#go on a walk

[mouthstatickinard]

i think the world would be a better place if some of y’all thought about actors’ personal lives a lot less than you currently do

[jay72664]

Just one little walk

TW: Dazai is depressed coded.

“Not doing anything won’t make you feel any better.”

Dazai didn’t reply.

It was easier to lie in bed.

Easier to let the voices win.

Chuuya lets out a sigh, sitting on the edge of the bed.

“Come on, darling, we can go do something. Some fresh air will do you good.”

Chuuya was expecting Dazai to not say anything.

“Go away.”

He was wrong.

“I’m not going to leave you here to wallow in your own self pity. Like it or not I’m worried about you and want to help.” There was desperation in his voice, a desperate need to help the man he loved.

“I don’t need your help.” Dazai snaps, not rolling over to look at him.

“No, you don’t want my help, but you desperately need it.” Chuuya’s tone is sharp, but his fingers moving to thread through Dazai’s hair are gentle.

Dazai finally turns to face him, looking exhausted, his eyes void of any real emotions.

Chuuya’s heart broke.

“What if I just want to stay here?” Dazai asks quietly.

Chuuya let out a breath he didn’t know he was holding in. “It’s not healthy, Osamu, let’s just go on a walk, it doesn’t have to be long.”

Dazai closes his eyes. “And we can come back and cuddle?” He asks quietly.

Chuuya nods. “I promise.”

Dazai sits up. “I guess we can then.”

Chuuya presses a kiss to his forehead. “I love you.” He whispers into the skin there.

Chuuya’s lips press against his forehead.

Dazai finally opens his eyes again when he pulls away.

“I love you too.”

[theamazingmr-j]

https://www.tumblr.com/theamazingmr-j/780099851065212928/might-be-a-hot-take-considering-the-state-of-the?source=share

I don't know if you want a reply to that but I'll answer you

For example, personally, I was frustrated that there have already been such situations, and McLaren said that Lando should switch places with Oscar, and now they have a problem with it. If McLaren considers themselves the champions, they should race like that, meaning they should take P1 and the most points from these races. When I looked on X, people are angry that McLaren once again wasted P1 and didn't make better strategic decisions. I also have suspicions that if it were the other way around, Oscar would be the slower one, and McLaren would immediately switch their positions.🤷‍♀️ But overall, you're right, it's good that it didn't happen because I want them to fight on the track. However, there's no certainty whether McLaren would have acted differently if Lando were in Oscar's position

i do agree with this!! there absolutely is no certainty from mclaren that they would’ve done the same thing had lando been faster behind oscar. they’ve switched them in the past and who knows if they’d’ve switched them now. my thing is this is a hypothetical. and everybody seems to be getting mad over a hypothetical. which i dont understand. (i feel its important to note that im looking at previous seasons as separate entities. what happened then happened, and its a new year so it hopefully will not happen again)

i also truly think that a lot of this race was lost in qualifying. mclaren went safe with their strategy, which was a bit of an odd call, but we got a 2-3 so im not hella pressed about it. mostly i feel like lots of folks are jumping to conclusions about possible mclaren mindset. both the boys are fine so we should be fine.

i think everybody just needs to go outside and breath some fresh air. we can get angry about this IF the situation is swapped in the future and oscar is told to move aside. thats when we can get mad. but only IFFFFFF THAT HAPPENS

[thewandererh]

a few moments of peace

[onnahu]

I went on a walk because finally the first flowers are blooming. There may be only three kinds that eraly in spring but they are all beautiful. Go on a walk guys. It's great. I had a shit weak and my depression hit hard but it actually helped. I complemented every flower and every singing bird. It turns out magpies can actually sing pretty well. I told them that. Don't forget to complement your neighbourhood magpies and flowers. I'm sure they appreaciate that.

[nitetrait]

I don't usually insert myself into "drama" but uhhhh that's crazy work tbh

[forestdeity]

some of you act like skinny people are enemy #1

[bucksangel]

i would like to remind everyone that there are healthier and more productive things you can do with your time instead of spending your every waking moment hating someone and trying to make others hate them too

[hirudou]

            @paramythas asked:  Ja-aaaade  ,    i’m  really  not  an  outside  person  .  (/slides  you  a  yuu)

        "  ah.  that  explains  some  things.  "  he  clicks  his  tongue,  brows  knit  together  in  mock  concern.  the  prefect  was  so  small, pale...pathetic really.  "  maybe  you  should  reconsider  your  aversion  to  the  outdoors.  it  might  actually  do  you  some  good i think.  "  

unprompted / always accepting

[lilacthebooklover]

all of you are beautiful, wonderful people and there are so many things to keep living for. so many people who would miss you if you went away. it might feel like you're at an all-time low, but hey-- it'll only go up from here <3

hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

[shadesofmauve]

I want to step away from the art-vs-artist side of the Gaiman issue for a bit, and talk about, well, the rest of it. Because those emotions you're feeling would be the same without the art; the art just adds another layer.

Source: I worked with a guy who turned out to be heavily involved in an international, multi-state sex-slavery/trafficking ring.

He was really nice.

Yeah.

It hits like a dumptruck of shit. You don't feel stable in your world anymore. How could someone you interacted with, liked, also be a truly horrible person? How could your judgement be that bad? How can real people, not stylized cartoon bogeymen, be actually doing this shit?

You have to sit with the fact that you couldn't, or probably couldn't, have known. You should have no guilt as part of this horror — but guilt is almost certainly part of that mess you're feeling, because our brains do this associative thing, and somehow "I liked [the version of] the guy [that I knew]", or his creations, becomes "I made a horrible mistake and should feel guilty."

You didn't, loves, you didn't.

We're human, and we can only go by the information we have. And the information we have is only the smallest glimpse into someone else's life.

I didn't work closely with the guy I knew at work, but we chatted. He wasn't just nice; he was one of the only people outside my tiny department who seemed genuinely nice in a workplace that was rapidly becoming incredibly toxic. He loaned me a bike trainer. Occasionally he'd see me at the bus stop and give me a lift home.

Yup. I was a young woman in my twenties and rode in this guy's car. More than once.

When I tell this story that part usually makes people gasp. "You must feel so scared about what could have happened to you!" "You're so lucky nothing happened!"

No, that's not how it worked. I was never in danger. This guy targeted Korean women with little-to-no English who were coerced and powerless. A white, fluent, US citizen coworker wasn't a potential victim. I got to be a person, not prey.

Y'know that little warning bell that goes off, when you're around someone who might be a danger to you? That animal sense that says "Something is off here, watch out"?

Yeah, that doesn't ping if the preferred prey isn't around.

That's what rattled me the most about this. I liked to think of myself as willing to stand up for people with less power than me. I worked with Japanese exchange students in college and put myself bodily between them and creeps, and I sure as hell got that little alarm when some asian-schoolgirl fetishist schmoozed on them. But we were all there.

I had to learn that the alarm won't go off when the hunter isn't hunting. That it's not the solid indicator I might've thought it was. That sometimes this is what the privilege of not being prey does; it completely masks your ability to detect the horrors that are going on.

A lot of people point out that 'people like that' have amazing charisma and ability to lie and manipulate, and that's true. Anyone who's gotten away with this shit for decades is going to be way smoother than the pathetic little hangers-on I dealt with in university. But it's not just that. I seriously, deeply believe that he saw me as a person, and he did not extend personhood to his victims. We didn't have a fake coworker relationship. We had a real one. And just like I don't know the ins-and-outs of most of my coworkers lives, I had no idea that what he did on his down time was perpetrate horrors.

I know this is getting off the topic, but it's so very important. Especially as a message to cis guys: please understand that you won't recognize a creep the way you might think you will. If you're not the preferred prey, the hind-brain alarm won't go off. You have to listen to victims, not your gut feeling that the person seems perfectly nice and normal. It doesn't mean there's never a false accusation, but face the fact that it's usually real, and you don't have enough information to say otherwise.

So, yeah. It fucking sucks. Writing about this twists my insides into tense knots, and it was almost a decade ago. I was never in danger. No one I knew was hurt!

Just countless, powerless women, horrifically abused by someone who was nice to me.

You don't trust your own judgement quite the same way, after. And as utterly shitty as it is, as twisted up and unstead-in-the-world as I felt the day I found out — I don't actually think that's a bad thing.

I think we all need to question our own judgement. It makes us better people.

I don't see villains around every corner just because I knew one, once. But I do own the fact that I can't know, really know, about anyone except those closest to me. They have their own full lives. They'll go from the pinnacles of kindness to the depths of depravity — and I won't know.

It's not a failing. It's just being human. Something to remember before you slap labels on people, before you condemn them or idolize them. Think about how much you can't know, and how flawed our judgement always is.

Grieve for victims, and the feeling of betrayal. But maybe let yourself off the hook, and be a bit slower to skewer others on it.

[greykolla-art]

Yeah I think you’re in the right place, Al.

[crunchygranoladyke]

i know i've said this before but i'm going to say it again because the more i work with geriatric women the stronger i feel about the fact that the only anti-aging that women in their 20s/30s should be obsessed with is building strong bones and muscle mass. that's like the most important thing you can you can do right now to lay a good foundation for healthy aging. you can botox the shit out of your face but that's not going to do anything to save you from dying prematurely from a fatal hip fracture that you can't bounce back from because you didn't do anything to prevent yourself from becoming frail and breakable. like i know that sounds harsh but that is reality for a lot of older women and i don't want that to be you.

[thebluestcowboy]

We’re going to hear a lot of stupid bullshit over the next few days/months/years about how Harris/the Democrats failed to win over men, or young people, or uneducated voters, or those worried about the economy, or whatever….but the truth is this: this country hates women and minorities; its citizens understand fuck all about the economy; and the people are incredibly susceptible to outright lies, scams and fascist values

[static-rayne]

Everyone to The Hole ™️ , chop chop