#genderfluidish

[the-masquerade-council]

Queer-ish/Variant-ish part 5

Non binary-ish, and Maverique-ish

Non binary-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite non binary. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being heavily aligned with a binary gender, having fluid gender and/or multiple gender and not viewing all of them as non binary, not identifying with typical understandings of what non binary means, having a "non traditional" relationship with non binaryness do to cultural reasons, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exact non binaryness and/or non binaryness with additional complexities to it.

Maverique-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite maverique. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being demimaverique, having fluid gender and/or multiple gender that one views as inseparable from each other and maverique is a prominent one, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exact maverique and/or maverique with additional complexities to it.

Agender-ish, and Neutrois-ish, and Androgyne-ish

All have similar definitions to maverique-ish

Multigender-ish, and Bigender-ish, and Genderfluid-ish

Multigender-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite multigender. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being almost entirely one gender but partly being others, having multiple partial genders, having fluid or flux gender that is experience as both multiple and one gender, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exactly that of being multigender and/or multigender with additional complexities to it.

Bigender-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite bigender. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being almost entirely one gender but partly being another one, having multiple partial genders to add up to being close to but not quite two, having fluid or flux gender that is experience as both two and one gender, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exactly that of being bigender and/or bigender with additional complexities to it.

Genderfluid-ish - A term for for when someone's close to but not quite genderfluid. This can be for a variety of reasons, including one having the fluidity of one's gender(s) be very slow so it's often felt as static, having both fluid and static genders, one being unsure if their gender is fluid or flux, questioning one's gender, any other experiences of near but not exact non genderfluidity and/or non genderfluidity with additional complexities to it.

[hermanunworthy]

diversity win! the guy who just scammed u and broke ur heart is nonbinary!

[6-maranatha-scours-the-universe]

Intro/About Me

Name: Mara (not telling you my irl name) Gender & Pronouns: Transfem mostly but Genderfluidish I guess, She/They/he. Religion: Catholic Christian Cuban-American Discord Mod of an Interfaith Discord (an unforgivable sin)

I'm about to be 20 (preparing my existential crisis currently) currently going for a degree with a Major in English Lit & Education and a Minor in Philosophy. Hopefully, I'm smart enough to do that and become an academic of some kind so that I feel the glory of the bureaucracy of the USA's education system. I'm trying to be faithful and critical of the Christian theological tradition without totally rejecting it to help build a better future for everyone in the Church and outside of it. I am not an expert in anything except my own lack of expertise in most things. If I write anything serious it'll probably have MLA style citations. I'll probably just be posting art, quotes from the weirdos I like to read, memes, and whatever the hell else.

Interests

Literature of all kinds (I'm an English Major), especially Latin American Literature, and Art in general

Christian Theology (Liberation and Queer Theology), Mysticism, Biblical Studies, History of Religion, the Abrahamic faiths in general, Interfaith and Ecumenical Relations

Philosophy (especially Continental Philosophy), Leftwing Political Philosophy, History of Philosophy, Queer Theory and Psychoanalysis

The Intersection of Leftwing Political Thought and Christianity/Religion in General

The creation of a better world

[rimon-limon]

weird gender thoughts I had too late at night

Right then, so, uh, gender, right? Kind of a weird thingy. For me though, it's like.. wonky?

For example, female is the gender I was assigned at birth, but being called a girl causes me to shrivel up like a dried prune 80% of the time, but 20% of the time is fine, and I'm 100% percent okay to be a girl when I'm with my girlfriend! I had no idea you could have certain genders with certain people.

Sometimes I'm feeling, like, leather jacket butch vibes like bro I'm CONFIDENT but masculine in a girl kind of way,

but other times I'm feeling twinkish femboy who's very meek and feminine in a boy kind of way?

Other times, I don't feel anything, I'm just me.

It could be I'm genderfluid, but then again, I'm almost never a girl, but I'm always a girl when I'm with my girlfriend, which.. huh? I bounce between enby and guy a good bit but I'm always feminine. Just not a girl.

Point is, I feel really weird about it, and I'm curious if any other genderfluidish folk have had similar experiences?

[autumnapologist]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH AND MY THOUGHT PROCESS ABOUT IT!Sorry for yelling, I'm just so happy to see someone else. I was so scared I'd be viewed as an outsider or a TERF because I'm detransitioing(although I don't necessarily feel like that word is completely accurate to me, more... transitioning sort of sideways and diagonal?) I love many of the effects T had on me, and don't like some others, but i am overall so much happier and more confident in myself and more emotionally knowledgable about myself than i was before starting my original transition. I have since been introduced to butch and futch ladies who've had top surgery and i now know exactly what I want to do with my body. I was a little girl, a preteen through young adult boy/man, and now I consider myself to be a genderqueer/genderfluidish womanish person, and I am so content!

On anon but. I'm someone who has detransitioned. I just want to say that, I was on HRT for about a year. It changed my body in ways that I absolutely love. I have a deep voice, and sharper features, and I have new perspective on my identity and how it interacts with the world. Being trans is a journey. From when I was five up to when I was 17, I fullheartedly believed I was a boy. I was, in that moment. But now, I'm a girl, too. I feel better as a girl - prettier, comfortable. But when I was a boy, I felt good too - in that moment, I was handsome, and I felt so so strong. It's not as scary as it seems. People ebb and flow and change. You can be what you want to be, and if ultimately you want to go back? You can. Just don't discount your experience as a mistake. In the moment it felt right. In the present is what matters.. You'll reflect on it, and maybe you won't ever change. Maybe it'll be what sticks. And that's a lovely thing in and of itself. You will find the you that fits. You will become someone you love by letting yourself express. I promise. Holding back will just mute everything that makes you, you - don't feel like you need to medically transition, either. It was right for me, but research is key, in all things. You'll be beautiful no matter what. Your experiences will shape you - as long as you allow yourself the freedom of expression. I promise.

this is so beautiful. the word detransition does seem to have a negative connotation in certain spaces and im really happy to hear u sharing your positive experience.

its so important to stress that you can simply try it. and if it isnt for you, you can stop.

[dancingdread]

- Venture , they/them

- 21 yrs , genderfluidish + xenogender aroace lesbian

- I post my art here! I do fanart & draw ocs, but usually do I do art for others. I do freebies, trades and commissions, but because I'm trying to save up to move out, I do prefer commissions.

- feel free to use my requests!

[thekillersareeatingtheflesh]

i guess the thing im most whatever about in terms of coming out as trans is that i dont want my dad to ask any questions. i just want to call him and say "hey dad, im your genderfluidish boygirl daughterson" and then have it be finally fucking over. i dont want to have to talk about pronouns or gendered terms, i dont want to have to explain what genderfluid means. i just want it to be fucking over.

[lgbtq-ex-bible-quizzer]

A couple years ago:

Me: (excited) A kid mistook me for a guy. Isn't that cool?

Mom: You're not guy though, you're a girl.

Me: Yeah, yeah, I know. But it's still kinda cool.

Mom:

A few months ago:

Me: *learns on TikTok that cis girls don't really take getting misgendered as the biggest compliment ever*

[crappy-danganronpa-confessions]

Completely honest. kinning hajime and subsequently projecting everything onto this guy made me realize so many LGTBQA things it's unreal. I don't know HOW projecting "huh I like being feminine but I thought I was transmasc" onto him went to ". I think I'm a genderfluidish butch lesbian." Happened but I'm here now?

I guess message is projecting onto a fictional character and going through ur issues helps.

This is a very common thing for people to do. If it helps you find yourself, I can't find any fault in it. My only recommendation is to be AWARE a character isn't real and that you are your own person, while your headcanons also don't define someone else's character either. Not like, tell yourself every time you think about them they don't exist, that's dumb and unreasonable and sounds miserable, but the more you see yourself through the eyes of someone else, fictional or both the more you'll discover about yourself in ways you never expected.

Fictional characters helped me find who I was too, by pretending I saw myself through their eyes, and looking up to them as role models. I'm so glad you found parts of yourself too. And if you later decide you're something else than what you are now, that's perfectly fine as well. Finding yourself is a journey.

[propheticfire]

That genderfluidish feel where you feel more man-like when hanging with some of your friends, and more woman-like when hanging with others, and more something else/combo/¯\_(ツ)_/¯ when hanging with yet others.

[dunmertitty]

Wait I definitely don’t want to be intrusive so do not answer if you aren’t completely comfortable, but you’ve had a hysterectomy? I’ve wanted one since high school but I’ve heard endless endless things about how hard they are to get. Even if it’s covered as a gender affirming surgery I’m not binary trans so I doubt I could get access that way, I’m more like agender/genderfluidish (not sure how to label myself)

“i don’t mean to be intrusive but please tell me about your genitals”

[kritharaki]

Being genderfluidish rly is just like. Ahhh finally i am comfortable in my body :))) wait whats that on the horizon??? * gets run over by a dysphoria/gender envy horse *

[fagrackham]

i love being afab nonbinary/genderfluidish i barely ever relate to any wlw posts and feel like im not allowed to relate to any mlm/nblm posts n so im just. sittin here.

[thatoregonwitch]

Bisexual poly genderfluidish(?), Aries, machete

I wanna do one of those “if you’re lgbt put your orientation, sign and favorite tool in the tags” but I know most of The Gays have never touched a tool on their life. I’ll be left with 15 lesbians, one gay dude and a handful of bisexuals and they better all be tagging screwdrivers

[nonbinary-support]

Im worried that, because my dysphoria is variable + over 2 years of questioning I still cant find a term that describes my experience, I will never be able to work out my gender. I know that labels aren't important for everyone but I'm desperate to figure out my gender so I can think about transitioning + describing my experience to others. Have any of the mods had this issue - of it taking lots of time to figure out your gender? + any techniques for figuring it out? worried I'll never know :(

It took me a long time to pinpoint an identity. I started questioning at 17 and I finally secured a gender/labelfor myself that I'm comfortable with when I was 20 or maybe barely 21. I went from demigirl > agenderflux > bigender > genderfluidish > finally non-binary/intergender. It took a lot of self reflection and research to find an identity I could find my own- and I was lucky enough to have such a heavily influencing factor on my gender like being intersex.I wish I had more advice on thay self exploration, but my method was educating myself on different identities and reading stories and experiences from other nb people. -Mod Dave

[lgbtq-ex-bible-quizzer]

Hello peoples

Hey, I'm Evan. I'm a 22 year old bisexual Christian, who's probably somewhere in the genderfluid hemisphere. Please use he/him or they/them.

This is my 3rd tumblr account (not blog, account. I have a problem). I created it to experiment with a masc. name and pronouns.

While I don’t anticipate posting any “Adult Content,” I am making this blog 18+. (though if for some reason I do decide to post content that would not be appropriate for minors, I will still label it 18+ for safety’s sake).