#all the teens are nonbinary to me btw

[hermanunworthy]

diversity win! the guy who just scammed u and broke ur heart is nonbinary!

[elodieunderglass]

Good day! 🙏 I know that this might come inappropriate to ask for a favor like this but I just wanted to ask if you could possibly share or boost the post I pinned for my cat. We're in desperate need of help right now. I hope youd consider, if not I understand dont worry. Be safe always! Btw, happy late valentines to you! Pls consider sending me a msg instead of replying the ask publicly, if its fine or maybe answer it privately 🙏

Scammer, sweetheart, I am fascinated by you. Are you one person making about $1000 a month preying on kind people who have very little money themselves? Is $1000 a lowball or do you actually make a wage? Is this your living? Are you a parasite for a living, or is it just a hobby? I mean, you raise enough to invest in checkmarks on your account, which is cute.

Or are you an exploited person who is being forced through circumstances to farm for gold, the profit of which is taken by the crime syndicate that is keeping you captive. Stealing cat photos and sob stories, making fake victim stories and researching which little fandoms will make you seem most real, when you are yourself the one who needs help (not the latest fake cat.) are there a group of you, with a target to meet, swapping tips to meet the quota? Is that why it’s always a cat, did you work out that people pay the most for cats or something?

I hope it’s the first situation: it means I can make fun of you as much as I like. But if it’s the second, that feels awful. And I do worry that it’s the second, because if it was the first, you’d have enough memory in your little noggin not to bother me. Because you blocked me, babes, when I pointed out there was no cat, and we all killed you. So I worry it’s the second scenario.

I suppose you could be a group of giggling unpleasant teens in a bedroom? Maybe Mean Girls who started off making tumblr accounts for a coordinated bullying attack, but ended up accidentally running a bot farm. Maybe young forum-dwellers who think it’s a particularly delicious twist to squeeze the silly tumblr queers too dumb to know better and use the cash to finance right-wing YouTubers. Maybe this is what the trained kids who are paid to run psy-ops during election years do in the off-cycle. But I do worry about a bleary room over-full of tired people, badly fed, badly housed, grimly slapping 🙏 emojis by hand on a thousand messages. I always feel bad hanging up on spam callers when you hear the great dreary hangar of phones and callers all around them. Nobody wants to be involved in the conversation but the scam callers have a quota to meet, a set amount of cash to extract from the faceless marks, and so they power bleakly through the latest script with a hundred other trapped people doing the same. What are your bosses like?

Are you doing this against your will, @the-nonbinary-witch? Next time, come to me right away put some emojis in indicating that you need help. A few skulls will tip me off.

[velvetvexations]

Oh btw about predatorjacketing and kinkshaming trans people;

This is generally going on among modern fandoms and among young queer and trans adults outside of just transfems.

I've seen plenty of non-transfeminine nonbinary and transmasculine folk get hunted down and harassed over cartoon porn they draw. I don't know in detail if it's more frequent or violent towards transfeminine folk (it could be, - given how mainstream transmisogyny relates to the gay or gnc men as predators myth).

I'm transmasc and I don't have a NSFW art platform at all because I'm THAT scared of people finding it, associating it with my mains and then slandering me over it. I can not find community around my kinks etc. because I feel unsafe to discuss that with the vast majority of people. And yes, my transness is a factor. I always feel that it if I was a feminine cis woman I would be seen as cute and innocent. I have a very deep instinctive feeling that my transness to many people represents a sexual threat and that it's easier to demonize me over kinks bcs I stick out too much etc.

Even in a women's changing room I feel that my masculinity is in this stark direct contrast with most people I share that space with, - that I have to be really careful of how I move, where I look and how I come across. I have felt for my whole life, even when being a fem presenting teen, that I am clocked as a boy thing that doesn't belong there. Now on T, with boobs... I also have to avoid talking in those changing rooms. In the company of really fem presenting cis women I feel socially and culturally hypersexualized for my deviant masculinity, for being an apparent dyke in the midst of women. I have cptsd from being around feminine people because of how othered I am + some experiences of being subtly ruled out of the Girls TM club.

Being a sexual being with my kinds of sexual interests while having this experience as a transmasculine person is something quite vulnerable and difficult to fully become confident in and love oneself about. I think transandrophobia and transmisogyny have that whole "you're a predatory impostor among women" thing and "you emasculate straight cis men by existing" thing in common... Just from a slightly diff. angle but there's so much similiarity.

A lot of the chronic policing between transmasc people over kink and sexuality is actually a result of internalizing the idea that we are dirty masculine predators. There is a high social pressure to be cute, feminized, sanitized and say "PROSHIT DNI >:/" because transmascs have an instinctive self-awareness of how we're easily thrown to the wolves when our gender-nonconformity or sexuality is no longer cute and Christian Values Friendly enough.

Being terrified to death about some kind of predatorjacketing over writing fanfic or drawing weird cartoon porn isn't exclusive to transfems. Any transmasc person encaging in fandom or any online art subcultures is waaayyy too intimately aware of this fact 24/7.

Oh and? Transmasc people with feminine partners who are tops / encage in some kind of roleplay where they're in the 'aggressing' role are extremely stigmatized too. I see people instantly write this off as toxic masculinity or inherently gross because a transmasc does it.

A lot of transmascs (speaking from experience) who actually prefer these "scary" roles in fantasy etc., feel social pressure to over-emphasize how bottom uwu sluts we are. I've recently stopped doing this because I realized it makes me dysphoric + I only do it to make my sexuality more palatable to other people. And I see so many transmascs as like... Having to reduce themselves to these cute slut boytoys. While I fully believe this is the authenthic preference of many of them, I think as a transmasc there is a strong social pressure to be /that way/ because being seen as Gross Threatening Men is like a social death sentence.

(there's a lot of good discussion about everything on this blog btw and I love to read it. I just wanted to add 2 cents to the anti kink vs trans people discussion.)

I don't think there's any difference literally at all between how transfem and transmasc sexuality is "handled" by the internet. People have it in their head that everything is an exact 1-1 of everything else so the fact that a trans woman is more likely to be visibly tagged as a pervert just for walking down the street (transmasc members of Velvet Nation please let me know if that's inaccurate) gets transferred to the internet as though everyone treats trans men who have being trans in their bio as the first thing everyone sees as cis men.

At most TERFs might report trans women more often and I don't want to downplay the seriousness of that but get fucking real if one doesn't think trans men aren't under constant scrutiny.

[anti-terf-posts]

Hi! I'm a nonbinary teen, and I'm on my period and feeling really dysphoric. Any tips/validation for all of us that have a period and don't identify as women? LOVE this blog btw!

hey there! don't think I can be of much help, so I'm going to leave it up to the lovely people who come across this post to help you out :)) if you guys see this post and have any tips for alleviating dysphoria while you're on your period, please feel free to put it somewhere in the notes!

although, I do have two pieces of advice for you that work for me personally

my first is to dim the lights in the bathroom when you're cleaning up (if that's possible for you). It can help make everything "less visible".

my second piece of advice is always remember that there are some hella masculine and burly non-women out there who get periods, and it doesn't make them any more feminine. after all, you have to be pretty tough to be able to fight your way through a period.

anyways, that's unfortunately all the advice I can offer, so anyone else, please feel free to help this person out in the notes!! that would be greatly appreciated :))

[superultratinymode]

me talking about some of my fave hypmic relationship dynamics because i am fucking insane

ichikuu- MESSY (im obsessed w them). also ichiro has such vibrant bi vibes i need you all too know this

jiroshi- friends. maybe their friendship gets more ambiguous later on, maybe it doesn't. Bro We Are Teens. Viva La Vida. nonbinary jyushi is a bonus

saburo- stop trying flexing your bitcoin collection. do your brothers even know about this?

mad trigger crew- im a samajyuer at heart and i believe rio is aromantic, but not asexual. do with that info what you will

fling posse- fling poly is good! however im stuck headcanoning ramuda as a heterosexual because i think it's hilarious. gendice w bi dice (energy) and just Queer, Unlabeled gentaro is how i see it

matenrou: they're actually the goat poly ship PLEASE AGREE PLEASE AGREE WITH ME RIGHT NOW

sasaro- exes, but they're just friends now

samasasa- exes, but they're definitely Not friends now

samatoki/doppo isn't a ship of mine per se but i love to think they tried it and it didn't work out for obvious reasons but now they have a wholesome and unlikely friendship (and samatoki threatens doppos boss A Lot)

hear me out btw hitoya/rosho (romantic)-- GUNSHOT

rei- occasionally pays his children child support in the form of vbucks

thank you that is all i had to say

[mirchloe]

quick (incomplete) list of trans headcanons btw! first ones that come to my head.

phoebe is nonbinary! she doesn't have much of a leaning, but prefers she/her pronouns. some days, she does lean toward casual masculine presentation. binds when she's a teen, not so much when she's older. she has to roll her eyes whenever quentin comes up to her shaking his head all, "can't believe you're copying me" because he settled on his gender as nonbinary first. (it's in good fun! he's just ribbing his bestie. pronouns are whatever, call him anything, though he does have his days where he has his preferences.)

norma and lizzie aren't cis. norma is a trans girl, and lizzie is just outside the gender binary. she doesn't care about labeling herself. it's kind of like with quentin, but he's more in a chill vibe, and lizzie likes making herself look really genderweird with whatever pronouns she's feeling that day. norma is strictly she/her tho.

franke is also a trans girl! she always related more to girls when she was younger and didn't get why. she always just thought girls were awesome! then, she learned she could be a girl, and that's history. she's butch when she's an adult.

trans woman hollis is also so real, so true. gotta thank double fine for uploading the alpha footage of pitror and inspiring this headcanon.

benny is a trans guy! like franke, he had a tendency to look up more to guys. figured he might as well be a guy, too! guys are tough! he does have a tendency to put down girls when he's a kid, which isn't great. he grows out of it and does feel a bit bad, trying to smooth it over.

[mamamittens]

I'm supposed to be sleeping but nah.

Here's some AO3 statistics on my stories instead!

Under the cut of you're a nerd like me and morbidly curious as to what hits big in my fics specifically.

So, from my first fics on AO3 all the way back in 2016 to 2023, here's my top stories from kudos, which is a harder metric to hit compared to well, hits.

Btw, just realized that the by year filter is based on update not when it's written, so as long as it was updated in that year it makes the list.

As you can see this is also the year I got into Undertale. "We Are Falling" being my first Undertale fic with the zanny OC 'Tumble', AFAB nonbinary older sibling to Frisk. Mostly a story of crack taken more or less seriously.

Not at all surprised the HP crossover fic "Determined Magics" tops it cause well... It's HP and also written when the crossovers were very few and mostly drabbles. "Hopeful Magic" is the dropped sequel because I had no idea how to continue the story at a decent length and eventually forgot what little plans I did have. It was very hard to decide to officially drop it and I'm still upset it had to be done to this day.

Similarly, "It's going Tibia A Cute Time" was dropped for similar reasons because i started including more details I had no idea how to close out than when I first started. This one featuring an OC essentially raising the skeleton brothers. It was a whole thing.

"Sketchy as Hell" is actually my first romance fic and stars an OC named "Anna" in the AU verse "Underfell", which for the uninitiated is basically edgy Undertale. Wild times. "Colorful as Hell" is the sequel. It is in fact totally finished.

"Shadows in the Ice" just didn't have enough story and nothing I thought of would pad it out into an acceptable length for me, so it was also dropped after a very long time and much reluctant deliberation. At best, this story would be more of a short story. It is based off of a movie after all. Not a lot of plot to start with.

And this is for only this year alone!

Unsurprisingly it's mostly my One Piece one shots for the most part (specifically smuts).

But Sweet Child tops all of them, which honestly tracks, being a reader insert with different romantic/platonic ending with a few different characters. Some of which are still pending. A little surprised the Child AU version "How our Seeds Grow" also made it onto the top area of my list! Especially given how it's just one chapter but I guess folks love child inserts with platonic yanderes idk.

Quite surprised the FNAF fic "A Friend of Charlotte" is on here given how poorly OC fics tend to do in general but given the public nature of kudos and the way the filter works by year, I suppose this teen rates fic had a better shot. This one is about Blaire, teenage medium discovering the secrets of the pizzaplex from Security Breach before, during, and after the games events.

"Fireworks" made it to #2, which is mildly surprising but it is a smutfic about Ace and a reader insert so... Not that surprising.

"Twice Bitten (But not Shy)" being a sequel to a vampire Crocodile with AFAB reader insert smut so zero surprise that it's here.

"Sugar on Your Tongue" is another smutfic for One Piece but this time with Marco, Ace, Zoro, and Sanji in a foursome. Spicy. Zero surprise it's here.

And last on this singular screenshot (there are fics with less kudos under it) is "A Lone Melody" doing alright considering it's an OC centric fic in a massive fandom. All about Melody (half human half fishman) growing up with Arlong (and sometimes Jinbe) as she realizes not everything is as she thought it was and Arlong realizes there are consequences to being a racist prick with yandere-esque protective tendencies. Mostly. It's more about Melody though.

Just for fun, here's last year, 2022.

Unsurprised "Hopeful Magic" tops it, this is the year I dropped it and left a chapter explaining what little plans I could recall.

But yeaaaahhh... All of the 'new' entries are One Piece smut to my absolute non-shock.

"Aloe Kisses" Sabo smut with AFAB reader, "The Only Choice" yandere Ace smut with AFAB reader, "Riptide" yandere Jinbe smut with female reader, and "Who's Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf" werewolf Ace smut with AFAB werewolf reader. Zero shock and awe here lol.

I... Wrote a lot of smut in 2022. It's easier to get a high word count than fluff, ngl, and I did several events that year with smut as an option that I cross posted. The werewolf Ace fic is one such smut specifically for the Halloween/horror themed event if memory serves!

If I had to say which one I had the most fun writing it would probably be "We Are all Falling" cause I was literally pumping out a chapter everyday after classes in college with my roomie (still bestie) reading over it. It was dumb, stupid fun. A real treat with a random, aggressive sense of humor that if you read it, you'd recognize my trademark writing starts real early. Including having unexpected villains, body horror, dramatics, and side eyes references to anime I've seen. Tumble was me totally uninhibited by anxiety and fear with a good dose of angst and the best of intentions. Also absolutely fed up with bullshit but strangely optimistic.

After that? I'd have to say my second favorite that's on any of these 'lists' would have to be "A Friend of Charlotte". I spent what had to be weeks crafting Blaire and her backstory. Her story is also the only one that I can more or less consistently hit a pretty high word count for chapters without feeling bloated, which is quite satisfying. A bit more mature of a story with some fun taken crafting a middle ground between the ludicrously dangerous setting of literally any location in FNAF with something that could actually maybe exist without getting shut down for being... Ludicrously dangerous for literally anyone in, around, or even thinking about. Definitely a little more kind to upper management than canon FNAF management who seem to view OSHA violations as a checklist and a challenge. Seriously, how the hell do you make body snatcher animatronics without a little bit of pause??? Why?? Why would you do that?!? (The amount of haunted animatronics is also a problem but arguably not usually a feature until Funtime)

[ira-407]

My Definition of "Manchild"

Manchild is an age old name people have on the internet for people they don’t like. It’s been used pretty broadly but generally speaking it means one or more of the following

An adult (usually male) who…

Still collects action figures

Watches cartoons

Likes things made for kids or all ages

Is passionate about sci-fi and superheroes

Has an air of “child-like” innocence to them

Still lives with their parents

Is unemployed

Has poor hygiene

Is possibly incontinent

Regularly visit amusement parks like Disney by themselves

Likely has an intellectual and/or developmental disability

Incessantly whines about unimportant stuff

Not all of these things are inherently bad. In fact, most of them aren’t. There’s certainly a stigma surrounding adults who indulge in escapist material. Many adults who do this are likely to have an intellectual or developmental disability. This is especially obvious when you regularly attend fan conventions. I’m not even saying that to be funny, it’s literally true. I in many ways fit the description of a “manchild”. If someone called me that for those reasons alone, it would be patronizing and infantilizing.

Many teens and adults, this especially goes for people with intellectual disabilities, are viewed as “having the body of a teen/adult but the mind of a child”. The reasoning used for this is a combination of what their interests are, what their general disposition is, how much support they require from others to live, and how they dress, among other things. None of these are things that actually make someone a manchild. None of these things are exclusively characteristic of children. None of it justifies talking to someone like they are a child if they are not one nor does it excuse putting them in classes that are basically kindergarten for older kids/adults. Nothing justifies these things.

The last point on the above list is something that I think actually does make someone a manchild. While many people on the internet who complain about, say, their favorite sci-fi franchises “going woke”, check off the other boxes as well, those things are most certainly not one in the same. But there are also adults who act this way and are not into geek or internet subculture. Btw, a gender neutral term for this I think could be appropriate is Whiny Little Shit. Crybaby, perhaps. Or even just whiny.

Children aren’t even like this, funnily enough. Sure they get upset over small things very often, but a lot of the time it can either be due to disregulation, not yet having better control of their emotions, or a combination of the two. Manchildren *do* know better, yet still get upset over petty BS. And it’s funny.

So here are a few examples of things manchildren/Whiny Little Shits often complain about

Losing an election

Being rejected by women or someone they perceive as female. Or anyone they make inappropriate advancements towards.

Being rightfully criticized for their actions

Getting deplatformed for spewing dangerous ideas

Being kicked out of a venue for public indecency

A prominent character existing in the newest iteration of a long running series they like being female, nonbinary, canonically disabled and/or a person of color. Bonus points if they call it “woke”.

Having it so hard despite being a billionaire

Being told “no” in general

So manchildren exist, or any other variation of the term. They are not worth your time if you come across them. But just because they fit some of the criteria listed above doesn’t automatically mean they are an unpleasant brat. So whenever I happen to call someone a manchild-it’s really the incessant complaining that I am referring to.

Short version: There is a common term on the internet for people known as “manchild”. It tends to be applied to someone simply for being an adult that likes certain things or lives a particular lifestyle. Those things alone are not do not make someone a manchild. This term can be especially harmful to adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. What actually makes someone a manchild is who they are as a person.

[ophanstears]

Something more personal but: As a small child, I always felt alienated from others not only because I was autistic, but I was constantly grouped with people of my AGAB and expected to follow all of the stereotypes tied to it. You could group people in certain classes by their AGAB and I would always forget that I was said AGAB. I never found my footing especially around my young teens where fitting in was EVERYTHING and it made me very angry at the world, not to forget insecure, and I found my only way to cope with it was by throwing my hate-fueled tantrums at the wrong people. I was a cringe ass terf way back around 2017, yet despite that I was fine being called by any pronouns for a LOOONG time, I remember feeling euphoria when a guy in voice chat was unsure of my gender and asked me if i was a boy or girl I eventually got past that disgusting bigotry of mine around 2019 which was fueled by nothing but insecurity about myself and my gender identity and all my interests tied to it. I met a lot of trans people in different communities I and it made me learn to not only humanize but also feel great empathy for them.

Then, a few years ago my AuDHD brain randomly decided to make me look up the definition for "nonbinary" and "genderfluid" (despite already knowing what they were) and I went "wait hold up that's kinda me" and the EGG CRACKED

real discord message btw

this started my path to become the gender(fluid) cocktail of all time

Look at that, another @degenerate-mystery-inc-whore cameo! This will happen a lot. I love that purple-haired kitten. She’s like my literary foil.

My egg-cracking occurred from a mixture of drugs, suddenly knowing a bunch of trans people, and finally getting blackout drunk at a baseball game. It was a three month process, I was on HRT less than 3 months after that.

[catlovergirl676]

Neo pronouns are a disgrace to the LGBTQA+ community. And here's why:

1- They are like silly and childish nicknames that preteens and people in their early teens decided to give themselves.

Ex: Mew, Pink, bird, etc.

(I'm not joking. I've seen some people refer to themselves, and even fictional characters, like this. And it is the cringiest thing I've ever seen.)

2- They think that it is "quirky" or "funny" and that it a way to "affirm their gender identity". But, that's bullsh*t and you all know it.

How does calling yourself "mew", "glitter", "dragon", or whatever other nonsensical nickname, tell us anything about your actual gender?

Calling someone "ze/xe, or other made up pronouns like these is already hard because of the grammatical and pronounciation difficulties it creates. But, at least with ze/xe, it was intended to be used to create more inclusive ways to refer to people who are nonbinary, agender, or something similar. While, with the previously mentioned "neopronouns", people sound like they have kept a mental age of 12 years old and don't know anything about how gender identity works.

Btw, you are free to disagree with me if you want. But, any comment insulting me or another user will be reported.

So, please, express your opinions/concerns in a respectful and civil manner.

Thank you for your understanding.

[ryoko-akari]

I'm feeling empowered so extra fuel to the fire of "Fuck you CW for being Homophobic" from little old me.

Specifically in Winchesters and Gotham Knights. Look at me, I know both of these shows were not A tier quality content, but damnit the fact they tried to give us canonically queer characters and got scrapped before either could even finish airing because of the overhaul CW went through recently still kills me.

With Winchesters, we got Carlos Cervantez, a nonbinary (he/him) and bisexual hunter in the 1970s just trying to get by. With teasers we knew from the start he was going to be bisexual in canon, and I remember genuinely feeling so happy and tearing up in the episodes where we had Carlos explicitly going through what is best described as Gay Panic™️ and it feeling genuine and well written. It irks me so much that there's still nobody talking about this, I know we all love Destiel, I do too, BUT CAN WE PLEASE ALSO SPARE SOME LOVE FOR MY BOY CARLOS HES ABSOLUTELY SLAYING WITH A HOLY WATER HAIR WHIP PLEASE LOOK AT THE ICON I BEG-

* ahem * sorry composure was lost for a second. Moving on.

Gotham Knights. As a batman and batfam fan, yeah I wasn't super stoked on this initially because it seemed like such an odd premise, I initially only watched it because Misha was in it as Dent and I was really excited to see how he portrayed him (absolutely fantastic job btw) and then I got gut punched by the reveal that Cullen Row was transmasc (and played by transmasc actor Tyler DiChiara!). I literally started the show for Misha and stuck it through for Tyler and Cullen and it was worth it. He wasn't treated any differently than any of the other guys just because he was trans, he's written beautifully and with genuine care for his character. I agree that the show wasn't the greatest or most entertaining to watch at points but it's targeted towards younger teen audiences of course its not going to be all that interesting to college students and adults, but the fact they spent the time to carefully craft a well written trans character that feels authentic to the experience as a transmasc person myself in a medium where there is still a lot of aggressive back and forth debate on allowing queer characters in, and waiting multiple episodes prior to revealing this to make it feel realistic to the characters and the viewer is beautiful and should be talked about and cherished more.

So that fact that both shows were canceled prior to finishing their runs and not given much of a fighting chance despite the loud outcries from the fans to continue running them, absolutely destroys me. And this isn't all of it too, I could go into a whole other rant about Ava Sharp and Sara Lance's relationship in Legends of Tomorrow along with John Constantine being on that show and how the show was basically run into the ground by making it so convoluted the only option was to completely cancel it after they collected most of the queer arrowverse characters into it to kill off in one fell swoop.

I just. CWs history of pretending it's queer friendly and then canceling shows with canon queer characters with the only explanation being "budget restraints" kills me constantly to think about.

[percyspencer06]

Intro!

PerseusKayen

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Perseus K.

12-18 years old

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Abrosexual- Asexual/Achillean

Abroromantic - Achillean/ Abroachillean

Demiboy

Transmasculine

He/They

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My Favorites

Color: Black

Movies: MCU

TV shows: Shadowhunters

Books: Heartstopper

Comic books: Marvel

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Hello!

My name is Perseus/Percy.

I am a closeted trans teen.  ________________________________________

How I realized I was LGBTQ+

It started when I was 10. I am AFAB btw. I realized that I wasn't cis. I thought that I was genderfluid at the time. I had tried to go by Kade on my masc days. I wasn't out to family because I wasn't sure. I realized that wasn't right. Fast forward about 6 months and I meet my qu**r table. I introduced myself as Bisexual-Even though I wasn't, I knew I had no attraction whatsoever to women.- I stuck with that for about 3 months. I did research and found the term abrosexual, and it felt right. I also knew I wasn't a girl, but I wasn't a boy. I thought I was nonbinary. I did more research and found demiboy and paraboy. I did a little more research and realized Demiboy was right. I just typed it on my laptop and showed it to my friends and they accepted me. I moved across the country about 2 months later. When I got to start at my new school, people thought I was a boy, which I technically am, but I'm still not out to family so..heheh, sidetracked a bit right there sorry, anyway, I had to go to the girls bathroom, horrible. One of my teachers thought I was a boy, and my school has girls restroom passes and boys restroom passes, so I never went to the bathroom in 3rd period for the rest of the time I had his class, I didn't tell him I was a "girl" even though he literally told us about his husband. Still, another new kid called me the T slur at least 10 times within 1 week when he first started. After that, I found a new table to sit with, everyone there is qu**r, so I could tell them. One of my friends also goes by he/they pronouns so I have another person to talk to about different pronouns. I found ways to "bind" without a binder and I started to buy masculine clothes. My family know that I am trans, even though I never told any of them. I realized I was mlm because I never had attraction to women or women-aligned individuals. I always imagined a wedding where I was a husband to a husband. Also, ___Ryan F*****g Reynolds!!!!!

When I came out to family

Oh, wait I didn't.

How I started dressing masc.

I just started going to the male section of the store and got all of my clothes there, shoes,socks,shirts,shorts,and pants.

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just message me if u need anything!

[d1cks1e-st1x]

not to sound like 18 year old going ‘ugh i hate minors’ and also not to sound like an old man complaining abt the kids and their damn cellular phones but like the state of teen gen z worries me so much

so much of the mindset online rn is so scarily centred on people having to be Good People who never do a single bad thing out of ignorance or anything otherwise they’re Irredeemably Evil in a way matched only by like puritanical religion

like not to go ‘liberals and their woke mob’ but cancel culture is so prevalent and so fucked up and that is absolutely the reason that every 15 year old on tiktok has a carrd listing their 9 self diagnosed psychotic disorders

because ‘i said something offensive because i didn’t know any better and im sorry’ isn’t accepted as an excuse but ‘i said something offensive because i have [xyz disorder] so i can’t help it’ is

and because in generally left leaning spaces (which is where most ppl like this are) there’s like such an oppression hierarchy so people are like ‘yes sock was using racist language towards a black woman [2 points] but they’re an nonbinary autistic minor with did and uses neopronouns [5 points] and she was shitting on their special interest so it’s kind of weird of her to harass them about it’ (harassment is telling them not to be racist and responding every time sock messages her and she was shit talking a show or whatever on her own account)

^ hypothetical situation btw im not referencing anything there but like i probably described an exact situation

also like definitely entering my shipcourse waters now but the way that internet safety has changed from ‘don’t give out personal identifying information to people online because you don’t know who they really are behind the screen’ to ‘if you don’t have your age in an easily accessible space you are a predator because we need to know who’s an adult and who’s a child and you should also have a list of all your mental health issues and triggers and every adult who ever interacts with a minor is a predator EXCEPT your friends the Safe Adults who tell you where to find the Bad Porn made by Evil People so you can go tell the Evil People (who are Definitely Pedophiles btw) that you are a minor and you think what they’re doing is bad and you can show the Safe Adults your face and tell them everything that you’re struggling with because they’re Safe guys! they don’t like the Bad Porn!’ it’s uhhhhhh it’s BAD

like hey guys have you thought about how maybe ‘they only adult you can trust is me cuz EVERYONE ELSE is a pedophile so im the only one you can trust’ is perhaps a grooming tactic

and like im not stupid underage teens are absolutely looking at porn and that’s not a bad thing because teenagers are horny but the fact that is so normal for minors to interact with nsfw accounts especially ones where the posts are stuff like loli specifically because they think the artists are ACTUAL CHILD PREDATORS is VERY BAD

and there are ADULTS supporting the idea that it’s bad for people to have adult spaces because ‘they want to keep the kids out so no one finds out that they’re child predators’ and it’s all up to a flock of noble 15 year olds to put themselves in danger to end pedophilia forever which is VERY BAD

and also the rampant sex negativity of it all like this culture of being horny is inherently bad and wrong unless it’s approved by everyone else so ppl will literally post things like ‘is it bad that i think (xyz) is hot?’ and need ppl to approve or denounce whatever it is

like being horny is normal!!! being horny about weird things is normal!!! it’s shit like this that’s helping conservatives in the usa get a hold of all the laws and shit!!!

like the sex negativity and shame to republican values pipeline is really real sorry to say!!

cuz when ‘deviant sexual behaviour is bad’ that starts with lolisho and rape fantasies and then it gets furries and petplay and bdsm type shit and then people realize that ‘huh it sure seems like a lot of gay people are in these communities i wonder why’ and then you get sock they/he/mew posting shit like ‘i hate cis gays they’re all obsessed with sex it’s creepy’ and then uh oh republican senator also thinks gay men are obsessed with sex and it’s creepy and he wants gay people in jail for doing drag and having sex with their adult partners

just went on a huge rant in my gc that i was based for so im posting it largely unedited over here

so sorry abt the wall of text that’s abt to be on ur dash adding read mores on mobile fucks the posts up for me

[genderqueerdykes]

Hello! I'm nonbinary and transmasc and in the closet irl, i'm also a 14yo. Although i dont feel chest dysphoria at all, i want to start biding bc i think it will give me a lot of gender euphoria. I just have a question, it is safe to bind in my age? Or do i need to wait some years to be able to do that?

Thank you! Btw i love ur blog!

thank you so much!! i'm sorry it took a while to answer this, i hope you've been doing alright in the meanwhile!

i would say that at your age, i can only recommend binding lightly when your dysphoria is so bad you can't handle it, and for short bursts of time. taking breaks to breathe, stretch and get time outside of that is going to be very important.

it's not recommended to bind heavily for any extended period of time at that age, due to the fact that you are still growing, your bones are still setting in to where they need to be and you do not want to inhibit or influence any of that growth. you also don't want to run the risk of permanently damaging breast tissue or one's nipples, because this can cause complications with top surgery down the road.

i would recommend using a well-fitting sports bra with no built in cups- i know that bras can cause dysphoria for many, but i personally used sports bras for most of my teens and early adult years and they gave me the most peace of mind. if you absolutely need a traditional binder, only wear it for very short bursts of time, like 1 - 2 hours at a time, but not for a full day at school, or a long trip, or anything like that.

i hope that helps! for now, try to see if you can find any sports bras that don't have built-in cups, and try to practice layering clothes to obfuscate the chest. you can do a lot by layering tank tops, undershirts, t-shirts and/or any kind of overshirts! take care, and i hope you're able to figure out something that works for you!

[tactiletelekonesis]

sir we are need desperate need of flash fam hcs. would you do the honours?

Ok I’m not as well versed in Flashfam content but I’ll try! I mainly know Bart, but I’ll give it my best shot.

First I’d like to start off with my favorite canon facts about Bart because I can’t NOT talk about him: 

He skateboards!

He once tried to get a Green Lantern tattoo but his healing abilities made it go away after five minutes and his friends knew it would happen but let him spend the money anyway lmao

He’s insanely popular at school, like, everyone loves him and he doesn’t get it

He once shaved his head because he was sick of people at school touching his hair, but Max made him wear a wig to school anyway

Ok now for the headcanons:

Bart has a skateboard that’s modified to not wear down at superspeed so he can use it at his own pace. He rarely uses it because he prefers to use regular skateboards cos it gives him time to slow down and think

On a similar note, Wally has modified roller skates! His kids want their own but he insists that they stick to non-modified roller skates until they’re old enough to control their speed more consistently

All the speedsters are pretty much geniuses but I like to believe that Bart is the only one who has a photographic memory (which, the memory thing is canon btw) because like... look, a lot of people make Bart the butt of the joke in the Flashfam but he’s special to me and I love him

Wally is the fastest speedster. Sometimes they wonder if Bart would have grown up to be faster, but they’ll never know because Bart has a prosthetic knee from when he was shot and it gives him a limp (also canon). This makes Wally the favorite of the speedforce (yes I’m stealing this from @damthosefandoms but look, she’s right, that’s why I’m stealing it)

Jai and Irey are almost as fast as their dad but not quite

The speedforce is an entity with a mind of it’s own and the speedsters are its favorite humans.

Barry Allen has so much love in his heart. He loves his family, he loves his friends, he loves his rogues.

On that note, Barry Allen and Hal Jordan are best friends (and sometimes lovers?) and I know that’s pretty much a given in the fandom but it needs to be said again because I love their friendship

Max and Jay are good friends but they can get competitive about “their” respective kids so despite the fact that Bart is literally Barry’s grandson, Max and Jay try to one up each other with Barry and Bart’s exploits on who’s more proud of their kid. When Barry gets involved he talks about Wally, and when Jai and Irey are born, Wally gets involved talking about his kids. It’s a mess.

All! Speedsters! Have! ADHD! It’s just a given. It can cause them problems, but they manage. The speedforce helps.

I’m on the fence about whether I want to headcanon Bart as having Tourette’s? There’s literally no basis for it other than the fact that I have Tourette’s and I want to project, but like. It would fit him well imo, and I think Tourette’s is best suited to superspeed out of all the powers because my body constantly feels like it’s not going fast enough.

Barry is defensive of his rogues. Someone tells him that his rogues are lame compared to another city’s and he goes off on them. People think he’s insane because he criticizes the rogues in one breath and defends them in another

Bart avoids VR games after travelling back in time because while it might not be the same level of technology, he doesn’t want to trigger himself with something similar

Listen, growing up in VR was traumatic for him because no one was real, he didn’t process death, he didn’t process danger

I ping pong back and forth on whether Bart is aroace or gay, so I’m gonna say he’s demi.

Wally and Barry are bi

I haven’t given thought to the sexualities of the other speedsters and I’m not going to lol

They all welcome Jess Chambers (not to be confused with Jesse, I’m talking about the one from Future State) with open arms when they come to this universe

Jess is canonically nonbinary, and I think that inspires Bart to be more open with his gender too

Jai and Irey are menaces. They try to get away with using their superspeed in little ways just to mess with their dad

When they’re old enough to join the Teen Titans, Jai is the leader. I don’t know why I just know in my gut that he is.

Having two speedsters on the Teen Titans is confusing but they manage and it actually works out well!

Irey likes to change her hair often and the fam makes her wear wigs as a civilian to not give away her identity

I want to include headcanons about Wallace, Avery, Jesse, and others, but I’m not as familiar with them and don’t want to do them disservice, you know? But what I’ve read of them they seem pretty cool! I just need to read more of them.

[morizoras-cave]

Pass Out (Request)

Jake Gyllenhaal x gn!teen!co-star!reader, Tom Holland x gn!teen!co-star!reader

Genre: angst, fluff

Request Description: can I request a Tom Holland and Jake Gyllenhaal x teen!reader where she gets sick during the press tour and ends up passing out in front of fans? love your writing btw!!

Warnings: none, really? sick reader, slight insecurity, language

(A/N): yeah im in berlin (we’re being very safe and wearing masks all the time :D) and thats why i havent updated much. im trying to update a bit, im writing this at 7:43 to make it before breakfast hsghssgs anyway hope y’all enjoy

“Y/n, you don’t look too good? Caught a stomach bug?” 

You sighed at Jake’s question. You did quite literally feel like shit that morning, all three of you padding out of the hotel to enter the car. It was going to be another day of press, and while those days could be a bunch of fun, this time the thought just worsened your pounding headache, nausea, weakness, and general shit-feeling.

“I don’t know what it is, I just feel real bad,” you grumbled irritably. Tom and Jake exchanged glances over your head. 

“Think you should stay home today? Me and Jake can take a yelling from Marvel, it’s totally fine. They hate me anyway.” 

“Yeah, I was gonna say, there’s really no way Tom can worsen his image to Marvel. He can take the blame. I mean, he’s already hit rock bottom.” 

You snorted at their banter, and without looking, knew Tom had that undoubtedly offended face. Though, you still shook your head sadly. 

“It’s not that bad. It’ll be fine.” 

There wasn’t much arguing then. The boys never knew you to be a liar about such things, and trusted your judgement completely. And, to be fair, you didn’t lie about how you were feeling. You just thought it was less bad than it was, which is why, when you entered the car, sitting between the two man-children, you got very nervous when it suddenly worsened drastically. 

You were sickly-looking, and both your head and stomach hurt. Your legs felt like jello (which is a very weird sensation, by the way, causing you to wriggle your legs to give them life again), and an overwhelming feeling of nausea hit you. Overall though, you felt weak.

Jake and Tom were still watching you worriedly. Your worsened state was easily spotted by them. 

“We’re here,” the driver announced. Out the window, you could see the sandy building that you were filming press in that day, and a pretty sizeable group of fans (mostly beautiful young gals) who were looking to meet their idols. 

“This is a bigger group than usual,” Tom mumbled, and the comment made you involuntarily groan. You loved fans, but today everything sucked. 

Soon enough, you three exited the black car, and The Jello Effect was in full effect, as you wobbled to the front door. 

“Oh my God, hi! We’re super big fans!” A nice-looking lady smiled brightly when she spotted you all. Her voice was pleasant, you thought. 

“Oh wow, I can’t believe we’re actually meeting them. I didn’t think they’d show up here today. Guess you were right,” came the mumblings from between them.

“We can sign a few things, if you want? We still have a bit of time before our schedule,” Tom offered kindly, because he was such a celebrity that really loved the fans, possibly more than both you and Jake (not that you two didn’t, Tom just had so much love to give out). 

All the fans (girls and boys and nonbinary alike) gathered to have their shirts, comics, papers, and anything else that they wanted signed. 

You felt horrific, but didn’t object, signing and smiling the best you could, but overall staying quiet. You even joined in on the pictures. 

“C-Can I, um, also have a-a picture?” a shy boy asked stepping forward. Both Tom and Jake smiled and said “yeah” and “of course”, but in that moment the world suddenly got very blurry for you.

Everything was very overwhelming, the noise, the questions, the requests, and the responsibilities, and all of a sudden your legs were gone, and the ground was very close to you. And then it was black. 

Jake and Tom were standing in front of the boy, when a thump came from behind them (your jello body falling down, in case you were wondering). They looked, and surely enough, there you were, on the ground. 

They both immediately jumped down to you, crouching beside your collapsed body. 

“Holy shit, are they okay?” one of the fans asked, as a worried murmur spread throughout the crowd of people. 

“Uh, I don’t really know-” Jake said nervously. “Damn it, Y/n,” he cursed you, because, of course, you would underestimate the seriousness of your sickness. 

Thinking quick, Tom grabbed the rather shy boys phone, angled it so the boy was behind him, and then tapped Jake’s shoulder. They both, comically, duck faced simultaneously, and Tom snapped a picture. 

“Here,” he gave the kid back his phone, whilst Jake grabbed and lifted you. 

“We gotta get them to a hospital. I don’t want to risk anything,” Jake whispered, not wanting to further upset the fans that stood beside them, with wide eyes and filming phones. Tom nodded. 

“Alright, it’s been good, but, uh.. Well, we’ve got things to fix here,” Tom waved goodbye, and then followed Jake, who was sprinting to the parking lot with you in his arms. 

“W-What?” you mumbled and blinked awake. You felt drowsy and sick and simply quite terrible, and it was hard to understand, but you realized you were in someones arms. 

“Holy shit, Y/n, you scared the crap out of me!” Jake exclaimed breathlessly, as you awoke from your nonconsensual nap. You looked around in confusion, at Jake’s face (you had a great view of his nose and chin), the parking lot, and then a moment where you wondered what the hell was happening. 

“Did I- What happened?” your mumble was weak.

“You passed out! We’re bringing you to a hospital!” Tom came from behind Jake. This made you stir. 

“Uh, no. No, you’re not!” you (with much grunting and effort - and probably Jake simply letting you go out of respect) jumped out of Jake’s grasp and onto the parking lot. You stumbled, overestimating the solidness of your legs, and almost falling down again, but this time Tom was prepared. He grabbed your arm and pulled you to stand up. From his eyes came a warning look.

“Y/n. You’re sick. We’re going to a hospital. Just to make sure.” 

You knew he was right, but still you couldn’t help but feel like a bother. The boys both saw your stubbornness fade slightly. 

“Alright, I’ll go to the hospital. But you guys go and do press. I can’t have you getting in trouble with Marvel..” you mumbled somewhat angrily. 

Jake and Tom looked at each other for a moment, and then shook their heads. They begun moving at the same time, each taking one of your arms and just starting to walk. You looked back and forth between them accusingly. 

“I called an Uber. It’ll be here five.”

“Sounds good, sounds good.” 

“Excuse me? I said, I’ll go alone!” 

Tom stopped, turning to you. Surprisingly, he smiled playfully.

“Look, N/n. We’re going wether you like it or not, because me and Jake, we care about you too. So stop being so selfish, and let’s go get you checked out, because we can’t have you feeling sick and passing out on us. Alright?” 

His voice was surprisingly light and his smile was upheld, but you could tell he was still a bit concerned. The feeling of someone caring about you. It warmed your heart a bit. 

Jake ruffled your hair from behind, and you all started walking again. You smiled stupidly, and, though still present, your nausea was much smaller now. Jake eyed you from the side, watching your smile. He shook his head.

“Dummy.” 

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