#conservative pearl clutching
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I feel so bad for this lady, but at the same time, imagine if she had simply put out there on Facebook that she was planning to call the restaurant that, instead of going on instinct that it would be fine. Welcome to America lol. Glad it had a happy ending.
#this is why we can't have nice things#woke is wonderful#fight the patriarchy#empathy education#smash the patriarchy#teaching empathy#empathy#empowerment#woke#stay woke#wokeness#i just woke up#woke is beautiful#woke is power#woke is powerful#woke upsets snowflakes#conservatives#conservatives in a nutshell#conservative fears#conservative hypocrisy#conservative cognitive dissonance#conservative tears#conservative logic#conservative ignorance#conservative snowflakes#conservatism#conservative pearl clutching#conservatives of Facebook#Facebook#facebook comments
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lit grad programs are NOT sending their best why did some guy just confidently tell me that there's "far too much emphasis on amateur reading and communicating with non-experts"
#like that's demonstrably not true and even if it were it would rock#this is MY conservative blowhards clutching their pearls about how 'colleges are giving student weed and HRTs and gay hitachis'#like again. that would rock if it were true. but it's not. and now i have to deal with that disappointment AND you being annoying#it's just such a made up a guy to get mad at but also the guy you made up sounds cool and swagful.........#i think it's whatever that he thinks that it's ultimately not my problem but like#how badly would you have to misread my vibe to think i'd agree with that and think it was a cool smart insightful thing to say#it's just so untrue in the vast majority of circumstances that it's just such a perfect storm of like#guy who's never not been at a fancy university cluelessness#and like. the worst of the vibes-based guy-who-didn't-do-the-reading thinking from anecdotal experience if even that#like i'm sorry that you once had to talk to someone who didn't have a graduate degree that must have been sooooooooo hard#i think the combo of unreflective obliviousness and self-satisfied ignorance and vague disdainful superiority is just gross to me#like get a phd i guess but promise me you will NEVER teach students or interact with anyone who's not a tenured prof..........#okay i'm done i'm just like hmmm! gross!#personal nonsense
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humans really saw sexual dimorphism and said "hey that's really cool, let's expand on that" and made an artificial version of it (strictly enforced gender roles based on what kind of junk a person is born with) on top of the baseline dimorphism.
#gender#trans#transgender#gnc#gender nonconforming#that should do it for tags. time to ramble#can i just say that this system has gone so far off the edge that if people exhibit even slight deviation from these rigid and miserable#roles that they go through so much scrutiny?#i hate it. even outside of nosy conservatives clutching their pearls#there's so much scrutiny when someone experiments with anything outside of#cookiecutter male or cookiecutter female#even black nail polish which is the most neutral nail color. its still a giant fucking alarm bell#for society. im a closeted transfem and i can't even put on black nail polish without worrying about everyone around me#throwing a tit fit. it should be worrying to everyone that everything is so tightly and ruthlessly gendered.#there's something to be said about exactly how fragile masculinity is (as in literally fragile. even the slightest bit of “femininity”#causes intense scrutiny)#as much as i am definitely NOT a man I do feel bad for them#they walk such a precarious tightrope and anything “feminine” can cause society to shame them and shove them back#into that narrow tiny box
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It’s been said but you gotta let people judge you. They’re just gonna. Be your unhinged and truest self and let someone be mad that you’re writing werewolf porn or whatever cause at the end of the day. They’re mad. And you got werewolf porn
Who’s the winner now
#and I mean people who think you’re not deep or thoughtful enough too#I’m not just talking about conservative pearl clutching I’m talking about liberal pearl clutching#sometimes I’m like yeah I don’t get that but I’m glad Yall are having fun#have fun life is too harrowing to not#and sometimes#it’s not that deep 🤠#and other times#things people write off as being frivolous or not intellectual enough can be deep#either way judgy people judge and they’re boring
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Showing my appreciation for the girlies as per the usual
#sham's art#shamsbabs#irene#reixen#iris#roxanne#iliana#myst#enya#here in these parts we make art that would make your conservative relatives clutch their pearls#anyway back on that subtle posing practice regime#i've been doing more writing than usual so i've been doing a lot of thinking#anyway a lot of this is just practice#plus i've been back in the sonic headspace so naturally i'm redesigning some old concepts for the girls#all in all been real productive!!#more art coming soon? not likely but i have swarms of ideas so who knows tbh#digital doodles#kh oc#kingdom hearts oc#khux oc
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i have to wonder what super hardcore militant vegans think should be done about obligate carnivore animals, because in all my painfully-rapidly-approaching-30-years i've literally never actually seen anyone give a clear consistent much less halfway feasible answer on that
#mostly i've just seen like “how dare you ask questions you just want an excuse to murder you're sealioning ect”#or worse some vague and wildly improbable nonsense about like. fake robot animals covered in beyond meat or something equally convoluted#which is a thing i did see someone suggest as a serious answer#i mean i already know they think i'm a genetically inferior hateful vampire that should starve to death for the greater good#because my exact combination of health conditions make meat basically the only semi-safe way i can get close to enough nutrients#i know this because they have repeatedly told me that i'm either evil or should be sacrificed or both#and yelled at me for asking questions by bringing up the whole disabled thing and then they're like#“a lot of vegans i know are advocates for disability!” as if that ever means jack shit in the society that results from anything#no matter what you do a vast majority of people in any given society will *not* be advocates for the disabled. i'm sorry they just won't.#and what do you think public perception of people who physically can't survive like that is going to skew towards#in a society founded on the belief that non-vegan diets are evil?#at absolute best we're looking at being a heavily marginalized class generally seen as something like vampires and our existences taboo.#(as if these type's own insistence that they should be allowed to harass and shame people doesn't disprove their assertion that we won't be#thinking it could possibly go any better than that is a fucking fairy tale. human nature doesn't work that way.#you simply cannot eliminate the human desire to designate and abuse a class of have-nots. the absolute best you can do is mitigate damage.#take it from someone who's been multiple kinds of disabled and chronically ill all my life. people will not “just”. ever.#i get this even from people who are otherwise very aware of and VERY GOOD at avoiding this sort of thinking#“i'm a disability advocate!” no you are not. you are a poster. my experience has taught me that what people advocate for in their free time#means precisely jack shit for how they will actually act when faced with the situations they make otherwise rational posts about#and the fact of the matter is even if you somehow really are the perfect disability advocate a majority of people WILL NOT BE YOU.#a majority of people in society will be margrat from accounting who clutches her pearls when she sees the gays and thinks autism isnt real#and who has never had a nuanced thought in her life and actively does not want to#a vast majority of people in your Vegan Utopia will not be you and your friends who march with wheelchair users and volunteer at the shelte#a vast majority of people in your Vegan Utopia will be jenny who starved 8 cats to death on broccoli because she can't be bothered#and who thinks that “carnivores” are actual nazis and don't deserve healthcare because she saw someone say that online.#ALWAYS assume your society will be made up mostly of the worst kind of person it can because it WILL ALWAYS BE TRUE and you can't change it#most people seek the low-effort option. and evil is most often banal and low-effort.#i'm just so fucking tired of every single even vaguely lefty-adjacent political movement simultaneously acting like i don't fucking exist#and at the same time that i need to be sacrificed to achieve Utopia. god. at least conservative whackjobs are upfront and honest about#how they think that i'm a burden on society that needs to be Eugenics'd . rather than trying to morally gaslight me about it.
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conservatives be like you SHOULD be pregnant at a young age but only if it's agaisnt your wishes
#conservatives#abortion#they see someone pregnant at 19 and they clutch their pearls cause they're too young#but then they will defend not giving a 19 yo access to ending an unwanted pregnancy
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the previously reblogged pride post also applies to being respectful to our ace/aro sibs. just sayin u1u
#kawee's mumble jumbles#the in fighting and bullshit discourse is so stupid like#leave that to the conservatives and clutch your pearls at something else ffs
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The same way we've been fighting for a $15 an hour work week to the point that it's outdated and needs to be much higher, a 4 day work week is too long and we need to be aiming for 3
#unironically i mean this#also.... im tired of people clutching pearls like oh thats too much to ask for nobody will take that seriously#yeah thats how fucking negotiations work bug breath you always ask for what you want even if its not realistic so you have room to adjust#im tired of so called left politicians being nice to meet conservative halfway when they are openly attacking us#i dont know where im going with this im just so fucking tired of this stupid world
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Mmmmmmmmmmm
#british teacher is trying to do a lesson about gender inequality and people are being horrible about this. i hate being in an extremely#conservative country#some dude tried to call people snowflakes but he was the only one clutching his pearls that hard please#egg.txt#rant
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#I just think it'd be fucking awesome if conservatives got to see what it's like to be on the receiving end of a mass shooting for once#and then for the rest of the decade#these powertripping rapists get off on menacing powerless victims#I just think the world would be a better place if we fought back#splattered their fucking skulls across the pavement#turned their lying mouths into hamburger#shut them up#fucking finally#fucking deathcult rapists#see them clutch their pearls when they don't have any fingers left#diediedieieieiidieidieidieidieidieidiewidieieidieidieidieidiediedieidm
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we are not gonna make any progress until some of yall admit its fine actually for ppl to be loud in public and their own homes sometimes
#the way yall become pearl clutching white upper middle class conservatives the second someone is inconveniently Noisy#is so fucking weird#my post#just saw posts of ppl joking abt how ppl with loud cars are the devil and like#r we doing this again? the music in public spaces thing again? let ppl live ffs
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Birth and pregnancy need to be talked about openly and frankly without stigma and sugarcoating just like the rest of sex. People need to be able to make an informed decision and we need to respect those decisions without the fog of patriarchal pro-natalist bullshit. I'm an aspiring parent who stans for the childfrees and bodily autonomy. I stan for aspiring queer /trans/ poly parents to have families free from gendered, nuclear family patriarchal BS as well as GD anybody who chooses they want nothing to do with parenthood. Fuck dr's who deny sterilization to adults cuz they "might change their mind" as well as the ones propagating transphobic BS.
I used to sling pregkink art and hashtag not all kinksters are delusional about the realities of pregnancy. Our society is better with fully informed, ready parents, NOT a populace of people forced into a traumatic ordeal just to feed the capitalist meat grinder.
giving birth sucks tbh. not only do you and the baby you’re birthing almost die, usually you shit yourself and often you tear your taint. then you have to push an organ out of your body (placenta) and if even a little of that remains in your body, you can hemorrhage to death or develop an infection that essentially rots your body from the inside out. even if you had a relatively “easy birth”, you bleed for weeks on end. even after that stops, your body and brain is changed for the rest of your life, the pregnancy leeched minerals from your bones, that can cause osteoporosis later. minor urinary incontinence is not uncommon, brain scans of people who gave birth show permanent changes in their brain, you’re never quite the same.
I say all of this not to say giving birth is disgusting but it is a harrowing and visceral experience. society downplays how fucking awful it is and makes it out to be a ~magical~ experience but it isn’t a magical transformative experience for everyone. it can be an extremely traumatic experience for someone who wanted to carry a pregnancy to term, much more so for someone who did not want to be pregnant in the first place or someone who knows their baby won’t survive the birth. anyway, abortion is a right. pregnancy and birth aren’t just inconvenient, it’s fucking awful.
#cw birth#cw pregnancy#pro choice#childfree#cw transphobia#i think its pretty obv that much pf the right wing scare regarding trans youth is patriarchal pro natalist lies about gender affirming care#im old af and from a relatively conservative area but the ratio pf childfree to aspiring parents between queer and straight couples#is pretty close in my experience. iiii personally cant stand the pearl clutching that queer or trans folks automatically don't want kids#many do but do not see it in their circumstances cuz shock and surpise being part of a marginalized group makes you less safe and stable#to nurture any dreams of parenthood#idk man im just sum bi bench getting close to finally being able to have my own kid and parenthood is enormous enough without misinformation#my cake of rainbows and sunshine is a world where people make the choice as informed as possible and dont face undue backlash or barriers#i dont think im a pro natalist im just pro make society one where people feel safe and secure enough to have healthy families#stop blaming people for doing exactly what u told them if they 'werent ready' to be a parent cuz many have chosen they never will be and#GOOD FOR THEM
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thinking about when montero (the lil nas song) came out I was like idk near the end of hs I don't remember exactly but yeah I was in hs and it was a religious girls school so you can imagine how scandalised everyone was acting and people being like omg so gross keep that to yourself etc and I was like . closeted gay right and also significantly more left than anyone else in my school and they were all soooo shocked and disgusted I was like.huh that music video is pretty cool.
#even my friends were super weird about it. and i have different friends now and im an adult but i had a conversation with my friends the#other day and its just dawning on me how weirdly conservative people are about sex even people who are like. left leaning yk#like its.literally just a thing theres no moral attachment to sex its just a thing that you can do if you want to#stop clutching your pearls etc
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puritanism and Pearl clutching got so crazy that any body that is non eurocentric and queer and also FAT, is seen as fetish material or scandalous. i don't care about these conservative assholes tho, I will not repress myself to make others comfortable. my body and how I chose to represent it in my art makes me happy. and even if it was fetish material, kink art done by marginalized people is valid. I don't roll with sex negativity here.
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Ohhhh boy do I have a rant for this. And literal slides. But in short, I think there's something inherently queer about Pluto's planetary status, and we should stop forcing the label of "planet" on it when it doesn't fit. Dwarf planets are super cool on their own right and we should appreciate them more.
#pearl-clutching conservatives are trembling in their boots like “they're making SPACE gay too????”#always has been bestie#pluto#dwarf planet#space
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