#dinks

[rowanellis]

video essay: is it ethical to have kids? (and who gets to decide)

"For much of our history there has been an assumption that everyone who can, will have children. Not just that you will have them, but that you’ll want them - you’ll try for them, you’ll plan your life around having them. It will affect who you are in a romantic relationship with, where you live, the timings of your career, what you spend your money on, what your future looks like…"

watch the full video here

[dnpg-hiatus-survivor]

dan and phil are dinks confirmed, thank you

[danskjavlarna]

Source details and larger version.

A gnomenclature of vintage gnomes.

[nocontextmythical]

like literally the same.

[dinky-the-horse420]

[nolan-higdon]

🔥 “SELFISH” or SMART? 🔥 Why is the internet LOSING IT over DINKs (Dual Income, No Kids)? 💸🚫👶 In the latest Disinfo Detox, journalist Kathryn Bromwich (@kathryn_brom) breaks down the backlash: ❗Why are childfree couples under attack? ❗ Is this about kids—or control? ❗ And what does all this outrage really say about our economy, gender roles, and media spin? 📢 This convo is JUICY—and way deeper than you think. 🧠 Bonus content + more truth bombs on my Substack: nolanhigdon.substack.com 🎧 Watch/listen now → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DJxVO8itjM

[rootcaseufx]

ネガティブな思考への誘導：「子どもを育てたくない」若者が52％？衝撃報道の裏にある本当の意味とは 📢 Watch full:

[onlyinredtoday]

Fanon: Cass loves all her brothers equally even she calls them "little brother" 💕

Canon:

Cass with Dick 🤔:

Cass with Jason 💀:

Cass with Tim 🥰:

Cass with Duke 🥰:

Cass with Damian 😠:

She is not subtle and I love it 😆

It would be:

1- Tim or Duke

2- Dick

3- Damian

4- Jason

[laurentrvls]

112924

We woke up at 3 am to get to the airport on time for our 6 am flight. Its Black Friday so I dont think the airport will be crowded but every notification Delta has given me tells me to be at the airport two hours in advance.

We get to the airport and sit at our gat with 90 minutes to spare. Not much is open so we grab a soda at one of the "to go" stops and relax.

Our first flight was to Detroit. Ive never been to Michigan but I am happy this is not our final destination. the snow is coming in sideways and I am wearing leggings and light sweater. I hear one of the guys on the jetway say its -16 degrees. That's disgusting.

We are in Detroit for only an hour, its just a little past 8 am so we go to Starbucks and grab seasonal coffees and a croissant.

We are back up in the air in no time on our way to Phoenix, AZ. I am slightly bummed that the drone i purchased on eBay did not make it in time for this trip. Luckily this flight has screens in the headrests and I recline as I watch a few episodes of Survivor. I haven't watched Survivor in many years and i am absolutely shocked that nothing has changed.

We land right after 11am. My husband and i have just about crossed the country before lunch time. We get a shuttle to pick up our car rental. We end up in a newer white Chevy Malibu. We drove from Phoenix to Scottsdale, about half an hour from the airport. When we get close to the resort a tire pressure light appears on the dash. We contemplate if we should bring it back but I said it didnt look bad. By the end of the vacation I had wished we traded it in since we had to put air in it three times during a week vacation. (The car was the curse of the vacation)

We arrived at Sheraton Desert Oasis Resort and Villas but were too early to check in so we ask for food recommendations as we wait for our room to be ready. We ended up at Jalapeno Inferno It was delicious. Husboy was not very hungry so he just snacked on our appetizer of a spicy quesadilla. I had a Spicy margherita and the house Fundido. I had never heard of Fundido even though i have been to Mexico over half a dozen times and I'm still not sure if i ate one. when i look up recipes for Fundido it looks like a meaty queso dip but I had a fried burrito with spicy sour cream and basically no cheese (which I enjoy everything not swimming in cheese) It was delicious!

We got back to the resort to check in and settled in our Villa. It was very spacious with a jacuzzi tub in the bedroom! Along with a kitchen and 2 fireplaces to snuggle up next to. It took us no time at all to put on our bathing suits and head to the pool. (if you would like to see my full review of the resort the review is live on TripAdvisor).

After an afternoon of swimming and a few shopping stops to get soda and snacks we finished the night at Amore Gelato which had seriously amazing Gelato from someone that knows good Gelato.

[foxyandthemoon]

How Playing Sims 4 Made Me Realize I Don't Want Kids

While casually playing Sims 4, I had my main character married, settled into a new house, and working as a freelancer. After a while, the gameplay started to feel repetitive, so I decided to spice things up by having them try for a baby. Oops—twins! And, as you might guess, it was the freelancer who got stuck taking care of the two newborns.

Suddenly, what was supposed to be a relaxing game turned into a high-stress scenario. My anxiety levels shot through the roof, and I kept reminding myself, "It's just a game." Luckily, in Sims, babies grow up in a matter of days and become more independent. But in real life, raising kids takes years—years of constant care, planning, and stress. The idea of having my life, my plans, and even my mental space revolve around a child, while trying to shape them into a well-adjusted human, is overwhelming for me.

On top of that, listening to my boss talk about the challenges of parenting—how he’s struggling with a sleepless newborn, a sick 4-year-old (just colds, nothing serious), and barely getting time for himself—really solidified my feelings.

I’m not criticizing anyone’s choice to have kids, but it's become clear that parenthood just isn’t for me.

[dinky-the-horse420]

[tenth-sentence]

All they ever talked about was how tired they were and how much the little tykes ruined the lifestyle they'd enjoyed as DINKs: 'Enjoy it while you can!' was something Ben and I heard a lot from our parent mates.

"In/Out: A Scandalous Story of Falling Into Love and Out of the Church" - Steph Lentz

[stellarspecter]

[rootcaseufx]

RehacQで指摘されたアンケートの課題：「子どもを育てたくない」若者が52％？衝撃報道の裏にある本当の意味とは 📢 Watch full:

[jurassicshields]

Aliens