#even with my psa hyper fixation

[siverfanweedo]

Everything about the criminalization and war on drugs has been fueled by racism

And substance use is not something to be shamed and and toxic drug crisis isn't bad because drugs but because people are dying

Learn about substance use why its a thing we all use substances

Go learn how to use naloxone to save someones life

when i see english speakers say "marijuana"...looks like somebody isn't immune to propaganda

[mrpenguinpants]

Hypothetical question but are we still into windbreaker (nii satoru)? Y'all cool if I put my hyper fixation on center stage?

[orpheusslyre]

I have a bad habit of relating everything back to my current hyper fixation. No matter what, no matter where, give me enough time and I’ll be able to relate it back:

An ai TikTok of Tails singing, Sonic being Sonic, and Knuckles tweaking? That’s Bart, Kon, and Tim, respectively.

That one TikTok of the smash cake, where that girl says ‘that’s my dad!’? The Titans (or any other superhero team including one of the birds) talking about Bruce Wayne.

A TikTok about people in Miraculous Lady Bug are so blind (even though it’s explained in the show that part of the kwami magic stops people from knowing their identities, newgens😒)? That’s people not recognising Dick Grayson, a Kardashian level celebrity who most likely has been on billboards at some point, because of a domino mask that covers 30% of his face at most (and this time there’s no magic intervening!) (this one goes for all heroes who wear dominoes actually)

Again with Miraculous, this post about Marinette talking to Chat about Adrien (ignoring that those are the same people)? That’s Tim talking to Kon about Bernard.

A TikTok about duct taping the principal to the wall day? Call me fanon, call me unfaithful to their canon dynamic… but that’s Bruce’s many many many kids wearing him down until he gives in and lets them do it.

This ??? It’s Jason. Jason made this.

AND. AND. Call me cringe for making this but

It’s real. It’s real. It’s real and you can’t take it away from me. This has been a PSA.

[garlicbrede]

hey uh mini announcement i guess.

Might be a little less active cuz of some stuff going on at home, im moving to another state away from all my family with my mom, siblings, and my mom's shitty racist asshole fiance. One of the only things holding me together rn tbh if my hyper fixation. And uh when my mums fiance takes my actually working phone for shit that didn't even happen, its even more mentally draining without being able to consume my hyperfix how my brain wants to. Especially with that pjsk rui event going on my brains been super hype for.

Uh but anyways im kinda gonna be in more of a mental low for a while i think, and my phone's probably gonna get taken quite a bit more for no godamn reason. So if i seem a little off or missing from the internet that's why. Just doing a PSA cuz idk how often I'll get to use tumblr. Hopefully i can keep my phone but i really have no idea.

Im so fucking tired of this shit.

[penandswords]

Rules!

(Under the Read More Because I don't want to clog up the Dash)

(Nothing has really changed, I just organized it better / Elaborated on some stuff)

Blog Specific Rules! / PSAs

1. To Endeavor / Hawks / Todoroki Family affiliated blogs

- While My About may have these canons in it. I do not want you to think you have to stick to it. I am willing to change / Alter / Omit things as needed in order to make things work.

- Do not feel any pressure to write a specific way. I want Interactions between us to be fun for both sides, and I do not mind exploring alternative ideas.

2. Rima's Quirk!

- Rima has a quirk that lets her sense / influence emotions of others. I will do my best to reach out to Rp Partners in OOC if it becomes relevant.

General Rules!

3. 18+ Only, No Minors

- Mun is 30, and does not feel comfortable writing with under age muns.

4. Basic Rp Etiquette.

- Don't God Mod / Write on behalf of my muse /

- Do not Kill My muse (Without talking to me first Pls)

- Mun Does not Equal Muse

- Just have respect for Me, and My Rp Partners. (No bullying)

5. Do Not drag Me into Drama.

- No Call Out Posts, No "Warning Me" about XYZ.

- I am To Old for it, and am Only here for fun.

Interactions!

6. I will Write, Crack - Serious, Short - Long Replies, Plotted - Not Plotted.

- Honestly I am not very picky when it comes to threads, If you have an idea come tell me. Even if you have NO idea, Yeet your muse at me and I will FIND a way to make it work.

7. I Am Crossover | Oc | and Canon Divergent Friendly.

8. My Inbox is Always Open, Memes don't really Expire for me.

- But If you DO send in a meme, Please send Me either the link or some kind of context to what it is.

- If you are a SIDE blog sending in a meme, PUT the URL of that blog In with the ask. (Mun Is VERY forgetful, and get's sidetracked easily.)

Contacting Me (OOC)

9. I LOVE talking to My RP partners OOC

- My DMs are always open. (Even If I am not logged in) So don't hesitate to send me a message. I will be thrilled to get it. (Same go's for asks)

- If you do not LIke Tumblr I.m's, My discord is available upon Request, OR you can send me an OOC Ask. (Just make sure you indicate that it's an OOC ask)

10. Mistakes

- If I make a mistake, Please do not be afraid to come tell me. (Nicely)

- Either from Losing A thread | Forgetting A rule | Forgetting a detail | Or even just being to chatty. Or any other reason. I promise I do not bite, I only want to make my rp partners as comfortable as I can.

- To add: I have ADHD, I can be VERY forgetful, and get Hyper fixated. While I do my best to keep in Reined in, Sometimes I get a little excited about something.

- If that does happen, and you get overwhelmed. You are welcome to come ask me to tone it down. I do my BEST to keep it in check, BUT sometimes I have days where my brain won't shut up.

NSFW / Ships!

11. Smut threads

- They are limited to Muns who are 21+

- Smut is reserved for Rp Partners I know and am comfortable with.

- Do not force these threads on me. (NO Means No.)

12. NSFW threads

- I am okay with most themes, but don't just YEET it at me. If you want to do a darker thread please come talk to me first. (Warn a lady first, I have to prepare my Brian )

13. Ships

- Ships will ONLY happen with Muses who are 18+ (Canonically No age ups)

- In order for a ship to happen, I need clear communication from my RP Partners.

- Casual Flirtation is FINE, I do not mind that at all, but If you want anything beyond that come talk to me first.

- I tend to lean more towards plotted / Story heavy threads instead of ship centered ones. Things like Ships are MORE fun for me if we can build it over time vs all at once.

14. All ships will be set in their own separate Universes. (Unless specified otherwise)

15. I will NOT ship with Enjis / Endeavors. (My goal is more of a platonic dynamic between them. Nothing more than that)

Triggers!

16. I do not have very many triggers.

- My Main Trigger tags are [ Trigger Warning ] and [ Tw: -Insert Trigger- ] (Without the Brackets) So If you have a specific trigger I will try to add it in. but These are my main ones for those who want to black list stuff.

17. Lastly! Just have FUN.

- Rp is MEANT to be fun, It is not a job it is a hobby.

About The Mun! Name: Liz Pronouns: She / Her / They Age: 30 (As of 2024) Birthdate: June 14th Favorite color: Dark Purple Rp Experience: 15+ years

[saristea]

PLEASE TAKE YOUR F**KING MEDS - A PSA

Well a PSA specifically for future me anyway. Hello there mental health community!

Just here to remind you to not randomly stop taking your SSRI's or you will actually die.

Here's a sexy list of all my personal withdrawal effects from my specific SSRI:

+ You will sweat CONSTANTLY. Like not oh this is a lil bit annoying I'm talking Karlach you need to get the fuck back to Avernus levels like don't even bother dressing because you will soak through the clothes in a matter of minutes. + You will have ZERO body temperature regulation - no even more than usual. This will be accompanied by feverishness and flushes. CONSTANTLY. + Don't suffer from vertigo? YOU DO NOW. Which means you can't drive or see anything actually. Longer you leave it, worse it gets! + Ah remember the days when you had no idea you were unwell and either you slept for days or had to endanger yourself by going for walks at 3am due to raging insomnia? WELCOME BACKKKK :D On this occasion you stayed up for nearing the 48 hour mark. Noice. + Now, you won't remember this, obviously, but disassociating for hours at a time and being utterly delusional is a pretty sexy look for you I am sure however you know what else is sexy? Being fucking coherent.

+ Speaking of sexy - you know what isn't particularly arousing? Not being able to actually function because you keep sobbing about basically absolutely nothing. Good job asshole.

I take a hefty 40mg of paroxetine on the dillio until occasionally (thank the gods not as often as previously!) - my brain will decide of it's own accord the medication is obviously trying to kill me. That'll be the BPD friend.

Please make an attempt to banish your paranoia which you do have:

+ Big pharma is not coming for you. + Your friends/fam/work colleagues etc are not government spies. Sorry bro you ain't that special. + Your doctors are not trying to kill you. They will do what the are able to help you! Especially if you are paying them money. They can't cash in on a corpse. + Finally, no. I am afraid you have not been enlightened by the Gods. You have not magically gained intergalactic knowledge from {insert divine force here} to no longer have mental health and physical health issues. TAKE THE DAMN PILLS. + Every time you miss your meds Astarion disapproves ok? You gone taste funny you see. + Your IRL husband didn't sign up for this shit. Okay maybe a little but still not very loving of you to be psychotic now is it? + Your recreational substances are just not going to work. Doesn't matter how many tokes you have bigman. Your brain works about as well as the Dark Urge's post Orin's stabby mc stabbin. And that's with the medication.

If you are that concerned your SSRI dose may be too high / your emotional curvature is too flat then for the love of the gods JUST REDUCE YOUR DOSE don't just STOP TAKING THEM YOU ABSOLUTE SP****C.

Rant over - please take care of yourselves. It's actually really important.

Sorry about all the BG3 references for those who aren't into it - it's current hyper fixation atm.

Yes that's why I had to have a post break.

[brooklynbred-a]

PSA ON POSTING ; wanna go ahead and drop a psa here about my posting habits. when it comes to my drafts , while i do try and post replies in order , it doesn't always work that way. when i post , i post based on where my muse is in the moment. sometimes it's shippy , sometimes it's slice of life stuff , sometimes it's the short stuff and sometimes it's more canon stuff than au's. THIS DOES NOT REFLECT MY OVERALL INTEREST IN ONE THREAD OVER ANOTHER. i wanna get that across , that even if i'm posting one thread more often , or one type over another .. it's just based on where my muse is at the time. i love all my threads and wanna write all of them. my head just bounces all over the place thanks to adhd and hyper fixations sometimes making it hard to focus until i do that one thing. i hope this explains it all clearly , you all are awesome. okay .. imma stop rambling now.

[im-tired1124]

Look, I know y’all are probably only here to enjoy the fanart that I make for my 60 different hyper-fixations, and you probably don’t give a shit about my OC’s, but SHHHHHHH! I’m just gonna pretend that you do a second, okay? Let me guess about my children to a brick without judgment please. At the very least, if you have the time, just read the first few paragraphs and see if it gets you interested. It would be the world to me :)

Anyway, here’s a re-blog of the long-ass PSA I wrote for my (hopefully) upcoming webcomic comic on a side blog that I don’t use anymore. so yeah, all that talk about how I’m not gonna be posting as much of my main block anymore throw them out the window. My activity on the app is going to triple in the next few weeks baby!

Also, for some reason, Tumblr won’t let me edit the original post so some of the stuff and there is kind of inaccurate to the way I have the story planned out now. The only really need to know is the mysterious plants showing up has been replaced with mysterious animal attacks leaving the victims, covered in piles of black soot, the library no longer has a restricted section, and Emberlin does not, but into the library. She just hides there until 6 o’clock in the evening. Idk, anime logic.

Hi, I’m Bleu, and welcome to my other blog! This one’s simply to keep track of all my FoE stuff, as well as allow suggestions from outsiders as to how I should continue the story. Here’s a basic description and some rules (Please read the full post, if you have the time)

General Summary

15 year old Emberlyn Sharp has just lived through the worst year of her life. Her parents just got a divorce, her sister went off to college on the other side of the country, her best friend moved away, she has to spend every day in English literature sitting shoulder to shoulder with her god awful excuse of an “ex girlfriend,” and worst of all, strange, almost paranormal events have been happening all around town. People are waking up to their mailboxes dissolved into acidic black sludge. Completely unidentifiable plants are showing up everywhere. But worst of all, a mysterious crystal she found in the woods when she was little starts making these god-awful screeching noises every time she opens its case.

Conveniently, suspiciously, around this time, a rumor starts spreading around the school that hidden within the restricted section of the library, there rests an old book containing a spell that will send anyone unfortunate enough to read its pages to hell. Now, under normal circumstances, Emberlyn would pass these rumors as a load of bullcrap, but with all the weird, paranormal events going on around her, her curiosity can’t help but be sparked. So, with a fully-packed suitcase, her mysterious screaming rock, and some help from the other school designated weird girl, she brakes into the school, and makes her trip to the library at 10:00 o’clock at night.

Little did she know, all those rumors would turn out to be true. Well, minus the portal to hell part.

Instead of hell, the floor gives way to a completely new world. One that is undeniably beautiful, but torn to shreds by war, disease, and natural disasters. She is thrust headfirst into a wasteland of warring nations, a plague that causes people to grow poisonous flowers out of their bodies, shadow demons falling from the sun, colonialism, and a crooked world history built upon lies. All tracing back to a god amongst gods who calls herself Enselia, hell-bent on tearing this world to shreds. But why, if Enselia is the high celestial, a creature whose duty is to be the all-seeing-eye and protector of this place, be trying to destroy it? Why does she hate this place so much? And is she even supposed to be the high celestial all along? Well, this angry little lesbian and five other cool people wanted dead by god are about to find out!

Oh yeah, and that screaming rock of hers? Turns out it’s a sentient dagger with enough energy to cause the highest of high celestials to spontaneously combust! How fun :D

Planning

So, my plans for this absolute mess of a series is to make it into a webcomic series, and a rather expansive one at that! Yes, I did say series. I intend to make Fall of Enselia into a multi-volume series with a planned 6-7 books (not including side material.) I doubt it’ll ever go into print, but it still feels more natural to me to structure each page and book like a physical comic book, so sadly, you’re not getting any infinite scrolls from me. If you’re wondering where you’ll be able to find it, I’ll be posting each chapter on Webtoon under the username Im_Tired1124. I’m not sure if I’ll be able to keep a consistent update schedule, but my current plan is to try and post one chapter every two months once I get the storyboards, script, and plot nailed down. As of writing this, I’m still working on the storyboard and script for the prologue of book one. Though I’ve had this story slowly forming in my head for about 2-4 years now, I kind of did the thing where you write down nothing about your story, while planning out every book, character beat, villain motivation, animated spin-off, and anime opening for your story lol. It’s definitely not going to be out for a while, but my current plan is to, hopefully, get the prologue and first three chapters published in the timeframe of July-December of 2024. In the meantime, I’ll be using this account to publish concept art, reference sheets, work in progress, and lore notes while working on the main event. It should also come with the expectation that I probably won’t be posting on my main account as much.(granted, I tend to be slow as hell with drawing, and posting things on there anyway) So, as much as it may pain me, I’m going to have to go on hiatus with my Omori fanart. And also probably my fanfiction, but hey, don’t tell anyone I said that!

Granted, I will let little bits of FoE content slip through on my main account, but most of them are probably gonna be more on the unofficial content/shitposty side (maybe even a spoiler here and there :)). This is where all the juicy story stuff goes!

Do’s and Do Not’s

Alright, here’s where all my rules for the series go!

You have my full permission to:

Make fanart

Form headcanons

Cosplay my characters

Make OC’s

Write fanfictions (so long as they are appropriate)

Order commissions of my characters (I don’t have a PayPal rn, so everything is free for now, yay!)

Draw them with other characters/your own OC’s

Take inspiration from my OC’s and comics

Give me advice on writing, send me sources on how to accurately represent different cultures, and tell me if I’ve accidentally done anything wrong or offensive. This story revolves heavily around different cultures and marginalized people trying to resist oppression and forced hegemony. However, I am fully aware that as a moderately culturally detatched half-Jamaican who hasn’t had to face too much racism or scrutiny for my appearance and cultural background, I can very easily screw things up. So, constructive criticism is always welcome ^•^

Ship my characters, I couldn’t give less of a shit! Just don’t turn anyone’s family tree into a family wreath, or get any of my OC’s arrested.

Genuinely, I have no problem with fan works, and I’d be absolutely overjoyed to see people engaging in my work in these ways! However I do still have standards within my ToS, so…

Things you may NOT do with my creative works (and just general stuff you shouldn’t do):

Trace or steal my art or OC’s

Use my characters in insensitive, harmful, bigoted, or political material.

“Reference” my works to the point you’ve just made the Wish.com knockoff of my OC’s.

Stalk, harass, or send death threats to people who disagree with you, or myself. Y’all should know better than that.

Spread misinformation about myself, my motives, the story, or other people I associate with just because you don’t like them. You have better things to do with your life, so stop making shit up and go outside. Don’t like, don’t engage.

For the love of Mangoes, under no circumstances is anyone allowed to make NSFW of my characters. Nope, not even the adults. Not only are most of the lead characters in FoE teenagers, but I also based there personalities and life experiences of of my own, as well as the experiences of friends and family of mine. Look, I hate to use the, “As a minor, this makes me uncomfortable,” card, but god damnit, as a minor this makes me real uncomfortable! Now, this ban may lift (AT LEAST ON ADULT CHARACTERS) once I get older, and am more comfortable with people interpreting my works that way, but right now, no. Don’t do it. Keep those ideas in the rough draft bin of your brain. That’s nasty. Don’t do it. Granted, I don’t have a problem with sexual humor in fan works, my sense of humor irl is already pretty… let’s just say, risqué, anyways, but as has already been established, don’t write or draw any of my characters getting it on.

Lastly, A few content warnings for the story to come.

Content warnings for Fall of Enselia will include

Violence

Horror

Gore

Disturbing imagery

Emetophobia

Racism

Potential unreality

Eating disorders

Mild religious themes

Bullying

Kidnapping

Child abuse

Unhealthy/Abusive relationships

Implied substances abuse

Murder

War

Death

Swearing

Generalized bigotry

Though all of these subjects are included if FoE, that doesn’t mean I condone them in any way. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. These things are included to show just how god-awful they are, and hopefully to encourage them to stop. Granted, most of the heavier themes in FoE aren’t anything worse than what you find in the average WoF book, but they’re still pretty heavy things, and I would advise all readers to see with caution if these subjects could trigger you.

Anyways, that’s all I have to say for now. Have a good day or night, take your vitamins, eat a good breakfast, stay hydrated, and make sure to wash your hands! 💙

[grxnite]

so last night I saw this post by @shithasgonedown and I was like, ‘did I miss a trick about leakira?’ So naturally I’ve fallen down a hyper fixation rabbit hole and I need answers if people have them:

Leakira discord - what happened? I was on both of the servers until I wasn’t, and I can’t remember if it was deleted or if I left. I don’t remember leaving, I remember being kind of nostalgic and *refusing* to leave, but honestly I may have spur of the moment done it. I can certainly remember using it once or twice last year, even if it was to say the server was kinda dead and see who was still active. Does anyone know if it was deleted?

Why did the project die? I went back onto my old Instagram to try and find it, and the last post on the ‘official’(?) account was from 2018 (I thought it went strangely quiet back in the when). I know there was a lot of toxicity that basically transitioned from the old klance fandom to leakira, and something to do with accusation of identity fraud(???) or stealing or something which was mentioned in the PSA story highlight on their page, but I don’t remember an announcement of a discontinuation of the project. Again, I don’t have a great memory but I swear I would have remembered something like that

Why was the fic deleted?

If anyone was also on the discord servers, either the project or the school ones, can you hmu I wanna reconnect with some of yall outside of leakira

so yeah I had a super restless sleep last night because when I finally decided I couldn’t look any further, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. It haunts me.

[sincerecaptain]

PSA: Attempt at some clarification issues about myself (and my rules)

So there’s a section in my rules I’ve been aware comes across differently than I mean it to, but as someone who struggles with autism (specifically what is known as Asperger’s Syndrome), I haven’t really known how to make it clearer so that it doesn’t cause misunderstandings like it currently is doing. So I’m going to attempt to explain a few things, about myself, and that section of my rules, under the cut. So please, if you follow me, or are thinking about following me, please read this.

Because of my autism, sometimes explaining my emotions, or getting my brain to work with me is difficult. Emotions for me often feel vague and kind of fuzzy and wobbly, like smoke, but at the same time they hit me so hard it is like being hit in the stomach by a bus caught in a hurricane and then getting taken along for the ride. So translating a lot of my emotions into words that other people can understand is really hard for me sometimes. It doesn’t necessarily feel bad to me, like, a lot of emotions feel amazing, but they still don’t translate into words for me very well.

It's like my mind and body speak a different language than I understand in word form. So like.. I kind of understand the emotions I'm feeling, like, okay this is a happy feeling, this is an anxious feeling, this is a sad feeling, an angry feeling, etc, but because I don't know how to put it into words, I can't actually figure out the real reason I am feeling it. Because my brain understands things in words, but my body understands things in emotion. So a lot of times when I feel things strongly, it legitimately translates to the equivalent of keyboard spam in my head, or in body language, pretty much just random flailing. It’s a lot like trying to explain how wind works and how it feels to someone who has never seen it or felt it. No matter how you explain it, it somehow never feels quite right, and it’s just very confusing, and you can never explain it as well as they would be able to understand it by experiencing it.

I have to work really hard to make my emotions translate into words other people understand, but sometimes in my attempts to do that, it comes across harsher or kind of wrong, or more unfriendly than it is meant to, just because since my emotions are such a difficult thing to translate, I have to try extra hard to be clear with my words and meanings.. Except it doesn’t always work how I want it to. And that is what has kind of happened with some of my rules. And this applies to all of my blogs. 

The rules section in question, that I am aware comes across kind of wrong (but that I have been unsure how to fix) is my section talking about OCs, and interacting/shipping with them. There’s a few reasons I kind of said the things I did in my rules about them, but I realize that it makes me actually sound OC unfriendly which isn’t at all how I mean it to. I have A LOT of OCs myself, so I actually really support people making OCs and love seeing them on my dash, I love seeing the interactions, and the creativity. OCs are amazing, and there are so many things you can do with them, or make them into, and they add so much depth and color to the different fantasy worlds, and just.. I actually really love them. The problem is, because of the difference in how my brain and body understand things, and the sort of disconnect there, I struggle a lot more with interactions a lot of the time with them because my brain translates a lot of OCs the same way it translates emotions. Kind of wobbly, and vague, and really fluid, which is great for creativity, except for whatever stupid reason (and yes I am aware of how stupid it is), it confuses my brain, and I am completely unsure why it does. I am well aware it is stupid that it does that, but I have yet to figure out how to properly overcome it. My own OCs give me less trouble, because when they come to life in my head, they automatically come with their own set rules and guidelines, even if my brain doesn’t know them all yet, but they are much more solid feeling than someone else’s OCs (even the very well written ones, so me not being able to RP with you does not at all mean your OCs or even your canon characters are badly written, the problem is my own brain). And autistic brains often like stability, patterns, and rules, even if we don’t understand why. (I also have problems with hyper-fixation, but that is a whole other issue). Unfortunately, I still don’t know how to overcome this issue yet, because in order for me to find the root of the issue, and correct my brain’s way of thinking, I have to understand the emotions I am feeling, and translate them into words that I can fully comprehend, and I still haven’t totally learned how to do that. It’s kind of seemingly random that I get hit with moments of “AHA! I FINALLY UNDERSTAND WHY I FEEL THIS WAY ABOUT THIS THING AFTER 5 YEARS!” but that is also extremely frustrating for me, because I know it doesn’t change the fact that my struggles with this inadvertently might hurt some people. And I feel awful about the fact that I have hurt some people because of the misunderstandings and my inability to explain things properly. Though my struggles with these translation issues don’t even just apply to OCs. They can apply to canon characters too, I just usually have a better time interacting with canon characters because they also feel more solid to me than most OCs do.

So if there is something in my rules that you don’t understand, or that kind of comes across in a way that hurts you, please feel free to tell me! I will always do my best to help you understand, or fix it if I can, but also please try to be understanding and patient with me, as I gradually learn more about myself and how my mind works over time. And if I have already said or done something that hurt you because of these issues, I am also truly sorry. I really truly am a very nice person, I just don’t always know how to express myself properly, but it doesn’t excuse or change the fact it sometimes hurts people. But until I learn more how to cope better in ways that work for me, I can’t do much except apologize and try to do better. 

Anyway.. This still might not really help a ton with clarification because everything still feels pretty vague to me, but I really tried. Even this doesn’t really feel like enough, but this is all the inspiration and answers I have even for myself at the moment, as far as understanding more of how my brain works.

[jeonghansnosescrunch]

Usage of oppa, noona, unnie, and hyung on my blog

I just wanna make a quick psa because I got an ask involving this! 

But also, to the anon who asked this: Please don’t feel bad in the slightest. Please keep sending stuff in, I love talking to you and in no way harbor any negative feelings towards you whatsoever about this. It’s just a personal preference thing of mine

I would sincerely prefer to not use these words on my blog. 

We’re speaking in English, and these aren’t words people use in English. Even if you took a sentence from Korean that had one of these words, you wouldn’t leave it in, you would probably change it to that person’s name or drop it entirely. So it feels weird to me to keep it in dialogue and whatnot, because the rest of my dialogue and discussions are in English, so why would I use these words.

These words are so often hyper sexualized by people who don’t speak Korean, and I don’t want to add to that in any way, especially considering that this is a smut blog

For things like noona kinks or something, as far as I’m aware that’s the same as a mommy kink? If it’s not, we can revisit that, but I’m pretty sure it is. And like, when I say someone has a daddy kink and would call their partner that, I’m not saying I think the person actually uses the word “daddy,” but that’s an English translation of whatever that dirty talk is in Korean. I don’t speak Korean, I wouldn’t know.

Also like, on a slightly more personal level it makes me super uncomfortable. I’m not Korean at all (a lot of people think I am just because my last name is Lee, but I’m not). I’m half black and half white. My boyfriend is Korean American. And people, like who we don’t know, have jokingly been like, “oh I bet she calls him oppa.” It makes me uncomfortable as a bystander, but I also know that it makes him really uncomfortable and feels like a fixation on and a sexualization of his culture. I’m not saying every Korean person feels that way, because obviously that’s not true. Different people feel differently, and I’m sure there are people who view it as an appreciation of culture. 

So yeah. For things like noona, oppa, unnie, and hyung kinks, I’m just gonna take that to mean mommy or daddy kinks.

I’m sorry if you guys disagree. I’m not trying to call anyone out or police how people write/read/talk about stuff. That’s all totally up to you! It’s just not how I want to have these discussions.