge from your room, fully gothed up the week after you realized The Sisters of Mercy make you feel Like That, is delusional!

Killstar (and some youtubers) were taking heat for presenting the idea that you have to have this and this thing from the collection to be goth. I understand that some of you may have felt pressure to not show yourselves until you looked like a model from the site, or maybe gave up on the idea of changing your style entirely.

But Goth isn’t one brand. If you like what Killstar is producing, by all means, go ahead!

But this is bigger than an online store. This is you figuring yourself out!

It’s flirting with gothabilly one summer, and then realize that no, you’re actually more into deathrock. Or screw that, you actually wanna go for cyber-goth!

Personally, I’ve gone from emo to semi-victorian to what I now call retired-new-wave-bassist. And I’m not gonna lie to you. Having a lot of money to spend feels amazing. Being able to buy new shoes at any moment, or new bags you don’t really need is fun!

But if you’re broke or should spend your money on food or meds, you need to know that in the end, it shouldn’t matter if you’re decked out in Killstar or thrift shop clothes, or blue jeans! (fuck anyone who gives you grief for that, btw).

You found something that resounds with you and that’s awesome. Take your time and figure out what works for you!

[gothmedia]

Youtube Drama

Okay, everyone’s freaking out over the drama going on youtube, but everyone’s just speaking over each other and completely missing any of the points being made. So, since a little clarity is always appreciated, we’re going to go through each point people are making, their misconceptions, and how they effect the subculture at large. 1. I’m too poor to be goth?    A bunch of babybats have come put of the woodwork as of late saying they can’t afford to be goth. By this they tend to mean, they can’t afford to buy name brands such as Killstar or Punk Rave. They can’t afford to put together extravagant outfits and dress that way every single day. They can’t afford limited edition vintage Bauhaus vinyls or regal black velvet thrones to adorn their bedrooms. But do they really need all that? No. You just have to have an appreciation for the subculture and music. That’s it. You don’t need to buy an entire wardrobe worth more than a car. But this sentiment only goes so far. The older goths can’t reach the ears of the new comers as much and so the worry sets in. Heck, I still worry sometimes if I look “goth enough”. But I’ve been in the subculture for over a decade now and I realize that no matter what anyone says online, I’m still going to enjoy Sisters of Mercy and I’m still going to go to events and try to support the local scene. So what if I don’t have expensive clothes? I’m going to enjoy myself anyway. The subculture doesn’t revolve around Killstar’s marketing and that’s one of the reasons “#gothisnotkillstar” came about. (More on that later in the week!) You don’t need Killstar to be goth. You don’t need Punk Rave to be goth. You don’t need Demonia or Tripp or any of these expensive, fancy outfits to be part of a subculture. You are enough. Sure, seeing others post about their wonderfully spooky lives with their wonderfully spooky possessions on Instagram and Youtube is neat, but you have to remember that NO ONE is that way all day every day. Social media is something people curate and have control over. They’re only showing what they want you to see, but they too have to take a break and become a normal person once the camera is off. 2. DIY or Die.    On the other side of things (Though this argument is more rare than the latter), you get people who are completely rejecting the consumerist approach to goth and are telling people that they need to only ever DIY all their clothes and goth completely rejects a fashion orientation at all. Which is also garbage. Yes, Goth is a music based subculture but it did have a strong style influence right from the get-go. Did it always look the way it does now? No, the style evolved over time into it’s own, highly identifiable self. Do you have to look like this 24/7? No, that’s ridiculous. Like hell I’m going to get dressed in a studded vest and custom chain belt to walk a block to the corner store to pick up Tums when my stomach hurts. I don’t even wash my hair to do that. For such a strong stance against name brand fashion, this group sure likes dictating what people should wear, saying DIY or die. I admit, DIY is pretty fun once you learn how to do it and you do truly get unique clothing and accessories out of it, but it does take time and skill. For a lot of the more intensive projects you need to learn how to sew, dye, paint... Sometimes attempts don’t work out like the time I tried to turn black boots red with a spray-on rubber that ended up cracking off. Sometimes materials like lace or studs or chains are expensive, sometimes you can’t find anything good to work with in thrift stores, and sometimes you’re just really bad at sewing. Not everyone has what it takes to DIY. That, however, shouldn’t turn people away from it. DIY is something that takes time to learn, but the process of doing it is really fun! It’s fun creating new and interesting looks, figuring out how to mess with something to make it your own and you end up with a one-of-a-kind piece all your own. But it’s not necessary. You don’t have to have a completely custom wardrobe just like you don’t have to have Killstar.

3. What any of this has to do with Youtube.    So, what does this have to do with Youtube? Well, think of the most popular goth youtubers. You think of two. They’re pretty and very fancy and do a lot of haul videos with brands like Killstar. Is that a bad thing? Yes and no.They are their own people and these are their channels. They can make videos on whatever they want to and no one really has a say in that. Also, if an expensive clothing company sent me a box of free stuff and said, “You can keep this if you make a video,” I’d probably make a video. Everyone likes free stuff. It’s helpful to see some of these brands on actual people, too. I like the fact that neither of these people are a size small. Almost all marketing for brands such as Punk Rave and Killstar are on extra small models and that just isn’t everyone. I want to see how the dress will look on someone who isn’t model thin because I’m not model thin. If these brands advertised with models in a variety of sizes, shapes, skintones, and disabilities then maybe more people could see themselves in these outfits as well, but as it is they don’t and the only way anyone sees something that looks remotely like themselves will be these try-on hauls. But what happens when that’s the epitome of goth youtube? New-comers to the subculture will think that’s what goth in it’s entirety is. I’ve met a few new goths who are like this and were shocked when I said I didn’t own any Killstar. It creates a mind-frame that to be in the subculture you have to buy this one (frankly overpriced) brand and that’s it.    Is this the fault of BlackFriday and Toxic Tears? Sort-of?They’re considered influencers now. They INFLUENCE the younger generation of goths and they influence how people outside the subculture see goth. Sure, they’re popular, but they’re popular because they’re not only watched by goths but also people into fashion and mainstream viewers. They refuse to do anything outside of fashion to avoid fights about music and the “gothier than thou” crowd, but they fail to realize they’re creating these people themselves. There’s a handful of people in youtube comments who go on the pages of lesser known goth youtubers telling them they need to look extreme to be goth and they cite It’sBlackFriday and Toxic Tears as examples of how a goth should look. They also deride the people who delve deeper than the fashion as elitists, a word that’s simply getting out of hand now. If someone wants to talk about the subculture and it’s music you get tons of little gothlings telling them that they’re gatekeeping the subculture and that you don’t have to listen to goth music to be goth. Then they turn around and gatekeep on what name brand clothes others aren’t wearing which is frankly silly. The subculture is more than clothing and you have to dig a little deeper to find other goth youtubers with more than fashion and hauls on their channels. Speaking of hauls, that’s another point of contention. It’s not only that these name brands are all over youtube now, but that they’re being advertised by people in haul videos. In these videos, the youtuber gets sent a large package of free things from the company and is told that they can keep the items if they make a video on it. Good for them, but the viewers are the ones who will be spending money on these items. Yes, the youtubers say their reviews are non-biased, but they were just sent several EXTREMELY expensive pieces of clothing for free. The dress might be nice, but is it $300 nice? Specifically from Killstar, many of their clothing items are similar to those found elsewhere for much cheaper.   How does this get fixed on the web, then? A solution that makes everyone happy. For one thing, influencer youtubers could do a bit more than fashion. It’sBlackFriday used to do really funny skit videos with Mr. Owl back in the day and they are missed. Toxic Tears had two videos for “What not to say to goth girls” and I’d look forward to a third one. Funny videos about the subculture are sorely wanted because now-a-days we take ourselves WAY too seriously for people who look like rejects from Dracula. If they want to keep the fashion spin, they can talk about the history of the fashion as well. Where did all the circus and cabaret themed stuff from the mid 2000s go? I miss it. They can showcase designers and small businesses within the subculture, not just big name fast fashion companies. Places that make truly unique clothes, places that fit all sizes and shapes. They can point goths in the directions of other youtubers/podcasts/blogs that they might learn from. Simply teaching babybats about goth isn’t an elitist thing to do. The newcomers should WANT to learn more if they actually like the subculture. And overall, they need to space out the haul videos. Not only is it making the impression that one needs a five thousand dollar wardrobe on hand at all times to be goth, but it also makes for a really boring playlist. Toxic Tears has started doing some little DIY stuff which is pretty cute and hopefully It’sBlackFriday will do something or other. Perhaps vlogs about goth festivals? I know she’ll be attending one on the other side of the country soon so that should be interesting. This can be fixed, it just needs a little work and it needs us as viewers to stop having such a stick up the ass about what goth should look like. 4. It’s okay to shop at Walmart.    Or Target. Or any regular store at the mall. In fact, I suggest getting all your basics at super cheap places like these. You shouldn’t be breaking bank on a black t-shirt and jeans. You could also go thrifting. I recently found a blazer that I loved in a thrift store. (They also had a Shrine vest for $20! You never know what you might find.) But never feel bad because you got something from a “mainstream” store. Not only are they good for basics, sometimes you can find pieces to practice DIY on (I did this with a vest from Target.) or sometimes they sell something that just speaks to your aesthetic. (Black lace and fishnet were really in last fall season.) It’s okay if you have normal clothes and aren’t goth all day every day. I have a day job where I wear a yellow polo and kakis and sell churros. Am I less goth? No. Some may claim that not being decked out all the time will make me a weekender, but I’m still running this blog and try to contribute to the subculture. But I have bills to pay. I have a cat to feed. Sometimes you have to sacrifice a bit of freedom of expression just to get by and you can get back in black and fall asleep to Thoushaltnot on the way home on the bus. Just don’t worry about it. You don’t need to DIY everything you own. You don’t need to buy name brand boots. You don’t need to be Instagram ready 24/7. Just enjoy the subculture. And maybe look up some of those other youtubers. Angela Benedict has some great storytime videos on drama not partnering to Killstar.

[cadaverkelly]

PERSONAL FINANCE PSA

Please don’t put yourself into debt to buy name brand fashion. I know it may be tempting, but your survival and well-being are far more important. Take care of yourselves, everyone. 🖤

[mysticbrokegoth]

I designed this logo about a year or so ago and now it’s a shirt and a bunch of other things for @gatewaygothevents teespring store! I’m happy to at least be getting something of mine out there and it’ll be going towards some some stuff in our area. 🙂 . . . . #gatewaygothevents #goth #graphicdesign #stlarch #logo #spiderweb #gothgoth #gothisnotkillstar #gothevents #support https://www.instagram.com/p/B4d5j07H6S7/?igshid=1wzb5jpjtsyb2

[harleygrant]

There's a hashtag doing the rounds currently, and I have to say, I'm absolutely into it. #GothIsNotKillstar, or Punk Rave, or Demonia, or eyeliner, or pentagrams, or any kind of 'aesthetic' marker. I say this as someone who really likes these aesthetic markers (I'm wearing a Killstar choker and a Punk Rave dress here) but who fucking loves the Goth scene more. Your fashion choices are not important. No one cares about your makeup. We want you to turn up to gigs and clubs, and buy music, and hang out and enjoy yourself. That's it. Buy and wear whatever your dark little heart desires, but support your scene whenever you can. We really need it. 🖤 https://www.instagram.com/p/BubSQ-yH6gh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=9ev6jrt6uxqe

[altcospmodels-blog]

#Repost de @creature_nocturnal por @swiftsave_app ••• Granny Cardigan, but make it fashion 💁🏻‍♀️ #gothgoth #gothootd #gothoutfit #gothoutfits #grunge #grungefashion #gothfashion #stregafashion #witchyvibes #universitygoth #gothgirl #canadiangoth #gothsofinstagram #Goff #aesthetic #creaturenocturnalootd #gothgothgothgothgoth #angelicgoth #gothisnotkillstar #thriftedoutfit https://www.instagram.com/p/B4pYFzzBVv6/?igshid=178b9jw41l0xu

[bauhausez]

Siouxsie

[bauhausez]

Vampurr

[bauhausez]

"Stay wild moon child" is just "live laugh love" for hippies and witches

[bauhausez]

You dont have to be extreme to be goth

Goth is whatever you make of it!!! If u wanna wear cutesy stuff w ur style go ahead! If u wanna wear some colors do it!! If u dont wanna blackcomb ur hair or wear platforms, do it bud!! U dont have to like or know every goth band. Dont let the stinky elitists stop you from expressing urself. You are goth as long as u listen to the music, no amount of clothing or whatever is going to say otherwise. U are as goth as u want to, dont be ashamed for being urself. Rock on!!!!!

[bauhausez]

When will my reflection show...

Who I am inside? 🧛🏻‍♀️

[bauhausez]

[bauhausez]

P.S.A!!!!!

The "G" in LGBT stands for goth.