#fuck transohobes

[thatheathen]

[thetisming]

i think cis people should no longer be allowed to make commentary youtube videos about Lilly Tino

[kiunlo]

i think we may have gone back around to calling virgins losers again and i'm really not liking it at all.

[ryegarden]

I'm sorry, I I just think its hilarious I was mildly worried about this violence against women accusation, only to realise.. its about the maul transphobes post, isn't it? 💀🤡😂 anyway I adore that art and fuck transphobes <3

YEAH LMAO it's 100% either about the maul transphobes art or terf scum fuck off. Because I've literally never made any art "advocating for violence against women"

[yellowyarn]

thinking about how the three (cishet white) counselors at my school did some presentations about like not being a bigoted dick and clearly didn't consult a single person from a minority or did more then five seconds of research and then immediately started misgendering my friend.

[boot-prints]

Made the mistake of scrolling down the Hogwarts Legacy tag for a while, gonna blacklist it now so I can't keep doing it because it's not a helpful or productive thing to do. It's all kinds of infuriating though.

[thefirstknife]

Quick word of advice--if anybody is gonna let Destiny streamers whi engage with the HP game know that's why you're unsubbing or want to tell them it's bad, DO NOT focus on "it funds a transphobe". Because yes that's true, but a huge reason the game is not worth touching is the blatant antisemitism and people keep hijacking that conversation to make it about the transohobic IP owner instead which is not good. She's a bigot on multiple levels, and it's important to give primary focus to each issue where relevant instead of brushing the rest aside in favor of only talking about one problem. Maybe bring the other stuff up tangentially, but don't use it as your primary focus.

True and incredibly important. JKR is definitely most known for transphobia currently, but let's not forget everything else, especially antisemitism and one of the most fucked up "excuses for slavery" plots. Bringing up other stuff when letting someone know why you don't want to engage with them over the HP game and JKR is super important. The whole setting and the creator are for the trash. I genuinely don't trust anyone, including any Destiny content creator, who wants to play this and give it publicity.

For context, in reference to this post.

[the-trans-advice-blog]

Long Vent, apologies in advance (feel free to ignore this):

I'm a bit worried about whether I can transition (legally and medically) cause I live in south africa and I'm just scared the seemingly lack of formalized trans healthcare is gonna fuck stuff up for me, doesn't really help that I everyone I know and know of irl is cis, every single person besides me is cis. And my non-transphobic parents still don't believe that I'm not their little girl even after being out to them for about 2 years. And they're the most liberal family members i have, the rest are extremely conservative and transphobic. And I'm just fucking scared. For fucks sake I don't even have the guarantee of hearing or reading my name anywhere each day. Like atleast I've got a few friends who are extremely supportive of me (one of them continuesly telling me that she does not understand why anyone ever thinks I'm a girl cause I already pass as a cis guy lol) and it fucking sucks that my school is a conservative Christian school (not like america public schools can be religious here) where I was the second "girl" to have a short haircut in the entire school and it's a massive fucking school. Counting me atleast there's 4 people who have short "boy" hair and have to wear the girls' uniform. On that topic I fucking hate that I can't be out to teachers, the teachers regularly make horribly transohobic comments without being prompted to or even knowing about the one half-out trans kid (me). Like i hear shit like teachers saying they believe trans people are truly sick in the head and that they want kids to out their trans friends (luckily my friends are nice enough not to do that) and I hate the girl's uniform I gotta wear and I hate it all and I've still gotta deal with high school for 2 and ¾ years. And idk my mental health has been really bad lately and this all doesn't help, and i love being trans, I just want to atleast be tolerated for it amd have a bit more stable future planned in terms of transition. And I want my parents to fucking be able to help with that, they're wonderful parents otherwise sonjwnush I could just rely on them a little for some of this shit.

idk I'm just scared and tired and dysphoric and I feel very very alone

(On another note, I appreciate your blog a lot, you're cool)

I’m really sorry to hear you’re going through this. Obviously there’s nothing I can say to make it magically better but I hope you do know there’s a huge community out there who’s happy to support you in whatever ways we can. I’m not sure how safe online spaces are for you if your family is conservative but you’ll always have a safe space here to talk about whatever you need to. I hope one day you can get out if you want to, or that something’s changes in the area you’re in. High school is the worst, especially being trans, but I know that you can get through it! I’m really happy you have some supportive friends, and if I were you I’d maybe try to make some online ones if you haven’t already just because it seems like the people around you won’t be very safe.

I wish you luck on your journey and I really hope things get better for you.

[lavendarsarepretty]

trans people: hey im trans

transphobes: *insults, physical assault, verbal assault, sexual assault, death threats, invalidation, bullying, hate, most things under the sun*

trans people: oh wow that hurt really badly actually. i will turn to the internet to help me cope because at least they cannot physically hurt me

terfs: *invalidates trans people, calls us all nonces, calls us all mentally ill which is both ableist and transphobic, actively trying to take away our rights, takes away our autonomy by insinuating we cannot make our own decisions. doxxes us which leaves us open to danger and physical harm so turns out that cant even be avoided online*

trans people: well that made it worse. i don't know how to cope. maybe i should just fucking die then since that seems to be what everyone wants

transphobes: look at all these suicidal trans people! this is definitive proof that all trans people are mentally ill because they are trans. being trans is what is. doing this to you. you should learn to accept your assigned sex

trans people: wow fuck you actually

transohobes: okay wow see how aggressive these tras are. how does anyone support them?

to make a long story short, maybe all the bullying and being told we shouldnt or dont exist is whats harming us

[chaos-event-horizon]

Toshinori: For everyone's reference, we've had Goldie and now several iterations of Zaxxad's blogs blocked for a while. I'm not unblocking either of them or Reblogging or reading their posts, as Rian and I refuse to negotiate or interact with rampant transphobes. I'm sorry she missed the irony of a trans person attacking other trans people by calling them fetishists-- a person on the trans spectrum calling someone an "autoandrophile" despite neither evidence or cause is still a transohobe-- but I personally don't give a fuck how either of those assholes feels. If I'm suddenly transphobic for pointing out that someone who suddenly changed pronouns is being transphobic in spite of the life change, so be it. I'm old and not up on whatever lingo people use now. But back in my day we called that "being a hypocritical piece of shit", so that's how my stance is going to stay.

You can stop sending links and trying to egg this shit on, because I'm not budging. Take your drama elsewhere, because transphobes and their friends are not welcome here.

[oceansmercy]

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I've seen people do intro posts so I'd thought it do a simple one for now until I decide to edit it ^_^

Any information could be edited at any time!!

Here's some basic information about me:

I go by the names Kit or Mercy (Kit is preferred) my pronouns are he/him, and I'm aroace :)

I'm autistic so I tend to misread your intentions or your texts, so tone tags or being gentle with me is very helpful (also being specific), I am especially sensitive '^^ I also get REALLY passionate about the things I'm fixated about, feel free to tell me to (kindly) chill if you feel it's too much! I do my best to tone it down!!

If I find you are stalking me on any of my own accounts outside of Tumblr (or even here) I will INSTANTLY block you. I am a paranoid person, and it does not help, if we have any unresolved conflict. TALK. TO. ME. instead of stalking me, if not I will just block you, I block people for a reason. I'm not being scared off Tumblr again, thank you :)

I do art, (occasionally) animation memes, I'm working on three AU's, one being a personal (Rick Prime) AU for comfort, Another being a joint au with a friend, and a Billie Bust Up AU!

I can't work on art or animation a lot, since I'm a full-time college student, but I like to find time to draw and do stuff, maybe I'll post about my AU's :)

My DM's are always open! I'm always free to talk to people! I might take a bit to reply because I either forget or I get TOO overwhelmed! But I get there!

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My DNI consists of:

No transohobes, homophobes, racists, xenophobia, misogynists, sexists, people invalidating others feelings and/or illness (mental or physical), any Rickorty shippers, anyone who hates against OC X Cannon, Anyone who talks about Justin Roiland, Zadr shipper's (i hate the lot of you/lh) anyone who ships any invader zim characters together as a whole

Again, like I've stated before, if you're here to stalk me to find information about me. Kindly fuck off. My mental health is already bad thanks to previous stalking. :)

I would also like to kindly ask not to mention any wars to me as it is an extremely triggering topic, I expect people to share on their blogs, and I prepare myself, but please do not personally talk to me about it.

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My Fixations:

Rick and Morty, H3ll0 Pupp3ts (not how it's ACTUALLY typed, but I don't wanna attract that fandom), Billie Bust Up

Other ones include: Bendy and The Ink Machine, 1nv@d3r Z1m (also not wanting to attract that fandom)

I mainly fixate on these characters:

Rick Prime, Riley Ru c k us, Barnaby, Bendy, Invader ZIM, Tallest Purple

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As I've said previously, I have TWO AU's, those consisting of:

Redemption AU: A personal comfort AU about Rick Prime redeeming himself, it's not something he can entirely do. Rick's are sure to still hate him. (Obviously) This one I'm VERY passionate about currently

Dream AU: Also a comfort H3ll0 Pupp3ts AU, where anything we find comfort in gets put into the story line. AS LONG AS ITS LEGAL AND DOES NOT MAKE THE OTHER ONE UNCOMFORTABLE.

My Billie Bust Up AU that doesn't have a proper name: Barnaby adopts a little ghost owl child, and raises her as his own. This one isn't a comfort AU so I don't focus much on it really.

BlueSky

ToyHouse

Pronouns/Me

[notanotherblorbo]

Using neo pronouns/being nonbinary but also being hella in the closet is feeling shitty all the time because ppl irl are constantly joking about oh hahaha nonbinary not real hahaha do you hear ppl go by clown/clownself in the real world? hahaha that's so stupid trans ppl are mentally ill monsters hahah queer ppl are going to hell hahaha why are you an ally that's so stupid hahaha I'd never correctly gender a trans person if I knew their deadname/pronouns hahaha.

And I'm

RIGHT FUCKING THERE

THEY ARE SAYING THESE THINGS TO MY FACE.

And they don't know ofc. But it still fucking hurts. Especially when they are also saying these things about out trans ppl that you love.

But only behind those trans ppls backs.

My brother literally said he's gonna stop hanging out with our trans friend once she starts transitioning. That he'll never use her preferred name and pronouns. Cause he thinks she is mentally ill. And cause pronouns are too hard for him. And. "She's not a real girl".

WHAT THE FUCK. I wanna cry. I hate transohobes they are fucking awful.

AND OFC I STILL LOVE MY BROTHER. I STILL LOVE MY DAD. AND MY MOM. AND MY SISTER. AND MY BEST FRIEND. AND MY OTHER BEST FRIEND. AND MY GRANDPARENTS. AND EVERYONE ELSE.

but they don't have to love ppl who are different. And they don't have to love me. And they say they don't love me. and they aren't saying it about me. But. But. But. It still feels like that. Like in the dark moments I know that 90% of the people in my life wouldn't care about me enough to support me if I came out.

And I just. :(

[zo1nkss]

Frankly, it's more transohobic that you think you can just rewrite years or even decades of internalized association with a single acronym tacked onto the end of your post.

It's bullshit. I'm tired of it. My own fucking friends will fully use gendered terms they know I don't like for me. "Gender neutral" isn't a get out of transphobia free card. Just because it feels gender nuetral to *you* does not mean you get to impose that perspective on everyone around you.

If ur gonna use gendered language, just fucking own it.

You don't get to decide *for other people* that the words you're calling them are not gendered.

that is not how that works.

I'm so tired of being called a girl and then having the passive aggressive (gn!) tacked on the end

It's not any less fucking misgendering to call ppl gendered words and then tack a little tagline at the end that u THINK absolves you of all critical thought and consideration for how that makes the other person feel

If you want to use gendered terms broadly, just DO IT. Stop trying to soften the transphobia of the thing because you literally can't.

[casper-ghostly]

oh great now i have to find who im following is a secret freak.

[werewolfoffeverswamp]

i mentioned this in the tags of a post somewhere but i went live on tik tok today for the first time and pretty much all i did was get harassed for 2 hours before getting banned but im being so serious it was the most fun ive had in a while

[synchlora]

fuck it. trans poetry time