#fucked up husbandwife

[adambarrettz]

[princeblue]

Husband Femya asker here , Femya is so the man in the relationship, she wears the pants (literally), Muichiro is the wife, Muichiro is so malewife but in the way that Femya asks him to make dinner and he accidentally burns the water on the stove because he forgot about it but he tried and Femya is proud of him for trying

Anon ur so fucking big brain, muichirou may be the most failhousewife there is but gawt dawum if he doesn’t try for his beautiful husbandwife who brings him home origami paper from town and kisses his cheek (they have to renovate the kitchen because he blew it up trying to make toast)

[namtanlovesfilm]

Things I love and appreciate about Not Me a year later:

(All of this is based on the 50 or so shows I’ve watched)

1. The first show I watched not to use the whole husband/wife thing. I hate it so much and I’m glad they didn’t. It’s very heteronormative and doesn’t deserve a place in our community.

2. One of the first BLs not to have the main couple get married in the end (and now Gap too)

3. Not Me had more than one female character and with different personalities too! and Lookjun (my love) wasn’t the scorn woman. It’s so fucking annoying how female characters are treated in shows. They’re bitchy, mean, don’t take no for an answer, the obstacle in the main queer relationship etc

4. The cinematography was EVERYTHING. The sun during the rooftop kissing scene was a paid actor! The sun did what it needed to do!

5. Not Me was the first BL (or one of the first) where the “bottom” didn’t have to be meek and shy while the “top” heavily pursued them to the point where it can get uncomfortable. And after they had sex they genuinely seemed to still like each other, still want to be around each other, and couldn’t keep their hands to themselves. BLs often make the “bottom” act embarrassed and try to push the “top” away from them after they had sex for the first time. The “bottom” must be pursued and persuade before, during and after they have sex. “Bottoms” want to fuck too, come on now! They almost never show the two characters desire each other. It’s like a cat and mouse game that never ends but not in a good way. The one-sidedness of a lot of couples doesn’t seem consensual.

6. You can tell Not Me was filmed by a woman. If a man (definitely a straight man) directed the show it would be A LOT different. Only a woman could film the actors the way she did. The care she took with the camera work and to really show the movements of their hands like when Sean was checking to see if White was sleeping. The lingering, the slowness, the softness was the female gaze. The close up on their faces as they cry and allowing male characters to be “soft” was the female gaze. The entire van scene was the female gaze. I knew Not Me was either written or directed by a woman from the first episode when White is in bed with his girlfriend and the camera isn’t zooming in on her chest as she’s sleeping. It used to only be a western thing but I’m noticing it more and more in certain kdramas.

7. Not homophobic which is laughable. Imagine an LGBT+ show being homophobic but I’ve seen them, but not with Not Me.

a post about loving not me??? this is gonna be a good day <3 I couldn't agree more about everything, not me is the female gaze personified 😌 just one thing, though, about the whole husband/wife thing. I used to HATE it just like you before I understood the cultural difference behind it. I'm not saying it doesn't come from thailand's heteronormative society, but it is something that is ingrained in the thai language, as "puahmia" (husbandwife) is an alternative word for "couple" in thai, meaning that the queer couples who use those terms actually just want to normalize being a couple out in society. where my issue lies more is when the term "wife" is represented as something to be ashamed of in thai dramas. you often see a character fighting this label of "wife" bc of sexism & being seen as the more feminine one is insulting to him. that's why I liked when in the eclipse ayan was happy to be called the wife, I actually thought it was cute. so yeah to conclude I've yet to see an irl thai queer couple complain about the husband/wife thing so idk if we should be fighting their issues for them. but apart from that this was a great ask that highlighted a lot of the points that make not me absolutely superior in every way 😌

xxx

[beckitty]

I was reading up on a condition my husbandwife has developed, and found phrases like "also know an suicide disease" and "regarded as one of the most painful disorders known to medicine". I cannot, absolutely will not, share this with them, as they were already living with chronic pain, and struggle with their mental health. Also, they have explicitly told me repeatedly that they don't want to know information like this about their conditions.

So I'm venting here, because fuck me that's a lot to hold for someone you love dearly. I will, absolutely, but it's still so fucking heavy. And I just wish I could make it better for them, but I can't.

[chalkodareal]

YOU GET IT!!! YOU UNDERSTAND

we love katamari more like we hate katamari

katamari i love you katamari you're my loving husbandwife but please. please i fucking hate you i want to kill you and kill killl kill AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH atamari. katamari this FUCKING GAME i swear man. katamari hates people like me and you. what the FUCK do you mean you dont like my shade of green dad. what the zFUCK do you mean i am tepid. what the HELL do you mean my katamari looks gross YOU WERE THE ONE THAT ASKED ME TO ROLL UP FUCKING CRABS. IS 299M REALLY NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU SPACE DAD????? AM I NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU SPACE DAD?????? I FUCKING HATE YOU I FCKING HATE OU AHHHHHH

im sorry that was violence of me ://

[fictionkinfessions]

cruel and fucked up that I don't remember my own daughter and husbandwife tbh!!! i know i knew them but i only have clear memories of my Work Partner Who Hated Me!!! sort of mean guys!!!

5

[artcalledtattoo]

TanGent

Write sign, I’m pissed off on a corner street but used as unwise

Well no pimp nor prostitute dependent on an opinion I could be a slut

Christmas Eve I want to clock out at scheduled time & leave

5:30am from night before 7pm

10.5 hours

My supervisor told me I have permission to leave at 6am

@48 I feel compelled after my clock out time you in the wind, need MY permission

Shall I play for month @ clock out and just fucking leave at scheduled new face

Lets do this

It’s my tangent

Ran into a tan gent a he named me Bubba

“What’s up Bubba” from a soured mouth look towards eating self, shall I embarrass you now with my known of a conversation in a parking lot, I don’t answer his call out!

A minute later he was rubbing his hands in black grease and complaining while he was the toucher my laughter came afterwards, chuckling like a rooster

My words “Shouldn’t have called me Bubba” as a walked off

No comments

And I didn’t leave until what I wanted done

You duster to own me after 5:30am

Ohhhhhb

You think you do

Shall we implement my plan

Or tangent and go on

Crush some more of new management I can, I need some nicotine for a continuation bare with me and I peed too

(Nah really imagining all those faces in the bottom of bowl or is it bowels, even i can be ignorant, I’m human, while pissing out)

A urination

A urination

Opps irrigation my sterile piss entering the realms of drainage and defamation within the human species add defecation, am I really just hosing urine on shit?

Tangent

Primitive pretty male walkers

?working?

Oh yeaaaaaaa!

Hound dog with dust in

I’m 48

Yea breath heavy my skin was just snorted

I have one name, showtime highlights named I’ve stepped into the house took a picture of the gravestones in the back yard

Wtf

Headstones maybe Dead bodies in a tourist attraction I never asked the money takers to prove it!!!

What you think, you’re wise!

Hooah!

I’ve said it all different way eft ight eft ight

I’m no poser poster

Whoooah

Woah

.|.

Symbol for Prunt

Not adding a hi def clarity meaning

It’s all to UP above

Or rather down in posts of mine below

Shut my mouth yea for real read re-read below you have not read doubled

Did you just pronounce third as first

Comment below I can give guidance

Even on Christmas Eve

Privately too

You can learn a lot of things!

I’ll straighten you strengthen you for a better understanding, look below

I’ve only been doing not trying

! i, see the first lesson?

Privately or comment below

Make a fake profile don’t tell your wife, don’t tell your husband

You’ve never heard of Tumblr!

Exclamation

Fuck ups, greatness, mediocre, ahead of & in between’s, hi lo, of this LIFE or rather from my experience when has the sparkle of Mark disappeared

Back in my teen days a *#}{ explicit from hear- a butchy mom(.gay woman heteroman w/ two ugly kids) ; taught a new word, could speak about the man, who does it concern)

MarkleSparkle

And I heard it upon an arrival into the center, we were all made fun of, it’s not a dry earth we have our mixtures of humors it’s a very muddy place and spits

I just went out like that

I just went out like that

I just went out like that

Like a flight or is it power all in a wintery

Whatwoodyoucallit?

Standing Sitting Still

Just asking ausking a King or Queen or The Who rather e-there I-their a-other in their weak husbandwife folks playing games for thee another in the name of rich and profits gathering of bonus and such on backs of low caste humans

Read as you can!

Btw it’s Christmas Eve

Just now punching that in

What you think on things?

I only ask?

I conclude my Tangent

It’s Eve and sipping beer also!

;)

Merry Christmas think safety first and whatever in your travels, travel thread tread the read of past others

Your postpone in life

Think of it as saving your life

Interrupter in traffic, let it be fine

That other asshole ahead forgot the light

Read

Something

Stop just looking and watching!

A Difference

All in my continued, what

Say two, no not two but together

I knew you would need help

I wasn’t Coney hitting below a belt

I remember

Loaf of BREAD A Container of MLK

& a stick of BUTTER

Inference

Make. A Difference

In a Tangent

Merry Christmas

I really flabbergasted

Caauunt wait ;) til New Years Eve

A year is not really over till then

Right my friends

Let me end with us lyrical wind as I sit maintain a movie in my head or news and thinking about above too and I roll along sometimes even through science tripping evening

Moms Safe & Sound

Not attitude, people all around I parked far away from entrance had to walk, listen as I breathe,

You made it back safe and sound

You weren’t gone long

Last tangent, I can sleep or stay awake

I won’t last to Christmas

It don’t really matter I’ll stay into evening awake

•

Oops week later same Tangent I wasn’t going to post

Née Years Eve can’t clock out at clock out

It’s business not personal your time means nothing fucted by managerial masters

Your upper lives designed around us by us

But nothing for us

Not even last two year holidays



[biomorphi]

top ten slasher flicks go

oh FUCK dude .. i haven’t seen all of them so idk if i can come up with 10 but

1. texas chainsaw massacre 1 (for kin reasons)

2. texas chainsaw massacre 2 (also for kin reasons also autism reasons. first one for autism reasons as well i guess)

3. childs play (for personal marital reasons)

4. bride of chucky ( i’m telling you i’m trash this is also for personal marital reasons)

5. nightmare on elm street 4 i think? dream warriors

6. sleepaway camp 2 because if i pretend i’m not living in a transphobic world angela wpuld be my fave slasher

and that is all of my favorite ones i’ve seen

my husbandwife @physicistdyke actually has 10 that they could pull out of their brain

[arkaniist]

@asherinn literallyyyy lmao like not to be mean but when i saw that take i was like oh you're...... white. mobei-jun is from a completely different culture and mxtx is writing from the chinese perspective on family ties and duty and honor, He Would Not Fucking Say (read: feel) That. i get that they want drama and to explore his hidden depths but he is ALREADY a deep character! they could explore his complicated feelings towards SQH, or even better, how he feels about the demon realm being led by his completely absent half-human Junshang and LBH's dommy mommy human cultivator husbandwife with no ties to demon culture... there's no need to be like 'he's an angsty grown-up teen with depression who hates his family, just like me, a suburban white american... 😌' not to mention the drama they wanted to insert relied on completely ignore the facts from the book about the mobei clan and their traditions and MBJ's upbringing and existing relationships AND the way SQH himself describes MBJ - as a spoiled, pampered princeling-turned-king.

the name thing is also hilarious cuz it is SO common in danmei, even in other MXTX novels. if MBJ was a main character then maybe SQH or SQQ would have found out his given name, but "... after a man reached adulthood, it was disrespectful for others of the same generation to address him by his given name." the only one who could reasonably call him by given name would be his father, who we never see. i personally can't see SQH even thinking about MBJ in a disrespectful way, which is why even in his own mental narration he refers to his oc as Mobei-Jun. it is his title and it's a point of HONOR for and towards him. it is not an indication that he's a lesser man or somehow 'empty' as a person. again, the whole base of the argument is a cultural misunderstanding and an attempt to force MBJ to confirm to western standards when in china it's like. that's nothing actually lmao that does not matter at all.

LMAO they blocked me. sorry for having fat tits and better opinions about mobei-jun. 😔 like it's my fault.

[adambarrettz]

[male2lich]

imagine the most caustic acid, bubbling and fuming. like you breathe in the fumes and you collapse while the liquid spews up these soapy clumps of bubbles. and then imagine some cartoon guy mindcrontroleed and drooling, real MENTOK COMMANDS YOU kinda affected guuy. and this guy has the acid bubbles going out of his ears while the eyes are swirling. this is me when i see my fucking husbandwife

[adambarrettz]

[coffincoitus]

on second thought. lestat forces the patriarchal role bc he can't forfeit control but deep down he wants mommy louis to love him and choose him the way his actual mother didn't. that's why he keeps fucking it up. louis on the other hand wants to be a mommy while still being husbandwife to lestat. they need to figure out their freudian desires in a way that lines up urgently

I know this is insane but the adoption of claudia is such a fail moment to me bc lestat and louis had it all with lestat being attracted to louis' husbandson charm and louis being attracted to lestat's husbandfather slay. and getting a child upset the dynamic. I love romance