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Learning to Say No: A Path to Empowerment and Well-being
In the busy world we live in, learning to say “no” is an important skill that can greatly improve our lives. It might seem like a small word, but it holds a lot of power. Saying no is not just about refusing things; it’s about setting boundaries and taking care of ourselves. In this blog, we will explore why saying no is crucial, the challenges people face when they try to say it, and practical…

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#authenticity#being kind to yourself#challenges in saying no#fear of disappointing others#happiness secrets#identify your priorities#importance of saying no#learn from experiences#learn to say no#life tips#mindfulness#offer alternatives#preserving time and energy#saying no#self-compassion#setting boundaries#strategies to say no#well-being#why saying no is important
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frankenstein - or, the modern prometheus, mary shelley
#own post#booklr#literature#reading#litblr#books#classic lit#classic literature#frankenstein#mary shelley#quotes#web weaving#for your web weaving needs#to strike fear into the hearts of others#unstoppable force#on revenge#on anger#on distrust#on disappointment
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Finished Reading Padawan
These are just some little facts/snippets throughout the book I really liked, really along the lines of temple life.
Spoilers for Padawan below!
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Obi-Wan tugs on his padawan braid when he is anxious
Bolla Ropal (the Jedi that was killed guarding the holocron in TCW) was Obi-Wan's childhood frienemy. The two played pranks on each other.
Obi-Wan paces outside Qui-Gon's chamber doors as he's trying to figure out what to say what he needs to.
Obi-Wan feels most at peace, most calm, when he is practicing lightsaber forms and says he could do it all day and never bore of it.
Jedi specialize in certain fields, such as communication with animals, and if such a conflict arises based in that Jedi's field, they are sent to help
Jedi who are ready to take have a padawan meditate and the force guides them to who they're meant to train, leading to shared interests.
The temple has several dining halls. There is a padawan meal hall and therefore one for the other ranks. They offer such a variety of food Obi-Wan said one could always find something new to try. And I could've made this up but I'm also pretty sure they said the dining hall for padawans was almost always open, so one was always be able to get a meal.
Some Jedi Masters put a table and chairs in their rooms so they can share a meal with their padawan in their personal space
Qui-Gon doesn't even have an extra chair in his room.
Ships can be requested/reserved down in the hangar. A padawan is allowed to do this without approval from their master (Obi-Wan is told by Qui-Gon to do do but is not directly confronted when he does it alone).
Talking and communicating with animals is actually one of the harder skills to learn and master as a Jedi, so many opt not to. Meaning Ezra's ability to communicate with animals as well as he does is not something all Jedi could do, especially for his age
Nautolans, can live outside of water (we do know this) but since they are an aquatic species, there is a constant strain on their gills and results in them being in pain if out of water for too long.
Obi-Wan thinks Kit Fisto is really strong, he notes Fisto does not seem to be affected by this.
Obi-Wan notes some of his padawan friends have dabbled in physical relationships. But he sees it has an obstacle not as a temptation, feeling that, kissing for example, was a betrayal of himself and the Jedi. He wonders if he'd ever get to a point where it does not feel like that.
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Honestly this book was a really cute read and the planet it takes place on was very captivating. I really liked how Kirsten White writes Qui-Gon too and her references that any prequel fan would love catching.
#I really liked the little facts like this#the glimpses into temple life#and seeing how even at 16#Obi-Wan very much trusted the Jedi and all his faith was put in the Order#also his fear of not wanting to disappoint Qui-Gon mixed with his annoyance at Qui-Gon#I feel his mindset for his age was very on point#him questioning everything#obiwan kenobi#star wars#padawan novel spoilers#padawan Obi-Wan#padawan novel#padawan spoilers#padawan book spoilers#sw#obi wan kenobi#also#he mentions Kit like 3 other times throughout he book#man just really be thinking of Kit Fisto#understandable I suppose#finished reading
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My toxic trait is that I keep telling myself that the 3.0 update will give us Sylus' missing 3 and 4 stars, his anecdotes, his bond, and more orbit floors and also that Tobias shall be yeeted to the depths of the Abyss where he belongs 😔💅
#lads#love and deepspace#sylus#setting myself up for disappointment like the clown i am#for sure with the 3 and 4 stars#that ship has long sailed i fear. at least my rational side says so. my delulu side says stfu to that and keep on believing ✨️#(and with the other stuff i mention i mean given to us *immediately*. i know they'll be added eventually -#- but the fact that Sylus is still after nearly 6 months missing stuff that the OG 3 had *on release* is some bullshit. -#- having to potentially wait even longer would be downright criminal imo)
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They're gonna do the Inquisitor as dirty in Veilguard as they did Hawke in Inquisition, huh?
#i was very excited about veilguard#i still am?#but I'm also really disappointed with the whole 3 choices thing#like....whatvthe absolute fuck?#how is it that who the inquisition took in in the mage x Templar conflict doesn't matter?#the firt big choice you make in the fucking game?#how does what you do with the wardens not matter?#HOW DOES WHO YOU PUT. IN THE MOTHERFUCKING THRONE.#OF MOTHERFUCKING ORLAIS. NOT. MATTER????#i dont give a flying fuck about my inquisitor's relationship with solas#i care about the inquisition she build#not to mention stuff from the other games#it's ridiculous#my one fear going into veilguard would be that they'd treat the Inquisitor like treated hawke in daí#hawke was just so ooc in dai#in bw's typical 'oh#actually blood magic is evil' way#which is fucking stupid#i as the player should have the choice to do it if i want to#anyway...not sure i want to see dorian and fenris anymore#cause god knows what they'll to them#dragon age#dav spoilers
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So Greg Bryk regularly goes live on Instagram to chat with his followers and answer a few questions, and almost every time, someone asks if he’d like to play Joseph Seed again if he had the chance, to which he used to always reply that, yes, he absolutely would. However, in early 2022, he didn’t seem so sure anymore and said it would depend on the script (the question was specifically about a potential Far Cry 5 movie) and the writer(s). Then, a few months later, he implied he didn’t feel like playing the Father ever again because he thought the character’s story was “finished” and that Ubisoft should focus on creating new things instead…
Well, on October 14, 2023, he once again went live on Instagram and, when people mentioned Far Cry 5 in the chat, he revealed that he had reached out to Dan Hay and Drew Holmes, two of the game’s three main writers he’s become friends with, and that they had visited him “on set” (I’m not sure what he was shooting) the day before. In the past, he had already explained several times that he had loved working with them and thought the story they wrote (along with “JS”, Jean-Sébastien Décant, the game’s third main writer) was fantastic. This time, he added that Far Cry 5 was really “special” to him because the writers “cared a lot” about creating something great with amazing characters, and that he thought the whole Seed family was really well-written.
A few minutes later, when he was asked which character he would like to play again if he could, he said it was hard for him to choose because he loves them all, but he eventually picked Jeremy Danvers (Bitten) and Cobbs Pond (Frontier).
Then, surprisingly, he also mentioned Joseph.
I don’t know why he changed his mind again or if the fact he contacted Dan Hay (who doesn’t work for Ubisoft anymore) and Drew Holmes (who recently became the new IP Director for Far Cry) means anything, and I’m not sure I want more Far Cry 5 content to be released anyway (for continuity reasons), but I guess the Seed family’s return, as equally exciting and truly terrifying as this eventuality sounds to me, isn’t completely out of the question anymore in Greg Bryk’s mind!
#someone also asked if the book of joseph was canon but as expected he had no idea#actors rarely know that stuff and I’m not even sure he got to read it...#but yeah the boys’ awful childhood is definitely canon the writers have talked about it several times#far cry 5#joseph seed#greg bryk#okay but... listen#I wondered if I was just imagining things when he first mentioned collapse during a live stream and I thought he looked a bit upset#the dlc wasn’t out yet but I was pessimistic so I concluded my fear probably was the reason he seemed unenthusiastic/disappointed to me#then when he said he didn’t feel like playing joseph anymore I once again wondered if it was because of collapse (which was now out)#but I told myself I was most likely influenced by my own negative opinion and he simply wanted to focus on new projects#but... now he’s happily talking about the original writers and how much they 'cared' about making something good#and he seems really enthusiatic again about possibly reprising the role in the future#so is he implying that he thought the other writers (the dlc’s)... didn’t 'care'?#does he also think there were problems with the seeds’ characterization in collapse??#is it possible that I wasn’t just projecting after all???#????#...okay maybe I’m still projecting#but the timing is a bit suspicious isn’t it?
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Dinopants (the unit) has so many parallels to Gyjo (the unit) but I’m disappointed bc so much of the dinopants I see in the wider fandom is ooc or a ‘pair the spares’ scenario that’s for me is just not compelling. I guess I’m just confused because there really is so much there to dig into, and for me it’s definitely the canon dinopants that’s the interesting one! Both HP and Diego as standalone characters parallel and bring into focus Gyro and Johnny’s characters and arc, and when teamed up contrast the Gyjo unit in a really interesting way. People have written some really good dinopants analysis on here and I’m grateful for that! I think I’ve just seen them mischaracterized so much that for awhile the ship lost its appeal, but seeing people who are passionate about dinopants and sharing their thoughts always makes me happy.
#I believe diegofando wrote the essay I’m referencing? but idr so I won’t tag them :(#dinopants#sbr#steel ball run#will I be stoned if I say that toxic dinopants is probably the most interesting version of the ship to me…#not in a ‘haha hp can boss diego around’ kind of way but in a ‘Diego’s ambition and decisiveness contrasts HPs indecisiveness#and fear of judgement. I think diego *would* use them without regret and I don’t think HP could ever trust someone like diego#with their guilt; but they still understand that he’s a useful ally to have.#in my ideal dinopants it would be a working relationship and maybe they’d slowly start to relax around one another until diego inevitably#betrays hp in order to fulfill his goal at the time. yet hp finds that even after they’ve gotten to know each other better#they aren’t surprised by Diego’s choice even if they are disappointed#and then diego dies and hp never gets figure out if they had something or nothing at all#does any of this make sense. probably not. I’m just mean to the characters I like and like to emphasize character flaws#as barriers to true connection. is that so wrong#my posts
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Hi Liv!! Do you have a favorite Suna fic or AU that you’ve written? I’m in a Suna mood today hehe
if i can be so real with you i don't rly have any fics that stand out as "favourites"?? but i guess i do definitely have like a ranking of preference in my head if that makes sense. like COMPARATIVELY i can say i like one fic better than another fic, but (at least rn) none of my fics rly jump out at me as being noteworthy or markedly better than the rest?? that's not just re: suna fics it's w/ all my writing. they're just my silly little storiesssssss
#liv got mail#if u are looking for something in particular like a theme or trope or whatever maybe something will jump out at me but rn i'm blanking!!#quiet introspection in the tags but i think i probably keep an emotional distance between myself and designating worth to my writing#in fear of being disappointed when or if other ppl don't like it/value it as highly as i do#i'd say that's largely unconscious though i 100% don't do it on purpose but i think it would track knowing me as a person
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Slowest little puppy in the dog race x The only one watching her run [Patreon | Commissions]
#beas ocs#Eyes & The Observer#Lo#Magnolia#bea art tag#//suicide mention#star filled oyster#oc art#comix page#-I bet on losing dogs starts creeping in-#WHITE WOMAN JUMPSCARE#One of Magnolia's worst fears is being alone even though she's so scared of other people#part of the reason she's so attached to Lo IS that Lo has no feelings towards her - positive or negative. It is almost always present#with her but has no real personal opinion on her. She will never disappoint Lo - by virtue of being alive she is interesting to Lo#and that interest will not dwindle as long as she continues to live#also Magnolia does frequently fantasize about dying in front of people to get a large reaction which is wholly concerned and caring#she! is! NOT! well!#oc comic#oc comics#comic art#lesbian art
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Troy Otto in 8x07
#troy otto#daniel sharman#ftwd spoilers#fear the walking dead#ftwd#He was so nonchalant here too#But the way he looks at Madison seems almost disappointed she'd even let her emotions get the best of ber#Oof let me go to sleep#I'll try to share as much as I can soon#I literally only recorded the kast 15 minutes#Troy otto goodness#Hope we'll get interviews of Daniel sharman#Cause I WILL be psycho analyzing these scenes and Troy's motives#You know other than the Ranch being destroyed and his family murdered#Gives us more pleaseeeee#Make it about his daughter and not that dang Ranch#I beg of you writers
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i've written some smut that may or may appear in the final chapter and may or may not be terrible and may or may not be deleted in cringey embarrassment as soon as I reread it 😄 try new things tuesday or whatever
#on the one hand i feel like the premise of this story makes the smut feel a bit more necessary#like sex is sooooo imperative to the dynamic here i felt like i ought to include it somewhere other than always offscreen#on the other hand i fear that even if it is not terrible...including it in the 1st chapter is going to make people get excited for more smu#only to be disappointed when the story swerves in both tone and direction lmao#hmmmmm#ted lasso#royjamiekeeley#my writing#fic: rjk friends with benefits
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does anyone else in theory love vulnerability and honest conversations and know that that’s the best way to solve problems and maintain healthy relationships…. but in actuality it legitimately makes you feel ill and shut down because of the *fear of being known and judged*
#just me?? cool cool#also why i’m terrified to give my 2 week notice at work#but that’s the fear of *disappointment of failing others expectations* lol#I have to do it this week and think i’m just going to send an email because i’m terrified lmao#grace is dramatic#shitpost#txt post#text post#text#fear of being known#ramble ramble ramble#relatablepost#?#grace tries to be relatable#lmao
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Although he has yet to beat me. 😌
#fear of the empty page and generally being a disappointment to myself and others has not won today ✌🏽#''quick'' study from a playthrough video#kotallo#horizon forbidden west#hfw#horizon#my own stuff
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FROM THE START self-love and acceptance has been one of the major themes of the series and if ANYONE could benefit from that tigress is RIGHT THERE
#will we ever get closure over her and shifu. will we ever get to see her confront her fear of BEING feared#WILL WE EVER GET TO SEE HER LOVE HERSELF OR CONFRONT HER ABANDONMENT ISSUES#like. she's not just hardcore and untouchable. she loves just as much as everyone else and wants to BE loved#i will die so mad that they left her so unexplored#WHAT IS THE POINT OF SETTING HER UP AS TAI LUNG'S ANTITHESIS#AND AS THE YIN TO PO'S YANG IF ITS NEVER EXAMINED#like. it's SHOWN. we see how their development has affected the other but it's never focused on for more than a scene#they make me curl up all dead and janky like a spider they make me so sick and ill#and from a writer's perspective THAT'S INTENTIONAL. SO WHY AREN'T WE MAKING IT HAPPENING#kfp#im just disappointed and miss her soooo much#i knew it'd be a long shot to hope for a tigress-centered movie considering we got a short (which I love w all my heart)#but like. i feel like that will-smith-displaying-wife meme#you set up all that gorgeous heartache and we're NOT gonna go into it??#tigress#ok but if you are in need of smth like that i cannot recommend KFP: One Thousand Years of Peace enough#its on ao3 it's a tigress self-love story it focuses so wonderfully on each of the five and it's tipo and it's POETIC CINEMA
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Skip and loafer rant incoming in tags
#vi rambling#skip and loafer#the. the imposter syndrome of it all. the shima finally reaching towards a goal only to be told that he shouldnt be doing that.v#when hes been bending himself towards social expectations just so he wont be rejected and forced himself to wear a facade for others out of#fear of rejection. finally pursuing something for himself to disconnect it from the trauma of being a disappointment. and being told#he shouldnt because outwardly it may seem like hes accepted by everyone but to shima everyone just accepts his facade and never the real him#FUCKKKKFKFJCIFKC FUCK!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!#and mitsumi standing up for him like she wanted him to do for her SHE CARES SO MUCH. AGRGHRRR#and shima finally expressing his feelings outwardly hes so. :( his blushhh... but also it makes me so SAD WHEN WILL YOU SMILE AGAIN BOY!!!#and he was nervous to perform in front of mitsumi im so. so normal. because this role is even more personal to him. AND NOW HE KNOWS#and ujie... still a dick move but also how was he made this relatable in like. 2 pages. and rhe end scene was really good actually...#reminds me of shima confronting kanechika way back. but now hes a lot more assertive and expressive! HES GROWN SO MUCH.#anyways can you tell im insane.
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Down the Rabbit Hole Dale/David vibes



#comic: DTRH#its 1 AM and im having feeeeeels#btw DTRH isnt gonna be a ship comic#to the joy of some#and the disappointment of others#ik ik#honestly mr fear for Paradox is so good#especially when u think about the brain test Dale does#where he slots Rabbit in fear#this is toxic yaoi lmao#ship: Jackalope
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