#to nurture any dreams of parenthood

[pineyw00dsshesquatch]

Birth and pregnancy need to be talked about openly and frankly without stigma and sugarcoating just like the rest of sex. People need to be able to make an informed decision and we need to respect those decisions without the fog of patriarchal pro-natalist bullshit. I'm an aspiring parent who stans for the childfrees and bodily autonomy. I stan for aspiring queer /trans/ poly parents to have families free from gendered, nuclear family patriarchal BS as well as GD anybody who chooses they want nothing to do with parenthood. Fuck dr's who deny sterilization to adults cuz they "might change their mind" as well as the ones propagating transphobic BS.

I used to sling pregkink art and hashtag not all kinksters are delusional about the realities of pregnancy. Our society is better with fully informed, ready parents, NOT a populace of people forced into a traumatic ordeal just to feed the capitalist meat grinder.

giving birth sucks tbh. not only do you and the baby you’re birthing almost die, usually you shit yourself and often you tear your taint. then you have to push an organ out of your body (placenta) and if even a little of that remains in your body, you can hemorrhage to death or develop an infection that essentially rots your body from the inside out. even if you had a relatively “easy birth”, you bleed for weeks on end. even after that stops, your body and brain is changed for the rest of your life, the pregnancy leeched minerals from your bones, that can cause osteoporosis later. minor urinary incontinence is not uncommon, brain scans of people who gave birth show permanent changes in their brain, you’re never quite the same.

I say all of this not to say giving birth is disgusting but it is a harrowing and visceral experience. society downplays how fucking awful it is and makes it out to be a ~magical~ experience but it isn’t a magical transformative experience for everyone. it can be an extremely traumatic experience for someone who wanted to carry a pregnancy to term, much more so for someone who did not want to be pregnant in the first place or someone who knows their baby won’t survive the birth. anyway, abortion is a right. pregnancy and birth aren’t just inconvenient, it’s fucking awful.

[soapyghostie]

Hey! Can I request Bubba sawyer x reader where the reader is pregnant with bubba’s child and how the family (brothers and grandpa) would react to it and what they’d do (especially if the reader had been in the family for years and all love her very much, in their own ways).

I’ve been working on this request for so long since I had to put it aside for schoolwork. However, I had sometime to finish writing it so I did so I could post it. Hope you enjoy!

Bubba Sawyer

When you first announce your pregnancy to Bubba, his face lights up with excitement and joy. He’s jumping up and down, squealing happily. He’ll give you a big hug too. The hug is not as tight as Bubba’s normal hugs are so as to not hurt the baby. But God! He’s just so excited to become a father to your child! 

Although excited, internally Bubba is hiding his nervousness about becoming a father. He wants to be able to provide for you and y’all’s unborn child, but he worries about his abilities as a parent. If you notice his nervousness through his body language, please reassure him. He needs a lot of reassurance from you that he’ll be a good father to y’all’s child. 

Bubba’s protective instincts will kick in upon learning about the pregnancy. He becomes more vigilant, ensuring your safety within the Sawyer family home. He can’t be by your side 24/7 because he has chores and provides ‘meat’ for the family so he has you stay inside the house throughout the day when victims are around. It is the safest place for you to be. 

Bubba always cherishes quiet moments with you, as it’s often chaotic in the Sawyer household, often placing his hand gently on your stomach to feel the child’s moments. 

Bubba is always at your beck-and-call, getting you whatever you want or need. Snacks? Water? Foot massage? Whatever you ask for Bubba will get it for you! He’ll make sure that you're always comfortable. He grunts and nods conveying his love and concern as his way of making sure you’re alright. 

Drayton sees the pregnancy as an opportunity to expand the Sawyer family and continue the family legacy. He’s eager to welcome another member into the fold and spoils you with his cooking a lot. You gotta feed the baby, even before it’s born, so it becomes big and strong. 

Nubbins is ecstatic about becoming an uncle. He’ll get in your face and bombard you with questions about the baby names and nursery decorations, his enthusiasm is infectious. He’ll even help decorate the baby’s room too!

ChopTop, in his usual eccentric manner, jokes about being your baby’s quirky uncle. He’ll pepper you with offbeat parenting advice, much to you and Bubba’s amusement. Don’t even listen to him. He doesn’t even know what the heck he’s talking about. 

Grandpa Sawyer, though most of the time silent, will offer you quiet words of wisdom and true parenting advice (not any of ChopTop’s bullshit), imparting lessons learned from generations of Sawyers. 

Despite their unconventional lifestyle, the Sawyer family works to create a nurturing environment for you and the unborn child. They all eagerly await the new addition and with their help you and Bubba prepare for parenthood. 

The family loves to shower you with gifts for the baby, each item reflecting each family member's unique personalities and interests. Some of them are “interesting” if I do say so myself. What I mean by that is that you are really questioning about keeping some of the gifts, especially the ones from Nubbins and ChopTop. However, you do get gifts such as handmade toys and small clothes for the baby.  

You and Bubba will bond over the anticipation of parenthood. Y’all discuss a lot about y’all’s hopes and dreams for y’all’s child as y’all lay in bed, drifting off to sleep. Y’all share your dreams about being future parents, envisioning a life filled with love and laughter even though y’all don’t have the best or the brightest life (if you know what I mean since the Sawyers are technically cannibals that are always on the run).

Y’all would also bond over preparing the nursery for the baby’s arrival. You would put up the decorations, since it’s the easiest thing to do, and Bubba will try his best to create a crib. He’s not the best at carpentry, but he knows enough to get by and make a decent and stable one. 

As y’all wait for the baby’s arrival, you and Bubba embark on a new chapter together. Despite the uncertainty of y’all’s circumstances, you both find solace in the bond y’all share and the love that binds y’all together to y’all’s peculiar family.

[emilky-whim]

Folklore Legacy Challenge

Hey Ya'll! I've been working on this one for a little while and I can't wait to share it with you! It's a 16 + 1 generation legacy challenge for the Sims 4 based off of Taylor Swifts album Folklore! There aren't many solid rules for this one, I mostly just want ya'll to have fun and play it in a way that makes sense to you. That being said: - Mods and cheats are ok to use (I even encourage it). - Each Gen must have at least one child to play as the next heir. - I have used lots of packs in making this, you will need: City Living, Cats and Dogs, High School Years, Get Together, Crystal Creations, For Rent, Outdoor Retreat, Island Living, Dream Home Decorator, Parenthood, Discover University, Dine Out, Stranger Ville, Get Famous, Spa Day, Growing Together + more that I've probably forgotten. - If you do not have the required packs, feel free to change what you need to as long as it is somewhat similar to the original.

Gen 1: The One

You’re a meticulous gardener with a penchant for perfection, fiercely loyal to your craft and to your loved ones. Despite your somewhat snobbish tendencies, you dedicate yourself to finding true love, and when that journey ends, you never REALLY get over it. Yet you continue to cherish your familial bliss and vibrant social life.

Career - Gardener (Either Branch)

Traits - Perfectionist, Loyal, Snob

Aspiration - Curator 

Complete the soulmate aspiration with only one sim. Your sims permanently ‘separate’ once the aspiration is complete.

Always accept invites/calls from other sims.

Adopt at least one child.

 ‘’ = You may separate them as you choose.

Gen 2: Cardigan

You're a charismatic politician, oozing self-assurance and intellect, always in the know. As a Renaissance Sim, mastering myriad skills comes naturally to you. Amidst your political pursuits, you find time for youthful adventures, savouring bar dates, maybe one day you’ll finally settle down with a cherished companion.

Career - Politician (Charity Organiser)

Traits - Self-Assured, Genius, Insider

Aspiration - Renaissance Sim

Master all the skills needed for the politician career. 

Go on at least 5 bar dates as a young adult.

Eventually marry a childhood friend.

Gen 3: The Last Great American Dynasty 

You're a devoted stay-at-home parent, balancing material desires with a deep love for family and furry companions. Despite setbacks like a failed marriage and neighbourhood feuds, you find solace in nurturing your family and friends, building a home filled with love, even amidst domestic changes.

Career - Stay At Home Parent (You can work any career until you parent a child)

Traits - Materialistic, Dog-Lover, Family-Oriented

Aspiration - Mansion Baron

Have one failed marriage.

Become enemies with at least one neighbour.

Have your first child as a newly aged up young adult.

Move in with friends for at least one year.

Gen 4: Exile

In the world of espionage, you've always stood out. While others excel in covert ops, you thrive in building connections. Romantic at heart, yet socially awkward, you're drawn to leading, seeking solace in your club's camaraderie. After heartbreak, you relocate, shying from commitment but embracing your chosen family.

Career - Secret Agent (Diamond Agent)

Traits - Romantic, Socially Awkward, Gloomy

Aspiration - Leader Of The Pack

Create and lead your own club. Become friends with all the members.

After a major breakup, move to a different world.

Never get married or stay in a long-term relationship.

Gen 5: My Tears Ricochet

Amidst canvases and clay, you've always preferred solitude to the bustle of social affairs. As a critic, you explore the depths of creativity, while crafting jewellery and crystals on the side. Despite your artistic fervour, relationships falter, leaving you to nurture your creative progenies and seek solace in your craft.

Career - Critic (Arts Critic)

Traits - Loner, Creative, Art Lover 

Aspiration - Crystal Crafter 

Have a side business selling Jewelry and Crystals.

Get left OR leave someone at the altar.

Have at least 4 children.

Gen 6: Mirrorball

In the spotlight's embrace, you dazzle as an entertainer, with moves that mesmerise and demands that rival divas. Behind the glamour lies a heart yearning for connection, seeking solace in fleeting affairs. As you master the arts of song and stage, you flit from home to home, craving new experiences and relationships to fulfil your insatiable appetite for life.

Career - Entertainer (Musician)

Traits - Dance Machine, High Maintenance, Generous 

Aspiration - Friend Of The World 

Have a secret love affair, with whom you’ll eventually marry.

Master the singing, piano and acting skills. Never master any other skills.

Live with at least 3 different sims over your lifetime. 

Gen 7: Seven

Beneath the stars, you find your playground, a whimsical astronaut drawn to the great unknown. Childhood antics linger as you escape the mundane, running away with a friend to explore the world. Haunted houses hold no fear for you, just another adventure in your quest for outdoor thrills. With each holiday, you uncover new wonders, embracing the vastness of the universe.

Career - Astronaut (Space Ranger)

Traits - Childish, Loves Outdoors, Good

Aspiration - Outdoor Enthusiast 

Run away from home as a teenager with a friend/s

Live in a haunted house. 

Go on a holiday seven times over your lifetime. 

Gen 8: August

In the vibrant world of social media, you craft narratives with precision, driven by ambition and a hint of envy for the spotlight. Amidst beachside dreams, you seek solace in Sulani's embrace, drawn to its sun-kissed shores. An affair with a married sim sparks passion, leading to a child and an obsession, anchoring you to the idyllic island life, forsaking love for the serenity of the sea.

Career - Social Media (Public Relations)

Traits - Jealous, Ambitious, Neat

Aspiration - Beach Life

Have an affair with a married sim you meet while on vacation.

Have at least one child with the married sim.

Live in Sulani for most, if not all, of your lifetime.

Never date again after your affair ends.

Gen 9: This Is Me Trying

Driven by a desire to transform spaces, you carve your niche in the world of interior design, fueled by ambition yet shadowed by melancholy. As a youth, you flee, severing ties to forge a path of your own. Love finds you in the arms of a cheerful soul, grounding you upon your return, where you rebuild bridges and strive to be the ultimate caregiver to your children, overcoming personal demons along the way.

Career - Interior Decorator 

Traits - Ambitious, Overachiever, Gloomy 

Aspiration - Super Parent

Move away as a teenager/young adult and lose most of your sims relationships.

Get married to a Cheerful sim. 

Move back as a young adult/adult and re-make all the relationships you lost.

BONUS (Only if you have the Basemental Drugs MOD) Become addicted to at least one substance and successfully complete rehabilitation for it.

Gen 10: Illicit Affairs

In the courtroom's halls, you weave tales of justice as a private attorney. Driven by wanderlust and a fear of commitment, marriage comes swiftly, but it's the thrill of forbidden affairs that ignites your passion. Caught in multiple webs of deceit, divorce looms, leading you to Henford-on-Bagley, where you navigate the complexities of parenthood alone, seeking solace in the quiet countryside.

Career - Law (Private Attorney)

Traits - Non-Committal, Advenutrist, Clumsy

Aspiration - Serial Romantic

Get married young and have at least 4 affairs before getting caught. 

Have at least one child through an affair.

Get divorced 

Move to Henford-on-Bagley to raise all your children by yourself.

Gen 11: Invisible String

You always dreamed of sizzling pans and crafting culinary delights, a romantic at heart with a green thumb to match. Love's journey takes unexpected turns—a tumultuous romance with a mean spirit, a dance of uncertainty with a lifelong friend. As the years pass, you find your soulmate as an elder, nurturing both your restaurant empire, a family and a thriving garden.

Career - Own your own restaurant (or multiple restaurants)

Traits - Romantic, Good, Green Friend

Aspiration - Soulmate

Be in a long-term relationship with a mean sim and eventually break up.

Have a ‘will they, won’t they’ type of relationship with a life-long friend sim.

Get married as an Elder.

Have a well-maintained garden.

Have all restaurants at 5 stars.

Gen 11: Mad Woman

Betrayed in your youth by those you trusted the most, you harbour scars deep as loyalty binds you to your cause. You ascend the ranks of the criminal underworld, fueled by anger and an unyielding pursuit of justice and vengeance. Marriage offers solace, yet the thirst for retribution remains, driving you relentlessly until old age grants the serenity you seek.

Career - Criminal (Boss)

Traits - Hot-Headed, Perfectionist, Loyal 

Aspiration - Seeker of Secrets

As a teenager, have an ex friend/friend group/lover ruin your reputation/life.

Spend the rest of your adult life trying to get revenge.

Marry a friend. 

Only find peace/let go as an elder.

Gen 12: Epiphany 

Straight out of high school to the covert operations of the military, you excel, driven by duty and a longing to provide for your family. Medals adorn your chest, earned through dedication and sacrifice. Love finds you in the arms of a medical professional, but shadows linger, as memories of battle haunt your days, a silent reminder of the price of service.

Career - Military (Covert Operator)

Traits - Overachiever, Family-Oriented, Good

Aspiration - Big Happy Family

Join the military immediately after finishing highschool.

Retire/quit your job as soon as you earn all available medals.

Date and marry sim with the medical career.

Live with PTSD (you can use a mod for this)

Gen 14: Betty 

Your high school romance blossoms into marriage, yet jealousy festers, leading to a massive indiscretion that fractures the trust you’ve built. Amidst the wreckage, you strive to mend what's broken, seeking solace in weekly garden dates as you navigate the rocky terrain of love. In the digital realm, you thrive as a freelancer, coding with confidence and a hint of cringe-worthy humour.

Career - Freelancer (Programmer)

Traits - Cringe, Jealous, Self-Assured

Aspiration - Joke Star

Marry your high school sweetheart. 

Have weekly dates in your back garden.

Have an affair for an extended period of time before being caught. 

Spend the rest of your life trying to heal the connection between you and your spouse. 

Gen 15: Peace

Unable to make friends, you shed the burden of high school to focus on working toward your dream job and pursue the limelight. Amidst the glittering lights of fame, you still struggle to find your place and people in the world. Eventually, love finds you in the presence of an outgoing spirit, but as stardom ascends, so does the weight of its demands, testing your quest for inner peace amidst the chaos of stardom.

Career - Actor

Traits - Socially Awkward, Creative, Squeamish

Aspiration - Inner Peace

Dropout of high school and work a part time job to earn money.

Master the acting career.

Master the acting and wellness skills.

Marry an outgoing, good sim.

Become a Global Superstar and struggle with the price of fame.

Gen 16: Hoax

Born amidst the urban hustle of San Myshuno, your artistic soul yearns for expression amidst the city's chaos. Love's path proves rocky, a journey of unfulfilled connections and shattered dreams. Seeking solace in a fresh start, you depart the city's embrace, yet the ghost of past loves haunts your brushstrokes, forever captured in the vivid hues of your yearning canvases.

Career -  Painter (Master Of The Real)

Traits - Gloomy, Vegetarian, Generous

Aspiration - Painter Extraordinaire 

Grow up in San Myshuno.

Be in a long-term, unfilling relationship with sim you have bad compatibility with. Eventually break up.

Have a failed relationship with a family friend. 

Move out of San Myshuno to get a fresh start. 

Never get over one of your previous relationships and spend the rest of your life yearning to have it back.

(Bonus) Gen 17: The Lakes

Amidst the rustle of leaves and the whisper of pages, you find your muse as a writer, enchanted by the dance of words and the embrace of nature. Poetry flows from you, a testament to your romantic soul. Holidays are cherished escapes, moments of tranquillity by the water's edge, fueling your creative spirit. Yet, it's in solitude that your greatest works are born, a testament to your dedication to the craft.

Career - Writer (Author)

Traits - Romantic, Bookworm, Loves Outdoors

Aspiration - Bestselling Author

Only write poetry (unless specified for the aspiration)

Go on Holiday with your spouse and family often, staying as close to a body of water as you can get.

Complete the gemstone collection.

Leave the world behind for a period of time to focus on writing (completely alone)

[letsgetrowdy43]

Nico and Angie as parents—

Au Masterlist!!

Nico and Angie have their daughter when he’s around 36 and she’s 33.

The question of children had always been a sensitive subject for the couple, both of them wanting a family, but unsure of how to start one.

The conversation is quite delicate because even though he's expressing a desire to have a child, she interprets it as him expecting her to sacrifice her dreams for his. This leads her to often avoid the conversation because she feels guilty about not being able to fulfill his wishes.

Angie loves the idea of having a little her and him running around, but every time the conversation comes up it always seems like pregnancy and having a baby starts with the end of her career. Her hesitancy falls within not being ready to give up her dreams just yet, but also she feels a lot of societal pressure to have babies from not only the media around her but a lot of the women who surround her, so she is very at a crossroads.

It leads to a lot of relationship turmoil. But then, one day, he listens, steps back, and acknowledges that he's been going about it the wrong way. He realizes that he hasn't been explaining or telling her that he'd never want her to quit her career. They talk, and for once they are both communicating. He tells her that he would never ask her to give up the thing she's been working towards her whole life. Instead, he brings up the option of adoption and expresses his willingness to retire so that they could start a family together.

They adopt Olive Josephine Chandler-Hischier at the end of the 2035 seasonn when she's around three months old!!

Olive brought such a sense of completion to their marriage too, it was already perfect, but Olive was like the missing puzzle piece that they didn't even know they were searching for. She's made their little family feel whole in a way never imagined possible.

Angie was very scared of motherhood, she isn't a soft or nurturing person in any way shape or form, but when Olive came into her life it was like a switch flipped and everything made more sense. She is a mama bear for sure, and all of the pieces just kinda came together to form the most beautiful bond with her daughter!!

Nico is just enamoured with her, he took to the role so naturally. Watching Olive's little face light up when she sees him it's like all the worries of the world just melt away for him, the unsureness that lies within their lifestyle disappears

Angie was scared about the balance that would come with work and motherhood, but that all withered away when Olive was brought into her life, seeing how supportive Nico is and loving this little ball of sunshine has made all the difference.

Being parents has also created such a sweet and domestic routine in their lives, they love just being parents and their lives revolve around Olive. It's such a change too, from their constant being about hockey to being able to step away from the competition and begin to focus on loving this little life that they brought into theirs.

Nico is the emotional of the two, and Angie is the more logical. He's the worrier, she's the one that calms him down. It's such an interesting dynamic where the societal expectations of gender roles are reversed!!

They love their new life though, they live in New Jersey during the season, Nico coaches a local junior team, Angie plays with the Devils still, and Olive gets to grow up in a city that her parents love. They vacation in Switzerland, Nico continues to play worlds in the summers, and they train together in Michigan!!

Olive is a very stern and stubborn baby just like her mama, she may not be biologically theirs but she inherits all of their traits and mannerisms including her mama's frown and dad’s shy smile.

The main thing that comes out of their journey into parenthood is that Olive comes before everything else. That may be obvious, but it's an important thought process they both took on when she came into their lives. No game, no Championship, and no team is above her, she is always the focus in their lives and to them it's important the people around them know that

[diana-thyme]

Foods & Beverages In Witchcraft

I find the ‘fruits in witchcraft’ posts very helpful, but I haven’t seen any about more foods, like meat, vegetables, desserts, etc. and drinks. So, here’s a guide to edible things in witchcraft. I don’t necessarily enjoy the concept of correspondence lists (see why here), but I thought some basic ones would help others to explore the uses of these things in their practice further.

Meat

Beef

Strength, Health, Activity, Energy, Grounding

Chicken

Versatility, Adapting, Change, Transformation, Luck

Duck

Luck, Healing, Beauty, Fertility, Communication

Goat

Libido, Oaths, Promises, Health, Motivation

Lamb

Fertility, Adaptability, Renewal, Growth, Learning

Pork

Intelligence, Tenacity, Ambition, Hard Work, Truthfulness

Turkey

Renewal, Change, Good Omen, Growth, Courage

Venison

Grace, Swiftness, Quietness, Gentleness, Fertility

Seafood

Saltwater Fish

Road Opening, Opportunities, Luck, Growth, Change

Freshwater Fish

Grounding, Calming, Stillness, Stability, Instinct

Caviar

Prosperity, Luck, New Beginnings, Respect, Prestige

Clam

Grounding, Fertility, Longevity, Beauty, Transition

Crab

Rebirth, Intuition, Emotion, Vulnerability, Communication

Lobster

Emotion, Psychic Powers, Spirituality, Restoration, Healing

Muscles

Rebirth, Transformation, Strength, Growth, Blockages

Octopus

Generosity, Parenthood, Nurturing, Self-Sacrifice, Selflessness

Oysters

Protection, Cleansing, Abundance, Fertility, Karma

Sea Cucumbers

Healing, Protection, Blockages, Regeneration, Rebirth

Sea Urchins

Protection, Cleansing, Banishment, Barriers, Guards

Shrimp

Longevity, Renewal, Joy, Fortune, Good Karma

Snails

Fertility, Patience, Persistence, Wisdom, Rebirth

Squid

Intelligence, Learning, Creativity, Transformation, Disguise

Starfish

Good Luck, Fortune, Abundance, Joy, Renewal

Fruit

Açaí

Beauty, Health, Love, Fertility, Family

Apple

Fertility, Love, Marriage, Fidelity, Devotion

Apricot

Passion, Peace, Stillness, Comfort, Contentment

Avocado

Self-Love, Empowerment, Motivation, Calmness, Grounding

Banana

Prosperity, Wealth, Passion, Luck,Health

Blackberry

Healing, Protection, Strength, Banishment, Binding

Blueberry

Acceptance, Protection, Blessing, Peace, Communication

Cacao

Happiness, Calmness, Contentment , Protection, Energy

Cantaloupe

Protection, Enlightenment, Peace, Cleansing, Spirituality

Cherry

Clarity, Fertility, Creativity, Passion, Love

Clementine

Healing, Relaxing, Grounding, Longevity, Energy

Coconut

Purification, Cleansing, Blessing, Protection, Patience

Cranberry

Action, Passion, Strength, Lust, Motivation

Date

Abundance, Fortune, Prosperity, Luck, Gratitude

Dragonfruit

Passion, Drive, Motivation, Satisfaction, Contentment

Durian

Duality, Protection, Healing, Banishment, Cleansing

Elderberry

Psychic Abilities, Spiritual Protection, Spirit Work, Communications, Witchcraft

Fig

Energy, Luck, Health, Abundance, Satisfaction

Gooseberry

Health, Peace, Grounding, Calming, Contentment

Grape

Dreams, Mental Health,Spiritual Clarity, Energy, Enlightenment

Grapefruit

Cooperation, Teamwork, Peace, Communication, Relations

Guava

Cleansing, Prosperity, Luck, Abundance, Satisfaction

Honeydew

Cleansing, Sweetness, Friendship, Fertility, Parenthood

Huckleberry

Banishment, Blockages, Protection, Anti-Negativity, Cutting Ties

Juniper Berry

Longevity, Calming, Grounding, Enlightenment, Contentment

Kiwi

Happiness, Longevity, Health, Prosperity, Gratitude

Kumquat

Minimalism, Prosperity, Charity, Kindness, Frugal

Lemon

Cursing, Bitterness, Longevity, Purification, Cleansing

Lime

Cursing, Bitterness, Strength, Self Worth, Empowerment

Lychee

Fertility, Passion, Lust, Love, Friendship

Mandarine

Joy, Happiness, Youth, Rejuvenation, Energy

Mango

Cleansing, Purification, Healing, Protection, Gratitude

Nectarine

Love, Marriage, Fertility, Passion, Family

Papaya

Banishment, Binding, Protection, Health, Peace

Passionfruit

Friendship, Family, Love, Passion, Fertility

Peach

Fertility, Purity, Longevity, Health, Protection From Disease

Pear

Clarity, Calmness, Knowledge, Immortality, Prosperity

Plantain

Nature, Grounding, Connection, Spirituality, Healing

Plum

Adoration, Attention, Focus, Adaptability, Coping

Pineapple

Creativity, Cursing, Memory, Energy, Warmth

Pomegranate

Duality, Love, Passion, Circle of Life, Witchcraft

Raspberry

Courage, Strength, Activity, Focus, Kindness

Salmonberry

Emotion, Stability, Healing, Prestige, Prosperity

Starfruit

Health, Prosperity, Family, Luck, Development

Strawberry

Fertility, Love, Family, Passion, Modesty

Tangerine

Protection, Happiness, Contentment, Joy, Activity

Watermelon

Cleansing, Happiness, Protection, Life, Love

Vegetables

Artichoke

Hope, Prosperity, Abundance, Joy, Grace

Aubergine

Prosperity, Success, Abundance, Luck, Motivation

Asparagus

Resurrection, Spring, Growth, Renewal, Time

Bean Sprouts

Good Luck, Karma, Happiness, Good Karma, Abundance

Beetroot

Prosperity, Health, Light, Warmth, Friendliness

Bell Pepper

Defense, Protection, Blockages, Tenacity, Adaptability

Black Beans

Development, Spirituality, Work, Growth, Adaptability

Black-Eyed Peas

Good Luck, Renewal, New Beginnings, Luck, Prosperity

Broccoli

Journeys, Wealth, Prosperity, Good Karma, Luck

Brüssel Sprouts

Endurance, Strength, Stability, Adaptability, Healing

Butternut Squash

Fertility, Abundance, Magic, Fairy Tales, Good Karma

Cabbage

Humble, Humility, Prosperity, Wealth, Charity

Carrot

Safety, Reward, Adaptability, Stability, Health

Cauliflower

Visualization, Protection, Health, Prosperity, Disguise

Cayenne Pepper

Lust, Strength, Motivation, Drive, Power

Celery

Duality, Death, Blood, Funeral, Underworld

Chickpeas

Compassion, Charity, Spirituality, Fertility, Family

Chives

Protection, Divination, Communication, Warding, Banishment

Collard Green

Luck, Prosperity, Abundance, New Beginnings, Transformation

Cucumber

Rebirth, Happiness, Change, Transformation, Health

Daikon

Transformation, Change, Stability, Healing, Self-Sacrifice

Fennel

Flattery, Lust, Strength, Victory, Lovers,

Garlic

Protection, Supernatural, Witchcraft, Wards, Health

Ginger

Prosperity, Diversity, Personality, Friendship, Fertility

Green Beans

Fertility, Immortality, Knowledge, Wisdom, Exploration

Jalapeños

Barriers, Burdens, Happiness, Motivation, Drive

Habanero

Good Luck, Motivation, Drive, Lust, Fire

Horse Radish

Bitterness, Harshness, Adaptability, Overcoming Obstacles, Contentment

Kale

Anxiety, Health, Rationality, Prosperity, Generosity

Kidney Beans

Wisdom, Love, Fertility, Endurance, New Beginnings

Leeks

Strength, Endurance, Good Health, Abundance, Protection

Lentils

Good Luck, New Beginnings, Renewal, Protection, Circle of Life

Lettuce

Fertility, Sexuality, Change, Transformation, Health

Lima Beans

Hope, War, Immortality, Change, Adaptability

Mushrooms

Mystery, Magic, Rebirth, Fertility, Spirituality

Mustard Greens

Emotion, Desire, Freedom, Joy, Relationships

Nettles

Fertility, Protection, Weather, Healing, Duality

Okra

Positivity, Removing Negativity, Curing Curses, Adaptability, Change

Onion

Healing, Divinity, Spirituality, Unity, Personality

Parsnip

Adapting, Success, Business, Luck, Destiny

Peanuts

Fruition, Balance, Mystery, Barriers, Wisdom

Pinto Beans

Opportunities, Action, Movement, Change, Adaptability

Potatoes

Stability, Protection, Grounding, Humility, Charity

Squash

Emotion, Energy, Grounding, Fertility, Abundance

Snap Peas

Spring, Rebirth, Renewal, Growth, Circle of Life

Soy Beans

Consideration, Virtue, Abundance, Prosperity, Immortality

Spinach

Strength, Endurance, Protection, Cleansing, Inner Peace

Split Peas

Opposites, Duality, Harmony, Premonition, Mental Clarity

Spring Onion

New Beginnings, Renewal, Luck, Wisdom, Clear Thinking

Peas

Truth, Rebirth, Acceptance, Business, Luck

Rhubarb

Energy, Grounding, Calmness, Inner Peace, Clarity

Rutabaga

Perseverance, Fortune, Underworld, Witchcraft, Versatility

Tabasco Pepper

Protection, Motivation, Passion, Lust, Curses

Tomato

Good Luck, Beauty, Prosperity, Abundance, Luck

Turnip

Opportunity, Luck, Fortune, Advancement, Future

Wasabi

Cleansing, Removal of Negative Energy, Spirituality, Positivity, Flow

Yam

Favor, Happiness, Joy, Abundance, Luck

Zucchini

Abundance, Fertility, Growth, Grounding, Peace

Sweets

Brownies

Adaptability, Change, Transformation, Sweetness, Bribery

Cake

Good Luck, Peace, Moderation, Charity, Humility

Candies

Positivity, Happiness, Joy, Inner Child, Peace

Cheesecake

Protection, Guards, Creativity, Independence, Relaxation

Chocolate

Happiness, Passion, Goals, Joy, Adaptability

Cinnamon Rolls

Protection, Joy, Luck, Motivation, Friendliness

Cookies

Health, Home, Comfort, Family, Prosperity

Cupcakes

Innocence, Purity, Fantasies, Desire, Celebration

Donuts

Luck, Renewal, Emotion, Abundance, Joy

Fortune Cookie

Divination, Luck, Omens, Wisdom, Mystery

Frozen Yogurt

Creativity, Eternal Life, Purity, Joy, Friendship

Gelato

Love, Hopes, Wishes, Plans, Motivation

Honey

Love, Sweetness, Fertility, Adaptability, Luck

Ice Cream

Energy, Support, Family, Innocence, Self-Care

Jelly

Victory, Sacrifice, Perseverance, Love, Friendship

Lollipops

Innocence, Family, Joy, Indulgence, Sweetness

Pie

Family, Community, Abundance, Nourishment, Friendliness

Pudding

Determination, Satisfaction, Flow, Investment, Self-Sacrifice

Strudels

Pleasure, Abundance, Earnings, Freedom, Change

Tarts

Closed Off, Learning, Emotions, Wisdom, Structure

Dairy

Butter

Change, Emotion, Strength, Nurture, Family

Cheese

Transformation, Nurturing, Family, Fertility, Change

Cream

Tranquility, Sweetness, Community, Gatherings, Friendliness

Custard

Renewal, Cleansing, Luck, Wishes, Dreams

Fermented Milk

Impurity, Curses, Anxiety, Family, Ill-Fortune

Milk

Fertility, Family, Prosperity, Luck, Love

Yogurt

Balance, Health, Immortality, Beauty, Development

Grains

Barley

Pleasures, Nature, Health, Abundance, Offerings

Bread

Culture, Hunger, Peace, Blessings, Cleansing

Cornmeal

Abundance, Luck, Prosperity, Offerings, Fertility

Oats

Renewal, Protection, Nourishment, Energy, Healing

Pasta

Energy, Good News, Abundance, Fortune, Luck

Rice

Prosperity, Protection, Cleansing, Wealth, Good Health

Rye

Judgement, Culture, Cheerfulness, Home, Family

Wheat

Fertility, Bounty, Renewal, Rebirth, Abundance

Nuts

Almonds

Approval, Watchfulness, Renewal, Hope, Diligence

Brazil Nuts

Open Mind, Conservation, Immortality, Duality, Strength

Cashews

Cleansing, Sustainability, Investment, Renewal, Luck

Chestnuts

Responsibility, Providing, Community, Family, Immortality

Hazelnuts

Divination, Wisdom, Long Life, Good Luck, Fertility

Macadamia Nut

Creativity, Skill, Teamwork, Ingenuity, Adventure

Pecan

Wealth, Financial Security, Luck, Peace, Longevity

Pistachios

Relationships, Good Omens, Health, Happiness, Family

Walnut

Peace, Wisdom, Discernment, Fertility, Family

Non-Alcoholic Beverages

Coffee

Divination, Energy, Luck, Creativity, Intellect

Energy Drink

Energy, Motivation, Excitement, Adventure, Action

Hot Chocolate

Wisdom, Peace, Comfort, Warmth, Renewal

Iced Tea

Community, Enjoyment, Family, Contentment, Relaxation

Juice

Sweetness, Gift of Life, Refreshment, Emotional or Physical Needs, Anything Associated With The Fruit Used

Kombucha

Cleansing, Health, Protection, Defense, Psychic Powers

Smoothie

Smooth Transition, Flow, Advice, Charity, Anything Associated With The Fruit Used

Soda

Energy, Obligations, Pleasure, Excitement, Awakening

Sparkling Water

Peace, Cleansing, Changes, Renewal, Movement

Sports Drink

Intensity, Energy, Strength, Health, Longevity

Tea

Purification, Energy, Wisdom, Reflection, Anything Associated With The Herbs Used

Water

Cleansing, Purification, Protection, Renewal, Healing

Alcoholic Beverages

Beer

Satisfaction, Community, Friendship, Escape, Nourishment

Champagne

Money, Prosperity, Luck, Positivity, Class

Cider

Health, Habits, Moderation, Contradictions, Anything Associated With The Fruit Used

Gin

Emotion, Senses, Safety, Settling, Boundaries

Mead

Divinity, Strength, Wisdom, Immortality, Healing

Rum

Healing, Celebration, Community, Family, Adventure

Vodka

Celebration, Family, Remembrance, Indulgence, Insecurity

Wine

Insightfulness, Emotion, Spirituality, Peace, Adventure

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i’m intrigued by all of these 👀 but if no one else asked about it yet, pregnant lesbians is at the top of my list!

This is actually a wlw thread series on my twitter account! It’s four parts so far, to be continued. But since this is a new platform I’m just going to post the whole thing here! Enjoy folks!

Stevie isn’t supposed to be this person.

It’s one thing to miss out on college, and another thing to fuck strangers in bars, and an entirely different, entirely worse third thing for Stevie to be nineteen years old and walking into the Planned Parenthood with a positive pregnancy test in her purse.

As it is, Teddie told her about this place, a big city clinic that makes her feel like she’s on an entirely different Earth from the one she’s always known–not a single face she knows, not an eye on her, so unlike every person she’s ever seen because unlike every soul in Hawkins, they don’t know her name.

Teddie offered to go with her too, and she’s regretting not taking her up on it. Something about Teddie’s skinny shoulder sitting just an inch or two above hers makes her feel more comfortable, like someone else is in charge for once, but that’s why Stevie couldn’t do it—she needs to do this alone.

The front desk checks her in and when the nurse asks And what can we do for you today, dear? Stevie isn’t sure what to say. She wants to know her options. Actually, what about just dying? Dying doesn’t seem terrible, and she has the bizarre thought that if she could check in for a routine Death treatment, one that’s covered by Medicaid in the state of Indiana, that would be just the thing, rather than confront any of it. What will her parents say? Her old friends? Fuck, /Keith/?

He already thinks she’s an airhead, judgmental despite the fact she’s seen him lick cheeto dust off of his own work vest.

She wants to know her options. Mostly she wants someone to tell her that it’s okay–that maybe she fucked up, maybe she needs help, and advice, but it’s okay, it’s going to be okay.

If she could scrape out the inside of her brain, get rid of the grime, the sludge of other people’s feelings, other people’s fears and thoughts, she’d know that what she most deeply wants is to stop, to feel this. To give in to the knowledge that there’s the beginnings of a little person inside of her, and /feel/ it. Her body–this body that can’t seem to do much of anything since high school, nothing but house her scrambled egg brain and run a decent mile–is growing a life, nurturing it, blowing it up like a little ball of dough that’s going to flounce outward and become a whole cake—one that can see, and blink, and hear, and sniffle, and think.

She wants to ask the nurse–is it wrong that I can see it? That it feels so right, like maybe the only thing that’s ever been right? Because it’s so wrong, of course it’s wrong, the whole thing! I think I remember his name—y’know, the guy—but you could tell me it was something you made up and I wouldn’t know any different; fuck, it could’ve been Bob Hope and no wonder I don’t remember any condom—and I’m supposed to want something more, right? I’m supposed to wait for the white dress, white picket fence, white gold and diamond on my finger, something more than this…

…but what could be more than this?

She was supposed to wait, but she didn’t wait. And she doesn’t die. She leaves the exam room with vitamins and a stack of brochures. Looking down at her stomach, it seems the same, maybe a little bloated. Six weeks, they said. Thirty-four more.

Imagining this tiny ball of mucus that’s becoming the smallest little human, she breezes through the waiting room as if in a dream, forgetting those eyes who’ve never seen her before.

It was Teddie’s idea.

Jeff wasn’t a fan, really. They’d just been friends for so long, and there was something frantic, uncomfortable about the whole thing. Teddie could tell she was being weird. But she just had to find out.

“I just need to know,” she’d say, pretty much every day, every morning of that stifling, hot, boring summer. Getting off of night shift at the plant alongside her uncle, wired, not being able to sleep. Trudging down the lane, over to Jeff’s, where his mom had already poured her a coffee—every morning. “I just need to feel it once, and then I’ll be fine.”

“This is a way bigger deal than you think it is,” Jeff would say.

“Untrue,” Teddie would lie. She’s always been a bit of a misfit, sexless and strange, but if she goes much longer without knowing what it feels like to intimately touch a man, she thinks it might do real damage, permanently alienate her. It’s a big deal, to her. So she’d say, “It’s an extremely little deal. It’s nothing. And like, I trust you! You’re my friend.”

“That’s the problem, Teddie,” Jeff finally says, one day. “I just think you trust me a little too much!”

“Impossible—”

“It’s… it’s important, the first time! And what if it’s… what if it happens, and it’s not what you wanted?”

“What do you mean?” she looks at him, sincere. She’s playing dumb; she knows she is, and she doesn’t normally do this, but he can’t keep saying no, “I’m literally asking you to do it.”

“And… and then what? What if you don’t like it? What if it… doesn’t work?” Jeff bites his lip, holds his elbows, thumps one heel in a dancing rhythm on the porch. They both know what he means. Her plan. The whole, kickstarting her interest in guys thing.

It’s a harebrained idea that’s gnawed at her for weeks—since she graduated high school at the age of 21, still a tender and awkward virgin with a deep seated fear of this /thing/. It’s something little—this inexperience, this absence of interest—but with every passing day it has greater power to turn her into something big: a freak, an alien, something too weird to ever truly fit.

Especially… especially since she started working at the video store. Especially since she’s been spending so damn much time with Stephanie Harrington.

She can’t listen to Stevie talk about dating, about picking up guys anymore—she can’t keep feeling this way—this heat, this mortification, whenever she hears about it, whenever she remembers how different they are, the two of them. They should be the same, in this way. They should be the same with this, even though they’re so different. Teddie’s having difficulty parsing her feelings about the whole ordeal, but this will /help/, she knows it.

“But what if it does.. work?” Teddie says, plucking the thread where her t-shirt is unraveling. “If I just knew what it was like, and then I could like, y’know, I would get a boyfriend? I wouldn’t be acting like this anymore. I could just like, be normal about it! And I promise I won’t fall in love with you, just because you’re my first time, or whatever.”

Jeff snorts, audibly, rubbing his face. “Yeah, no, I’m not worried about that.”

“Good!” Teddie says, face flushing. It’s the heat, she thinks. That’s why she’s so sweaty, and her heart rate is doing a weird lurch that she hates. It’s why she’s so uncomfortable.

“I still think you’re insane,” Jeff says, “but if it’s this important to you—”

Teddie’s head whips in his direction, her tangled hair spinning like the blade of a helicopter.

“Wait, seriously?” she asks, then cheers, “Jeff! Yes! Thank you! Thank you!”

Jeff sighs, accepts the hug that’s offered.

So, they do, later that day. Sex. And It’s fine. Just—fine. Teddie doesn’t try to kiss him, doesn't want to make it weird, but he stops her partway through, holds her face and kisses her anyway, closed lipped, like a reassurance, and she’s weirdly grateful; it feels the friendliest thing he’s ever done for her.

But, yeah, Teddie learns: sex is fine.

It’s what they find out afterward that’s not fine.

Not for the first time, Stevie is jealous of Robin.

Because Robin can eat anything without gaining any weight. He has the longest eyelashes Stevie has ever seen on a human. And Robin is very obviously, without question or doubt, a gay man.

Since they were children, people have been making comments about Robin—almost never kind. Robin, whose only friends are girls. Robin, who has the lisp, the voice. Robin, who has the walk. It’s obvious on Robin: the whole gay thing.

When they were in school, Robin was called every slur in the book. Their peers, they did the wrist thing. They’d joke about him owning heels and dresses. Robin never played sports; Robin failed gym class and had to do summer school because he wouldn’t touch a locker room. He’s paid for it in missing teeth: the whole gay thing.

He’s incredibly strong; he’s had to be. Everyone knows.

No one knows about Stevie. No one knows what she’s come to learn about herself.

She still sleeps with men, and it’s fine. It’s fun. It’s enough to keep it away—the thoughts she’d rather not explain to anyone. She’s hoping the baby takes that away actually: a form, a curving shape she hasn’t been able to stop thinking about. It’s a shape that has more recently developed particular features, a certain face.

As if reading her mind, Teddie runs into family video with her hand over her mouth.

Eddie is trying. She’s really trying to hold her life together.

It’s an old story: up late, never early enough. Never early enough to make the coffee without spilling something, never early enough to get dressed without having to change something. Never early enough to drive to work without speeding, never well fed enough to take her giant multi vitamin without wanting to hurl.

She’s running into Family Video with her hand over her mouth. Stevie barely has time to look at her funny before Teddie darts to the bathroom to throw up.

Teddie’s mortified when Stevie follows her in. Wide eyed, between hurls, she has something stuck to her lip. She gags at the feeling and wipes it off before sticking her head back into the toilet.

“Dude, don’t come in here!” Teddie says, then spits into the toilet.

“Relax, Munson,” Stevie says, voice low and calming; she’s crouching down to rub Teddie’s back. Her thin fingers work across Teddie’s neck, gathering and holding her hair in a low ponytail.

“Yknow, It’s funny? I’m the pregnant one, but you’re the one over here puking.”

“You haven’t puked?” Teddie says, deeply upset by this. “You’re the one who’s supposed to puke!”

“I know,” Stevie chuckles, rubbing the spaces in Teddie’s spine with the other hand as she retches, dry this time. There’s hidden strength in her hands, gentle strength like that of a long standing tree, or a grandmother who’s rubbed more children’s backs than she can count.

Teddie spits, again, feels the tenderness in Stevie’s hands which is too much, too real. Stevie’s breath coming over her shoulder is too sweet smelling, too kind to be in this video store bathroom. It’s like she doesn’t even know what Teddie’s doing.

Teddie feels the bizarre urge to make this funny. If it’s funny, it’s not anything else.

“You have a thing for this?” Teddie says.

“What?”

“Y’know, like a fetish? Girl on her knees in the video store bathroom—”

Stevie wrinkles her nose, but she’s smiling, Eddie can hear it in the way she says, “ew.” Score one for Munson.

“Because it would be fine if you did,” Teddie says, on a roll now, spitting the last of the ick from her mouth. “I’ve heard pregnancy does weird stuff to you.”

“Well,” Stevie says, with a laughing grin, “maybe you’re pregnant, too.”

Teddie snorts, regrets snorting, feeling the cold mucus in her throat make a sour resurgence. “Fat fucking chance,” she says.

“Not getting laid, Munson?” Stevie says, something too casual in her voice.

Teddie goes cold, feels herself pale.

“Oh, shit,” she says, meeting Stevie’s eyes with a grimace. She feels the panic, coming on. “What am I going to do?”

Teddie gets her own trailer a few days before she has an abortion.

Just the idea of something growing inside of her—something alive, not jus bacteria but a whole animal with a brain, the idea that something like that would feed off of her energy until it was ready to emerge from her in a bloody show that could kill her—it doesn’t exactly fill her with maternal longing. It’s more like something from a horror movie that’s also taking place in outer space.

Now, Steph could do it. She could make it look metal: ripping a child from her womb, strong and defiant and glistening with her own blood, ready to attach the suckling infant to her heavy breast, roaring with pain and triumph as bonding chemicals surge through them both. Steph could do it.

Teddie’s not Steph.

She tells Jeff beforehand—not for any reason but guilt. It was her idea, after all. She’s the one who said it probably wouldn’t take. It was her first time and she was on top—it wasn’t supposed to take.

They’re sitting on her new front porch, just behind Wayne’s trailer. She can see the window of her childhood bedroom, where she had sex with a man for the first time. The only time.

“Oh thank god,” the man (the boy, really) says, head in his hands, relief coming off of him in waves. Teddie’s not trying to have a baby either but she’s a little insulted.

“My parents…” he continues, “man my parents would kill me. After making me marry you, they would kill me.”

“What?” Teddie rears back, not expecting that, “Oh god, what the fuck?”

Her mortification must show on her face.

Jeff looks like he’s going to laugh, but he almost always looks like he’s going to laugh. That’s part of what she loves about him.

He says, “Hey, jackass, I’m not trying to marry you either—“

“What, like you and me? Church basement? Like with the dress and the suit and everything?”

“I’m serious. Like the plague. Mr. And Mrs. Jones.”

“But they wouldn’t have to know,” Teddie interrupts, “if I kept it.”

Jeff looks at her, incredulous. He sucks on his braces for emphasis.

“Oh yeah,” Jeff says, “like you’re just going to have your Black baby running around the trailer park with your Black best friend, and nobody would know—”

Despite herself, Teddie starts to laugh. Jeff’s relief and her own bubble up like soda fizz.

“You’d be running after him like ‘Get back here Eomer!’ And I’d just be sitting here, sipping coffee, like that baby has nothing to do with me..?

Teddie gets up for more coffee, still laughing.

[horrorliives]

a.l.k

❀ *◦ angela sarafyan. woman. she/her. bisexual & biromantic . ⇝ hey, isn’t that ani lusine kachadourian? i think that the fourty one year old from glendale, california works as house mom at sugar’s lounge & burlesque dancer at sweet cheeks cabater & burlesque lounge, but outside of that people describe them as glitter stained eyelids & hair, gold accessories. i hear they are guarded & stubborn, but they are also known to be resilient & empathetic. consider giving them a visit at their home in delilah’s den gated community and get to know why they’re called the mother. 

✕ ⸻ BASICS

⸻ FULL NAME: Ani Lusine Kachadourian ⸻ NICKNAMES: Anush, Ani Bear, Miss Ani, Ani Angel, Nini, Mama Ani, Lusi ⸻ BIRTHDAY: November 4 1989 ⸻ ZODIAC: Scorpio Sun/Mercury, Gemini Moon, Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Venus, Libra Mars ⸻ AGE: 41 years old ⸻ GENDER: cis woman ⸻ PRONOUNS: she/her ⸻ SEXUAL & ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: bisexual & biromantic ⸻ SCARS / TATTOOS: tbd. ⸻ OCCUPATION: House mom at Sugar's Lounge & Burlesque dancer at Sweet Cheeks Cabaret & Burlesque Lounge ⸻INSPO/SIMILARITIES: to be added later

✕ ⸻ BIO

to be updated more in the future

Ani Kachadourian was born on November 5th in Glendale, California, to Armenian-American parents, Mariam and Vahan Kachadourian. Her family had a rich cultural heritage, and her parents instilled in her a deep appreciation for Armenian traditions and values. Mariam was a homemaker who dedicated her life to raising Ani and her younger brother, while Vahan worked as an architect, providing a comfortable but modest life for the family.

Growing up, Ani was a curious and imaginative child. She was particularly close to her grandfather, Artin, who often told her stories about Armenia and the family’s past. These stories inspired a lifelong interest in her heritage. Her grandmother, Sona, was a gentle and nurturing presence, teaching Ani traditional Armenian recipes and crafts. Despite the love and stability in her early years, Ani witnessed her parents’ growing financial struggles as Vahan’s architectural firm faced economic downturns.

As a teenager, Ani was known for her academic excellence and artistic talents. She was involved in various school activities, including the drama club, where she discovered a passion for performance. During this time, she met Ruben, a classmate who would become her first love. Their relationship was intense and filled with dreams of a future together.

At the age of 20, Ani became pregnant with Aram. While her relationship with Ruben was deep, they were both young and unprepared for the responsibilities of parenthood. Despite their best efforts, they grew apart, and their relationship ended when Aram was three years old. Ruben moved away, leaving Ani to raise Aram as a single mother. Ani managed to finish her college education while working part-time to support herself and Aram. Her early years as a mother were challenging, but they shaped her into a resilient and determined individual. She worked hard to provide a stable environment for her son while also pursuing her artistic interests on the side.

At 26, Ani moved to Los Angeles & married Ohan, a kind-hearted man who was supportive of her and Aram. Together, they welcomed Lina and Karo, the twins, into their lives. Ani’s marriage with Ohan brought stability and joy, and they built a warm family life in Los Angeles. However, their happiness was cut short when Ohan died in a car accident when the twins were eight years old. This tragic loss was a turning point for Ani, who was left to navigate life as a single mother once again. Following Ohan’s death, Ani focused on raising her children and working multiple jobs to make ends meet.

When Ani was 35, she decided to become a foster parent, driven by her desire to provide a safe and loving home for children in need. She took in Lyanna, a 12-year-old girl who had suffered neglect and abuse. Ani’s nurturing nature and dedication to her children led her to adopt Lyanna, creating a new sense of family. A year later, Ani adopted Narek, an eight-year-old boy who had been in foster care for most of his early years. These new additions to her family brought both joy and challenges, and Ani worked tirelessly to integrate them into their new life.

Ani received heartbreaking news: her grandfather, Artin, had passed away, and her grandmother, Sona, was missing under mysterious circumstances. Devastated by the loss of her grandfather and troubled by her grandmother’s disappearance, Ani felt a profound sense of duty to investigate what had happened.

With her children and the weight of her family’s history on her shoulders, Ani made the difficult decision to move to Anchorage, Alaska. She hoped that returning to the place where her grandparents had lived might offer clues about Sona’s whereabouts and help her uncover any unresolved family mysteries.

In Anchorage, Ani has set up a new life for her family. She took up a role as a house mom at Sugar’s Lounge, where she balanced her work responsibilities with caring for her children. Despite the hardships, she found solace in her performances as a burlesque dancer at Sweet Cheeks Cabaret & Burlesque Lounge, where she could express herself creatively and escape her daily struggles. Her goal in this new city is twofold: to find answers about her grandmother’s disappearance and to build a stable and nurturing environment for her children, drawing upon her experiences as a mother, performer, and survivor of loss.

✕ ⸻ ANI'S CHILDREN

Aram (21) -- The Older Sibling & Mentor

Aram has grown into a responsible young adult. He often takes on a leadership role in the family. He is very supportive of his younger siblings & helps Ani with household responsibilities when he can. He is pursing a degreen in business administration & dreams of opening his own tech startup. Aram is Ani’s firstborn, born when she was 20. He grew up witnessing his mother’s struggles and was a source of support for her and his younger siblings. After high school, he focused on his studies and works part-time to support himself through college.

Lina (15) -- The Creative Dreamer

Lina is a budding artist with a love for painting 7 drawing. She is emotionally perceptive, often sensing & responding to the moods of her family members. Despite her young age, Lina is dedicated her craft & dreams of becoming a professional artist. She can often be found lost in her thoughts, sketching, or daydreaming about future possibilities. Lina is one of the twins born when Ani was 26. She shares a close bond with Karo, who often explores creative outlets together. She is currently attending high school & balancing her academic responsibilities with her artistic pursuits.

Karo (15) -- The Intellectual Helper

Karo is very smart. enjoys solving puzzles, playing strategy games, & studying. He's a dependable & caring sibling, often helping Lina with her art projects or tutoring her in subjects they both find challenging. He prefers quieter activities & values his personal time. He is good at reading situations & understanding people's emotions. Karo is Lina's twin brother. Growing up, he has been a supportive & protective sibling, & they share a close bond. He's excelling in school & is interested in pursuing a career in engineering or technology.

Lyanna (12) -- The Compassionate Child

Lyanna is known for her kind & caring nature. She has a strong sense of empathy & is quick to offer comfort to her siblings when they're upset. She loves to create stories & play imaginative games. She often goes out of her way to help others & make them feel appreciated. Lyanna was adopted by Ani when she was two years old. Despite her early hardships, she has grown into a loving & caring child, integrating well into the Kachoadourian family & becoming a beloved member of the household.

Dalia (9) -- The Spirited Adventurer

Dalia is always on the go & loves to explore her surroundings. She's very inquisitive & enjoys learning new things, friendly, & enjoys making new friends & school & in the neighborhood. She often engages in craft activities & imaginative play. Dalia is Ani's child from when she was 32. A vibrant & active child, she's always full of ideas & ready for the next adventure. She keeps her older siblings on their toes with her boundless energy & curiosity.

Narek (6) -- The Young Adventurer

Narek is ful of energy & enjoys playing outside or engaging in physical activities. He is fearless & cururious, often exploring new places & getting into minor trouble. He's very loving & enjoys spending time with his family, especially his older siblings. Narjek was also adopted by Ani when he was one year old. ie Lyanna, he came from a challenging background, & Ani povided him with a nurturing enivonrment where he could group up surrounded by love.

✕ ⸻ HEADCANONS

Passion for Cooking: Ani has a secret talent for making traditional Armenian dishes. She learned these recipes from her grandparents & enjoys passing them down to her children. Cooking is her way of staying connected to her roots & keeping her family's heritage alive.

Vintage Jewelry Collector: Ani loves collection vintage jewelry from different eras. Her collection includes pieces from the 1920s Art Deco period & the 1970s Bohemian styles. She wears these pieces to the cabaret to add a touch of elegance to her performances. Each pieces has a story, & she enjoys sharing these stories with her friends & family.

A Fondness for Classic Movies: Ani is a fan of classic Hollywood films and often has movie nights with her kids. Her favorite actress is Audrey Hepburn, and she adores films like “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” and “Roman Holiday.” She uses these movie nights to teach her children about classic cinema and to bond with them over shared interests.

A Hidden Talent for Tarot Reading: Ani has a talent for reading tarot cards. She learned it as a form of spiritual exploration and enjoys offering readings for her friends and family. She uses the cards to provide guidance and comfort, believing that the insights can help navigate the challenges of life.

A Ritual of Tea Time: Ani has a daily ritual of tea time in the late afternoon. She enjoys brewing loose-leaf teas and tries out different blends, often sharing her favorite teas with friends. Tea time is a quiet moment for her to unwind and reflect on her day. It’s also a time for her to catch up with her kids and talk about their day.

A Passion for Vintage Fashion: Ani has a keen eye for vintage fashion and often incorporates vintage styles into her wardrobe. She enjoys thrift shopping and finding unique pieces. Her wardrobe includes a mix of vintage dresses, retro accessories, and classic heels that she wears both for her cabaret performances and in her daily life.

A Love for Stargazing: Ani enjoys stargazing and finds it to be a peaceful and reflective activity. She often takes her children out on clear nights to look at the stars and talk about the constellations. She keeps a star map and uses a telescope to explore the night sky, teaching her kids about the wonders of the universe.

A Collector of Local Art: Ani supports local artists by collecting Alaskan artwork. Her home is adorned with pieces from local galleries and craft fairs. She values art that tells a story and enjoys meeting the artists to learn about their inspirations.

An Enthusiastic Gardener: Ani enjoys gardening and takes great pride in her flower garden. She grows a variety of plants and flowers and loves creating a beautiful outdoor space. She finds gardening to be therapeutic and uses it as a way to relax and connect with nature.

Mother of DIY Projects: Ani is skilled at DIY projects and often takes on home improvement tasks. She enjoys creating homemade decorations and renovating furniture. She uses this skill to make her home cozy and inviting, often involving her children in the projects.

✕ ⸻ WANTED CONNECTIONS

co-workers

babysitters for the children

parents of children that are her children's friends

neighbors

[doumadono]

Baby!ER here~ First, let me thank you for writing my request! It was very comforting, especially the self-worth not being related to infertility. Seeing that actually made me cry because I didn't realize just how much I was associating the two until now. I loved it! <3

Now, as for the other part of my previous message... I'm asking on anonymous because not everyone in our personal lives know about this yet and she wants to keep it that way for now.

My partner and I have been together for 16 years, and we have two beautiful daughters together. I want to have a third child; however, it's looking like that isn't an option anymore because my partner came out to me as MtF!Trans back in 2021 and has been on HRT for a year. Ever since she's started HRT, she has been happier and livelier; she smiles all the time and she enjoys life so much more; and I find it very endearing whenever she notices any progress and gets so excited - like a child in front of an ice cream buffet. This is something that I want for her more than a third child, especially since she has already given me two beautiful little girls and has loved me unconditionally. Having her and our two daughters is enough for me to be happy. This is something that she's wanted for over a decade, and I intend to be right by her side through it all because she's still the person I fell in love with 16 years ago; she's still the person I see in my wedding daydreams and she's still the person I intend to grow old with.

I am in full support of her transition; I remind her to take her pills; I'm helping her to build a wardrobe; to learn all the feminine upkeep and I help her practice her vocal training; and we're currently trying to find a doctor for the next step in her transition. I want her to be happy, and this is what she needs to reach that point, so I support it wholeheartedly. But it still saddens me a bit to see that door close on any of our potiential future biological children. Is that selfish of me...?

Hiya again! First and foremost, I want to express my sincere admiration for the depth of love and commitment that resonates throughout your message. Your journey over the past 16 years, marked by the joys of parenthood and the profound connection you share with your partner, is both heartwarming and inspiring.

Navigating the complexities of your partner's transition, especially considering the shift in future family plans, is undoubtedly a significant emotional journey. Your unwavering support for her, from actively participating in her transition to being her emotional anchor, is nothing short of remarkable though! The joy and fulfillment you find in witnessing her newfound happiness and vitality are beautifully articulated, emphasizing the depth of your love and understanding. Your willingness to share in her joy, to actively participate in every aspect of her transition, showcases an extraordinary level of empathy and commitment. However, it's crucial to recognize and honor your own emotions as well. The sadness you feel about the shift in family planning doesn't diminish your support for her transition; rather, it adds another layer to the multifaceted tapestry of your shared experiences.

In supporting her, you are also embracing the reality that love and family take diverse forms, and your ability to adapt and nurture this evolution is a testament to the strength of your relationship. It's a poignant reminder that love transcends biological ties, and your focus on her happiness is a profound testament to the selflessness that underlines your connection.

The bittersweet emotions you express, contemplating the closure of the door on the possibility of more biological children, are entirely valid. It's not selfish to acknowledge and mourn the alteration of a dream, especially one as significant as expanding your family. The complexity of emotions in these circumstances is a testament to the genuine and intricate nature of your connection.

In navigating this profound shift in your shared journey, it's essential to allow yourselves the time and space to acclimate to your new reality. Adjusting to the notion that the door to another biological child is closing can be a challenging process, but it's a transition that, with patience and understanding, you can navigate together. However, amidst this process, remember that adapting to a new reality is not only achievable but often brings unexpected joys and discoveries.

Pouring your boundless love and devotion into your two beautiful daughters is a profound and fulfilling endeavor. Recognize the immense fortune you hold in having them, for many couples face challenges in conceiving biological children.

In this transformative period, communication, mutual understanding, and a shared commitment to each other's happiness will serve as the bedrock of your journey. You have already demonstrated an extraordinary capacity for love, adaptability, and unwavering support. As you traverse this path together, keep in mind the limitless potential for love and joy that lies ahead, and remember that your unique family story is an unfolding narrative filled with resilience, compassion, and boundless love.

I hope you'll pardon the lengthy expression of my thoughts, but I felt compelled to share my personal sentiments with you. I genuinely wish you both all the best, and I harbor a strong hope that with the profound amount of love you both exude, your life together will unfold into something truly beautiful.

[acosmicdisappointment]

— wesley.

is that JONAH HAUER-KING? oh, no, that’s WESLEY GRAHAM, a TWENTY-SEVEN year old SALES ASSOCIATE AT INHERITED ESCAPES/GHOSTWRITER who uses HE/HIM pronouns. they currently live in CASABLANCA COMMUNE, and the character they identify with most is MILO THATCH FROM ATLANTIS: LOST EMPIRE. hopefully they find their own little paradise here in el país de los poetas!

BASICS.

FULL NAME. ellis wesley graham NICKNAME(S). wesley, wes, ellis (hates it and knows someone is mad at him when they use this) AGE/BIRTHDAY/ZODIAC. 27 / july 1st / cancer SEXUALITY. heterosexual BIRTHPLACE. london, england HEIGHT. 6’1” EYE COLOR. blue ILLNESSES/CONDITIONS. lover boy with abandonment issues TATTOOS/PIERCINGS/SCARS. half compass on his forearm (right), a lily on his wrist in honor of his grandmother's birth flower (left) FC. jonah hauer-king

PERSONALITY.

empathetic sweet reliable insecure sensitive paranoid

HISTORY.

tw: parental abandonment, mentions of death — Barely a year old, Wes and his older sister, age 5, were left in their grandmother's care when their parents decided they couldn't handle the responsibilities of parenthood. No explanation of why they just up and left. The absence of any explanation or farewell left a lingering sense of abandonment and confusion, with no closure even as they grew older. — Growing up in a quaint London flat, Wes found solace in Evelyn's nightly stories, which not only sparked his lifelong love for literature but also served as a balm for the parental love they lacked. Despite this, the void left by their parents' absence often made Wes question his own worthiness of love. — Wes was just 16 years old when Evelyn passed away, and it was his sister who stepped up to provide the support and care he needed, continuing the nurturing environment their grandmother had created. — To help make ends meet, Wes turned to ghostwriting, initially starting with academic papers for peers at university and gradually expanding his scope of work. His talent in writing became a source of income and stability. — Despite his skill and potential for success as an author, Wes chose to remain a ghostwriter, fearing the pressures and intrusions of fame that accompany being a published writer. Also if he became famous his parents might come knocking on his door or something, no thank you. — After graduating, Wes and his sister went their separate ways, but not before getting matching tattoos; a half compass symbolizing their belief that no matter where life took them, they would always find their way back to each other. — Valparaíso has been Wes's home for nearly two years now, where he has found employment as a sales associate at Inherited Escapes.

EXTRAS.

to read to see to listen

HEADCANONS.

— the type you would bring home to mama <3 — would ALWAYS open doors for you (will get sad if you didn't let him) — has a goodreads account (@grahamreads) — is a bad texter (if you wanna talk to him you gotta do it in person) — a little too nice and most people tend to misinterpret his kindness for something more — book boyfriend coded — has assigned mugs specifically for tea and coffee — believes in the traditional way of courting (i.e., writing letters, serenading, sending flowers)

WANTED CONNECTIONS/PLOTS.

inner circle — this boy needs friends! wes is definitely the designated driver whenever they go out hello darling — regulars at inherited escapes (word on the street he is responsible for an increase in sales; would need more research to prove this) woman of his dreams — wes is my ultimate dream boy and anyone would be so lucky to have him as a partner pls snatch him up more tbd! just slide into my dms to plot

[silversiren1101]

Couples asks for the Hellpair! 1, 28, 32

Sure thing dujour!

1. What, specifically, was the catalyst for their physical attraction (if applicable) to the other character? In other words, what in particular had them like “Oh, they’re…hot…”

Answered this one here! TLDR: Regill was (still is lol) pretty hot pre-Bleaching and Mino was immediately into it. Regill had to get past the double demi barrier and it hits him like a truck after he does.

28. How do they feel about the prospect of parenthood? Do they plan on it? How would they react if they suddenly found out they were going to be a parent?

Haha well, everyone knows I've made them have a kid: their absolutely adored and loved and cherished gnome-ganzi gremlin, Jesyll. Was she planned? Hell no. Still very much wanted? Desperately. The topic of contraception and safe-sex never even popped up between them. Is that irresponsible? Not really because they shouldn't even be biologically compatible in that way. Pregnancy was never a fear (or serious discussion) because a human and a gnome? Shouldn't happen.

Too bad Mino technically isn't human anymore. She's more protean lord than human, and you know what happens when a protean shacks up with a mortal? Ganzi babies.

As for their opinions before the pregnancy happened?

Minovae: Mino I think has very strong nurturing and mothering tendencies, and she absolutely adores kids. I think she's wanted a child in a far-fetched dream kind of way, a deep and pointless yearning. Who would have a kid with her? Would she even have one, as a Hellknight and with all of her duties? Her own childhood was so brutal and cruel and she's terrified of not being able to give a child the rightful love and care and attention they deserve, not wanting them to be subjected to the torture she did. She fulfilled that ache by adopting foundlings at least who were slightly older (8-15 years old), and it made her so very happy and full to look after them and teach them. When she lost them (thanks House Thrune) it destroyed her and she wrote off any future children or adoptees because she wouldn't put them in that kind of danger and knew she wouldn't be able to handle such loss ever again. Even the mongrel children she plays with in Drezen--which she adores and loves to play with!--leave her feeling so guilty and hollow after. Ember is a difficult problem for her in the best kind of way as well. Mino truly loves Ember as her child and hates seeing her enter combat with the rest of them, and is filled with so much rage and sadness over what happened to her.

Honestly, I think a lot of Mino's core beliefs as a Hellknight is based on creating a life where no child will be treated different for who they are, experience war, go hungry or cold... She wants to guide society to a place where her own childhood never would have happened. "We as a people are nothing without our children. They are our future and our hope."

Regill: First off, gnome family structures and reproduction is way different than your typical ancestry. Gnomes are rarely monogamous and rarely marry (settling down and getting content in a relationship? uh oh am I turning pale?), having many partners in life usually. Obviously it does work for some of them! Having your ultimate special someone that makes every day exciting and magical and you don't risk the contentment making you Bleach... I honestly love how it's phrased in their 1e materials: "a gnome relationship is one of intention and choice." When gnomes do have children, it's the same: a conscious and deliberate choice to do so, and often as a "hey having a kid could be pretty exciting, want to do that?" Even then, gnome families are so loosely structured and rarely together that gnome kids are raised communally most of the time, maybe even knowing only their mother. I doubt Regill knew his family in any meaningful way, and being as he is, left it behind when he could.

So as for Regill with kids? I think at most when he was younger he analyzed it maybe one time as a "duty to society" kind of thing and axed it completely once he became a Hellknight. He was doing his part that way. As for his opinion on kids in general? I don't think he dislikes them, and he actually has a lot of patience for them! More patience than he has with most adults. Children often don't know any better and they are learning and growing, and I think he would feel it part of his duty to be a good role model and teacher if around them. To me, he has similar opinions as Mino: the next generation and our children is who we do everything for. What is the point of creating a perfect lawful society if we have no one to reap the benefits of it?

Having children of his own was never an anticipated outcome in his life. He didn't feel strongly enough toward anyone like that. He felt it incredibly irresponsible to have a kid and foist it off on someone else. And, honestly? I think he accepted he'd be a hellish father. There's a big leap between doing right by children around you and actually raising a whole kid the right way.

But, uh oh, they both fall in love and so much changes... and then... Mino gets pregnant.

It takes her an embarrassing amount of time and weeks of morning sickness to realize she is pregnant. It's such an impossibility to her because he is a gnome and she, in her mind, is human. The realization is panic, sheer panic, and crushing fear. This can't be happening. How is this happening. Oh gods what is he going to think? How do I tell him? How do I tell him I want this and I want to keep this baby?! Like they have NEVER talked about this possibility, and suddenly it's happening and she's already a few months along and while if told it was possible beforehand she would've responsibly said no, but this baby is now in her and oh she wants it so badly and has no idea what he will do or think. They're in the middle of a shadow war with House Thrune, she's a demigoddess and he's Lictor of their own Hellknight Order, and she wants so selfishly to have this kid more than anything.

It's a very difficult talk, even just telling him. So much sobbing on her part and tense silence as he listens and thinks on everything. He also has that "if you had asked him before he would've said no way" but it's happening now and he... doesn't hate the idea of a kid. So many internal questions of if he has what it takes, if he is patient and even gentle enough for a kid, if he is capable of loving his own child because gods it took a century to be able to love his now-wife, if it's even morally okay to have a kid with who they are and what's going on and the danger around them... He resolves to try. To him, not having an immediate visceral NO reaction means he does actually want this.

The more she starts to show the more he's absolutely on board and honestly a little overbearing lol! Very much hounding her to get off her feet and rest and eat more and get more sleep and take your supplements and... ultimately he's a much more protective and fretting parent than Mino is once Jesyll arrives lol. Like he's terrriiified holding her the first time like "oh my god who the fuck thought this was a good idea I am not equipped to hold an infant much less RAISE THIS" but she also looks just like him (with some of mom's feathers and scales!) and when she does the lil baby grip around his hand the first time it's like [cateyesdilatingwide.gif]

Mino is of course a very warm and loving mother. She loves her daughter so much she starts singing again, not even realizing she's singing her to sleep that first time. She literally hadn't sang since before she was a Hellknight. Regill has to tell her that she was and she just silently cries, feeling a lot of things all at once.

32. How do their friends react to finding out they’re a couple? Do they have lots of mutual friends? Did their friends know, perhaps before they themselves did?

Pretty much all of them knew Mino had a thing for him in the past. She flatly tells them so after she regains her memories when they ask her how she knew him, feeling so dead inside that she thinks even that is dead too. There's a lot of, "really?" "HIM?!" and all sorts of incredulous questions but ultimately just fades from most everyone into a sort of... sadness for her. Her taste in partner aside, falling for someone that no one believes would love her back? Him being her 'one' to the point that she's closed off to any other potential partners? It's sad, but not in a pity way. Just in a this is a tragedy kind of way... neither of them are wrong in this situation and it's just sad that things aligned this way where neither of them can be happy.

A few are trying to push them together anyway, in a desperate hope there is something in him that will accept her in that way. Daeran is the big one. He tried to court her in the beginning and she was actually along for it until she just felt... she realized she couldn't feel that way for him. Not even remembering who she was yet and her past, she just can't connect with him in that deeper way. Daeran also realized that her heart is taken, and after the pieces fall together of who, he makes it his damned mission to get them together. At first it's kind of the same as a "crackship" in a spiteful way because she rejected him and it'd be funny to see two Hellknights in love, especially Regill's grumpy ass; but he gets into it sincerely as she's destructing and giving so much of herself to this damned Crusade and also helping all of them and genuinely being his friend... he wants her sincerely to be happy and loved, and if he can't do it he's going to do his damned best to get her into her actual love's arms.

Arueshalae is another. She can sense the hurt and yearning like and wound in Mino and while she isn't brave enough to talk to her about it, wants so badly for her to find her happiness. She has a thought like, if she as a demon can ascend and find empathy and kindness and yearn for love, why can't a devil? Regill isn't actually a devil but the point stands, lol. She works a lot behind the scenes trying to get them alone together and make them connect.

Most everyone else believes it's impossible until it actually happens: Regill dies saving her. I explained in this one how he comes to realize he actually loves her (thanks Daeran lol) so by then he fully knows he's so deeply in love with her and needs her. He gives up his life to protect her not out of duty but because he himself realizes he won't survive losing her again anyway. It's not a hard choice to sacrifice himself, and his regret is that he only realized it too late and can't be there for her now. The companions that retrieve his body where he falls finds a few of her feathers gripped tight in his gauntlet as the last thing he was capable of before succumbing. Even more proof, during his resurrection ritual, Sosiel and Arsinoe beseech the Godclaw to restore him... only for Shelyn to answer personally instead. He died for love, and the Eternal Rose deems him worthy of another chance.

It's a major shock to most everyone, but a happy one. There's little room for doubt when the goddess of beauty and love gets involved. Sosiel especially has to reconcile a lot of his flawed understanding of love and its manifestations, but becomes a better Shelynite and man for it. Seelah also has a lot of things to work through with her idea of Evil and Hellknights being "othered" in her mind rather than just fellow mortals - people with living beating hearts capable of change and love.

Their relationship is generally looked upon with relief and like it's something precious. People want to see the Knight Commander happy and cared for after all she's done and gone through, and also them being two Hellknights who are in love? The people eat that shit up from a parasocial/gossipy point.

Questions from this list!

[sim-berry]

About Me- Simblr Edition

Thank you @akitasimblr for tagging me! Fun fact: I play so much Sims that I’ve had dreams that I was a sim!😳

Your 3 traits: Hot-Headed, Music Lover, Lazy (for Sims 3: Loner, Hates Outdoors, Virtuoso, Hydrophobic, Nurturing)

Your aspiration: Big Happy Family/Super Parent🤱🏻

In-game World You’d Live In: Willow Creek or Brindleton Bay

Favorite Townie(s): Sergio Romeo (the founding spouse for my iconic legacy challenge that I played years ago), Bella Goth, Penny Pizzazz

Most Used Pack(s): Parenthood, Growing Together, Cool Kitchen Stuff

Favorite decor object (no cc): that fur rug from City Living, any indoor plant, the little pencil holder to place on desks

Something You Want in the Game: more stuff for infants- using those push-walkers, using pacifiers, practicing walking, baby swings, even more quirks etc. Also: children being able to help out with babies and toddlers, more pregnancy interactions, those bouncy kid rides that Sims 3 has. Give me all the family gameplay!

What Color is Your Plumbob Right Now: Green, my needs are good. Current mood is Fine, but about to turn into Asleep (it’s midnight for me right now)!

I’ll tag anyone who reads this and wants to do it! Let’s get to know our fellow simmers💚

[golden--doodler]

Okay so I asked ChatGPT to write what Bob and Linda's wedding vows were and I'm 😭🥺👌🏼

We NEED a Boblin wedding flashback RIGHT NOW

Okay, Linda's first:

"Bob, my love, my burger-flipping hero, today I stand before you with a heart bursting with love and gratitude. From the moment our paths crossed, my life took a delicious turn, and I found my partner in both culinary and life adventures.

Bob, you are the patty to my bun, the cheese to my melt, and the secret spice that brings flavor to every day. Your unwavering support and belief in me have given me the courage to chase my dreams and embrace my quirks. You've seen me through my kitchen catastrophes, my terrible singing, and my wild ideas, and yet, you love me just the same.

You're the grill master who never fails to create mouthwatering masterpieces, the shoulder to lean on when life gets tough, and the pun king who can always make me laugh. Your patience and understanding have been my rock, and your warm hugs have comforted me in my darkest moments.

Today, I promise to be your biggest cheerleader, encouraging you in all your endeavors. I vow to stand by your side through the ups and downs, sharing in the joys and challenges that come our way. Together, we can conquer any obstacle, whether it's a stubborn health inspector or a shortage of pickles.

I promise to cherish our family, to create a loving and nurturing home where our children can grow, laugh, and embrace their own quirks. I will be your partner in parenthood, supporting and guiding them with love and patience.

In the grand buffet of life, I choose you, Bob, as my forever meal. With each passing day, my love for you grows deeper, stronger, and spicier. Today and always, I promise to love you unconditionally, to be your biggest fan, and to savor every moment we share together.

So, with a heart full of love and a stomach full of anticipation, I say 'I do' to a lifetime of adventures, laughter, and perfectly cooked burgers. Bob, you are my everything, and I am eternally grateful to have you as my husband and partner in flipping burgers and flipping life. I love you, Bob Belcher."

Now Bob's:

"Linda, my flame-grilled muse, today I stand here in awe of the incredible woman you are. From the moment you walked into my life, you brought with you a whirlwind of energy, passion, and love that has transformed my existence in ways I never thought possible.

Linda, you are the sizzle to my griddle, the mayo to my bun, and the special sauce that makes every day brighter. Your infectious laughter, your zest for life, and your unwavering belief in me have inspired me to become the best version of myself.

You've stood by my side through grease fires, questionable puns, and the occasional mishap in the kitchen. Your unwavering support and belief in my burger creations have fueled my culinary dreams and given me the courage to keep flipping patties with pride. Despite not being able to hear, I've never had someone who listened to me, truly listened to me the way you have.

Today, I promise to be your rock, your sounding board, and your partner in all our wacky adventures. I vow to listen to your dreams, support your ambitions, and hold your hand through life's twists and turns. Together, we can conquer any challenge, whether it's dealing with quirky customers or navigating the ups and downs of the restaurant business.

I promise to be your shoulder to lean on, your comfort in times of uncertainty, and your source of strength when life gets tough. I will cherish and respect you, celebrating the beautiful, vibrant, and one-of-a-kind person you are.

In this crazy journey we call life, I choose you, Linda, as my eternal partner. With you, every day is an adventure, every meal is a feast, and every moment is a treasure. Today and always, I promise to love you fiercely, to appreciate your amazing dance moves, and to be the best husband and father I can be.

Together, we'll create a home filled with laughter, love, and perfectly grilled burgers. I will be the Bob to your Linda, the guy who makes you laugh, supports your dreams, and appreciates your unique sense of style. With you by my side, I know that our love will only grow stronger, spicier, and more delicious with each passing year.

So, with all my heart and my apron strings tied tight, I proudly say 'I do' to a lifetime of love, laughter, and endless burger creations. Linda, you are my sunshine, my muse, and my forever partner. I am eternally grateful to have you as my wife, and I love you more than words can express."

[jamelawsonus]

Empowering Journeys: Unveiling the Path to Becoming a Surrogate

Introduction:

Becoming a surrogate is a remarkable decision that can transform lives and bring joy to those struggling with infertility. It is a journey filled with compassion, empathy, and the desire to help others achieve their dreams of parenthood. For those considering embarking on this noble path, Physicians Surrogacy is an agency that provides unwavering support and guidance throughout the surrogacy process. In this article, we will explore the empowering journey of becoming a surrogate and shed light on the valuable role played by Physicians Surrogacy in making dreams come true.

The Gift of Life:

Becoming a surrogate is an extraordinary gift that allows individuals or couples who are unable to conceive naturally to experience the joy of parenthood. Surrogates selflessly offer their bodies and hearts to carry and nurture a child on behalf of another individual or couple. This act of generosity not only brings immense happiness to the intended parents but also leaves an indelible mark on the lives of the surrogates themselves. The journey to becoming a surrogate is often a transformative experience that allows women to embrace their own strength, compassion, and ability to make a significant difference in the world.

The Role of Physicians Surrogacy:

Physicians Surrogacy is a renowned agency dedicated to supporting surrogates throughout their journey and matching them with deserving intended parents. They understand the complexities and emotions involved in the surrogacy process and provide comprehensive guidance to ensure a smooth and fulfilling experience for all parties involved.

Matching Process:

Physicians Surrogacy takes great care in matching surrogates with intended parents who align with their values, beliefs, and preferences. They prioritize compatibility and strive to create strong, trusting relationships between surrogates and intended parents. By conducting thorough screenings, interviews, and evaluations, the agency ensures that the journey is a positive one for all parties involved.

Legal and Medical Support:

Navigating the legal and medical aspects of surrogacy can be daunting, but Physicians Surrogacy eases the burden by providing expert assistance. They have a team of legal professionals well-versed in surrogacy laws, ensuring that all legal matters are handled efficiently and ethically. Additionally, the agency works closely with medical professionals who provide comprehensive care to surrogates throughout the process, including fertility treatments, prenatal care, and delivery.

Emotional Support:

The emotional well-being of surrogates is of utmost importance to Physicians Surrogacy. They offer counseling services and create a supportive environment where surrogates can freely express their thoughts, concerns, and joys. Surrogacy can be an emotionally intense journey, and having a strong support system is crucial. Physicians Surrogacy ensures that surrogates have access to the resources and guidance needed to navigate any emotional challenges they may face.

Financial Compensation:

Becoming a surrogate is a commitment that requires time, effort, and dedication. Physicians Surrogacy recognizes the sacrifices made by surrogates and provides fair and competitive financial compensation for their invaluable contribution. This compensation helps support surrogates throughout the journey and allows them to pursue their own personal goals and aspirations.

Conclusion:

Becoming a surrogate is a remarkable and empowering journey that allows individuals to make a lasting impact on the lives of others. With the support of agencies like Physicians Surrogacy, surrogates can navigate this transformative experience with confidence, knowing that they have a dedicated team by their side. By offering comprehensive guidance, emotional support, and expert assistance, Physicians Surrogacy empowers surrogates to embrace their roles as life-givers and fulfill the dreams of intended parents. If you're considering becoming a surrogate, Physicians Surrogacy is a reliable and compassionate agency that will stand with you every step of the way, ensuring that your journey is one of fulfillment, compassion, and ultimate empowerment.

[surrogacycentre-india]

What are the Benefits of Altruistic Surrogacy?

Altruistic surrogacy is a compassionate way to help couples facing challenges in achieving parenthood. With changing laws and increasing awareness, altruistic surrogacy in India has gained significance. Let’s explore its benefits and understand the process better.

What is Altruistic Surrogacy? Altruistic surrogacy involves a surrogate mother carrying a child for the intended parents without any monetary compensation, apart from covering medical expenses. It is driven by altruism and aims to fulfill the dreams of parenthood for couples who cannot conceive naturally. This form of surrogacy fosters a sense of generosity and trust among the involved parties.

Is Altruistic Surrogacy Legal in India? Yes, altruistic surrogacy is legal in India under the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021. The law prohibits commercial surrogacy and allows only altruistic surrogacy for eligible couples. It ensures that surrogacy arrangements are ethical and safeguard the rights of the surrogate mother and intended parents.

Intended parents must meet specific criteria, including being Indian citizens, married for at least five years, and medically certified as infertile. Additionally, the surrogate mother must be a close relative of the intended parents, married, and have a child of her own.

For guidance and assistance, Surrogacy Centre India, one of the best surrogacy centre in India, provides comprehensive support throughout the surrogacy journey.

Benefits of Altruistic Surrogacy

Cost-Effective Solution Since altruistic surrogacy does not involve monetary compensation, it is a more affordable option for couples compared to commercial surrogacy.

Ethical and Transparent The altruistic nature of this arrangement aligns with ethical practices, promoting trust and emotional connection between the surrogate and intended parents.

Legal Protection Altruistic surrogacy in India is regulated, ensuring the rights of both the surrogate and intended parents are protected under the law.

Closer Bonds As the surrogate is usually a close relative, it strengthens familial bonds and ensures a nurturing environment for the child.

Opportunity for Parenthood Altruistic surrogacy offers hope to couples struggling with infertility, giving them a chance to experience the joys of parenthood.

Why Choose Surrogacy Centre India?

Recognized as an altruistic surrogacy centre in India, Surrogacy Centre India specializes in providing personalized care, legal guidance, and emotional support to intended parents and surrogates. With a team of experienced professionals, the center ensures a smooth and ethical surrogacy journey.

Conclusion

Altruistic surrogacy represents a compassionate approach to overcoming infertility challenges. With its affordability, ethical foundation, and legal framework, it offers a beacon of hope for many couples. If you are considering this path, trust the expertise of Surrogacy Centre India, to guide you every step of the way.

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Sex After Parenthood: Navigating Intimacy as New Parents

Becoming a parent is a life-altering experience, filled with nights, diaper changes, and overwhelming love. Amidst the whirlwind of parenthood, it’s common for Intimacy to take a backseat. However, maintaining a fulfilling sex life is crucial for building a resilient partnership. In this exploration, we will delve into the complexities of parenthood intimacy, providing valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate this beautiful yet challenging phase of life.

The Shift after Parenthood

Parenthood brings about changes in every aspect of your existence. Physically, your body transforms during pregnancy and childbirth. Emotionally, the rollercoaster ride of parenting can leave you feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Mentally assuming the role of a parent can fundamentally shift how you perceive yourself and your relationship. All these factors can impact your Intimacy; however, it’s important to remember that they are all part of this journey.

1. The Importance of Communication:

Open and honest communication serves as the foundation for any relationship. It becomes even more crucial as you transition into parenthood. Welcoming a baby into your life brings forth emotions ranging from joy and excitement to stress and fatigue. Both partners need to discuss their feelings and expectations openly. Express your worries, anxieties, and aspirations openly to each other. Building a basis for Intimacy involves comprehending each other’s requirements and concerns.

In addition, effective communication goes beyond words. Nonverbal signals and body language greatly contribute to expressing your emotions and wants. Please pay attention to the verbal cues from your partner and encourage them to do the same. It’s important to be aware of each other’s well-being as it helps you navigate the ups and downs of parenthood together. Remember that it’s normal for your communication patterns to change as you become parents, so be patient and open-minded towards each other’s evolving needs.

2. Prioritize Taking Care of Yourself:

Being a parent can often consume all your time and energy, leaving room for self-care. However, neglecting your well-being can increase stress, exhaustion, and strained relationships. Taking care of yourself is not selfish; it plays a role in maintaining a partnership. Try to schedule some “me time” into your weekly routine. This could involve activities that bring you joy, like reading a book, enjoying a bath, practicing meditation, or simply taking a walk.

Prioritizing self-care doesn’t mean distancing yourself from your partner or neglecting your responsibilities. Instead, it allows you to recharge emotionally and physically to nurture your relationship and fully engage with your child. When both partners prioritize self-care, it fosters a dynamic within the relationship because emotional support and fulfillment are not solely reliant on one another.

3. Making time for connections:

Amidst the chaos of changing diapers and enduring sleepless nights, couples commonly feel like their moments are a thing of the past. However, prioritizing and scheduling dedicated time for each other is essential to prevent your love life from slipping. While it may not sound overly romantic, setting aside moments ensures you maintain a connection with your partner.

It’s not about making Intimacy feel like a routine. Rather, find ways to prioritize your connection. Consider planning nights or weekend getaways whenever possible. These occasions provide a break from the grind of being parents. Allow you to focus solely on each other. Even if you can only spare a few hours during the day, it can make a difference. During these moments, put effort into reigniting the aspects of your relationship. Share your hopes and dreams, reminisce about the days of your relationship, and reconnect on a level.

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Dr. Priya Gupta: Jaipur’s Compassionate Expert for High-Risk Pregnancy and Surgical Gynecology

When it comes to women's healthcare, experience, expertise, and empathy make all the difference. In Jaipur, one name that stands out as a beacon of trust and skill is Dr. Priya Gupta, a highly experienced gynecologist and obstetrician with over 22 years of dedicated service. Known for her compassionate care and in-depth knowledge, Dr. Gupta has built a reputation as one of the most sought-after specialists in managing high-risk pregnancies, infertility, and complex gynecological surgeries.

Leading Expertise in High-Risk Pregnancy Care

For expectant mothers, especially those with high-risk conditions, Dr. Priya Gupta offers unparalleled expertise. Managing high-risk pregnancies is a delicate task that requires not only advanced medical knowledge but also an understanding of the emotional challenges involved. Dr. Gupta's success stories reflect her deep commitment to ensuring both the mother's and the baby's well-being throughout the journey, offering personalized care that aligns with each patient’s unique needs.

Her approach combines cutting-edge medical interventions with a nurturing, human touch, making her the go-to specialist for high-risk pregnancies in Jaipur. Whether it’s gestational diabetes, hypertension, or other complications, Dr. Gupta navigates each case with precision and care.

A Specialist in Advanced Laparoscopic and Hysteroscopic Surgeries

Dr. Gupta’s surgical expertise is one of her strongest assets, setting her apart from many peers in the field. She is extensively trained in advanced laparoscopic gynecological surgeries, such as fibroid removal, total laparoscopic hysterectomy, ovarian cyst removal, and tubal surgery. These minimally invasive procedures offer faster recovery times, less scarring, and fewer complications compared to traditional open surgeries.

In addition to laparoscopic surgeries, Dr. Gupta is also proficient in hysteroscopic surgeries, which are performed without any external incisions. These procedures are ideal for diagnosing and treating issues like uterine fibroids, polyps, and abnormal bleeding, all with minimal downtime for the patient. Her expertise in both types of surgeries ensures that women have access to the latest and most effective treatments for their gynecological concerns.

A Compassionate Approach to Infertility Treatment

Dealing with infertility can be an emotional and challenging journey. Dr. Priya Gupta offers compassionate and personalized infertility treatments, guiding couples through various options based on their unique circumstances. From fertility testing to advanced procedures, her commitment to providing the best possible care ensures her patients receive the attention and support they need to fulfill their dreams of parenthood.

Dr. Gupta believes in a holistic approach, combining advanced medical treatments with emotional support, helping her patients navigate this often-difficult path with confidence and hope.

Education, Training, and Memberships

Dr. Priya Gupta’s solid academic foundation plays a crucial role in her successful career. She earned her MS in Obstetrics & Gynecology and MBBS from the prestigious JLN Medical College in Ajmer, where she received extensive training in both general obstetrics and specialized gynecological procedures. Her ongoing commitment to professional development is reflected in her active memberships with leading medical organizations like the Federation of Obstetric and Gynaecological Societies of India (FOGSI) and the Jaipur Obstetrics and Gynaecological Society (JOGS).

Personalized Care in Multiple Languages

Being fluent in both Hindi and English, Dr. Gupta provides clear communication and personalized care to a diverse range of patients. Her approachable demeanor ensures that every patient feels heard, respected, and supported during consultations and treatments.

Why Choose Dr. Priya Gupta?

Choosing the right gynecologist is a crucial decision for any woman. With over 22 years of experience, a specialization in high-risk pregnancies and advanced surgical procedures, and a compassionate approach to infertility treatments, Dr. Priya Gupta offers comprehensive care that sets her apart from the rest. Her dedication to her field and her patients is unwavering, ensuring that every woman receives the best possible care tailored to her individual needs.

Conclusion: Empowering Women’s Health

Dr. Priya Gupta is more than a gynecologist—she is a partner in women’s health, empowering her patients to take control of their reproductive health with confidence. Whether you're seeking expert guidance through pregnancy, looking for advanced surgical care, or exploring options for infertility treatment, Dr. Gupta is here to provide compassionate, top-tier medical care.

For any woman in Jaipur looking for the highest level of gynecological and obstetric care, Dr. Priya Gupta is a name you can trust.

Book your appointment today and experience the difference that expert care can make.