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r/bpdlovedones | a callout post. ableism isn’t cute, luvs [LOTS OF IMAGERY]

[meme created by u/tu2cerix on reddit, all screenshots taken by the lovely r/bpdlovedonesHATEsub xo]

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So judging by the title, you’re questioning why I’m calling out a subreddit mainly for loved ones affected by those with BPD, and of course I understand. But before we begin, let me explain.

r/BPDLovedOnes is “supposedly” a sub made for those healing from loved ones with Borderline Personality Disorder, a Cluster B personality disorder,

This illness is incredibly stigmatized by individuals, especially those who lurk and post on r/BPDLovedOnes, who spread lies, saying that everyone with BPD is a loveless abuser. Which is not even close to true.

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This subreddit has been spreading ableist views and discriminative information under the guise of “helping people”, which is not the truth whatsoever.

Which is incredibly funny, because this is what their rules look like:

‘NotAllBorderlines’ lol. Not all Borderlines are going to be abusers, you dumb shits. And if you’ve been abused by someone with BPD while YOU have it, you’re not allowed to be involved.

How...lovely?

So if I’ve been abused by someone with BPD but I have it myself, I can’t get support? Beautiful! [eyeroll]

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The Art Gallery

Portrait One: I Generalize Everyone with an Addiction Problem and Post Intimate Conversations on Reddit

You sound...kinda judgy there, fella.

First of all, not everyone with addiction issues has BPD. Second of all, why are you posting an intimate conversation on Reddit? If it’s making you uncomfortable, maybe stop? Discuss that with her? Instead of blasting her on the Internet lol? Is that difficult?

And what do you mean “trauma bond”? We can’t see the rest of your conversation lol. By the looks of it you asked her about her past and she doesn’t want to share it with you. It seems like you WANT an excuse to cry on that sub. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who posts our issues on the Internet instead of working it out with me. It’s not Reddit’s business. I feel bad for the girl tbh

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Portrait Two: Medical Professional Calls Out The Sub and Speaks All Fax, No Printer

pwBPD - Person with BPD

You know your subreddit is shit if a MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL has called you out on it.

THE ONLY REASON for banning a medical professional from your echo chamber of bullshit is because you want to live in a world where everyone with BPD is the literal Antichrist and you want to continue hating them for no reason other than you’re hateful yourself.

They love to preach and say that those with BPD are mentally ill, but I have never once seen someone with BPD send death threats. Hysterical.

Wouldn’t you want your loved ones to get help? Instead of hating on them, generalizing everyone with the disorder? A little odd, huh?

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TW: SELF HARM, RAPIST MENTIONS

Portrait Three: I Can’t Properly Name This Portrait As My Eyes Have Rolled Into The Back Of My Head / Hypocricy

Ummm...this was...a ride.

You can’t tell someone to “cut into their veins” and then turn around to say we’ll call you a bully for wanting to talk respectfully lol. How does it feel...to be more hateful than anybody I’ve ever seen?

My ex friend would say similar things to me, and you wanna know something? She doesn’t have BPD. I do. And yet...I’ve never said anything as cruel as what she would say.

Maybe because...people who don’t have BPD can be abusive too? CRAZY, RIGHT?

Don’t tell r/BPDLovedOnes or they’ll have a stroke.

Moving on!

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Portrait Four: BPD Women are Evil Because I Couldn’t Make Them Orgasm :(

They faked orgasms to make you feel better, bud. Like how does that relate to BPD in any way whatsoever LMFAO????

“I drank orange juice and got reminded of BPD ex wife” is no doubt going to be a post in the future rofl

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I don’t want to continue digging into their little hivemind bullshit, but by the posts here, I’m sure you get the point of how shit that sub actually is.

I really don’t give a fuck if you require support, I wish the best for you, but generalizing and discriminating against EVERYONE who has the disorder isn’t healing, that’s you projecting your emotions onto an entire spectrum.

You want to heal? Don’t use Reddit. That’s all I can fucking say. Especially when the group has people talking shit about it constantly.

You cannot say you wish for us to heal and then refuse to acknowledge or put an end to the judgement and hate that is pointed directly at us. It’s utter bullshit.

A lovely Domestic Violence counselor was kind enough to message the moderators of that shithole,

And according to them, all the mods said was “read our rules” LMFAOOOOOOO

They can’t get any more pathetic than that. It’s difficult to go farther, I swear.

Imagine having a counselor wish to help people with their healing while avoiding ableism and you DENY THEM? The stupidity. I can’t wrap my head around it.

Share/reblog this post if you can please. I’m tired of ignorant fuckwads disgusting themselves as God Chosen healers when they’re haters in helper’s clothing.

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#mental health #mental heath support #mentalheathawareness #borderline personality problems #bpd #borderline problems #these fuckers will forever disgust me #bpd things #bpd thoughts #bpdlovedones #mentally tired

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