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@pyrotechnicarus was right, that tv can fucking glow.
#i saw the tv glow#isttvg#the set design dude#the world is just decaying around Owen as they’re dying from the inside out#everything starts losing color and we stop seeing Owen out in the bright sunlight#the only shot that’s there that’s nice and bright and wonderful is the one of maddys burial spot#the split second pause after the drive thru worker calls Owen sir#like it was just physically painful to hear and they needed a second#the fact they just start apologizing for having a breakdown but there’s still time and they shouldn’t be doing that#they phrase it as needing to become a man but really all they’re doing is killing themself slowly over time#i 100% read Maddy and Owen/Isabel and Tara as t4t love where one of them was ready to come out and move on with their life while the other#is too scared to ever change and is stuck in an endless loop of being something they’re not#Owen has the personality of wet grass but that’s the entire point#being too scared to ever be anything more than what is expected and just rotting over years and year and just hating yourself all the while#I love the part where Owen can’t verbalize why exactly their romantic attraction feels wrong#it’s wrong because they’re trans and can’t incision a life as Owen but can’t say out loud that it’s being perceived as a male in#a relationship that is the problem#the jab the dad makes about pink opaque being a girl’s show and how the dad is the one to drag Owen away from freedom in the tv#he’s holding Owen back but they’re so fucking scared to live as Isabel and are just stuck in a cycle of self loathing#but there’s still time#the reason Maddy/Tara doesn’t come back is because there is still time#but Owen has to be the one to commit to being Isabel and no one else is going to drag them into the dirt#it’s their choice alone and their inaction is a choice all on its own#no matter how much time passes as long as Owen is alive then there is still time to change but their inaction is slowly killing them#the fact they find the truth in their own chest dude that’s such a trans thing#where the fuck is my insurance card I’m calling my doctor to start t when the offices open#THERES STILL TIME MAN#THERES STILL TIME
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listen. as much as I know (and love) that this doctor who special was v much trans rights save lives in the very blatant way that leaves no room for doubt for any wilful misinterpretation with the erasure of transness from the narrative esp in the terf supreme climate which was very necessary and important, and as much as I understand that dw is abt logical reasoning things making sense in a very (emphasis on very) abstracty hand-wavey way and you'd come up blank if you try to get into specifics ... i have just one question.
why did Donna and Rose Noble tell the doctor "we just let it go. you wouldn't understand as a male-presenting doctor." like.. that bit truly ???? me and I just didn't understand like... what does. male-presenting have to do w anything.. I am genuinely asking. i get the logic of the rest of the things: Donna passed down the metacrisis (sp? it's been years since doctordonna ep so I'm rusty) thingy to rose so they're both able to be share the weight of it without dying.. is it the extra regeneration energy theyre able to let go without any hassle? that's such a skill issue for a male-presenting doctor? ... if that then,, why so? what does being male-presenting have to do w anything is. my question. bc the logic is supposed to be handwavey I know.. but that part just puzzled me like is there some secret caveat I'm not getting?
#im genuinely asking bc my memory of the whole doctordonna thing is very rusty its been YEARS.#and i like the handwavey logic of dw dont get me wrong. this bit just made things confusing for me like there's a caveat or smth#that is a skill issue for a doctor and if so.. why foes it have to do w male-presenting like i don't get it...#like the doctor too is trans all the way w gender funkery and so is rose so like... what is it that#a female-presentkng doctor would get that a male-presenting doctor wouldn't?#if anything i'd even say that fourteen is WAAY more emotionally adjusted than thirteen ever was lmao#she was the king of repression and roiling buried frustration at all times who never dealt with her problems and always let then fester —#you wanna tell me as female-presenting SHE would Get It abt 'Letting Things Go'?? LOL. LMAO EVEN.#but truly what was that line about. bc its the only wrench in the logic that makes me. not get the handwavey logic still.#doctor who#the star beast#edit: gotta fckin LOVE typos in tags that shit isn't confusing at fucking ALL!! 🙄
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I get that they were probably trying to go for some kind of girl power thing, but "It's a shame you're not a woman anymore" just makes me feel like I'm watching the Doctor experience a microaggression. He does not control the speed at which the gender changes?? Leave them alone.
#really does not help that the subsequent reasoning is vaguely gender essentialist#dw spoilers#doctor who#you know bc all women have a mysterious intuition or superior emotional intelligence that All Men Would Never Understand or some such shit#'you'd never understand bc you're male presenting at the moment' <- cannot even begin to unpack the problems with that#like if you're REALLY trying to Get Nonbinary With It maybe you could have thought about The Implications for a moment or two longer?#should have thought about The Rammys bro
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"Transmasculine people who claim to be adversely affected by sexism are bioessentialists cloaked in progressive language, discrimination on the basis of ""biological sex"" isn't real!"
Oh right, sorry. I forgot that sexism in medical research means that endometriosis, ME/CFS, migraines, post-concussive syndrome, Raynaud's phenomenon, and so many other conditions are only understudied in women. Of course endometriosis For Men™, ME/CFS For Men™, migraines For Men™, post-concussive syndrome For Men™, Raynaud's phenomenon For Men™, etc., are all well-funded fields of research and totally understood. Medical research cares only about the gender of an individual patient, not the association of a condition with people of a certain gender. Patriarchal devaluation of women's health, women's illnesses being treated as fundamentally hysteric, and (peri)cissexist reductions of any individual to the reproductive system(s) they were born with clearly only affect people whose gender is woman, nobody else.
Wilfully ignorant motherfuckers.
#HOW can you rightfully argue that sexism is systemic#and ALSO claim that it only affects people according to their self-identified rather than socially-assigned gender.#i do not know how to explain to you that structural oppression has both personal and impersonal modalities#my own post wow#sorry for the heavy sarcasm this is just so fucking deeply frustrating#anyone who is sufficiently proximal to woman-ness gets caught up in this is it truly not difficult to understand#was my [conditions] being brushed aside medical sexism when i ID'ed as a girl but now that i ID as nonbinary the same dismissal is not#the same dismissal is not related to the fact that doctors still see me as basically-a-woman#a personal in a ''female body''#with Women's Health problems#obviously this is still fucking sexism!#and also obviously trans women experience a shitton of medical sexism!#they are not immune to ME/CFS or migraines or whatever just bc doctors see them as ''male bodied''!!!#they are gonna face the same ''i think this is all in your head'' sexist hysteric-woman bullshit!#but like. claiming that transmascs who arent women cant possibly face sexism just means you will not look at how sexism actually functions#fuck. cis men with migraines are still fucked by the sexist lack of research into a condition that so disproportionally disables women#this is not new. nothing I'm saying is new.
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ok so given everything went well the the Bride’s Reanimation what exactly did Dan decide to do? Because while he did agree to her creation with the agreement that she would be his replacement Meg, she’s not she has a different brain and based on what we saw a different personality what will Dan’s reaction be if she’s not what he originally wanted? Will he get discontent and look for happiness elsewhere like he did with Herbert? Will he resent her for not being Meg? Even if she was similar enough for him there’s no guarantee that she would love him back, which is extremely understandable since he is essentially her parent. What if the Bride just isn’t into Dan at all and just wants a dad? Will he leave? Will he blame her? Will he blame Herbert? Will he just lose it and try to inflict harm (he’s not emotionally stable especially not when it comes to romance) I’m kinda curious to know what will happen
#Overall the sci-fi move genre(?) of male doctors/scientists creating women in order to cure the guilt they feel for playing a role#In a lover’s death is its whole own thing and can say a lot about bodily autonomy and gender roles being projected onto the creation#Because at the end of the day these creatures are being created with the very specific goal of fulfilling a specific role#That the doctor thinks he needs in his life/overall being there to be a particular thing to the doctor#And never once does he actually stop the think about the ramifications of his actions and the effects it can have on him and his creation#Like what if it doesn’t make the creature happy? What if they can’t do it right and make him resentful? The never think#Actually this isn’t even just about creating women(or what is supposed to be a woman)#All doctors in media we see creating artificial life do it with the very express purpose that the creature will fulfill a perfect role#The perfect wife or or son or lover#Whatever this role is they all have specific thoughts on how the creature should act and want to enforce that onto them#Also let’s not even get into the problem of creating a creature specifically to be your lover because the consent there is dubious at best#Because do they have the minds of children at first? Even if not they owe you a great deal for creating them is that leveraged#Overall the whole “making a person without conception” is such an intriguing story device I could probably write an essay on this shit#Anyway rant over if you made it this far thanks for caring#reanimator#herbert west#bride of reanimator#dan cain
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Me when someone says some dumb shit about my medical issues
#“You wouldn't have to go to the hospital because you were so weak your legs gave out if you just watched your weight”#GOOD SIR??#I am 5'7 and 160 lbs how much skinnier must I be??#Damn I didn't know that being curvy (cause that's what I am. I have a curvy figure) was directly related to chronic insomnia#We learn something new every day#And not to hate on men but IT'S ALWAYS A MAN WHO SAYS IT#I HAVE STRUGGLED YEARS JUST TO GET A DIAGNOSIS FOR MY SHIT BECAUSE DUMBASS MALE DOCTORS CLAIM#“Oh if you just lost some weight *insert problem here* would be solved!”#IM LITERALLY A VEGETARIAN#I EAT HEALTHIER THAN 99% OF THE PEOPLE IN THIS COUNTRY JUST BECAUSE MOST OF MY DIET IS VEGETABLES AND TOFU#ANY WEIGHT I'M GONNA LOSE I'VE ALREADY LOST#IF JUST LOSING WEIGHT WAS THE PROBLEM DONT YOU THINK I WOULD HAVE SOLVED IT ALREADY??#INSTEAD OF SPENDING THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS ON HOSPITAL AND DOCTORS VISITS?#IM CONSTANTLY BROKER THAN I SHOULD BE BECAUSE THE HEALTH CARE IN THIS COUNTRY IS SHIT#IF THERE WAS AN EASIER OPTION I WOULD HAVE DONE IT ALREADY#I DONT LIKE BEING SICK DURING WHAT'S SUPPOSED TO BE THE PRIME OF MY LIFE#woah okay rant over#sorry for the rant#I don't like to complain but people say dumb shit when I'm not even talking to them#medical issues
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Thinking about the time Tumblr was convinced "Nurse" was an inherently abusive position that only the meanest and nastiest of high school girls take up so they can have power over vulnerable disabled people, and then forgot that nurses face more physical violence in the workplace than any other profession and get paid dirt. During a pandemic, when every week there was a news article about Covid Deniers attacking ER nurses with chairs.
#I'm not saying the healthcare system can't be abusive#but it's abusive because it's a system and systems are open to abuse#I've been treated like shit by doctors way more than by nurses but I didn't see any posts talking about how all doctors were mean in school#Also very interesting no one was talking about male nurses and how they have an inherent lust to abuse patients#And nobody was willing to acknowledge the horrible way we treat nurses and the non-existent value we place on their work#like it's just misogyny guys#like maybe it's healthcare being an unfair power dynamic that's the problem and not women in general
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Can't imagine ever feeling bad about being single when Reddit exists. Today in cis het men are hot garbage.
Tw for traumatic childbirth, medical trauma, coercion, gaslighting and medical abuse and fucking troglodyte manchild of a husband. Jesus fucking Christ.
#the fact that people are made to push their babies out while flat on their backs will never not be appalling to me#the natural birth position is squatting or on all fours#what the fuck is wrong with western medicine#if i ever have a baby I'd be torn between having it at home with a midwife‚ which honestly feels less scary‚#or a hospital where i can get an epidural because i am really pain averse#my doctor friend says she tries to discourage epidurals because in her experience something always ends up going wrong#the pain is supposed to be a signifier of what to do#and how and when to push#it's unlikely to be a problem for me bc i'm divorced ace disabled and poor#i can't imagine being able to afford a child even though i really want one#still. the patient is the expert on their own body. this rule should be iron clad when it comes to pregnancy and birthing#i think being against cis male gynaecologists is too radfem but then stuff like this happens#obviously cis female gynos and nurses can also be horrible but this kind of numbskullery might be not as common#cis het men are a goddamn plague jfc#knee of huss#r/relationships#reddit
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Do medical professionals just have to do that? Do they have a quota against trans people?
#venting steam#WHAT IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM#MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL REAL SHIT WITH TWO PRACTICING NURSES IN THE ROOM#MISGENDERS ME#SPOUSE CORRECTS THEM REPEATEDLY#LOUDLY#MALE DOCTOR#WALKS OVER TO THEM#'Need to get correct information. nothing to get upset about'#MY BROTHER IN CHRIST#YOU LEAVE AND NOW IM IN TEARS#WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM
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I fucking hate men I fucking hate men I fucking HATE MEN its always male doctors that do this!! Always!! They don’t listen to anyone, even other doctors, they make assumptions as soon as they even see your goddamn name and then waste your goddamn time. They are so fucking stupid. This man. I went in for an EGD AND a colonoscopy to look at EVERYTHING including signs of celiac disease but also yknow just in case there’s anything else wrong with me AND HE DIDNT EVEN LOOK AT THE CILIA. THATS WHAT I WENT IN FOR IN THE FIRST PLAAAAACE and he was like yeah theres no sighs of infection or weird bacteria ur perfectly healthy ur just constipated and ur stomach is getting upset bc ur constipated. Like broooo lmao lmao okayyyy yeah I’m having severe reactions to foods for no goddamn reason even when my entire system is empty lol makes sense hahaha lol bro come on I shitted my guts out and went under for nothiiiiing and ALSO it’s a 20,000 dollar procedure that my insurance SHOULD cover but its like not going through so that’s so funny that’s like soooo funny hahaha lololol XD I’m laughing so hard right nowwwww heee heee hahaaaa :) hehe!
#unsanitary mention#HEEHEEHAAHAAHOOHOO#btw I say this is always male doctors BECAUSE IT IS. I’ve only had one instance of a woman doctor brushing me off and making assumptions#like yeah I know it happens but it’s waaaay more often with male doctors. they just think they know everything before they even do anything#every woman I’ve seen about this problem thus far has been nothing but concerned and kind and helpful#the woman who ordered the procedures was like yeah we’ll order both an egd and colonoscopy just to make sure there’s nothing else too#like damn ok she wants to be thorough ig#but that kinda backfired ig bc the guy paid attention to everything but the cilia. like. lolllll fuck me ig#sorry I mean villi whatever
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#woke up today with a looming sense of dread#i'm sitting here with tears rolling down my face because of minor inconvenients#i have no energy and find no joy in anything...#wouldn't you guess i'm due my period any time now...#every month i'm more convinced i have pmdd... and every month i'm full to the brim with anxiety and depression...#this is SO FUCKING FUN!#also yeah yeah i need to go to a doctor i need to speak to someone about this and i need to get medicated#i don't deserve to feel like this periods shouldn't debilitate you this much etc etc...#i don't think there's a human professional in this country that believes pmdd is a thing enough to medicate me#i know for a fact that my mother (a person i live with and in some way still holds power over me whether on purpose or by my own issues)#doesn't believe is a thing because she's the kind of person who says depressed people just need to ''choose happiness'' so...#not exactly a possibility now#not to mention i FUCKED UP the only regular client i had and now i won't be earning enough money to waste on doctor appointments#just to have some old male doctor tall me my ''womanly problems aren't bad enough'' so... yeah not doing that#ANYWAYS i don't see hope in the world today this will pass in a few weeks and everything will be fine#why don't i go watch good omens and maybe i'll calm down am i right?#lol#angel talks#personal
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How's Kakerus sex life?
unprompted asks. » always accepting!
Hahahaha... pretty much non-existent, to be honest. Like, this man has legit been abstinent for years, to the point where he is definitely not the most sexually active person around. Someone should probably end up showing him a good time, though, because he definitely deserves it.
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#anonymous#█ ▓『 ✦ ⸂ •• QUEUED — ⧼ because livi is a busy adult irl. ⧽ 』#┕━ ❛ ⚕. answered »» 𝐊𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐑𝐔〡come stop by again if you’re feeling under the weather alright?#┕━ ❛ ⚕. muse »» 𝐊𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐑𝐔 𝐇𝐀𝐒𝐄𝐆𝐀𝐖𝐀〡i take my problems one step at a time. if i do something i’m gonna do it right.#┕━ ❛ ⚕. headcanons »» 𝐊𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐑𝐔〡change your mind about me? i’m the kinda guy who knows how to pick a time and place.#┕━ ❛ ⚕. about »» 𝐊𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐑𝐔〡i’m a doctor with rugged good looks. what more could a lady ask for?#[ honestly despite kakeru being the only pansexual male muse on this blog HE DOES NOT REALLY GET ATTENTION-ED ALL THAT MUCH ]#[ and is very much unpopular to the point where only 2 muses expressed attraction towards him ]#[ and they're kinda inactive atm ]#[ so yeah... he does not have any game. ]
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Other people: I went to the doctor for this small rash and he diagnosed it and gave me a script and my problem was solved by the next day
Me: after thinking very hard about it I went to the doctor for this broken leg and he couldn't see what the issue was and told me I was faking it and that I should go for a run to ease my hysteria
#just another day and another doctor not taking his job serious#i should stop seeing male doctors tho#i've never had this problem with a female doctor#but unfortunately the only doctors that bulkbill are the dumbass male ones#sigh
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man i could go for some Barba x male reader fan fics right about now 😩 maybe even some kim kitsuragi ones was well, but i've read all the good ones on tumblr already i guess it's time to move onto A03 :c
after the day i've had i just need something wholesome 😭
#rafael barba#rafael barba x male reader#kim kitsuragi#i'm still so stressed about my test results lmao#i went from thinking i have heart problems to maybe having blood clots in my lungs#i was also sent for blood tests to look for acute leukemia my doctor told me all my results should be in tomorrow#im just a massive ball of stress help me
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I do have to wonder how much of my ‘blood pressure being high’ was just due to 1) anxiety and 2) not being able to put the fact that this doctor basically killed my friend’s sister-in-law out of my mind
#okay she didn’t KILL her kill her but she failed to notice this woman had stomach cancer for well over a year#she presented with every symptom and this doctor kept fobbing her off; cancelling appointments; losing referrals etc#until Finally she managed to get referred to a specialist and they did a scan and found out she had stage 4 stomach cancer#she died six months after that. she’d been living without treatment for a year prior to diagnosis like… they could’ve saved her#this doctor specifically could’ve saved her#why did i see this doctor you ask? well there’s four doctors at my regular practice. two of them are male. i don’t fuck with male doctors#nothing against them but discussing my personal intimate problems with a man i don’t know and no chaperone is just not for me#i also had a male doctor repeatedly make weird comments about my body when i was a teenager so there is that#my dentist is a man though and we like him. one boy allowed#Anyway so there’s the two male doctors and then there’s this woman who basically killed my friend’s family member#and then there’s the other woman doctor but she is on leave at the moment and only taking phone appointments. she wouldn’t be back until#after my microgynon prescription ran out and she can’t take my blood pressure over the phone. so i was like. would i rather be examined#by a man or someone who is an idiot at best and negligent at worse. or take my chances with freeballing this shit (my period)#so there i am sitting in this woman’s office seething and no surprise; the best figure she could get from me was 121 over 95#bear in mind i’m usually sitting at 100 over 80. so.#she did take my blood pressure 5 times but the last time i saw she got an upper figure of 103 and she didn’t write the lower figure???#so i’m wondering if the meditation i was trying to do actually Did take my blood pressure down and she just didn’t want to accept it lol#should i buy a blood pressure monitor? i mean.. literally no because that’s an unnecessary expense and i’ve placed a moratorium#on unnecessary shopping in order to justify/afford a fucking TREADMILL#but seriously. i’m starting to wonder if i actually have hypertension or if i was just pissed at this woman. or if she’s just incompetent#i swear i’m not just mad because this is my second day of a reduced salt diet and i’m not enjoying it lol#i’m sticking to her orders i’m just….. i don’t know if it was bullshit or not. i mean how do i trust someone who watched a woman waste away#to skin and bone and continually fumbled referral paperwork and just overall failed to see that Something Was Very Wrong#i’m following her advice out of malicious compliance and because i don’t think it can hurt me but still. Still#personal
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