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Obsessed with the Ras, Arin & Sora dynamic cause it really is a boomer being tormented by some Gen Z's on all fronts. Dude deadnamed Sora and the kids just looked at each other like siblings who heard their dad say something that would get him cancelled to make sure they both heard him right. They're awkwardly apologizing for Ras violent outbursts because they can't take him anywhere. God forbid they start having fun otherwise they're going to get scolded for it and tiredly side-eye each other. Welcome to the worlds worst post-divorce roadtrip with your manipulative malpractice father
#ninjago#dragons rising#ninjago dragons rising#lego ninjago#lego ninjago dragons rising#ninjago dr#ras#arin#sora#ninjago arin#ninjago ras#ninjago sora#arin nived#lord ras#dragons rising s3#me watching ras call sora anna had me gagged like RAS YOU CANT SAY THAT#he hates sora with a PASSION but unfortunately she is a) useful and also b) arin really likes her#i like that sora doesnt take his bs. shes here solely so arin isnt alone do NOT forget that old man#she wouldve chosen lloyd in the divorce if the kids didnt get split up. remember this#ras is the guy you just quietly ignore and let talk during the family gatherings bc otherwise its gonna turn into a fight#but you do NOT know him in public#dragons rising s3 spoilers#SPOILERS#dragons rising leaks
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Marbit for the ship bingo! :D
Oh Marbit my beloveds
Looking for stuff about them is what got me into this fandom a year ago.
They way Two-Bit and Marcia just click, with the same humor right off the bat, and then suddenly for just a minute they’re not rough greasers with too-long sideburns and switchblades or pristine Soc girls dressed in white who get preyed on by greasers like Dallas. They’re just a couple of people who speak the same language, who have the same quick wit.
Augh, they kill me. Two-Bit usually only goes for blondes, but Marcia’s a brunette and one of “two good-lookin’ girls if I ever saw any.” Two-Bit’s a tough hood, but Marcia jokes with him like they’re old friends. She gives him her number.
And then as soon as they’re apart, they’re back to being a tough hood and a clean Soc. He tears up her number. He must’ve been crazy to ask for it. She drives home with Randy. (She wishes he was more interesting.) The phone doesn’t ring, and why would it? She was so stupid to give a hood her phone number. He probably sweet talks like that to every girl. Her number’s probably just one of so many others, and she’s so dumb for falling for it.
And then Bob is dead. Two-Bit gets jumped by Socs, and there’s a rumble, and Randy doesn’t wanna be a Soc anymore. And maybe Marcia doesn’t either.
Randy goes off to school, grows a beard, buys a VW. Marcia stays in Tulsa. She’s not a Soc anymore. She’s just- she’s just Marcia.
She goes down to the drive-in for old-times sake. There’s a guy there with Cherry’s friend, that Ponykid or something. He’s real familiar. She’s drinking a bit, she’s bolder than usual, she gives him her number and tells him not to lose it this time. And he doesn’t.
I’m an optimist, so I like to think they’ll last. Not without ups and downs, of course. In fact, I think there’s a solid period where they spilt up. But they keep coming back to each other, and Two-Bit works hard to become what he feels she deserves.
Idk, they matter to me. They’re the excitement of sneaking into someone’s house through the window. They’re the fun of telling jokes back and forth. They’re that feeling of looking at someone and seeing they’re thinking what you’re thinking. Their whole world is an inside joke. She’s his uptown girl, he’s her downtown man. They’re just a lot of fun!
#the outsiders#the outsiders 1983#marbit#two bit mathews#marcia (the outsiders)#marcia x two bit#rambling#ask#ask game#mutuals :))#i like them a lot tl;dr#I’ve never written them not because I haven’t tried but b/c /i’m/ not on their wavelength and I can never quite get them right#I used to project on them /hard/ b/c I was going out w/ essentially a modern day Soc girl- y’know rich pretty popular type#while I was /me/- y’know drove a shitty car wore a lotta leather talked real tough lived downtown#and she n I clicked cos we had a similar humor too#anyhow that fell through she was a horrible girlfriend (I think she was well intentioned but yk bad at it)#and I was no saint either I’m sure#so it ended badly#but for a bit I lived the marbit dream#and it was real nice :)
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Do you think Vegeta and Bulma just had a one-night stand, or were they hooking up regularly? And once Vegeta found out Bulma was pregnant with his son, do you think they continued the relationship, or did they cut it off?
My headcanon has always been that it was a string of affairs that Vegeta was angry at himself for having every time he let himself be distracted by desire, but it probably only lasted a few months until Bulma found out she was pregnant.
(I very much enjoy the idea that she uses birth control and didn’t think anything of having some fun — but it’s just not effective against Saiyans even though that’s not really how birth control works. Just for the Parks and Rec “I warned you about this, standard birth control methods aren’t usually effective against a Swanson” brand of joke.)
I enjoy the idea that they had a gnarly argument and a falling out after Bulma told him and he had a deeply dispassionate response to it, and it was several months before they started interacting again. But I hc neither of them were interested in more trysts, and their relationship went back to being strictly professional with underlying concern for one another, however subtle those may have been (until Perfect Cell happened and Vegeta got Reality Checked real hard).
I think things got Very Real once the baby arrived and Vegeta spent even less time around them, to the point that Bulma knew he’d been working hard but had no idea where he was when the others gathered to greet the androids.
Part of my fondness for the birth control hc stems from it being a setup for another hc of mine — that she reformulated her birth control to be effective against a Saiyan after finding out she was pregnant, while Vegeta had assumed that aspect of their relationship was Over.
I am always entertained by the idea that a majority of Vegeta’s culture shock on Earth is things being so forgiving, when he’s from a culture of ‘Failure is Final.' Him having the expectation that this is also true of personal relationships — vs Bulma whose last and only serious relationship was on-again-off-again for Fifteen Years Straight.
I imagine their dynamic in this era is very V: I thought you wished I was dead. B: Yeah, but I don't want you to like, die, you know what I mean? V: V: No?
#Vegeta understands sarcasm but he doesn't understand Bulma#“God sometimes it feels like I'm talking to someone from another planet” “...You ARE.” They both get a learning curve. As a treat.#I know I say I have a comic in my head for everything but rest assured I have one for this too fjdjdj#I like to think there was a problem with the gravity room and Vegeta left and Dr b fixed it months later and called him to come back#Like “hey I fixed that thing you asked for the other day” but it was like 25 weeks ago#And comedy ensues but the tldr is that’s how he and Bulma start talking again because they’re both 🤝 “why are Bulma’s parents Like This”#dbtag#vegebul#headcanons
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people in the archaeology subreddit digging up the corpse of indiana jones again for the annual discourse. somehow seem to have forget the most important scene in the film if you’re critiquing his status as an academic
#like??? what????????? why bother discoursing about whether he’s an ethical practitioner if you don’t even remember we have MULTIPLE scenes#of him teaching. at least one student brings up the contemporary equivalent of a field school. he DID do normal archaeology#that’s just not what the movies are about bc they’re based more on pulp adventure novels#i’m so tired of the usual ‘he’s a bad archaeologist’ argument from people who don’t actually know a) what archaeology looked like in the 30s#or b) that dr jones is actually *remarkably ahead of his time* on certain topics. like not fuckin stealing grave goods#his real world contemporaries were openly engaging in the trafficking of artifacts if anything indiana jones is giving them a BETTER#reputation what with the actually not being a fascist. and at least nominally respecting local/descendant communities (depending on which#movie/writer we’re talking about)#if you know nothing about the history of the field you do NOT get to critique it#‘at least the people in jurassic park were actually paleontologists’ YEAH . IN THE 80S. INDIANA JONES IS A PERIOD PIECE#HES CHRONOLOGICALLY ACCURATE FOR MOST THINGS AND WILDLY ANACHRONISTIC *IN A BETTER WAY* FOR OTHERS
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oh no! by marina became a trinity and mel song for me at approximately 9:23a.m. in case anyone else would like worms in their brains and also ears
#i'm now becoming my own self fulfilled prophecy = trinity's loneliness & desire for connection making her desperate & clumsy in friendmaking#i know exactly why i walk and talk like a machine = mel. same energy as 'i have a fast metabolism & can function on very little sleep.'#AND same energy as 'sometimes i have an emotional response'/'i don't like it when it looks like i can't do something'#a) babygirl you are so real and b) i love you#dr trinity santos#dr melissa king#the pitt#AND WE CANNOT FORGET:#one track mind one track heart if i fail i fall apart (mel. hater of looking like she can't do something)#maybe it is all a test i feel like i'm the worst so i always act like i'm the best (HI TRINITY MI PRINCIPESSA HI COMEDY&SARCASM DEFENSE)
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to do or not to do is the question
#Fuckn depression meds is killing my appetite#It wasn’t so bat at the beginnings of the month#But now Ive gone a week with barely enough energy#No appetite means no food which means no energy whit h meeansb cloud head#Especially at the end of the month with no food money or other money#Sister is getting me a bag of chips and I can maybe make pizza maybe#B it my appetite hates chicken and rice and that’s an easy meal#I can’t even eat half a bowl before feeling like I going to be sick from the chicken and rice :(#This is big problem and I’m definitely going to talk to my Dr about it when I see her#Buh buh buh
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I forgor to post this sketch page of the A Major Chord </3
Anyways eat up lmao, this is them all in the Reflection canon, individuals below the cut





#Banesberry art#altoclef.exe#Guh me when Im posting about my canon#Dr Alto Clef#Agent Ukulele#francis wojciechowski#Chimera/Delta#Em-5#a major chord#Theres more in the system but these are like. The main 5 that well be talking about#Reflection#Reflection canon#scp#scp fanart#scp art#scp fandom#dr clef#alto clef#scp 4231 b#francis wojciechoski#scp doctors#scp dr clef#I have so much planned for this canon (it is the canon Im sourced from Im going off of source memories)#There is a custom organized playlist thats like 80 songs long heheheh#Chimera has wings btw Its kinda hard to see that though
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i just finished Spare Me Your Mercy and I have to say that the finale was really well done and i'm so glad we finally brought the focus back to the characters themselves and not just The Themes And Moral Debate. It just goes to show that the the show would have been even better if they'd put just a little more focus and effort on KanTew and the romance. I get why they didn't but they really really didn't have to do much!
I could literally pitch you a Spare Me Your Mercy update patch that would fix almost everything that was lacking in the middle of the series: just make Kan and Tew teenage sweethearts who broke up and went on to med school/being a cop in Bangkok. Whichever tumblr user had that idea originally was galaxy brained. like literally that's almost all it takes. Instantly there is more believable motivation for them to be both drawn to each other, as involved in each others business as they are, and for Tew to dismiss the idea that Kan's Doing Euthanasia until the reveal. Instantly more of an emotional connection. Add one or two thematic flashback scenes, MAYBE a half hour runtime added to the show's overall total including fleshing out their reintroduction and stuff, and BOOM. Done. Your show goes from a 7 to a 9. I wouldn't even change the ending.
#the ending really shot the show up my rankings but i still think this is the weakest Sammon show i've seen#or at least the least insanity inducing#but being the weakest sammon show like still puts you WAY up there let's be real#I still need Dr Bunn to show up and talk to Kan about medical ethics B T W i'm not letting that go#do you hear me Tul???? very disappointed in you and your happy real life that we didn't get this cameo!#spare me your mercy#smym
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dang-orange makes a list of characters he'd shake inside a glass jar:
i decided to be insane while i wait for the Methylphenidate pill to hit (i was thought to have adhd and still have some leftovers from trying to treat that) so i can study. so i made a list of what i think are kins? i refuse to look up what that actually means so im going by the context that a thousand years of reading tumblr posts on pintrest gave me.
Okay! so:
Kinger is a new one, he seems like such a funny silly guy who is kind of out of it, something i absolutely get! so he goes there.

Izzy Hands has been a cause of insanity for me since season one, but season two got me worse. what a funny fellow. i get the whole being a tryhard thing, and sort of losing it a bit over having to change your ways. havent had to eat own my toes, lost a leg or done drag while singing in french, so those things i just find amusing.

Peter B. Parker! what a funny guy, i didnt expect him to actually come back on the second spiderverse movie. being a cool mentor is something admirable i think, and the scene with aunt may made me spend way too many hours on ao3 as i thought that could have been more of a thing (in my head the movie would have done well as a series, more time to explore the really cool characters they had). Also: him being a version of spiderman ''were things didnt go well'' that doesnt go in a morbid direction is very baller.

Doctor Twobrains i only know of from fandom osmosis. i did watch the series as a kid, but i really cant remember shit. the rat brain is funny, and i love anything involving inventors with a theme (i had to fight myself a few too many times to not include doofenshmirtz). the manerisms and vibe are very silly, the excentricities vibe with me.

Agent Stone was the only reason i watched the sonic movie. i saw a trailer and thought, huh i dont think i remember ever seeing this fellow on anything sonic. turns out, he was a new character and very, very funny. what a guy! i can imagine going that far being a henchman. i, however, do have a deep hatred against the guy that does robotnick, so i havent seen much else other than the first film (that i very much pirated).
Pyro is such a mistery. they just burn things and act jolly, the whole pyroland thing is also so stupid. i mained him when i played tf2, but for now i just save fanart of her burning shit and think about how cool it'd be to have a full body suit, be unintelligible and get to burn stuff. absolute 10/10.
Hazel from The Umbrella Academy was fun while he lasted. The idea of being a time traveling mercenary and still getting shitty hotel rooms is hilarious to me. made me really want to get suspenders, but i dont think that'll happen.

Scar (from Hermitcraft) is such a chaotically silly guy. i wish i could pull that off. going from scam, to huge incredible creations, to changing allies on a dime, to playing games by any other rules than the ones stabilished? i wish i could do that! btw the fanart is by reddit user dead_cricket_ (i didnt want to use a minecraft skin but wanted to make sure that I AM TALKING ABOUT THE FANON CHARACTER NOT THE REAL DUDE THAT MAKES VIDEOS)

Elliot Gussman from The Umbrella Academy was also fun while he lasted. i also have some really, really weird paranoia problems and would act the same if i had alien strangers in my house. there isnt a lot of fandom stuff on him, as he's such a minor character, so i just juggle a few too many head canons on this silly guy.

Aziraphale. hehe. haha. im absolutely normal about this guy. being an angel and having the ideology of heaven hammered into your head, and complying with things you know you shouldnt because you know the consequences and that theres someone all-seeing always watching you? i get that 100%. Two other things: the constant forced smiles that are clearly unnatural and doing silly things you know you arent good at are also relatable.
i really like Abner Krill. this is so long already, but i just, really like him. i wish he didnt get killed, that movie is my favourite and i wish it could get a sequel. i'll be short on the whole thing by saying that being the weirdest one on a bunch of batman villans is very funny, and his powers are very fucked up in a cool way.
Oswald Cobblepot was the only reason i saw Gothan. him going from just a guy to.. The Penguin?? absolutely crazy. i really got the whole bit where he was getting higher on the crime scene by biting small bits and getting big results.
I could write 20.000 words on each of these, but this formatting is ass and i think the Methylphenidate is working (it's been a bit more than 40 minutes between writing and looking up images that werent so bad), so i should go study/work. if anyone wants me to go insane again, dont worry! i absolutelly will. i made an account here for a reason.
#tadc kinger#izzy hands#peter b parker#dr two brains#agent stone#tf2 pyro#hazel tua#gtwscar#elliot gussman#elliot gusman tua#aziraphale#abner krill#oswald cobblepot#jesus my eyes are burning but i feel so happy getting this out of my chest i have never written or talked about fandon with anyone#my hands are tingling with joy#kin list
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hm. after all this time i still get angry about this so i think it’s about time i make a comic about how i feel about personality disorders
#yapzone#i used to make comics about b/pd and even though i dont identify with that dx anymore and had it wiped from my record#the diagnosis did impact me in a PROFOUND way#tl;dr of my feelings is that a PD is majorly an excuse for a doctor that ignores your pain#or considers the source of it not enough to justify the way you cope#like. in retrospect i think some of the incredibly angry and unstable ways i reacted in relationships#were pretty justifiable considering how fucking awful it was to live in the world without the meds i’m on now#well. not ‘justifiable’ but it was understandable how i came to cope the way i did#of course the world feels unsafe and everything takes x3000 times the effort and the way people talk to you is unclear#and you’re pushed into being an outcast for reasons you can’t understand#like of course i get sent into a panic every time something bad happened in a relationship. i HAD to be hypervigilant.#i could only figure out facial expressions by looking at individual facial features and desperately clinging to tone#i had people say to me they think they have some symptoms of bpd and it’s like of course you do!!! of course you fucking do!#it is a trauma response that doctors deem you had no right to develop because they don’t believe you#and then make it a pathological problem#so every time you have a relapse you go down the pit x10 more because you just got dx’d with Bad Person Disorder#like fuck!!!!! fuck!!!!!!!#it was all bullshit and i should’ve known when my psych who diagnosed me said that ‘people outgrow this disorder’#THEN IS IT A DISORDER ? why do we treat people with a cluster B dx like they’re just bad people who are like that#idk for fun?#it’s dehumanizing. it’s a great way to say ‘it’s hard to treat this patient and i don’t like their tone so they’re just fucked for#some reason. throw them in inpatient’#idk i think we should notice how some of these PD’s very easily are explained by other dx’s but doctors are like#‘nah you’re [minority] you can’t have that you’re just irrational’#i don’t knowwwew i don’t knowww!!!!#the programs they put me in to treat my bpd made me so much worse and ruined my relationships with people because#the whole message was just ‘you’re inherently irrational and can’t trust yourself in any way’#so i never learned to communicate. i learned to keep everything down and let people walk over me. i gave them that permission by saying#oh no i have bpd im irrational my feelings dont matter. you’re fine you can never do anything wrong to me#and if im upset with you and i dont like you and if you make me feel unsafe then that’s my problem i need to fix
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intense urge to ramble about my job hmmmmmmmmm
#i just love talking if i’m for real#i also do love my job i guess#kid at work called me a dr uhm! girl i wish!!!!!!! b#val’s thoughts 💭
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Currently thinking about how my hometown has a mental health facility used to house... well, the website says criminals found not guilty "for reasons of insanity" instead of criminally insane but that's mainly a wording thing
and this mental health facility has been around since the early days of the town
and has gone through quite a handful of different directors over the years
and has done clinical trials of new drugs for the government
and at least once as a kid they had to keep us inside at recess because someone broke out and was on the run
and has local rumors about it being haunted that are popular with teens
Somehow I went most of life without connecting the dots that I had a real life "version" of Arkham literally on the other side of town until recently
Just. What.
#b talks#arkham asylum#annnnnd bonus! I'm from a suburb of one of the many places dc likes to occasionally inspire gotham on#batman#but yeah. in a different world those patients are the rogues#and not just your average mentally ill criminals#anyway. wild#i don't think it's had the corruption though? can't really tell#haven't heard anything at least#and THANKFULLY no dr arkhams or stranges (or even cranes or quinzels) coming out of it#gotham
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i think one of my professors has realized that many of the students he teaches think he's a bit of a hardass. i feel so bad. he's genuinely such a sweetheart. he's spent the last two classes dropping comments like "please don't think i'm a sadist. if you're doing this project and thinking 'this is inhumane, but you know Dr. M', please, just come talk to me." like wtf i need to give a speech about how great a guy he is???? i genuinely need to give a persuasive speech about how fun his classes are??? like he's a pain at times and a tough grader but look at me. look at me. he's so reasonable. he has high expectations for everybody evenly. I got a 78 on a final that i thought i absolutely flunked okay? he's reasonable and he's funny in the driest way! it's not nice for people to think he's MEAN. he's not!!! he's just an awkward english professor!!!! be NICE to him FROM NOW ON!!!!
#psychoanalyzing my professor#i think it's getting to him#and i feel horrible#because the first semester i had him i literally thought he was so evil#he's NOT#in fact he's way less evil than a professor everybody likes because he's way more comfy talking to a class#dr m is NOT comfy with public speaking but genuinely he's so nice#he's a tough grader but do you know what he doesn't do????#expect more than you can give!!!#he wants everything from you but when you give everything its gonna be FINE!!!#and yeah on the tests and stuff he wants what he says repeated back to him but if you pay attention and think clearly about it its going to#dont give him more than exactly what he asks for#only bs if you have no clue whatsoever#you'll do FINE#lowest grade i've gotten on a test from him was a B-#and like. im proud of that!!!#Also when he wants things he's really good at explaining what it is he wants to see#also he's so insanely smart it scares me#anyways#there are many benefits to attending a catholic college
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✨noping out✨ of an awkward situation li k e
#(nansu’s mona interview was too cute so i *need* to laugh at lxl to end the night normally im not sorry—)#tonight’s dance is fiancé!!!!!!!!! the camera angles are a thing of beauty in this one y’all h a v e to watch it if you can#ok that’s enough of lxl i can see the gif past the tags anyway so. well~~~~~~~#anyways!!!! the mona interview!!!! the tl;dr of it is basically just nansu talking about mona’s 2nd album + the concert#and how the concert came about (long story short: she said ‘i wanna perform live as mona!’ to the staff in passing and her wish was granted)#***if i didnt read it wrong that is… um. proper tl this weekend if i have the energy i promise~~~~~#yk what since it’s just 2 pages in total i might as well tl the entire thing. it’s not as wordy as some of the past lxl + ft4 interviews so.#since her concert’s on saturday too… aaaaaaaa i wanna go~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~#mona live >>>>>>> lxl live you agree y/y—#only reason to look forward to lxl’s live is for the lxltwt fanartists’ drawings of the performance btw#bc m a n. they actually manage to make the dances seem decent (if only in the form of exquisite drawings)#the spell of the fanartists is lifted the moment the actual lxl dances break free from containment though lmao#i still recall having high expectations of tsuki no hime’s dance thanks to the fanart… then i saw *it*.#b u t since mona’s live will have songs from both albums im expecting lxl’s live to be the same in that regard#at the very least last stage and oshimahou should get dances… i think#i hope they actually do the heart poses in oshimahou though bc that’d be hilariously cringe (and suki.kirai already did it better no cap)#o k that’s enough lxl for one night gnnnnnnnn~~~~ see y’all tomorrow afternoon for a possible mona concert twt!!!!
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going into the very system that wasn’t built for us to change it from the inside is so tired. as soon as someone gets into these positions of power, it’s an immediate switch up of language, morals and politics. like why would you want to hold that kind of power over the very people that power is against? and now you’re there doing absolutely nothing about it, but spewing “ceasefire!” tweets as a politician. knowing that a ceasefire is not the solution, but a permanent end to the genocide and giving Palestinians, Tigrayans, Sudanese and Congolese people their land and resources back.
#free palestine#palestine#free congo#free sudan#deleted the last post b/c the martyred woman was a fake account!#gaza#justice for palestine#free gaza#justice for palestinians#congo genocide#dr congo#keep eyes on sudan#sudan crisis#free tigray#tigray genocide#save tigray#we need to start popping bullets#im talking revolution
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truly something that, amidst facing / going through a dramatic Life Change ft. unavoidable emotional effects of that, there are instances where i can't conceal any & all degrees of being distressed / upset, & repeatedly getting "it's hard for me too" as a Direct Response to that: really something & a half how the asserted theoretical Sympathy of [i feel similarly!] is invoked so as to, oh you know, preclude sympathetic Treatment. such as that what would be More sympathetic in these instances would be to say Nothing, "if there's nothing but dismissal / making it first & foremost about someone else's feelings to say, don't say it at all" style
#reading also that original Lovelessness essay ''love is meant to make me human / love is also the mechanism by which my humanity#has been denied'' always preferring to have [sorry! couldn't fully bottle up this Emotiona externally manifesting at all!] Ignored rather#than ''nicely'' interacted with so as to Invalidate; Dismiss; someone's annoyed at you for having it; etc#for bonus context like we are not in the same boat with it.#not a case of ''the same situation; mine is worse though'' like no; fundamentally different situations here lmao. mine is worse#If You Feel So Bad. Or At All. then at least now do me the favor of Not Saying That; Repeatedly#their feelings put on me too in other ways. stewing resentment into lashing out; tossing out ''but i'm justified'' like ok! Your business!!#the ol like. If You're Going To Do Something Anyways then how you justify it to yourself is Your business / b/w you & your god as they say#& the last thing to do is be making it the problem of ppl Most Affected by what you're gonna do anyways & Also ask their Absolution.....#like if you need more moral support abt What You're Doing Anyways: turn to Anyone Else. even No One if you have to.#bit going tf through it when it's spilling over into Posting but such is life!! we all have that [the horrors. girl help] blogger on dash#again the tl;dr like oh you don't say. the [umm but have you considered? My Feelings! (they're so sympathetic at all. yor welcome)] is#the mechanism through which Really basic sympathy is being denied & replaced with [Saying Nothing would've been less hurtful]#misgendering me the other night too while Also all 'hey I'm trying to talk to the customer service. why are You going up & talking first'#(that was me experiencing the latter. i didn't say it but i was like cmon. my glasses are fogging up w/surgical mask (don't have access to#more effective masks so doing what Nonzero i can there) i'm a bit carsick i'm weathering a crisis. can i have anything here lol)#just Oh You Know. The Horrors....#balancing ofc trying to endure trying to self soothe etc etc. with ''it's the horrors. it's gonna be horrific & you're gonna be affected''#ah the [being kind to oneself] like also means knowing how reasonable it is to Not solo contain & endure & Cope Through everything....#crushing a paper cup in my hands genuinely i would like to generously thank my virtual allies out here today. mic feedback#irl In Real Life? life is Real asf here & nobody Realer than them
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