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[pretensesoup]

Queer books, day 31/30

Turns out I like writing about books in this format, but I read a lot more slowly than I write.

I asked on Mastodon for everyone's favorite romance novels with an NB character in them. Partly because I'm in the process of writing my own NB character and I wanted to see how other people had dealt with sex scenes (in the anatomic sense). Partly because I just wanted to see how anyone else conceptualized nonbinaryness*. That request led me to Sword Dance by AJ Demas. It only sort of answers my questions, but that's okay because it's amazing.

In an alternative version of the Mediterranean, Damiskos is an ex-soldier (now disabled) and current quartermaster who has been sent to visit an old friend (Nione) to secure a contract for fish sauce. At her house, he meets: a bunch of tedious philosophers led by Eurydemos (who seems to preach a very anti-alien, anti-LGBTQ agenda, and yet is writing poems for...), Varazda (a sword dancer and eunuch from Zash, another country in which Damiskos was once stationed and for which he harbors a deep affection), Varazda's "owner" Aristokles, and a few others. Quickly, Damiskos surmises that all is not as it seems--first, he foils an attempt on Varazda's life, and it becomes apparent that the relationship between Varazda and Aristokles may be a lie--in fact, they are conspiring to hide something far greater than the fact that Varazda is not actually a slave. Soon, Damiskos is teaming up with Varazda to solve a murder, then to avert a war and recapture Nione's villa from the philosophers. Oh, and falling in love.

Varazda is an interesting character. He (Damiskos's POV is the only one we get, and he uses male pronouns for him, although he says he thinks of himself as both male and female) was made a eunuch after his father lost a military engagement of some kind. He was then enslaved for a while, until he was sent to the Zashian embassy in Boukos, and then he was freed. This is obviously a major source of trauma, and Damiskos is in a unique place to appreciate that because of his time in Zash. As a result, Damiskos is extremely careful in their nascent relationship to let Varazda lead. Their relationship is very sweet in part because of this deference, and they deal with consent very well.

Key quote: (Varazda has been discussing how he doesn't always achieve an erection because of being a eunuch.)

Rather boldly, Damiskos said, "Want to see if we can make it happen again?" Varazda looked up in surprise. "What--right now?" "Yes, of course right now! Immortal gods. We're sitting on your bed, talking about how beautiful you are and whether or not you like sex--it's surprising I even need to say anything." "I am literally a eunuch, First Spear." After that they were both laughing...

As you might have guessed from the summary above, this is a world in which there is violence, homophobia/transphobia, and slavery, including sexual slavery. Women have some rights to own property, but they aren't voting citizens. The implication, reading between the lines, is that in the world generally, same-sex couples aren't too uncommon, and it's just Eurydemos's students who have a problem with them. (Eurydemos and his students reminded me a bit of Socrates and Plato, but of course Plato doesn't care that much about same-sex relationships, c.f. that one story from Symposium that got turned into a song from Hedwig and the Angry Inch. But I've been privileged to hear some angry Jesse rants about Plato since doing the podcast, and it reminded me of that. Anyway, as Plato says a lot, philosophers with bad opinions were a dime a dozen back in Athens, so.) Also, warning for explicit on-page sex.

*: Is Varazda nonbinary or is he gender fluid? I don't know. At one point, he says, "I never really think of myself as a man, but most of the time I'm quite happy for other people to think of me that way." Elsewhere, he implies that he doesn't want to be neither male or female, so he tries to be both. Maybe genderfluid is a better word for him. Maybe he can't articulate exactly how he feels, because he's not speaking to Damiskos in his first language, or because there isn't a word for how he feels. Either way, I enjoyed the way the character was portrayed.

That's it. Lots of action/plot, a good amount of romance, very engaging, love the setting. 10/10, go read it.

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j'ai été taguée par @familyvideowithsteve! (merci pour la mention 🫶)

last song played : brown eyed girl - van morrison

fav colour : green 💚

currently watching : drag race france (j'me fais un rewatch de la saison 2)

last movie watched : woahhhh je regarde plus de films en ce moment, aucune idée

currently reading : genderflou de thamos et enchaîné au rire de félix auvard

sweet/spicy/savoury : honnêtement je suis team salé donc je sais pas trop quoi répondre mais savoury i guess

last thing i googled : "quels documents apporter en mairie pour renouvellement de cni" ptdr

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je tague quiconque veut le faire <3333333 bisous

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List of trans books

There won't be only books

As usual I'm posting in private because I'm terrified of being mis/perceived;

I call a "trans book" anything that deals with transness in a way or another. I'll try to add details so it's more transparent: - if the author is trans - the genre (fiction, theory, autobiography/memoir mainly) - if it's a book or a comic (more Bande Dessinée ig)

also my personal subjective ranking if I've read it. So brace yourselves

Books I've read

Genderqueer, Maia Kobabe (memoir) (NB author) (comic)

Genderflou, Thamos (French) (memoir too ig) (NB author) (BD)

I wish you all the best (fiction, YA book, trans author)

"Boys Run the Riot" (manga, fiction, trans author)

Film/series I've watched

Dead end (Netflix serie,

Feel good (Netflix serie, live-action, kinda based off actor's life. Sapphic.)

Books I'm currently reading

Gender euphoria

Books I haven't read (and want to) [ok there's not only trans books but i can do what i want thanks]

Stone Butch Blues

trucs traduits par Matérialisme Trans (mais en VO ducou)

Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girl's Confabulous Memoir (memoir?fictif?)

Les genres fluides: de Jeanne d'Arc aux saintes trans, Clovis Maillet

apparently there's other stuff and a list > i'll try to find it

Befire We Were Trans, Kit Heyam

Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man (memoir)

Something That May Shock and Discredit You (memoir)

Felix Ever After (fiction, YA book, trans author)

Detransition, Baby - Torrey Peters

She gets the girl, Rachael Lippincott & Alyson Derrick

butch stone blues > je l'avais deja croise ca a l'air banger

for non binary leads books : https://www.instagram.com/p/CqdafLdoLY1/ but there are too much stuff i'm overwhelmed

Social media

@front_transmasc sur insta

@alt_fem sur insta fait une anthologie transfem de textes

Lake Fama's comics (NB author) (they post it on Tumblr & Insta i think? they won't make much anymore tho)

Nate Stevenson (NB author) (they post on a newsletter) (he also published a book that's a compilation of his Tumblr annual new year's posts of the 2010s and i love it but i can't really count it there because it's published just before he transitions)

[suzetonic]

J'ai vu tes tags sur Genderflou ; si tu l'as pas lu je te conseille Genderqueer, qui m'a énormément plu!!

Merçi, j'y jetterai un œil!

[baltears]

anyway a fun part of being nb/genderfl is that sometimes 'us' means women and sometimes 'us' means men but cis ppl seem unaware that either or both can also be 'you people' depending on circumstance and i think cis women sometimes imagine that they're immune to occupying that space for me just bc we both experience misogyny or bc they're queer

[seborn9000]

Book #n of 2022: Genderflou by Tamos le Thermos (en français)

Tamos is a 24-yo artist, and their first book is an autobiographical comic/BC about their friends, their family, and their journey to understanding their own gender -- obviously a work in progress. They have loyal friends (patient, noseless Nina is a fixture), some more and some less disastrous relationships, a supportive father, and a great passion for shoes.

Tamos is generally on instagram (tamos_le_thermos), where I am not. I found them through https://www.exemplaire-editions.fr/home and really like their drawing style and their sense of humor.

Yes, I said I was reading it a couple weeks ago, sorry distractible. But it was fun to read, endearing, and accessible to me with my rusty high school French. Which is now much richer.

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Si me siguen prometo hablar sobre mi ensayo en proceso de edición llamado "Porqué Marvel debería hacer un Especial sobre los 15 años de América Chávez y porqué lo debería organizar Stephen".

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[queerqorvidthe]

flags for the stuff yeess

order

genderfluc [|] genderflic [|] genderfluic

genderflun [|] genderflin

hope these dont end up looking like aro/ace flags lmao i reverse image searched and didnt find anything but ehh sometimes ris is not very reliable

each have the same colour meanings

2 shades of aqua - genderstatic

2 shades of green - genderflux

2 shades of purple - genderfluid

and the same format

the top colour (aqua, green, purple [both of them]) is the label one prefers to identify with

the bottom colour(s) (the rest) are the labels one technically are

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genderfluid c!dream genderfluid c!dream genderfluid c!dream genderfluid c!dream !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[wlwynonnaearp]

Hello jordan, jay, helena whatever u want to be called. I just wanted to give you a little lesson in biology: people who are born with XX Chromosomes are the sex female and ppl who are born XY are the sex male. And yes, i know gender and sex are not the same thing. But if u look up gender, it says: the state of being MALE or FEMALE. Thats it. There are only 2 fukin gender get over it. You are not “nonbinary” or “genderfluid” or any of that made up tumblr bullshit. And before u acuse me of any word ending in    -ism or -phobia lemme tell u i have nothing against trans ppl because thats a real thing. They are a real thing. You are not. Well u are real but ur “gender” is faker than kim k’s boobs. Idk anything about u but trust me not being lady like or being manly doesent make u trans or “nonbinary”. And yes maybe u are ladylike or smth but the truth is unless u transition u are not trans and u are not “non binary”. Oh and they/them is used for 2 or more ppl. There are only 2 genders. Get. Over. It

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KERALA RECOGNISES THE TRANSGENDER'S RIGHT TO EDUCATION

Transgender students often drop out at puberty once they face discrimination. Recently Kerala government has honoured 21 transgender school dropouts for passing examinations equivalent to class 10 and 12, under Literacy Mission scheme (Samanwaya). The state hopes to change their non-availability of jobs, which leads them to beg and prostitution.

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did i do a url, icon, and theme swap with my art blog and my main? yeah.

APOCALYOVE->NBCHAOSGOD

GENDERFL-UCK->APOCALYOVE

like if seen WHEE

[wolf-1-xex]

I'm out of the closet about everything but like my dad is ignorant so he'll be surprised whenever I bring it up

Me: I'm gay. Im attracted to everyone, regardless of gender identity. Im pansexual. I LOVE WOMEN. I LOVE MEN. I LOVE ANYONE, IDENTITY DOESNT MATTER TO ME.

My dad: whatever

Me: *Compliments a girl*

My dad: YOU'RE WHAT?? I CANNOT BELIEVE YOUD BETRAY ME LIKE THIS!! I RAISED A SWEET LITTLE GIRL THAT LIKES MEN NOT A F*GGOT

Also he knows I'm nonbinary and at first he supported it but when he realized that means I use they/them pronouns and not she/her he suddenly dropped off

Assessment person: So what do you identify as?

Me: *Sweating nervously because my dad is right next to me because he wouldn't leave* Uhm well I don't like, uhm I like, don't like labels, I'm not like cis, I'm like, not like a guy, I'm genderfl- I'm a

I'm a girl at birth... But I don't let labels define me or anything!

My dad when we got home: I'm surprised about all the stuff you said about your gender, and I love and support you.

Me: Oh me being nonbinary? Thanks so much!

My dad a week later: YOU ARE A GIRL, A FEMALE, NOT A TR*NNY