#experience philippines

[peonycats]

thoughts on philippines korea besties⁉️

they get drunk and shittalk america together ofc

[dissentersbedamned]

Source: dude trust me

[ethrealilies]

Gotta love how I got Moominmamma and a cottagecore photo as my profile banner sort of and then we got me pulling up punch out stuff Lmao

Anyways random stuff under the cut (punch our Frl invading my brain)

[our-trans-youth-experience]

while i was in philippines my ma encountered an old friend and she introduced me like "this is my kid" and the friend looked at me and called me guapo (handsome)

literally cannot get better than that

That's awesome my guy!

[sexynetra]

Idk if y’all knew this but I kind of have an obsession with Maxianna 🤭 anyways here is my foray into writing smut, enjoy!

[bulgariandeficit]

This was the worst time to visit the Philippines 😭 There’s a massive flood and i’m stuck in one of the supermarkets…

I was gonna attend my other sister’s wedding…

[sapybara]

The weird thing is the word you’re saying is the name of a delicious food in my country that I eat regularly y T_T

Omg are you from the Philippines?? I remember the first time I heard about the food I was like sorry you love What

[leche-flandom]

Some folks might say that I'm not Filipino "enough," but how come when they handed me the mic to answer questions at jury duty recently, my first instinct was to start singing Celine Dion like this was videoke night, hmmmMMMMmmmMMMmmmmm?

[imariejoyce]

When old friends meet again...

I don't know why, but I think I'm not the only one who feels this way. When you hang out with old friends after not seeing each other for a very long time, you can really see that things have changed. The feelings are really mixed up. You know you're happy to see them, but sometimes you also feel like, "Seriously, why does it seem like we're not on the same page anymore?"

I think this is normal because people really do change as they get older. I remember, sometimes the jokes that used to be super funny before, now they're just okay. Sometimes they're not even funny anymore because they seem kind of annoying now. Maybe it's because of the long time we haven't seen each other.

At the same time, you really miss the bonding with your true friends who you were with from when you were young until college. It's still nice to look back at the times you laughed together before, or the silly things you did in college.

It's funny that after such a long time, you slowly realize that you're all really growing up. Your principles and beliefs in life might be different now, but in the end, the respect for each other's opinions is still there.

I think it's interesting how we change over time. The things we found funny before might not be so funny now. Our thoughts about life might be different. But that's okay. It's part of growing up.

Even though things change, there's still something special about old friends. You have so many memories together. You remember the good times and the hard times. You remember how you helped each other grow up.

Maybe the best part of meeting old friends is seeing how far you've all come. You're not the same people you were before, but that's not a bad thing. You've all grown and learned new things. You have new stories to share.

So, if you meet old friends and things feel a bit different, don't worry. It's normal. Enjoy the good memories, make new ones, and be happy for how you've all grown. That's what true friendship is all about.

[fishareglorious]

sometimes you just gotta reread moby dick chapter 32 "Cetology" while eating taho and being so into it you accidentally get taho on your glasses

[onionringbearer]

[jupiter-cafe]

On Being an Introvert in the Philippines

Introduction

Exploring the lively and social culture of the Philippines as an introvert can be challenging and complex. In a country where family and community are largely valued, introverts frequently find themselves going against the societal norm. Let's delve into the distinct difficulties and challenges faced by introverts in the Philippines, including my own experiences.

Understanding Collectivism in the Philippines' Culture

Collectivism is deeply wired in Filipino culture, where the norm favors groups, family, and community over an individual. For example, Filipinos frequently seek guidance and advice from their families when making significant life decisions like career choices or marriage. Family and community play an important part in Filipino society, with major life decisions generally involving the entire family, including the extended family. The culture of having an extended family living together and helping and supporting each other in their day-to-day lives is also prevalent.

The Challenges of Family and Social Gatherings

As a kid, I recall how family gatherings were a regular thing to do when there would be an occasion, such as attending family reunions during fiestas in the province. While I respected the close-knit nature of Filipino families, these gatherings would often be an exchange of communications among relatives. The anticipation to interact with them would be draining for an introvert. Filipinos value social harmony and tend to avoid conflicts and confrontations. It's common for individuals to maintain polite interactions by abstaining from expressing disagreement when they hold differing opinions during family gatherings.

The Impact of Barrio Fiestas and Religion

Barrio fiestas in the Philippines are significant community fests. These occasions emphasize community involvement and social relations, which can be a draining activity for an introvert due to the crowds and nonstop socializing. Religion also plays a part in adding to the collectivist culture of the Philippines, with the majority of the population being Catholic. Religious values often affect the significance of community, family, and social harmony.

The Extroverted Nature of Filipino Culture

In the Philippines, being sociable is the norm. Striking up conversations with people in public places like markets or public transportation is common, as is befriending people and having a group of friends. This can be surprising for an introvert who prefers solitude. Introverts in the Philippines may feel pressured to engage in social events regularly, leading to exhaustion. The extroverted culture can overshadow the contributions of introverts, making them feel misunderstood and undervalued.

Personal Experiences and Educational Challenges

Personally, I have often been criticized for being quiet, labeled as a "snob" or a "weirdo" by family and acquaintances. In terms of educational settings, curriculums in the country's education comprise group activities, performance-based tasks, recitations, etc. In which introverted students may struggle to thrive, affecting their grades and self-confidence.

Tips for Thriving as an Introvert

For introverts in the Philippines, finding quiet spaces, setting boundaries, and connecting with like-minded individuals can be beneficial. Embracing one's introverted traits and communicating openly about needs can help introverts thrive in an extroverted culture.

Conclusion

Being an introvert in the Philippines comes with its own set of challenges and opportunities for growth. By understanding and appreciating the cultural values of collectivism and social harmony, as well as the extroverted nature of Filipino culture, introverts can navigate their social landscape more effectively. So, embrace your unique traits, set those boundaries, and find your balance—you've got this!

Resources

Cruz, I. J. (2000). Culture and its influence on Filipino psychology. Quezon City: University of the Philippines Press.

Enriquez, V. G. (1994). From colonial to liberation psychology: The Philippine experience.

Manila: De La Salle University Press.Hofstede Insights. (n.d.). Philippines - Country comparison. Retrieved from https://www.hofstede-insights.com/en/countries/philippines/

Lising, R. A. (2018). Understanding Filipino psychology: A guidebook for teachers and students. Manila: Rex Bookstore.

[jsuika]

PILI23 - Happy Independence Day!!!!!! :]]

[tsoko-late]

Tried a Disney-ish style on them

This’ll also be my last drawing for the year, so here’s to another year!

[ohsosunshine]

Why did I climb Mt. Pulag? *2022*

Why did I climb Mt. Pulag? *2022*

[imariejoyce]

The Art of Doing Nothing

There are days, especially on weekends, when doing absolutely nothing feels like the best thing in the world. Lately, I’ve been caught up with various interests, especially learning new things about photography. It's something I'm also passionate about, but every now and then, I get these moments where I suddenly remember all the other things I need to do. I’d think, "Oh no, I still need to finish this, do that, and a whole bunch of other tasks!"

It’s moments like these when I’m grateful that I’ve slowly learned how to manage my focus and take things one step at a time. I’ve come to realize that discipline is key. Without it, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of things to do. Whether it’s balancing hobbies, work, or personal tasks, a bit of structure goes a long way in keeping things under control.

Taking the time to just breathe and reset on weekends allows me to recharge, and in the process, I find myself being more productive and balanced throughout the week. It’s not always easy, but learning to focus on one task at a time—and allowing yourself to do nothing when needed—is a practice worth doing.