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oneroomjestershow · 9 months

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i did these bc i got inspired from some tags i got some months ago ehehe

im pretty sure the quality is going to die but when i flipped the canvas is like they're dancing go white boy go

#14 days with you #14dwy #14dwy ren #14dwy redacted #no christmas themed drawing.... cannot show my face here again /j #just think that they took you to the aquarium as a Christmas date! is the aquarium open in Christmas??? i don't know idon't think so #but i know he can make it real anyways #it's still christmas in here so i hope you have a great time a great life and eat something nice!!!!!#the first one i used an app from the phone but im never doing Ren there again i didn't like the change in colors from devices #also the quality omg mercilessly murdered rip they deserve better #the second one i was trying out some pencils in medib4ng my journey on trying to feel at home in a drawing program continues #okback to my enclosure 🍖

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meanslackofart · 4 months

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some nights i miss omegle 😮‍💨

#it was fun to chat with strangers #yea it was traumatic as well #but it was good too #it was a perfect escape from real world to me at some point in my life #later on i moved to dating apps to talk with strangers but thats unnecessary drama if nothing works out in long run #so yes some nights i miss omegle #bc it was gave me instant distraction #meanslackofart #spilled thoughts #rant #omegle #desiblr #desi tag #desi tumblr #random #desi shit posting #desi drama #desi

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alkibiadessuperfan · 6 months

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struggling rn cause i wish i knew other lesbians irl to talk to or have as a rolemodel.

#my workplace is fun and while i do not have the impression they are homophobic they are all straight and #the girls my age there really always blocked off when talking about dating stuff even though thry ALWAYS tell me avout their tinder guys #is this queer loneliness??#idk #i listen to yall really but every single day some guy from apps like😭 pls #and then to always block off when i start about girls and my dating life #ok i get it you are disgusted by me ig #ugh #but then they call you pet names and think yoh want smth or so #😭 im so sorry i needed to get this out somewhere #im feeling alone lowkey like i did in school when i wasnt out #but it will be better #when i see my friends again #and my best friend also has a boyfriend now which i am sooo happy about (he sounds wonderfullll!!!!!)#but can anyone around me not talk about dating men every day😮‍💨#dont get me wrong i love you all and i am happy for you and will gladly listen but give me the same energy #rant #personal #lesbian #lgbtq

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faaun · 1 month

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ok let's catch up quickly

#so i went on a few dates w this guy. long hair beautiful face kinda looked like a girl (good) said yes ma'am when i told him to do smth #(also good) film student great at photography including candids. made a sheath of leather for a sword pin i have . et cetera.#he asked to cuddle and i was like iggg and then i felt Nothing and i was like ohhh yh ok ok yep lesbian #like he meets almost all my criteria but. yeahhh no . also at the end of that date he had some weird takes. anyway broke up w him and told #him actually im p sure im a lesbian (again) and he was like yk thats the second time this has happened to me this week but its ok bc ive #fallen for this girl from berlin. and then we cooked together. anyway . met a beautiful butch lowk in love w her. weve been on (1) date.#have two exams in a few days havent studied enough going to like end it all basically. my research partner kicked me off our research #(expected(it was always skinda sketchy)) which was devastating + it happened in a lidl 15 hours into a journey from bordeaux #to go back to the UK. my friends were kinda busy paying for baguettes but also they heard this whole exchange and are kinda mad at him #my friend of 10+ years is coming over in a few days. my evil ex situationship person that i decided to stay friends w because i kept #insisting they are a good friend and not evil and also extremely beautiful? turns out shockingly enough they were evil. tried to fix them #and then i realised due to their entire friendship group being ppl like me (Every Single One of their friends are ppl they met on dating #apps then led on then dumped and proposed staying friends w) and are collectively extremely attracted to them and not over them they #keep validating the most diabolical shit they say/do to hace a chance w them. they broke up w their ex and the way they keep leading #this poor girl on and making her heartbeeak worse and saying that they want more power over her and want her to beg for them back etc...MY #JAW HAD DROPPED esp bc i didnt even know the ex was in the picture BECAUSE ME AND ONE OF OUR FRIENDS (that they also dated) HAD JUSR SLEPT #NAKED TOGETHER IN THEIR BED W THEM. GIRL. anyway that is the least of the diabolical stuff they said but no we are moving onnn #this was b4 the beautiful butch btw. anyways . i have a mitski concert tmrw i think?? idek anymore #i used to have a crush on this guy very briefly and then it disappeared and then i realised if he fundementally changed everything abt #himself then maybe id like him but ofc i didnt tell him that but i still think abt it sometimes but anyway thats irrelevant now bc 99% sure #even if he did id still not find him attractive (lesbianism). please recommend good overnight moisturisers btw i have super dry skin #right. the friend of 10 yrs. we had a hard convo abt why she essentially bullied me in year 8 and it made me highly bitter but i also love #her and ik things are diff now its been like . Many Years . and shes going to stay a while I HAVE TWO EXAMS I DONT HAVE TIME but i love her #its fine. i think i might just switch into medicine and do the whole become a neurosurgeon thing (which was my plan B) bc plan A is looking #kinda impossible rn. I WANNA TALK MORE ABT WHAT THE EX SITUATIONSHIP PERSON SAID but i wont bc i dont wanna be too mean but also . MY GOD #i had a conversation w a philosopher friend about whether i have a moral responsibility to try to fix them bc unleashing this on society #feels wrong and he said 'probably but...run' so yeah im not talking to them atm. second date w beautiful butch on monday btw IDK WHAT TO #WEAR. she said she likes fems. im just gonna wear the shortest ralph lauren skirt i have w the cute leg warmers and hope 4 the best #its 1:15 AM im abt to drink coffee and start studying bc what the FUCK man. also almost finished watching the boys its very good #one of my best friends is struggling rn it is breaking my heart i want to take the burden from her i miss her very much

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beaft · 3 months

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Oh my god I think I found your Lex profile whoops

Shooting you a fellow REDACTED CITY queer salute/nod

Holy shit lmao what a blast from the fucking past... i haven't used lex for about a year (partly because it's not compatible with my model of phone so i had to use a shitty emulator and manually reinstall it every time there was an update) anyway hiii fellow redacted city resident :3

#lex is by far the worst and funniest queer dating app imo #absolutely lawless place #i never met up w anyone from there but i do have some great anecdotes

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effervescent-fool · 3 months

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i think one of my biggest (and only) gripes with procreate is that they dont have like. a masterlist of features their app has to offer. a full thorough ui navigation. because ive been using procreate for a couple years now and im still discovering preexisting features because they just. dont mention it anywhere

#like being able to drag and drop an image into the color pallette area to create a unique pallette from that image?#had to find that out through an instagram reel #procreate has a habit of compressing things almost Too much to make it less visually busy and more “beginner friendly”#which definitely works to an extent. its the easiest art program I've used to date. and that includes ibispaint #but they have an annoying habit of simply not Labeling Things #so they will have a lot of super cool and useful features that you wont even know exist because they dont tell you about it #and their app tutorials are very vague and don't actually seem to show you have to navigate the app.#they feel more like an ad than a tutorial #this is why procreate dreams has gotten flamed so bad i think #its not even that bad is the thing. its got tons of good features. but the ui is simply TOO simplified #everything is hidden in a dropdown of some kind #to the point that its not beginner friendly OR professional quality #because its equally unnavigatable for both #ANYWAYS im just yapping for the sake of yapping #i love procreate. its affordable and user friendly. theres just some very small inconveniences with its ui #i know nothing about developing and do not know what im talking about. for the record.#this is simply the ramblings of a humble artist who loves nothing more than to complain ❤️

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eddis-not-eeddis · 4 months

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#people who use language exchange apps as if they were dating apps confuse me #especially when they go around trying to talk with people who aren't trying to learn their native language #there's no give and take there is no EXCHANGE #why the heck should should we talk if we aren't trying to learn each other's languages????#that makes it a one way street and i have no benefit from these conversations...you are wasting my time!#go hit on someone who is actually learning your language #i'm not learning turkish sir #and even if i was i wouldn't talk to you #>:(#I'm extra annoyed right now because 80% of the messages I get at the moment are from guys who speak turkish or spanish or chinese or french #OR ANY LANGUAGE BUT KOREAN #and the notification goes off and i get all excited because I think one of my Korean friends woke up #but no #it's just some random yosef or jose #:'(

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bunnihearted · 8 months

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📓🕯️🐇🖤pt.2

#only 30 tags lol i ran out... so furthermore #we only get one life. im gonna try as much as i can to enjoy the little moments. nd to not give up on myself nd my life #i will die one day anyway. why rush it. i'll enjoy as many books and as many walks and songs and tv shows as possible #if i get a loan nd have more money i wanna bleach my hair nd dye my hair green #and later this year i think i might change my name #it was the name i wanted to change to from the beginning. but i was in such a bad headspace i just picked eden at random #i do kinda like it now nd im attached to it but i more feel like this other name actually is me. my birth name nd my current name dont feel #really right. so maybe. i havent decided yet. like i rlly dont know. im also attached to this name for some other reason. like it's who i am #to a person i rlly like and if i change... will i be anything to them? i cant put it into words but that makes me hesitate #but it's unhealthy to stay attached to someone i cant truly have even if i want to. so i mean. idk im just weird abt it #but i do kinda wanna change my name (to embla. my mom wanted to give me that name but my dad was like nooo >.<) i am not 100% sure tho so #when i've been getting used to going to school nd working out at the gym. nd after my surgery nd i have more energy #i will try to face my avpd and try apps for making friends. there r two apps where u can find new girl friends!! maybe i can try that #also like i've never tried apps but i think maaaaaybe i can use bumble to try to find friends and women to date. potentially. idk.....#rn it's hard for me to think in those terms bc. i mean i am hung up on someone!!!! i cant evwn imagine dating or being intimate w anyone els #sometimes i feel like.. they're the only person i've ever felt like it'd even be possible. who i'd event want to do that w #not only physically but emotionally. so ig it's even harder to let go bc im so scared i will never feel like that w anyone else #but i rlly need to try to make the most of whatever life i have. the world will collapse soon anyway #that makes me even more sad that i cant be w who i wanna be w nd do what i wanna do but #all pain will all be completely descimated eventually. it's not forever bc life isnt forever #i've just never felt this before. like i want smth to be real so bad but if it happened once surely it can happen again? right?#i wont spend my life alone without intimacy and love and comfort nd support nd understanding right???? :o hope not #im still so sad nd exhausted rn. nothing in my life is working nd theres no repreive nd no help #it gets sooo hard to endure everything sometimes when everything just keeps piling up and gets so heavy it feels like im drowning #nd atm i dont feel like i have any anchor. nothing that keeps me grounded nd im just floating away nd im constantly being overwhelmed by my #feelings nd emotions. im like a stupid little kid who dont understand how to handle what im feeling. or make rational decisions #i feel so ... stupid and useless. i dont know what im doing. i have no idea. i have no compass. its so scary

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daydadahlias · 8 months

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Omg I just saw your post about having to fill out a student alert form. Are you ok? Are you safe?

hi Dee :) ok so,,, some Jess lore right now is that I am currently being <3 stalked <3 a little bit irl. which is obviously not great lmfao and I am nOt loving it but I'm safe and I'm ok !!! my life is not in danger. it hopefully will not progress any further now that I've talked to my boss about it and she made me file a student alert form abt the whole thing but !! yeah. it's been. a very frustrating few weeks here in the real world :/

#pigeon #dee #for some context i work at this writing center at my school #assistant director of it in fact :salute:#and when i was doing research last semester for MiM (isn't it funny how all these things loop together)#i had a tinder for a couple days that I used to understand online dating dfghj and to write the chapter where ash/cal make ashton's tinder #and anyway i matched w/ this guy. and we talked for a day #and then i deleted the app bc I was done w/ my research lol #fast forward to now... turns out !! he goes to my school !!#and comes to my work to schedule appointments with Only me #he refuses to go to any other consultant #and he keeps trying/pressuring to ask to work on papers Outside of the writing center #and during appointments he always tries to ask me personal questions about <3 where I'm from and what I do on the weekends <3 #and like he saw me at dinner recently on my day off and came and. sat with me at dinner. even tho I was like ~please leave me alone~#and emails me outside of writing center hours to ask to meet and look at his paper #and like ! no ! u fuckwad im not doing that lol #so yeah it's been a Constant thing these last four weeks and it's just been Annoying. but after the whole #dinner thing and the email thing. and then another thing today <3 #i talked to my boss and she was like 'ok yeah this is a stalker situation and you need to report it'#soo i did #and we'll see if anything comes of that !!#i love being me it's very fun and exciting #i love how casually i can say I'm being stalked #bc this is not the first time this has happened dfghjk #which makes me sound like sUCH A PICK ME #but this will be my third time being stalked on this college campus #kind of a veteran at this point not to brag

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icantalk710 · 2 months

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#cute friend i've been hanging out/hooking up with told me this morning he wants us to be platonic friends going forward #since he wants to date again and be monogamous #which i told him was valid and we've hung out casually on a 'feel it out' basis so we were mostly aligned #though i was a bit open to things becoming more with us bc it's felt like we've had great chemistry as friends and sexually #and i did ask initially if we were okay with things proceeding given our longish friendship but it's felt good since #so it is a bit of a bummer i cant leave him with some hickeys for the foreseeable future probably but i also do want to date more myself #if things come up accordingly #so maybe some good timing if a shame bc i was looking forward to us catching up this weekend before probably fooling around again #and i meant to touch base with him on that after our last chat on Monday but work has been a ton since coming back from vacation lol #[and just caught up today]#anywho guess we'll see how things go from here #though that does free me up to maybe feel things out with someone in DSA i've been friends with who found me nearby on this other app #and mentioned wanting to maybe do coffee and go from there 🤔 watch this space i suppose #but for now sleep-in time 😴#ore no inochi

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milkstoner · 2 months

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I don't have an insta 😔

I do have to respect that honestly.

#instagram is one of the worse social media apps i use it only to post my own photography and scroll on my fyp which is well curated somehow #btw if you’re trying to date dont communicate on instagram #exchange numbers. keep that boundary and keep it sacred #dont let whoever ur trying to date see your social media presence #even worse if their dms are on silent who tf are you and whose dms are you trying to avoid?surely not mine #how are you going to set up a date with me when your insta DMs are on silent. you havent responded to me and its been 6 hours the day of!!!#how is it 3 pm and its your day off and we were supposed to have a date but youre acting like youre beyoncé omg text me the fuck back #plus you haven’t texted me two whole days #and im mad about it cause that’s a very attractive long haired peruvian man i mean wow! fuck this #had to block cause even if there wasn’t any commitment im not letting myself be disrespected the fuck #anyway if a man asks for your Snapchat specifically he is a serial killer and he will murder you OR he is twenty years old or younger #if a man asks for your TikTok he thinks youre in high school. we all are too classy for TikTok #TikTok is the temu of apps just trashy altogether. you open and there’s aliexpress-reminiscent ads…ew…I’ve only posted a few times #but every time i open the app i feel like I’ll catch lice it just feels unclean #we talk about twitter and how ass it is to use which is fair but tiktok is worse i mean…UI nightmare #a man that uses TikTok is off the deep end you can’t save him #he’s frying up his attention span. meaning he wont be able to focus on you as he should because you are a queen #instead he’ll think about skibidi toilet or some shit does anyone know what that is?i dont #imagine kissing a man having no idea he has that fucking ‘oh no oh no oh nonono’ audio stuck in his head #a man should read a book and even then that should be fucking controlled #im reading Freud right now and its torture. tbf it does happen to be sexuality theories #girl its fucking gross #academia is cooked cause in what world do i get creds for reading the most wack books in the history of ever?#I’ve read 11 books and half of them were boring #this Freud included and its repulsive to read and not even true.#why is it 2024 and im still being taught untrue info just cause old man from old times wrote it #i could clear freud. he literally was a cokehead #in the end he’s a man like the rest of them and if you show him TikTok his brain cells will be cooked #so who won?

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cardboard-queen · 11 months

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I feel like there’s such a divide between “cis couples looking for a third” and “genderqueer polyam” people on dating apps:

Like one is “Hi, looking for a woman for me and my partner to have a good time with ;)”. Uncomfortable. Horny. Reduces the woman to a sex toy.

The other is “Hi, do u wanna hook up? Also I’m poly btw, here’s my partner(s)”. Straight to the point. Horny. I’d let them reduce me into a sex toy tbh.

It’s a subtle difference, but I think it comes down to inclusion vs exclusion. I totally get that couples want to spice it up in the bedroom, but like. You’re bringing a living breathing person (again, almost always a woman…) into the equation. They deserve actual respect, communication, and care! They don’t deserve to be treated like a glorified sex doll. Unless they consent to it first.

(*ofc this isn’t a clear cut cis / trans thing! My anecdotal experience on apps is just that 90% of cis couples ‘looking for a third’ are like that, whereas every polyam trans person I’ve seen is way more welcoming, caring, and respectful.)

#lgbtq #polyamory #polycule #dating #dating apps #trans #t4t #soph rambles #look I thinkin this weird fetoshization really turned me away from being poly for a while too #like as soon as I met ppl in loving functional polycules #I kinda went ‘oh… shit I could see myself enjoying that’#I still dunno if I wanna be poly #but I’d much rather hook up with some folks who respect me lmaoo

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dykenav · 1 year

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should I. dye my hair red. just so I can stealth cosplay as gideon for halloween. and tell anyone who asks that I’m just a low-effort goth skeleton. except for people who are cool and deserve to Know

#consider that me going temporarily broke is a very real consequence of this.#(I would have to go to the salon bc I do Not have the confidence to fuck with that shit myself)#other option is I rope some poor lesbian from a dating app into helping me dye it #on account of I have no friends who I’m on hair-dyeing level with in this city. Yet #rambles

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ncityzen · 4 months

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#another day of me having deleted dating apps and wanting to 'meet people organically but why does it never happen 😩':#this past weekend i was sitting on a bench and reading a book at the park and this guy sat down next to me #for some reason #and i immediately went into panic mode did not even look at him once did not lift my gaze from the pages #body in fight or flight mode #the guy quite literally left AND CAME BACK to sit right next to me again #and instead of taking this as a sign i was like jesus christ why #.......#yes I'm still alone #erola.txt #in my defense he was probably like 21 years old there are lots of uni students in the area and I'm too old for that but still

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evansbby · 4 months

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Controversial hot take at least here.. is that Chris is still hot 💀 Like those Materialists photos we got in the red shirt or when he kissing Dakota 🤩🖤 It’s so depressing to go on dating sites and see that no other 42 year olds look as fine as him 🙄 what I WILL say is that man has got to grow out his beard again. He’s been keeping it so short these past 2 years.

i disagree 😂😂 but that really is a hot take bestie i can’t lie! i agree with you about the beard tho!

#not him subjecting Dakota to his kissing 😂#OKAY SORRYSKCJSKXKS #i think for me it’s just…#idk he aged I’m sorry I’m just not attracted to men that much older #like i know aging is natural we all age #but yeah…#also the new hairline is not giving #so there’s that #idk from some certain angles if you squint you can imagine he’s chris evan from 3-4 years ago and he’s hot again for a split second #anon #also the 42 year olds on dating apps aren’t hot bc the actual hot 42 year olds don’t need dating apps #either that or they’re all married bahahaha

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bsdyaoi · 4 months

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The funniest thing my brother told me recently is he downloaded grinder when he was at school

#meow.txt #he also talked to some people and met up with a guy from tinder #who ghosted him #i downloaded a dating app ONCE and i deleted it after 20 minutes bc people messaged me and i got really scared

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