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celebrating the New Year with my family and I just know I would feel so much happier if I could celebrate with my beloved
#distance is homophobic#so is war because it's preventing us for going to each other's countries#evil
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my friends are all so adorable and cool and awesome and amazing and cute and pretty and GRAAAAAAAAH I LOVE MY FRIENDS SO MUCH DISTANCE IS SO HOMOPHOBIC LET ME TAKE THESE FUCKERS SHOPPING AND GOKARTING AND SHIT
#i love my friends so much#shoutout my friends#y'all are awesome#196#transgender#transfem#distance is homophobic
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getting mmo error messages constantly because i am trying to kiss my girlfriend but she is out of range
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trying so hard to astral project to my girlfriend that i give myself an aneurysm
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in my penpal era (mailing my international crush a valentine's day present)
#i'm so down bad#she's gonna see this#distance is homophobic#🎀#welcome to my public diary#she's gonna be so sexy in what i bought her tho
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distance is homophobic
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yearning for a future in which we can live together
#curling into my partners side looking for rentals around us when their flight home to the other side of the world is in just over four days#distance is homophobic
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what a day, I spent the morning finishing commissions, then I had a breakdown and cried, I had udon and improved the day, my gf and I shopped for dark girly clothes, then I started call with my gf and hearing her happy really lifts my fucking spirit up
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If only you weren't so far away or I'd help you with that 😘
It’s almost frustrating
I feel like I’m so cute, I can talk a big game, I’m super horny, I have cute nipples and my butt is squeezable and yet no one is fucking me or touching me or toying with me because they love my body and it’s fun to play with?? Come onnnnn
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The concept of queerbaiting annoys me. I was told that it refers to a work of fiction pretending to cater to a queer audience but then pulling back from it to avoid alienating homophobes, which is an incredibly specific thing. But a lot of people seem to think that it instead means "any time there's any gay subtex, metaphor, or ambiguity" or "whenever something from 1995-2012 was being a normal amount of homophobic for the era."
#I've secondhand seen the way Sherlock...was.#And yeah that's very pointedly cruel to the audience.#But not everything is that aware of its following to point by point mock them for half an hour.#And I think people forget that for a period there was a unique combination of awareness of gay people and homophobia bad#and a severe need to avoid being perceived as gay (and sometimes homophobic) at the same time#while it was ALSO very acceptable to treat the existence of gay people and homophobia or discomfort with both as a joke#so that whole wink wink nudge nudge dance was a huge thing in some of the 90s and earlier 2000s#and sometimes by doing that people accidentally made it seem even more fucking gay.#Or on purpose. People also forget that yeah gay people could exist as a joke but they couldn't be casual protags or w/e.#It wasn't really done like that.#I think what it's really proof of is that the 90s/early 2000s is long enough ago that people have become illiterate to the cultural cues.#When comedians complain 'you cant make jokes anymore' sometimes this is the exact thing they're referring to.#Gay people being on TV or in books isn't some funny joke you make anymore. Just being gay or seen as gay isn't the punchline it used to be.#People are shitty about it still but it's in a different way now. Being gay isn't as much the big embarrassment it used to be.#Gay tv shows and books are a whole market now. And stuff like Sherlock or supernatural were made right in the middle of that shift.#It's the only way you could position a strategy like this. I don't know if that cultural moment really exists anymore.#Audience backlash is also more massive and in real time.#Now instead of mockery at the idea of idk Dr house md being gay conservatives would see it as a 'culture war' thing.#And non conservatives are more vocal and more liable to criticize. TV shows are seen as keepers of culture in ways they weren't before.#I don't know how to describe it exactly. I'm not an expert and I know I'm missing some pieces or things I wanted to point out.#But yeah I just think people kind of. Forgot how people treated gayness as some kind of cootie disease you had to say#You didn't have really hard all the time. People are still sort of like that but idk the language changed.#A lot of talk about homophobia and queerness is very pseudo-academic now. The distancing happens with different signifiers.#But. Yeah.#☠️#I also think queerbaiting requires a specific kind of intent as a marketing strategy.#Instead of the more likely 'well we have an unintended gay following now so I guess we can throw in some fanservice#the network would literally never allow us to do anything with it even if we wanted to though.'
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you should be at the club—No. I should be at my partner's house giving them kisses.
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Anybody else find that smelling a piece of clothing your boyfriend leaves fucking changes your brain chemistry? I'm over here just huffing this shirt looking for that hit of "feeling safe laying against their chest" like I'm a fucking addict. Like I swear I've been pavloved into smell their scent -> brain off feel safe, and I can feel my brain switch. Uhgggg it should be illegal to smell this good and not be within snuggling distance
#sluttypuddles#nonbinary#trans#god i miss them#sub posting#sub thoughts#distance is so homophobic#like holy shit I neeeeed to snuggle them right now#i miss my owner#i need to bottle up their scent so i can just spray that on everything i own
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i would love, love if my brain gave me motivation to go work on ch16 and not spawn so many new ideas for a modern au into my mind. but here we are. writing a modern au.
#doliwrites#dolirants#slightly homophobic HL#'i dont care if youre gay just dont tell the press. kiss boys in private. also dont tell me about it.'#accidentally hurting alex by pushing him away due to the fear someone is watching#and he'll be 'caught'#and then everyone knows the son of famous politician HL is gay🫢#and BOOM#career ruined#reputation ruined#laurens family name ruined#john gets disowned#that doesnt happrn#but he fears it will#and he hurts alex by distancing himself in public sreas#:3
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i love my wife and my girlfriend
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internalized homophobia will have me unironically acting like a 6 year old who just learned what the term ‘gay’ means cause what do you mean “i can’t wear those socks because they have a rainbow on it” ????? just wear the socks???
#it’s so dumb but there’s always so much inner conflict when it comes to me wearing openly lgbt merch and stuff like that#which is honestly ridiculous cause i’m like the most clockable guy ever#but around cishet people i’m always trying to distance myself from my queerness as much as possible and it’s honestly so exhausting#and stupid too#there is no good reason for me to be agonizing over fucking socks#my posts#i went through such a bad “i’m one of the good ones who doesn’t make it my whole personality” phase at one point#and honestly oftentimes i can feel it still in the back of my mind and it absolutely sucks#and it’s ridiculous from an objective standpoint too because homophobes aren’t gonna make the distinction of#“good and bad” they’re just gonna see us all as queers who need to be eradicated#queer#lgbt#internalized homophobia
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Ahhhhh I’ve got like a week and a half vacation from work coming up and obviously that’s great and all but, like, all I wanna do is spend the cold winter days being cuddled up all warm cozy with my girlfriend and my metamour and they’re so far away 🥺🥺🥺
#physical distance continues to be homophobic 😔😔😔#yes I am wistfully and gayly yearning about that like 1 minute long hypothetical conversation about the three of us living together#what of it >\\\\\<
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