#estranged family member
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In small-town Texas, affable and popular mortician Bernie Tiede strikes up a friendship with Marjorie Nugent, a wealthy widow well known for her sour attitude. When she becomes controlling and abusive, Bernie goes to great lengths to remove himself from her grasp. Credits: TheMovieDb. Film Cast: Bernie Tiede: Jack Black Marjorie Nugent: Shirley MacLaine Danny Buck Davidson: Matthew McConaughey Scrappy Holmes: Brady Coleman Lloyd Hornbuckle: Richard Robichaux Don Leggett: Rick Dial Sheriff Huckabee: Brandon Smith Rev. Woodard: Larry Jack Dotson Molly: Merrilee McCommas Carl: Mathew Greer Townsperson: Marjorie Dome Townsperson: Tim Cariker Townsperson: Fern Luker Townsperson: Jack Payne Townsperson: Sonny Carl Davis Townsperson: Chris Humphrey Mourner: Jesse Lucio Townsperson: Ann Reeves Townsperson: Kay Epperson Townsperson: Ira Bounds Townsperson: James Baker Townsperson: Kay McConaughey Townsperson: Kristi Youngblood Townsperson: Kenny Brevard Townsperson: Margaret Bowman Townsperson: Mollie Fuller Townsperson: Tanja Givens Townsperson: Glenda Jones Townsperson: Travis Blevins Townsperson: Sylvia Froman Townsperson: Martha Long Townsperson: Jo Perkins Townsperson: Reba Tarjick Townsperson: Dale Dudley Townsperson: James Wilson Townsperson: Teresa Edwards Townsperson: Billy Vaticalos Townsperson: Rob Anthony Larry Brumley: Tommy G. Kendrick Townsperson: Pam McDonald Townsperson: Kathy Gollmitzer Townsperson: Cozette McNeely Professor Fleming: Richard Andrew Jones Friend of Deceased: Charles Bailey Mrs. Pebworth: Suzi McLaughlin Mr. Estes: Grant James Mrs. Estes: Juli Erickson Dwayne Nugent: J.D. Young Dwayne Jr.: Charlie m Stewart Lewie: Joe Stevens Esmerelda: Raquel Gavia Church Goer: Amparo García Oil Worker: Toby Metcalf Chainsaw Artist: Doug Moreland Pianist: Edward Ji Guys & Dolls Performer: Jill Blackwood Mel: David Blackwell Kevin: Gabriel Luna Photographer: Deana Newcomb Assistant Director: David Steakley Bank Manager: Peter Harrell Jr. Deputy Sheriff: Joe Leroy Reynolds Truck Driver: Christian Stokes Generator Operator: John Hornbuckle Sheriff’s Deputy #2: Wray Crawford Café Waitress: Margaret Hoard IRS Agent: Charles Allen Eskew TV Reporter: Quita Culpepper Cashier: Mona Lee Fultz Judge: Jerry Biggs Lead Juror: Robert Works Community Theater Group: Chris Barfield Community Theater Group: Taylor Bryant Community Theater Group: Colin Bevis Community Theater Group: Jacqui Bloom Community Theater Group: Joshua Denning Community Theater Group: Ellie Edwards Community Theater Group: Alaina Flores Community Theater Group: Jennifer Foster Community Theater Group: Leslie Hethcox Community Theater Group: Jordan Hill Community Theater Group: Berkley Jones Community Theater Group: Trevor McGinnis Community Theater Group: Mika Odom Community Theater Group: Chell Parkins Community Theater Group: David Ponton Community Theater Group: Gray Randolph Community Theater Group: Rachel Hull-Ryde Community Theater Group: Ian Saunders Community Theater Group: Madelyn Shaffer Community Theater Group: Larissa Slota Community Theater Group: Daniel Rae Srivastava Community Theater Group: Ellen Stader Community Theater Group: Lara Wright Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Betty Andrews Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Marcia Bailey Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Umpy Bechtol Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Nita Bouldin Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Nellie Hickerson Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Jeanette Kloppe Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Geraldine Miller Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Sharon Rigsbee Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Debbie Shaw Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Flo Weiershausen Mrs. Senior Carthage Pageant Contestant: Gina Wooten Juror: Gary Askins Juror: Ben Bachelder Juror: Meredith Beal Juror: Stacey Bruck Juror: Michelle Briscoe Juror: Lesa Brooks Juror: Gayla Bruce Juror: Brenda Bunton Juror: Kristi Copeland Juror: Jeff Davis Juror: Orion Gallagher Juror: Kenneth C. Liverman Juror: Linda Rudwick Juror: Mary Stifflemir...
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i'm gonna be honest i believe that jin ling's postcanon opinion of jiang cheng eventually shifts to "you're my family, you raised me and i love you, but you're exhausting to deal with"
#keri chats#jin ling#jin rulan#mdzs#mo dao zu shi#like... JL isn't at all the type of person who'd go no contact estranging himself from JC but i do think he'll take after jiang yanli#in appreciating wwx as a family member. prob not to the extent of considering him a blood relative like his mom did but still#the more he learns abt wwx & realizes he was clearly Not Told The Full Truth and the more he sees his uncle's own culpability#(which JL already shows understanding of in the novel) the more he matures. and in the same vein he realizes many adults he knows are#childish and spoiled in their privilege; not only from their prolonged bitterness over the past but from the way they only ever consider#their own feelings. that too in the lens of transactional gains and losses; debts and repayments; me me me maybe my clan and nobody else#wwx himself gets so distressed dealing with jc he bled from the 7 apertures & qi deviated at lotus pier the night before guanyin temple#wwx thinks jiang cheng is exhausting to deal with! and while jin ling will absolutely never be in wwx's position#i think postcanon (especially if jiang cheng doesn't truly change in spite of everything) he'd come to understand that exhaustion.
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Imma be real I genuinely hope that the question as to whether Poppy and Viva have a biological mother or not never gets answered or even hinted at. I think it's cool how a majority of the Trolls characters don't have complete, nuclear families! It makes the whole family message stronger :D
#dreamworks trolls#trolls band together#queen poppy#trolls viva#castortxt#sometimes a family can be a pop queen her estranged long lost sister and their secretkeeper pos dad#sometimes a family can be a boyband of bros and their dead grandma#sometimes a family can be a guy who reproduced asexually via egg mitosis#also i think 3 movies in a row with a plot that relies on a secret family member would be#kinda lame#i grew up with a deadbeat dad n for a long time i never understood why we never did anything most families on tv did#trolls is a pretty recent interest for me and its too late to change how things are now#but i appreciate their lil hodgepodge families
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volatiles from dying light make me drop my pants get on my knees and pant like a dog
#just like older men#or teachers#or a very specific sort of estranged family member#or school bullies#or people who speak in generally commanding tones#or stern people#or dads#or my dad#or your mom
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#this is a very hard time of year for many#keep this in mind when interacting with those of us who chose estrangement over abuse and toxicity#as our families are usually enablers of the members who caused us the greatest pain#and the sense of isolation and aloneness is staggering at holiday times
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// the idea of (during the 7 years) Lucifer like... calling Charlie or something to ask her to cover for some favor (like a meeting he was too depressed to attend or something) and in a sense he's just happy to hear her voice at all while being convinced that the distance between them will never go away and so he just has to be content with what little interaction he can get, as awkward and even uncomfortable as it is?
.....makes me sad to think about. But is probably what happened multiple times.
#ooc#mun ramble#also basing a lot of this off my own experience being estranged from a family member
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i’m about to come out to my uncle in a letter i’m so nervoussssss
#this will be the first family member i’ve told 🫣#i know he’ll be accepting bc he’s literally the estranged gay uncle but like#still nervyyyyy#i dropped the letter off at the post office today so no take backs now 😫
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If you could rewrite the church family (Rhea, Seteth, Flayn, Billy, Cyril, Catherine, Alois, idgaf about Jerry, and Shamir’s fans generally like Edelgard too much for me to vibe with them), how would you do it? I love your headcanons.
thanks lol
No Manu ???
I don't know if rewritting them is the word, or just, "using them", but it can range from anything like "summer AU" (like what FEH tries to sell even if Cyril and Alois will never be added and the lizards are in limbo) where everyone relaxes, to monastery hijinks like
Cyril's first day of class and everyone popping up to check if he's alright, like Alois passing by to say hello during class and cracking jokes as an excuse to see if the giant cookie stash Rhea gave Cyril is empty or not (if it's empty it means he shared some with his new friends!), Shamir being "suddenly ordered" to give archery seminars or Catherine inviting everyone to the training tower.
Alois's family sometimes visiting Garreg Mach and Flayn sort of befriends his daughter and loves to hear the story of how he and his wife met - Seteth, after many "hmph" and "maybes" finally accepts to accompany Alois to visit his family with Flayn (who wanted to talk to his daughter about fashionable stuff young people do nowadays and how normal people live!), but it ultimately became a trip to convince Alois not to buy the rumour that "there is a Great Sage living in Lake Teutates who can teach you how to master your fears" because 1/he knows his brother started this rumour since he was bored and wanted some company and usually it ends in a disaster 2/Indech loves to make magic ghosts/soldiers for fun, and if dropping kid!Rhea in a pond was supposed to help her "master her fear of water" he knows Indech is going to throw a hundred ghost soldiers at Alois to help him "master his fear of ghosts".
Rhea still gives the worst pointers to Billy on how to "people" correctly, to the point where Billy is the one who gives her pointers, but it doesn't really work - until Manu gives the ultimate advice to Billy, no one has to try to socialise with her, because everyone falls for her charm! So Billy tries to understand what "charm" is, which prompts Rhea to dust off some "subversive books" to help them.
Which of course spirals in a catastrophe, when Cyril who's starting to recognise letters, wonders what's "charm" to Catherine who tells him it's something like exchanging knight vows, like swearing your life to someone "a bit like a partnership then?", but it's totally not like that, so Catherine directs him to Manuela. Of course Cyril doesn't go and asks Rhea instead, who is very happy to tell him everything she knows about Great Emperor Wilhelm which leaves him completely puzzled, but he's too polite to point it out, so he nods.
Ultimately he asks Seteth when he returns "It's like swearing knight vows but not like a partnership and doing it like the First Emperor did?" and Seteth gives the longest sigh every, asking him to come to his office later to get a lecture about "romance and appropriate conduct", but Cyril replied that he was not interested in romance anyways, but the professor is, since they have books about it.
Of course, Alois volunteers to help Billy with their heart issues, and Billy spills the beans, they tried to make friends so they asked Manuela how to do so, and Rhea gave them those books.
It is rumoured Seteth's sigh echoed for days in the halls of the monastery.
Billy, while accompanying Seteth who pulled out one of his "straight to the Abyss" cardboard boxes to "cleanse the Archbishop's quarters" asked Cyril if he managed to make friends during his first day of class, and Cyril dismissed them saying they don't need friends anyways (which then made Alois confess he had been spying on Shamir's orders "But I saw your bag of cookies, you didn't share them with your friends?") the life at the monastery is more than enough for him.
Billy then said to everyone - who's reunited in Rhea's quarters because they were following first Seteth (who's hunting the "subversive books"), then Billy, then felt bad for Cyril (who brought fresh water for the flowers!) so followed him - everyone here is their friend.
Alois cried hugging them, Catherine called them stupid for saying something so corny but ruffled their hair, Flayn was so happy to hear it, Manu didn't hear anything since she was arguing with Seteth about "artistic licence" and "books of art" and Cyril still didn't see what was to great about having friends. Rhea returned from helping kittens (Duchess Whiskers the VIIth got a new litter!) she placed in Seteth's office seeing everyone hugging Billy in her quarters, who told her they have friends now.
Flayn then pulls out the "deluxe tea-time set" from Rhea's cupboard - she kept just in case hoping she would be able to have tea with a lot of people - and the "preserved thanks to Nabatean magic" cookies and everyone shared a cup of tea.
#anon#replies#lizard family time?#fodlan nonsense#in those aus billy is sort of the estranged family member who connects with them and with the world altogether#seteth is always the one who tries to be rational#but when it's not rhea it's Indech who causes trouble#you don't ask what charm is to a nabatean they have an insane charm stat by just existing#catherine is weirded out by non fearghan demonstrations of affection#like you don't call people friends or lovers it's too weird#but exchanging knightly vows polishing armors or being partners that's a love language she knows and is comfortable with#Alois doesn't want to even start to think on Jerry's parenting but instead they'll help Billy with whatever they want#Manu is jealous of Rhea's collection but was surprised to see no collector version of the tome of comely saints#maybe it's too subversive about people important to the church?#FE16
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God i love christmas so much. My entire family went to the rural hick superspreader event and theyre 100% gonna be mad at me for sneaking out because “family”
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the succ family dynamics are normal to me idk what you guys continue to go on about
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#regarding the family drama post#as much shit as my dad's family has going on#my mom's family is so much crazier#like my dad and I are recently estranged from several of his family members#but my mom's side has more insane interpersonal bullshit and suspected murders and secret abortions#and freemasons and documented klan members and intergenerational abuse cycles and attempted murders and decades long affairs#and cousins that are also aunts but it's not incest I swear#and preachers that are also pimps that are also meth dealers
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#vent in tags#(because it’s less embarassing here)#I don’t want to get into every grimly detail#anyway so tired of the parent I live with calling#me a bad person most days — or lazy or selfish or inattentive#I’m so tired of hearing them say I have no charisma and am socially incompetent#and that I’m not quiet and when I say o don’t talk nearly as much or as loud as they do they say I’m gaslighting#I’m literslly always called a gaslighter.#I dint understand what I did or what’s so hard to understand about me#I know it’s difficult being them but they’re such a hypocrite s;l the time#like 2 days ago when they said for me to internalise my thoughts and I barely even speak to them anymore#and they go on ranting about my estranged parent constantly unprompted to me and my brother and calling them VERY derogatory terms#we do not need the fact one of our parent’s left us constantly rubbed in our face! my family members (other) said they should internalise it#so I know I’m not crazy and they’re being a hypocrite.#but I feel I’m victimising myself to create cognitive dissonance and I am bad and lazy#and that I’m using trauma and my terrible anxiety (which I’ve been trying to improve on) as a shield to those facts#I feel crazy I feel I’m the wrong who’s wrong#I think 2 different things — that they’re actually in the wrong but I could be trapped in my own head#I don’t know I don’t know why I’m blamed for every misfortune#I can’t stand Io for myself because as soon as I talk I’m told to shut up. say I’m wrong. and do what I’m told.#I hate this I hate having a parent who doesn’t want me much and the other who calls me a burden#they used to be really good parents I don’t even know ‘maybe they are and I want to displace blame#I’m so confused#I don’t want to live as anyone else though because losing any of my abilities terrifies me. because I know internally I’m still capable#vent tw#tw vent#tw parental issues#tw negative
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Sometimes I surprise myself with the feelings I've got swirling inside
#todays feelings are inadequecy longing and nostalgia#missing the friend groups i used to be a part of#remembering that all those relationships ended when i started dating my wife and going to therapy#and i know it was for the best#but it still sucks to remember that they couldnt handle seeing me get better and be happy#and it hurts remembering how they chose my twin over me#and one friend thought i didnt care about my twin at all after our estrangement#she made me feel like a monster who couldn't love a family member i needed to estrange myself from#ill always love my twin#but i cant have him in my life#she made me feel like i was an option and not a choice#another friend made me feel like a burden#and theyre all gone from my life but those feelings are still here#smothering me when i least expect it#anyway#tag rant
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#gotta love waking up to find out an estranged transphobic family member who has gone down the maga conspiracy theorist rabbit hole#is pissed off she cant harass and threaten u anymore so she is now sending harassment and threats to ur mothers email#and has now escalated the videos she links to 'eradicating the trans monsters' topics which is legally an implied threat#& u now have to scramble#to have ur mother reply with a legal response stating anything further will be considered harassment & treated as such#as well as contact a legal expert to consider ur options for when (not if) this fuckhead continues their implied threats & harassment#cool cool coooool#exactly how i wanted to spend my morning 🙄🙄🙄
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Thinking about a conversation between my oldest cousin and I, where he was explaining to me that at their all girls school there were tom boys and girly girls, and that they were two very distinct groups who didn't like to interact. My 9 year old autistic self was immediately concerned by this apparent strict binary and wanted to know what happened to girls who were neither
My cousin, the self described "tom boy", grew up to be transmasc. And I, the "girl who was neither", grew up to be non-binary
I think his younger sister who also went to an all girls school is some degree of gay/bi too
#queer#actuallyautisitic#trans#i haven't seen them since i was 9 (there was a divorce)#but even with my memories from early childhood it did not even slightly come as a surprise that he's trans#sometimes i wonder whether he inherited the autism too#that's not really something you can ask an estranged family member out of the blue
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I don’t want to rent, I want a castle that’s haunted by the ghosts of my cursed bloodline
#I want one of my estranged family members to die and leave me to inherit a vast amount of wealth#and a castle#with a neighboring witch who has a blood feud with my family but I will break the curse with the power of friendship and love#and then the witch will fall in love with me because I’m so cool#mypost
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