#entitlement goddamn

[tapiocakisses]

when ppl (anon) learn how to blog tags and not demand ppl to cater to them, the world will heal.

PLEASE for the love of it, stop tagging x Reader if your work contains smut!

This is absolutely no hate, but simply a reminder because people that might be searching for sfw works, come across nsfw works because they aren’t tagged properly. If someone tags x reader people will think it‘s safe for work, or minors might think it‘s a casual fic.

A lot of people stumble across smut because the fica haven’t been tagged properly, and it’s hard to ignore the fact that when you search up for an x reader fic, the first thing you‘ll see is smut.

So if your work contains any kind of smut material, please hang the word ‚smut‘ or ‚nsfw‘ after your tag. for example ‘___x reader smut/nsfw‘!!! or ‘fandom smut/nsfw‘!!!

Please make platforms safer for everyone but simply alway hanging the word smut or nsfw in the end of your tag, so it‘s safe for everyone.

sorry if I’m not getting something here but can’t people block “[character] smut” or “[fandom] smut” tags which writers almost always use in tandem with the general tag? also if they “might” be searching for sfw fics can’t they alter their search terms?

sfw works don’t require the same treatment of “[character] x reader sfw” according to your logic so I’m really not understanding why I or anyone shouldn’t use a general tag that’s literally applicable to a fic

as for me personally, I stress specific warnings including nsfw in the text of my fics at the beginning, often before the cut. y’all need to understand that if you don’t want to read something you can keep scrolling

[knifearo]

ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story

[bondagebimbo]

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[andorerso]

the thing that bothers me so much about all these "they would not do that" or "they would not say this" posts is that it isn't the point at all. yeah, maybe you're right. maybe I even agree, maybe the author does too. but so what. we're writing stories to experiment. we're writing stories to see if we can create a situation where they WOULD say that or do that and have it make sense. maybe we're just being self-indulgent, maybe we're writing it to feel a sort of catharsis. fanfic is experimentation. the point isn't what they would or wouldn't do realistically. the point is I'm gonna make them do what I fucking want them to do, and you can just stop reading if you don't like it.

[v7n5]

It grinds my gears when I start thinking about how Howard's stubborn behind probably thought that keeping Kim in doc review despite her going out of her way to try to get back on his good side made perfect sense. The way he unceremoniously dismissed her attempt made it clear that he felt no remorse for purposely crushing her spirit as he really believed he had every right to do so. His immaturity was especially loud when it’s shown that he never stopped being salty towards her, not even after she left his company in the most graceful and peaceful way too.

[shiraishi--kanade]

give us more unpopular opinions king

Anon, I will have you known if I spoke up about all of my unpopular opinions this fandom would have me hanging from the gallows by the end of the night.

That said here's one: it's not Shiho who should be nicer to Shizuku actually. I think Shizuku needs to respect Shiho's boundaries in fact. For once

[the-silent-hashira]

little reminder for all the fanfic writers out there

you are not responsible for teaching people about safe sex practices. it is not your job to tell people 'dont fuck like these characters in my fanfic, its unrealistic'. it should be obvious that fanfic is often unrealistic, and if people look at your fics and take unsafe sex practices from it, then they need to actually consider whether its a good idea to even look at fanfic to teach them how to do anything, especially sex.

people who read fanfic, do not take your life lessons from fanfic, ever. if you see something in a fanfic and think 'wow, i'd like to do that irl!' maybe don't and actually look things up and do research.

did we not learn from 50 Shades of Grey that you should not take sex advice from fictional content???

[fraudulent-cheese]

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This shit's going in the Pahkitew video - why did the writters do Sky like that in the final episode??? Why did they do that???? The show really spent the last two episodes setting Sky up as someone who, while competitive, values good sportsmanship and playing by the rules - you'd assume this extends to relationships and being honest right? Or just not liking cheaters?

And like, whatever she's feeling for Dave she doesn't want to be around him and it says alot about him that he had to have Sky kiss him for him to be motivated to help her win, but also SKY WOULD NOT DO THAT. SHE WOULDN'T LIE TO HIM ABOUT WANTING TO GO ON A DATE AFTER THE SHOW IS OVER WHY WOULD SHE?

Oh, and the whole "she had a boyfriend back home this entire time!!!"? Yeah, that's bullshit to me. it feels like a half hearted attempt at the writters at making the tables between Sky and Dave less unbalanced in Sky's favor in terms of how bad the relationship is so we could go "oh they're both bad" despite the fact Dave's the one that broke her boundaries, didn't take her rejection the first time, ignored her "but" the first time and while neither of them communicated well in the middle of the season, dude is fucking DESPERATE man. I bet you anything if episode 13 didn't exist, everyone would be on Sky's side. everyone.

HELL, even with the boyfriend twist, girl didn't wanna date him she just wanted to win the money! she wanted to break up with that boyfriend! She made a mistake, a big one yes, but that's not justification to me for hating her, unless you're like allergic to cheaters in which case boy do i hope you also hate duncan with a passion then!

Urgh... can you tell i really don't like the last episode? Like Pahk'd with talent's already a meh episode, but Lies, Cries and One Big Prize sucks even more since it's issues apply to every character and not just the show feeling especially rigged against Sugar just to get her eliminated (kind of like how they did the challenge in Sky Fall just to get rid of Jasmine).

uh TLDR Sky ooc moment bad, Sky good character and Dave needs therapy.

[starredforlife]

It’s v funny being on this website bc there will be posts u find that essentially say “you have to be nice to people” and “being rude is hurtful” and “think about others” and it’s like yea that’s not bad advice and it doesn’t hurt to repeat it but it’s delivered like it’s the most enlightening idea in the world, like the blogger has discovered fire or sliced bread, and it also has 30k+ notes somehow

[equalperson]

okay so one of the aspects of avoidant personality that I have the most trouble with is conflict avoidance, right? so for years, I've let people do things around/to Me that make Me uncomfortable, because I was afraid of being criticized or ignored.

recently, I noticed members of the discord server I'm in making jokes using the R-slur. this makes Me uncomfortable and honestly question My desire to associate with them at all (but avoidant struggle #2: I can't easily cut people off), but I kept just. not saying anything. because, once again, what if they criticize Me for being "too sensitive" or ignore My concerns entirely?

but because I've been doing better, I've been able to remind Myself that 99% of people won't be as quick to resent Me as I feel they'll be, so I'm mostly not in any danger around others.

plus, these people love Me. one of them even stopped making schizophrenia jokes when they (privately) found out that I was schizophrenic, so I have good reason to believe they'd be receptive to My criticisms here, right?

so, today, one of the other discord members not only used the R-slur again, but called ME the R-slur (because I got confused about something). very unpleasant experience, especially as a medium-support, developmentally disabled person.

so I go "actually, I'm really uncomfortable with the R-word." cue 🫂 emote and apology from that person. the person who runs the server says that they (the server as a whole) will stop using the word.

great! My avoidant personality was proven wrong once again! although I'm not sure when--if ever--I can be fully comfortable with the same people who were ableist enough to call Me a slur in the first place, at least they're willing to learn and grow from it.

...then a third person posts a gif using the R-slur. then the person who called Me the R-slur calls the other person that word for not paying attention to My discomfort. third person says they don't care. almost every active server member starts making jokes about the R-slur, even though I asked them to stop not even a full 60 seconds ago.

so, apparently, My avoidant thought process was completely right: these people absolutely will prioritize their jokes over My own well-being. lesson learned: never try to set boundaries ever again.

[starbuck]

second night of Murder Mystery DONE all went well i am FREEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!

[chiropteracupola]

the amount of time I spend on tumblr dot com has given me quite the set of standards when it comes to artworks on the theme of 'Trans Angel', and actual museums are failing to meet those standards quite spectacularly.

[teamhawkeye]

"you're not allowed to ship this/you're sick if your ship that!", "you can't disregard canon like that/no AUs or silliness allowed!", "this is the only proper way to engage with a specific piece of media-"

why are some people even involved in fandom at all if they're just gonna be boring, antagonistic, and an absolute killjoy - go be a soul sucking tar pit on your own and leave people alone who are harmlessly enjoying their fictional content in whatever way they want

[platonicallylovesick]

Current brother ranking has gotta be

Beel & Bel (tied for first. NO NOT JUST BECAUSE THEYRE TWINS I just love them that much

Satan

Levi

Mammon

Lucifer

Asmo

[folkinsomnia]

my sister, my parents, my friends tell me I was cheated, having to do all but my first semester of grad school during covid, and that I graduated supposedly more employable into the clusterfuck of may 2021. usually I feel resigned to it at much as anyone else does to the first few years of the pandemic. it sucked and everyone was numb.

but sometimes, like when I see happy pictures of friends and family who got their masters and phds pre-pandemic, carrying diploma covers and in the ugly robes with their most loved surrounding them in celebration, I do feel pretty fucking bitter. it does make me feel cheated that my sister and I were first generation college students, graduate students, and my sister an entire fucking doctor of her field, and we didn't get to have our families or anyone celebrate at our schools. nobody traveled out to Iowa because I told them not to, and I didn't go to my own graduation when that kind of ritual means a lot to me, and I didn't buy or rent robes or a cap or a tassel, and I didn't walk anywhere or commemorate the day. what I did was post to my instagram story once I submitted my final project, and I bought a departmental cardigan, and as a member of the LIS student org exec board, I drove all over the county delivering cardigans to others. my family and friends and J were still proud, and I was happy with myself, but yes! yes I did get cheated!

[great-master-airplane]

My post earlier not only lost me followers but also ao3 subscribers. Message received, loud and clear~