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Wow. So you truly believe that every single republican or person who didn’t vote for Kamala is either misinformed or voting against their best interest because….. you are so much smarter than everybody else and have lived every life experience possible so you know what’s best for everyone?
I never said that. I think that these people, regardless of their opinion on Democrats and Kamala, could not choose the lesser evil.
But what do I know, right? I’m just a stupid disabled girl who doesn’t know what is good for me. Wait…. That actually sounds fascist… no. It can’t be. You said it wasn’t, screw definitions, whatever you say is the truth
Calm the fuck down. Now you're just parroting generallemarc. I said no such thing. And even if I had ever even INSINUATED that you were stupid, you need to understand that I'm a proponent of individualism and judging people by their actions, not their traits. One can be intelligent/stupid, in combination with being POC/white, straight/LGBTQ+, not disabled/disabled etc.
I follow Dr. King's philosophy: "I have a dream that one day, my children will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character."
So, I think I certainly can call minority members who voted Trump stupid without being bigoted. They're stupid for having voted Trump, just like white men who did so. So don't you use your condition (which does not shape my opinion of you) as a playing card against me. Want equal rights? Be prepared to engage in equal fights (or arguments).
If anything, I find it far more upsetting that, in typical Curious Musician manner, you who joined this argument after it was going for a long time, had your opinion of me be shaped by someone else. Seems to me more like generallemarc is bigoted, when he's okay with setting a disabled person up against me (when you initially acted more respectfully towards me). Seems like he considers people with the cruel fate of disability weak and to be used as tools.
And to circle back to the thing about choosing the lesser evil: Since being elected, Trump has appointed the richest Americans you can find to government positions and threatened to annex more countries. It's not a matter of opinions or experiences, this man is evil.
Here's an Example as to why Donald Trump is fascist
Donald Trump wants Concealed Carry Reciprocity.
What is that?
In the United States, it is not automatically legal to carry a firearm in a concealed manner just because one has a firearms license. One needs to obtain a special additional permission to do so. Like most things in the United States, Concealed Carry is decided on a state-by-state basis, meaning a person's permission for Concealed Carry only applies in the state it in which it was issued.
Concealed Carry Reciprocity is the legal concept that a permission for Concealed Carry, issued in any state, applies in all states. So, if a gun owner was permitted to Concealed Carry in Oklahoma, he can currently only do so in Oklahoma. Doing it in any other state is a crime. Under Concealed Carry Reciprocity, it would not be.
What does Donald Trump intend with this?
Donald Trump knows that his most loyal followers live in deep red states, which also have the highest concentrations of gun owners. Due to the high concentrations and due to Republicans being generally against gun control, it is likelier that more gun owners in red states have Concealed Carry permission. Donald Trump wants to allow people to Concealed Carry in any state if they've received permission in one, because he knows that most people who will take advantage of this will be his most loyal followers.
Donald Trump plans to lay the groundwork for his version of Mussolini's Blackshirts and Hitler's Brownshirts, his own paramilitary force of loyal followers who are ready to attack and murder fellow citizens in open daylight for their political positions that oppose their idol. Concealed Carry Reciprocity makes it easier for them to do this.
This is fascism.
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this fandom is a joke. let’s just ignore the actual genuine reasons we came here in the first place & just scream and point the finger at each other. yeah… such a forward step in humanity.
#everyone needs to calm the actual fuck down#season 2 is upon us and you want to act WORSE than teenagers#amazing#genocides and wars are going on but fuck that your beef with strangers on the internet#is far more significant#cry me a river#and go fuck yourselves
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getting invested in rivals was the worst ever decision. i'm thirsting for a tory mp. a thatcher era tory mp. jilly cooper when i catch you. when i catch you jilly cooper. why did you make rupert campbell black WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT TO ME. WHY DID YOU MAKE A TORY MP HOT WHAT THE FUCK-
#unfortunately fallen for rupert campbell black propaganda#it seems that i am not immune#rivals is INSANE. give me a season 2 at once.#its the 80s. everyone is hot. everyone is shagging.#I NEED MOREEEE#taggie's dad can also get it jesus fucking christ#ive bought the book im actually sick this is so sick#i need to calm down and sit in the shower or something im like a rabid dog#bonkbuster indeed....
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11x09 // 11x10
↳ Dennis + looking out for the gang
#iasip#it's always sunny in philadelphia#dennis reynolds#charlie kelly#mac mcdonald#frank reynolds#dee reynolds#deandra reynolds#the gang#charden#macdennis#im fucking eating him. he takes on the role of leader and tries his best to keep everyone calm and working together#in moments like these his ability to push down his own fear to become outwardly rational is actually useful#take care of the others. make sure everyone's okay.#make sure mac doesn't fall over. get charlie to calm down using the method he's found to work. keep frank from getting shot.#and it actually....... kind of works.#or it would have if they DID have a way out of here without help lol#dennis steps up when he's needed (and i think he takes pride in that despite his occasionally voiced complaints)#he's just. preoccupied most of the time. he prioritizes himself above everyone else until it's a life or death situation.#and then it's apparent that he cares very deeply for the gang#this is why when he says he tore up mac's letters from his dad to protect mac (and himself) i genuinely believe he had good intentions#selfish ones. sure. but it was for mac's sake too. even if he did something that (in mac's eyes) was shitty (and illegal) in the process#that little internal compass he's got is smashed to shit but it's still there. it works sometimes#iasip gifs#iasip edits#ada speaks#ada's gifs
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Just saw engineer art with the confederate flag from one of my favorite artists. Can't have shit in this fandom.
#ARE WE STILL DOING SOUTHEN STEREOTYPES WITH ENGINEER?!!!#AND THE FUCKING CONFEDERATE FLAG AT THAT#apparently they doubled down and was completely aware of the implications before deleting it#and that was the first thing i saw on twitter.#hate and war on planet earth#god im actually pissed#ill need some time to calm down. sorry everyone#racism tw#vent tw#[just me yapping]
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wanted to go to the gym social tn but as I was getting my stuff together to go out, a friend said smth that rly pissed me off and now I'm too fucking angry to go out. fucks sake man
#fucking hate ppl commenting on my 'self control' for being sober bc I get it all the fucking time and its so patronising !!!!!!#even if its not intended that way. dont care didnt fucking ask. especially from someone im friends with#but whatever i should know better than to expect ppl to know me#maybe other ppl need discipline to stay sober but i dont bc the alternative is a non option and always has been. not that hard for me#and i have my own self control struggles w other shit man like im not pristine and perfect fuck off. you only dont know abt the#shit i actually fucking struggle with bc i dont know or trust u well enough for that.#and i HATE when ppl fucking imply im susceptible to peer pressure. im not. dont fucking overestimate your influence#ppl act like shit is a choice like actually i have a trauma rooted fear that comes from ppl in my family dying of substance abuse thanks 👍#which i dont expect strangers to know. but my friends should fucking know that!!! but i guess its not worth remembering#whatever it doesnt matter im prolly upset for other reasons im going to go out for a walk to calm down i cant be at home right now#even more fucking annoyed that im missing the gym over this. i shouldve been there an hour ago.#i mean i could still go maybe the cycle ride would stop me feeling mad and blowing everyone up once im there. i doubt it tho#UGH. fucking whatever. whatever whatever whatever. sorry for ventposting i was typing out a longass reply#but its not gonna fucking do anything except come across needlessly aggressive and ruin the conversation#even if i really really want to be needlessly aggressive. and ruin the conversation. but i guess i have the self control to not. lmfao#what if i just killed myself. anyway i think im gonna go get some shitty fast food on this walk and watch a horror movie when im back#.vent
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I fucking hate miya I fucking hate miya I fucking hate miya I FUCKING HATE HER SO MUCH I HATE HER SO FUCKINH MUCH someone is gonna have to sedate me before I EXPLODE
#hey look it’s one of those rare times I post about roots and not PDBC#I fucking hate miya have I mentioned that already#she makes me SO MAD so FUCKING MAD she’s the worst character#finally caved in and read the previously-lost-media-pages that explain what her deal is due to my brother’s constant begging for me to do so#(I was going to do it on my Own time but I’m sick of being pestered about it)#and I hate her even MORE holy shit#genuinely trying to tone down my language so this post doesn’t get marked as mature or something#she is SUCH A BITCH SHE I CANT STAND HERUHLSIHIUSNUSLINSUILUNLSNDLUNDNUIDL#don’t go read roots to see why I hate her. don’t do it genuinely don’t do it you’ll get pissed off#MIYAAAAAA 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕AAUUGHHHHH#I know this post won’t make sense to anyone I just need to get it all out because screaming makes my throat hurt#and full disclosure I Did scream about it. I got very heated over it (this is normal behavior) (no it’s not’#my brother has the NERVE to say she’s like leif. they are nothing LIKE each other#miya will be the end of me I hate her So Much#have I mentioned that she was needlessly rude to Kurt like wha the fuck#Kurt did nothing wrong and she just was so mean to him for no reason. appalling behavior#this bitch miya has the nerve to act all morally superior to everyone else when she’s just as bad#something something glass houses something something the entire conflict is Miya’s fault#roots my beloved but also I have never felt this much genuine hatred for a fictional character before#she legitimately caused the main conflicts‼️ she’s horrible!! and not even in a funny way!!#I’m not gonna pretend finch isn’t a total jackass just because I think he’s funny alright? he is#but he’s ENTERTAINING he at least DOES HIS JOB AS A JACKASS well#I Love villains but not when they’re ACTING LIKE THEYRE NOT ONE. COUGH COUGH MIYYYAAA 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕#miya is such a horrid. horrid thing#I’m needlessly heated over this but this hatred has been brewing for a year now#exactly a year now in fact. happy one year anniversary of the start of my unhealthy hatred of this fictional character#I need to calm down I need to calm the FUCK down#she is SO STUPID like ACTUALLY she could’ve fixed the cause of the main conflict before it even happened#but she Didn’t she DIDNT I need to CALM DOWN#if miya has zero haters then I am dead
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im going back to bed for a while but. a little thing for yall if you dont mind
think about each other a little bit. be kind to your fellow humans. i know these are times rn where this fandom especially gets really fucking divided, but seriously; we are all just the same in the end, screaming and crying at half naked people on our tv screens
just think before you speak. be considered. like. there are enough assholes in the world already dont be another one just cause someone is taking this harder than you for whatever reason. and anyone taking it rough, try not to lash out, people talking most likely isnt a personal attack on you. just saying
#i know emotions are high and its easier to say 'be kind' than to actually be kind but. you get what you give tbh#i just need everyone to calm down to the best of their ability okay#i dont wanna wake up and see half my dash burning. just once. please#night is an absolute mess on main#and in before anyone tells the kip stan to shut up. sorry i wont i have issues and im fucking tired ✌️
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I need to go to bed I’m just gonna shout a lil
#ice hockey needs to chill the fuck out#I had such a good night tonight!! was ssosososossososososo happy#but afterwards people started shouting in the group chat#and they all have very valid reasons for being angry but my god the us vs them mentality is STRONG#I am concerned abt how much people want to escalate things and how quickly they’re moving to do that#I am aware I am a doormat and a people pleaser or whatever but#I mean for one this is a tense political situation and we don’t wanna burn bridges#(there is no real politics i am being dramatic to be clear)#two clubs. alike in dignity. in fair Verona where we lay our scene#and I am personally managing at least 4 fragile egos that are all highly volatile#as well as an internal divide that’s threatening to cause problems very soon#I also should not be part of this anymore! and yet.#also why are specifically men who play team sports so dramatic when you get them all together#like that’s a whole shitstorm that is so easy to set off#anyway with my club I can’t blame the committee for being dramatic (different way to what I just said they’re not the same people)#bc I sure as fuck was overdramatic which fed into other people ramping up BUT that normally snapped me the fuck out of it#so I tempered the worst of it yknow. but I don’t think this new committee has that#/is not willing to listen to the person who would play that role#anyway if people don’t play nice it’s going to start some actual shit which will be deeply unpleasant for everyone#particularly the people who are in both clubs and do not deserve this bc they’ll be getting it from both sides and theyve done nothing wrong#anyway! bedtime now <3 I’m just frustrated bc the person who maybe would’ve calmed everyone down is out of commission#and I should not and am not willing to have the power to tell people to stop even though I probably still could#it’s whatever. sleep#luke.txt
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well I can already tell this is gonna be a bad night
today has just been fucking weird and hard. I'm in a bad mood. everything feels bad. (probably not helped by me not taking the new antidepressant last night so I wouldn't sleep all day)
the plan was for my friend to come over this weekend to help me pack. she did that last time and it helped a lot. (my husband could help, obviously, but he's in charge of other things that also need to get done. plus he's very bad at putting things into boxes.)
but the rail strike is still going on so it's likely that she won't be able to get here (or get back in time). so now that's suddenly a lot more stressful and the one thing that I thought would make it go okay is gone.
and I also have to like. at least reread my thesis a few times or whatever to study for the oral exam on Friday. which will make me want to die. because it is bad. so. that will be bad. and the thought of being asked questions about that piece of garbage for 30 fucking minutes is so horrifying that I genuinely do not know if I will be able to get through it without taking my Lorazepam beforehand (which I know is a horrible idea, and my psychiatrist told me twice that it's a bad idea, and I know it would just make me unbelievably stupid. but holy shit that is the scariest thing I can imagine.)
and of course instead of doing anything useful I'm now just sitting here feeling like shit (like last night, only worse)
#it'd just be so fucking nice if I could just.. have a break#it's just been nonstop awful shit since my dad's cancer diagnosis in 🤔 2015. I'm sorry but that's too long. I can't do it anymore. I just#need some damn time to fucking calm down#like yeah any outsider would probably look at my life and think 'well you haven't actually DONE anything in like 6 years'#yeah that's true#but I've also been sick and/or in pain pretty much since 2018. and some of that was fixed last year when I had my gallbladder removed but i#is still not good. first of all that did not work out so well for me. but also everything else is still not right and no one cares and I#just don't have the energy to fight to get a diagnosis#I'm just so tired#I really thought I'd just. go to uni. get my degree in 3 years like expected. get a job. move out. have a normal life FINALLY for the first#time ever#and NONE of that fucking happened#EVERYTHING WENT WRONG. again and again and again#and I am just. so. tired. I can't. I can't do it.#it feels so fucking pathetic to be like 'my life is soooo hard everyone feel bad for me' when there is just. objectively not that much wron#but it just. never. stops.#I've never had a fucking moment to just. sit down. and think. and make decisions about my life. everything just. happens to me#I just. feel so lost and stuck and doomed and it won't fucking get better! it won't! my life got better ONE TIME and it has been pure hell#since then#like. no. it won't get better. this will keep happening over and over and over#I'll never have a choice. not really. I fucked up my life permanently when I dropped out of school at 18 and tbh I wish I would've just bee#brave enough to do what I really wanted then (killing myself)#because fuck. this is not worth it#literally everyone I love is either really fucking far away or just. fictional.#I have no close relationships with anyone irl#everyone I know irl is mean and kind of an asshole. and I'm too useless to meet new people.#I just. I don't want to survive anymore I want to live but I can't have that so. what's the goddamn point#its gonna be fine. because I'm a fucking coward so I'll never do it anyway. but I fucking wish I could
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new órfhlaith sneefsnorf rule im not allowed to scroll through the tags of ccs i like on the mcytblrconfessions blog. its hell world in there
#people need to be normal about ranboo and his community. actually a lot of the community sjould be more normal too#everyone just calm the fuck down and think before you speak. please
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I AM LOSING MY MIND WITH STRESS I HATE BEING AN ADULT WHO HAS A JOB THAT MEANS I NEED TO SOCIALISE I CAN'T DO THIS I SHOULD HAVE SAID NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok i'm normal now
#i really really really like my job and i like the people i'm working with i am just so incredibly horribly stressed at the fact that#i am going to be socialising with them in an environment that is not work it is literally going to be so okay#in fact i think it could be really fun because i do truly like everyone i'm working with and we've had some fun conversations#and i do actually enjoy talking to people but i'm just ridiculously scared about tonight and i can't get over it#i need to chill out and i need to make some lunch and just calm the fuck down because i KNOW it will be fine#the worst thing that can happen is that people think i'm weird or awkward or boring and like . that's not a bad situation i have#had people think i am all of those things before and at the end of the day it does not really matter#the worst thing that can happen is that i get laughed at a little bit or i feel a bit weird answering questions or whatever#like these are all things that have happened before and none of these things have really mattered in the end#i am good at my job and they are understaffed so my job is not at risk and if i don't make any friends then i'm in exactly the same#position as where i started it's not that deep there's very few things i could do to make it an actual disaster#and if i could chill the fuck out i could actually have a really nice time i think and probably have people like me a lot more#i'm just terrified for some reason like i feel SICK i love having a brain that works . it's literally all going to be okay i am just scared
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im always like wistfully sighing one day i will live with somebody who loves me and we'll cook together and itll be so romantic and then i remember when i was a kid and my mom would force me to let my sibling help me bake and id get so mad that i considered fratricide
#in my head cooking is a very nice calming thing however every time i Actually cook its like a fucking battlefield its genuinely dire#its entirely my fault bc i always turn the heat up so high and then i get stressed bc im like ITS COOKING TOO FAST ITS BURNING AND THE#MIDDLE ISNT EVEN COOKED and its like . yeah man bc you have the heat full blastt 😭😭but if i have it low im like This is taking too long.#even worse if im cooking a dish/meal that has multiple components and i need 2 be prepping one thing while another thing is cooking#and they all have different cook times so i have to make sure they all get done around the same time. it does make me cry a lot#one day. i will have my own house where i feel safe and i can cook and learn how 2 cook in a way that doesnt make me burst into tears#one time. evil. at home i was just gonna make myself pancakes 4 dinner and then my entire family was like is for me? so i had 2 make pancak#s for everyone meaning i had 2 make Good pancakes bc idm if my pancakes r a little burnt or whatever and ik my family doesnt either#but in my head im like If i give my family burnt pancakes they will hate me until the day i fucking die#so i was already stressed bc it went from making like 5 silver dollars to like 30 and the first 2 patches were burnt and everybody was#running around and it was So hot and then the smoke alarm came on and we had just moved in so i didnt know where it was to turn it off so i#just sat down on the floor and started sobbing LOL#my mom finished the pancakes thank gd. but basically it was very scary and i Want to learn how 2 cook but i fink it needs to be#cooking for only me until i feel comfortable cooking more food at a time#bc making a lot of food stresses me out to much As seen above.
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Autistic swag is so sick until you’re bothered by every single noise that emits from your apartment and then your maintenance team is like aw man can’t move your bed and you’re like why would you press the bed up right against the wall of the neighboring bedroom. Why would you do that. Why would they set up the room like this no one else has their bed set up against a neighboring wall in the house
#I love college life I love being bothered by everything actually#and like I can’t keep wearing headphones to bed cos it’s fucking my ears up and I already wear em all the time anyways#this is a rant so like. largely ignore#its not even that everyone is too particularly loud ITS. I can hear everything I’m losing my mind I think I just need to go deaf for a bit#or soundproof my room??#maybe that#and then sometimes it really stresses my cat out n then she starts yellin at me and I have to calm her down#I just need to move to the country I just need to deal with the unbearable silence of an unpopulated area
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i found five places atm that i can apply for
the thing is. realistically i cant get three of them. one hasnt hired me either of the two times ive applied for them before. and the last one is technically possible, but im also not sure how much i want it cause i dont know shit about sports wear or shoes but. ough
#im in pain i fucking hate this#im just gonna send these applications and hope something better pops up during the week#at least i will have the quota met so thats taking some stress off but also fucking hell#applying to places i have no actual chances of getting just sucks so much. it makes me physically ill wasting everyones time#and my spoons and their resources and ughhh#someone kill me#cant even make bracelets today to calm down since the mail service wont deliver my packages. im angy#maybe i need a nap ugh#night is an absolute mess on main
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I wish teens/pre-teens didn't exist. I wish people went from age 10 to age 20 with no in between
#king posts#literally the worst ages#so god damn stupid and annoying#like I KNOW they have to LEARN and shit#but christ... fucking... their small ass brains aren't susceptible to learning#and they for SURE aren't susceptible to being told that they are WRONG#and ESPECIALLY to being told that they were LIED TO#you can so easily lie to a pre-teen/teen and they'll believe you and send everyone death threats if you go against them#like fucking woah kiddo calm down#how 'bout you DON'T jump to that bs and you actually take in new information? yeah? open wide here comes the airplane you little shit#and like... I KNOW it's not all pre-teens/teenagers#I KNOW that not all of them are stupid like that#but it's a god damn MAJORITY of them#and I'm not even saying that I wasn't like that as a teen either! I was! it's just how teens are!#it gets really fucking bad when you're a pre-teen/teen because you just don't know WHAT to believe#but these fuckers need to be taught that they have to be OPEN TO LEARNING#they can't just hear One Thing and then believe ''this all there is and everything else MUST be a lie''#LIKE KID PLEASE USE YOUR OWN BRAIN#YOU HAVE IT FOR A REASON#take in all the information you can and then come to your OWN conclusion#sigh...
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