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That's the Cask of Amontillado
The Count of Monte Cristo is a popular cookie sandwich with jam and buttercream in the middle
Watching The Count of Monte Cristo and my wife is like so when does he get trapped in the cellar
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you donāt have to post if itās like something thatās not talked about but I donāt know much about dan and philās personal life or what they have shared and I was wondering if dan was raised by his grandma? just cause out of everyone in his family sheās the only one that he mentions with regularity and fondness
hi! it has been talked about before a lot in past years (i just fell down a rabbit hole of some peoples tags before answering this lol), and disclaimer- family relationships are complicated and nuanced, i donāt claim to know the specifics of danās relationship with his family other than what heās told us. but generally speaking, dan talks about his grandma (maternal) most often and with fondness because he has a really strong bond with her, and though i donāt know if i would necessarily say he was raised by her solely, he definitely spent a lot of his childhood with her. dan has spoken about his parents not necessarily being very present/supportive when he was younger, which isnāt to say they werenāt there to like, be his parents but to my knowledge they both worked a lot and heās talked about calling his grandma on the phone or going to her house after school and things like that. thereās a lot to unpack as far as danās family goes if im being so honest but dan definitely fits into that category of āoldest daughter/girls who were raised by their grandmaā
#idk if im the best source for this i do know most of the family lore if you want to know anything else#or could point you to people that have good answers from the past but#he used to be a lot more cynical when mentioning his parents#lots of comments in ancient liveshows or early gaming videos about abscence and not being prepared for life or paid attention to#itās safe to assume his relationship with his father was always rough and the mention in ywgttn is pretty much the nail in that coffin#but things seem better with his mum. i always feel iffy talking about this because like i do not Know that woman but again#family relationships are complicated but things definitely got less strained post coming out and effort from both sides#veronica is truly a gem im so glad he has her in his life. she deserves to demand kisses and know her rich grandson could pay for pilates#not going to main tag this + sorry for yapping per usual#asks#anon#answered
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Wip of my TLQ 3D print
#slay the princess#stp the long quiet#tinkercad#3d printing#my mum looked over my shoulder as i was making this and commented how cute the bird was#then she saw the blade and said 'not so cute anymore'#jokes on her i think the blade makes him even cuter#i cant figure out how to do the claws and talons though. might put off printing it till i add those
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not to talk about dune on main but like. lisan al-gaib became an instant meme in the theater i was at. like great acting amazing music (thank you hans zimmer you're a real one) phenomenal photography and setting and fight choreography
but stilgar's LISAN AL-GAIB in every circumstance possible was so funny it made the whole theater erupt into laughter directly after the fight with feyd-rautha which is supposed to be like. poignant ig and powerful and an overall vibe
y'all hit the wrong vibe besties šš
#dune#dune two#dune 2#dune part 2#dune part two#sawry besties it was a riot#unironically the movie was kinda fire though#my mum was clapping and cheering#so wild#father didn't even fall asleep this time#that's a real compliment#i love you zendaya#i love you florence pugh#timmy did great i gotta say#why do i see him as a child he's a whole guy#i think it's the french in him#also my mum was like#what are thanos and drax doing here#she has not watched the first dune#or read anything abt it#a true icon#no i didn't leave out austin butler#my mum just made a comment abt him being some sort of evil model and iā#why is she so funny#TO TUMBLR USER CAFFEINEECOLD#thank you for telling me his name i was so not looking forward to going through the book again#searching it up didn't even compute it is very late and my brain defaults to bbc merlin's look in a book doctrine#i'm sorry i took the s/o out of the actual post but my mum said it didn't make sense and i should put it in the tags#either way you're amazing thank you
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bitch its so annoying every time i watch an edit of a female character/see fanart abt them/see fic abt them, all people can say is 'omg everyone ignores them bc theyre too busy talking abt x male character' and its like. yeah sure frequent occurence! but do you know what happens when people talk abt male characters??? the people responding to it ALSO talk abt that character. they engage with the art/edit/fic for what it actually IS and not like its a chance to moral grandstandššš JUST ENJOY THE DAMN EDITššš GO COMPLAIN SOMEWHERE ELSE IF YOU MUST
#saw an absolute banger kyouka edit abt her and her mum and was abt to lose my mind and i open the comments hoping for more ppl being unwell#abt her. and instead its just 'wow its crazy seeing an edit abt her cos usually people only talk abt dazai/chuuya/atsushi'#BITCH. DO YOU WONDER WHY PEOPLE TALK ABOUT CHARACTERS THAT ARE MET WITH RESPONSES MORE INTERESTING THAN BRINGING UP IRRELEVANT SHITš#nyxi cant stfu
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Some more Lander from the Baby Villansā game v Crystal Palace last night ā„ļø
#I really want him to do well for himself & his mum & dad#and so the half joking nepotism comments donāt become barbed#I wonder if heāll get sent out on a loan spell?#I hope heās settling in and gets lots of time with his dad though ā„ļø
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#rant cw#mental health cw#negativity cw#I literally just need to scream somewhere so please feel free to ignore this - I'll be fine#I'm so tired of working my ass off so my family don't get angry at me while I'm staying with them (I'm still sofa surfing unfortunately)#All while I'm dealing with all my mental illnesses RAW because I'm still waiting on a therapist#only to have family members act like I'M the lazy one or imply I only do half jobs#got back home 20 minutes before they arrived back and I'd already:#moved the sofa beds - put the bedsheets away - moved their chairs back to their desks - made some tea and my sisters hot water bottle#got my nephews drink and his tablet - empty my sister's ashtray - I HADN'T EVEN EATEN ANYTHING YET AND IT WAS LIKE 4PM#and what I get is my sister using the phrase 'don't pull a mags' when my mum only half-did a job after dinner#keep in mind this is the same woman (my sister) who refuses to do washing up 'because of her nails'#but at the same time god forbid I freak out WHILE STILL DOING THE JOBS I'M ASKED TO because of sensory issues - then I'm overreacting#GOD FORBID I STRUGGLE AND STILL DO THE THING#I'm so fucking tired of never being good enough for people for FUCK SAKE I'M TRYING AND I'M BURNING MYSELF OUT DOING SO#I need to get out of this fucking situation this year I s2g#I'm so fucking tired -#I know it was a small comment from her this time but it felt like a punch to the chest because I'm TRYING SO HARD#maybe I'm being stupid and overreacting but feelings are stupid sometimes ig- idk man#ooc || the birb speaks
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i found loads of pictures of my uncle i am going 2 cry
#he looked so sweetā¦..he looks SO much like my dad#i found the last picture of him that my granddad took a month or so before he died itās so sad#trying to decide if i should tell my mum that i know about him or if i should just keep it to myself#idk if somethings wrong with me maybe itās because i was already grieving before i found out#but itās really getting 2 me i canāt concentrate on my uni shit i just keep thinking about it#i think i rlly need to talk about it with someone but i have no idea who or how or what iād say. but itās weird because itās a secret yk#like iām not even supposed to know he existed#idk. i have a gender clinic appointment next week and iām going to ask if they can recommend any therapists#me being very very brave and trying therapy again after being forced into it my whole life and ending up a bit traumatised#idk. i feel bad that iām alive and iām wasting my life when my uncle got killed when he was just a kid#it makes me feel like i should be more grateful and do more with myself.#and i am going to try but iād rather he was here instead. same with my granddad#every time i experience something beautiful or good i wish my granddad could experience it because he deserved it more than me#and the best i can do is experience it for him and be grateful. but i would chance places instantly if i could#him and his kid deserve to be here they were so special. i know i donāt know his kid but iāve heard they were similar#so i know he must have been special too#i found a fb comment today from a family friend iāve never met and she was saying that she only met my granddad once#but she called him gentle and it made me cry. because he was very scottish and sweary and traditional and masculine#so everyone just assumed he was tough and scary but if you knew him he was really quiet and kind#and iām glad someone who only met him once could see that#iām going to be half asleep for the rest of my life i think. iāve been dreaming since my granddad died and i donāt feel like i ever woke up#nothing has felt real since i was nine years old. everything just stopped and never started again#iāve just been waiting. iām waiting for him to change his mind and come back. idk. i donāt know what to do with myself#and i continuously feel fucking insane and stupid for being this way. itās like fresh grief all the fucking time#but it was fifteen years ago. why does it still feel this way#i canāt even tell people because they wonāt understand why iām still so bothered by it#he was my parent for nine years. i lived with him he was my sole caretaker#i was nonverbal and him and my brother were the only people on the planet who knew what my voice sounded like#heād think it was silly if i failed my exam because i was crying about him instead#heād tell me to whisht and stick in. so i will
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wow I love spending hours upon hours writing a fanfiction for people to read for free and then getting comments like this that discredit and disrespect my (and all fanfic writers') hard work and time š
#my chapters are small?? thats not what your mum said#i know that makes no sense i just š¤·š»āāļøš¤·š»āāļø#ellie's rambles#fanfiction#why are people like this. why would someone leave a comment like this#what are you hoping to achieve#like oh yes im so sorry random stranger i will now adhere to your every request#ALSO THIS FIC IS 150K WORDS WHAT DO U WANT FROM ME#THAT IS LITERALLY MORE THAN A 600 PAGE BOOK#din djarin fanfic
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I am so gosh-darn excited for this story. You cannot even believe the scratch itās itching. I know someone else said they hope the boys never find out about the body switch/new universe situation but I kinda hope they do because she seems like a character who would benefit from. *a lot* of reassurance. Canāt wait to see what youāve got cooked up! Any sneak-peeks you can share?
It's something I needed too. Went looking around on ao3 for something similar and found NOTHING other than one fic that ended in routes. Which we do not do here its poly ending or nothing. And you're totally right she is a character that needs a lot of reassurance and will not be dealing with this yandere stuff in any normal way. I.e.: comedically, instead of just horrified. Comedically horrified. because I can't take anything seriously (sorry). also I shared a sneak peak for chapter 2 over here which is like the first 3 paragraphs of weirdo tim's inner monologue. I'm not entirely sure I have his character right but like, I will always write a character weirder than in canon. tim drake IS insane and I will spread the gospel. they're all insane they dress up like bats and birds and run around gotham city at night punching mental patients and homeless people. that IS a definitively crazy thing to do. I feel sorry for Alfred :( also, another minor but obvious spoiler here
I'm pretty sure (insert diagnosed memory problems) that I mentioned in that other ask that there is never a reveal, but there totally will be. There are actually quite a few big 'reveals' in this fic (I'm sure you can guess what a few of the others are) but that's like... the fun part. 'i love you' 'wait wtf do you mean you're the-' shenanigans like that. Also the 'i love you' 'wait wtf do you mean you have an app that shows where-'
#sophie speaks#series:www#this just devolved into a giant fucking rant lmao#sorry im nervous because theres so many people commenting/sending in asks#i seriously thought nobody would be interested in this#i was even talking to my mum about it#she was the one who actually convinced me to post it in the end so say thanks to her#im not even entirely sure you guys understand what im trying to do with this series#the not incest thing will be played mostly for jokes and dicks inner suffering#this is like a strange fic#all of this is played like a rom com but like#there is so much dark shit its insane#its because its readers main coping mechanism lmfaom#anyways its MY fic and im writing if for MY own pleasure and its totally fine if people think its not good (manifesting)#i need to take my meds
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I saw in your notes that you had to cancel your birthday so happy (possibly late) birthday!!
Haha thanks it was last year in September lol!!
And actually I did get to do birthday plans it was just kinda miserably bc the reason I was going to cancel was due to conflicts with my mum (and her making me feel like an awful person about it), but my other mum didnāt care and we went anyways and it was actually fine (the concerns my mum didnāt happen)
Also I was going through basically a platonic break up as well so crazy month lol
But thank you, and everyone who sent me flags, it was nice to get some positive interaction during all that!
#i think I said I cancelled out of mental health reasons#yeah my mental health issue is my parents#they technically did give me mental health issues I definitely was depressed last year before this incident#full context is I have a brother who was 3 and my mum thought he would have a tantrum at the restaurant bc it would be late#and she told me in a way that made me feel like a horrible person for even suggesting going out and never considering other people#the whole summer beforehand was about similar conflicts#but we went anyways and my brother probably enjoyed himself more than I did lol#i just checked all my discord msgs bc I talk to my friends about my parents a lot (itās good to have a paper trail so I can know exactly wh#and how Iām traumatised by my parents lol)#and apparently after days of me asking my mum if weāre sure we can go and sheās happy to go out and to let me know if it wonāt work#she made a backhanded comment the day before we were going to go out#where basically my brother was asleep and she said in a moody tone that this is what it would be like if we went out#and I was just devastated bc I gave her plenty of ways out and at that point I actually had my hopes up about it#and she didnāt say we canāt go she just shat on the idea so backhandedly#oh wow it was such a headache#we cancelled and weāre gonna do it Monday#and then last second we went out that day anyways#yknow when I wasnāt prepared and didnāt get enough sleep#my god#worst birthday actually#at least my sister was there she was cool#anyways sorry for vent ig??#anon#ask#personal
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Hiii forgot to update on this but my doctor referred me to an eating disorder specialist so we will see where that takes us
#I donāt really wanna recover. but I do want to live#so I need to figure out where that leaves me I suppose#mum made a concerned comment abt my weight loss when I went over#but then dad made it a joke#so that was awesome š#em.txt#Ed tw
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How are you supposed to feel knowing that the land where you came from has become a playground for tourists?
Hotels, ultra rich and foreigners that have no interest in the culture or respect for the people who live there. Locals who have to either have move further into the countryside or leave everything behind and move elsewhere. Gangs that steal people's property. Violence and misogyny from uneducated rural people that move there to find work. Losing the language because we have no one to speak it to.
Other poc made fun of me for and excluded me for not having a similar culture to them but it's not my fault.
My relatives have married out of love since at least the 1800s. Interracial and interreligious are common withing my family. Even if it meant their partner had to be disowned by their family. No arranged marriages. No pressure or expectation to get married or have children. Women are the ones who make the decisions and deal with finances. Men are expected to do housework. Both men and women should be confident and assertive. I'm not very good at that.
Well I don't know if that's actually my culture or more specifically my family. While there is a bad side to all this I don't like that other poc tried to make me conform to their backwards standards and think of me as lesser.
I also don't like that it's so hard to learn a (probably)dead language because my parents can't be bothered teaching me.
#personal#rambling#frustrations#I feel like I don't fit in#I can't relate#Even if you tell me to go back where I came from#which one do I choose?#I can't anyway#joking about that btw#am I really this bored#no I'm procrastinating#and trying not to think about sad stuff#I hate the traitor comments#my mum didn't even tell me things until recently#for some reason I didn't question it either#I didn't even notice that she looked a bit different
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Putting on last year's trans rigs stream from Drawfee before i have to get ready to go out with my mum and her bf today (bc i have the worst feeling in my gut he's gonna make that An Thing for me if given the chance today, aka whenever i eventually need the restroom while we're at Mystic)
#text post#Housemate was amazing and helped me calm down a bit before ae went to work bc my brain woke up in meltdown mode over this tbh#it sucks bc like. im excited to see my mum despite the Everything with that lmao#but im not excited for how her bf has been acting since they got here (and it's been day 1 out of 7 days)#with some outright homophobic comments while Housemate and i hosted them briefly at our house yesterday afternoon#not abt us but like. i mean. u know we're both queer so#doesn't really matter if it's abt us or not it's still fucky and makes me worry abt how he's gonna be today!!#doesn't help that he really wanted to go to Italy with her instead this summer#(despite the passive aggressive complaints from him & mum to a degree abt how expensive it was for them to come out here)#(we're ignoring the fact that a European trip would be even more expensive lmao tho i do think if they want to/can afford it they should go)#like. the Vibe from him has just been that he'll be Just Polite Enough but that he didn't want to be here#and he doesn't expect to have any fun and it's like#dude i am Trying. i and Housemate have looked up stuff to do that includes things he likes (like guns and historical weapons)#we tried making comments abt that yesterday like hey u might like this but if there's anything u have in mind already#and he was just. whatever idc but then made comments that made it clear he's not excited for anything else#like museums or the beach for sea glass hunting or the bird sanctuary or even the zoo#and all have places to rest/sit plus restrooms and food so I don't think it's a worry abt facilities thing for him#i think he's just fed up that I'm still involved in my mum's life since i moved and like#yes there's a detangling of the umbilical cord i and my past therapist were trying to eventually get my mum to cut#since cutting it myself in any attempt has had her metaphorically taping it back together#but like. it's not entirely on me here. I'm trying to set boundaries and make sure she's giving him more attention than me since he's w/her#more than i am now#i know he's upset when she helps me financially too (i offer to pay her back but she always refuses it) bc she took me aside yesterday#to give me some cash for the time with them for souvenirs/fun stuff i might not buy otherwise bc im trying to be mindful of money#aka still waiting on money my fkn job should have already paid me like. a week or more ago now#he makes her happy so even if he hates me i still care abt his frustrating ass#and i do want him to have as much fun as he can while still relaxing during the trip out here#but i feel like im gonna have to physically shake him by the shoulders screaming this before he listens#and even if he listens he probably won't believe me#sorry for the tag essay the edible hasn't kicked in yet can u guys tell lmao
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my family has decided that my cousin is now old enough that we gotta wear the hijab while he's here, and so now im forced to do that š
#im getting the vibe that mum and dad dont actually care if i personally wear it#dad made a weird comment like āur cousin is here go wear the hijab if you wannaā#if he actually cared that i wear it he would not have given a choice#but my sister is very insistent and all but pressed me to wear it or she wont let me go downstairs#which is fucking grand considering im older than her#but whatever#wearing an abaya rn like i give a shit#im sure everyone knows that i hate it and i dont wanna do this#but no one cares bc omg mari's doing smth islamic!!! gotta celebrate!!!#fuck them omg#ex muslim#hijab
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Carlton sing "with all our champions FASOLO they like to send us BIANCO" while uni blues sing "we are the champions we like to crush them"
#it's the same song though#just lyrics changed#you're welcome Tumblr#enjoy my insightful comments#also what do you mean Carlton don't actually include the Fasolo and bianco parts????#no they definitely do#I've been to nearly every Carlton this year#(sorry Mum)#I've heard them singing it
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