#dysphorifluid

[reverse-queer-dictionary]

My gender is kinda odd, like I feel like it's one static feeling, kinda masc nonbinary, but my dysphoria levels and the way I wanna present is fluid, leaning femme. I wanna be a boy in a girl way but also a girl in a boy wayIdk if that makes sense lol

Hello!

Here are some terms/labels I found that sound similar to what you are describing:

Dysphorifluid - Someone whose (gender) dysphoria is fluid

Expression Fluid - Someone whose gender expression changes/is fluid

Fluvidusian - Anyone who is fluid in presentation and/or fluidly aligned (includes expression fluid, genderfluid/flux, etc.)

Femproche - A gender expression that is feminine, but one's gender(s) is/are not feminine

Muliebrisian - Someone who is feminine presenting and/or feminine aligned

Wisterian - A nonbinary individual whose gender expression is masculine, feminine, and neutral/neither, either at the same time or fluidly

Azalean - A nonbinary individual whose gender expression is feminine

Azurgirl - A girl/woman who is masculine in some way

Mingirl - Someone who is both mingender (a gender that is masculine in nature) and a girl/woman

Rosboy - A boy/man who is feminine in some way

Finboy - Someone who is both fingender (a gender that is feminine in nature) and a boy/man

Genderqueer - A gender that is queer or otherwise non-normative in some way

Proxangi - A gender that is derived from and connected to androgyny, but is different/distinct from androgyne (a gender that is androgynous or simultaneously male and female/masculine and feminine)

Solarian - A nonbinary individual that is masculine and/or man-aligned

Phoebian - A nonbinary individual that is masculine aligned

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Intro post

Hello everyone! This is another one of those queer culture-is blogs, made as a direct counterpart to @gendereuphoriahours.

(If you are triggered by mentions or discussions of gender dysphoria, sorry but this blog probably isn't a good place for you.)

This blog is for people to discuss their experiences with gender dysphoria, ask questions, etc etc. People who are gender dissonant, gender disconnected, dysphorifluid/flux, semi-dysphoric, or questioning are also welcomed.

The header is the gender dysphoric flag by @/arco-pluris.

(Icon ID: A picture of Kirby holding a yellow water gun. There is a trans flag in the background and text saying "kirby is here to remove your dysphoria". End ID)

Mod info:

The mod is completely nullpronomial with no auxiliary pronouns (so no they/them or you/yours unless you legitimately struggle with pronouns) and will be referred to as "mod" in the third person on this blog. Mod is also a dysphoric trans person (abinary). Mod fully supports non-dysphoric trans people and thinks the creation of a non-dysphoric trans culture blog would be very epic indeed.

Due to this being a sideblog mod cannot like posts or respond directly to comments.

General rules:

-Start asks with "dysphoric culture is" or any variation of that. You can also be more specific and say stuff like "dysphoric nonbinary culture is”.

-If your ask is an actual question and not about dysphoric culture, that's fine just please start it with "question:". Feel free to ask about terminology, if something is 'normal', coping with and treating dysphoria, or ask for advice, etc etc. Links to resources will also be provided if you ask.

-Do not TW asks unless it is a very specific/uncommon trigger. Things like biology, transphobia, misgendering, family, and body negativity will be tagged as TWs. All posts will have a dysphoria TW.

-If you use sarcasm, a joking tone, or subtext it must be explicitly stated. Otherwise mod (who is ND) will not be able to understand your ask and will most likely not post it.

-Mod is not your mental health professional. Do not send in asks about serious mental health problems or s*lf harm, even if it's related to dysphoria. Try a helpline like the trevor project or the trans lifeline instead.

-No asks for: mod’s personal info, donation boosts, blog promotions, ‘give me gender validation’ (there are sites for that), body-shaming or self-deprecation, s*xual stuff, etc. If you send them anyway they will be deleted.

DNI if you:

-Are queerphobic or exclusionistic (yes, that includes transmedicalists. Just because this blog is about dysphoria does not mean it's required to be trans)

-Are ableist or saneist

-Believe queer is a slur that cannot/should not be reclaimed

-Support incest

If mod sees you in the blog activity and is uncomfortable with you (usually because you’re doing discourse, posting pro-ed content or thinspo, or breaking the DNI) you will be blocked.

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Mod mentioned dysphorifluid/flux in the pinned post and I'm curious to know what that is because I've never heard that term before but it sounds like something that would be more accurate to me than full-on dysphoric

Dysphorifluid/fluid dysphoria: when what you’re dysphoric about changes frequently. Ex: being dysphoric about masc things one day and then dysphoric about fem things the next day.

Dysphoriflux/fluctuating dysphoria: when the intensity of your dysphoria changes frequently. Ex: having low/no dysphoria and then a couple hours later feeling very very dysphoric over the same thing.

You can also be both of those things! It’s called dysphorifluix/dysphorifluidflux and refers to someone whose dysphoria changes in focus and intensity.

[dysphoric-culture-is]

hi!! i was wondering if i could submit a "afab semi-dysphoric/dysphoriaflux culture is" kinda post?? or is this blog only for full dysphoria?

As it says in the pinned post:

"People who are gender dissonant, gender disconnected, dysphorifluid/flux, semi-dysphoric, or questioning are also welcomed."

So yes you can submit posts like that anon!