#differnce-of-opinions

[thepersonalwords]

Its ok to be different, the climate is not the same in every mind

Bangambiki Habyarimana, Pearls Of Eternity

[ah0yh0y]

thinking abotu how in islam we dot havea clergy theres not like one dude imans are just people who like lead the prayer like and likeso much  peoplle dont get it 

[stormblessed95]

Jimin has made it so clear he's single and not currently looking to start a relationship. As the translator told Jon Bellion "he's fine with being alone". Idk why we are picking and choosing sentences he said to fit our narrative and also using translation differnces only when we want something else out of his words . Also the way Jimin expressed himself to Namjoon about not feeling excited and not having had a crush for a long time is also pretty telling along with what he has said here. He said many things including being fine being alone, that how everyone is living alone and can relate to his sincere thoughts too, how him and his friends have similar conversions how they all frel so flat even to have a crush, how him not finding his person is not a miserable situation but just not very exciting. To ignore something vulnerable he told us is not very respectful of his words. These things just fit together. What Jimin said about us getting the wrong idea was exactly us looking at an album about love and a title track about looking for the right person and we could, in fact, get the idea he was looking for someone and he wanted to be in love. But as a matter of fact, he isn't looking. He wants to be the way he is. The album is just a conceptual album about inspiration, love, muses, but the sentiment behind Who and the story Jimin told is his story. Let's not ignore it in the name of shipping Jikook as an actual couple when its almost obvious 90% chance they are not a couple but just closest of close friends.

Okay. I'm so happy you are so confident in your belief and your opinions here. That's amazing for you. And I'm saying this with full sincerity, I promise.

And I just have a follow up question. And I would really love it if you could answer, or DM me or whatever. I promise. I'm fairly nice, I'm more than happy to have a kind conversation even if you think I'm wrong about everything. I just want to know why. Why did you send me this? What was your objective? Your goal in having me read this? What were you hoping the outcome to be?

Because I will never understand why people send me these. I'd like to know please.

[footytea]

Did you see Tamira blanksons story 👀

Frimpong realy went All out

I like her relationship with frimpong way more than the one between santchitty and amir

And tbh santchitty Acts like she wants everything to be Private and stuff but i bet amir wanted to keep their relationship a secret. I mean there is a differnce between Private and secret. She kept amir Private by not showing his face and following him but she still posted him and told everyone that she has a boyfriend. While there is literally no trace of her on amirs Account. In comparsion to that frimpong and tamira follow eachother and like eachothers stuff both on Tiktok and instagram and he once even a picture Holding her hand. Like He doesnt hide her and is actually showing that he has a girlfriend. And frimpong also seems to be spoiling his gf way more often from what we see. He takes her on Trips and buys her stuff. I think their relationship is way more longlasting and stabil in comparison to santchitty and amirs. But thats just my opinion as a outsider so I cant really judge anything. What do you think?

to be honest atp idek if amir and santchitty are still together

i don't get the whole not following each other thing, i just think that's doing too much, you can still follow each other and not make your entire relationship public

also he's following other girls but not his own girlfriend? yeah okay 🙄

[joy-haver]

In response to: “hey, I think I may have hEDS too, what do I do?”

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Others with this condition or similar conditions,P L E A S E chime in with your own advice and critiques of what i said (and add whether you want credit when I put this together as a saveable and shareable resource)

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Personally I’d look thru all the diagnostic criteria before hand just so you know what to expect and what to advocate for. take pictures of yourself doing the Beighten criteria stuff, that way you may not have to do it as many time later. Take pictures of any other “party tricks” (joint hyperextensions and dislocations that appear noticeably odd to ppl), and then never do them again unless it’s the only way a doctor will believe you.

Also, be aware that most doctors (at least that I have interacted with in the USamerican south) view hEDS as a “fakers and malingerers disorder”, if they’ve heard of it at all. This makes it very hard to get treatment. And if you have any other identities or conditions that make them not believe you, it’s even worse. The only way most of them will even consider it is if they think it was there idea, and manipulating them into thinking so is one option, but it is rather fraught. The other option is you find a doctors whose willing to do the testing parts, and then you manage on your own.

But that’s where the double edged sword comes in; which is, doctors can’t do much for most EDS. Which means that even if they don’t take you seriously, you might still be able to manage your condition on your own. That said, you do need the doctors to rule out other conditions that you *cant* manage on your own. And also to help rule out other forms of untreatable conditions that have different outcomes.

If you’re getting tested for EDS, get the genetic tests. They can check for everything except hEDS. Depending on your symptoms, You should also be evaluated for lupus, autoimmune conditions, disautonomia, and anything else that could explain them. None of those are mutually exclusive to hEDS, but they all have different management than hEDS alone would, so you need to be aware of that. Also, you may get diagnosed with “joint hyper-mobility syndrome” instead of hEDS. In my personal opinion, the difference is pretty much arbitrary and changes depending on whose talking about it, and makes no functional differnce for people living with either condition.

But Basically, what I’m saying is, go in knowing what tests you need. Do whatever you can to get them. Don’t hurt yourself too much along the way. Do not expect the doctors to be kind or helpful.

And remember that diagnosis is a tool. That’s it. It doesn’t change your symptoms. And being undiagnosed doesn’t mean that your symptoms are fake. These conditions are meant to describe reality, and if none of them adequately describe what’s happening in your body, that’s a failure of the medical system. Your symptoms almost certainly aren’t some misperception of your own self. And even if they are, they are real to you, and you deserve kindness and help.

Have self compassion towards what you are dealing with, diagnosis or not. Diagnosis won’t change whether or not you are disabled, it changes what rights and tools you have access too. Diagnosis is also a spectrum. Diagnosis is also a trade off. So is treatment. If it becomes so taxing to get diagnosed or treated that it actively makes your condition worse, consider if it’s actually worth while.

At the end of the day, it may not matter if you have EDS.

It does matter that you are in pain. And it matters that you find out exactly what you can and cannot do about that pain.

[mallowstep]

so i'm figuring out how i'm going to release the end of ibtwicm and i thought hey i'll give y'all a chance to voice opinions on the matter.

so i have two chapters left, and i've come to terms with the fact that ibtwicm just. does not permit scheduling. with that in mind, i have...2 and a half options for what to do for the end:

finish editing the next chapter, release it, and then get on the next chapter. gap between chapters could be two weeks, could be another month.

wait until both chapters are finished (so probably won't update at all for at least two more weeks), and then either: release them with a week between them

release them together as a kind of finale.

i don't know what i'm going to do, and i can't promise that i'll do anything, even if there's unanimous support for one idea, but it doesn't make a huge differnce to me to how i do it, it's the same amount of time writing, so i thought i'd throw it out there.

[meandmybigmouth]

EVEN WHEN THOSE DIFFERENCES INCLUDE VOTING AGAINST ONE'S BETTER INTERESETS? ROBS YOU OF HEALTHCARE? AFFECTS YOU FINANCIALLY? YOU ARE F*****G NUTS! IF YOUR DIFFERNCE OF OPINION DISRUPTS MY LIFE IN A BAD WAY? F**K OFF!. FAMILY OR NOT!

[yoenpalabras]

Todoroki Shouto vs Prince Zuko

So, I should been doing some of my uni work but I like to procastinated and, as atla is my favorite show and for the past months I have been hyperfixed with bnha, here we have this analysis of the differnces between Todoroki Shouto and Prince Zuko. 

SPOILERS FROM BNHA AND ATLA

I know that it is like a running joke by now that Todoroki Shouto is the anime version of Prince Zuko from Avatar: the Last Airbender. However, I saw a couple of tiktoks during my scrowling that made me change my opinion about this comparison. Unfortunately, I don’t remember the users of these tiktokers, so I would appreciate that you could leave their names in their comments so that I can cite them properly.

It is obvious that Shouto is based in Zuko (the scar, the fact he is almost considered royalty because of Endeavor’s status as a hero, his powers...), and, beacause of that, in comparison,  we can say that Dabi is Azula (similar powers, plays the villain in then show, not so mentally stable...). However, as I’ve mentioned, I saw a tiktoker say that it was actually the other way around: Shouto was Endeavor’s golden child, the prodogy, the weapon that would take All Might from the position of Number #1 hero and win the ‘war’ of who was better between him and Endeavor, much like Azula was to Ozai. So, if Shouto is Azula then, who is Zuko in the BNHA universe? Well, Dabi, obviously. 

If we remember the episode of the battle between the Fire Nation and the Nothern Water Tribe from the first season of ATLA, Zuko says to an unconcious Aang: “My father said that Azula was born lucky. He said that I was lucky to be born”. This makes perfect sense if we compare to the characters Dabi and Shouto. Dabi is the oldest, like Zuko, and he was his fathers first try to become the weapon that would destroy All Might. But his body wasn’t made to handle such a strong fire, so he is weak and doesn’t recieved the same admiration than his younger brother. He ends up being “banished” from the family, with a father that doesn’t want to reclaim him. Shouto, in the other hand, is the youngest and the prodigy, like Azula herself, and has a strong quirk, making him stong and valuable. 

So, if Dabi is Zuko, does that mean that he’s going to become good? Is he going to have a redemption arc? My honest answer: no. Much like Azula, Dabi is presented in the show as a villain and, even if we can feel empathizes with him and understand the motive behind his actions, he’s still a bad guy, unlike Zuko, who was presented in the show just like an antagonist, but never a villain. But, if Dabi is Zuko and if Zuko is, by the end, a good guy then, why isn’t Dabi? Well, enter Uncle Iroh.

During the whole show, we see that Iroh is there for Zuko, for the good moments and the bad ones. He showed his love during his childhood and he went with Zuko when he was banished. He was the first one to see that his nephew could be a good person and a good ruler for the Fire Nation. He doen’t show that kind of affection towards Azula, especially because Azula doen’t regret any bad that she has ever done. However, there isn’t any character like uncle Iroh in BNHA, right? Well, not a first sight but there’s one that is close enough: Midoriya Izuku.

Izuku is the first one to try to get close to Shouto, he’s the one that makes Shouto see that his fire is his, and, therefore, show him that fire isn’t something bad. It’s thanks to Izuku that Shouto makes the decision to go and visit his mother. Izuku is Shouto’s uncle Iroh. And Dabi? Dabi doen’t have anyone that believes in him. Yes, he is with the Leage of Villains but, their relationship is like Azula’s relationship with Tylee and Mai: they don’t care about eachother and each one of them is in the league for a personal reason. Maybe that’s why Dabi is like he is: a reflection of his mother, to afraid of his father that end up being seen like weak and making their kids believe that their only purpose is to get revenge. 

In conclusion, we can say that they main difference between Azula and Zuko is the presence of uncle Iroh and that this can be seen reflected in Shouto and Dabi. If it wasn’t for Izuku, Shouto would probably end up having a similar fate like Dabi, the same way that Zuko would have had the similar fate like Azula. 

[onlydreamofmysoul]

Like to put abit of input, I know it will be very confusing buttttttttt basically there are two type of people in the north. Although the north of Ireland is in the uk, there are those who seem themselves as British and those who see them selfs as Irish. It really all does depend on your religion. If your Protestant then your British and you support England and all that and I guess you could call them northern Irish. If your catholic then your Irish, you support the republic but you still live in the uk, basically you want there to be an united ireland. Also most Irish up north would say the north of Ireland where as British folks would say Northern Ireland more. It is all very very very confusing but it’s ones of those things that can be seen as really offence up in the north. You also have areas that are heavily catholic and other areas that are heavily Protestant. OH AND THERES THE DIFFERNCE IN DERRY! British people say London Derry which is.... weird and not right in my opinion but in there Derry wouldn’t be right, so can’t really talk 🤷🏽‍♀️

It is super complicated!! I’ve been trying my best to put it into general terms but in NI it gets even more complicated!! Thanks for the help anon! It’s true the British vs Irish thing isn’t nearly as completely as the Protestant vs Catholic. It really is a whole thing

[seebkim-blog]

Dear Community,

I’m trying to gather my thoughts and put them into words.  As many of you know, I talk a lot (I would like to be a better listener as well). So, I’m just trying to gather some of my key realizations and thoughts. As you read this, please keep in mind that I sharing with you the changes I want to make for myself and why. Maybe some of you can relate and maybe this will provide some insight as well. I think it’s important we have conversations and share opinions and actually listen. All I hope is that this just allows you to become more empathetic and have more compassion for others. I know I personally need to do more of that. Maybe we all do. Maybe if we take the time to actually connect and listen, we’ll realize that we’re really not that different from each other. That our differnces are good things. That we’re all connected.

As an Asian American, I’ve grown up as a minority and I’ve even categorized all minorities as “the same” in my head. Well, let me tell you about how much of this week was a wakeup call. Do you ever hear a story from your friend about an experience, and think “man that sounds terrible” but then quickly forget? I’m raising my hand high because I do this all the time. It’s easier for me to say “oh wow I’m sorry” but then not actually process the emotions of empathy. I think that’s the thing. I think that I’ve been trying to figure out how to relate and then try and figure out how they must feel about it in order to validate their feelings. But guess what, I need to stop. I need to be okay with the fact that I may never know what that feels like, but I do need to understand that no matter what it feels like, it’s terrible. I don’t need any more justification to create empathy.

It's also crazy to think about how it’s easier for us to do this with experiences that are relatable. I mean, yes it all makes sense. When we’ve experienced a similar situation (or we think) tell ourselves “we get it”. This week I’ve realized that I don’t get it. I don’t know what it feels like to be black in America and to live in a country that has created the entire system of making sure you are the lowest on the totem pole. And for the ones that make it to the top, using then as an example of “but see! This person made it! Anyone can!”.

Honestly, this hit me so hard this week, because I am so guilty of doing this. Even as a minority. My parents came here with nothing but have hustled hard and are now financial successful. I understand that I am privileged because of my parents and the fact that I never had to worry about finances. Ever. That every time I fucked up in life, my parents could help me.

I was naïve and thought “If my parents can do it as immigrants, anyone can”. I’m wrong. Not everyone will be given the opportunities my parents have had. Does that mean that I think my parents didn’t hustle their ass’ off to get where they’re at? Absolutely not. They did. They gave up a lot of family time to make sure that money was never an issue. And I think we can have this debate all day. There will always be someone else that’s more privileged or underprivileged than you. But then I had to ask myself… How does any of this justify a black man losing his life for doing what he was told? That at the end of the day, you can argue semantics and say “well he shouldn’t have…” but are we really going to justify twenty dollars over a human life?

For me personally, I can’t. And I shouldn’t. I shouldn’t have to pick one or the other. We shouldn’t compare inequalities and say one outweighs the other. I shouldn’t go to a Breast Cancer Awareness march and say “BUT ALL CANCERS MATTER, TOO!”. Because that’s not the damn point. The point is that the inequality is still happening. That there needs to be awarenessz That it’s not right and we don’t need to try and come up with reasons to accept it. I think if we all sit down and tell ourselves that we don’t have to mentally “justify” everything, we’d be less stressed and just overall more empathetic and compassionate humans.

I think a lot of times we try and down play things because it’s easier for us. Because it’s easier for me to think “ah yeah, that’s happened to me but it wasn’t that bad” vs thinking “man, this person is really hurt by this. I need to be more empathic to their feelings.” I don’t need to justify why they’re feeling this way. I think this is the core of my issues. If I actually just use more empathy and not try and “figure” everything out, I’ll be able to relate more. Or maybe it’s not even about relating.

In some cases, I know I won’t agree, but me not agreeing shouldn’t take away empathy to the situation. Just because I acknowledge their situation, doesn’t mean I agree with them or it takes away from what I’m feeling. Just because I acknowledge my privilege, doesn’t mean it’s taking away from what I experience when it comes to inequality. This isn’t a “this or that” situation. I hate when I fall into the mentality of “you’re either with me or you’re not!”. You don’t have to agree with me, but it doesn’t mean that you are against me.

Even this week, I felt myself with so much anger and sadness. To the point that I was getting mad at everything and judging all the reporters for not doing enough. Daniel (my roommate) had to put me in check. If I’m being completely honest, when he did (even though he did it in a very nice way) I could feel myself wanting to be defensive. I felt myself coming up with excuses or even trying to justify my actions by thinking about maybe a time Daniel did something similar. I know it isn’t easy to change old habits, but it isn’t possible. Just like other skill sets in life, we need to work at it in order to be better. I shouldn’t be defensive. I should listen. I should admit that I was wrong. If not, I will never grow.

This then made me think about the Roy Choi show called “Broken Bread”. He talks to the founder of “Homeboy” in LA, which hires gang members to keep them off the street and teaches them new work skills so that being in a gang isn’t their only option. In the show, they talk about how that means they need to be able to give people multiple chances. That they may be in and out of “Homeboy” but we are humans. We make mistakes and it takes time to adapt.

That really made me think about how I need to be kinder to myself. Understand that I am trying to learn, but I will have setbacks and I will have big moments of learning, but it’s okay. Also, that I need to have more empathy and I need to give people more than one chance. I need to learn to not make it about me and not take things personally. If someone messes up, I bet you 99.9% of the time it’s not because they want to hurt or disappoint you. That it has nothing to do with you and more about them. Where they are in life and what stage of the process they are in.

I think if we really tried, we can think about at least one time we needed multiple chances. If you can’t think of one, ask your parents/someone close to you. I’m sure they have a few stories to remind you. And in those moments, I bet you it wasn’t because you wanted to disappoint them or purposely hurt them, but because you were still learning. So my take away is that I hope that I can become a person with more empathy and compassion. That some people will need more chances than others. Because I know that even for me, each time it was never the same. I needed more than one chance. That I’m here because I’ve been privileged enough to have one more one chance.

[hellenic-devotional]

All credits go to the OP on SortedSoul.com!! I only take credit for my alterations on this spread. I have no intentions of stealing this idea from the creator. I merely added my own personal touches and wanted to share with the lovely divination community.

[Cause I’m using a pretty shitty photo editor I couldn’t add more cards cause my hand cramped and it was getting frustrating :)))]

So here is my example! Since I’m not a great editor I’ll show you how to do it! I really liked doing the original spread! Then I thought why not read for my partner as well??? Then it struck me! Why not do both!!! AT THE SAME TIME!!! So this is how it happened XD

The white cards represent myself and the black cards represent my twin flame.

The way I read this is looking at both cards separately,,, like reading cards #1 I would read mine first, then his, then combine and compare the symbols and feelings in both cards to come to a unified answer.

I felt that looking at both perspectives before looking at the whole picture gave me more depth in the answer the cards gave me. You don’t have to read it the same way I did XD! If you find yourself reading in another way or just some way that you find comfortable it won’t make any differnce it’s just my personal opinion.

[sandroila]

We know so much more than you think. People's bodies often say things that their mouths do not, and jikook and everyone around them have said that they're a couple literally hundreds of times via nonverbal communication. Body language analysis is used by people ranging from con artists all the way to the police due to its ability to reveal treasure troves of unspoken information. It's good enough to catch criminals, but when it comes to jikook people are too afraid to acknowledge what they see.

One thing first, before I even start anything at all….

Why are you trying to convince me into completely believing that Jikook is real? Or who are you trying to convince?

I said I ship them, I said I feel that they could be actually real, I said I am completely open to that possible fact.

And I said my opinion about it.

We are both on the same side.

The differnce is that I leave the possibilty open of us being wrong.

[raajjagat]

What is thinking ?

The word: “tree” is-not-equal to a real tree. The word: “tree” is a symbol to remind you about an experience with a real tree. Words are not-equal to the, real-life-facts themselves, words only do describing real-life-facts. They are symbols. You have to look behind words/thoughts, (your own words/thoughts and the words of your counterpart), when you want to understand what exactly is said/written/thought.

What life-experienced facts/situations do you have to define the words you use, and that you read/hear?

Explaining the exception: Or: the truth about thinking itself: Words themselves are also facts. Like in the case of the word: “word”, a word is the-real-life-fact behind the word: “word” Do not be deceived by opinions. What is opinion/thinking in itself?

The word: "tree" is not like a real tree, the word: "tree" is just a symbol to remind a person of an experience with a real tree. A real tree is the fact behind the word "tree." If you want to understand the truth of a tree, you don't achieve it by thinking. You have to go into the forest, see a tree and maybe also touch it. Only then one begins to encounter and understand the reality/truth of a tree. Primarily, you understand life, with seeing life, not with thinking the word: “life”. The light of the sun, reflected by the whole life, is one of the most important information-dense bearers, of the truth, of what is going on in the world. Not the thoughts in your head.

Words and thoughts are very similar.

You can prove that easily in your own life, and in the worldwideweb you can prove it by doing little research: : search at Wikipedia and Wikimedia

Harmonia Macrocosmica

Find out what the pictures in the atlas named Harmonia Macrocosmica mean,

Explanation of the differnces of

(thinking) and (life-experienced true facts of life).

With the help of art:

::::Kashi

[thegurlbehindthesmile]

Truth be told

Life is a funny thing full of shitty things and happy things.

i think when im older ill look back on these and just dread it all. it curls my stomach to read my old journeys. not in a bad way really but not in a good way.

as my son is getting older and older i am faced daily with confronting myself with my own inner child.

well how was i raised? what did they do when i did this? well did i like what they did when i did that? was it necessary. this jumble of words cascades from my mind. all these questions i never had before ...thought about.

i never really thought about how or why i did something. how i reacted. how i learned... its crazy how its shaped by those who raised us.

as i am now the one doing the raising you come to these moments every SECOND and think IF i do it this way i could change his whole world right now.

example: if i yell right now for him making this mess, i could destroy his ego or teach him a lesson. do i use force . do i yell.

in that moment every mistake uve made as a kid comes to mind. every parent who taught you that lesson comes forth and you think hmm i can approach things so many different ways.

you decide whatever you decide.

as a mom i see it this way now.

im going to mess up i mean its a give in

and mess up is a silly word because its all a learning process LIFE

so assuming just by living it that you'd mess up well thats instantly pessimistic. BUT anyway

im going to keep trying till the outcome seems even, not so bad not so good . not hurtful but helpful

coming to these cross roads doesnt mean that the way i was raised was wrong. AGAIN i dont really see wrong or right. life is crazy and if we argue about mundane issues like....wrong....or right... we could be here for months.

morally correct- ok. wrong in the sense of 2+2=5 OKAY.

but i mean im always saying the apple is the apple. if we argue about the hues of green and the bitter and sweetness we both agree its an apple. maybe u like it maybe i dont. my opinion isnt helping the situation or growing it in a positive way- why bicker. its non sense and such a waste of energy

SO

yeah if i change the way i run my marriage and parenting its not about being some fuckin rebel. its just about me living my life.

my sons 3. he is brighter than any star ive ever been able to gaze upon. being in his light makes one feel special and free. you could only dream of being in his attention because it would be such radiation. i am his attention most moments. 23 hours out of the 24 hour day . and i try and glorify every minute.

as he grows i simply try and stay excited to meet the next version of himself. i just want to build a relationship with him where he feels safe.... safe to be himself. to speak his mind. to act freely and truly be himself in whatever fashion. i want him to feel confident in himself and in me to be able to ask all types of questions and figure out all types of answers together, because maybe one answer isnt necessarily the only answer.

i want him to learn all about life and love and be excited to learn more and more about it. maybe to the point where his lust will never get full- that as his cup over flows he only continues to give to others. and the more and more he gets the more and more he can give.

that that fire in him never fades.

that doubt never over clouds his judgement

and that if only- like today and yesterday and from every moment since i was able to hold him for the first time- that he forever finds comfort in my holding. and shelter in my arms from whatever maybe hard on him for the moment.

i cant expect more than that. i truly cant. life has to happen and learning has to happen, and with life and learning come mistakes and opportunities and saddness and greatness and that is LIFE as we know it. to expect more OF him i believe would take away from whats meant to just be. JUST be julian. just be you.

id like to the biggest guide and support i can. to honor to keep u safe and healthy. to talk it out. work it out. see all the sides so we can simply understand each other. i want to bask in ur light forever.

like most days these days arguing and yelling is so common. my mothers opinion is a constant reminder to do something or change something. instead of just being nothing. her mind is constantly flooded with worry and love and its all very confusing. i dont believe love is that hard. i do believe i was raised to believe it is among many other things but as ive learned..its not. worrying is not love. its a by product- a sub by product if that, love can be so many other greater postive things. worry should be the last. her expectations and how she has lived and thought control her actions. i feel she lets her expectaions could the reality. that reality IF it differs then her thoughts then it must be less. it must be incorect. it must be fixed.

i dont feel thats the case. im not aruing her way is wrong in any sense but i think our ways are deff different. and thats okay as i grow "my way " changs every second - logic would tell me that as i approch my 70th year of life i would have changed so much so that im sure my way would infact be similiar to yours. but that moment..is not now.

now is when i am able to make my own decsions. and those decisons need to be made and tended to be me.

i think its fair to say that with the 44 yr differnce between us we are entitled to have different opinions on most topics. the age the era. its a give in. so why argue about those things.. the things we cant really chnage or predict but have shaped us from within. old trauma's - life events.. these things have happened but they dont need to necessarily impact us in a negative way. i dont think any experience is meant to impact us in a negative way. i think it would best or better to learn and adapt and create the most postive "ness" we can cuz one can only grow in healthy soil.

her opinion and her thoughts no longer feed my soul. my self. they no longer impact me greatly. with postive impact but only bring negative thoughts and feelings. you are entitled to feel what u feel and how u feel it but i dont believe youre entitled to make meeee have to feel those feelings. i can understand u simply by u having raised me. by us having had a discussion. i know the feeling of making new steps in the sand. i just dont feel its fair to make me feel shitty for walking my own path.

just because its different doesnt mean its wrong

just because were learning and growing daily doesnt make us naive fools.

jp there is and never will be a right and wrong with u and me okay. prismic infinity honor and see all sides. lets argue less. listen always. i want to be someone u simply want to be around.

im done arguing about this apple

[gde210typographylb-blog]

The other two thirds of the project

since i got the font decided and how most of the pages would be designed nailed down, the road to the finish line wasn't that bumpy. I decided the shape of the layout would be based on the actual article. For example the grass fed article was a very solid dissection of grass fed animals and had an unwavering opinion so I kept it straight and narrow. The I,rosebush felt more scientific and wanted to give a wide array of sources and opinions in the space os I made it very wide and had the pages split between the top and bottom. 

The differnces between the two versions are very subtle but in my opion make the finished peices a lot better, some key ones are that the text of importance (toi)  for the Grass fed was made slightly smaller and the green match the background on either side. This also allowed the second block to be extended so that the text on the right and left matched, which happened with the i rosebush story aswell.

Another difference was that the i rosebush title was made to be the same size as the rest of the titles, this does mean that the box is filled less, but it also means the publication keeps consistency

[thefictionshelf]

Listen. I know nothing about Ace Attorney, and you probably mean a diff kind of video, but these are by far the funniest fucking things I have seen using the objection.lol format:

(also when i put ace attorney into my youtube search bar this video came up with the red bar so despite having no memory of consuming it i apparently found it interesting enough to watch all 40 minutes. Enjoy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAPpgHxuDA8 )

Someone please. I need any excellent ace attorney videos asap

@theguardianace @thefictionshelf @presumptious-quirks you have the best shots at seeing this