#don't kink shame me!

[diospore]

I'm just saying if you're writing smut featuring trans people and you find yourself ONLY writing pre-op transmen as receiving penetration. ONLY writing your transmen as submissive.

You should really take a step back and think about why this is.

Also consider including trans people who have gotten bottom surgery. I'd like to see more of that. Or transmen using straps. That'd be cool too thanks.

[elvensorceress]

random wednesday morning buddie thoughts that are completely normal to have

I am so confused by the statement that Buck could not ever Dom and would just fall apart and cry about attempting to do it and then beg to be the good little sub. And also about the "Eddie Diaz is Brat Tamer Extraordinaire Always Only and Forever."

Because the most blatant example of them playing D/s games right out in the open, at work, in front of our salads, and IN CANON?? is the Jinx, clipboard, cHECK! scene. Where they are definitely pretending clipboard!Buck is in charge and calling the shots and Eddie is amused and playing along and not the one "taming." You know?

Like are we really saying Fire Marshal Clipboard Menace Buck Buckley wouldn't like to play pretend that he gets to order someone around and be in charge? At least a portion of the time?

This clipboard!Buck???

Also my best friend, pettybitch!Eddie Diaz, deserves to be given orders he gets to ignore and say "fuck that" to. Like you're going to tell him he doesn't ever get to be The Brat?? Pettiest bitchiest snarkiest Eddie Diaz???

That's sad. That's a very sad sad world there. : (

Look at him. He wants to disobey and be obnoxious and cunty so bad! And then also told he's good (and not a failure and not a bad anything 😭) Also he never lets himself have nice good things. He deserves all the fun good things.

I mean obviously they switch, they're versatile, that's their thing, they trade and take care of each other, and Buck absolutely needs to be told he's a Very Good Boy. No hate or shade here if you prefer it a certain way. You like what you like.

But idk. Y'all confuse me 🤣

[rvspecter]

[missanthropicprinciple]

no one:

me: *goes feral for Terry-Thomas in sock garters*

exhibit A:

[aizawaondrugs]

@rayshippouuchiha : posts something I have absolutely no idea about in a fandom I've never been part of

Me, absolutely not specifically seven crows in a disguise, still finding it relatable/shiny:

Also here's my cat holding still for a picture after I told her it was for Ray (betrayal lol she never does that for anyone else):

[songbirdstew]

My doctor warned me that, even though he would be perfectly happy to perform a hysterectomy if that's what I decide, and he would gladly do it today, no problem, the insurance company probably won't cover it until we prove to them we've tried a million other things first. He submitted the request just to start a paper trail, and guess what

There's a whole list of reasons. The one that's getting me the most is, they want my uterine lining to be tested to rule out other disorders. And I'm like.... if there's a disorder in my uterus. Taking out my uterus will solve it. In one go. and save your company so much money. But sure, if you want to pay for several procedures and tests and treatments first, be my fuckin guest. 👍

As my doctor predicted, another reason for the denial is that my iron levels are acceptable. He had me get a blood draw before I left the office on our first meeting, saying if I were anemic, the insurance company is more likely to approve all surgeries without further requirements. And then called me with the results, "Bad news, your iron is fine!" So the next time I'm due for a full blood count, I'll just stop taking my iron supplement for a few days and we'll see what happens. 👍

The other thing that is the most frustrating I think, is that all the other things they want are time consuming and invasive. They can't just take my word for it, not when there's a UTERUS on the line! A Uterus that would be incapable of carrying a pregnancy to term, because of the fibroids, which are the reason I want it taken out. I can't possibly know what's good for me, so just keep sticking a camera up my vagina until you agree with me. 👍

Just 👍👍👍 all around

Wait, I've been using the wrong digit 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕

[witheredgardenparty]

Every now and then I see the discourse circulate on this hellsite, and I wonder if people know that the term 'yandere' used to have an extremely specific definition that no longer holds up to how people use it today

[abearinthewoods]

This is what radical feminists do when you don't agree that 100% of men jerk off to rape.

@radfemih8men Care to fucking explain yourself? (edit: she did, in the comments. long story, she confirmed it and thinks two wrongs make a right)

>mentions the darknet. 100% needs to have her hard drive check out.

Anyways, report this convo to the police, saying this kind of thing to a 13 year old is actually a sex offense PURELY ON ITS OWN in a lot of places.

[blown-blooms]

You like Coyle and want him to dominate you. I like Coyle and want to kill him with hammers. We are not the same.

[amanitacurses]

Thanks to the person who warned me about a user (who sent a seemingly innocuous ask, but I'm not sure now) being infamous for some questionable things, I'm not active in that fandom so I had no idea. My SO did a brief sweep of their account and didn't find any blatant red flags (did find one thing that was uncomfy to us, but wasn't necessarily bad). But I appreciate being told, and I see their asks in a new light now so I just deleted any asks from them and that's that.

Now addressing general followers, please if you recognize someone as being infamous for sending kink adjacent requests (that has sent an ask I replied to) please just warn me in clear language so I can be aware and look into it

[duskier]

Hi, gorgeous! I'm here with questions regarding boundaries and how we interact with the blog. First and foremost, is there anything you'd like us to refrain from sending in? Any topics or dynamics you dislike and would prefer we don't bring up? Secondly, do you mind people sending in porn links (as long as there's warnings that that's what they are)? And lastly and more self-indulgently, are you still writing for sub/dubconned!Simon? I always really really enjoyed your take on it and I've never found another writer that wrote similarly about him lol. Thank you so much!!

Ignore the fact I'm about ten years late answering this very considerate ask !! Thank you for asking for boundaries and all :)

I won't post the following: ageplay, faux/incest, race "play", stuff regarding body fluids that aren't blood, spit, or cum (occasional piss but that is RARE for me) I don't like posting concepts where only one character is genderbent making a het coupling (queer superiority!!! (kidding... kinda...)) - This isn't me shaming anyone for what they like (except race play actually block me if you like that ty) it just isn't to my taste. There is also probably more I'm not a fan of writing or receiving asks on but that's all I can think of right now! (Also I would HOPE this goes without saying but nothing glorifying/sexualizing animal or minors sexual abuse, that is an immediate block.)

I am not a fan of receiving porn links unless I'm able to verify the person in the video's age. I don't consume it in my personal life unless directly from paid content creators due to both being an online nsfw content creator myself as well as abuse in the industry of both minors and adults. So.. if it is from a content creator directly promoting their work, sure!! Otherwise, I would prefer not.

Yes I love and adore Ghost being a sub and also yes I love writing/interacting with ideas of Ghost getting dubconned ofc <3 the brain juices just haven't been flowing recently tis all! I welcome any ideas people may have festering in their noggins.

[pregtboy]

cant stop thinking about a cute young first-time pregnant dad being mentored by a very experienced thicc round dilf whos been pregnant back to back for years

[daisyschains]

Did I spend part of today using my powers to force lesbians to make direct eye contact in a sexual situation?

Yes.

Yes I did.

[zeroducks-2]

"Why are ships so policed, why isn't fandom allowed to be fun anymore 😢🙄😞" says the person with DNI IF YOU SHIP INCEST AND PEDOPHILIA!! in their bio.

[fireworkss-exe]

I will never accept my own sexuality I will always be ashamed of myself and take that anger out on other people

[datamodel-of-disaster]

I regularly find myself typing some absolutely vile nsft stuff on here, and then immediately backpedaling because I know the majority of the people in the fandom I'm in are... not here for that.

It's a struggle.

I'm horny in dubious ways and also would like to not completely alienate this tiny community that I'm already only barely tolerated in?