#get your shit straight

[empressofdiamonds]

Psyche tidy up

Giving yourself grace when you fail, and getting back at it right away. Failures are part of the perfection path.

Doing things not because you "must" but because you know why.

Unclenching your muscles on a frequent basis and normalizing being in stressful situations, like a boss babe. You know they're stressful but you don't let them get in the way to your goal.

Identifying your triggers, and recognizing them. You don't navigate life anymore from one trigger to another in a constant state of stress-anxiety. You know some stuff is triggering an emotional response but you answer to the rational thoughts. "Yes, I know this thing is triggering me. Worst outcome may come but I can deal with it no biggie. I rehashed many times my responses. "

Recognizing your emotions, but not letting them take up all your emotional mindspace. "Yes I'm angry, this thing happened and it caused me to feel unlistened to, I give myself a few minutes to breathe in silence, then think of the best action that'll benefit me"

The more you let emotions and triggers take up space in your day, the less you'll be able to live your life, but it isn't a excuse to avoid them squarely; you're also not living your life in extreme avoidance of them. Facing them upfront, as distressing as it may be, will lead to a quieter simpler life later.

Answer your truth: if you viscerally don't like something, do/say something. You do not have to do actions that go against what you stand/believe for.

[tooxmanyxships]

Ummmm....

McLaren?????

#4????

What in Dando's name is going on?

[howlingblaster]

If you draw wolfwood white and pale im killing you with rocks

[chibi-rach]

my twitter got hacked and twitter cant confirm i was the original owner of my 13 year old account so im missing the jimin "face" hype and fob "so much for stardust" hype

time for me to start screaming into the void here

[likethestarschasethesun]

what is up with these fucking bot accounts? fighting for my life every goddamn day trying to block them all good lord tumblr.

[lenabeauty-23]

Working on me myself and I and my life starting Monday I've been saying imma do this for years but I never had the right ppl or the right resources available to me but now I have a therapist who's more than willing to help and I have the perfect resources to help me and guide me towards and down the right path so starting Monday I'm finally working on me myself and I and my life and working on getting my life and shit together and straight and it's about time that I do this I'm starting my starting my healing journey and working on fixing mending and healing my mental emotional and physical health state and well being and learning all about self love and self care and practicing/how to love and care for myself completely and I'm also going to learn how to be a better girlfriend to my boyfriend with my therapist help imma ask her if she can help me be a better friend, associate, and best friend and setting up boundaries and expectations from/for them and I'm learning how to get my life and shit together and straight with the help of my case Manger from fountain house and once I learn how to be a better friend associate and best friend and learn the boundaries and expectations I would like to have/practice with/for them I will start searching for friends and associates at the programs I'm apart of my life is finally falling into place and I'm picking up the pieces and putting them back together little by little on my own it's not easy especially since I'm struggling with major depressive disorder and soical anxiety and am depressed but I'm sure as hell doing it like I said before a better life is coming for me I can just see it like Beyonce said "after all of the darkness and sadness soon comes happiness if I surround myself with positive things I'll gain prosperity" I believe that there's sometype of lbright ight in the end of this dark road a bright light like no other a bright light that will bring me the peace and happiness and prosperity that I've been searching for, for years and it's finally coming yet ironically I don't know how to feel about it I mean ig I should be excited and happy about this but I'm just not I have no negative nor positive feelings about this but I am looking forward to it

[taste-of-the-raynbow]

Daily battle

[vesperadreamer]

LGBTQ+ Representation in film

You gotta wonder, so certain people, writers and movie makers know what they're doing? Like, think about it, if I took every iron man movie, and replaced EVERY INSTANCE of Tony with a woman, sure people would notice yeah, but thats also how you write A FEMALE CHARACTER, though this would also make them a lesbian because they're with Pepper. Its that easy. ITS LITERALLY THAT EASY. I could do it with captain america, the hulk, thor. Its not hard, just don't make their sexuality THEIR ENTIRE PERSONALITY. Anyway, thats just my take. Like, I could also theoretically replace Tony with a trans man AND NOBODY WOULD NOTICE, why? because its tony, but if it was every brought up, i'm sure there'd be at minimum 500 people complaining about the fact that Tony was a transman and how people are shoving the LGBTQ agenda down people's throats if it was mentioned ONLY ONCE. Rant over, hollywood sucks, that is all.

[ramenhokage]

Bruh.

I've had 4 spambots just today.

15 in the past 6 days.

What the hell is going on?

Go away. I will immediately report spam and block you.

[empressofdiamonds]

At some point you read and read so many self improvement posts, that's amazing I do applaud that, but are you scared to put in the work, wanting to read more to make it "perfect" without failure? Delusional. Glowups aren't a perfect y=2x line, they're nasty, they're incredibly hard, it's confrontation of the raw self, the raw trauma, acceptance of oneself, understanding of our human nature and mind. You'll suffer, you'll scream your lungs out, you'll have huge challenges, but that's normal. Once it's over it's bliss. Now go for it, go work on it. Accept that you fucked up, accept that you sometimes gonna mess it up, but promise yourself you'll get back right up and go for it.

Promise yourself that you'll keep working at it, keep being consistent at it as much as you humanely can.

No amount of preparation gonna make your process without pain and challenges.

[tea-cat-arts]

Shen Yuan getting transported into pidw isn't "the system punishing him for being a lazy internet hater," but instead representative of "step 1 of the creative process: getting so mad at something you decide to go write your own fucking book" in this essay I will

[starsintears]

book recs <3

(that change the way you look at life)

letters from a stoic

atomic habits

[laniidae-passerine]

positively obsessed with how Rockstar Lestat is the exact kind of guy one of my friends would show me a picture of and swear he’s really sexy and cool and brilliant. Whole time I’m thinking “oh dear GOD” staring at a trainwreck weirdo and wondering what’s happened to everybody else that is absolutely missing me. jesus christ he’s blond

[egophiliac]

Do yoy like their silly little dance

the inside of my brain at any given moment:

[atoriv-art]

older designs for my specialest guy

[agalychnisspranneusroseus]

I'm sorry was anyone gonna tell me Anne wrote this fucking YA novel ass shit about Sasha on Marcy's fucking journal or was I supposed to find out by myself