#gaygirl safe

[sapphic-horror]

HESBOY | SHEGAYGIRL

[PT: hesboy, shegaygirl. /ENDPT]

— hesboy - a he/him lesbian who is a boy, a lesboy who uses he/him pronouns, etc. inclusive of all lesboys.

— shegaygirl - a she/her gay (as in veldian) who is a girl, a gaygirl who uses she/her pronouns. inclusive of all gaygirls. can be called sheveldigirl, sheturigirl, shevincigirl, etc. depending on the term for gay you use.

— self-indulgent

[genderstarbucks]

Adjusted Gaylm Man | Lesbian Man

Alt Lesbian Woman | Gaylm Woman

[i-care-about-you-love]

Still very pretty and existing🌻🩶

[hellhoundzzz]

I am the most girly boy and the most boyly girl 💥💥

shoutout to trans women who are tomboys

shoutout to trans men who dress "gay" or really like pink

We love you

you are valid

and gender stereotypes SUCK

[remusthedroid]

Reminder that ALL multispec ppl are safe on this blog (this includes but is not limited to bi gays, bi lesbians, pan gays, pan lesbians, omni gays, omni lesbians, lesboys, gaygirls, etc etc etc) i support y'all.

[thetimekeepers]

before you follow + opinions

byf

i am hazardqueer and anarchoqueer

we switch between i/me and we/us

we are very, very autistic. we are visibly autistic irl and have middling support needs. we require some tone tags in order to properly communicate, and you need to speak in clear language. we rarely mean to offend, please dont take anything we say personal and speak up if we hurt your feelings!

if you know our triggers, tag things as "#tksdl" or "#🕥dl"

i am cringe AND i am free. idgaf what people think of me, genuinely. i dont care if you think im weird or annoying. just block me if you dont like me, or i'll block instead.

opinions

queer stuff we support ALL contradictory labels, including mspec lesbians and gays, lesboys and gaygirls, aspec people, nondysphoric trans people, multigender people, etc etc. i am anti-exclusion and anti-transmed. i support bodily autonomy and safe body modification unconditionally. i am pro-kink.

shipcourse i guess i'm technically profiction but i stay away from darkship content, as it makes me uncomfortable. fiction can be a helpful tool in processing trauma. writing/drawing content including dark topics is not inherently bad, in fact it can be good for healing trauma. however, fetishizing topics such as csem, abuse, and bestiality can only be harmful.

syscourse most plurality can be explained neurologically, but not all plurality is traumagenic. human consciousness is unexplained scientifically. perhaps you just have multiple people in one body with no particular cause. until there is more in-depth research into DID and plurality, i will not exclude any kind of system. i guess we're a pro-endo sysmed? idk. with that said, system hopping does not and cannot exist. leave body-swapping in science fiction.

paraphilic disorders we avoid paraphilia discourse, but technically we could be called pro-para. HOWEVER, para communities often devlove into anti-recovery pro-contact abusive echo chambers that endanger children. if you have a paraphilic disorder, acknowledge it's an illness, and work towards bettering yourself, you're fine. if you are pro-contact or if you engage in paraphilia communities, DNI. animals, children, and corpses cannot consent.

misc we are punk and libleft, specifically a socialist anarchist. we believe the r-slur is unreclaimable due to its definition and etymology. pro-death penalty, but NOT in the hands of governments; instead, the victim and/or their family should be allowed to enact justice however they see fit. black lives matter, #landback, stop asian hate, and free palestine.

[jocanoooo]

Hi my name is Carmen Winstead. I'm 17 years old. I am very similar to you. Did I mention to you that I'm dead? A few years ago a group of girls pushed me down a sewer hole to try and embarrass me. When I didn't come back up the police came.The girl said that I had fell and everyone believed them. The police found my body in the sewer. I had a broken neck and my makeup was uneven. Send this message to 75 people after you listened the whole message if you value your life. A boy called Crag received this message. He just left and deleted it. When he was in the shower he heard laughing. My laughter. He got really scared and rushed to his phone to repost this message but he was too late. The next morning his mom entered his bedroom and all she found was a message written in his blood saying 'You will never have xem back'. (Crag uses he/xey) No one has found his body yet because he is with me. A gaygirl called Joshua Craig received this message and she immediately sent it to 255 people, 10 more than required. I still watch over every second of her life to make sure that she is safe and to keep her and everyone close to her out of danger. Send this to 15 people in the next five minutes if you don't want your fate to be the same as Cousin Crag's. Your time starts now.the story is true you can research it on Amino.

average facebook copy pasta

[spookysweettooth]

Uh yeah, was on Pinterest and seen a post that said it was a safe space for Mspec lesboys and Mspec gaygirls and someone in the comments left a altered version of kys "/<y$" after leaving a comment saying that you can't be bi and lesbian or gay and pan ect.

Just um keep a eye out for people like that on Pinterest and don't tell people to "/<y$" please it's not a okay thing.

Dont harass people either guys like come on. Grow up, learn to swipe and ignore for the love of God just learn to block shit and censor tags. It's not that hard..

(Sorry for spelling errors

[nightfallsystem-moved]

Reminder I support every good faith identity. This includes:

M-spec gays, m-spec lesbians, endogenic systems, quiogenic systems, paragenic systems, omni/bi/pan/polysexuals, he/him women, he/him lesbians, lesboys, gaygirls, the list goes on

I just mind my own business and respect people's identities, I'm not in their head, I don't understand exactly who they are, only they know their identity.

If you don't support all good faith identities, or if you gatekeep communities, get off of my blog and block me

Anyone who supports good faith identities have a good day ✨

[frostytundra01]

So I've known for a while that my identity is a sort of complicated mess. Like my sexuality is simple, I'm gay, I like men and all of that but my gender is a complex mess. It's filled with tens of fluid pronouns, quite a few static genders and a core of both xenogenders and just- male. But I've grown pretty confident in that and over time going from a snobby kid in truscum circles to this queer mess I've sort of mellowed out and stopped giving a fuck about what people identify as.

But being like this you sort of have to be aware of exclusionists and the mess that entails. Honestly though for stuff like neopronouns and gender that train has already started to die down. Like sure, there are a lot of assholes getting pissy about it but most of the people I know are fine with that stuff and aren't going to bat an eye. Like sure, trans stuff is still a nightmare and I'm not going to pretend it's not, or that it's not getting worse, especially for trans women but in the trans community itself and among a good amount of other queer people neopronouns and fringe identities are growing to be less of an issue. I can introduce myself to people with my full set of pronouns and have my list in a full pronoun page and I generally don't get harassed because people as a whole are getting better about this stuff.

Because of this and because of being more aware of this than other people I tend to pick up on other things that exclusionists do target. Mainly anyone using the 'wrong' sexuality label. While for most people new labels and new niche identities are fine, when someone has a complicated gender alignment it gets tricky when they identify as gay or lesbian. Though admittedly it usually turns up with lesbian more than often because just like with the truscum movement it tends to be us trans men cannibalizing the most.

Now for someone who's uninformed I get why this all may seem ridiculous. With such confirmed definitions how can a man be a lesbian or a woman be gay (in a non all encompassing term)? But I think a lot of people miss how important these communities can be for trans people. While I know for a lot of people this also has to do with how gender collides with sexuality and you can't discount that just because you want to be an asshole but even without that why are you trying to take people from this groups that are way safer for trans people than straight ones? When we're all facing such hard times I don't get how people ignore how devastating it can be to be driven away from these communities. Many trans men who like women or trans women that like men started in these communities and a lot of them hold on to that attachment. It's cruel to take that away just because you think those labels don't fit that person.

I think some of the same can be said for m-spec lesbian/gay people. Looking beyond the fact that sexuality is a spectrum people can fall in and out of and the fact that historical presidents exist these communities have a lot of overlap. Sure unlike with trans people they might not have fit into these communities at the start and it's not the exact same situation but these communities are still important spaces for a lot of people. When someone needs to fit in other spaces with people that have a queer attraction to men or a queer attraction to women I know these terms can be useful and while I can't say I know everything about them I still respect the hell out of them.

Beyond all of this I think the rigid separation and enforcement of labels can hurt the community more than ever help. At the end of the day we're all queer and while labels can help in confirming yourself and who you really are I don't think they should be small clubs and groups so separate from all the rest. I know from someone who has a collection of genders that's niche and probably has like 1 or 2 other people using some of them if that sort of means nothing. Obviously with a rift like that I'm not relating to anyone but I still feel it's a pretty lonely way to go about things. I just think it's better to accept people and those labels because at the end of the day that's just another queer person trying to get by. We aren't enemies, we aren't hurting each other just by existing so just let people exist with whatever labels they want. Thier definition of a label may not be exactly what you expect of that but it fits them so just let them use it and bring out a little more queer joy into the world.

Now at the end of this I do want to ask anyone who uses the terms or groups of terms I've talked about to correct me if I get anything wrong. I do have a lot of niche terms and fit into a more gender focused subset but I'm just a gay male leaning trans person so I can't get all the complexities of this topic. I just wanted to speak about something that's been bothering me so if you can help me make this better I would really appreciate it. That being said I hope everyone has a wonderful day except for exclusionists, homophobes and transphobes and I'll probably make another rant post like this some other day.

[gokucarrot]

Introduction Post!

(I will probably update as time goes on)

Now that we've got that up above everything else lol, Hi! I'm Goku! My main pronouns are He/Him/Xe/Xim/They/Them, but I also use other pronouns! They are in a Pronouny in the About Me section of my carrd :3, but I also want to say that the Xe/Xim part is a full set (Xe/Xey/Xim/Xyr/Xir) but Xe/Xim/Xyr is what I mainly prefer from that set itself.

I will probably be posting art, fic updates, and Q&As if I ever get big enough for that lolll, maybe along with some other things like vents (I'll TW and c3nsor the best I can) or ideas or many different things that I can't post on Instagram lol.

My Interests!

Dragon Ball Series

Omori

Minecraft

Scene/Emo stuff (not the problematic stuff @~@)

Style

Aesthetics

Music

Art

Psychology

ofc queer stuff <3333

Kinda still FNAF

learning about nature, especially foxes, specifically arctic foxes!

What to expect when following me besides what I post:

I might need tone tags sometimes so if you ask a question, Dm, etc, please just go ahead and use tone tags! I struggle with Obsessive Love Disorder, possibly caused by BPD (Discouraged/Quiet) if I have it, so there's that. I also struggle with possible psych0sis (possibly linked to the same thing, but there are other possibilities to consider), or positive symptoms (not the kind of positive you're probably thinking lol) of such things. I also involuntarily (though sometimes voluntarily) age regress which- surprise, surprise- could also be caused the same darn thing ;-;.

I think I'm in a good enough headspace to talk about this, so if anyone is wondering; this is a *genuine* Identity Delusion, along with Fictionkin. I also use the term IRL to describe this. I do believe I'm a version of Son Goku, yes, but not all the time! Sometimes it's just me strongly kinning or having a very strong connection to him, probably due to neurodivergence (sorry if you hear that a lot XD)! I also want to say; just because there is no concrete diagnosis, does not mean the problem isn't there! So if you feel as though this is fake because I don't have one, trust me, I tell myself that allllll the time, but I've learned to realize that I can't ignore it simply because of that and that's why I'm so open about it. I am not going to share my real chosen name because I know what that might lead some people to do and, personally, I don't appreciate reality checks. Some of us do, some of us don't! I have few exceptions to reality checks and it'll be obvious when I need it, even if I can't say "reality check" in that moment.

If you're still reading, I'm so thankful for that ;-;

With all that said, and you reading at least the most important part of my carrd, I hope this account is interesting and you like it! <3

(I'll update this banner eventually)

(Edit from 6-5-23: Xe/Xim/Xyr*, minor grammar mistakes)

(Edit from 01-22-24: removed south park from interests, added minecraft)

PLS READ THIS BEFORE ANYTHING AT ALL WHATSOEVER

[genderstarbucks]

Do you know flags for lesbians who are cis woman and trans man, lesbians who are cis man and trans woman, and their equivalent turian versions? And lesbians who are tris women or tris men, and their gay counterparts

FTM Lesbian

Trans Man Lesbian

MTF Lesbian

Trans Woman Lesbian

FTM Gay

Trans Man Gay

MTF Gay

Trans Woman Gay

Cistrans Man Gaylm | Cistrans Man Lesbian

Cistrans Woman Gaylm | Cistrans Woman Lesbian

Cis Man Gaylm | Cis Man Lesbian

Cis Woman Gaylm | Cis Woman Lesbian

[kateaustinn]

when you lived the first 20 years of your life in fear of being gay but now you celebrate it every day 🏳️‍🌈⁣ #mood ⁣ i never thought i would come out to anyone but my friends. i was outed to my parents and it started a snowball effect of forcing myself to face my biggest fear. ⁣it was horrible at the time but looking back, i’m grateful i didn’t spend another second in the closet. ⁣🚪 ⁣ it took some time and a lot of soul searching but now i have my soul mate, a life where my sexuality is celebrated and i live in a place where there are rainbow crosswalks. ⁣🌈 ⁣ it really does get better. it may not be the better you always imagined for yourself but i’m telling you, it’s even better than that. ⁣♥️ ⁣ choosing to live my life for me and my happiness was the best decision i’ve ever made. i am here, i’m queer and i’m not going anywhere. i cant wait to spend as much time as i can being a safe place for you all to come and let your walls down and be YOU ✨ ⁣ i love you all and i’m so proud of you. keep pushing through every single day and working towards a better tomorrow. ♥️⁣ ⁣ tag some people that inspire you to be the best & most authentic you that you can be. i’m gonna⁣ tag mine in the comments! ⁣ ⁣ photo: @daytodaychase⁣⁣ hair: @hairbyalyssagallen⁣⁣ makeup: @__liyyahhxx ⁣ dresses:⁣ @bhldn ⁣ location: @pommeradnor⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #lgbt #lgbttravel #loveislove #travelblogger #femmetribe #girlswhokissgirls #theinvisiblefemme #philly #philadelphia #nyc #lifestyleblogger #lgbtblogger #gaygirls #couplegoals #globalgaygirlgang #gaygirlgang #goodvibesonly #pride #nycpride #fashionblogger #nycblogger #phillybride #bhldn #twobrides #lgbtwedding #phillyphotographer #mrsandmrs (at Gayborhood, Philadelphia) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwWue6MAGNK/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=13sbhl01g324h

[lesbianscreamqueen]

Happy Lesbian day of visibility! Big love for ALL my lesbian sisters today! We are all so wonderful! All lesbians deserve all the love today especially our sisters of color and our trans/nb sisters! We gotta be mindful of our disabled sisters and our mentally Ill/neurodivergent sisters! Lesbians deserve to be seen, safe, and respected! 💖💖💖🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 ... .. . #selfie #lesbian #lesbiandayofvisibility #lesbianofinstagram #lesmakeup #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #lgbt🌈 #lgbtpride #lgbtq🌈 #lgbt #lgbtq #lesbianpride #gaygirls #gaygirl #gaypride #makeuplooks #makeup #pink #pinkeyeshadow #redhead (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwu5tVAD0kC/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1nqrhe0gr630w

[cromartieyt]

My #journey to #GirlsInWonderland begins. 😁 I'm actually wearing a crop top but Grandma made me put the #flannel on before dropping me off and while I was annoyed at first, I quickly realized she has a point about keeping myself safe from male attention while traveling #Greyhound alone (not that women should make themselves uncomfortable cause some men can't keep control but hey, safety first) 👌 SEE ALL MY FELLOW #GAYGIRLS AT #ORLANDO SOON YA'LL. 😃 . . . . . #vacation #lgbt #pride #june #onmyway #earnedit #red #pridemonth #trendywigs #unicornhair #bluehairdontcare #giw2018 #gaycation #youtuberlife #gaygirls #wlw #singlelife #summer #selfie #selfies #blacklesbians #blackgirlsrock #glasses #femmelesbian (at Greyhound Bus)

[hooktin]

Stay safe with pride. 🌈🌈😍😍

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