#female vincian

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flags for those that reclaim the terms fujoshi and himedanshi

Left flag is fujoshi for those that use the term fujoshi to describe themselves while having queer attraction to men

Right flag is himedanshi for those that use the term himedanshi to describe themselves while having queer attraction to women

This flag is not in support of those that fetishize queer people, its meant for us to take these terms and reclaim them

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FINALLY!!! I Got To Keep Both Jack & Miranda’s Loyalties In Mass Effect!!!

[Note: Reading This Is Optional.....

also Do NOT Reblog Without Permission.]  

after I guess what feels like so many tries but it might only been a few...

I had finally done it, on March 7, 2023.....I had finally got to keep both Jack and Miranda’s Loyalties in Mass Effect.

and of course it happen in the new version, that Mass Effect Legendary.

and I was right about the whole building up that blue paragon high enough, and it will need to be REALLY high....in order for to use the other dialogue, and keep both those two’s loyalties.

which I’m glad that I finally was able to get a high enough paragon to choose the dialogue that turns blue, well I could of either went with that or the red but sadly it wouldn’t be high enough in time, so lucky for me the blue was high enough.

of course when I did finally got to keep those two’s Loyalties, it was playing as the Default Shepard, but the Male one, and going with the the name ���John”...

that is the Male Default Shepard’s Name....

and after doing Tali’s Loyalty Mission in Mass Effect 2 in the Legendary version...

I had Shepard talk with....her name is Kelly, right...?

she is kind of like a therapist for the crew on the Normandy.

anyway she talks about how Tali gives hints that she is in love with Shepard.

but I had THAT Shepard romance Liara in both Mass Effect 1, and in Mass Effect 2 I had them rekindle their love after the whole beating the Shadow Broker....then again, she did insist to Shepard that they should break up...

and yet I made sure that Shepard didn’t cheat on her, and that he didn’t send the wrong messages.....I wonder if in the new Mass Effect game, their love will still stay strong, or if Liara will pull a Jacob.

when romancing Jacob using the Female Shepard, your just going to have that character go through heartbreak, because Jacob does end up cheating and even having a baby with the woman that he two-times Shepard with.

and if you ask me, even if it is true that the woman who ends up in a romantic relationship with Jacob, does end up being not so friendly to the Female Shepard if she has romance Jacob in Mass Effect 2....

but maybe both women could do so much better than Jacob...

yes there is the whole choice that the Player could cheat or even ask for a poly-romance, which if it is true that has been suggested in one of the dialogues if you are romancing both Liara or Ashley or Kaiden in Mass Effect 1.....but it ending up not being possible at all, and ya still have to choose between the two (which is like either Male Shepard choosing between Liara or Ashley and or Female Shepard choosing between Liara or Kaiden.),

but with some Players might choose not to go down the cheating path, and if Liara does end up wanting to call things off and just be friends after the whole Shadow Broker thing, the Player can choose to agree to call things off or keep having the Male or Female Shepard with her.

and I guess we could think of Kaiden finally coming out of the closet in, it’s Mass Effect 3 that he can be romanced by the Male Shepard right...?

so I guess this would mean that either Kaiden is Pansexual or Bisexual.

maybe he is Bisexual....but Male Shepard couldn’t romance him in Mass Effect 1 until I think in Mass Effect 3....

so I’m just gonna see it as Fan Headcanon that Kaiden was in the closet until he came out of the closet in Mass Effect 3.

some of the characters that Shepard can romance, are either bisexual, pansexual, heterosexual, lesbian and vincian.

of course if you have to be Female Shepard to romance Samantha Traynor

and you need to be Male Shepard to romance Steve Cortez. 

Steve Cortez is Vincian, and he had lost his first husband, so I guess if a Player does decide to have Male Shepard start a romance with Steve Cortez, it could be seen as a way for the man who lost his husband, to heal and love again.

and Samantha Traynor is a Lesbian, so she will not be interested in the Male Shepard and will only be interested in the Female Shepard, who the Player can decide for themselves if they want to romance Samantha Traynor or not. 

the Asari in the game can be with anyone and any species of any gender.

but I guess some Asari would prefer Feminine, and not have a interest in Males, so maybe Asari can be Pansexual or Bisexual or Sapphic.

it might be possible that some Asari could end up with Partners that are Nonbinary, and they could end up with different types of Nonbinary Partners.

either just Nonbinary who only go by They/Them,

or even Nonbinary-Man who goes by He/Him and They/Them,

or Nonbinary-Woman who goes by She/Her and They/Them.

and if a Asari does have a Partner that is just Nonbinary (and not a Enboy or Enbirl)........if anyone either it be a human, turian, quarian, krogan, salarian, batarian or even another asari or any other race (all but the hanar.)

ended up misgendering the Asari’s Nonbinary Partner, and not calling them They or Them, then maybe the Asari would be really mad and try to punch the lights out of the one who misgender their partner, or maybe just yell at them to not misgender their partner, and telling them that they aren’t a Enboy or Enbirl.

it would be interesting if like in the other stories in the game, you can have Shepard go over to them and try to work it out, and even telling the person to not misgender the Nonbinary Human Partner of the Asari again.

even if you can only choose between the Male and Female Shepard,

it would be interesting if there was a Androgynous looking Shepard, and was Nonbinary, and depending on the Player’s view, they could be either Enby, Enboy or Enbirl.

in the FNAF fan game, that’s called Five Nights Of Flirting,

you can choose between either Male or Female or Nonbinary/Genderfluid.

 Five Nights Of Flirting is one of my favorite FNAF fan games.

 and in Undertale, the Player could view Frisk being either a Boy, Girl, Enby, Enboy or Enbirl.

and even do the same with Chara, who’s name is still a diminutive of the name Charlotte....which is a fact and one can look it up to see.

and besides using the name Default Name “Chara”, the Player can use any other name, either from a girl or boy or neutral name.

and we know that Kris is Nonbinary in the canon of Deltarune.

but the Player could view Kris as either just Nonbinary or even being a Nonbinary-Boy or Nonbinary-Girl.

I wouldn’t mind if they had a third option in a future Mass Effect Game,

where you can choose between Male, Female and Nonbinary Shepard.

of course the Nonbinary Shepard wouldn’t have the Default First Name like John or Jane, so they would have to pick a default name that is maybe unisex.

and the Player can decide between either a boy or girl or unisex name, depending if they want to view that Shepard as a Enby, Enboy or Enbirl.

but the chances of such a Shepard appearing in the future is very VERY small.

and if that Shepard does appear in the future, I guess some fans could view them as the Baby Sibling of John and Jane Shepard.

 I’m still glad that I was finally able to keep both Jack and Miranda’s Loyalties,

and I guess if I didn’t decide to make sure to talk to other characters and even do some missions, then I guess my paragon wouldn’t of became high enough.

I mean if I hadn’t made sure to make sure to raise my Paragon Levels REALLY high, and if I had did Jack’s Loyalty Mission, it would be likely I would end up having to choose between her or Miranda after the mission was over with.

and if I chosen Miranda over Jack, even just getting Jack’s Loyalty, then Jack would end up dying later on in Mass Effect 2, the same could be said for Miranda if I chosen Jack over her.

and I really didn’t want to choose between the two, and I wanted to keep both their loyalties.

of course after finally keeping both their loyalties, and playing a little more of Mass Effect...

I took a break and took the game out and I did end up going to bed and sleeping finally after I was finished playing on the Xbox One a little bit.

I don’t think I’m the only one who had been having trouble trying to keep both Miranda and Jack’s Loyalties, if you don’t have a high enough Paragon or that Renegade one, then you will have to choose between them.

and I had been trying my best to build up my Paragon so I didn’t have to choose between them so I could keep both of their Loyalties.

and maybe other Players who have been through the same thing, have tried to make sure to build up their Paragon really high so they don’t have to choose between them.

and even though it’s not all fans, but I’m pretty sure some fans do ship Miranda and Jack, and think they just need to just kiss already.

and I guess in the Fanon those two could be Bi, but in the Canon it is possible that both of them are Heterosexual....but who knows.

but with those two at each other’s throats and hating each other, and only calling a type of truce when ya finally are able to keep both their loyalties and not having to decide between the two....

the chances of them forming any kind of romantic relationship in the canon and in a future Mass Effect Game, are very VERY small...

and any romance ship between those two, would possibly just stay Fanon.

one of the reasons I wanted to have Shepard keep his romance with Liara T’Soni, is because I want to see if they will end up having a child together in the future game.  

like if it turns out that if Male or Female Shepard becoming a Parent to their and Liara’s child, but Liara doesn’t tell them about her being pregnant when they were in the last fight against the Reapers.

and it could turn out that Shepard and Liara’s daughter can only exist if the two have formed a romance and kept the romance going.

maybe only a few years would pass inside the timeline of the Mass Effect Game, and those that Shepard had on his team would still be alive.

if Shepard does return in the future Mass Effect Game, then maybe they could be surprised to find out that they have a daughter with Liara, that is if the Player chooses to have Shepard romance Liara and keep the romance and not call things off with her.

and I guess if Male Shepard had romance either Miranda or Jack and they stayed alive and are on the ship with the others in Mass Effect 3 and could be mourning Shepard....

if the Male Shepard had romance either those two, then maybe in the future, he could have a son or daughter with either of those two that would also be a surprise.

like any future child that Male Shepard has with either Miranda, Jack and maybe even Tali, would end up being a surprise to them.

Female Shepard and Male Shepard can both be surprised “Fathers” and find out that Liara had their daughter but didn’t tell them that she was pregnant.

and in a Vandread and Mass Effect Crossover, Female Shepard could be viewed as the Ohma and Liara the Fama if they were to have a child together.

anyway if you think about it, Mass Effect could be considered a LGBTQ Game or a LGBTQIA Game.

most of the characters that Shepard can romance are either Heterosexual, Bisexual, Lesbian and Vincian.

and you can only romance Samantha if your the Female Shepard,

and you can only romance Steve if your the Male Shepard.

Male Shepard can’t romance Samantha, and would likely be put in the friend zone.

and the same thing can be said for Female Shepard, who isn’t able to romance Steve either and would end up in the friend zone as well.

I wonder if many fans knew this....?

well I guess maybe those who look up info or watched walkthrough of the romances that has to do with the different characters that Shepard can and can’t romance.

and even if the Male or Female Shepard can romance those who can be romanced in the game, but there are still some that Shepard can’t romance at all, no matter if they are Male or Female Shepard.

also if it were possible that if Male Shepard romanced Jack, and kept the romance and it had turn out that they had a kid together and it was shown in a future game....

if we thought Jack was crazy dangerous before, (and if she lived in Mass Effect 3) then she could be REALLY dangerous as a Protective Mother.

like picture the normal type of dangerous Jack, but times 10 or 100 if she ever became a Mom to Shepard’s kid.

and I guess if the Female Shepard did romance a Male Character, in a plot twist kind of way, she could of been pregnant when she had to choose between the three choices of fusing organic and synthetic, or destroying or merging with the reapers.

I rather NOT choose destroying the Reapers, and would rather have Shepard choose between the other two choices.

and for all we know, the Shepard we have been playing in Mass Effect 2, was a clone this whole time and we keep playing them in Mass Effect 3.

and it could turn out the Original Shepard is being kept in another base and had just woke up during the end of Mass Effect 3 and has amnesia.

and even if we had kept Shepard loyal to the one that they romanced, in a plot twist type of way those who Shepard romance in Mass Effect 1 and even kept romance with in Mass Effect 2 to 3, would had accidentally cheated on the Original Shepard, which means the child of Liara, Tali, Jack and Miranda could possibly have....

wouldn’t be Original Shepard’s child, but the Playable Shepard Clone’s child with them.....and if that is true, that would mean there is Two Shepard Clones.

not all fan theories have to be correct, even the whole there being Two Shepard Clones, and only one of them was a perfect copy of the Original.

and I guess if we had Shepard be a human supremacy and seem to have a dislike for non-humans in Mass Effect 1, but end up having Shepard act more nicer and not a Xenocist Dirty Shisno jerk, wouldn’t that mean that the Original Shepard was bad and the new clone that we unknowingly play as in Mass Effect 2 to 3, ends up being good...?

and the Other Shepard Clone, that shows to be a bit of a Dirty Shisno Xenocist would turn out to be the perfect copy of the Original Shepard if Shepard in the Mass Effect 1 acted like a Xenocist Jerk, of course that would be the choice of the Player.

I see that as Semi-Canon and maybe it could be possible to have Shepard act like a Shisno Xenocist Jerk in the Mass Effect 1 and then start to not be that way anymore in Mass Effect 2, but the clone that appears later on will still be a Xenocist and a Dirty Shisno which would be much worse than the version of Shepard in Mass Effect 1 who was acting like a Dirty Shisno Xenocist.

I’m sure there are some fans who could of made Shepard act like a Shisno and Xenocist in the Mass Effect 1 but might of had him change in Mass Effect 2.

it would be interesting if the Clone that teamed up with Brooks, had somehow survived and could be reformed....and maybe knew that the Shepard that we play as from Mass Effect 2 to 3, was a clone like them and was either a perfect clone copy or a clone that was different from the original and only seem like a perfect copy.

it would be interesting if this was true and I wouldn’t mind seeing it in the future Mass Effect Game.

anyway I will play more Mass Effect later, and hopefully I can keep both Tali and Legion’s Loyalties and have the Geth and Quarian work together.

hopefully if things work, I can have Tali stop being a Dirty Shisno.

at least not all Quarians are Dirty Shisno to the Geth, and not all Geth are bad or sided with the Reapers.

but the Quarian scapegoating the Geth for them having been kicked out off their home planet, is just stupid because the Quarian are the ones who started it, well the first generation who started that mess with the Geth.

at least some Quarian want to try to fix their mistake in the right way and try for peace with the Geth, not like some who want to destroy all Geth from their home world and still keep being dirty shisno.

maybe with any luck if both Miranda and Jack live in Mass Effect 3, maybe in the future Mass Effect Game, if they appear in it, maybe they would of become close friends while Shepard was away.

like they could still fight at times, but still end up caring for each other because they had ended up forming a bond of trust and understanding.

but it only happening if both survived in both Mass Effect 2 to 3, and only if the Player is able to keep both of their Loyalties. 

also I know this post isn’t really mature, but I had to add the “mature audiences only” and “not for kids” tags, because well the Mass Effect Game series isn’t for little kids and it is for those who are the proper age to play it.

anyway I’m going to keep a eye out for any new info about the new Mass Effect game, and hopefully there will be new info about it soon.                                       

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hello lgbtq+ ppl of tumblr

update: GUYS IM RLLY SORRY I FORGOT TO PUT AN OPTION FOR MULTIPLE!! ALSO SORRY IF I DIDNT INCLUDE YOUR IDENTITY I ONLY HAD SO MUCH ROOM. I SEE U AND YOURE SO VALID <333

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Intersex Orientation Flags!

Haven't seen any intersex-exclusive orientation flags that caught my eye so I decided to make my own.

I made these flags because I noticed that my experience as a gay man changed pretty drastically when I realized I was intersex.

These are only to be used by intersex people. Questioning intersex people can use as well. "Transintersex" or people "transitioning to be intersex" cannot use these flags. I also ask that these flags are not to be used by perisex altersex people. Thank you.

Intersex Vincian Flag

A flag for intersex people who are primarily (exclusively or not) attracted to men in a non-straight way, and/or consider themself vincian/achillean/mlm/male-attracted. This flag is inclusive of mspec monos and (other) contradictory labels such as amab transmascs, non-men who are attracted to men in a non-straight way, those who are not a masc gender and use masc terms, and more.

Intersex Lesbian Flag

A flag for intersex people who are primarily (exclusively or not) attracted to women in a non-straight way, and/or consider themself lesbian/sapphic/wlw/female-attracted. This flag is inclusive of mspec monos and (other) contradictory labels such as afab transfems, non-women who are attracted to women in a non-straight way, those who are not a fem gender and use fem terms, and more.

Intersex Bi/Mspec Flag

A flag for intersex people who are attracted to multiple genders (with or without preference), and/or consider themself mspec/multisexual/pluralian (ie. bi, poly, pan, omni, etc). This flag is inclusive of mspec monos and (other) contradictory labels.

Intersex Abro Flag

A flag for intersex people with a changing/non-static orientation (ie. abrosexual). This flag is inclusive of mspec monos and (other) contradictory labels.

Intersex Aspec Flag

A flag for intersex people who on the aspec in some way (ie. asexual, aromantic, aplatonic, etc). This flag is inclusive of mspec monos, (other) contradictory labels, and SAM and non-SAM aspecs.

I plan on making more of these flags

[neopronouns]

flag id: two flags with 5 stripes. the left flag's stripes are pink, soft purple, light seafoam green, very light sky blue, and light sky blue. the right flag's stripes are medium dark faded blue, dull blue, light indigo, very light red-pink, and light red-pink. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

pansyboy | lilygirl

pansyboy: a boy who is feminine in the way that fag(got)s are; someone who both considers themselves male and has some significant connection to faggy femininity, either in their gender or expression; a boy aligned with faggy femininity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both male and feminine in the way that fag(got)s are

lilygirl: a girl who is masculine in the way that dykes are; someone who both considers themselves female and has some significant connection to dykey masculinity, either in their gender or expression; a girl aligned with dykey masculinity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both female and masculine in the way that dykes are

[pt: pansyboy: a boy who is feminine in the way that fag(got)s are; someone who both considers themselves male and has some significant connection to faggy femininity, either in their gender or expression; a boy aligned with faggy femininity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both male and feminine in the way that fag(got)s are

lilygirl: a girl who is masculine in the way that dykes are; someone who both considers themselves female and has some significant connection to dykey masculinity, either in their gender or expression; a girl aligned with dykey masculinity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both female and masculine in the way that dykes are. end pt]

terms like rosboy and azurgirl but related to faggy femininity and dykey masculinity specifically for anon!

they're in the same format as the rosboy and azurgirl flags, with both flags using the same two bottom stripes representing maleness and femaleness respectively, one stripe adjusted from the top three stripes of those flags to represent femininity and masculinity respectively, and colors adjusted from thes fag(got) and dyke flags respectively!

since 'ros' and 'azur' were inspired by both flowers (roses and azures), i based these on flowers associated with vincians (pansies) and sapphics (lilies)!

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @sugar-and-vice-mogai

tags cont: @prettypinknarc, @skrimbliest, @fem-mogai, @orientation-archive

dni link

[pupsmailbox]

Achillean ★ ❭ Man or nonbinary individual who is attracted to other men or nonbinary individuals. One may or may not be attracted to other genders as well.

Asterosian ★ ❭ Man (or miaspec individual) who is attracted to nonbinary individuals and to men. This attraction does not have to be exclusive.

Carnelian ★ ❭ Nonbinary individual who is attracted to men, and nonbinary individuals. This attraction can be exclusive or not.

Cinthean ★ ❭ Men, masc and unaligned nonbinary people who are are attracted to men, masc and unaligned nonbinary people.

Enbitor ★ ❭ Nonbinary individuals who are exclusively attracted to men and other nonbinary individuals.

Floric ★ ❭ A non-woman attracted to other non-women. This attraction does not have to be exclusive.

Laverian ★ ❭ Men or masculine-aligned individuals who are attracted to men or masculine-aligned individuals.

Marsic ★ ❭ Non-binary individuals who are exclusively attracted to men, masc-aligned individuals.

Pansyic ★ ❭ Any binary men, men-aligned or non-woman-aligned non-binary individuals who are exclusively attracted to other men or non-women-aligned nonbinary individuals.

Solaric ★ ❭ Any person attracted exclusively to masculine-aligned and/or man-aligned non-binary people.

Teric ★ ❭ Any person attracted to men and/or masculine aligned individuals, exclusively or not.

Toric (Quadrisian) ★ ❭ Non-binary individuals who are attracted to men.

Turian (Veldian) ★ ❭ Any gender (excluding binary man) usually exclusively attracted to men.

Uranian ★ ❭ Generally men/man-aligned attracted to generally men/man-aligned.

Uranic ★ ❭ Any gender attracted to men, masculine, and neutral-aligned non-binary individuals.

Vincian ★ ❭ Men and male/masculine-aligned attracted to men and male/masculine-aligned (exclusively or not)

Violaen ★ ❭ A veldian who is exclusively attracted to men, alongside all other genders that are not primarily female.

Viramoric ★ ❭ Non-binary and/or genderqueer individuals who are exclusively or primarily attracted to men.

[sickly-sapphic]

[ID: A swirly background with the nonbinary flag colours - white, yellow, purple and black - as the background to all slides. Text reads; it's Nonbinary Awarensss Week... ...but what is nonbinary? Background by GaboBuasczyck (pinterest).

What is Nonbinary? In its simplest definition, nonbinary just means outside of the male-female gender binary. Some consider it under the umbrella of trans or genderqueer, others say genderqueer is under the nonbinary umbrella! Either way, not *all* nonbinary people will be transgender or genderqueer - it's its own identity!

Queer Gender Experiences. Everybody's experience with being nonbinary differs. Some people are just nonbinary, some may be nonbinary men or women. Nonbinary people can be transgender, transfeminine, transmasculine, transneutral and/or cisgender. Some people identify with multiple labels - like genderqueer, agender, genderfluid and/or demigender.

Nonbinarism & Pronouns. There's a common misconceptions that all nonbinary people use exclusively they/them pronouns. In reality, nonbinary people use an array of different pronouns. Some do use they/them, some use it/its, some use neopronouns such as xe/xem and fae/faer, some use nounself pronouns like bunself or starself and some use she/her and/or he/him. Many use multiple sets! Pronouns are deeply personal, and they give no indication of gender.

Nonbinarism & Sexuality. There are many jokes regarding nonbinary sexuality. Nonbinary sexuality comes in all shapes and sizes! Depending on their relationship with gender, sex and love, nonbinary people might identify as strictly lesbian, gay/vincian or straight, but some may feel more comfortable under labels like sapphic, achillean, toric, trixic, diamoric or enbian. Many nonbinary people also sit under the mspec and aspec umbrellas.

Nonbinarism & Intersexuality. There's a common myth that intersex people are just "cis nonbinary" or that they're proof of nonbinary peoples existance. In reality, intersex isn't even a gender (though some intersex people may use it as their gender label too) and nonbinary people are the proof of nonbinary existance. Some intersex people do still feel most comfortable as cis nonbinary, but this is a personal identity and NOT the definition of intersex.

Nonbinarism & Race. While I can't talk on personal experience, I did want to bring light on the face that race also impacts gender identity. The societal boxes or ideals of manhood and womanhood are usually centred around *white* womanhood and manhood. Some people of colour & indigenous people find the label of nonbinary useful to explain the disconnect with their birth gender due to these ideals.

Nonbinarism & Disability. Similar to the last side, the boxes of womanhood and manhood are often also focused on able-bodied people. This can leave disabled people feeling they don't really fit in the man or woman boxes. So, some disabled people use nonbinary, or nonbinary woman/man to explain this disconnect or to step outside the boxes they've been excluded from.

Don't forget about... hyperfeminine nonbinary people, religious nonbinary people, nonbinary people of colour, cis nonbinary people, lesbian, gay and straight nonbinary people, plural nonbinary people, hypermasculine nonbinary people, disabled nonbinary people, fat nonbinary people, non-dysphoric nonbinary people, indigenous nonbinary people, intersex nonbinary people, nonbinary people living through genocide.

Happy Nonbinary Awareness Week. 8th July - 14th July. End ID]

[stormy-caffeine]

Didn't want to bog down previous reblog's tags with my thoughts, hopefully someone resonates with this or could share their thoughts.

On the non-man/non-woman discussion of sexuality descriptions, I have conflicted feelings because while I acknowledge that it is an incredibly unhelpful descriptor to use for broad definitions such as with vincian and lesbian, I personally resonate with it as both a person descriptor and sexuality preference.

I am multigender and genderfluid, to the point it was very difficult for a long time to really understand what I wanted from others in the long run or what my transition goals looked like. The only thing I knew for sure is that I am not a woman.

I'm not a binary man, claiming to be one for passing situations in the future makes me feel queasy and stressed because it just isn't true, but it's more true than staying in the closet and continuing to present as a woman. I have been many things and I may be many more, sometimes I am nothing and something at once and have to navigate that with myself, things get complicated. But the one thing that remains constant is that I am a non-woman.

When it comes to relationships, I have only ever been able to imagine myself as a queer guy. Younger me took that as an indication (before I realized romantic and sexual attractions are different and that gender and body are separate things) that I could never be interested in a female or feminine person whatsoever, but that isn't true. As I've grown and gotten more comfortable both with myself and others, I've realized the parts on someone's body, their clothes, their pronouns, etc, have no correlation to how I feel about them, I'm attracted to their gender - so long as that gender is non-woman.

The more complex feelings come in when I try to analyze myself further, because it's hard to think of things inside a vacuum. The connotation of non-woman is very restrictive when it comes to others because it disconnects a lot of people who are bigender, multigender, some who are androgyne (some see it as distinct like I do, while others are both binary genders at once which would make them partially a woman), some who are genderfluid, everyone who is pangender, people who live/have lived as women, etc etc etc. People with contradictory or overlapping labels then have to be considered, anyone who uses a label that is usually reserved for women or indicates the user is a woman is now someone I have to consider if I would be attracted to in a vacuum, their gender divorced from who they are, but just like the other examples this is impossible. You cannot divorce someone's gender from someone's personhood, they morph and form each other indefinitely.

If I were to date someone who is genderfluid between man and woman, would I be able to love them? They are not a non-woman strictly or on a regular basis. If I were only to love a portion of a person, that wouldn't be truly loving them or showing respect for the other portions of them. In everyday life, maybe they choose to present as a man to others and use traditional masculine pronouns. Would this make it easier for me? Would I be able to feel for them presenting as a non-woman, despite knowing somewhere in them is a woman as well? If they asked me to refer to them as a woman and use feminine pronouns, would what feeling I do develop for them as a man change or go away? I would hope not. But I couldn't promise them that.

If I were to be with someone who is sometimes a woman or partially a woman, it would feel like an inherently disrespectful effort. I would be degendering a part of them with my affection, no matter how much I didn't want to. When I feel attraction, it's as a non-woman projecting emotion to someone like myself. I am gay in a very broad sense, I am attracted to what I am and I am many. But I am not everything, and I cannot connect to that other experience genuinely.

Despite this, I don't want terms that I would use for myself cut off from those who are different from me. Even if I identify as a gay man, a vincian, an achillean, etc etc etc, every man should be able to identify as those terms as well, if they feel it fits them. Because they know themself best. It is not up to me or anyone else to say that a man is not a vincian just because they are also a woman or perhaps also a lesbian. It does not suddenly make them a non-man to be a woman, just as being a woman does not make someone a non-man. The only thing it does mean, is that that person isn't for me. Period.

If a man states that he is a gay man/vincian/etc, and includes everyone who I would not personally include in that orientation, that does not mean he labeled himself incorrectly. He just doesn't have the personal restrictions that I have, and that is beautiful.

Things are messy and complicated and it makes finding someone who is right for you even harder if you get stuck on the "correctness" of feelings and labels. I know where my personal limits are for connecting with someone, and I know what terms speak to me and which ones make me feel hollow. And that's really all that matters.

The second we start policing other people because we insist on thinking we know better than they do, that they're just wrong about what and who they are or that they're identifying in some way to upset others instead of to be happy, we lose. We lose a part of community that could have fostered understanding and friendships. We lose trust in others even knowing who we are in fear of rejection from those who should know better. We lose a part of our sanity in restricting other people's feelings for the sake of artificial "accuracy", as if we could ever "accurately" know their thoughts and feelings better than themself. And if it continues we will only continue to lose parts of our own autonomy as more things are determined as "inaccurate" and eventually "inappropriate" or "harmful."

There are many issues with the terms non-man and non-woman. So, so many issues when it comes to succinctly identifying who is and is not such-and-such. But that doesn't mean we can restrict people from using it for themselves or even for using it as a definition of their own orientation. The only thing we can do is discourage people from unnecessarily policing and restricting others based on flawed understanding of who "can" be a man or woman, and educating them that there are an infinite number of possibilities for someone identifying with gendered labels that may not "make sense" to them.

Humans are made to exist and experience life, not to make sense.

[genderstarbucks]

Okay, so here are some of the main sexualities of my monster OC world, Lysterisian. In Lysterisian monster language, "hoki" is translated to "sexual attraction" and the word "hoka" is the romantic version of hoki, meaning "romantic attraction". The combined term for both sex/rom attraction is "hokai".

Geay*hoki = a male/masc-aligned monster who is attracted to other male/masc-aligned monsters; a monster equivalent to gay (MLM)/turian/veldian/vincian and also works as "achillean"

Leshoki = a female/fem-aligned monster who is attracted to other female/fem-aligned monsters; a monster equivalent to lesbian and also works as "sapphic"

Bihoki = a monster who is attracted to two monsters that are same/different monster genders; a monster equivalent to bisexual

Panhoki = a monster who is attracted to all monsters regardless of monster gender; a monster equivalent of pansexual 

Omnihoki = a monster who is attracted to most monsters, but cares about the monsters gender; a monster equivalent to omnisexual

Polyhoki = a monster who is attracted to some, but not all monster genders; a monster equivalent to polysexual/plysexual

Abrohoki: a monster whose attraction to other monster genders change frequently or cannot be pinned; a monster equivalent to abrosexual

Acehoki: a monster who experiences little to no sexual attraction; a monster equivalent to asexual.

Arohoka: a monster who experiences little to no romantic attraction; a monster equivalent to aromantic

Monster Sexualities!!

Gayhoki is a term for a male/masc-aligned monster who is attracted to other male/masc-aligned monsters; a monster equivalent to gay (mlm)/turian/veldian/vincian, will also work as "achillean"

Leshoki is a term for a female/fem-aligned monster who is attracted to other female/fem-aligned monsters; a monster equivalent to lesbian, will also work as "sapphic"

Bihoki is a term for a monster who is attracted to two monsters that are same/different monster genders and/or multiple monster genders; a monster equivalent to bisexual

Ply/polyhoki is a term for a monster who is attracted to some, but not all monster genders; a monster equivalent to plysexual/polysexual

Panhoki is a term for a monster who is attracted to all monsters regardless of monster gender; a monster equivalent of pansexual 

Omnihoki is a term for a monster who is attracted to all monsters, but cares about the monsters gender and/or has a preference; a monster equivalent to omnisexual

Abrohoki is a term for a monster whose attraction to other monster genders changes frequently or cannot be pinned; a monster equivalent to abrosexual

Acehoki is a term for a monster who experiences little to no sexual attraction; a monster equivalent to asexual

Arohoka is a term for a monster who experiences little to no romantic attraction; a monster equivalent to aromantic

These were literally so fun to make that I made like 50 more 💀

[ladyimaginarium]

i& was just thinking this &. ngl the corsicans have the potential to be the funniest fucking family. like in terms of memes. we got uranos corsica aka mr sandy claws the guy that nobody fucking likes & needs to go to bed. we got bernardo who's the resident rich boy twink thot w/ shades on. we got svetlana resident military bad bitch w/ afro indigenous magic ( ik her personally ). we got victor who literally looks like everyone's math teacher except he's russian & is 10000% done w/ everyone's shit. we got georgiana the mom friend who is Also 10000% done w/ everyone's shit & gets her kids out of trouble. we got worick the local himbo manwhore king aka the ken of the corsicas who's also the double agent & is out here pissing everybody off. we got the destroyers - striker aka the baddest dude in the family who's also like obsessed & unhinged & has BPD but everybody loves anyway except for worick bc everytime they see each other It's On Sight TM, beretta aka the baddest bitch in ergastulum & local resident NPD bisexual witchy goth sex worker mom, sig aka The HPD Party Girl TM who likes to do all the most unspeakable acts known to man, & colt aka the Local Autistic ASPD Goth Eboy TM who's just. literally vibing this entire time & just wants to pet cats in peace gdi. we got ( in an au ) minimi & maverick aka Local Vincian Gay Arsonist Dude Who Likes Money & Naps & Also Lighting Shit On Fire TM & maverick who's the Local Cryptid Beauty Queen Traumatized Schizophrenic Indigenous Lesbian Who Has A Sword & Endless Female Rage TM. we got ivan, erica & mikhail, aka another guy that nobody fucking likes, the Sad Unhinged Girl TM & the Horror Child TM. we got sidney & evelyn the local baddies & the other bad bitches. like. this is literally steaming w/ meme material. they're kinda iconic ngl.

[transhet4transhet]

Welcome to transhet 4 transhet blog!

× Call me Natsuki. I'm a transgender male straight and this blog is a safe place for transhet people.

My personal carrd (english/spanish) | insta (drawing/english) | AO3 (Spanish) | My personal Tumblr

"Who is welcome here?"

Transhet male , transhet female and transhet nonbinary.

"Who can't interact?"

TERFS . Kink blogs . Pedo/Zoo/Pro-Para . Trans male/Demiboy Lesbians (wlw) & Trans woman/Demigirl Vincian (mlm) . M-Spec Lesbians/Vincian/Straight // "Straight/Lesbian/Vincian - Lesbians/Vincian/Straight" (like "straight gay" folks...) & Supporters

"Why you include non binary people as straight?"

Because they might feel good about describing themselves as straight.

Being transmasc / transfemme and having attraction to the opposite gender.

And more reasons !!

"What transhets flags can I use?"

Here.

If you have a headcanon to someone as transhet, you can ask me and I submit it!

[fictionkinfessions]

Why do people keep saying Syncopite is homophobic? I really don't like it at all. He wouldn't do that :(

Trust me, Syncopite may have been one of the two Celestials considered single (the other being Plixie), but he was super supportive of everyone else, especially me and Vhamp! How could he not be? There were literally no straight Monsters on Starhenge lmao (besides maybe Furnoss and Torrt, though that's kinda debatable since Torrt was bigender, leaning towards female).

Hell, Syncopite itself was vincian-oriented aroace and used he/it pronouns. Wouldn't it be hypocritical of it to be homophobic?

Also, maybe you shouldn't be headcanoning characters as homophobic, even if it is a joke? Especially not from a children's game that literally has a Pride Month event coming up after the next event is over? (It goes Perplexplore (the current event), Life Formula, and then SkyPainting, which is the Pride event!)

Idk, just saying! What do I know, though? It's not like I'm literally one of the most powerful beings in the Monster World second only to the Colossals themselves, not to mention a close friend of Syncopite.

-Galvana (#⚡️💠🧡)

[4funfetti]

hey , whats ur stance on mspec / male les / female vincian and endo before i follw u>>>>

i don't "support" mspec/male les or anything along those lines. i do think sexuality can be fluid but for bi lesbians, for example, the label sapphic exists for any wlw/nblw, not just lesbians, so it's unnecessary and harmful (regardless of intentions) to use "bi lesbian". (coming from someone that is nblw.) and i'm assuming u mean endogenic systems but i'm not a system so i can't really say anything about that 👍

[transonlyspace]

that is the turigirl/gay woman flag and its used for anyone who bith identifies with a female-alligned gender and identifies as vincian/gay (such as bigender and genderfluid people)

[20sturnedmeemo-punk]

This video is about so much more than Undertale, it’s about black-white thinking, in-group and out-group thinking, how communities are seen by outside people and how we see more diversity amongst ourselves than an outsider can. The social anthropological principal of out-group homogeneity bias.

And that resonated a lot with me about the queer community. The in-fighting. The community-internal hatred against a-spec and m-spec people, against male lesbians and female fags. The identity policing, the rise of radical feminism under the guise of protecting kids.

Each and every community has in-fighting, that’s what happens when a lot of people get together. Sure, we get together because we agree with one another but that’s usually just about some aspects. Like, have you ever compared leftist organisations? Yeah. And that’s just the organisations’ overall talking points. Within those organisations there are people and each and every person has their own views and talking points.

It’s natural but also important that you (general you) are part of many different groups. Because for each and every aspect of who you are, there is an “in-group” (the part you identify with) and an “out-group” (the people who are not like that part of your identity).

And the more aspects you have to yourself, the more diverse your worldview needs to be

Because in each in-group you will meet people who consider other parts of who you are their “out-group” and just as much you will consider parts of who they are your “out-group” but you and them still share an in-group together.

Yes, discussion is important. Without discussion we can’t progress, we can’t find solutions.

But when it comes down to “you can’t use the labels X and Y” that’s basically “you can’t be in the X in-group and the Y in-group [while also being, fundamentally in the ABC in-group] at the same time.”

You see how that’s bullshit?

Look, I’m a white European. I know I can’t talk too broadly on this and I do not intend to drag culture-specific labels/ groups into this. Some things are only for people with a specific heritage, a specific upbringing, a specific culture and we all need to respect that.

I’m physically disabled, I’m mentally ill, and I’m neurodivergent. I’m queer. I’m trans genderqueer. I’m m-spec vincian, an oriented aroace, and MINgender genderqueer-agender. I write fan fiction, I participate in many fandoms, I occasionally play video games, I like movies and TV shows. I love music. I’m an emo kiddie, I’m a metalcore-lover, I’m a wannabe-punk. I try to be an activist for the a-spec and queer community, I try to be a disability-activist, and I hope that existing as I am – being visible as who I am – is encouraging to some people who aren’t there yet. I am so much more which I didn’t put here because of the excessive trigger warnings that would require.

And I am a tumblr user. Just like you.

That’s the whole point. We are in that same in-group, no matter how many of the things in the list above made you scoff and call me slurs. Think I’m a fag, tranny, degenerate or [r-slur] for even using this many labels. So please watch that video and try to keep an open mind the next time you bump into people from your out-group.

And also, kill the cop inside your head because policing and gatekeeping what others call themselves doesn’t help anyone. And if you learn to accept that about other people, then maybe you can learn to accept that about yourself as well.

[genderstarbucks]

hi my friend, uhm so I need some help- do you think there is a sexuality label for this?:

because my boyfriend said she prefers to be called girlfriend and uhhh yeah idrk thanks for ur help! :)

Homospike (also called gayspike) is a microlabel under homoflexible, when someone primarily experiences attraction to the same/similar gender or is otherwise gay (vincian or lesbian), but very occasionally has sudden and intense spikes of strong attraction to the opposite/dissimilar gender. These spikes are usually short lived.

Homoflexible or anisosexual is used to describe an individual who is generally gay/homosexual/homoromantic/equaric/simul- (vincian/veldian, enbian/cenelian, or lesbian/sapphic) and primarily experiences attraction to the same gender/similar genders, but has very occasionally rare tendencies to be attracted to other genders.

Uranicflexible is a term similar to homo/heteroflexible, but when one feels their opposite attraction; their attraction may be described as neptunic.

Uraniflux is a abromantic/fluid orientation. Uraniflux individuals experience constant attraction to male, masculine and neutral aligned enbies, but occasionally are attracted to females or female-aligned individuals to a fluctuating extent. Uraniflux people can be any gender.

Uranicflux (not to be confused with uraniflux) is a term for when one is both uranic and femticflux/femromanticflux. For example, being uranic with fluctuating romantic attraction towards women and other feminine-aligned people whilst still being uranic.

Uranisflux is a term for when one is both uranic and femalisflux/femsexualflux. For example, being uranic with fluctuating sexual attraction towards women and other feminine-aligned people whilst still being uranic.

Femticflux + Femalisflux