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there's a bathroom in mickey's room -> mickey's room is the master bedroom -> terry must have "allowed" (read: decided) this, and probably framed it as an incredible privilege -> in practice it's actually just a built in lack of privacy for mickey since the bathroom is treated as communal, meaning anyone can go into his room at any time without warning to get to the bathroom inside
#jack facts#i know the doylist explanation for how terry seems to particularly target mandy and mickey#is just that they're the only two milkoviches who are focal characters#but watson's perspective on it is soooooo juicy#like ok he targets mandy because she's a girl and because she looks like their mom. makes sense.#but why does he target mickey pre-3.06?#is it because he must also look like their mom given how much he and mandy look alike?#it's a good bet; only the two of them really look like that#tony and [?] have dark hair but are beefy with blunt features like terry + iggy and [?] are thin but blond#OR i mean. we've all Been There for when the mean girls know what slurs to call you before you do#and in many cases they don't really know those words genuinely apply they just Happen to be an applicable insult#for whatever esoteric fucking reason that people recognize someone is Different#(and in the opposite way how we Different folks tend to stick together even before we know why)#anyway. you know what i'm implying here.#shameless#mickey milkovich#hc#abuse
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terrible breaking news: person who shares your exact queer headcanon for Blorbo is also baselessly saying said queer identity is "basically canon" and unambiguously the author's intent, therefore making you look bad for sharing that headcanon while they go about giving the creators way too much credit
#begging people to understand that “this would be neat” and even “this reading would enhance the character's arc”#do not mean “this creator was trying to represent this demographic”#i'll get rotten fruit thrown at me if i say what character i'm thinking of here but like#*i* put thought into how this character being a-spec makes sense and enhances the story and creates new stories in its own right!#and if you share that HC you probably put thought into those things too!#we searched for the pieces and put together as a transformative; creative act!#give *us* credit for that!#sometimes. even creators i respect who made things i adore. just weren't really preoccupied with aro people in any capacity lol#i feel as though i personally am only in a position to complain when it comes to a-spec HCs but i see this everywhere else too#i get that this is probably an overcorrection from assholes denying queer-coding or word of god queer rep#but still an annoying overcorrection!
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#idk i just. it would be so much easier to do Anything if i had any idea what amount of love is acceptable to show to other people#hanging out with people! talking to them! doing activities together! i like all of these things and i like the people i do them with#but it's always so hard to figure out where The Limits are#i know other people often aren't nearly as open to affection and closeness as i am#and i Very Much Do Not Want to make anyone uncomfortable with unwanted advances#i'm not sure how to communicate 'i will not get any closer than you wish me to' without the message coming across as 'i wish you didn't#come any closer to me'#because i feel like that's what i'm doing most of the time! pushing people away so they know i'm not trying to offend their personal space#and then i end up feeling miserable and left out and abandoned because no one gets as near me as i wish them to#idk idk just feels bad man#and like as much as i crave physical intimacy with people this also applies very much on emotional distance#generally i'd like to be a lot closer to the people in my life in every sense of those words#and i don't know how???#giving a compliment or offering a hug or inviting someone to a thing always makes me feel like some sort of monster#clumsy and unwanted and clueless about their horrid existence that is barely tolerated#why aren't there any clear rules to these things i could learn! so i could Fucking Communicate with people!!!#euuogggggh i'm just tired and frustrated and sad and haven't slept properly and it's been a long week at work#i think i'm doing better than what it sounds like here#maybe#sussitalk
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Yeehaw territory is all of the USA, but mostly west of the Mississippi River (anything bought in the Louisiana Purchase that was considered the 'frontier') 🌿
@whataboutyouisamascot thank you for the history lesson! Unfortunately I have no idea where Mississipi is, and I'm way too sick to look that up, so I'm just nodding and smiling gratefully like an idiot 😃👍 <- not a thought behind those eyes
#have i heard the words “Louisiana purchase” before? yes#do i know what it means? no#my knowledge of USA history consists of media references and the one time i went full deep on A Hamilton's life because of the musical#shout out to National Treasure for teaching stuff too ✌️#for the longest time i thought Louisiana was close to Oregon?? and recently i found out it's actually next to Florida#which i'm sure for you guys is hilarious at best and truly it makes no sense#but idk. i thought those two sounded nice together phonetically and therefore were somewhere close????#i will say though. once i'm feeling better i'll probably do a Wikipedia deep dive about it because that's ho my brain operates#like the time i went full Witches of Salem because i just kept hearing about The Crucible and had no idea what it was#i know Mississipi is the big one tho right? is that the one with the canoe buddies? brothers? friends? brokeback mountain situationship? 🤔#anyways. i never seen a cowboy in snow so i just assumed they were in the south mostly. but also i hate westerns soooo. maybe there are.#pardon my ignorance pard'ner 🤠😔#darya answers
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In regards to Mouthwashing, why would they (Pony Express) put one woman on a ship whose scheduled delivery time is over one year? If you know anything about the human species, that's just asking for disaster. "Not all men" all you want but if you look at the statistics for any male-dominated career (I'll use the military as an example) the rate of sexual abuse of women is "definitely not uncommon." One woman on a ship with four guys for that long?
Blame Jimmy all you want, he's the one who did it at the end of the day, but the company was just asking for an incident of that caliber in regards to their staffing decisions. Single-gender flights with ample background checks would have been wiser.
As would have been a way to allow the crew to release that sort of stress privately with lefty or righty or some company-approved toy (...probably designed after the mascot). From what I could tell the only private space was the captain's quarters and medbay if you locked it. People with a libido aren't mindless horndogs, yeah, but even my ace ass gets a bit cagey after a long enough time.
#Note my use of the word single-GENDERED and not single-sexed: this post isn't for TERFs.#From my observations many trans people gravitate towards hooking up with other trans people anyway#because it's much safer than hooking up with an unknown cissy (unless they knew and were gucci with it going in).#Mouthwashing bluh bluhs#Pony Express deserves part of the blame you can't change my mind.#Also... Only five hours of sleep allotted? Sleep deprivation is akin to drunkenness; you do dumber and dumber shit.#It's also a form of psychological torture. None of those people were operating with 100% of their mental faculties.#So Curly's inaction when Jimmy cryptically excused himself to go fuck them all over via meteor also makes sense#dude wasn't thinking straight either#probably couldn't put 2+2 together until the alarms were blaring and it was too late that his bestie was pulling a fuckwad move#and to a sleep-deprived guy who would have been convicted of rape upon docking it probably seemed like the best option ever#because his ass also wasn't thinking straight#but that's just me
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ok yk what. now that i’ve had some time to process nghy canon, considering the current pacing of gen retcon, i think their next step is as ✨clear as day✨
i really like seeing them happy together, but i truly do think that they should divorce and either live the rest of their lives as single besties; partners in hero/heroine-isms, but better off as just friends, or go their separate ways for a bit and get back together when they’re a little older and wiser, staying together for good this time around, as each other’s first and last boyfriend/girlfriend
#‘haven’t you had quite enough of pushing your divorce agendas??? like with lxl????’ no. never.#idk i think part of their charm was nagisa’s patience and genuine earnest love for hiyori#and hiyori’s determination to achieve her goals of becoming a true heroine in every sense of the word…#but the current pacing is kinda… um. i really love how nghy is now truly canon ofc. but… it feels too rushed?#like they’re just checking off a box on a ‘relationships to go’ checklist?#and nagisa’s sudden second confession? in a throwaway line? what was that all about man… when did that even happen? excuse?#i think it’d have been more meaningful if hiyori was the one to confess without any prompting (to lead to their relationship)…#and. uh. don’t take this the wrong way but… noontea seemed a little peer pressure-y to me.#it kinda felt like juri and chizu were pressuring hiyori into getting a bf… it’s been eating away at me ever since i tried to tl it. but.#…idk. point is. i think a relationship built on those foundations (peer pressure/fomo and a suddenly persistent guy(???)) is doomed to fail#and so i think nghy should divorce. maybe they’ll reconnect romantically in a few years#(fulfilling nagisa’s agreement to be hiyori’s ‘last bf’ as well as having been her ‘first bf’ during their first try at a relationship)#or they could just be besties till the end of time; having been each other’s hero and heroine once upon a time#ik hw doesn’t do breakups of their main couples (not since nakimushi kareshi eons ago i think…)#but i think they should give it another go for nghy. maybe it’d make their love story a little more compelling#and maybe we could all unite under the cheers of hoping that ng and hy get back together in the future as more mature adults…?#idk i just. think the ‘right person; wrong time’ trope could work for nghy#like how it went in sukiuso/heroika with nagisa’s failed confession#even then they were the right person for each other; it just wasn’t the right time for them to date (personal goals/long distance/etc)#so maybe. this time ‘round even though they’ve started dating circumstances could still pop up here and there and maybe…?#…but idk~~~~~~~~ maybe it’s just the 5am thoughts or something that’s finally putting my incoherent trains of thoughts into words…#point is!!!!!! the current pacing is awkward!!!!!!!!! nghy deserve better!!!!!!! and their love story needs to be treated with more care!!!!#idk are hw trying to speedrun nghy for h10w bc nghy’s. like. a mix of different features of their previous couples#which would make ‘em the perfect couple to bring h10w together(???) or something???#but idk. im still really really happy the nghy is canon but. there are some mixed feelings here and there too…#idk dudes this has gotten way too long for its own good so ig i’ll stop here…#live laugh love nghy canon but… i still think they should break up for *at least* a year or so to reasses their relationship#sorry nghy… it’s for your own good i swear… i truly want you to be happy together!!!! i really do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hi I was wondering what’s your opinion on the in the soop talk between Taekook bc you’re a Taehyung blog so I’d like to get your thoughts on it
Hi! This is an old ask lol sorry for the late reply
I think the ITS talk it’s something that got greatly greatly misunderstood, I think most of people focused on just one thing said by Jungkook (we became awkward) and completely dismissed what it was really about. This is mostly my point of view on it but to this day I think it’s safe to assume people just forgot to give context to the talk.
Taehyung wasn’t feeling well in 2020, he wrote Blue and Grey in that year (I really really need everyone to pay attention to the lyrics), he was having a hard time and all the members asked him to please reach out, to talk if anything was bothering him, and I think that’s what was the premises of the talk. It wasn’t to mend a bond, because there was nothing to mend, if you look from an objective point Taekook’s bond in that year (or even in that season tbh) you would notice there was literally nothing that would agree with the subs bh editors wrote such as “awkward duo”. I think Taehyung just wanted to have a drink with Jungkook, open up a little about his state (“I go on weverse to get assured I’m still loved”). Which is okay.
The not okay things were the subs put by bh editors, the twisting of the narratives (making the talk about something else), the fact that the talk was recreated by other groups. People thinking Jimin had to use an excuse to make Jungkook talk to Taehyung. I think narratives cloud people’s visions most of the time but the its talk must be the most misunderstood thing I’ve ever seen.
#do i think it was scripted? just the off cam moments where jungkook had to speak about it saying that thing#i mean im pretty sure they also made him apologize for the mijoo thing back in bv4 always in those talks#more than scripted the correct word is piloted#i also believe it was an excuse to justify the lack of taekook together in contents ‘see? they had a reason’ but the reason makes 0 sense#these are just my thoughts bringing into consideration taehyungs state in 2020#also why tae never got that off came moment to talk about it ehhh much to think about#ask#taekook#in the soop
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At least I could disable the suggestions but just... I'm sick of it, I'm sick of companies trying to think for me
I'd rather be miserable but doing shit my own way than placid and glass eyed and just taking whatever companies tell me to
Like... literally just asking what I get out of writing a post on tumblr... zero suggestions, just letting me say whatever dumb stuff comes to my head
#the problem is that doing things my way is actually working well; it's just really slow and it's coming from a bad starting point#everything that makes me miserable was even more miserable growing up#you maybe see me and think that I'm doing really horribly; and that may be true; but I'm also truthfully at my peak right now#and frankly as much as I worry about it A LOT; I'm kinda still on the rise in a lot of ways#...I just take way too long to do things; I want to be quicker because a lot of this stuff isn't... it's not being slow and steady#it's being depressed and having trouble working on shit#but... when I do stuff my way the end result tends to be strong#I got a house in 2019 for instance... like in that economy; I feel like that counts as a pretty high roll outcome; you know?#the parts of my life I hate are all... it's like Marley in the Christmas Carol; I've got all these chains around me#and... about 80% of those chains are just my mom or my mom's choices... she blows through so much money all the time#it makes me want to die#but all that shit... it's the past haunting me and drowning me#but shit's better than it was and... I have more friends now that I did in the past; I'm closer to making money than I've been in the past#(part of it is that I kinda want to get shit stabilized in the household; be doing stuff like cooking before I try and sell shit)#(also understand that everyone in high school liked me... we just never saw each other outside of school)#(so it was a situation where I had 'friends'; by that standard everyone at school was a friend)#(but I didn't have a single person I was close with and I was totally isolated in a crowd)#(friend is just a word in english that has to cover a really really wide range of relationships)#(but these days I do have actual friends... just a shame none of us live in the same town... or even state; you know?)#(I like all the people I went to high school with; they all cared a lot and were very bad at it)#(couldn't figure out that like... just give me some company; that's a good 80% of what I'm lacking)#(...I think part of it was they were all stoners and I wasn't; so they felt like... eh... like something something)#(and when I say all stoners I mean... I think... easily 80% of the school; probably 90% and maybe higher were all stoners)#(it uh... was not an easy thing for the staff; cause they obviously all knew; but... figuring out how to best handle it)#(like hell; I wouldn't want to deal with that)#(also like 95% were smokers... you have to understand that most of these kids were rich kids)#(off the top of my head I can only think of 2 other kids who were poor... just... uh...)#(if I named the city the school was in; you'd probably be like 'oh... makes sense')#(I liked everyone there; everyone liked me... just... they were very bad at just basic stuff like spending time together)#(eh... you don't need to hear more)
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I wish I could go back and tell younger me that I would in fact find that place one day full of people that I adore deeply and who I know love me in return. Who make me feel wanted and cared for and appreciated in a way I never thought would be possible. And none of it required hiding, or forcing myself to be a person I’m not. And I still have that space even though I’m aroace.
For the first time ever, I see a future where I’m not alone. And I wish I could go back and tell my younger self it would happen. It’s possible to not be constantly lonely.
#ravenpuff rambles#I’ve been lucky enough in my life to make amazing friends several times#several of whom are still in my life now#but it’s only been recently that I’ve felt like I truly found my place#I don’t know how to explain it#I guess up until now I have always gone into friendships expecting them to end and holding back just a little bit#and this is the first time I don’t feel like I have to run because I don’t feel like these people are going to leave me#maybe it’s just because one of them is also aroace and we’ve talked a lot about those similar feelings of being left behind#never had someone quite get that before#and maybe it’s just I feel more willing to open my heart#admittedly this group of ours went through some shit together and that’s how the friendships really started forming#and so maybe that helps#but it’s like#Have you ever met someone who is so much like you in so many ways that its like the joke of ‘#‘can I copy your homework?’ ‘yeah just be sure to change it so no one knows’#It’s a weird thing of feeling so completely and totally seen by somebody sometimes without having to say a word#anyways#I’m really happy with this little place I found and I wish I could tell younger me#and also tell xem that no it doesn’t look like a fanfic dream#no im not their person but yeah they’re kind of mine but that’s okay#its nothing and everything like I always thought of#and for the first time in my life I don’t feel a crush sense of loneliness#yes I wish I could see them in person#but I can be okay with everything I do get
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The problem with growing up with 6 brothers, having no sisters until I was 10 and being bullied as a child means I'm really good at talking to myself. And with the power of the internet and the forgetfulness of being sleep deprived I can make it your problem too
#ace is a mess#feels as fitting a tag as any#theres a lil antagonist living in my brain that acts as critic to all my thoughts to provide a sounding board for conversation#<- those words do not make sense together 🤷 i know what i mean#feels weird to say i had a lonely childhood when i have so many siblings but like they werent in the same year as me at school#and we didnt hangout on the playground because they had staggered lunches and even then we saw enough of each other
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#theres this feeling i get sometimes. i find it very hard to articulate. its part despair and part awe. dispair at how beautiful the world is#all those intricate little process coming together to organize the chaos. i dont kno y i feel it so deeply or y it hurts so much#because its just. no matters what horrible things r going on in the world. ur body is this miraculous collection of chemicals and reactions#mobile containers of water with a history that spirals back billions of years. and you can hear and see and experience and reflect#and when you die the world goes on spinning without you. if we as humans destroyed this planet past the part of our ability to inhabit it#it wouldnt even matter. there would be continued life past humanity. cosmically we r tiny and insignificant and we dont matter#but were beautiful and wonderful and infinity complex and knowing that leaves me in agony. because i want to kno everything right now but#mind is too small and i walk around with the disorientation of someone whos just been hit in thr face ans i cant focus enough to read#cant make the words make sense and i cant justify the time it would take to try. so i sit on my deck. in the sun. crying as i think about#how the light hit the grass in my front yard the last time i was home. how the cliffs in the backyard are ringed with red lines of iron#separated out as the water leached through the sandstone. how every avaliable surface is stained green as organisms reach upward toward#the sun. and its beautiful and i dont kno y im crying. maybe its bc i cant just throw everything aside and chase that feeling. im not#allowed to feel it. im not allowed to talk abt it in the way i want. bc im afraid no one cares as much as me in the same way. bc when i#talk abt what i study its obscure and academic and so far from what most ppl think abt that they get intimidated and dont try to understand#so i just try not to talk abt it. or maybe im just afraid. bc i have my 1st TA meeting tomorrow and i meet with my new advisor friday#and im worried and im afraid i wont b able to do this in a way that doesnt make me feel like im dying. bc i like to b busy and i like having#a strict schedule but if u throw me that knife im going to stab myself with it bc i dont kno how wield it as a tool without hurting myself#sure ill get the job done. but at what cost? whatever. ill try to b better this time. try to hold tight to the wonder. but that feels like#reaching out into forever. knowing ill never make contact. not knowing what im reaching for.#the closest approximation to the feeling i can find is that scene in the terror. where go0dsir is asking if god is there. any god. and it#doesnt matter bc he can see god in the landscape. in an environment that's so harsh and barren that its killing him slowly in the worst of#ways and its beautiful. its still beautiful to him. there is wonder here. and im wasting my time laying in a dark room crying bc i put#myself into a container so constrictive that the surface snaps and i come spilling out as an angry liquid. smearing away into nothing#unrelated
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on one hand. loottta ideas 4 sk!llshipping art rn bc system things. on the other hand we r procrastinating on drawing them bc will people be Normal,
#normal as in dont be like 'hey those two together dont make sense' we don't control who gets with who here okay#i wanna sketch a specific couple rn but im worried people r Soooooo going to be like That makes no sense abt them#and I'm like. Listen. if you just hear me Aout abt some headcanons#[read: things tht r just Tru abt them in lur system] it'd make so much ssense#but alas. Anyways#pk;m Electrochemistry🔴#also to draw them i need to teach myself how to draw mobility aids better. hmmmmmb. this is doable#actually now that i think abt it all tho outside of maybe like One pairing sk!llshipping is just. possibly a mess sorta#in that there's 24 [26? sorta?] of us so it's like mix and match hauve fun w it. what im tryig to say is that#it's not That serious and afaik again outside of One Pairing [iykyk] it's like WHO'S shipping pt with phys instrument??#who tf is shipping drama and encyclo? etc etc.#and the answer is ME MOTHERFUCKER! BC OF SYSTEM SHIT AUSUSIDJDIDIDIKZ#speaking of wr do have a sketch of shivers & concept in the works. but it was started by HL but it hasn't front3d in a whileeee#perhaps i shall finish the drawing for it bc it's a cute drawing. ok im done rambling#does any of this make sense?? like my point is theres so many of us and we're kinda rlly minor characters in the grand scheme of things#so like. gestures vaguely!! im running out of words.#anyways i judt need people 2 not be weird abt our next drawings ok? ok thank you
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my ocs really are just facets of myself holy ezerk
#if I was cooler that is#or stupider#actually I am both but am able to hold it back enough to seem like a normal human being#sometimes I get a little to silly and forget to actually try and be normal (in the way where I don't shutdown and can form actual words)#and those times are scary because they look at me weird#like I cant actually say words I am blubbering and laughing nervously and hesitating until I realize need to PULL MYSELF TOGETHER#and stop thinking so much and actually say something#I forget that I cannot pause time and take as long as I need to respond#example#person: have this brownie#me: oh no I *heavy breathing thinking'no I cant take this brownie I've had enough I will get sick I need to smile SMILE what do I say wait#I know what to say ohmugosh get out of your own head TALK' No thanks! <- suddenly snaps back to reality corrects posture and smiles#I like get trapped in my own brain#wait how did this turn into a rant?????#uh#gbye#I dunno how to explain this does this make sense?
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something put slide whistles in my head which got this refrain looping for me which made me go like Can you do any sorta official the slide whistle? which thank fuck Yes, filmed its world premiere. i really seriously recommend picturing the dancing in your head & doing it yourself even in One Unaccompanied Two Measure Cycle. doing the circley dip to an even imagined slide whistle is exquisite
#like i got in two Slide Whistles in silence & was about crying laughing. grandmas#speaking of the highlight to the Having Multiple All I Want For Christmas Is Youses being the dancing. every time; every single time#limbs Out movement Big imprecision Energetic like it is a performance. & here we are once again#where this is so Elevated by that like lack of precision plenty of energy Performance Hitting isn't abt ah the honed & tricky technique#on the note of ''many xmas connections in the room. b/c it is an iconis concert'' highlight when lance hits & stabilizes a mic stand#also i think every single bloodsong cast member makes it into frame at one point. esp the zoom out for the beauty of audience participation#which; great segue in the contradictory thoughts here like: in that we Do live in the timeline where this improvised fake B side novelty#song has an official studio recording / album release; the thought of au: i knew that could happened but didn't? i'd kill myself right now#however this also makes me think about speaking of Go Banana / dance banana dance not with your mouth words but with your heart words#in that we have no video of Banana Dancing (on top of no turkey leg; entr'acte dancing....or anything else. no Production video :(( )#& b/c this is the case i Will be killing myself. so uh put those together & [reverberating circuit break sound] ah jeez. in the Dimension#also gotta shout out that owen ashbery smith's Dancing as flashback joe at the start of fourteenth xmas's jackalope holler sequence#makes me laugh & makes me think of it in the vein of the very excellent Limbs Big Motions Also Rhythm Variations Energetic rubin aiwfciying#however only take inspiration not a sense of expectation. you manage the slide whistle even so halfheartedly. sitting down even#lying down; if you give it a writhe. again i'm so in earnest like i recommend it#what a win to see this video like you never know. some Big Song Lore like ah no video of that. other times you get Exactly what you want#was up to this at like 8am in a transition from in spirit gripping the countertops to fr cracking up giving it a real go. terpsichore#which not at all surprising when a) truly this is so powerful like yes god recording / slide whistling agenda advancement b) sillay#[do] the slide whistle#lance rubin#joe iconis#needs tags like just going to rewrite history. it's Been a ('50s '60s obscure novelty song) Sensation. oh you know. doing the slide whistle#a lotta up and down a little side to side....#Youtube
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Maybe the reason why . I did all of that was because of the fact that it had to deal with new people.... I mean. Go, yeah. Good for you. But we were all in this together now
Augh. Fuck my stupid baka life. Nothing makes sense
#audrey/kellie's rambles#smth smth new people and new ocs and those ocs get love yet im somehow supposed to stay normal while i make so much#for this stupid thing? smth smth others getting attention. i know its what they need. but like. oh mannn.#I think the first thing was the whole affection thing. lovers in the damn server. good for you that you love each other. at least#dont rlly do it here????? ah why should i care actually. im not in the server anymore. i dont lnow why i still#complain about it. or maybe its just because ive helf these in for so fucking long. eh#smth dmth. new people new ocs who have been kept s secret. smth smth. that server and that whole entire group is actually better#off without me. and I know that for certain now. damn certain they dont care. yeah i called you a liar and i know you have feelings#ah. those words dont even make sense together. nothing i ever do makes sense. i dont. hm. smth smth#the fact that tumblr was actually a more better spot for me then discord. then a damn server.#the only reason why tumblr is a good place for me is because i can talk to you whenever i want. i can jump in the ask box#but now i wont even try for the ones who are still in the server. ive said enough. ive done enough. im a heavy burden on all of them#truly. fuck my stupid life#audrey/kellie vents
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Sooooo ummmmmmm this is something that's probably going to piss a lot of people off, but I feel like I really need to say it.
If you get a message from an account claiming to be a Palestinian fundraiser, it is a bot. It is a scam. You need to report & delete the message and encourage others to do the same.
I know because I get messages on this account DAILY. I have a very high follower count and I'm pretty active and I interact with my followers a lot, and apparently that all adds up to one big bot magnet.
Bots following and messaging this account was a MASSIVE problem before Tumblr fixed its new account policies. I used to spend literally hours blocking and reporting the hundreds of bots that I would get following me each day.
I learned a lot about bots and how to identify them. The easiest way is with no avatar, "untitled" in the blog description (BTW if your avatar is still set to default PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD change it because you run a substantial risk of being accidentally blocked & reported as a bot).
One of the dead give aways of a bot was what I call "word salad" names. Three seemingly random words strung together making no sense, always adjective, adjective or noun, noun. If you reported a lot of these bots, you'd notice the same words kept showing up.
Nowadays, I am bombarded with fundraiser requests and sometimes, they don't even bother to hide the fact that they're a bot. The avatar is default, the blog title is "untitled," and the blog name is a classic randomly-generated word salad.
However MOST of the requests I get come from at least semi-legit looking accounts. There are pictures, a name, a story. Never mind that I've gotten that message three times from different accounts.
Sometimes, they claim to be vetted, but the whole vetting system essentially adds up to "trust me bro." There is no way of guaranteeing that this account isn't just lying about being vetted, claiming to be vetted by a false person, or are using the identity of a real Palestinian to scam people.
Previously, I've seen a lot of people getting attacked for raising questions about these fundraisers and getting attacked for being racist or for harming Palestinian families in danger, like Tumblr isn't a website famous for its scams and the words "The Arkh Project" "All or Nothing" or "Miss Officer and Mr. Truffles" mean nothing to you.
I personally have been scammed by people claiming to be charities on Tumblr before, specifically, The Leelah Project which used the name of a trans teenager who died by suicide to swindle people out of their money.
Luckily, there are actual, respected charities out there you can give money to if you want to help the cause:
Palestinian Children's Relief Fund
Palestine Red Crescent Society
United Nations Relief Works Agency
Islamic Relief
World Central Kitchen
Médecins Sans Frontièrs
One of the hardest things to accept about the situation in Palestine is that realistically, there is very little that your average outsider can do to change it. However, these large, well-respected and trustworthy charities are out there doing the hard work to keep people alive, and should be where the donation money is going
These scam bots feed on people's naïvety and need to believe that they are making a difference, and even worse, feed on the fear that by ignoring them, it somehow makes you a racist doing direct harm to a refugee family, when in fact they are using the suffering of Palestinians to take away money from those in need.
As far as fundraisers that don't send out random asks for donations, I honestly don't know. You'll have to do the work yourself and approach with much caution.
Be careful out there.
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