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i really can't emphasize how heartbreaking it is that the recent harassment campaign against @/90-ghost (among others; see: 1, 2, 3) has led to well-meaning people telling others not to listen to him. he is one of the most visible survivors of the genocide here on tumblr. his entire journey of escape is so well documented! and yet, it only took a few people confidently pointing fingers to create an entire witch hunt accusing him and other palestinians of being disreputable scammers and liars.
i can't help but feel like the reason why people were SO eager to believe those accusations, is because it was uncomfortable to see posts from palestinians every day asking for our time, attention, money, and support; so when someone presented the perfect excuse to ignore all those posts and asks while also taking the high ground, people just LEAPED onto it. they wanted to believe it, because it would be more comfortable.
honestly, i understand feeling overwhelmed by bad news, by the number of asks and messages in your inbox, and so on and so forth. i understand needing to set boundaries for yourself so you don't get burned out. i think this is really when you have to have a set of principles to fall back on, even when you're tired, uncomfortable, angry, and/or sad. so here's the one i suggest, which has been working for me best: don't make your discomfort with this situation into someone else's problem, and for god's sake don't make it a public problem.
if you hate seeing fundraiser posts or news about gaza, i can't emphasize this enough, JUST MOVE ON. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND SCROLL PAST! all you have to do is absolutely nothing. which is what you were doing anyway, so it shouldn't be hard. if you don't have the heart to read, or reblog, or share, or donate, or support in other ways, at the very least, don't obstruct the efforts of people who ARE trying to make a difference. this is, quite literally, the least you can do.
#khy speaks#anyways i'm not trying to put this person in the replies on blast bc i think they meant well even if they were misinformed#but its just so sad to see the damage that this recent harrassment campaign has done#and i'm only on the sidelines! i can't imagine how frustrating and maddening this must have been for#those who have been fighting from day one.
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Okay, so it starts just before the plot of Houses.
Byleth fails to kill this kid named Shez, right? Well, Shez has an Agarthan in their head like Byleth has Sothis. Shez ends up running into the House Lords before Byleth and Jeralt meet them, and ends up killing Kostas. Shez then gets dragged to Garreg Mach and offered to become a student under the house Jeritza ends up teaching. Your house then goes to take out the remaining bandits from Kostas's gang and you end up rescuing Monica. Something happens regarding each individual lord's homeland, and you end up going to help resolve it. The school ends up shutting down and the students sent him.
This is where the plots diverge. Everything changes depending on who you follow. Claude focuses more on dealing both with Almyra, TWSITD, and the Church. Dimitri deals with corrupt nobles and being attacked on both sides by TWSITD and the Alliance. And Edelgard is waging war on multiple fronts and is left going back and forth on rescue missions in between Ferdibert angst. On both Claude and Edelgard's routes, they team up.
You also are constantly fighting Byleth, and you need to decide to recruit them or not. If you do, you get the good open ending! If you don't, people who usually die in Houses end up dying here and you get the bad open ending!
H.
huh.
alright.
#fe3h#wow hm idk how I feel about that tbh.#iirc someone said you could just MISS recruiting Byleth too and that’s#frustrating as well#as cool as this seems wow this doesn’t look like a good time
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TTRPGs: Degrees of Separation
Dipped back into the design chatter around these, recently, and saw some new rules or structures from a few different areas, but one consistent thing I always come back to from my own time trying to design a TTRPG and that I see in the design space:
How many degrees of separation exist between your players and the story you're telling?
There's a lot of differing views and opinions out there honestly, none of them perfect, many of them serviceable, when it comes to how to count the degrees and/or how to alleviate the separation (usually through rules, sometimes through social guidelines, which my brain auto-corrects into 'narrative lubricant').
A player has knowledge of this world and how it works.
That player is operating a character in a (presumably) alternate reality that comes with a variety of differences to their own world experience
The world they are playing in's differences can mirror or have basis on the Player's world experience, but could just as easily include complete fabrications of the genre the game is taking part in.
The Storyteller/Narrator/Creator etc., will have access to a large amount of the workings of the world; the player, shy of reading a full breakdown of the world (or whatever has been written), will be missing gaps that, their character, would more than likely have access to.
The ST/NAR/CRTR will need to figure out how many details the character knows reflexively/with recall/with effort/by the dice, and present that information at appropriate times. (Note: they are still a person, capable of mistakes/missing details)
The Player, trying to navigate each of these degrees, will need an increasing amount of rules and exceptions to ensure fluidity of the story (very difficult to get right).
The degrees will vary from game to game (and player to player), but I'm often reminded that a lot of games like to off-load a bunch of this into the dice rolls and/or stats the game is using.
Not a bad approach, but it can result in missing a lot.
It's one of the reasons I advocate often for context clues based around present world knowledge and trying to incorporate that into descriptions. Register what the players might reflexively have knowledge about and translate it into the world they are playing in.
Ex - A player with sewing experience and/or fashion history knowledge, might catch onto context clues for a situation if part of it revolved around the description of some clothing (A ghost's outfit proving what era/time they are from > a brief history lesson of the era found in some archive or library later), even if their character might not normally have too keen of an eye for such details.
There's always a conversation to be had how much of that context can be gleaned w/o the character having that same of knowledge but don't discount the possibility of that character's associations over the years/decades/centuries that they have been alive. No telling what the character might have picked up in their existence within the world they are in, just from conversation.
(Hell, any history with whatever the world's Neurodivergents might be, would probably explain any sort of weird facts the character might contain lol)
#game design#gamecraft#ttrpg#A passing peek at an old hobby#TTRPGs are a fascinating puzzle#frustrating as well
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watching wars unfold because of religion is unnerving
#frustrating as well#i don’t believe in any of it and watching people he murdered because of something i 99.9% don’t believe in…#im so upset
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i think its so funny when people take the way donnie acts at face value even though its a horrible lie because he's a horrible liar, while understanding leo is bullshitting very well despite him actually being GOOD at bullshitting. many such cases
#personal#rottmnt#although tbf its probably because with leo its unpacked more thoroughly in the movie#donnie is not a morally ambiguous emotionally unavailable bad boy. he is very sensitive actually#he's a little crybaby /aff#and like this isnt hidden. he isnt SECRETLY sensitive or secretly caring its very out in the open actually#he's not hiding it well AT ALL AND THEY ALL KNOW IT LMAOOOOOOOO#i think donnie's perception of himself is somewhat earnest and somewhat. not? he DEFINITELY thinks he's more evil than he actually is#BGHFHDHGJFHG#i think what causes him to lash out and struggle to communicate is his inability to articulate his feelings#they are just too big for him. like its the exact opposite of robotic#he cant force himself to give a fuck but when he DOES its too much#so he yells and lashes out or he shuts down completely#honestly i think the perception of him being too sensitive being a problem makes way more sense than the perception of him being 'robotic'#when it comes to struggles in how his family sees him at least#even in little ways you can see him take it pretty personally when he's insulted#he struggles to blow things off#and i think it would also explain his tendency to like. visibly calm himself down when he gets upset? its a thing he does a lot in the show#he desperately wants to destroy that perception of him because he's trying so hard to close himself off#he doesn't want to be the sensitive one that cant take anything. it especially works in line with his shell#it was a big inspiration for canary continuity tbh. donnie should struggle with being the sensitive one in fic more#mikey is more empathetic and he's more emotional but donnie's quicker to feel offended or take things personally#BACKED UP HEAVILY BY CANON#that 'you can be honest with me! no hard feelings' - 'he's lyinggggggg'#like he's not upset with them babying him as much as he is with them genuinely finding it frustrating that he can fall behind like that#and just cannot take shit like that. so he tries to pull back and not seem as affected as he is#theyre a very cuddly family but mind you they can be actually mean to each other like that!!
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“Blue is a good color on you, my lady,” Jaime observed. “It goes well with your eyes.” She does have astonishing eyes.
#brienne of tarth#asoiaf#valyrianscrolls#my art#this has been in my sketches since early dec I’m glad to have finally finished it <3#sometimes I get frustrated by the inconsistencies in clothing I draw but then I just go look at some of the official art#and go well it’s not so bad after all
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Fred, you had a part people loved. I mean, my TV Guide interview was six paragraphs about my BOOBS and how they fit into my suit. No one bothered to ask me what I do on the show.
Sigourney Weaver as Gwen DeMarco in Galaxy Quest (1999)
#cinematv#filmtvcentral#chewieblog#usercreate#userthing#galaxy quest#sigourney weaver#gwen demarco#galaxy quest gifs#my gifs#sigourney weaver gifs#film gifs#filmedit#gwen demarco feeling all of our frustrations with sci-fi#we have no extra beryllium sphere on board#look i have one job#on this lousy ship#why is it always ducts#dumb spinning fan#well screw that#well fuck that#let gwen say fuck#this episode was badly written#whoever wrote this episode should die
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Appleseed PDA montage to save you from reading endless pages of unimportant politics that don't amount to anything
also because I have nothing better to do, I'm bored, I'm moody, my gaming laptop is still broken so no BG3, and it's too late at night to start drawing after doing animation clean-up all day.
#Manga#Appleseed#Shirow Masamune#80s#This is literally every single one of these moments in the entirety of the manga's run#including bonus material#There's some great character writing hidden among all the infodumping and technobabble as well#But like I said before all it accomplishes is to make you frustrated#Because despite being written so well#Masamune was more interested in waxing philosophical than actually giving his characters the attention they deserve#Despite them displaying an insane amount of depth and complexity whenever they are able to#it's a very rare case where the characters are EXTREMELY well written and almost every moment they are on screen is amazingly well done#But the manga keeps demanding you listen to completely different side characters talk about politics for endless pages#while at the same time none of these politics have any consequence or relevance to the actual stories that happen on screen.#So it ends up with the majority of the manga is like listening to some guy you don't know on the bus reading the headlines of a newspaper#at you about political tension between two countries you have never heard of and will never feature in your life again#How do you write such great and well written characters and then be completely disinterested in actually putting them on screen?????
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and the universe said, i love you because you are love
#kingdom hearts#kh#khedit#khgraphics#dailygaming#gamingedit#khgifs#sora#axel#ventus#kairi#namine#xion#terra#riku#roxas#repliku#aqua#my edits#my gifs#ugh i started working on this WAY too long ago and went really slowly because i got frustrated#so please ignore all the flaws. i just wanted to finally get this idea out there lol#edit: also someone said in the tags that it was cool of me to give roxas gray eyes#and i actually didn't even mean to do that with the coloring but now i'm pretending i did. because it IS cool. it works well on him.#all the other eye color changes were 100% on purpose though lol. brown eyed terra and green eyed ven and purple eyed kairi SUPREMACY!!!
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“This fic would be better if—” babe this isn’t your high school English class and my fic isn’t assigned reading. it’s something a stranger wrote on the internet without an explicit request for constructive criticism or suggestions for improvement. you are not grading my smut fic on a rubric (I hope).
if you cannot consume writing without needing to criticize it, that’s a you problem. stop leaving me these kinds of comments — and if you DO: for god’s sake, please make sure you’re actually objectively correct about the criticism you’re leaving.
#rant#mini rant#ao3#archive of our own#writing#fanfic#fic#fanfiction#like I have a college degree#I have been writing professionally for years#I’m not saying I won’t have typos#but high schoolers telling me WRONG criticism#is so frustrating#I love the enthusiasm guys but#it’s not well received#and not requested
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conservatives really wanna act like the “woke left” is winning the culture war or whatever when people are out here making basil and dorian brothers and casting white men to play heathcliff in 2024
#me#Wuthering heights#the picture of Dorian gray#say it with me: progress is not necessarily inevitable. representation is not inevitable. you have to fight for it. you cannot wait for it.#fuck off tho this is so frustrating fr#there’s another example I was thinking of as well but it’s a little more nuanced/controversial so I’m keeping it to myself#‘people are casting for political agendas’ OK SO WHY IS HEATHCLIFF WHITE THEN. HES LITERALLY NOT SUPPOSED TO BE IN THE SOURCE MATERIAL#AND YET SOMEHOW IN THE 2024 HOLLYWOOD MOVIE HES STILL GONNA BE PLAYED BY A WHITE GUY#fuck off
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toby fox needs to add like a bit of narration in deltarune abt kris like "they themmed they/themily down the stheirs" cus i cant go on seeing them constantly get he/himmed in yt comment sections
#this is my punishment for actually looking at yt comments isnt it#deltarune#kris dreemurr#maybe im looking too much into things but...#it also feels sorta. misogynistic when ppl default to he/him for androgynous/non binary characters#like ive seen multiple ppl use “well its understandable that ppl assume kris is a he when they have such masculine behaviours/hobbies”#the masculine behaviours and hobbies in question are being a prankster#i shit you not#like they called pranking... masc?? huh#can girls and others not get their silly on anymore??#also like i said before with the exception of like frisk and chara like almost every nb character is masculinised#like napstablook monster kid#god there has to be more but my memory is shit atm and i also have to go eat dinner#but i wanna talk more abt like why it feels so misogynistic to me#i thinnk it has to do with the fact that defaulting to he/him just makes women feel like an afterthought. ig like unless its confirmed then#they must be a guy to be relevant or smth#and also like how much they gender entirely non gender specific things (see: pranking)#ofc it wouldnt be BETTER per se if they imagined these characters as girls but its smth ive noticed and i just get frustrated cus#it feels sexist but i cant FULLY articulate why#i feel like i had the answer a lil while ago but i forgot#i might come back to this who knows#wow ok rant over#for now
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#help me im always in a constant state of frustration with everything ij my life and drawing isnt acting as my escapism well enough 😭#one piece#fanart#one piece fanart#sabo#sabo one piece fanart#sabo fanart#sabo one piece
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i think grian's whole fishing Thing this season is like the best example ever about how yes-anding things and going with The Bit is such an essential part of hermitcraft. like you KNOW this man did not have "build a cod dungeon shrine for the enchanted book gods" on his S10 plans but here we are,
#obsessed with how hes rolling with it#it's terribly frustrating but it is so soso funny how he's taking it in stride and making it a Thing skjdksjfkfjkg#grian#hermitcraft#grian: i'm gonna fish for mending first so i can go slower and not use a villager#grian now: ok well i guess this is my season's Theme now-
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all i can think about is bucky literally BEGGING to eat your pussy. just on his knees, calling himself a needy slut, just looking up at you with puppy dog eyes while he just begs for your pussy on his mouth. ugh.
Men who are this into eating pussy have a special place reserved for them in Heaven. Hearing someone beg to go down on you is life changing when they know what they're doing 🙈
But you're so right, Bucky would be so willing to degrade himself like that just to be allowed to go down on you. He'd be on his knees, trying to ignore how full his balls feel, begging for you.
"P-please." His voice is so quiet you almost start to question if he said it intentionally. "I need to taste you. I can't think about anything else."
His cock twitches despite how heavy it looks, flushed and angry against the pale skin of his thighs.
"Really?" You tease, tilting his chin up with two fingers so he's looking at your face, rather than your body. "Tell me exactly what you're thinking. Describe it to me"
He doesn't miss a beat. "I'm thinking about how soft you are, how warm and silky your cunt feels under my tongue. I'm thinking about burying my tongue as deep inside you as I can reach and still wishing I could get deeper. I want to feel how wet you are but more than anything, I want to taste how wet you are. I want to dream about it for the rest of the week. Every time I stroke my cock I want to be able to remember how you taste."
Precum drips from his tip and you're not sure you can deny him much longer. Not when he's making it sound so appealing.
"Do you even hear yourself?" You do your very best to act like you don't love the sound of every word that has just come out of his mouth.
"I do. I sound like a shameless, filthy, desperate slut. The type of slut who wants to kiss and lick and worship your sweet pussy until you're so sensitive you have to force me to stop." His hand wanders between his own legs, tugging his stiff length to the mere thought.
He's not above begging and you know that. He'll draw this out as long as he needs to until he gets his way but there's very little sense in that when you want this just as much as he does.
"Lie on the bed." You give him time to make his way over before following, lining yourself up just above his face.
You take a second to smooth his hair, enjoying the feeling of his freshly shaved face against the sensitive insides of your thighs.
He's looking up at you, your eyes meeting his. "Thank you." The relief in his voice is clear right before he grasps your hips and pulls you down onto his mouth.
Fuck, he's incredible. This is the mouth you dream about when you're alone. His tongue massages your clit, stroking back and forth before dipping into your fluttering entrance. You swear he must feel what he's doing to you. You feel your cunt clenching and rippling, your muscles contracting in response to the pleasure and for a second you wonder if he can tell.
He's hungry for this; he has been for hours. He's moaning and slurping obscenely, his tongue buried in your cunt. You don't even need to look over your shoulder to know that he's alternating between fucking his own fist and gripping the base of his shaft tight enough to stop him from spilling his release all over himself too soon.
It's very hard to tell which of you enjoys this more.
#asks answered <3#becca writes spice#anon#needy!bucky#bucky barnes x reader smut#sub!bucky#bucky barnes smut#subby!bucky#this should technically belong to the shs series#but it fit this prompt too well so I'm using it here#I make the rules 😇#but that 'thank you' nearly killed me#I've noticed this week that my beige flag is that I get so frustrated when people make assumptions about my capacity#I hate when people say stuff like 'how's the new job? you must be really stressed'#or worse 'things must be getting on top of you'#like ???#why would you assume I can't handle what I put on my own plate?#I know people mean well but it really bothers me
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ZENDAYA as TASHI DUNCAN CHALLENGERS (2024) dir. Luca Guadagnino
#challengers#challengersedit#challengers spoilers#zendaya#zendayaedit#tashi duncan#userbeckett#useraurore#tuserdee#mine and only mine#long post#sorry but this whole scene is so well done#zendaya the actress you are#you can feel every bit of tashi's frustration and loss and her dejected acceptance at the end#esp the end#it's so very tashi she's not gonna sulk on it she's not gonna let it destroy her#she's gonna pull her head up push her shoulders back and keep moving#tashi im so sorry this was the hand you were dealt#bc truly the way she would have surpassed art and patrick by MILES
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