#don't kink shame me!

[rvspecter]

[missanthropicprinciple]

no one:

me: *goes feral for Terry-Thomas in sock garters*

exhibit A:

[aizawaondrugs]

@rayshippouuchiha : posts something I have absolutely no idea about in a fandom I've never been part of

Me, absolutely not specifically seven crows in a disguise, still finding it relatable/shiny:

Also here's my cat holding still for a picture after I told her it was for Ray (betrayal lol she never does that for anyone else):

[blown-blooms]

You like Coyle and want him to dominate you. I like Coyle and want to kill him with hammers. We are not the same.

[abearinthewoods]

This is what radical feminists do when you don't agree that 100% of men jerk off to rape.

@radfemih8men Care to fucking explain yourself? (edit: she did, in the comments. long story, she confirmed it and thinks two wrongs make a right)

>mentions the darknet. 100% needs to have her hard drive check out.

Anyways, report this convo to the police, saying this kind of thing to a 13 year old is actually a sex offense PURELY ON ITS OWN in a lot of places.

[amanitacurses]

Thanks to the person who warned me about a user (who sent a seemingly innocuous ask, but I'm not sure now) being infamous for some questionable things, I'm not active in that fandom so I had no idea. My SO did a brief sweep of their account and didn't find any blatant red flags (did find one thing that was uncomfy to us, but wasn't necessarily bad). But I appreciate being told, and I see their asks in a new light now so I just deleted any asks from them and that's that.

Now addressing general followers, please if you recognize someone as being infamous for sending kink adjacent requests (that has sent an ask I replied to) please just warn me in clear language so I can be aware and look into it

[duskier]

Hi, gorgeous! I'm here with questions regarding boundaries and how we interact with the blog. First and foremost, is there anything you'd like us to refrain from sending in? Any topics or dynamics you dislike and would prefer we don't bring up? Secondly, do you mind people sending in porn links (as long as there's warnings that that's what they are)? And lastly and more self-indulgently, are you still writing for sub/dubconned!Simon? I always really really enjoyed your take on it and I've never found another writer that wrote similarly about him lol. Thank you so much!!

Ignore the fact I'm about ten years late answering this very considerate ask !! Thank you for asking for boundaries and all :)

I won't post the following: ageplay, faux/incest, race "play", stuff regarding body fluids that aren't blood, spit, or cum (occasional piss but that is RARE for me) I don't like posting concepts where only one character is genderbent making a het coupling (queer superiority!!! (kidding... kinda...)) - This isn't me shaming anyone for what they like (except race play actually block me if you like that ty) it just isn't to my taste. There is also probably more I'm not a fan of writing or receiving asks on but that's all I can think of right now! (Also I would HOPE this goes without saying but nothing glorifying/sexualizing animal or minors sexual abuse, that is an immediate block.)

I am not a fan of receiving porn links unless I'm able to verify the person in the video's age. I don't consume it in my personal life unless directly from paid content creators due to both being an online nsfw content creator myself as well as abuse in the industry of both minors and adults. So.. if it is from a content creator directly promoting their work, sure!! Otherwise, I would prefer not.

Yes I love and adore Ghost being a sub and also yes I love writing/interacting with ideas of Ghost getting dubconned ofc <3 the brain juices just haven't been flowing recently tis all! I welcome any ideas people may have festering in their noggins.

[pregtboy]

cant stop thinking about a cute young first-time pregnant dad being mentored by a very experienced thicc round dilf whos been pregnant back to back for years

[zeroducks-2]

"Why are ships so policed, why isn't fandom allowed to be fun anymore 😢🙄😞" says the person with DNI IF YOU SHIP INCEST AND PEDOPHILIA!! in their bio.

[fireworkss-exe]

I will never accept my own sexuality I will always be ashamed of myself and take that anger out on other people

[datamodel-of-disaster]

I regularly find myself typing some absolutely vile nsft stuff on here, and then immediately backpedaling because I know the majority of the people in the fandom I'm in are... not here for that.

It's a struggle.

I'm horny in dubious ways and also would like to not completely alienate this tiny community that I'm already only barely tolerated in?

[i-appear-misssing]

I just had the horrible thought that I need to fall in love because having devastating crushes on beautiful, competent, authoritative women that I desperately want to please is exhausting and I need it to stop

[whoviandoodler]

Just finished SVSSS and I have many conflicting thoughts about it, but really it comes down to liking all the details and themes that were wonderfully done/redone/expanded upon in MDZS and TGCF but disliking the story itself

[count-doodoo]

idk if this is a hot take or not but i would literally rather everyone just throw all their insults and criticisms of me at my face. like i'd rather just know. a) so i can fix the problems and b) because the not knowing drives me bonkers (what if everyone hates me, a social anxiety story. but seriously what if everyone hates me tho--). getting notes like "sorry to bother you but this thing you've been doing has been really annoying for awhile" is legit The Worst because we could've fixed that!!! i would've tried to do better if i'd known!!! i don't ever claim to be a good person, let alone a perfect person, but i do /try/ to be better!!! (but then again no one would be /wrong/ to assume that me attempting things scarcely results in success so like)

[wehangout]

My last attempt at Kinktober went off, so let's see if we can rock Kinktober 2024! I plan to post daily and humbly ask you beautiful souls for requests. I have a handful of days that are currently undecided and could be yours!

Prompt list

Dialogue list

[vgbndangel]

I really don't understand cheating. Like at all.

More than sex (le gasp), I value emotional intimacy in a relationship. Being able to trust someone with everything. Caring about how they feel and how your actions affect them (and being cared about the same way in return).

Lying and hurting your partner for cheap thrills (or for anything honestly) fundamentally doesn't make any sense to me.

Consensually with all parties enthusiastically agreeing?

It still wouldn't ever be me... I'm too possessive to be happy sharing a partner. And in a committed relationship I don't want anyone else. Whichever side, I would just hate every minute of it 💀

I'm not here to shame anyone though~ Just (very) late night thoughts.