#even for all of us who are cis

[emry-stars-art]

When the misunderstanding is mutual but they’re both so sweet about it (coffee shop au edition)

Inspired by the tags below (originally on this post) from @blahblaheverythingisgay and @lovelyprincejehan accompanied by some thoughts:

thank you for bringing this GALAXY brain take to my attention 😂 this guy comes in, all cagey about his past and his scars, always wearing baggy clothes but complaining about compression clothes (being on the run does a number on your joints and muscles), picking out a name for himself??? OBVIOUSLY he’s trans right

They somehow manage to have like three separate conversations about it without realizing they’re talking about two very different scenarios. Andrew only was so wrong for so long because scars on their own (and even being a criminal lbr) are such non-issues that it didn’t even occur to him that Neil could be talking about anything less important than being trans lol

Andrew had his little crisis about it and landed pretty solid on yeah he’s still into Neil regardless, and yeah he’s still super gay. He’ll figure out the rest from there. The only thing he didn't prepare for was Neil being uh. Cis

[ocean-breeze-pier]

I would never sit here and tell trans women that their experiences aren’t valid, not that bad, etc so I don’t know why the reverse is seen as acceptable by transandrophobes

[snekdood]

anyways ppl with vaginas are amazing and not inherently less than anyone with a penis and if you disagree you can jump off a bridge <3

[dkettchen]

[theatrekidenergy]

The trans FTM experience of not knowing how to feel about your detachment from femininity and growing up a woman

[3416]

do we think austons a trump supporter

yeah probably lololol... most likely he doesn't care or bother to vote but ema has commented on a trumpie christina marleau post with "proud of you 🇺🇸" before so. it's a yikes

[flowersdiceandlove]

Okay, so, confession: I haven’t actually watched season 2 of Heaven Official’s Blessing. I absolutely LOVE tgcf so, so much and I watched the first season, repeatedly, when it was on Netflix. At first I didn’t watch it cause I didn’t have Crunchyroll, but I’ve had that for months now and still haven’t watched it… I’ve tired. Really, I have. It’s just, I like to watch it from the start when new seasons come out and it’s been a while. So, I started watching from episode 1 and was doing pretty good until the ox cart scene. I was so fangirling over it. I kept having to pause it, squeal, and hit my bed in excitement over hualian. Repeatedly. like, every single minute repeatedly. I just couldn’t get through it without freaking out about much I love hualian😭😭😭 But it’s keeping me from watching season 2😭 I wanna watch season 2😭 But I just. can’t. handle it. Hualian are just to cute and sweet and in love. It’s too much. It’s just too much for me to handle😭😭 I have the books so I know what happens, and knowing what their history is (hua cheng, fuck— hua cheng, my baby!!! You poor sweetie😭) it just makes it all the harder to get through because I know what this must mean for them. Meeting like this. Being together. Just having someone there that you enjoy spending time with. The are Not Normal from the very start and I can’t handle it. The devotion😭 the care😭 the trust😭 It’s too fucking much for me to handle!!! And animated so well. That animation is beautiful. Seriously. It fits so well, and I just… fuuuuuuuck. I wanna watch season 2…

[riddlerosehearts]

while my mind is still on the subject of transfem genderfluid taichi. i very recently got around to reading SSR family and my main takeaway after getting through all the backstage stories for it, and then especially after also reading citron's backstage story for devil maid's holiday, was this:

[sebdoesthings]

Yes, yes, god made me trans for the same reason he created wheat but not bread, but have you considered i hate baking?

[unorcadox]

I don't mean this in an offensive way or anything so just delete the ask if it makes you uncomfy but do you think your identity as plural has affected your queer identity in some way or vice versa? In any way, I mean.

yeah it's honestly made it impossible to label anything accurately lmao like i'm collectively every general identity label under the sun. i publicly id as a trans woman and straight* but realistically i'm completely unlabel-able and many systems i know feel similarly

[feline-evil]

Dick or no dick confirmation Pickles was always going to be trans to me anyways; if he's swingin' somethin that's phallo babes, if he's not then his t-dick fat. What's not to get.

[fuckdamn]

everytime i’m faced with wild overt misogyny that’s just platformed like it’s nothing i remind myself that people don’t actually have to feel this way about women. men are fully capable of treating women like human beings and viewing them as such. “but socialization but male fantasies but patriatchy speaks through us even when we don’t recognize it” sure but actually regardless there exist men who are fundamentally not raging misogynists and they generally seem happier and better adjusted. misogyny to me isn’t disappointing because “oh i can’t believe Men, as an essentialized category of person, are like this” it’s disappointing because people make the choice to be like this. “it’s my biological imperative as a man to dominate you” okay well it’s my biological imperative as a freaky bitch to dominate you so what now. what biological imperative is making you comment “onlyfans detected opinion rejected” on every picture of any attractive woman. i think i will always be understood by most people as a woman and i’m learning to accept that and trying to like it but misogyny makes me feel very trapped of course. but misogyny is a choice. which means some people make the choice to be misogynistic which is profoundly frustrating. but many other people choose not to be actively misogynistic and i believe anyone could choose not to be actively misogynistic if they wanted. so it’s a whole thing

[pathetic-tboy]

not to get discoursey on the nsfw account but you do realize both "chasers fetishizing trans women for penises they may/may not have/want to use is wrong and should be warned against to young vunerable insecure trans women" and "some trans women feel indifferent or even positive about their genitals/using them during sex and/or might not want bottom surgery and theyre still equally trans women to the trans women who do have bottom dysphoria or have/want bottom surgery and also deserve protection from chasers" can both be true right? i just dont think its fair to try to erase those members of the community because they might not align with your standards for "real" or "safe" trans women who "deserve" to be trans and safe from chasers ykwim? am i making sense?

[stephaniedola]

i wish so much that i actually identified with they/them pronouns bc i swear to god being bigender my only 2 options are be in the closet and get gendered correctly as a girl but never get to embrace my guy side or actually come out and just get called they forever like idk i really genuinely WISH it didnt bother me but it still does after all these years

[transmasc-rose]

Amy/Rory I Saw the TV Glow au:

Amy as Maddy/Tara, who ran away and never came home, who talks about things that can't be real (the TV show, the TARDIS, a world where they're strong, a world where they're something better).

Rory as Owen/Isabel, meek and yet loyal and yet terrified of his best friend and what she means. And what she says. And what she shows him.

Doctor Who, the TARDIS, the Doctor, all wrapped up into the role of the Pink Opaque, the TV show from their youth, and something Amy grasps onto and never let's go. Something Rory abandons for a normal life.

And yet.

[immortalarizona]

for pride month I am haviiiiing. an itty bitty gender crisis