#fuck relationships

[skyiedior]

the problem with reciprocating your likeness for the gender that kills and rapes is that they never feel like that have to WOW you and impress you because they think you like them and that's enough to build a relationship. there's a difference btwn a guy that wants you specifically and a guy that just something to sleep with for the time Being. you visit a guy's place and you can literally tell by the set up which category you fall under. he has zero courting styles and impressions you can remember him by because he is waiting for the part where he smashes you.

women need to practice ego preservation , learn to reject people before they reject you - he already rejected you by the time you put on your best outfit, wore your beautiful natural make up and smelled good for him and pitched up to his place and he still couldn't offer you a decent meal. let's call a spade a spade.

he is only keeping you in his space and constantly keeping communication with you as a way for him to pass time and to use it as a justification to why he seduces in the future (of which he will, that's what he is there for in the first place) and demand the sex he claimed -by crossing his heart and hoping to die- he is not there for . it's really something for people to claim women are biggest manipulaters whereas all Men have a gaslighting kink.

[alostbeautynomore]

Well I did it - I broke up with my boyfriend. I am heartbroken and questioning if I did the right thing. He is hurting so much too. I really feel like I just threw my future away 😭😭😭 please message me anything positive or animal related bc those make me smile. I just need all the support I can get rn so I don’t spiral

[gabygirl99]

Well damn… fuck relationships.. this is why I’m better just alone

[vulcanstarr]

when a single well written fan fiction fulfilled you emotionally more than a long four year relationship-.. 😐

[shyblogger]

Beginnings are always great, everything seems perfectly good two people “in love” there’s no one else for neither of you. Your smile is ear to ear because you think you finally found the one that you think you been longing for…. But struggling in life and feeling lonely will trick you into thinking you’re in love; right time wrong person and you love that person instantly… vulnerability and unintentionally being gullible will trap you in a void of love for someone who made you believe they love you.. not only by telling you but taking it as far as showing you! All just for them to betray you behind your back, or do something in front of you they know you don’t like and still somehow project it on to you, and throw it in your face that you’re just “obsessed with them” because you won’t let them walk all over you and use you in bed. Fuck love.

[midnightcrisisstuff]

actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

[skyiedior]

It is my conviction that misogyny has been ingrained as the fundamental and default condition of societal structures, as evidenced by the equilibrium it maintains between the oppressed and the oppressors. moreover, I contend that patriarchy was not merely a system that emerged at a particular point in time, but rather a pervasive framework that existed long before the term itself was coined. the act of naming such phenomena, I believe, serves to reduce their inherent complexity, as language inherently simplifies the intricate and multifaceted nature of human existence.

women often engage in intense self-policing, scrutinizing each other's behaviors and thoughts. while men largely escape similar scrutiny, free to exist without the same societal expectations.

patriarchy, in many ways, seems poised to endure because of deeply ingrained desires rooted in biological and societal expectations. women, by and large, seek providers and protectors, a reflection of both evolutionary instincts and the traditional roles that have long been imposed on them.

similarly, men often seek companionship that fulfills their sexual desires and the ability to pass on their genes. this biological drive, coupled with societal norms, continues to shape male behavior and relationship dynamics. these roles—women as nurturers and dependents, men as providers and protectors—are so deeply woven into the fabric of society that even as individual autonomy and gender equality progress, the underlying structures of patriarchy remain largely intact. It feels as though these fundamental human drives ensure patriarchy's persistence as the default social order.

partriachy is not going anywhere ,it's here to stay

[dollpxrts888]

I wish I could love him the same way as he does, but I'm a junkie party bitch and he's a quiet dumb boy that loves pace

[gabygirl99]

Being single again is nice. I get to have fun and meet new people if y’all know what I mean 😘😘

[sawahhope]

I feel so stupid for liking someone who turns around fast and says they just see us as friends. Out of the blue they switch up, and then say they found someone else is why they feel we should be friends. Nah bro, you’ve probably gotten with someone you already know. Ain’t no way you just randomly found someone and are seeing them when you were talking to me the last few weeks. And then apologize for hurting me… fuck that. That’s pathetic! And of course, this shows that age is just a number since you’re six years older than me and still didn’t have the capacity to communicate shit. Also saying I remind you of your ex, bitch that’s such a fucking cop out to make yourself feel better for your decision. But I do wish you nothing but the best. ✌️

[adenctm]

NOT FUCKING OVER THESE INSANE TIMES. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. HOW I DRIVE INSANE THE ONLY PERSON THAT COULD KEEP ME SANE

[goth-god]

I can see I never meant a fucking thing to him and I’m actually glad because then it shows me who he really is before getting invested

Don’t chase, only attract

[thehousealwayswhines]

You think life will be more peaceful by my absence, I just see your nieveity in the hand you try so hard to hide

[lyeox]

Are you happy with yourself? I lost friends of eight years because of you. I no longer felt comfortable existing in the same spaces as you and I had to leave those servers because of you.

I know you're watching my Tumblr. You'll keep me blocked for a while, unblock me, and edit your message again. You don't know how to let things go. You don't know how to leave my friends alone.

You got everything. I was left with nothing. I hope you're happy.

[skyiedior]

It appears that some men possess a strange tendency to form accurate assessments of a partner's character and behavior prior to becoming involved in a relationship. like he will know that you like wearing bikini and going to the beach or that he knows you drink 2 glasses of wine before bed everyday and he doesn't like that but still associate himself with you, often with the expectation that their cruelty towards you will serve to change you and mold you into a more desirable persona for their own egos.

this phenomenon may contribute to the prevalence of dissatisfaction among married men, who frequently express disdain for their wives. It suggests that these penis people may be drawn to relationships with the intention of reshaping their partner. like Trevor Noah said about the free bird and men not falling inlove with the women they claim they want but choosing the total opposite because he wants to conquer her.

conversely women often than not are socialized to prioritize their partner's needs and desires which later later leads to self-suppression and bitterness. this phenomenon contradicts the conventional wisdom that men marry women with the hope that they will not change, while women marry men with the expectation that they will change.

Men don't love you, they are in the process to subdue you and use you. say it with me ; men don't love me they want to conquer me

[noelledeltarune]

EVERY SINGLE DAY there are MILLIONS of characters in their late 20s who get falsely accused of being father figures to teenagers when in reality the description of "weird older cousin" or "step-sibling that moved out before you were born" is 1000000x more apt