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[tristen208]

What the fuck even is the point anymore?

I’m never good enough for anyone.

[stefanleodatingtips]

Never tolerate this from a girl! ⚠️

[potential-object-738]

Okay, so, im 17F and i would really love to be in a relationship. ive never been in one before but i feel like im in a state of emotional stability and could feasibly date a guy. Unfortunately ive got a few problems. 

1.Im super into personality types and im an ENTJ. (basically im direct and generally like to be in charge though i can work in groups). Most guys aren’t attracted to direct and strong willed girls. They respect me but they don’t want to date, and i am not willing to compromise who I am for a guy. on top of this, i find it difficult to locate compatibility with romantic potential in a guy which leads into…

2.i can easily get confused by my feelings. often times i will think i have a crush but really i like the chase and just want to be friends. 

3.due to my several physical disabilities i am quite short and look quite young. Im not going to go too far into it but my spine is seriously curved in the shape of a ‘C’, so i don’t exactly fit into any kind of beauty standard.

4.i am totally fine with asking a guy out and if he says no that’s fine, but because im in high school if i were to do that rumours would fly 

5.the past three times ive gotten friend-zoned. Every. single. time. i say i like them and then they immediately start dating someone else. 

[coachpaulablog]

When you decide to meet a man from online, is it a date or just a meeting?   

It's important for women to know that it's not a date until a man has met you and then asked you out.  But it's also important that a man feel that the first meeting is a date!

Dating and Relationship Coach Paula Grooms, LMSW talks about what a man needs to feel vs the feeling you want to have going into the first meeting with a man from online.                                                         

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[ievakamb]

Why you're attracted to the WRONG guy #shorts

[idkreallyknowwhatimdoing]

someone let me know why my immediate response to a person asking me out is STRAIGHT PANIC I feel sick. Is this a sign I’m not ready for a relationship or just extreme nerves??? Akdkskskskskkskslss

[merysmiles-blog]

The Friend Zone vs. The Attractive Zone, Part 3

How to Become More Attractive

Do you have any recommendations for becoming more attractive? C’mon, help me out.

Yeah, actually. Y’know how confidence is supposed to be sexy? Well what that really means is being comfortable with yourself is attractive to most people. That’s right. To be more attractive to more people, you ought to become more comfortable with yourself.

Let’s say you’re really self-conscious about your weight. If you’re healthy, that’s what matters most, y’know? Living and enjoying life. If you’re unhealthy, what can you do to be get healthy? Do you need to get a work out buddy, or try watching & exercising to videos on YouTube? (Former college classmates of mine did this.) Should you start trying to prep meals ahead of time to take with you to work or school? (I am doing this.) Do you need to set alarms to remind you to get up and eat something every two hours? (My brother did this until he started eating regularly again.)

Let’s say you feel depressed. If you’re comfortable with taking medication, and can afford to go to a doctor and buy it, then try. If you’re not, or you’re still struggling, talk to someone about it. Talk to a counselor or a friend. It’s hard to do that, it really is. One of my friends has been taking medication and is seeing a counselor and is doing super well now. I can’t get to a doctor or a counselor, and when I’m feeling really terrible, I shut off and a part of my brain says I shouldn’t reach out to my friends and it’s crappy of me to make them listen to my problems, etc. Well, I eventually got so stressed I started crying at work (I work retail; luckily, it was really so and I was the only one on the clock that morning), and I forced myself to reach out to the friend I mentioned earlier, who’s doing well now. She and another friend picked me up after work and we had a sleepover. They took me to a restaurant I really like, hugged me, listened to me, shared their struggles with me, made me laugh. Reaching out to my friends was a fantastic and really, really hard thing to do.

My point is, identify what you’re not comfortable with about yourself and change it. Start small, take baby steps. It’s okay to go slow. And you don’t have to be completely comfortable with yourself to be attractive. You can be really struggling with your own self-worth and still be in someone’s attractive zone. Who knows, maybe you are right now.

[supportsmallbiz]

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[tristen208]

Question: I sent a girl a selfie on Snapchat and she replied with “🙈❤️”, what does that mean? Sorry in advance, I’m as blonde as they come lol.

[silentmagi]

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[coldcoffee6]

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[shirahchante]

Creator's Cure Series | Recover from Unhealthy Dating | Undoing Adultery...

[realdavidmarch]

10 Yhings For Boys To Remeber As They Start Dating

[merysmiles-blog]

The Friend Zone vs. The Attractive Zone, Part 2

The Attractiveness Plane

But wait, how do I get out of the friend zone? I’ve tried and tried and tried, but I’m still stuck—and I haven’t been family zoned! What do I do?

Well first, recognize that overlapping the Relationship Plane is the Attractiveness Plane, and that everyone has both. Then figure out what the heck the Attractiveness Plane is.

Zones of the Attractiveness Plane:

Attractive

Unattractive

Meh

Nonexistent

The attractive zone holds all the attractive people, like your significant other(s) and that one celebrity, um, Benedryl Jazzhands or whoever. The unattractive zone is where you put all those unattractive people, like Mrs. Can-I-Speak-to-a-Manager and that one guy who kept hitting on you after you said ‘You’re making me uncomfortable, please stop.’

The meh zone is for all those people who are neither attractive nor unattractive, or perhaps both at once. And, of course, the nonexistent zone is for people you don’t even know exist.

Now, poor soul just trying to get a date, we come back to your predicament: you’re stuck in the friend zone and just can’t seem to get out. Don’t turn to being a raging jerk just yet! Because while you’re in the friend zone on the Relationship Plane, you might be in the meh or unattractive zones on the Attractiveness Plane.

But I’m really nice! Why would I be in the unattractive zone?

Maybe the person you’re into prefers another gender/sex, or maybe they prefer someone who’s a little more mature, or who has longer hair. Maybe they don’t like you for what your political views represent (ex: supporting killing babies or torturing their friends for something they can’t help).

How do I tell what zone I’m in on the Relationship Plane?

Ask. Seriously, ask. “Hey, do you think I’m attractive?” If they seem reluctant, you’re probably in the unattractive zone. If they can’t answer, you’re probably in the meh zone. If they start listing off things, then you’re most likely either in the attractive zone, or they can see you being in someone else’s attractive zone. Maybe they’re not into you, but they can totally see how someone else would be into you. For example, I have a friend who’s super sweet, pretty, talented, etc. I’m not into her because I’m not into women, so she’s in my unattractive zone, but I can totally see her being in someone else’s attractive zone.

I’m pretty sure I’m in the unattractive zone, but I really like them! What can I do?

Figure out why you’re in the unattractive zone. Is it because you’re hard to get along with? Does your appearance not match up with what attracts them? Do they have psychological issues that link ‘abuse’ with ‘love’? Is it something else? Find out. If it’s something you can change (maybe they prefer someone who’s more active), try it if you want. If you don’t want to change, or if you’re in the unattractive zone because of something you can’t change (like gender/sex), don’t. Move on. Find someone else. It’s like in the Sims 2, you had turn-ons and turn-offs. It’s easier to find another sim—I mean person. There’s plenty out there, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

[welcometonat-blog]

Dating help.

I always see other tumblr users users helping each other. So tumblrs I need your help.

My sister thinks I should go on a dating app. And I kinda want to.

But then i think about doing it and trying to write the bio is as bad as trying to write a personal essay for university.

And I kinda want to do it but im scared because every girl I’ve ever dated has fucked me over. The ones I’ve got close to fucked me over and I have deep rooted trust issues. And body issues. And i don’t even like seeing myself naked let alone letting another person see me naked.

But I know I’d be a hopeless romantic.

Dating is scary. Contemplating dating is scary.

Anybody else feel this.

Any advice?