#girlpals

[the-soup-specter-sillies]

its ok @wizardmolars made a really banger omelette tonight equilibrium is restored

I think I overcooked um. My bao :(

[miguxadraws]

girlpal bonding hours

go moony go!!!!

[databroker]

Why are people liking the “smallest country in europe” post it 1) had a typo (COUNTRY not COUNTY) 2) really isn’t like. Funny or anything aside from being a DE reference??? 3) was meant to be a random personal post/inside joke directed at my girlpal

[ewanmitchellcrumbs]

I am going to be nosy but I just wanted to add this message to the nonnie who talked about her problematic with her friend.

I believe that everybody has peculiar situation but a few years ago, I also found myself in a similar one: most of my girlfriends had boyfriends and they promptly got taken along where we went and in all truth, I found it difficult to pass time with them. I felt very isolated and alone, as they didn't seem to have time to hangout one-on-one and neither to organize stuff and as the sole single stuff I was always pushed back if I didn't want to third-wheel.

in all truth those years I struggled a whole lot with making friends and it wasn't an happy time. through therapy I discovered a whole lot and I have started to create another group of friend with the people I met at uni and with whom I mostly hang out with.

a few girlpals once they broke up with they boyfriends came back and just this year we realized all the importance of having hang-outs just us girls with no men.

in all truth, I think that your feelings are absolutely valid and I agree Ange to maybe try to approach in a way that might get your friend to plan the outing and in a clear way, but without too much pressure, maybe there you could explain to her about your feelings in a calm way. if there is one thing that I learned in therapy is the strength of clear communication that often can't happen on the phone.

you mentioned that you are an introvert, but also I might suggest to try to find a few activities to meet new people, as it is what my therapist suggested to me (fellow introvert) to meet new people after covid as I felt quite lonely; you could maybe do this - for example: joining a book club or the gym, my ass joined a burlesque course because I thought it'd be an interesting skill to have - to find other people to hang out when your friend can't, personally it was helpful to unfreeze myself in social contexts and gain a bit of confidence to approach others at uni.

also I agree that your friend might not have done it willingly and out of malice, sadly as my very wise sister always insists some people have different ways to show care/interest. I am also awfully at texting back people, sadly because I get nervous about texting but still, maybe having a moment to yourself might make your friend aware of your feelings and she might be mindful in the future.

I'd just suggest to maybe try to shift prospective a bit, as sometimes our brain play the biggest tricks on us, making us believe so much in a hypothesis that it becomes a truth to us.

ok nosy moment finished, I am going back to minding my own business!

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[prideprejudce]

"alicent is not the girlboss her stans think she is" okay but have you considered the option that we might not want her to be a girlboss? 😭

[cripple-woe]

When I went to pride I had a few drinks with this really nice trans girl and I was sat talking to her about the differences in our experiences of life and transition, (middle-class, abled, trans woman who started social transition at 11-12, vs lower class disabled trans man who started social transition after getting to college).

And this other trans guy comes up to is and offers to buy her a drink, and she says sure why not, come join in on the conversation but FYI I’m taken, so this third guy joins the chat and while we’re both talking about the different ways we grew up trans this new person begins to start butting in while I talk and say that my experience wasn’t as bad and that i have so much privilege now and that I’m a masculine presence that makes women uncomfortable (he also said that my naturally raises testosterone made me violent) and a lot of other things. And that we should “let the lady talk about her experiences” because “she deserves it more.”

And eventually my new friend looked at him and she says “Are you trying to impress me or something?” And the guy blows it off like no not at all I’m just being honest that you trans girls have it so so much harder right babe girlpal girl boss ? And then my new friend told him that (and I quote) if he was going to be “a weird cunt” then he could “fuck off and take his booze with him.”

So yeah, no, trans women don’t need you to beat yourself and other trans men into the ground, to “support them” because they can support themselves and if that requires someone being beat into the ground, they can also do that without your help ❤️❤️.

can we start calling people out for passionately self-flagellating and self-insulting in the name of an extremely vague notion of “supporting trans women” because it’s fucking weird and gross and I’m so tired of it !!! how the fuck are trans women supposed to feel good because you called trans men disgusting dirty hairy gross men? do you realize insulting trans men isn’t a fucking compliment to these women? that most have their own lives and their own personal struggles and traumas completely independent of you and of trans masculinity and of your transmasc self-loathing? I am fucking tired

[dreams-of-butterflies]

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[apollotarot]

The perfect tee for a girls' night out!

🎶 "We've come too far to give up who we are..." Who remembers this song? It translates the feeling of our Three of Cups Unisex T-shirt so well! In the Three of Cups card, a trio of girl pals dances in a circle, raising their cups high to the stars in a toast of joy and celebration. They look to one another with affection, trust, and respect. The powerful emotional connection depicted in this card expresses true friendship, which makes our Three of Cups Unisex T-Shirt the perfect gift for a beloved friend.

[what-am-i-outside-my-google-tabs]

Life is just wishing for drugs for you and your friends, one day after the other.

[thehomegirlne]

For thought.... This is TheHomeGirlNE perspective. I'm Angela, aka @TheHomeGirlNE. A house swapping REALTOR who shares life, lessons, let downs and even real estate adventures. For "peeps" who are simply seeking an un-ordinary tribe to...adventure with. More info in my bio & website ... . . #thehomegirlne #enlighten #lovemylife #livewithoutapology #attractthelifeyoudesire #nailedit #newjersey #exploretheworld #wanderlust #lovemylife #family #peace #harmony #vacation #travel #lovemylife #friends #girlpals #beginagain #mewme (at Mariner Inn) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1CWswFBO_V/?igshid=dgbqaz4oq2vb

[mryz]

A HUGEEE Happy Birthdayyyyy to this one @1chloise! You've had one hell of a year. YOU deserve to be spoilt today! 💕xx . . #birthday #birthdaygirl #happybirthday #anotheryearolder #anotheryeararoundthesun #365 #bestie #girlpal #galpal #travelbuddy #bsb #bsbarmy #backstreetboys #backstreetboyslover #nickcartergirl #happywednesday #wednesdayvibes #goodvibesonly #smile #behappy #livelaughlearnlove #livelifetothefullest #liveyourbestlife #yougotthis https://www.instagram.com/p/COdxH31snZz/?igshid=1s3mdi34t013x

[pixelchills]

A silly billy oneshot for the Animutant AU

Wrote this last night, typing with my left hand.

7k+ words hurt/comfort Sunrise x Moondrop fic based on my Animutant AU. Inspired by the recent blood moon eclipse that happened. Animutant Moon gets his periods for the first time.

Not a kink-fic. Just period fluff. Because I love mirroring my miserable monthly torture to my celestial boys.

Has some humour and light angst in it, and Chica and Roxy being good girlpals to Sun and Moon. Rated Mature for the concept but there's nothing sexual going on. Very self-indulgent.

[demilypyro]

I'm not really a girlboss I'm just kind of a girlpal you can help out for girlfavors

[whentheynameyoujoy]

Another thing which gives me Reylo flashbacks like a mofo is the dogged insistence of antis that the two are “just siblings bro, just friends bro, just pals against the world bro don’t be so disgusting about this bro”, despite the story doing everything bar outright breaking the fourth wall and screaming at you that no, they aren’t and this is very much openly unmistakably romantic, THIS IS THE WHOLE POINT, THE REASON WHY THE NARRATIVE EVEN EXISTS IN THE FIRST PLACE WHY ARE YOU SO WILFULLY OBTUSE GODFUCKINGDAMMIT. And since with Reylo the “she’s his sister cousin girlpal” clownery persisted even after the extremely non-platonic close-up kiss, I expect to have lots of fun with the final Loki episode next week.

Like, you know that had it been Moby under that tarp we would not be having this stupid discussion.

[leadrains]

hes my girlboy my gayboy my girlpal my friendboy my boygirlfriendboyfriendgirl

[simplejoiephoto]

One of my favorites moments is when she’s putting on her dress! First off I’m so glad I’m a lady so that the ladies can trust me to be in the room with them, but secondly don’t mind me if I’m tearing up in the corner somewhere because I just need a second to recompose myself after I see the sisterly love expressed! I have four sisters and we’re all different in so many ways but also very much the same and brought up on the same values. As the weather gets colder, I’m find myself sending out lots of thoughts and prayers to my sisters and all the sisters out there! Even though we’re miles apart, our hearts are never far. 😘😘 #loveissimple #simplejoie #bayareaweddingphotographer #loveandwildhearts #theknotpro #taberranchwedding #weddingwire #toughenoughtowearpink #bridetribe #bridesmaids #gettingreadyforschool #sisterlove #girlpal #breastcancerawareness #sisterlylove #alwaysonmymind #farapartcloseatheart (at Taber Ranch Vineyard & Event Center) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3csVj2jMWP/?igshid=1ufqctwh8ie9n