#cw: sh mention

[retic-pithon]

ya'll ever see something on your dash and just be like

hm. i should probably filter some of these tags. they are probably not beneficial to me.

am i going to? no.

[skygent]

Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss Hug It Out Prompts

Today at work I got to thinking about expanding my Hug It Out fics to other fandoms aside from Amphibia and Owl House and decided to start drafting up some ideas! These are all rough concepts right now and could change as they are refined. In case you don’t know, Hug It Out is a series of fics I have meant to be hurt/comfort fics for you! No matter what you may be going through. Some of them are interconnected in their own continuities but they are all meant to stand on their own.

Spoilers for all released Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss content as of 8/11/2024. Emily: Fallen One day while out and about, you discover that the seraphim Emily has fallen into Hell in the aftermath of The Show Must Go On. Acting quickly, you take Emily back to the Hazbin Hotel and try to help her adjust to her new surroundings and come to terms with being cast out of Heaven. Vaggie: Phantom Pain CW: Blood, Panic/Anxiety Attack, PTSD, Death and intense scenes of violence and peril One night at the Hazbin Hotel, you have a PTSD induced panic attack when memories of the night of your death come flooding back. Thankfully, your friend Vaggie is close by and dealing with these kind of episodes is an all too familiar experience for her Beelzebub: Slow Down While planning her next big party, Bee struggles with her self image as the fun party girl who is always in a good mood as the pressure of being helping her friend's escape from their day to day stressors starts to get to her. Verosika: Every Note A reader x Verosika continuity. You are upstart musician who has managed to enter a relationship with Hell's most famous pop star: Verosika Mayday. One quiet night after Apology Tour, you two have a talk about your shared passion for music and the healing power of creating art not just for yourselves, but others. Charlie and Vaggie: Better Off CW: Self-Harm, Blood, Suicide Attempt/Ideation One night, you decide that your parents; Charlie and Vaggie would be better off without you. Thankfully, before your attempt succeeds your parents find out what's going on and stop you, comfort you and start making plans to get you the help that you need. I am open to requests regarding characters and subjects you’d like to see, just let me know! My inbox is open! (I have a lot more time to actually answer now too!)

[sirlordevil]

Hey, little post for people who know others who are struggling with self-harm. Here's some dos and do nots for supporting them.

DO NOT react to them opening up about it by telling them that if they do it, you'll do it too. Doing this just makes them lose trust in you, and they will likely not open up about it to you ever again. I cannot stress enough how fucked up this is to say to a person.

DO ask them if they're thinking about doing it now and / or are somewhere safe. You need to prioritize their current well-being. Remember, not only is self-harm a coping mechanism, it's an addiction to many. Saying, "Oh my gosh, that's awful, please stop. I really care about you." Isn't going to make them put it down. In fact, in some cases, it might make them want to do it more. It's not because they don't love you or anything its more so a mix of reverse psychology and unceasing self-loathing, numbness, anxiety, etc.

DO NOT wrist check them. This is invading personal boundaries, if not explicitly requested of you to do. Again, this can result in a loss of trust and build-up resentment towards you.

DO ask how they're doing or feeling and let them know they aren't a burden to you. Build an open space they can come to instead of forcing it all out of them.

DO NOT say something along the lines of "Why can't you just quit?" or "Think about how sad your family would be!" or "You should stop hurting yourself. It's bad for you." While the last one is true, statements like these put guilt on the person and not only that but might make them mad because you don't understand what it's like for them.

DO offer them alternatives and discuss with them why they feel the need to self-harm. One of the most well-known alternatives is snapping a rubber band on your wrist. Another one is holding an ice cube against yourself. One method I personally find great is working out a little until you get that ache feeling. Great way to get out internal frustration and physical activity is proven to make you happier.

DO NOT poke fun at them for it by calling them emo or something if the like. Unless they seem 100% okay with it and like actively encourage it because they find it funny, this is just messed up. I have nothing more to say on this except you will become part of the problem.

DO encourage them to have fun and find happiness in things they enjoy. If this person likes a certain show or video game, you'd be surprised by how much good it can do for someone's mental health to just be able to talk about it with someone or have someone who enjoys it as well. Sometimes, really liking something is the first step to liking yourself.

DO NOT talk over them about their own issues. You do not know them better than they know themselves. Shedding light or clarifying something for them is okay, but do not keep saying a certain thing is the root cause when they keep telling you it isn't.

DO be understanding whether they tell you about the root issue(s) or not. If they don't tell you, then don't take it personally. It's hard to open up about, and it's not exactly something a lot of people have the energy to share or the words to describe. Be patient with them and let them take their time.

As a general tip: Always ask if they want advice, a distraction, or want you to listen. It's essential to be on the same page if you really want to provide their needs.

For now, I can't think of any more. Feel free to add to what I have already, and I might add some more later.

[void-of-autism]

Just two weeks and I’ll be a year clean of SH!!!

[pixelated-help]

Hey!! I'm sending in this ask on behalf of an alter in our system who holds a lot of heavy things, such as depression and certain aspects of our BPD. She's also a persecutor, and has a hard time letting out emotions in healthy ways.

What we are asking for is help for her. She needs an outlet. Hobbies, comforts. Anything, really, to let her get her feelings out in healthy ways. The OC she is and introject of is a character of ours for a roleplaying game. (She has memories of her time in that universe, in case the POV gets confusing thats why) She was a supervillain in that universe, and when we played as her we were in a group for villains trying to reform into heroes. Basically, she has always been willing to get better. She was a nurse-turned-villain-turned-antihero. She's very based on pink things, with a medical/menhera/yami kawaii type of vibe. In her canon she was quite mobile, one of her superpowers being stretchy limbs, but we are physically disabled and cannot move much at times.She loves creepy-cute things. She sees herself as irredeemable, sadly, and carries a lot of guilt and self-hatred. Um. Yeah. I know she is not a bad person. She fronted together with a little a while back and took such amazing care of her. We do really care about her, and want her to heal. She is not a bad person. She copes in the only way she knows. We wanna help her find better ways.

Things we collectively enjoy doing as hobbies/comforts are arts and crafts, listening to music and playing video games, but any suggestions of things she might enjoy would be wonderful.

Sorry for the ramble. I can tell she is not doing well and I thought I'd ask.

-??? from 🪲 sys

Oh, that sounds really tough. I'll try my best to help!

If she likes menhera themes, maybe she would like to read menhera-chan! Just a quick tw: it is surrounding and heavly talks about self harm. Sadly idk where to read it, but i suppose you can find! Thats just smth she can get into, and maybe surrounding herself with fiction can help.

She can try roleplaying, but maybe, she can try roleplaying as a hero! I think that might actually help her.

Just like i suggested k-pop nonnie, plushies and stuffies might help her! Having a companion that wont get hurt if you mess up is great for people who feel guilty and irredeemable.

I think making an OC of her own, one that she can project into, might help. Sometimes that helps you see yourself in front of you, and see new stuff about you.

Video games are a perfect way to distract yourself from bad thoughts! Maybe try to find a calm video game, like animal crossing.

I hope i could help you, send her my best regards!

[that-dog-is-so-gender]

I need to strip away all earthly qualities Nail polish, bracelets, clothes I need to make my divine vessel pure once more

I can strip down to the skin But I can't erase the scars I can't erase the sin Traces of the life I lead remain But traces of heaven Are still tied to my brain Why does it have to stay the same? I've tainted this body Oh, what a shame I'm searching for my God But I forgot his name

[branches-in-a-flood]

I'm trying to be more positive, I really am, but if life could stop making me feel like a small animal trapped inside a burning house that would be great.

The only person I talk to about Feelings and Life (apart from making these posts) is my therapist.

I tried reaching out to ex partner one a few times, left on read for over a week.

Unsure how I'm feeling about current relationship with partner, but I don't think I can/want to continue it. They just messaged me that one of their other partners broke up with them and they're devastated. So that. Mhmm. Yep.

Absolutely cannot talk to my family about things because. Fuck. So many reasons, really.

And the two other humans I speak to outside of work don't know me like that. Can't really go from casual acquaintance to "hey I'm having a panic attack and really intrusive thoughts about self harm wyd"

Still trying to find things to enjoy. Still mostly failing. Tried to play several different video games recently but I can only manage 10-15 minutes before I lose the enjoyment and realize it's just pixels. Cannot make myself sit down and write. I've read two books in the past week or so though. Was hoping to start meds again for all of the things but that doesn't seem likely now.

Anyway.

[mrdancemoves]

Horrible at bgs but I don’t draw April as much as I should

// CW;; SH Scars(under cut)

April my beloved<33

[hiro-doodlez]

ALSO!! NOW THAT I HAVE A BIT MORE FOLLOWERS JUST WANTED TO SAY THIS AGAIN!! (tw: grooming mention+SH threats?)

If you EVER meet a grooming victim, and they specifically describe that the groomer made threats to harm themself, NEVER SAY "i would have just let them do it." Despite what you may think, having someone you may believe to be your friend threatening to harm themself because of you isn't the easiest experience!!

Please spread the word if possible, It can be very very upsetting to us!

[lnkedmyheart]

Extremely angry venting. Do not proceed.

All I'm gonna say is if you are a super buff overly built guy obsessed with gymming and muscles and being extremely powerful and genuinely believe that an average woman is a threat to YOU and is "living life on easy mode" AND bring up women being a threat to men on the topic of women (and little girls) being victims of SA, victims of harassment, stalking, threats, domestic violence and more, then you are a flag so red that next time I will mount you on a fucking pole Vlad the Impaler style and use YOU as the fucking red flag.

[punishedcrow]

Obvious trigger warning for the movie's SH theme. I don't recommend it to anyone sensitive to this matter just because it is used as a plot device more than being actually taken seriously, so be warned.

So that Grimcutty movie isn't half as bad as I've seen people talking. Like it's a B movie, it's stupid and the premise is sillier than it makes itself to be, but like it's isn't horrible movie-wise, it's just not good nor remarkable.

The actors were good, the writing was mediocre and the CGI wasn't abhorrent either. I would generously give it 4.5/10 just bc of it's good sides. That title though? Could've thought of something else for it just for good measure, idk.

[retic-pithon]

damn it

[dahliaoceania]

Sometimes I want to have friends and socialize. But the more I do, the more I realize that befriending people always leads to me hurting them unintentionally. I'm terrified of that, i don't want to be the cause of anybody's hurt but my own.

I freak out over the littlest things, and things effect me to the level where I take it out on myself, but less than a few hours later that same thing doesn't even matter to me anymore, it ran out its use. that's what I'm afraid of, my usefulness to people vanishing, leaving them with no reason to stick around.

I knew a person who was the exact same way, and we were a toxic tornado that constantly fed into each other, until we both imploded and parted ways. I wanted a way out so badly, I wasn't worth it, I wasn't worth caring about, I didn't want anybody to care about me, so I stopped caring about them to the point where I fed seeds of doubt into them to eventually make them hate me intentionally. I got what I wanted, but it didn't feel any better, because then I was alone and free to destroy myself on a level that was completely unregulated.

Every day it gets worse, I'm a terrible person, I don't want to be human anymore, so I won't be.

[lo-fag]

good GOD I am so angry.

I, as my bio suggests, am a minor. I am also asexual. And feeling quite dysphoric about all the adults in my life telling me ‘I wouldn’t know until I��ve tried it.’ But that’s a different topic.

I needed a little boost for myself so I looked at the asexual tag here on tumblr, so I’d feel less alone.

There are always thirst traps and other things of that kind on any popular tag. But I saw so many, on the asexual tag, that I actually cried, ripping my skin off as I did so.

There will always be people that abuse the tag system, I know. Tagging your posts with trending tags to make them more likely to show up on people’s dashes is a corporate tactic. But to see so many of these ads, I can barely call them posts, on the asexual tag, made me physically ill.

Asexuality is often overlooked by not just cishets but the LGBTQ+ community so often. To see that a safe space for positivity for such a overlooked community was being vandalised for the sake of marketing makes me so angry and so upset for myself and all the other people who fit under the umbrella of asexuality or aromantic who just want to feel like they belong.

I’m a relatively new blog, but I know how tumblr works. I know how the world works. The way the world is run means that we are all victims, and I thought that maybe society, that damned, twisted thing, could let us have a little corner to protect ourselves.

All it does is hurt. it hurts, and it hurts, and it hurts. Companies aren’t going to get new customers by ripping apart supposed safe spaces, and young asexual kids like myself aren’t going to get any validation or even feeling of home from seeing thirst traps targeted toward our community.

our community that is SPECIFICALLY DEFINED BY FEELING DIFFERENT OR NO SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO WHAT IS DEEMED ‘NORMAL’.

it’s targeted. I can tell. And I am by no means an expert, but this tag abuse is hurting everyone. And no one is doing a thing about it.

please boost this. Reblog, like, whatever. This is damaging people far more than you think, and it needs to be resolved.

thanks for hearing me

[st4rv3dcr3atur3]

low cal snacks i actually wanna try (to motivate me to grab the right ingredients at the grocery store)

[robinspinknest]

... pick yr poison ...