#eriattraction

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Lesbiplatonic Pride Flag

Lesbiplatonic (lesbianplatonic, lesbianoplatonic, lesbioplatonic, lesbiaplatonic, lesboplatonic, lesbplatonic, or lesblatonic): being platonically lesbian; experiencing homoplatonic attraction to women; platonic lesbianism; lesbian-platonic.

Since there's already lesqueerplatonic/lesquasiplatonic (lesbiqueerplatonic/lesbiquasiplatonic, lesbianqueerplatonic/lesbiaqueerplatonic, lesbianquasiplatonic/lesbiaquasiplatonic, lesboqueerplatonic/lesboquasiplatonic) and lesplatonic doesn't quite represent how I feel, I'm coining these terms.

[atertiary-culture-is]

Intro

This is a blog for people on the atertiary spectrum to talk about our experiences with being atertiary/ otherwise on the atertiary spectrum.

Atertiary refers to a disconnect from tertiary attraction and/or tertiary relationships, or little to no tertiary attraction. Tertiary attraction is any attraction thats not romantic or sexual, it is also called nonrose or eriattraction. Atertiary spec (aterspec) ppl may nor not be on the aro and/or ace spectrums, and may or may not be favorable to tertiary/nonrose relationships.

Some atertiary spectrum identities include aplatonic, asensual, analterous, etc.

Main @entropy-sea-system

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We support all system types, if you don't, this blog is not for you and we will block you. Same goes if you're against atertiary orientations and/or an exclusionist.

[revenant-coining]

Lesbieri

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Lesbieri/Lesbinonrose/Lesbitertiary; a term for being a lesbian in an eriattraction/nonrose/tertiary attraction way; being a lesbian who only experiences eriattraction/nonrose/tertiary attraction (ie; not romantic or sexual attraction) to woman.

etymology; lesbian, eriattraction/nonrose/tertiary

for anon!

tagging; @radiomogai, @thecoffeecrew404

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[mayhem-moth]

Somepeople helped me learn several different aspec identities that I have never heard before and get even less representation than arospec and acespec identities. Here is what i learned:

Annatractional- feels no atraction whatsoever

Aphysical-complete lack of physical attraction

-Asexual- Lack of sexual attraction

-Ansthetic- Lack of aesthetic attraction

-Ansenseual-Lack of sensual attraction

Aemotional-Lack of emotional attraction

-aromantic- Lack of romantic attraction

-nonalterous-Lack of desire for emotional closeness

-alplatonic- Lack of platonic attraction

Atertiary(considered offensive to some, people have suggested eriattraction instead)-A term used to describe a lack of several different types of attraction besides the attractions in the physical and emotional categories.

It is a spectrum so some people may still feel some of these despite identitfying as them. These are labels some people use to feel comfortable with with who they are and push the stereotype of what love should be or that love is above all and also for reasons thay are personal and unique to them. These labels are important to people and should be respected. Because it's who they are. I hope one day there will be stories that can use all these different unique ways of being. I hope expectations of attraction will be teared down and everyone can just be who they are. But for now lets spread awareness. Society is rigid and does not care. Lets change this for everyone to be thier unique selves.

( I may have got some things wrong so please do not hesitate to correct me)(I am new to a lot of this and have never heard of most of these until recently).

Source(given to me by @tothestarstothenight):

https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Atertiary#Controversy_around_the_term_tertiary_attraction

[naptimeneos]

⸝⸝ IDERI

(idem + eriattraction)

ideri ; a sublabel to idemromantic that takes away the focus on romantic attraction, and explicitly includes eriattraction, or tertiary attraction. someone who is ideri either experiences all forms of non-physical attraction as the same or doesn't care about the differences.

coined by div ! flag based on the idemromantic and eriattraction flags

(alt id ; a four-striped flag. the stripes are equal in size and are the following colours, from top to bottom: dusky blue, aquamarine, desert sand, rose pink.)

[writers-get-biters]

good news!: just figured out Two and i& r himeric exteramo(&@2)/quilccion(2@&) arofriends <2 !

bad news!: not nearly enough community rep 4 eriattraction/tertiary attraction/nonrose attraction selfships TT-TT i& dont know how to do this asdfgfnxcd

[demiro-allosexual-culture-is]

what does atertiary and apothitertiary mean? sorry for my ignorance

Here is a link that has more of an explanation but basically atertiary is when you experience little to no tertiary/nonrose attraction (attraction thats not romantic or sexual) (such as alterous, platonic, sensual, queerplatonic, cedural, etc.). I dont like this atertiary flag though so I made my own design of it (thats from main blog). Atertiary spectrum is also sometimes shortened to aterspec.

The apothi- prefix in aspec terms means you are repulsed by that relationship type, so here it means little to no nonrose/tertiary attraction and being repulsed by nonrose/atertiary relationships. There doesnt seem to be a wiki page for it yet but there are pages for other apothi- aspec terms like apothiromantic, apothiplatonic, etc.

[tertiary-eriattraction-nonrose]

Tertiary Attraction Archive

(AKA eriattraction, non-rose attraction)

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Archive for tertiary / non-rose / eriattraction terms: Types of attraction other than romantic and sexual attraction. Tertiary, meaning third, originates from them being additional identities along the Split Attraction model. Eriattraction comes from "erilainen", a Finish word meaning "different". Non-Rose comes from the first letters in romantic and sexual, and brings up imagery of typical courtship.

Tertiary-based relationships may be partnerships, or they may simply be bonds. While some consider their tertiary attraction as polyamorous, an attraction and bond applying to multiple individuals is the norm for many types of tertiary attraction. Platonic attraction and relationships, for example, are typically non-exclusive by default.

How To Use Tertiary Terminology

Tertiary attraction types can be used in the same way as romantic and sexual ones. A few examples:

Monogamous Panplatonic (Platonic bonding with only one individual at a time, who can be of any gender.)

Touch-Favorable Asensual (Being asensual, and also okay or happy to be touched.)

Homoaesthetic Bisexual (Mspec mono identity, where one is aesthetically attracted only similar-gender individuals, but sexually attracted to all individuals.)

Tagging System

Main Tags -

Attraction Types

Reaction Types*

Orientation Label

Interaction Stance

Combo Label

Gender

Exclusive Term

*Non-attraction orientated labels, such as affial.

Secondary Tags -

Affinitive

Oriangled

Heterospec

Homospec

Enbyspec

Multispec

Allospec

Aspec

Abrospec

Combospec

Amative

(Aspec)

Fluid

Flux

Flip

Vague

Relational

Polyam

Monogam

Attraction Types -

Tertiary

Unlabelic*

Neoattraction**

Alteraffectis Sublabel

Quadrantic (Homestuck)

Search using the Attraction Types Notion (run by @revenant-coining) as reference.

*Attraction types that are purposefully vague or represent "generic" attraction. **Attraction types based on neoumbrellas.

[consoledacup]

Re: chemistry btwn fictional couples & actors post

Mike & Greta have described themselves as best friends not siblings, so pls stop putting words into their mouths. & have done so prior to the Jordayla storyline was ever written. If ur referencing Daniel’s video, his wording also implied he views the whole cast as being like siblings. Greta did not affirm what he said. He along with you and many others lack the vocabulary to describe your observations. (not abt AA cast — just a general suggestion: look up Eriattraction if u don’t have appropriate vocabulary to describe ur opinion).

Regardless of chemistry being subjective, unless explicitly stated as otherwise, the actors of non-sibling fictional couples are typically being PAID TO ACT as if they are aesthetically, romantically, & sexually (etc) attracted to each other. It does not matter if the viewer doesn't see that. The subjectiveness of what the viewer sees is mainly due to or informed by their own preconceived notions, personal lived experiences, & irl observations/interactions with others.

The aforementioned type of fictional couples are literally NOT paid to act as if they’re siblings lol, like never! & if you’re genuinely describing the chemistry of ANY non-sibling fictional couples as akin to sibling relationships, I pray it’s not based on any real life experiences. But if it is pls know that’s an inappropriate way to interact with ur sibling/relatives.

SN: If that’s not it, then it’s likely the typical case. People are unaware and unknowledgeable of things that are intentionally not common knowledge (e.g., y/our culture’s value system).

I’ve always questioned everything, thats just how my brain works. No matter how exhausting, my brain will always take a ‘both/and’ approach to everything. & a large part of learning about myself & wanting to better understand others, unfortunately, involved learning about ‘societal default settings’. In this case, I’d suggest learning about romantic sex-based relationship hierarchy, relationship anarchy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory allosexuality, split model of attraction, heteronormativity, & amatanormativity.

If not, I have thoughts about how those things relate to AA & can offer a brief analysis of the vortex dynamics; & why vast majority of tv shows w/the ‘stable Love Dodecahedra’ trope where ‘everyone stays friends’ tends to be an unsuccessful written creative endeavor (to the extent that viewers are convinced the work FEELS & IS (a) realistic &/or (b) justified in-universe to willingly suspend disbelief as they watch).

Alrighty then!!! WOW.

What an in-depth response to the surface-level accusations made.

But I gotta admit, you lost me when you brought in terms typically discussed in the queer, specifically asexual, community. If you're comfortable, do you mind discussing this with me privately off anon? If not, send more asks my way. :)

Also, YES. I'd LOVE to hear more thoughts you have about the stable Love Dodecahedra trope and pop culture, and how the trope relates to the AAU and the (gasp!) shifting romantic dynamics in the Vortex.

[mourningmogaicrew]

Aphysical, aemotional, and atertiary recoins

(Original post is here)

Aphysical and aphys-spec

A term for someone who does not experience physical attraction. This person may also be asexual, nonaesthetic, and/or asensual, or they could experience those types of attraction without a physical component.

The aphysical spectrum (aphys-spec) is a broader label that also encompasses those who experience atypical (fluctuating, very little, fluid, demi-/auto-/fray-/etc) physical attraction.

Flag meanings are the same as the original aphysical flag. The aphys-flag meanings are pink-brown for atypical physical attraction, pink-orange for aphys-spec people who still have/want physical relationships, gray for aphysical identity, pink for ace/asen/etc-spec people, and purple for asexual/asensual/etc people.

Aemotional and aemo-spec

A term for someone who does not experience emotional attraction. This person may also be aromantic, nonalterous, and/or a(queer)platonic, or they could experience those types of attraction without an emotional component.

The aemotional spectrum (aemo-spec) is a broader label that also encompasses those who experience atypical (fluctuating, very little, fluid, demi-/auto-/fray-/aego-/lith-/cupio-/etc) emotional attraction.

If you don't like vowels next to each other at the beginning of words you can call this ‘anemotional’ and ‘anem-spec’.

Also, someone (AndleRandle on Fandom) actually already made an aemo-spec flag but I wanted an official/matching one instead. So sorry Andle! Your flag is fine I just wanted to make my own.

Flag meanings are the same as the original aemotional flag. The aemo-flag meanings are dark pink for atypical emotional attraction, pink for aemo-spec people who still have/want emotional relationships, dark gray for aemotional identity, blue for aro/apl/etc-spec people, and dark blue for aromantic/aplatonic/etc people.

Atertiary and ate(r)-spec

A term for someone who does not experience tertiary attraction. This person would also be nonamical, asocial, amental, axenial, adomestic, and a[any other type of tertiary attraction].

The atertiary spectrum (ate[r]-spec) is a broader label that also encompasses those who experience atypical (fluctuating, very little, fluid, demi-/auto-/fray-/aego-/lith-/cupio-/etc) tertiary attraction. The ater-spec can also include people who experience some, but not all, types of tertiary attraction.

However some people don't like the term tertiary attraction because it can imply that types of attraction other than physical/s3xual (3=e) and emotional/romantic are less important. The term eriattraction was created as an alternative and some Fandom users (idk who) suggested that atertiary could therefore also be called noneriattracted (and I suggest that ater-spec could be noneri-spec). Another suggestion to replace tertiary is non-rose. So atertiary could also be called anrose and anro-spec.

Flag meanings are the same as the original atertiary flag. The ater-flag meanings are purple for atypical tertiary attraction, blue for ater-spec people who still have/want tertiary relationships, light gray for atertiary identity, yellow for axen/asoc/etc-spec people, and orange-brown for axenial/asocial/etc people.

Notes:

-Someone who is completely aphysical, aemotional, and atertiary may be considered anattractional (not experiencing any form of attraction at all).

-What counts as physical vs emotional vs tertiary attraction is completely up to the individual! Attraction feels different to everyone and if someone wants to use one if these terms due to being on an a-spectrum that I didn't explicitly list on the definition that's fine. (Ex: an apresential person considering themself aphysical or aemotional instead of atertiary).

[aetherive]

Introduction

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We will do: - MOGAI/LIOM genders and orientations - Xeno-origins - Pronoun/name/term finding - Therian/alterhuman/otherkin/otherhearted/extranth flags and terms - Xenidens - Omninouns - Neuroids (only neurodivergences we have, though) - Non-xenine terms - Non-rose/tertiary/eriattraction flags and terms - Aldernic terms - Chronosian terms - Allion orientations - Non-specific terms - Stuff related to the dark and mysterious - Pronoun flags - Non-gender/orientation MOGAI/LIOM terms - Hyperspecific terms - Original character/species terms

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Tagging System

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[radiomogai]

here's some not on your list:

intellectual/psychological, which seems to be different from mental/intellectual https://momma-mogai-sphinx.tumblr.com/post/183012656182/attraction-terminology

nebulous from here https://radiomogai.tumblr.com/post/676329252532240384/violetcavalcades-types-of-tertiary-attraction

and looks like that's all we've got in our personal database that's not on your list. i really love your page for it, simple, easy to read, organized, and extensive!!!

i finally finished it !! a list of attraction types (link) !!

the list is on notion to make things easy for me. if you know of any attraction types not on here, or coining posts not linked tell me and they'll be added!!

tagging @radiomogai for helping out with this list !

[tertiary-eriattraction-nonrose]

[ This is a plain text version of my pinned post. It's a separate link as a lack of formatting is incredibly inaccessible for those who rely primarily on structured visual information. ]

Tertiary Attraction Archive

(AKA eriattraction, non-rose attraction)

Archive for tertiary / non-rose / eriattraction terms: Types of attraction other than romantic and sexual attraction. Tertiary, meaning third, originates from them being additional identities along the Split Attraction model. Eriattraction comes from "erilainen", a Finish word meaning "different". Non-Rose comes from the first letters in romantic and sexual, and brings up imagery of typical courtship.

Tertiary-based relationships may be partnerships, or they may simply be bonds. While some consider their tertiary attraction as polyamorous, an attraction and bond applying to multiple individuals is the norm for many types of tertiary attraction. Platonic attraction and relationships, for example, are typically non-exclusive by default.

How To Use Tertiary Terminology

Tertiary attraction types can be used in the same way as romantic and sexual ones. A few examples:

Monogamous Panplatonic

(Platonic bonding with only one individual at a time, who can be of any gender.)

Touch-Favorable Asensual

(Being asensual, and also okay or happy to be touched.)

Homoaesthetic Bisexual

(Mspec mono identity, where one is aesthetically attracted only similar-gender individuals, but sexually attracted to all individuals.)

Tagging System

Main Tags -

Attraction Types

Reaction Types*

Orientation Label

Interaction Stance

Combo Label

Gender

Exclusive Term

*Non-attraction orientated labels, such as affial.

Secondary Tags -

Affinitive

Oriangled

Heterospec

Homospec

Enbyspec

Multispec

Allospec

Aspec

Abrospec

Combospec

Amative

(Aspec)

Fluid

Flux

Flip

Vague

Relational

Polyam

Monogam

Attraction Types -

Tertiary

Unlabelic*

Neoattraction**

Alteraffectis Sublabel

Quadrantic (Homestuck)

Search using the Attraction Types Notion [Link] (run by revenant-coining) as reference.

*Attraction types that are purposefully vague or represent "generic" attraction.

**Attraction types based on neoumbrellas.

[aetherive]

Terms we Will/Won't Do

Terms we Will Do:

— MOGAI/LIOM genders and orientations — Xeno-origins — Therian/alterhuman/otherkin/otherhearted/extranth flags and terms — Xenidens — Omninouns — Neuroids (only neurodivergences we have, though) — Non-xenine terms, like kenochoric or luxine — Non-rose/tertiary/eriattraction flags and terms — Aldernic terms — Chronosian terms — Allion orientations — Non-specific terms — Terms related to the dark and mysterious — Pronoun flags — Non-gender/orientation MOGAI/LIOM terms — Hyperspecific terms — General gore/murder/blood ect. terms — Original character/species terms — Objectum/objectix terms — Plural terms

Terms we Won't Do:

— Stuff related to bigotry (TERFs, SWERFs, racism, sexism, ableism, anti-alterhuman/furries, ect.) — Stuff related to specific, real-life murders/disappearances/kidnappings (in-general terms related to these things are ok, just not specific ones that happened to real people) — Transx/transid flags/terms — Terms related to closed cultures/religions and groups we are not a part of. — Any slur-related terms (yes, even if we can reclaim them)