#daily affirmations that not everything i post has to be perfect

[meatcatt]

Saw someone on twitter headcanon Astro's moon as a mask and doodled my own ideas. +Some misc doodles

[girlypopbops]

⋆˙⟡Ultimate Self Care Sunday Guide ⋆˙⟡

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When I think about Sundays I think about rejuvenation and pleasure ; enjoying the day while doing a weekly reset.

On Sundays I like to sleep in and get that well deserved beauty sleep, the key to any successful reset is being well rested and grounded.

♡ (10:00am) Wake up, take my time waking up & lay in bed for a few mins, stretch and take some deep breaths, positive affirmations

"Today I am grateful for..."

"I deserve to treat my body with love and care today."

"I am committed to improving myself and achieving my goals daily."

♡ Open the blinds, straighten up room, and make bed. Starting the day with a bright and neat room is a simple and refreshing way to start the day off on the right foot, a small achievement as soon as you step out of bed will inspire you to keep going.

♡ Drink water & take my meds and supplements. Since it had been hours since I had any water hydrating is super important, and since I'm already taking my medicine might as well finish the glass off.

♡ Journal and plan day. Having a game plan and a clear mind before doing any real tasks sets the foundation for a productive day and promotes mindfulness. I like to have rose quartz, clear quartz, and amethyst on my desk while I journal to set peaceful intentions and promote self love. I have a five minute journal so I begin by thinking of 3 things I'm grateful for, one affirmation, and 3 things I can do for the day that will make it great. Typically on Sundays taking my time, being attentive, and being proactive are my goals for making the day great. I'll then make a to-do list for the day.

♡ Skin care and comfy clothes. Washing my face, moisturizing and putting on sunscreen is the perfect simple skin care for running errands, I usually wear some sweat pants and a t-shirt to finish the fit.

♡ Breakfast! I always like to have lots of fruit and a sweet treat on Sundays as part of my breakfast as a treat for getting through the prior week.

♡ Reset cleaning session. I like to do a full vacuum of my space, mop, wipe everything down, run the dish washer, and do my laundry. Other cleaning tasks vary based on the week but I like to make sure I am doing those tasks weekly. I also like to make sure to wash towels on Sunday since sometimes I'll do laundry on Wednesday and don't do towels then.

♡ Ultimate shower vibe time. The everything shower of my dreams after being all sweaty from cleaning. ( I have a post about this already on my page!)

♡ Light a candle and set the vibes with some mood lighting.

♡ Do my full skin care routine, face mask ect...

♡ A nice filling dinner & tv show. I love a Sunday night pasta dish with a Diet Coke while watching Pretty Little Liars.

♡ Journal. My five minute journal has a section to do in the evening, it asks to write down 3 highlights of the day and what lesson you learned for the day. It's a nice way to look back fondly on the day.

♡ Read. I like to read before bed since it helps me to fall asleep! I've been reading The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and Conversations on Love by Natasha Lunn!

♡ (10:30pm) Night time meds & slumber!

[moonastro]

Characteristics of your fs that you'll adore

PAC reading

left to right(top)-> 1,2

left to right(bottom)-> 3,4

°DO NOT take this as literal, take everything with a grain of salt as this is purely and intendedly for entertainment purposes.

°don't be afraid to give feedback and opinions about this post(as i would entirely appreciate it).

PILE 1-

❅ firstly you'll love how independent and confident they are.

❅ you'll love their loyalty- how they only have their eyes on you and no-one else.

❅ i see you liking how they talk out their feelings instead of being too embarrassed to say them and keeping them inside. you find that attractive.

❅ their hardworking nature will be something you like- how they are always down to earth.

❅ i see them having a strong protection instinct towards you- that may be something you'll like about them.

❅ i also see you seeing you two together for the rest of your life- so they may be someone who is the perfect fit for you.

EXTRA- they may become angry easily and may have random bursts of anger. Take it or leave it, this may be something that you'll dislike about them.

PILE 2-

❅ you will love how emotionally stable they are- how they can take a joke and are not too sensitive.

❅ their precision to words and how they deliver their speech will be something you'll like-they may not curse or may give you plenty words of affirmations.

❅ yeah, i see a lot of healthy words coming from them which will kind of heal you in a way or make you feel some typa way.

❅you may see them as a perfect partner so you may want to spend the rest of you life with them. (same with pile 1)

❅ you will also appreciate how flexible they are in terms of routine and daily schedules- you may like how they always have time for you and how they enjoy your company and vice versa.

PILE 3-

18+

check out pile 1 or 2 if you felt drawn to them in any way

❅ so, for you pile 3, i see you liking their sexual energy- you'll love how they perform the act and how they make you feel during it. this may be a spiritual thing between you two.

❅ you may enjoy how they understand you on a deeper level- they might please you a lot- take it as you may.

❅ yeah, you will appreciate their hand work lol. (take whatever resonates)

❅ you may also like how their mind works- like they may come up with the most unique ideas questions that may surprise you and will love that about them. you may like how they have an imaginative mind and how they don't limit themselves and are comfortable with sharing them with you.

PILE 4-

❅ JOY- lol the first thing that came out along with THE SUN jumping out right after. This person will definitely be a fun person. You'll adore how they make you laugh, how they play pranks, how they play around with you, their sense of humour etc. This may also mean that they may be good with kids, which you find that attractive and may want to have kids with them.

❅You may love their smile- love how positive their mindset is towards their goals or just how positive they are in general. like whenever something off putting comes up, they brush it off and say 'its fine' or 'its okay'.

❅ their hugs will be one of the many things that you'll enjoy getting from them- you will like how they will comfort you emotionally, physically and spiritually.

❅ you'll love their motivation that they will give you and how they will stick by you along the way of your ups and downs.

❅ they might like to dirty talk/text you which you'll like ha.

That's it!! ✵ Thanks for reading and i hope you enjoyed it. ⛄ Don't be shy to interact with this post however you'd like. ✤

[honeytonedhottie]

a post on persistence⋆.ೃ࿔*:･💝

im super happy and excited to announce that this post is a collab with the AMAZINGG @pinkpigtailsprincess. we wanted to collab on this post and talk about PERSISTENCE in manifesting and how crucial it is when ur manifesting things.

HOW TO PERSIST ; persisting simply means reminding urself that u already have whatever it is that u want. when u persist, you decide what it is that u want and you STICK to it.

the oxford definition of persistence simply means to continue in an opinion or course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition.

your 3d literally has no choice but to catch up and reflect the new thoughts that ur thinking in ur 4d so just KEEP GOING. if ur gonna whine or complain every step of the way and think thoughts like "persisting is hard" or "theres lots of resistance/difficulty with manifesting" then thats what ur going to experience.

manifesting is easy, effortless, and instant. when u catch urself thinking thoughts that perpetuate the old story, remind urself that no matter what, whatever u persist in will harden into reality simply because it HAS to. stop getting in your own way!!

LIMITLESS > IMAGINATION ;

limitless definition; possesing power of an immeasurable rate a perfect way to describe your power your literally the god of your reality and you know you might think thats silly or “delusional” its so true though like ever since birth people are conditioned to believe that being negative is the more “logical” and “realistic” way to think than positive which is such a stupid revelation because all throughout life you meant to believe that you have to bring yourself down to earth about achieving something and that you’ll never have “” but that makes no sense seeing all of the extraordinary achievements that humans have done like

build rockets and do rocket science

walk on the moon

build the great wall of china

and so many others including the human body its self your cells in your body healing and protecting wounds and your organs being able to stay in the designated spot no matter what and you think “logic” actually matters?

everything in the human mind is projected i mean everything you use on a daily basis started off in the mind it all stems from imagination

DECISIONS ⭐️ ;

deciding is the final decision and the final outcome no matter what no questions asked like if you went too a sushi restaurant and ordered and decided that you want a shrimp tempura roll you will have the shrimp tempura roll no matter what concepts “if the concept of something can exist then that can be achieved no matter what”

literally something i think about alot and a direct quote from yours truly like most people do think that you can have something because its quote “unrealistic” or it “doesn’t exist” but if that were really the case than why is the concept of it allowed to prosper like if those things really didn’t exist then the concept of billionaires or superpowers and superheroes wouldn’t exist or even time travel everything single one of those things are a product of imagination!!!

YOUR THE ONLY POWER ;

alot of the times on loablr you see people say “you’re the only power” and “you don’t even need that method just imagination and that honestly just so real because if you really think about all of these methods ie: 48 hour challenge, 10k affirmations method etc.

and the void state those things also stemmed from that person’s imagination when you use those methods or use subliminals all your doing is giving it a smidge of your power the method is only powerful because your giving it that power in conclusion you and your imagination are the only things that matter !!

[gigidragonbbxxx]

The Dark Side of Loass + motivation

I was on my daily reddit scroll while sipping my morning coffee when I saw something extremely disgusting on my homepage.

It was a manifestation success story by a man who claimed to have manifested his "perfect" gf - the kicker? She's underaged and he is a fully grown man.

The post has been deleted but the original poster's account is still up, as is his comment history. In his comments he details how he essentially used SATS and shot a message to someone he saw in discord. Apparently she is 15, lives with him due to an abusive situation, and yes they are s******y active. Apparently he treats her very well (he even mentioned bringing her to school YUCK) and buys her a lot of stuff and she's happy.

Let me make this clear:

a girl in an abusive home situation is not "saved" by an adult man taking advantage of it in the guise of "improving" her life situation while subjecting her to doing physical things she cannot consent to because she is not a damn adult.

I did some digging and it was not very long until I saw his first-ever comment about it and it was worse than I thought. I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt like maybe he visualized for a perfect gf and he didn't know she was a minor. Well, that says more about me than anything bc yes I found out that he had specified that he wanted her underaged. He literally says in the comment "specifcs that could get me in trouble". He made a lot of comments about her body, etc. and quite literally said something along the lines of "I'm her savior and shes my obsessed loving gf". Keep in mind...one of the titles this man used (he posted twice in diff subreddits) was "I manifested a s** s****e". So. Yup. He's a whole p*do.

I will not be sharing links as I don't want to give that horrible man any more traction but if you read all that and said to yourself, but Gigi whats that got to do with the dark side of the law of assumption? and why would you say there's a dark side to it?

The truth is that the law isn't dark at all, the evil part of the law is the people who use it for evil.

This is why good things can happen to horrible people.

This is why you see villains win.

They may have an amazing self-concept OR they just are under the assumption that NO MATTER HOW HORRIBLE THEY ARE THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT EVEN IF ITS FUCKED UP AND MORALLY TWISTED.

It's why you see nepo babies who aren't talented get shit handed to them - THEY EXPECT IT BECAUSE OF WHAT? WHO. THEY. ARE. SO CHANGE YOUR INNER SELF. EMBODY THAT CONFIDENCE.

This is why I wanted to share that story with you, it is to motivate you: if you know you're a better person than that horrible man, WHY CAN'T YOU HAVE EVERYTHING YOU WANT TOO?

Shouldn't you deserve even more for being good?

Stop thinking you don't deserve things bc guess what? People who are genuinely criminals are out here manifesting - so stay on your zoom and FOCUS. SATURATE. DISCIPLINE. COMMIT.

and let's all collectively agree to pray for that girl. I'm honestly gonna affirm that she gets saved and ends up in a situation where she is protected, loved, and away from predators.

Do not let evil win. Use it to remind yourself that the law is about BELIEF not FEELING.

with a heavy heart, xx, gigi

[sugakookie127]

Hey guys, so im back and i honestly regret giving the 3d so much power over me, this cycle… its so tiring so i WILL change. Ive said this before but i mean it! I will start my change by listening to adambja’s desired reality tape and their instant manifesting abilities tape! I’ll share my honest response to it everyday and while i listen, i’ll also be changing myself to be my desired self. I will stop giving my ego any attention and just dwell in the blissful feeling of my desires already being mine. I think my problem is that i think TOO damn much! Like… TOO MUCH. I keep asking myself questions like,” how do you know if this is working”,” i dont feel relaxed or fulfilled enough so am i doing something wrong?”, “what am i missing?”, “how have i been manifesting on a day to day basis and why is it hard now?”, etc etc. ive been asking myself too much questions and not understanding anything or “forgetting” what i learned about loa BECAUSE of my self doubt which has made me decide to overconsume. I feel like now that i think about it, ive been deciding a LOT of things. I’ve been deciding to continue to believe the 3d is real, decided to continuosly doubt myself, decided to stress myself out, decided to overconsume and everything. So now im going to decide that this is me putting my foot down because im tired of the self doubt, self hate, insecurity and mood swings CAUSED by these “insecurities”. I wouldnt be feeling this way at all if i were my desired self. So while i decide to listen to the adambja tapes i’ve mentioned, im also going to follow a “routine” but i won’t treat it as something that i HAVE TO DO like homework because manifestation is about having fun as the creator or the “buyer” in your reality. It’s not necessarily a process but it’s like walking into a store where EVERYTHING u want is available for u at no cost and all you have to do is take something and then it’s yours now. It belongs to u and you are now that person WITH that desire. Idk, it’s like i DO know how to manifest but i cant feel that “acceptance” feeling when i imagine myself with it.. y’know? ( i better after all that damn overconsumption) So im going to meditate while i listen to the tapes and when i go to sleep, i’m going to think affirmations like,” i love ending my day in my perfect room looking this effortlessly beautiful while going to bed”. Im going to vaunt and do things the way my desired self would and if that means im going to post everyday and be like her, then so be it. Expect my success story this week because i decide that i’m not a failure. I decide that i no longer want to see the 3d as the truth cus it’s no fun😛 also expect a daily review on adambja’s tapes 😗 i decide that i’m not ugly no more cus girl TUH. What hater would really have the nerve to call me that💀 im too fine and they know it. I feel like i fall in love with myself all over again anytime i think of myself but it’s impossible NOT to because i’m just that kind of person. Im too lovely and irresistible to NOT fall in love with. Yea i DO have $995 and i will win the contest i made with my bestie cus my paycheck bouta be $695 lol WHY? CUS I SAID SO. Subconscience i know you’re listening bookie, my love, i already have my desires no matter what, ok? PERIODT

K bye yall💚💚💚

[553everly]

a success story ++ how i did it.

what did i get ?

so recently i manifested a new house + a superior job to mom ++ large amounts of money coming toward all of us. THOSE WERE UNDER A WEEK.

i also started building my dream wardrobe slowly with amazing clothing items. bought bags, my desired skincare products + desired makeup items too.

Eating sushi and dumplings for the first time !! DUMPLINGS WERE FIRE !! sushi was good, and i ate avocado for the first time?? i discovered I'm not into it in any way and removed it along w sushi from my life board at Pinterest (I was planning to be eating am sushi in my life along w avocado in my salads or wtv)

basically everything is going perfectly my way lately and everything feels very amazing.

what i actually did ?

A PINTEREST BOARD trust me, it's like a vision board and your mind needs a guide to know where it's going. make a Pinterest board with everything you want, and take a look at it affirming "my life is exactly like what I'm looking at rn" or wtv affs you like, you can use a sub too. Just add wtv you desire type of beauty, desired body, your lifestyle, fashion, grades, room, house, car, items, food. Literally everything ! I literally ate the same sushi that was in my board + bought same skincare and makeup products. It's so powerful. ( You can use a sub along w it.)

I had a mindset playlist. it included everything i ever thought i needed. yk like master manifestor / manifest for others ect.

it can be at any length tbh, depends on the how much time you have at morning! you can listen to the 10 mins the only sub you'll ever need by iwantitigetit or her recent one or v1per's whatever. You can ask for my recommendations too !

anyways once the playlist is ready (can even include one sub) you go prepare your daily affirmations. just a collection of affirmations that you'll repeat ×3 times.

For me - i had two parts of affirmations. Ones with self concept + self esteem + self love + self confidence affirmations.

the other with the i am a master manifestor, everything works out in my favour, i am living my dream life +++ specific affirmations with a feeling (creds to the owner) like I feel so safe and secure now that I have moved into my desired house.... something like that, the feeling can be gratitude.

AND THAT'S IT. Literally.

ill share the affirmations i used to say (creds to the owner since I stole them from random affs posts i saw in here + ig)

the affirmations.

SELF CONCEPT : My manifesting journey has always been easy fun and beautiful.

I’ve always been a master at manifesting. I’ve already manifested everything I wanted. I accept my power to create the life of my dreams I’m beyond powerful and in control nothing can deny my desires. I live in a state of bliss pleasure stable calmness peace and wealth. I’m divinely blessed in life. my life keep changing for the better. I’m a magnet for miracles blessings and abundance. Good things keep happening to me. My life has always been perfect I am always in a good mood and state of life. everything is perfect and I worry about nothing. I’m completely healed inside and out. I have a perfect mental health. I’ve never been healthier and happier. I am enough worthy and safe. I am the girl who has it all. I am worthy of everything I want. I am worthy of everything I have. I am stable and secure. I’m always safe and protected. I’m a master at manifesting. I can have anything I want. my life is beyond perfection. I manifest what I want effortlessly. I’ve always been rich. I can afford anything I want.

AFFIRMATIONS :

I literally have all my desires in a blink of an eye. I always get what I want no matter what. It’s insane how many blessings and abundance rains down on me. I'm so blessed. I’m the chosen one, the luckiest person on earth. My life is always on the right path to true success happiness abundance and love. Everyone aspires to be me and do all the things I do. I live a life of extreme luxury and wealth. Everything I touch turns to gold.I can afford anything I want. I get pampered and spoiled every single day. Im the type of cool you can’t buy or fake. I’m ambitious driven and disciplined. Nothing can stop me.

I’m the most successful and wealthy person to ever exist. Every time I breathe I’m sent a miracle blessing and money. I have men and women all over me. I’m pursued by the hottest richest and nicest people. People always respect me. People would move mountains for me. i’m always the first choice and top priority. I’m so beyond spoiled and rich it’s insane how much I have. everyone wants to spoil me that’s why I receive the VIP treatment 24/7. I deserve the absolute best and most lavish in life and I’m getting it. My self concept and self esteem is sky high. Nothing can break my confidence. I’m one of a kind and everyone knows it.

CHALLENGE AFFIRMATIONS : i am living my dream life. I have my ideal face, I have my ideal body, I live in mom's ideal house and have my ideal room, mom has her ideal job and i study my ideal major in my ideal country and city, every wish of mine is granted. i manifest effortlessly. everything always goes my way. i deserve the best and i never settle for less. i only get princess treatment. my friend group loves and supports me. my mom and siblings are loving and supportive. i am full of love for myself. i am never ashamed to put myself first. i am at peace with myself and others. I am unbothered. I do my own thing proudly. I am so incredibly happy and grateful that I get to live such an amazing life. I get richer day by day. everytime i blink i earn money. getting money is so easy for me. i can afford everything I want. my money is always wisely spent. being rich is my destiny. i am basically an extremely powerful money magnet. i have always been rich. I always have more than enough money. I am literally a billionaire. I am worthy of being rich.

the end <3

IT IS LONG I KNOW my sub playlist was like + an hour long. i just have so many free time at morning so. you can do yours at night, whenever you're free. GOOD LUCK !!

[robotfish123]

Blog Post — Convention

Attending OtakuFest 2024 was an eye-opening experience that allowed me to immerse myself in the vibrant world of anime fans. I love anime, video games, and digital art, and this conference was the perfect opportunity to explore how these interests intersect with youth culture and identity formation. The entrance was decorated with colorful banners and posters of anime celebrities, setting the tone for the event. Inside, the hall was abuzz with activity, filled with fans of all ages, wearing elaborate costumes, or “cosplaying” their favorite characters. One of the most interesting aspects of OtakuFest is the cosplay. Fans have done it all, turning them into characters from anime, manga, and video games. Cosplay isn’t just for fun. It is a powerful form of self-expression and identity exploration. Embodying the character allows fans to explore different aspects of their personality and interact with others with similar interests.

I had a couple of friends who dressed up as their favorite anime characters. They express how cosplay made them feel fun and friendly by stepping into the shoes of their favorite characters. This resonates with our class discussion of how the fan can be a place to explore and affirm one’s identity. Otakufest offered panels and workshops that delved into different aspects of anime culture. I participated in a panel on the evolution of anime’s art style, which gave me a fascinating insight into how art practices have changed over the decades. Another workshop focused on the impact of anime on Western pop culture, highlighting how anime has influenced everything from fashion to music. These sessions highlighted the global reach of anime and its role in shaping contemporary youth culture. The importance of the fan community in preserving and promoting cultural heritage was also highlighted. The discussions were engaging and informative, providing a deeper understanding of the cultural significance of anime. As well as, learning how the plot in anime is important to empower the story.

Artist Alley was one of my favorite parts of the convention. It was a busy market where independent artists showcased their fan art, original creations, and crafts. I was amazed at the talent and creativity on display. Many artists talked about how anime inspired their artistic journey and how Otakufest and other events provided a platform to showcase their work. Fan art is an important part of being an anime fan, as it allows fans to reinterpret and reimagine their favorite characters and stories. This creative presentation is a way for fans to engage with the source material on a deeper level and contribute to the fan community. I bought a few prints and chatted with some of the artists about their inspirations and techniques. One of the most rewarding aspects of Otakufest was the sense of community. Despite the attendees’ diverse backgrounds, there was a sense of belonging and mutual respect. We talked to fellow fans about our favorite movies, debated the merits of anime, and even participated in a trivia contest.

This sense of community is important for many fans, especially those who feel isolated or misunderstood in their daily lives. Fandom provides a space to interact with like-minded individuals and build meaningful relationships. I made many new friends and felt a strong sense of community throughout the event. Otakufest 2024 wasn’t just a fun event; It was a profound insight into how being a fan fits into the formation of youth culture and identity. I learned how anime fandom is a place of expression, creativity, and connection through cosplay, panels, fan art, and community interaction. The experience was fun and made many good memories at the Otakufest 2024 and will come again for the next Otakufest.

[kymmiejournals]

2021 My Life Planner by Blushing Notes

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Hi friend, 

Wow! It's been a while since my last planner review. I’ve been busy with a lot of things lately and I had to organize everything before our big move. This is the year I get to leave everything behind and start a new life with my husband, which means I have to quit my job, sell my car and stocks, then book a one-way ticket to another country. I’m so excited for this new chapter in my life.

Tools and Resources

Any note-taking apps (such as Goodnotes or Noteshelf)

iPad Pro 4th Gen 12.9”

iPad 7th Gen 10.2”

Apple Pencil 1st Gen

Apple Pencil 2nd Gen

Paperlike matte screen protector

ESR standing case for iPad Pro 4th Gen 12.9”

Details

When you purchase the My Life Digital Undated Planner, you will receive 2 PDF files:

the digital planner in PDF

2 Covers

6 hyperlinked sections or tabs 

Calendar templates

Personal templates

Project templates

Finance trackers

Wellness templates

4 Paper templates

Matching Hex Color Codes and Font

Welcome Guide with Goodnotes tutorials

a welcome guide

2021 my life digital planner

2 Covers

What's amazing about this planner is you get to choose between these 2 beautiful blush covers, or you can use any of the free covers of @blushingnotes.

Introduction

You can customize this page however you want. Just like with every planner, there is always a page to introduce yourself and write the purpose of this planner.

Content

This page serves as the Index or the Table of Contents for the whole planner. Some tabs redirect to the same page the side tabs have.

Inbox

Use the Inbox template to write your To-Do's, project ideas and random thoughts.

Overview

Use this page to categorize what you've written in your Inbox. This will help you to focus on what's more important and work your way through the list.

Calendar

This section has all the calendar-related templates such as Year At A Glance, Important Dates, Monthly, Weekly and Daily pages. This planner only has the Monday-start, although it'd be nice if there's also a Sunday-start so you won't have to customize the days of the week every now and then.

Calendar Content

This page shows tabs to different calendar-related templates

Year At A Glance

I have added the numbers and customize the font of the Months, then added some color codes for each category such as Work, Rest Day, Vacation, Busy Day. You can totally add your own codes, maybe track Anniversaries and Birthdays too!

Important Dates

I customized the font of the Months here to add some personality into it, then I drew a box for each month so it's easy for me to view each month, added stickers and texts. You can put important dates such as Anniversaries, Holidays, Birthdays, even appointments.

Monthly

I know it's April 2021 already, but here's what I've done for March 2021. Since it's Spring time, I decided to use this cute floral stickers, added the dates, thought of color codes, a long positive affirmation and ofcourse my planner entries for the month.

My Week

This has three different weekly templates. You can use it interchangeably, or stick to one per month by just duplicating the template you want.

Weekly Schedule

For this page, if you prefer to stick to a certain schedule then this is the perfect weekly template for you. Along with the My Week, you can also use this as your main weekly page. The highlights you see are color codes such as if you have one activity for a specific time everyday for example, lights off at 10pm everyday.

Day Planner

There are 2 different Day Planner templates, the left side has a timestamp schedule if you want to stick with your timely routine or if not, you can use the template on the right side which has the list layout.

Personal

This section has all the personal-related templates such as Inspiration Board, Life Aspirations List, Habit & Routines, Organize & Declutter list, Cleaning Routine, Weekly Cleaning Schedule, and it also includes the Goals and other tracker pages.

Personal Content

This page shows tabs to different personal-related templates

Inspiration Board

There are 2 inspiration board templates - horizontal & vertical. I added some photos, quotes and a title or header. You can watch my IGTV on how I decorate my inspiration board!

Goals Overview

Track your goals per category in this page. As you can see in the image, I categorize all my project ideas or random thoughts per topic so it'll be much easier for me which one to prioritize.

Goals Progress

This page lets you track your progress per goal so you can stick to your deadline.

Goal Planner

There are 2 goal planner templates to choose from. If you want a straight-forward goal planner then you should use the template on the right side, but if you want to also track your 'emotional' aspect on how this goal affects you, then choose the template on the left side.

Habits and Routines

This page helps you to track your habits and routines by writing your target goal and the total of what you have done. For example, the Water Intake, my goal is to drink 8 glasses of water everyday for the whole month (atleast 25 days which is what I put in the Goal field). The other 4 or 5 days I can drink milk tea, wine, mojito or cocktails. Then, since I drank 8 glasses of water for 27 days, I put 27 on the Total field, which means I was able to meet my goal. If I completed my goal, I can mark the heart icon just beside Day 31. 

Organize and Declutter

This page helps you track which things don't spark joy anymore. 

Weekly Cleaning

Cleaning doesn’t always apply to tangible items, you can clean your cloud storage, your notion templates, your Procreate projects, your unused digital planners, or just try to clear your mind.

Cleaning Routine

Same with Weekly Cleaning's purpose, this page is for Daily, Weekly and Monthly cleaning schedule. If you can't think of things to clean, just refer to my image above for inspiration.

Life Aspirations List

This page is for your life aspirations - what you want to achieve or accomplish, whether it's for a short or long term goals. Once you achieved it, you can highlight it and move to the next goal in the list.

To Read

Add your favorite books or books to read, currently reading, to be reviewed. You can also add ratings!

To Watch

Add your favorite shows, movies, new series to watch, and you can also add ratings or even cover photos of the movie or show.

To Listen

I don't really plan what songs to listen to or write songs on my planner, I prefer to have a playlist on my fave music app. However, I think this page does not only talk about songs, you can also write your fave podcast, audio books, ted talks or whatever floats your boat. Right now, my fave song to listen to is Leave The Door Open by Bruno Mars, Anderson .Paak (Silk Sonic) which is a feel-good R&B and Soul music.

Projects

This section has all the project-related templates such as Project Overview, Project Planner, Group Project Plan and Project Ideas.

Projects Content

This page shows tabs to different project-related templates.

Project Overview

Perfect if you have projects in school or just at home. For example, I have a project called #getplannerfeatured, and I use this to track my progress and timeline.

Project Planner

Once you've determined your project, you can use this page to help you identify your objectives, progress, action steps, add notes and due date.

Group Project Plan

If you are working with other people on a project, then use this page to assign task or role for the members of your group.

Project Ideas

This page can be used to brainstorm ideas for your projects.

Wellness

This section has all the wellness-related templates such as Health Plan, Workout Routine, Period Tracker, Meal Plan, Shopping List and Inventory, Self-Care Ideas, Gratitude and Reflection pages.

Wellness Content

This page shows tabs to different wellness-related templates

Weekly Health Plan

Track your workout plan and habits weekly using this template. There's also a weekly meal plan included in the page.

Workout Routine

Write your workout plans and routines, how many reps, distance or sets per workout. You can do it!

Weekly Meal Plan

The Meal Plan doesn't require you to just eat pure leafy and healthy meal. You are allowed to include even the hearty and greasy meal you want. Write down the fried onion rings and buffalo chicken wings you've been craving for!

Daily Meal Planner

Break the weekly meal planner into daily. Write what you're having for breakfast, snack, lunch, dinner for the day.

Inventory

Keep a list of your pantry's inventory and check if you need to do grocery shopping.

Shopping List

Once you've determined which stocks you are running low, it's time to hit the grocery store! Don't forget to bring your shopping list with you!

Period Tracker

This page is to track your mensies and before you barf, take a minute to really understand your period cycle. Tracking it will help you understand your mood swings (that's PMS) and how to avoid cramps.

Gratitude List

Definitely one of my favorite pages, this is super helpful for your personal growth. You have to be appreciative even with the little things.

Year In Color

Mood tracker can be really vague but you can make it fun by putting your own legends or mood colors.

Affirmations

Add your daily mantras or powerful and positive quotes that will help you turn a bad day into a great one!

My Happiness

This page serves as a journal page where you can put which habits or things that make you feel good or happy, what you like to see manifest this week, what limits you the most right now and how you can change it, write both your positive and negative traits, describe the person you want to be and include your values.

Self-Care Ideas

Write your ideas of self-care, it can be anything! You can check the image above for some of the self-care ideas for mind, body and environment.

Reflection

Reflect on the things that made you happy or cry and use that to improve yourself and be prepared for what life will throw your way.

Finance

This section has all the finance-related templates such as My Budget, Income, Expense, Savings and Bill Tracker, and Subscriptions.

Finance Content

This page shows tabs to different finance-related templates.

My Budget

It's time to track your budget for the whole year! Add your source of income, fixed and other expenses then compute the difference so you'd know which things to let go so you can save up more!

Income Tracker

Track all your cash flow using this page. There are a lot of ways how to earn money, you can write your part-time job or side-hustle business too!

Expense Tracker

Take your time writing your expenses, so you'd know which one is important or not, which one to let go of, which things to buy only when necessary

Bill Tracker

It's relevant to track your bills to avoid penalties, interests, or unexpected fines that you may incur when you don't pay your bills in advance or on time.

Savings Tracker

Use this page when you want to save up for something. For me, I'm saving for a brand new MacBook or iMac because I want to focus on my blog, online business and graphic design & videography.

Subscriptions

I love managing my subscriptions! It's easy since it's recurring and has a fixed amount. You don't have to worry about how much you'll pay the next month, unlike your electricity or water bills. You can also cancel some inactive apps or plans. Take advantage of those promotional plans such as 40% off for your 3 months or whatever.

Notes

This page section has all the notes-related templates such as Lined, Dot, Grid and Blank.

Notes Content

This page shows tabs to different paper templates.

Notes Paper Templates

You can choose from different paper templates to help you write anything under the sun! Use this for your journaling, scrapbooking, memory keeping, tracking, or just create a list.

Back Pocket

One of my favorite pages uniquely created by Sophie, I also decorated the back pocket on her Dusty Pink Undated Digital Planner.

My Life Planner Welcome Guide

 Along with the planner, you also get this guide to help you navigate through the planner. It contains:

Welcome note from Sophie of BlushingNotes

Table of Contents

Installation Guide

Navigating the My Life Digital Planner

How to duplicate and delete pages in Goodnotes app

Color codes and fonts 

Basic tips on how to customize the pages

Hex Color Code and Fonts

The Hex color code will be provided to you on the Welcome Guide. I just covered it here to protect the rights of the owner.

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[cinefairy]

Y'ALLL!!! when people say that self concept is key they mean: IT. IS. THE. KEY!

here's my success story from focusing on my self concept for a week! just a single week, i am in tears!!

so before, i used to brush off self concept and think that i'll work on it/get a got sc when i get my other desires, which is all wrong. i am so thankful that i let go of the old story, i used to limit myself and wasn't even aware. self concept can easily show you all your desires in the 3d, and then some!! the realisation made my life a 1000x easier.

then i read some posts and success stories that came about all thanks to self concept and i said to myself: that can be me, it is time to stop perceiving myself as a victim/bad manifestor, and i should just start focusing on my self concept! it is time to change the story.

so i started vaunting and ranting and affirming how my self concept is amazing, through the roof, wonderful, perfect, never fails me... you get the story. i didn't even visualize, didn't go into the void, didn't script. i was vaunting in front of the mirror, looking at myself and sometimes pretending i was talking to someone. i repeated that for a week, and almost every day i got some of my desires !!!

now, onto what i manifested:

1. An adorable kitten! my parents never would have gotten me a cat, no matter how much i asked them to, so i just relaxed myself and stepped into the mindset that no matter what anyone in my reality does or says, my desires are here and nothing can stop them. on the second day of the week, my parents asked me if i wanted a cat because my grandparents' cat just gave birth to three cutest kittens.

2. Perfect vision! i am someone who has been wearing glasses my entire life, my sight was deteriorated at birth due to some complications during labor, and my optician told me some years ago that there was no chance for me to be fully recovered (i had a couple of surgeries so far, and constant check-ups, it was so nagging and uncomfortable). she also told me a month ago that i should not use my phone, but nothing can stand between me and my screen time so i just decided to manifest my bad eyesight away! and i did it, but it's weird without my glasses lmao.

3. A new friend group! my old friends were closed-minded people, i am talking unsuportive, bashing on other people, but 'kind' only to others in the friend group, full of negativity and hate. i just needed a fresh friend group, so i manifested one! one of my friends now goes to the same uni as me, we start in october and it's so exciting heheh

4. Fluent in French language! i just wanted to be fluent in a language that wasn't my first language or english, and i had been studying french in elementary school so that seemed like the best option for me.

5. Money! i manifested the amount of my scholarship to double in my bank account and for no one to bat an eye at that, and for a certain amount of money to appear in my wallet daily (yes, spawning thing is so simple with the right mindset!!!), and for my parents to be rich because they deserve it.

6. A perfect dorm room! the dorm rooms my sister had been living in were just not it, so i needed to take thing in my own hands and manifest a two-bed bedroom with it's own bathroom (no communal bathrooms for me pls) in a dorm not far away from college which i share with another friend.

7. Desired body! my figure now is slim, i have 6-line abs odbwkdbajwhj i could only dream of that a month ago, everything on this list makes me so happy!! i went shopping with my mom yesterday and every pair of heans i tried actually fit me which is a big deal for me lol

8. Lenient parents! as i mentioned, my parents were not the ones to let me get a pet, and they also were very strict with my school grades in the past, and with my going out and hanging out with friends. but now, i have a great relationship with them, they are relaxed and they don't forbid me from doing anything (i literally am going on a staycation with a friend this weekend).

9. New clothes! yesterday during shopping, i found so many amazing sweatshirts, even one that is croptopped which i never used to wear, but got the courage to because who else would wear it if not a bad bitch?? i got a denim jacket, some jeans, sneakers... all i need at a discount!!

self concept makes life easy!! asf!! just stay focused on your new reality and there is nothing you can't get! have fun manifesting, and thank you cinefairy for opening my eyes <333

LETS GOOOOO THIS IS SO AMAZING ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ SO PROUD OF YOU ANON WOOW. all these achievements just from affirming how amazing you are.

[carmensapientia]

The Everything And More Challenge

This is 30 day challenge to get everything you want and more! We’re going to revise our past create our perfect dream life glow up and manifest money and material items! Here’s how we’re doing it

-Make a list of your desires. Every single one even if you think it’s impossible write it down.

-With your list of personal desires, add these desires as well because we’re gonna be manifesting that you’re the most beautiful gorgeous and stunning you ever been + you’re rapidly becoming prettier richer healthier and happy every single day, that you constantly manifest thousands of dollars weekly, that you have perfect ten dimension well being(mentally emotional physical spiritual intellectual emotional financial occupational social and romantic)+ all your needs are met (financial safety protection spiritual mental physical emotional home food water etc), that you’re a walking success story, that every part of your life is perfect abundant and ideal, that everything works out for you and is rigged in your favor, that all your desires come better than expected and finally you are a magnet for blessing miracles and amazing opportunities every single day! This is the more part of the challenge!

-then write down a large sum of money(10k minimum) that you want to manifest! You’re going to get major cash with these desires!

-finally let’s work on revision! write down to your goals that this entire year has been amazing blessed and has improved your life 10x and that your entire life has been perfect. You can go into detail or leave it general. Regardless we’re revising that our life is perfect.

-after this begin to write your rules for manifesting. Read my posts about making your own rules here and here. My rules (for example and Inspo purposes only) are Only positive thoughts manifest, i i just need to want something to get it, everything works out in my favor, everything takes no more than a day to manifest, i’m the best manifestor, i am god, i don’t have to believe/only have to think that I have what I want to manifest, manifesting/having faith is easy, simple and natural, i’m entitled to my desires, i am limitless and can have anything, my methods are the most effective and i have the best self concept naturally.

-Create a vision board that represents your ideal life body etc or whatever you want. Look at it daily to motivate yourself

-If needed create a subliminal playlist!

-Unfollow any loa blogs YouTube’s etc. it not necessary for this challenge and the point of it is to teach you your own power. The law is yours to create so don’t rely on others! You can look at success stories but only minimally and if it makes you feel positive!

-Finally create your own affirmation list! You can have as many or as little affirmations as you’d like. You can also script visualize etc daily if you’d like. I’m going to be visualizing scripting using gratitude and affirming! I have many methods but they’re not all necessary I just love them!

-Every day get up and affirm/visualize for 45 minutes straight. Set the timer and just rampage. Get it done and have the strongest mental diet for this entire challenge. Do not go back to the older story.

-At night revise your day. Revise that you wanted to happen happened and affirm that the next day will be even better! Revise that you had the best day ever!

-Start the challenge as soon as you soon this post. I’ll be giving weekly updates.

Yes this might seem like a lot but you have to be dedicated to live your ideal life. This point of this challenge is to take back your power get everything you want and so much more! Good luck everyone!

[jackpotgirl]

I feel like we are all sleeping on this...

Gif by @daily-polin​ - please find the original post here.

“If Penelope can see me this way, then surely I can too.”

This is such an important quote, I think. Colin has spent his time away generating his self-worth from the way Pen sees him, from how she encourages him. He sees himself because she sees him.

Now yes, at this point in the story this is deeply cynical because:

Colin only takes from Penelope in this scenario. While he tries (in his way) to give back and tell her that she means a lot to him too, however stupidly he puts it (”You do not count”), he appreciates her for what she can do for him (loyal, constant, encouraging, “You care for me, you won’t forsake me”). He is self-centered in the way he regards her. This is also not to say he doesn’t care about her or her thoughts at all - he does make constant efforts to ask about her as well and he is very in tune with her moods and perceptive when they change.

But the point remains: Penelope’s impact in his own life has more to do with what she can do for him, rather than who she is as a person.

But then this quote holds the world when we are looking into the future. Because it shows that Colin not only generates his own worth from what he means to her, he also DEFINES himself through what she gives him. Going forward, knowing what Pen now knows after overhearing him at the ball, her opinion of him will likely sour. She will withhold the admiration and the encouragement. She WILL forsake him in some way and that will shake Colin to his core.

Because the moment this constant re-affirmation of his own (unsteady) self-worth and even to an extent his entire sense of self will be called into question now that the one person who ever really treated him like a full, promising human (not the eternal little brother, who is green and romantic and annoying about his travels, which meant a lot to him, and altogether aimless in life) will not look at him or treat him like that anymore, he will spiral. 

Through this (and maybe, as I predict the addition of another suitor for Penelope in whatever shape or form), he will recognise what Penelope really means to him. And while she won’t celebrate him in all his facets but will explore herself more, stand up for herself, do her own thing, he will come to see her separate from himself. He will finally have to SEE her as her own person. And I do believe that’s when everything will click into place for him.

He will realise what her wits meant, her steadfastness, her resilience and hope and ambitions, her humour, everything that makes Pen Pen that has nothing to do with him. And he will understand that he built way more of himself on and around her than he previously realised. He will understand that he 1) has to build himself up too and mature enough to be his own person and 2) that he needs to work to be worthy of her. He can’t take her for granted anymore.

“You don’t know what you got till it’s gone” will be Colin’s thing next season (wether it is theirs or not, though I do not see how the writers wouldn’t take this exact dynamic right now as the perfect starting point for their season because conflict = story). Penelope will be learning how to be herself because she doesn’t revolve around Colin anymore but Colin will realise that so much of him was already her. 

And I personally can not wait to see that unfold!

[4rdcorners]

the fairy challenge 🧚🏽‍♀️ ( 11/14/21 - 12/14/21 )

why titled "the fairy challenge"? because fairies are magical and beautiful beings.

this challenge is for us to manifest our desires & spend more time with ourselves, getting to know ourselves better. this includes engaging in hobbies, self care, whatever manifestation technique of your choice, and receiving everything you want :)

objectives:

embody god and manifest quickly and with ease.

get to know ourselves better.

become independent in manifesting and in life.

prioritizing ourselves.

glow up

pre-challenge tasks:

+++ well, first off i want you to think of/create a list of everything you want to manifest. everything you state/make note of, we are going to manifest within this month span. also, make a vision board, even if you don’t use vision boards, still make one to feel happy about what you’re going to manifest!

+++ make a list of/create a list of everything that you like, (hobbies & forms of self care), this is what we will be engaging in during the time period. we want to keep our minds sharp and healthy!

+++ clean up your spaces! we want to be organized and ready for this month of productivity & receiving. if you are in school, do all your work and get ready for the upcoming school week. if you work, set your schedule together and organize your belongings.

+++ create an affirmation list for everything you want to manifest! these can just be general affirmations like; “every aspect of my life is ideal.” , “my body is perfect.” , “my appearance is perfect, alluring, and beautiful”. this list does not have to be long! it just needs to suit you, you HAVE to be okay with your affirmations. one affirmation you MUST have is “i am becoming the ideal and best version of myself”. (adjust to fit you just make sure it pretty much has the same meaning)

+++ create rules for manifesting ! make sure this is PERSONAL. figure out what your limiting beliefs are, then create a rule that overrides that. make this so that you for example, some of my rules are:

whatever i intend to manifest, will manifest how fast i want it to manifest; it always comes better than expected.

all manifestation methods work instantly for me, all i need to do is persist.

all my desires manifest quickly, easily, and effortlessly. i get my desires within 2 weeks; time lag doesn't exist.

i manifest instantly, manifesting is easy.

my subconscious can detect when i want something and fulfill it immediately.

+++ make affirmations for your self concept ! this needs to be personal also , target your limiting beliefs. for example, some of my affirmations for self concept are:

i am the only creator of my world.

manifesting is easy and effortless.

i can manifest anything and everything.

my life is perfect and easy.

REQUIREMENTS:

set a time limit for tumblr for like five minutes per day, stop listening to neville, don’t research manifesting any more. during this challenge you must NOT CONSUME ANY MORE INFORMATION. all the answers you need for manifesting is within you, you already know what to do. just know to apply it.

spend as much time as you can, off of your phone/devices. we want to get to know ourselves better, so we need to spend more time with ourselves. (i suggest you copy & paste this post into your notes)

BE ON TOP OF YOUR WORK!! get things completed before they need to be.

DAILY RITUALS (these things must be done daily)

engage in at least one of your happy rituals (hobbies/self care) during the day.

look at your vision board at least once for at least two minutes. i want you to look at your vision board in a state of receiving, knowing that this will be your lifestyle. DO NOT look at it as if this is something you can’t achieve, as if it’s just a dream. EXPECT WHATEVER THAT IS ON YOUR VISION BOARD TO COME.

reread your manifestation rules at least once, (time is your choice).

journal how your day went, how you manifested (how easy/hard it was, mental pressure, your doubts) & how you feel at night. if you didn’t like your day, revise it in the technique of your choice.

affirm your affirmations for your desires and self concept, before bed.

WEEKLY RITUALS (these things must be done at the end of the week friday/saturday)

tidy up your spaces and reorganize if needed.

catch up on all your work.

revise your week, if needed.

check in at 12/14/21 for the end of challenge reflection. you'll do great my loves :)

^ after posting , i manifested this showing up on my explore

[princess200417]

Hello, Firstly love your blog and your posts.I saw your ask are open so here i am.Ever since I found this loa, I thought I could easily get everything I wanted, but my life circumstances don't quite allow it. I have a very poor and bad home life, my family is abusive and I am bullied at school , to be honest I'm a really ugly person and I don’t have like a funny nice personality, I'm not saying it for attention or anything, it was always like that, people would ask me out and then make fun of me and tell me that I am poor and my family is going to sell me or stuff , the school is not very helpful in this regard, because my school is in a secluded place and nobody cares, they don't care about me and they try to get rid of the problems and to be honest I am sick of this.After finding loa, I felt like I had a purpose in life because whenever I look at those quotes, posts and successes, it makes me very happy to think that I can easily change my life and finally get what I want and be happy, but whenever I apply it, I don't get results and I burst into tears.I try so hard and do my very best, focus on 4d and affirm and meditate but still. My faith in it is decreasing day by day and I am facing bad thoughts.I don’t know what to do anymore.I feel horrible. I will be very happy if you reply to me or give any suggestions.Thank you, have a nice day!

Hello, I'm glad you like my blog

Well first of all it's not your fault for this life,these people are terrible

But now that you know about loa you are responsible for your life,all you gotta do is affirm daily as much as you can your Affirmations, I would suggest you to start a routine,ex: affirm for 10 minutes in the morning,then Affirm while taking a shower,affirm before bed etc...it could be anything you want

also I would advice you to check out Indigo detry and Electra soul on YouTube

Try not to react to the 3d,bc it's just a reflection of the 4d, Affirm daily that you have all of your desires and don't go back to the old story

The 3d is just a mirror and breaking a mirror in order to change your face is pointless

All you gotta do is Affirm and persist and never ever write me or tell me or anyone else the old story,what you basically told me was reaffirming of the old story

Plus all circumstances are created by us so there is no such thing us circumstances don't allow me

When you Affirm for smth it literally means that creation is finished and that you have shifted into a reality where old story) circumstances have faded away and you have everything you want

Only you can limit or help yourself

You are no exception to the law

Plus throw away logic science and time and try to stay away from viewing things that don't align with your new story and when you feel discouraged or burned out eat your fav snack or go out for a walk and Affirm to your self that you are god and that you have it all and that you always manifest instantly

You got this!!! It's always thoughts first and then "reality"

Pls watch Electrasoul video's about being god(she has 2 parts)and her videos about living in the 4d(she also has two parts)

Negativity,fear, doubt etc are just illusions/fake

You are one with your higher self, you are perfect

Sending you lots of love and one more tip don't overcomplicate law and overconsume information bc there is no magic formula, secret, best advice to the law, your dominant thoughts manifest

as long as you Affirm only for what you want many times you will see it physically as well

💕😊😉✨🤗🙌🖤

Start AFFIRMING for self concept too bc it helps a lot

Honestly manifistation is too easy and too simple you don't need to believe affirm 24/7 feel happy or even feel your Affirmations while saying them,just say them and boom it's all over 💖😍 that's literally all

[harrywritingsbyme]

Story: y/n feels sorry for being herself. sometimes she has trouble accepting and loving herself..even tho she has no problem loving Harry, with all his flaws. he definitely helps her with that ;)

Beautiful

Anonymous Said: 11 and 20 from the prompt list

Based Off Of This Ask

A/N: I got a request for 11 and 20 from the prompt list and they fit perfectly with this. I definitely wrote this with myself, my own struggles, and the struggles of the other beautiful ladies out there in mind. I also wanted to make it a lil bit deeper by incorporating some post-pregnancy y/n had Harry up in there. Also, I wanted do something real fluffy bc what I have planned for Friday is insane. Enjoy🙃

11. “Fuck you have no idea what you do to me.”

20. “Such a beautiful body, why would anyone hate it?”

You were really going through it this morning. For starters, when you woke up you were immediately drawn towards going back to sleep and recouping some of the sleep you’d lost recently. On top of that, your nipples were incredibly sore from breastfeeding and your body was still drained and recovering from giving birth three months ago. But luckily for you though, you were blessed with an amazing husband who didn’t hesitate to take care of you guys’ baby boy. You didn’t even have to ask him, as soon as he saw the exhausted and overwhelmed look on your face when you two woke up to the loud cries of your son, he immediately sprung into action and ordered you to stay in bed and take care of yourself while he tended to the baby and gave you your space. You were able to get a bit more sleep and feel way better than you did earlier on in the morning. Another hour and a half of sleep did wonders for you at this point in your life. That small window of time allowed you to feel rested enough to get up out of bed and get yourself together.

You wasted absolutely no time stripping your sleep clothes off and hopping right into the shower. The water was the perfect temperature and you just stood under it. The hot water pouring down onto your body felt absolutely amazing and you could hands down feel your stress and tension just melting away from it. You were relaxed. Even though you loved your son with your entire being and then some, it was hard. You were so grateful for Harry and you felt like you shouldn’t have any complaints at all.  But it’s just that you weren’t used to having anyone depend on you the way your son just about solely depends on you. So times like these where you were granted a little time to regroup were cherished and seized.

After a nice long shower that was filled with pampering, you turn the water off and you step out to get yourself dried off and dressed. You wrap the fluffy towel from the counter around your body and you head back into the bedroom to grab some clothes. After picking out your daily attire of a t-shirt and sweats, you station yourself on the bed to get ready. But unfortunately for you, you’d stationed yourself right in front of the full body mirror. The second you unwrap your towel from your body, the good feeling that was flowing through you vanished and was replaced with a sad and embarrassed one. This feeling hadn’t reared it’s ugly head in a good while. You hadn’t had the time since the baby was born to take a good look at yourself; and you were starting to feel like you were better off that way.

You always struggled when it came to you having a positive viewpoint of yourself, and in particular your weight. You were constantly battling against the negativity that was coming at you from almost every part of your life. You were in an uphill battle with losing weight and getting to a place where you felt comfortable all the way around. Whenever you took strides to get to that better place, you were always pulled back down. That force was the little comments from family members, people online, and yourself. Whenever you saw or heard what people had to say, you let yourself be overcome with that negativity and in turn it was harder to keep going and push forward. You felt like all your efforts were going to waste and you were never going to see results, inside and out. And at some point you just stopped loving yourself. You managed to love Harry despite his flaws but you couldn’t seem to do it for you. You pretty much gave up on loving yourself. And to make it even worse, you put all of the love inside of you that was supposed to be dedicated to yourself into loving others. The only way you got out of that enormous rut was because of Harry. He made sure to consistently and constantly reassure you that you were beautiful and worth loving. He did daily affirmations and did everything in his power to help you get back on track and work towards your goals.

And for a year you were able to have success in doing that.

After a little over a year of loving yourself, working towards your weight goal, and just feeling good, you got pregnant. When the news broke, you and Harry were over the moon. The two of you were extremely happy and in love that you both could’ve just burst from joy. You were head over heels for Harry and for yourself, and Harry was head over heels for you and the fact that you were head over heels for yourself. Everything was the way it was supposed to be and it was only getting better now that you guys were expecting a bundle of joy. Fortunately for you both, you were able to glide through your pregnancy with only minor hiccups along the way. Since you were always exhausted and you were actively changing, your solid workout and extensive selfceare routines fell by the wayside. You were so tired and just not in the mood that you couldn’t even do the low intensity workouts that your doctor said were okay. The only things you had were your mental wellbeing which was fine, and Harry. You felt bad that you weren’t keeping yourself up the way you’d been doing for the past year and you came down on yourself for it at times. But of course, Harry nipped it right in the bud and brought you back. You couldn’t imagine what you’d do without him throughout all of this.

So seeing yourself in the mirror and taking in your body now was incredibly disheartening and to you it was like a slap in the face to all the hard work you put in along with the tremendous amount of support from Harry. You fully understood that your body wouldn’t be the same after giving birth but you were hoping that it wouldn’t be as bad as it was. That is, as bad as you thought it was. Because you were constantly fighting with those negative thoughts and trying your hardest to love yourself the way you deeply love Harry, everyone else, and now your son, you tended to over exaggerate in your mind how bad something was. If you saw something you didn’t like, you didn’t like it all. And as a result of that, you spent a good amount of time standing there in front of the mirror critiquing your body and asking yourself over and over again how in the hell am I supposed to get back to normal?. You were so engrossed in overanalyzing and critiquing that you didn’t even notice Harry come back into the room.

While you were having some alone time, Harry went into full dad mode. He was able to get bubs to quiet down and let his dad take care of him. He did a quick diaper change so that bubs could be comfortable while Harry made himself something quick breakfast. He played with the baby for a while before giving him a lukewarm bath to get him cleaned up for the day, and he fed bubs, lulling the little boy right into a milk induced sleep. And hopefully, it’d stick for an hour or two so that he could spend some time with his wife. When he makes his way into the room, Harry’s feeling good. He got the baby squared away and taken care of, and his wife was taking some much needed time to herself. He knew that it was a big adjustment for you and he wanted to take as much off of you as possible because you deserved it. After your struggles in the past with your weight and loving yourself, Harry could only imagine how difficult it must be to keep yourself in a good headspace and just enjoy motherhood to the fullest without focusing on the “negatives”.

That’s why when he saw you looking at your naked body in the mirror with a downcast and almost disgusted look on your face towards your reflection, Harry knew exactly what was going on and he had to step in. You were doing so well and the last thing he wanted was for you to fall back into that deep hole of negativity that you worked so hard to get out of. He immediately makes his way over and stands right in front of you so that he’s blocking your view of the mirror. When he does this, your head still hangs low and you can’t even bring yourself to look up at him.

“I look horrible.” You whisper sorrowfully. At this, Harry extends his hands out to cup your cheeks and lift your head up to look at him.

“Baby…” He coos, seeing the saddened look in your glassy eyes. “You are the most beautiful woman in the world, you always have been. You’re even more beautiful now.”

“No I’m not. Everything is worse and I won’t be able to get back from this.” You sigh pessimistically.

“Yes it’ll take time, but you can do it and I’ll be right here by your side to help you through.” He begins, lovingly reassuring you of his full commitment to you. Harry then lets go of your cheeks and moves so that he’s behind your body and so that you can see the mirror again before wrapping his arms around your naked waist. “When I look at you, I see a badass and a strong woman. I see the woman who carried and delivered our son. I see the beautiful mother of my child. I see the woman I married three years ago. I see you Y/n, the love of my life.” He whispers, trying his hardest to hold back his own tears. Seeing you be so harsh towards yourself was not okay with him and it tore him apart. You are his rock, and to see you falling apart was causing him to break down himself.

“I just- I hate it.”

“Such a beautiful body, why would anyone hate it?” He whispers, trying to reason with you. “You’re beautiful.” He reminds pointedly. “Now say it with me.” He instructs further.

“You’re beautiful.”

“I’m beautiful.” The both of you say in unison repeatedly, every time Harry gives you a kiss to your neck. As this continues on, Harry couldn’t stop himself from stiffening up in his pants. The two of you hadn’t been this intimate in a good while and he missed it. He knew that you were still feeling insecure and that his purpose was to reassure you that you’re not what you’re saying you are and that he loves you so much. That’s why Harry was absolutely loving the idea of making love to you so that you could really see how amazing you are and the effect you have on him.

While his kisses and affirmations continue, Harry’s hand slowly strays away from your lower stomach. He slowly but surely makes his way down to the area between your legs, cupping you in his hand with his fingertip resting on your button between your folds. He then begins to circle his finger around your button. You hadn’t felt his fingers in a good while, and you had to admit that they felt really good against you right now. When your pants and small moans begin to hasten and you begin to enjoy him more, Harry swiftly turns you around to face him before lifting you up and lying you down on the bed. Once you’re lying on the bed, Harry quickly undresses himself  before lying on top of you.

“Fuck you have no idea what you do to me.” Harry admires, taking in all of your amazing features. He then begins to work your body, starting with your neck and working his way down. He peppers kisses all across your skin and he continues with his affirmation as he kisses down and up your body. “Wanna make you feel good, wanna make love to you. Can I baby?” Harry asks softly, bringing his lips to yours.

“Please?” You sigh needfully up to him. You really needed to feel good. When you give him this answer, Harry is quick to keep himself propped up on one hand as he reaches down to line himself up with your entrance. When you feel him nudging at your hole, you reach up to pull his face down and connect your lips with his before lifting your hips up a little to give him the signal to keep going. As he pushes into you, you both keep your mouth’s against each others, moaning into one another as he enters you. It felt a bit weird, but it felt really good. You felt full and Harry was filling you. Everything was perfect.

Harry continues to slowly and deeply rock his hips into you while whispering sweet nothings into your ear through his moans and  keeping two fingers on your clit. The both of you were on cloud nine. You were being fully pleasured by Harry and he was pleasuring you and you feel special the way you deserved while receiving amazing pleasure as well. Since the both of you were a bit more sensitive due to the fact that there were so many emotions involved, you and Harry reached the edge pretty quickly. The pleasure was outstanding and you both needed to let go and fully experience it all.

“Wanna cum with me darling?” Harry coos through a moan, continuing to rock into you and rub at your clit.

“So bad.” You whine, feeling his cock hit that sweet spot deep inside you.

“I love you so much baby.” Harry grunts down to you, deeply pushing in one final time  as he begins to let go inside you.

“I love you too!” You gasping response, feeling your own release wash over your entire being. It was amazing to say the least.

“Y’so beautiful.” He says again as he rides the wave of his release. When he says this, he is subliminally signaling for you to repeat it.

“I’m beautiful.” You say softly, still feeling the major shocks of your release.

One round of loving wouldn’t do the ultimate trick in changing how you felt, but it was definitely a good place to start.

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[awhkacey]

hello, I am also in a period of depression like you and anxiety too so I will tell my story and I hope you can help me. Once upon a time there was a girl who was born 4 months early, the doctors thought it was a miracle but I was missing half of 2 fingers on my hands and feet. You know the kids, when you're different you're not accepted and that's what happened. My parents raised me as a boy, and so girls didn't want to be friends with me besides my fingers, so I learned to be alone and to be accepted in a group I always say yes to everything. if I know that people are making fun of me. I don't like school because of that and I repeated 2 times too because I had trouble living in this environment. Then arrived at the age of 12 I had my first period (without knowing what it was), you know the hair grows and all that stuff, and I wanted to be so perfect like in the pubs that I shaved every day then 2 years later my skin turned black and last year when we were swimming I wore a swimsuit and we could see the black part so someone took a picture to share it with the school and it has become a rumor until now. and i stank in my armpits too like i didn't know yet that the alcohol in deodorant made me get out smells that people can't stand and that was really the time when i felt dirty and i hated my body (d I still hate him so much) So my daily life boils down to seeing people make fun of me and make me understand that I'm disgusting and that I'm a whore, I don't have any friends and my parents don't understand the situation and do not try to help me, I developed fear of people, fear of eating in front of people. I tried a psychologist but my parents preferred to stop. I don't know how the law could help me , and idk why I continue to live with that situation but I really need your help please . CAN YOU respond me as fast as possible

hey, bby<3

i’m sorry to hear what you have been through. no one should go through that. i’m always here if you wanna talk. my inbox is always open.

and ofc i’ll try to help. i was in similar circumstance when it came to school, it was a horrible environment. and it made my depression go📉📉. But then i was able to manifest being homeschooled and with everything said before and being homeschooled really helped my mental health. So if that’s something that could help you and your mental health, i definitely recommend doing it.

Hmm and with everything else i think revision would be a good option. if you want me to tell you more about revision, let me knows. Revision is revising a situation to have it play out the way you desire. But i recommend taking your time, have a breather, and when you’re ready focus on your writing out everything about your life you hate. flip the piece of paper round and write ‘the new story’ of your life. Revise everything to pan out the way you desire,write everything you wished happened instead and believe it to be true. and when you get reminded of the old story. flip your thought and read out the new script. THE OLD STORY NEVER EXISTED!

Then, self concept. Change the names you call yourself and start loving your body. And start realising your power.

Instead of calling yourself disgusting call yourself beautiful, pretty, handsome, whatever you prefer.

instead of focusing on what you hate about your body, focus on what you love about yourself.

i’ll post some affirmations on self love, depression, and anxiety for you to repeat to yourself. i hope that helps.

if there’s anything else you want help with, my inbox is open x

remember: YOU ARE THE GOD OF YOUR REALITY, you get to decide what you do and don’t go through. and never forget you are a magnificent and stunning being. doubt doubt yourself, bby<3