#genderfluidish

[the-masquerade-council]

Queer-ish/Variant-ish part 5

Non binary-ish, and Maverique-ish

Non binary-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite non binary. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being heavily aligned with a binary gender, having fluid gender and/or multiple gender and not viewing all of them as non binary, not identifying with typical understandings of what non binary means, having a "non traditional" relationship with non binaryness do to cultural reasons, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exact non binaryness and/or non binaryness with additional complexities to it.

Maverique-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite maverique. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being demimaverique, having fluid gender and/or multiple gender that one views as inseparable from each other and maverique is a prominent one, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exact maverique and/or maverique with additional complexities to it.

Agender-ish, and Neutrois-ish, and Androgyne-ish

All have similar definitions to maverique-ish

Multigender-ish, and Bigender-ish, and Genderfluid-ish

Multigender-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite multigender. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being almost entirely one gender but partly being others, having multiple partial genders, having fluid or flux gender that is experience as both multiple and one gender, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exactly that of being multigender and/or multigender with additional complexities to it.

Bigender-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite bigender. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being almost entirely one gender but partly being another one, having multiple partial genders to add up to being close to but not quite two, having fluid or flux gender that is experience as both two and one gender, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exactly that of being bigender and/or bigender with additional complexities to it.

Genderfluid-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite genderfluid. This can be for a variety of reasons, including one having the fluidity of one's gender(s) be very slow so it's often felt as static, having both fluid and static genders, one being unsure if their gender is fluid or flux, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exact non genderfluidity and/or non genderfluidity with additional complexities to it.

[hermanunworthy]

diversity win! the guy who just scammed u and broke ur heart is nonbinary!

[6-maranatha-scours-the-universe]

Intro/About Me

Name: Mara (not telling you my irl name) Gender & Pronouns: Transfem mostly but Genderfluidish I guess, She/They/he. Religion: Catholic Christian Cuban-American Discord Mod of an Interfaith Discord (an unforgivable sin)

I'm about to be 20 (preparing my existential crisis currently) currently going for a degree with a Major in English Lit & Education and a Minor in Philosophy. Hopefully, I'm smart enough to do that and become an academic of some kind so that I feel the glory of the bureaucracy of the USA's education system. I'm trying to be faithful and critical of the Christian theological tradition without totally rejecting it to help build a better future for everyone in the Church and outside of it. I am not an expert in anything except my own lack of expertise in most things. If I write anything serious it'll probably have MLA style citations. I'll probably just be posting art, quotes from the weirdos I like to read, memes, and whatever the hell else.

Interests

Literature of all kinds (I'm an English Major), especially Latin American Literature, and Art in general

Christian Theology (Liberation and Queer Theology), Mysticism, Biblical Studies, History of Religion, the Abrahamic faiths in general, Interfaith and Ecumenical Relations

Philosophy (especially Continental Philosophy), Leftwing Political Philosophy, History of Philosophy, Queer Theory and Psychoanalysis

The Intersection of Leftwing Political Thought and Christianity/Religion in General

The creation of a better world

[rimon-limon]

weird gender thoughts I had too late at night

Right then, so, uh, gender, right? Kind of a weird thingy. For me though, it's like.. wonky?

For example, female is the gender I was assigned at birth, but being called a girl causes me to shrivel up like a dried prune 80% of the time, but 20% of the time is fine, and I'm 100% percent okay to be a girl when I'm with my girlfriend! I had no idea you could have certain genders with certain people.

Sometimes I'm feeling, like, leather jacket butch vibes like bro I'm CONFIDENT but masculine in a girl kind of way,

but other times I'm feeling twinkish femboy who's very meek and feminine in a boy kind of way?

Other times, I don't feel anything, I'm just me.

It could be I'm genderfluid, but then again, I'm almost never a girl, but I'm always a girl when I'm with my girlfriend, which.. huh? I bounce between enby and guy a good bit but I'm always feminine. Just not a girl.

Point is, I feel really weird about it, and I'm curious if any other genderfluidish folk have had similar experiences?

[dancingdread]

- Venture , they/them

- 21 yrs , genderfluidish + xenogender aroace lesbian

- I post my art here! I do fanart & draw ocs, but usually do I do art for others. I do freebies, trades and commissions, but because I'm trying to save up to move out, I do prefer commissions.

- feel free to use my requests!

[thekillersareeatingtheflesh]

i guess the thing im most whatever about in terms of coming out as trans is that i dont want my dad to ask any questions. i just want to call him and say "hey dad, im your genderfluidish boygirl daughterson" and then have it be finally fucking over. i dont want to have to talk about pronouns or gendered terms, i dont want to have to explain what genderfluid means. i just want it to be fucking over.

[lgbtq-ex-bible-quizzer]

A couple years ago:

Me: (excited) A kid mistook me for a guy. Isn't that cool?

Mom: You're not guy though, you're a girl.

Me: Yeah, yeah, I know. But it's still kinda cool.

Mom:

A few months ago:

Me: *learns on TikTok that cis girls don't really take getting misgendered as the biggest compliment ever*

[crappy-danganronpa-confessions]

Completely honest. kinning hajime and subsequently projecting everything onto this guy made me realize so many LGTBQA things it's unreal. I don't know HOW projecting "huh I like being feminine but I thought I was transmasc" onto him went to ". I think I'm a genderfluidish butch lesbian." Happened but I'm here now?

I guess message is projecting onto a fictional character and going through ur issues helps.

This is a very common thing for people to do. If it helps you find yourself, I can't find any fault in it. My only recommendation is to be AWARE a character isn't real and that you are your own person, while your headcanons also don't define someone else's character either. Not like, tell yourself every time you think about them they don't exist, that's dumb and unreasonable and sounds miserable, but the more you see yourself through the eyes of someone else, fictional or both the more you'll discover about yourself in ways you never expected.

Fictional characters helped me find who I was too, by pretending I saw myself through their eyes, and looking up to them as role models. I'm so glad you found parts of yourself too. And if you later decide you're something else than what you are now, that's perfectly fine as well. Finding yourself is a journey.

[propheticfire]

That genderfluidish feel where you feel more man-like when hanging with some of your friends, and more woman-like when hanging with others, and more something else/combo/¯\_(ツ)_/¯ when hanging with yet others.

[dunmertitty]

Wait I definitely don’t want to be intrusive so do not answer if you aren’t completely comfortable, but you’ve had a hysterectomy? I’ve wanted one since high school but I’ve heard endless endless things about how hard they are to get. Even if it’s covered as a gender affirming surgery I’m not binary trans so I doubt I could get access that way, I’m more like agender/genderfluidish (not sure how to label myself)

“i don’t mean to be intrusive but please tell me about your genitals”

[kritharaki]

Being genderfluidish rly is just like. Ahhh finally i am comfortable in my body :))) wait whats that on the horizon??? * gets run over by a dysphoria/gender envy horse *

[fagrackham]

i love being afab nonbinary/genderfluidish i barely ever relate to any wlw posts and feel like im not allowed to relate to any mlm/nblm posts n so im just. sittin here.

[nonbinary-support]

Im worried that, because my dysphoria is variable + over 2 years of questioning I still cant find a term that describes my experience, I will never be able to work out my gender. I know that labels aren't important for everyone but I'm desperate to figure out my gender so I can think about transitioning + describing my experience to others. Have any of the mods had this issue - of it taking lots of time to figure out your gender? + any techniques for figuring it out? worried I'll never know :(

It took me a long time to pinpoint an identity. I started questioning at 17 and I finally secured a gender/labelfor myself that I'm comfortable with when I was 20 or maybe barely 21. I went from demigirl > agenderflux > bigender > genderfluidish > finally non-binary/intergender. It took a lot of self reflection and research to find an identity I could find my own- and I was lucky enough to have such a heavily influencing factor on my gender like being intersex.I wish I had more advice on thay self exploration, but my method was educating myself on different identities and reading stories and experiences from other nb people. -Mod Dave

[mojav]

im nonbinary in thesense that liek... idk im not agender and maybe im genderfluidish but it’s more like im just like. more than one gender at once i guess like im just fine w everything (except like. idk weird random exceptions) and sometimes i lean more a certain way and get dysphoric but like i dont feeel trans enough to like feel like i can talk about it openly cos i can still pass and use she/her pronounsand its fine so idk lullllllllll

[lgbtq-ex-bible-quizzer]

Hello peoples

Hey, I'm Evan. I'm a 22 year old bisexual Christian, who's probably somewhere in the genderfluid hemisphere. Please use he/him or they/them.

This is my 3rd tumblr account (not blog, account. I have a problem). I created it to experiment with a masc. name and pronouns.

While I don’t anticipate posting any “Adult Content,” I am making this blog 18+. (though if for some reason I do decide to post content that would not be appropriate for minors, I will still label it 18+ for safety’s sake).

[tyranasaurusbec]

rant into the void long time no see

it’s pride month and i’m honestly feeling so invisible right now??

i’m in a “het” relationship (hard to say het when we’re both bpfq/tgnc~ (nb and genderfluidish)) and like we’re both invisibly queer? and like i’m big boy closeted on the nb thing because i’m too afraid of possible repercussions to coming out

today at work we were talking and i said “m y  b o y f r i e n d” and i like felt myself get slammed into the closet in regards to all things work related

and also like another thing that i constantly (in an ebb/flow type of way, it’s not always like gnawing on bone like it feels like now) feel guilt (?) about is the fact that i’ve never had any type of romance/sex/physical intimacy with a lady? and like i know bi people who have never been in a same sex relationship or hookup or anything like that are valid. but like i just know that in my HEAD which likes to exclude me from being a part of valid groups in any way it can (and probably part of why i feel so invisible) [upon review i think this is the biggest thing that my brain is cranky about because i saw smth on social media about someone saying how their bicuriosity led to them realizing they’re queer poly and i was like wow i never got to explore (because i’m shy/awkward/don’t know how to go about ~experimenting~) and like yes my relationship is the first dedicated one i’ve ever been in and also is why i had sex for the first time but like the angry part of my brain keeps asking me why i haven’t had sex with a woman yet. but it’s like??? shut up i’ve only had sex with one person like i can’t have had sex with a man and a woman and only have had sex with one person like please stop bullying me??  and i definitely don’t want to leave my relationship to go ~explore~ because i do really love him and the possibility of having lots of sex with lots of people (which tbh has a low likelihood since it’s quarantine, i live with my parents, and i’m not good at the random hookup type of thing) isn’t enough for me to want to leave him?

also: my chest dysphoria has been like not a thing recently and it’s making me be like ??? am i nb? (and i do understand that dysphoria isn’t like a requirement to be trans but it’s so hard to be like yes i am nonbinary because the definition is so fuzzy and i’m not a fuzzy definitions kind of guy. like ive been like “maybe i’m nb??? for like 5-6 years now it’s probably not a phase and it’s probably not a maybe but like how do i know for sure??? THERES NO STRICT RULES I CAN CLING TO AND DEEP IDENTIFIERS) tbh when all this stuff ends i do wanna start looking for a therapist who’s trans friendly so i can like talk to them about all this but like idk i feel like pandemic puts all things on hold and i ugh