#dating pros and cons

[jesterjaxx]

Something so funny about giving DJ a edgy freak for a boyfriend

DJ would text him a photo of cookies that he made and Duncan would text back "if we were in a 80s horror movie and you died first id try to get revenge on the killer and when i get fatally wounded during the fight the camera would pan to my dead body facing yours with blue and red lighting"

and DJ just has to decode that

[astro-cattus]

Sometimes i listen to my friends talk about falling in love n shit. And it boggles my mind how it takes them like 3-4 business days to decide they want to spend the rest of their life with someone.

When it takes me 6 years to even consider the possibility, and even then I have to calculate if it’s really worth my time.

[kemendin]

Inspired by this post by @justiceforc3po

[fizzywashere87]

Pros and Cons of Dating Fizzy

notes: i decided to make a compare and contrast post for me?? why the fuck not cuzzos. this is some form of self advertisement and im not above it. (im off limits and a minor)

M. List

Pros:

i will be very loyal towards you

if i like you a lot, i won't get an ick -unless it's something SUPER bad but even then i tend to let red flags pass over me.

i'm a good listener when i want to be -if i rlly like you again, i would always want to be

i'd do literally anything and everything for you

id buy you gifts and pretend not to care if you didn't like it

i don't keep secrets of mine from you -unless i CANT say anything, then, sorry

you don't have to do much to gain my trust if i like you a lot -that doesn't stop intrusive thoughts.

i'll adjust to your needs after studying your behavior

i have a good memory so i'll remember certain topics you bring up -likes, dislikes, facts you share, a story you tell me about.

i'll defend you should anyone try to do or say anything bad about you -i'll throw hands for you

i am not a dry texter most of the time so you'll have an interesting convo for the most part

it doesn't take much for forgiveness if i'm rlly down bad -i don't forget tho

you get goodmorning/night texts

giving you my hairtie/bracelets and spraying perfume on it -i'll pretend not to notice if you don't wear them

A Double-Edged Sword:

i'm blunt - i could be overly blunt but at least i'll be deadass with u

ill drop my needs for yours -if you rlly care then you'd be sad abt this i think

i struggle to pick up certain implications -you can probably use that to your advantage

i've learnt to mask really well to adaptto your personality - you wont rlly know how i'm feeling unless i choose to let you know

i'm attached to you -maybe too clingy? if you tell me to fuck off i will tho

i'll take what you say literally most of the time

i'll brag to my friends about you -i might also complain if you make me sad

i put my family before you

i have a hard time saying no a lot of the times

i hold onto promises -i keep mine tho

i'm kinda stubborn

i do dangerous shit -it has the potential for entertainment but if u rlly care then the downside is that i might get hurt over a simple dare

'are you sure?' x100

i laugh at everything -you could end up thinking ur funny bc i laughed so you go retell that joke to ANYONE else and realize my humor is shit and you are not funny :|

i send you memes/videos and go 'us' -it could get annoying

i'll pester you to take care of yourself -it could get annoying. also i do not take my own advice

i can be rlly protective but not like super alpha sigma dw

i'll want to wear your hoodies/shirts

my standards are dangerously low -you don't have to do much

i put myself down a lot -this could end up funny

Cons:

at least once a week i'll ask you if you're gonna leave me

i have underlying health complications that show up at the worst times ever

i am not funny -and it's worse cuz i'll actively be trying

i'm very specific about A LOT and i'll lose my shit if my shit isn't together -yes this has potential to become your problem

i will not tell you what i need from you -i just won't. unless you pester me for way too long

i'll assume you'll leave me at some point -this is regardless to your answer to the first bullet point

i WILL complain about my day and you WILL have to listen to it -it's full of complaints and i'll only stfu if u tell me to

i'll cry over the dumbest shit -whether it's front of you depends on how close. usually early on and you'll be the cause 8/10 times

if i'm overstimulated it might be your problem

i'll get mad at you from the cause of my overthinking

i'll secretly not trust you -not for like other people i mean reassurance wise

i need constant reassurance and it might be brought up indirectly but snarkily -i'll never tell you outright

i suck at flirting and i'll run away from you

i might zone out on you during face to face convos -probably from calculating correct eye contact durations or just thinking bout you- but while you're talking so its not good

i'm kinda loud and it's worse when i'm excited -i'm quiet in the mornings tho :3

i'm a lil aggressive

i'm kinda shit at comfort and my advice may not be good advice

if i see a point/indication and i don't like it i'll ignore it because i don't want to deal with it

i want your praise/validation

i get pissed easy

i take nothing seriously

'oops'

[neurotheatre]

okay so i’m newly dating someone and today i went to their house for the first time. well, i’m looking around their room and inspecting every lil trinket, as one does, and i see something suspicious looking. tell me why i pick it up and it is a photo of the spn cast signed by misha collins. so of course i walk over to them and start making fun of them for being a fucking nerd (but also mention i was a superwholock girlie).

okay fast forward a couple of hours and we're leaving their room and going down stairs. first of all, never make the mistake of not asking who you will be meeting by emerging from a room. i met five whole ass new humans and two pets. they are all lovely (especially the dog who would not stop kissing me) but christ, warn a bitch. anywho i get talking to his sister and turns out she is an active tumblr user and has been for years. she got the spn photo signed for him when she went to spncon. so i’m like. okay. cool. wowzers. and then the sister and i talked for many minutes while he just stands there. discovered that we share interests and hobbies.

so, this, my fine feathered friends, is why i am now terrified that the sister of the person i am dating will somehow, accidentally or not, see my blog on tumblr dot com.

moral of the story is: you never know who’s a tumblrina, and also be yourself bc you’ll end up meeting someone who matches that, i guess.

[tevintersnakes]

None of it is posted here but looking at my art from end of last year/start of this year of my bg3 OC and shaking my fist aggressively over the fact I'm getting too attached to moving towards realism.

anyway, here's Kettle & dnd!Antyllus from 02-Oct-23

[carcarrot]

i guess im being offered the job lol

[feytouched]

[ghosttrolls]

HI I Love your Posts about trollhunters and Danny Phantom.

they are things i gad trollhunters is different form Danny Phantom

Jim only date one girl and everyone agrees that she is the best Choice for him.

and the main creator isn't a Dick.

but my Question for is if Dash were to become Like Steve was Expose the Ghost world Just Like him how do you think would've involved and this Time his memory stays Like Jez did.

Hi, thank you! Before I say anything else I would like to clarify that while I spend a lot of time comparing themes between the two shows, I don't really feel like one could replace the other - they're both so unique in their execution! Honestly, all the characters in both shows have personalities that couldn't be copied over between the two without the status quo of each show drastically changing. I don't really think of Danny Phantom and Trollhunters in terms of "Danny and Jim are the same person," but more like "Danny and Jim experience things that are interesting parallels of each other and I like to explore those narrative parallels," which I can understand being a kind of complicated distinction.

There definitely is a thing with both of these shows where they pick sort of Traditional Character Roles to some extent, like The Bully, The Hero, The Best Friend, The Romantic Interest, etc. So thinking in terms like that, Dash and Steve do fill kind of similar roles in their shows. I am pretty sure that Dash knows ghosts exist by the end of the show, even if you're writing off Phantom Planet (the final episode that people like to ignore happened). There's an episode where all the adults in Amity Park are brainwashed to go on a "cruise" which ends up just being a way for some ghosts to use them as a power source - but because the adults are brainwashed, the kids are the ones that have to save them, and Danny uses his parents' ghost tech to work together with all the other kids to fight the ghosts. This includes Dash. They all fight ghosts on the deck of a pirate ship, and Dash and Danny stand back to back as Dash says, "When I wail on you tomorrow, I'll be wailing on a hero. But I will be wailing on you." At this point in the show, Dash and other people know about and are fans of Danny Phantom... I don't think his memory gets wiped of the incident, but Danny does get in trouble for using the tech without asking and that makes him "lame" again in the eyes of the other high schoolers. I think that's meant to be the show's explanation for why it doesn't get brought up again later.

I'd love to consider what would happen if Dash had actually been more active within the ghost fighting community - I'm pretty sure he's one of those people who thinks it's "weird," so he'd probably need some convincing. But it would be super interesting if he learned that Danny was Phantom and joined the team! I'm not the first person to say this, but still. It would be cool. I did really enjoy in Trollhunters when Steve and Eli had just formed Creepslayerz but they were trying to keep it on the down low, and acted comically to cover their tracks. I imagine Dash would have to do something similar to keep his jock friends in the dark about Danny's secret... In general, DP never really gave us that big of a look into what Dash's life is like outside of school, other than throwing a party when his parents aren't around. If he joined the team in some way we'd be able to see more of his backstory and he'd become a much more fleshed out character!

And I know you didn't ask for my opinion on this, but I do wish that Steve had more development after the end of Trollhunters and 3Below. Like, he stopped bullying Jim and Eli, he got a girlfriend - and now we learn he's really scared all the time! And they make him kind of like a knight in Wizards but he's still like, terrified of everything, and bad at very simple tasks to an almost annoying extent. It makes me wonder if the trio really explained very much to him, because we didn't see any explaining happen on screen... and then it felt like they were hinting that Steve would learn some cool stuff from Lancelot, but that never happened. And WHY didn't Aja WARN HIM that he could become pregnant like that! That was so out of the blue too. I really liked how they had Steve develop as a character over the course of Trollhunters, so when he kind of stopped changing for most of the other TOA content, I was a little sad.

I guess this is just an appreciation post for bully characters that decide to become nicer. They deserve more love, for sure.

[imissthembutitwasntadisaster]

do I actually want to date someone or do I just want to know that I'm loveable, a constant question by me

[lezbianz]

spending literally any time with my family makes me so so sad no one should ever be the youngest sibling by a large margin it is a fate worse than death

[satans-knitwear]

Out of anyone in dtar wars, who do you think would take you out on the most fun date? And where would you wanna go for a bonus question?

received this question right before i got in the shower and ended up pondering it so seriously for way too long and using far too much hot water.

its gotta be Lando Calrissian. for many reasons.

capes. you know he'd dress to impress and that gives me an excuse to do the same.

he knows places. bitch could probably get into any cool location on any number of cool planets for free bc someone owes him a favour or something.

he knows people. sweet/smooth talker supreme. would absolutely make all basic date convo 10x more entertaining.

well known to only be serious when it counts. and even then....still a good time.

no life time commitment, wont burn down the galaxy for me after one date, will happily move on and remember fondly

has connections but has learnt to stay in his lane. knows most of the chaotic people in the galaxy but leaves the crazy bullshit to them.

totally knows how to satisfy beings of many species and genders. i do not doubt this.

also, id want to go to a cantina with the fancy lighting and funky jizz music and dancing aliens and questionable looking drinks. just for the vibes.

[yj-98]

i lied abt stopping thinking abt it and going on w/ my night ive been talking abt it in the gc and im still upset.

[attractthecrows]

drawing dorian and revallen smooching and all i can think is Boy get your Bigass ears out of my Face

[thesefuckingfeelingsthatihave]

Pros&Cons of dating me:

Pro:

You get the weird gothic girl pussy

&also the disgusting wild psychotic gothic girl sex experience

I can be OBSESSED

Cons:

I have no tits

I smoke a ton of cigarette and also drink a ton of Monsters sorry

You have to be kinda my father if its not problem for you

You have to cook for me otherwise we will be eating spaghetti&pizza every day

(I'm having.... some little issues.... you know I'm kinda bpd borderline adhd baddie but if you don't mind that I constantly manipulating you into loving me and worrying about me 0/24 and you also love doing little sideguests like a fun fantasy character to satisfy my needs and earn my love that would be crazy)

Also we have to make LOVE everyday, multiple times a day is even better, dunno if that is a pro or a con, you decide

No you don't understand, you have to be OBSESSED

Also I'm taking the applications in dm

Please only apply if:

-Youre a dilf

-Youre a tattoed dilf

-Youre a girl/woman/milf/Venus/mommy/queen/princess

-Youre a sad depressed hopeless romantic little rainbow creature

-Bonus points if you have tattoos and piercings thank you

[missr3n3]

so i guess the previous cabin bestie rly did break up w us n the rebound is like an evil pirate?