#gaytransguy

[trans-man-wit-no-plan]

https://gofund.me/19c970c6

Hi tumbler bloggers I really need your support and reblogs. In my 22 years of living and finding myself I'm ready to get back on track in making my place in this world and I want to live instead of surviving as I have. Finishing Highschool is my biggest goal at the moment. I'm undiagnosed with ADHD. Making appointments has never been easy for me. And moving will help me get the right treatment I need. Moving out of my reservation and having my own safe space would help with my suicidal thoughts and depression. Please consider donating or spreading my gofundme <3

From my GoFundMe:

Hi, my perfered name is James. I identify as a transgender male. I live in a reservation far north in Saskatchewan Canada. Living between family members, I'm currently trying to move out and live in the city to school in a program for learning disabilities. I'm currently undiagnosed for ADHD and being in the city will help me get diagnosed and treatment. I need help with rent, utilities, food, internet, and school supplies. I'm in need of these asap as I have entered a helping program for housing indigenous in Prince Albert, Sk and I hope to have money to help me as I make this big transitions for better opportunities and living conditions for my well being.

https://gofund.me/19c970c6

[feminisedlad]

a lot of people think the most important aspects of being trans are self-embodiment, identity, authenticity, and all of that other shit. theyre wrong tho. the important part is to find out which trans people are lame and stupid so that you can mock them relentlessly, usually over made-up internet discourse.

its good bc that way, when ur home state passes laws saying you cant piss in public, you at least know that not even other trans people will give a fuck because theyre too busy arguing over who can say "femboy" or whether "theyfab" is punching up or down. god, we are so fucked

[halogen2]

omg wow youre a trans person who doesnt date other trans people? ur “only attracted to cis people” but for totally not at all bigoted reasons? should we throw a party? should we invite kalvin garrah

[coochiequeens]

This is where the trans allies who offer “gorgeous” and other praise are really just setting trans people for disappointment.

[redditreceipts]

The title of this post …… https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/s/Zlx1N7o3NN

Where's that post of the straight man who would go on grindr and look out for trans men because usually they're desperate and many are mentally unstable?

Also, how do these people not realise that they're setting back the gay rights movement like a thousand years? I mean I know that the main targets of the trans community are lesbians, but I feel that gay men are increasingly invalidated as well.

We should never have straight people allowed into the LGB community 😭 look how they're behaving

[vikings-til-valhalla]

I was talking on the r/gaytransguys reddit about how it's so hard to find a man who'd appreciate a literal Dwarf straight out of Lord of the Rings (short, stocky, kinda fat, hairy as hell, good at throwing axes, can drink you under the table into the grave, crafty as hell). And I said in the post that my dream is, when I find a man who I love enough to marry, I want to propose to him by forging a sword with his name engraved on it. Then I made the comment of, "But who the fuck wants a guy with a thousands of years old interest in the grand year 2024??" And I genuinely meant that. I genuinely feel unlovable in every way just for how I look and the fact that I'm trans.

But then, TONS of guys, cis and trans, FLOCKED to me in the span of like an hour, and commented that they'd do ANYTHING for a man like me. That they'd absolutely be head over heels to be proposed to with a hand forged sword, and that anyone who has me someday is a damn lucky man!

And idk. I've been super low, in fact I've been at my absolute lowest ever in life for the past 3 weeks. But maybe, I guess, there'll be someone out there for me one day who loves me, flaws and all, and maybe it'll be alright. Maybe I won't be alone forever.

[t4transsexual]

I remember dealing with more than a few trans people who said very outright to me that they almost see cis people as the "endgame" or like, as in if T4T is some last resort??? I'm just wondering what weird, pro-chasery nonsense they've been absorbing.

Trans fems/women aren't a lesser fem/woman in relationships

Trans mascs/men aren't a lesser masc/men in relationships

NB people aren't some woman/man-lite consolation prize in relationships

People who are thinking that way about trans people have a lot of internalized transphobia to unpack imo, because what on earth are they saying about THEMSELVES if this is what they think about other trans people when it comes to relationships?

back when i thought i liked guys, i was on the subreddit r/gaytransguys, and i ended up leaving because literally like EVERY OTHER POST was some guy saying "no cis gay man will ever want me. ill never trust a cis person in a relationship to see me as a real man" & if anybody said "go t4t then" theyd play the game of pussyfooting around the fact that they dont see trans men as real men

even when i wasnt exclusively t4t, i never saw cis people as an end goal. and my only healthy relationships have been with other trans people. some people say its more "validating" to date cis people, but me personally ive never felt MORE invalidated than by cis partners. meanwhile with most of my trans partners (all but like, one, but even then she still didnt see me as a woman) have been perfectly validating of my trans identity

[mechawolfie]

i love to go to r/gaytransguys to get monthly blasted with INTERNALIZED TRANSPHOBIA BEAM and hate myself for the rest of the day

[giofvcks]

Lmao 🤣 but really this my 26th valentine day single and alone. Im used to it and probably will always be this way. Love isn’t for me and that’s cool 😎. I’ve wasted so much time trying to love others, pour into others with gifts, money, advice, energy, support etc and it was never reciprocated. Chasing love ❤️ will only result in money 💰, energy, and time lost. I rather pour into myself and love myself unconditionally. So...Happy Valentines Day to everyone! Especially to my fellow single folx. But real talk LOVE YOURSELF, try it you might just like it. #singlevalentinesday #healingquotes #onedayatatime #happyvday #happyvalentinesday #loveyourself #selfcare #selflove #trans #transman #transftm #queer #gay #transansgay #gaytransguy #PatreonSaint #saintvalentin #roses #red #pink #candy #hearts https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt33H75AmIR/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=qlmdp0w2xdrc

[xyphoidmax]

Check point: 3 years on T. It doesn’t feel like it was THAT long ago that I took my first shot. Back when my voice was higher, I had way less muscle mass, less body hair, more hair on my head, no facial hair, and significantly less happy with myself and who I was and who I saw in the mirror. Now I’m much happier and definitely resemble the man I had always seen myself as - a goal I thought I’d never reach. Same glasses, though, weird how they seem to fit my face better now even though they’re ladies’ frames lol. I wanna thank everybody who helped me get to where I am today, and everybody who’s still helping me get to where I need to go. Couldn’t have done it without my family and friends, even with non-transition related things. Life is hard but way easier with support. #ftm #testosterone #transgender #transformationtuesday #transguy #transguysofinstagram #transmenofinstagram #femaletomale #ftmfitness #ftmpostop #transpride #transandinked #transandshirtless #gaytransman #gaytransguy #redbeard #blondehair #glasses #tattoos #muscle #chesthair #happiness #albuquerque #newmexico #beaverton #oregon #420 (at Beaverton, Oregon)

[gaytransmalefeedist417]

I am an FTM who knits, are there any more in a pair of handmade socks leaving oneself in stitches or am I the only one creatively unraveling?

[haunterr]

Instagram, Twitter, and Snapchat. Three more ways to follow me and see how incredibly lame I am, haha. Just kidding I am pretty confident in myself. Anyway, I’m just gonna leave these here fo you guys.

Feel free to follow me on any of them. You’ll most likely see a lot of books, anime, video games, horror movies, and other things. Sometimes you’lol even see my face. Scary I know.

Instagram: @andrewtayylor

Twitter: @andrewtayylorr

Snapchat: Andrewtayylor

[videodr0m3]

🦈#transguy #gaytransguy #transman ##transgender #trans

[genderkoolaid]

Hey uhhh. Do you guys (trans mlm specifically) ever feel like you're just a fujoshi/faker that just wants to invade mens spaces? How can i cope with that feeling?

Oh, definitely. Feeling like that is very common for transmasc mlm.

I think the best way to deal with this, in my opinion, is to expose yourself to positive content about being transmasc and mlm, and surround yourself with other transmasc mlm. Seeing stuff that depicts your sexuality + gender as important, beautiful, & healthy starts to help you believe that you are those things. When all you see and hear about is either cis mlm or cishet women fetishizing cis mlm, it makes it really hard to believe that there is a place for you. We need to be able to see that it is possible for us to exist and be happy and loved before we are able to believe it, and the first step to that is seeking out other people like you. Seeing and reading about gay trans men being gay trans men has been very helpful in dealing with that internalized transandrophobia. Transmasculine achilleanism isn't any lesser than cis men's achilleanism, we don't have to measure ourselves against cis MLM to see if we are "real".

If you want some places to start, there's Lou Sullivan's We Both Laughed In Pleasure, the movie Rūrangi which is about a gay Māori trans man (you can find a review here, as well as a lot of other reviews of transmasc rep), and also the r/gaytransguys which you might find helpful.

[tsurangaconundrum]

in less than 10 years time tender (taika gender) will replace jender (oh you know) as the aspirational gaytransguy look of choice by people on tumblr and due to aesthetic and time differences it will seem odd, this shift, but truly. it all comes down to one thing: lush eyelashes

[your-dads-top]

https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/r8w3sz/first_experience_at_a_gay_bathhouse_sex_club_post/

Lou Sullivan: The Next Generation