#datingtips

[verymarykate]

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[im-secretly-a-frog]

I'm freaking out again...

So I've got a crush on one of my friends again, and I think they might actually like me back?? One of our mutual friends keeps telling me that they do, but I'm not sure. I'm just gonna dump my thoughts here, and if anyone can help me, please do.

Evidence that they do like me:

They held my hand when I asked them to (Ikr, I was so bold) and didn't let go until we got back to class

They used my thigh as a pillow?? Idk if this counts but I'm still putting it here.

They get really flustered when we joke-flirt but don't ask me to stop.

They "curled up into a ball of embarrassment" when asked if they liked me. I was not in the room, but this was via a trusted friend.

They let me rest my head on their shoulder and almost fall asleep using them as a pillow.

My friend says that they like me.

Idk how valid most of these are, but anyway.

Evidence that they do NOT like me:

most of these could be platonic

They didn't say no when asked if they liked me, but they also didn't say yes.

they get embarrassed about everything.

Guys, please help Idk what I'm doing and I'm scared of messing our friendship up.

[stagesofbalding]

Would You Date a Bald Guy?

Dating preferences vary from person to person, and while some women may have a preference for men with hair, there are many who find baldness attractive. Here are some reasons why women might be interested in dating a bald guy:

[sk-lumen]

How do I know if my relationship no longer fulfils me? There's love but I don't know if there's enough.

How do I deal with the fact I'd be breaking his heart? My progression will come at his heartbreak

Hi darling, You can't hold yourself responsible for other people's happiness.

Heartbreak is sometimes inevitable when two people part ways. But if you feel it in your heart that he's not the one, you can't imagine the rest of your life with them, or if you feel restless and unfulfilled wondering what it would be like to be "free" again, the signs are clear.

Trust me, you will not be having any of these thoughts or feelings if he was the one. You'd be too busy wanting the rest of your life to start as soon as possible, because life is an adventure you'd want to only have with him by your side.

Best wishes,

Lumen

[groundedingoodness]

[reincarnatedonthefirst]

I just came across a post about how men become generous when they think you’re dumb and helpless. They really become simps for you. The author in the post is learning how to become better at finessing men by being a “damsel in distress”.

This post is funny to me because, just yesterday, one of my dumb clients told me that the reason he married his wife is because she seemed helpless and dumb when they first met. He clearly told me that when he first met her, he found her helplessness very attractive.

Truly… men are stupid. 😑

After I started learning about how to make money off of men some years back, I learned about this “damsel in distress” tactic. Afterward, I also quickly learned that this tactic wouldn’t suit me because I have a big ego and I’ll be damned if I allow any of these men to think they’re smarter, stronger, and more capable than me when they’re really not (these dudes are honestly mediocre, below average intelligence).

However, I’m feeling inspired… 🤔

Now, I’ve learned and accepted that this tactic shouldn’t be used on all clients (if you’re an escort). In fact, it probably shouldn’t be used anyone with whom you do not have a long term or vanilla relationship with.

Anyway, if and when I find the appropriate opportunity, I need to just remember that these men are only useful for their money and my ego shouldn’t be involved whatsoever.

[wizzlervibes]

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[jennilifeva]

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[nilos-posts]

✨ Looking for a genuine connection? ✨

These days, finding someone special can feel like a mission impossible, but dating doesn’t have to be a gamble. Here are some practical tips to make your conversations more meaningful and build real connections:

Be yourself: The most attractive thing you can do is show who you really are. Share your interests and what truly excites you—this builds deeper connections from the start.

Ask genuine questions: Going beyond a simple “how are you?” shows real interest, and trust me, it opens the door to much richer, memorable conversations. Start with something from their profile and let the topic flow.

Choose the right platform: Find a space that prioritizes authenticity and respect, where you can connect with people who want the same things as you. On LoveSmart for example, you can meet people who value genuine connections. (This is an affiliate link, which means it may generate a small commission at no extra cost to you).

💖 Ready to turn your dates into meaningful experiences? Take the first step today.

[kaleb-is-definitely-sane]

Relationship Advice from a Single Person pt 2945: If your beloved/lover does not love the moon as much as they love you, dump them. It's a red flag. This also goes for sunshine, poetry, art, music, books, sunsets, flowers, starlight etc.

[grofektop10]

Top 10 Modern Dating Rules Everyone Should Follow

Introduction: In today's fast-paced and ever-evolving dating landscape, it's important to adapt to the changing times. Modern dating has its own set of rules that can help navigate the complexities of finding love in the digital age. Whether you're new to the dating scene or a seasoned dater, here are ten modern dating rules that everyone should follow.

Be Authentic: Honesty and authenticity are crucial in modern dating. Be yourself and present your true self to potential partners. Pretending to be someone you're not will only lead to disappointment and misunderstandings down the line.

Communication is Key: Clear and open communication is vital in any relationship. Be upfront about your intentions, expectations, and boundaries. Effective communication helps build trust and ensures both parties are on the same page.

Respect Boundaries: Respecting personal boundaries is essential in modern dating. Everyone has different comfort levels, so it's important to listen and respect each other's boundaries. Consent and mutual agreement should always be a priority.

Embrace Online Dating: With the rise of technology, online dating has become increasingly popular. Embrace the opportunities it offers, but also exercise caution. Use reputable dating platforms, be mindful of your personal information, and meet in public places for initial meetings.

Take It Slow: In the age of instant gratification, it's important to take things slow. Rushing into a relationship can lead to misunderstandings and unrealistic expectations. Allow the connection to develop naturally and give each other time to get to know one another.

Be Mindful of Ghosting: Ghosting, the act of suddenly cutting off all communication without explanation, has unfortunately become prevalent in modern dating. Avoid this behavior and be respectful by providing closure if you're no longer interested. Treat others as you would like to be treated.

Practice Active Listening: Listening is a vital skill in any relationship. Show genuine interest in your partner's thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Practice active listening by giving your full attention, asking follow-up questions, and showing empathy.

Embrace Equality: Modern dating is all about equality. Both partners should contribute equally to the relationship, whether it's planning dates, initiating conversations, or making decisions. Avoid traditional gender roles and embrace a partnership based on mutual respect and shared responsibilities.

Prioritize Self-Care: Taking care of yourself is crucial in modern dating. Prioritize self-care and ensure you're in a healthy emotional and mental state before entering a relationship. Set boundaries, engage in activities you enjoy, and maintain a support system outside of your romantic relationships.

Have Realistic Expectations: It's important to have realistic expectations when it comes to dating. Understand that no one is perfect, and relationships require effort and compromise. Don't expect someone to fulfill all your needs or complete you. Instead, focus on building a healthy and fulfilling connection.

Conclusion: Modern dating can be both exciting and challenging. By following these ten modern dating rules, you can navigate the dating world with confidence and increase your chances of finding a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. Remember to be authentic, communicate openly, and respect boundaries. Embrace the opportunities that online dating offers, but also take it slow and practice active listening. Prioritize self-care and have realistic expectations. By following these guidelines, you'll be well on your way to successful modern dating.

[edwardgdunn]

One Of The Biggest Relationship Mistakes We Can Make

Words are proof that human beings can “cast spells.”

Words have an effect on our heart rate, blood pressure, and as was demonstrated in the famous water experiments conducted by Dr. Masura Emoto, even on the cells and molecules of our bodies.

In these experiments, words were taped to the exterior of containers containing water molecules. Words like, “Thank you” and “I love you”. The crystals were then frozen and produced spectacular, beautiful cohesive patterns not unlike snowflakes.

Conversely, when negative words such as “I hate you” and “You make me sick” were attached to the containers, the frozen water molecules displayed incoherent patterns that were anything but beautiful and geometric. Considering that our bodies are made up of over 70% water, imagine the impact words have on our physiology and our relationships.

The hardest lesson I’ve learned is that words spoken in anger, without consideration for the their immense power, can severely damage even the best relationships. They can leave scars that last a lifetime. They can’t be unsaid.

Strive to choose the words you use in a relationship carefully. Allow them to mirror the love and respect you feel for the person you are speaking to – no matter how angry you may be in the moment.

It isn’t always easy, but it is always worth it.

Check out the Happiness 2.0 Podcast — https://podcast.edwardgdunn.com/

Happiness 2.0 Blog — https://edwardgdunn.com/blog

[pinkpuff25]

The Secret Sauce to Sustaining His Interest in You

1. Maintain Independence: Continue to prioritize your personal interests, hobbies, and friendships. Show that your world doesn't revolve solely around him, which can make you more intriguing and attractive.

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2. Communication Balance: Strike a balance between being responsive and giving him space. Being attentive and engaged in conversation is important, but avoid overwhelming him with constant messages or calls.

3. Mystery and Intrigue: Don't reveal everything about yourself too quickly. Leave some aspects of your life and personality for him to discover over time. This can create a sense of mystery that keeps his interest alive.

4. Be Confident: Confidence is attractive. Believe in yourself, your worth, and your value in the relationship. Confidence can make you more appealing and assertive, which can be very attractive to a potential partner.

Most of all:

Love yourself first

[prismaticstreams]

Beginner’s guide to wlw dating

If you’re a woman who’s never tried dating the same sex before, the wlw (women-loving-women) dating scene can be really intimidating. I know when I first deconstructed my old, conservative religious beliefs and opened up my dating apps to women, it was pretty nerve-wracking! I was excited and curious, but I really had no idea what I was doing. It took me a while to find my feet, so be patient with yourself. There’s no need to rush!

Dating men can often seem much more straightforward, especially at the start, because the gender roles are more clearly laid out - so it’s easier to know what’s expected. Men are still largely expected to ask women out and take the initiative, so as women we don’t have to stick our neck out and risk rejection as much. Not to mention men are generally far less selective than women, at least in the initial stages of matching online and going on dates. Finding casual sex with a man is typically much easier and quicker than finding casual sex with a woman, as well.

That said, there are many advantages to dating women. Women are far less likely to slut shame or devalue another woman for having sex early on, and engaging in casual or ethically non-monogamous/polyamorous relationships. Casual sex with women is typically safer as well - there’s less risk of assault, catching STIs, and no risk of pregnancy. Taking initiative with a man might be seen as desperate or too masculine, while taking initiative with a woman is more likely to be seen as confident and assertive.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and need some guidance, here are some tips to get you started!

1. Don't be afraid to take the initiative. Many women won't make the first move, so you'll probably have to ask them out and initiate physically. I generally find the rule of three is a good rule of thumb - ask someone out on a date three times, then step back to see if the other person reciprocates.

This can be helpful when asking questions on apps during the texting stage too. Try asking questions three times in a row, then pause to see if the other person asks you anything. While people have different conversational styles - and some people don't like asking lots of questions - it can give you an idea of whether the person is curious and interested in you.

2. Women tend to be more subtle and cautious when flirting too, so it may be harder to detect. If you meet a woman in public, it’s likely she will just assume you’re straight, unless you meet at a LGBT-themed event or dress in a way to make it really obvious you are into women (e.g. wearing pride themed accessories). 

If in doubt, be direct, as most people have a hard time detecting flirting accurately anyway. Not to mention, many people just flirt for fun and for an ego boost, so it’s best to communicate clearly and openly if you are genuinely interested.

3. Don’t be afraid to ask direct questions like, what are you looking for on here? Also don’t be afraid to ask if the person is single or married, and whether they are seeking a monogamous or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationship. There’s a fairly high number of unicorn hunters in the wlw dating pool - couples seeking women for MFF threesomes or triads - so it’s important to screen them out if it’s not your thing.

Also, stay alert for people catfishing. If you’re unsure, insist on a voice or video chat before meeting in person. Make sure you meet in a safe, public place, and let someone know where and when you are going. 

4. You won't get as many likes and matches from women as men, so don't take it personally. It doesn’t mean you’re unattractive or undesirable! There's way more men on apps than women, and men are far less picky as a rule (at least when it comes to having sex - men may be more choosy when it comes to commitment and marriage). Not to mention, statistically LGBT women are a small minority compared to cishet men. 

5. I recommend the dating apps HER and LEX to start off with, if you're looking for LGBT-specific apps. However, plenty of lesbian, bi and queer women also use the mainstream apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and OkCupid. As well as that, there’s a few subreddits specifically aimed at LGBT women, including r/lesbianr4r and r/l4l and r/meetLGBT.

6. Try attending local LGBT-themed events and meetups. You could start with Meetup.com, but I find a large number of local events are primarily advertised via Facebook. I would recommend joining local LGBT Facebook groups to find out more about social activities in your area. Volunteering can be a great way to get to know new people as well, so check out any local volunteer opportunities.

Further Resources:

It can be helpful to familiarise yourself with common slang in the LGBT community. The HER app website has a great glossary here: The Official Lesbian Slang Glossary from HER

I'd recommend this website for some great resources - if you scroll down to the bottom of the page, you can find some free video classes and workshops: Conscious Girlfriend Academy

Autostraddle has some great articles to get you started too: How to Be a Girl Who Dates Girls: Your Lesbian Dating 101 Syllabus 

Check out this page for safe sex tips with women: Figuring Out How to be a Lesbian Safer Sexpert  

Best of luck!

[sistamagza]

Top 10 Things Women Shouldn't Do During a Date

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Top 10 Things Women Shouldn't Do During a Date

Dating can be a fun and exciting way to get to know someone, but there are certain behaviors that can make or break the experience. Whether it’s your first date or the fifth, knowing what to avoid can help you make a positive impression and build a connection.

Here are the top 10 things women shouldn’t do during a date:

1. Constantly Check Your Phone

While it might be tempting to glance at your notifications, constantly checking your phone sends a clear message: you’re not fully present. Give your date your undivided attention to show that you value their time and company.

2. Talk Excessively About an Ex

Bringing up an ex—especially in a negative or overly nostalgic way—can make your date feel uncomfortable. It may give the impression that you’re not over your past relationship. Focus on the present and enjoy the moment.

3. Arrive Significantly Late Without Communicating

Life happens, and delays can occur, but failing to communicate your tardiness can leave a bad impression. Being punctual demonstrates respect for your date’s time. If you’re running late, send a quick message to let them know.

4. Overdo Personal Grooming at the Table

While a quick touch-up might be necessary, using the table as your personal vanity area is a no-go. Excuse yourself to the restroom if you need to fix your makeup or hair.

5. Dominate the Conversation

Engaging in a conversation is essential, but monopolizing it can leave your date feeling unheard. Aim for a balanced exchange where both of you share and listen.

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6. Complain Excessively

Everyone has bad days, but a date isn’t the time to vent about every grievance in your life. Constant negativity can dampen the mood. Instead, keep the conversation light and positive.

7. Drink Too Much

If alcohol is part of the date, it’s important to pace yourself. Overindulging can lead to embarrassing situations or give the impression that you’re not in control.

8. Be Rude to the Staff

How you treat others, especially service staff, speaks volumes about your character. Rudeness or impatience can be a major red flag for your date. Be polite and gracious, regardless of any hiccups in service.

9. Bring Up Sensitive Topics Too Soon

First dates (and even early ones) are about getting to know each other, but diving into heavy or controversial topics can be overwhelming. Save discussions about politics, religion, or personal traumas for when you’ve built a stronger connection.

10. Pretend to Be Someone You’re Not

Authenticity is key in any relationship. Pretending to enjoy activities you dislike or agreeing with everything your date says just to impress them can backfire. Be genuine, and let your true personality shine through.

Final Thoughts

Dating is all about building a connection and having fun. While it’s important to avoid these common missteps, remember to relax and be yourself. After all, the right person will appreciate you for who you truly are.

By steering clear of these pitfalls, you can ensure your dates are enjoyable and meaningful, paving the way for deeper connections. Happy dating!